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redvelvette
11-24-2021, 05:59 AM
56217

Big money goals. lolol

passionflower
11-24-2021, 06:49 AM
56217

Big money goals. lolol

It's a start! You can only go up from there! I wish I were organized enough to keep track of how much I move that average per week.

SapphireXO
11-24-2021, 10:41 AM
It's been so slow on nf the past few weeks, I keep adding ptvs & goodies and sending out emails but it's been horrible. That's probably why I emailed this total loser back...he called my RTR domme line that starts at 0.99/min and wanted me to take control of him, be his mistress, ruin his life, etc. Okay, cool...so I talked to him for a minute and of course told him to call back because it's time to raise the rate. When he does call back a minute later he said he can't afford to talk more than a minute at this price ($3!) but he's going to send me his email so we can communicate off nf because "you deserve all your money, they shouldn't get any." I also asked why he couldn't call one of my regular lines (2/min) and he said he didn't see those (my RTR line isn't featured and is in the findom category).

He sent me a message with his offline email address and how he wants me to domme him real time and own him, blah blah blah. I messaged him back that I can't go off nf - normally I wouldn't respond but it's so slow that I'm bored lol. This guy emails me back that I'm "afraid to color outside the lines" (ha!) and nf pays shitty and he met his last two mistresses on nf. Dude can't pay $3/min but he's worth jeopardizing my livelihood? Ugh, I really need things to pick up, when it's busy I just ignore these guys but it's so slow that I engaged with him cause I have nothing better to do.

I am sure you already know these tricks but I thought I'd help just in case.
1. Change your profile pictures often. It catches the eyes of your favorites when they see who is online!
2. Delete your goodies. Change the preview picture by screenshooting the video at various points. Edit it the picture with fun effects for free on Canva or another program. Then find the uploaded files in your file drive. Upload and stagger the release dates! You'll constantly be showing up in the new goodies section. Good way to recycle old content.
3. I have lots of customer lists so I don't send out free minutes to just anyone. Freeloaders that chatted with me once don't get free minutes. It's a good way to constantly work your power base of people who have already given you money in the past. I tend to do it bi-yearly or quarterly :)

Growlerpussy
11-24-2021, 10:51 AM
I am sure you already know these tricks but I thought I'd help just in case.
1. Change your profile pictures often. It catches the eyes of your favorites when they see who is online!
2. Delete your goodies. Change the preview picture by screenshooting the video at various points. Edit it the picture with fun effects for free on Canva or another program. Then find the uploaded files in your file drive. Upload and stagger the release dates! You'll constantly be showing up in the new goodies section. Good way to recycle old content.
3. I have lots of customer lists so I don't send out free minutes to just anyone. Freeloaders that chatted with me once don't get free minutes. It's a good way to constantly work your power base of people who have already given you money in the past. I tend to do it bi-yearly or quarterly :)


THIS "2. Delete your goodies. Change the preview picture by screenshooting the video at various points. Edit it the picture with fun effects for free on Canva or another program. Then find the uploaded files in your file drive. Upload and stagger the release dates! You'll constantly be showing up in the new goodies section. Good way to recycle old content."

And what if a costumer who already bought the goodie buys it again???? or do you only recycle those who never been sold????

SapphireXO
11-24-2021, 11:02 AM
Girl I sell and sell and sell them as many times as I can. If they complain, I'll compensate with something else at their request. Most men don't remember buying items when they are horny. Not on NF but other clip sites/fan sites I have top fans buy the same video constantly on other platforms. They are just oblivious.

MsMeta
11-24-2021, 02:14 PM
Thanks for the tips! I do change my profile pics; I actually have a spreadsheet to keep track of which pics are on what listings and when they are rotated (I'm very Type A personality lol). I change the listings up every two months - not a total overhaul but I'll switch stuff around and change the text. I don't know if that helps bring in customers but it's worth trying I guess.

I'd also be worried that some guys might buy my goodies a second time and get mad; I've actually had that happen several times because they didn't realize they already purchased it. One jerk actually said he was "tricked" into buying my pics both times and he was going to report me. I wasn't worried because wtf but it was weird.

Victoria_Gray
11-25-2021, 12:39 AM
I tried to get a google voice number in te UK. With VPN ...... first minute it works, than it keeps saying that it's not available in your country. Opened a new google account with an US IP ... same problem. It's not only getting harder, it's neary impossible anymore to get a number when you're not from the US. I tried it so many different ways and always failed. Just get a US Skype number. You can have as many as you want and they're cheap.

Are they adult friendly?

Growlerpussy
11-25-2021, 01:28 AM
Are they adult friendly?
Well Skype just accepts the calls. Never had a problem with them.
The downside is, you ge lots of scamcalls from for sales and Insurances. And you can have as many vumbers as you want. Think they cost $69 a year.
And you can open 3 different profiles on NF with 1 number.

For me in the UK it's the best solution.

MzKittyOHara
11-26-2021, 08:20 AM
Is anyone having an issue with calls not being routed through at all?

"We tried to call you, but the phone number appears to be invalid." - the numbers are indeed correct, and have been used for at least 2 years.

redvelvette
11-27-2021, 03:47 PM
I'm figuring out my profile and I have a question about keywords. If I put some images and gifs, and goodies on my profile are the file names searchable as keywords? For example, if I paste inside the html code as the image source boots-domination-mistress.jpg will I show up in a search for boots domination?

drnena
11-28-2021, 01:32 AM
It’s been so slow! I made maybe $500 this week but then about 2 hours ago an old regular came through and I drained him for $1k. Life saver! He actually followed me to nf from ttm.

Growlerpussy
11-28-2021, 02:42 AM
Anyone ese having huge loading problems with the site? This is going on for me since 2 hours now, chat messages empty, error 404 pops up all the time, reloading thatkes ages ......

MaryElizabeth
11-28-2021, 11:17 AM
I'm figuring out my profile and I have a question about keywords. If I put some images and gifs, and goodies on my profile are the file names searchable as keywords? For example, if I paste inside the html code as the image source boots-domination-mistress.jpg will I show up in a search for boots domination?

Just make a block of text with keywords, sex, sexxx, fuck, pussy, and put it at the bottom of your page and don't worry about it. Make it pink on white, guys will not even notice and understand.

Victoria_Gray
11-28-2021, 07:09 PM
Well Skype just accepts the calls. Never had a problem with them.
The downside is, you ge lots of scamcalls from for sales and Insurances. And you can have as many vumbers as you want. Think they cost $69 a year.
And you can open 3 different profiles on NF with 1 number.

For me in the UK it's the best solution.

Thank you for the details - I'll check them out! :)

drnena
11-28-2021, 11:37 PM
Should I change my least successful profile or make a new one? Its so slow for her, I have tried everything. New listing photos, new listing titles, lowered rates. It's been this way for weeks and IDK if I should just use a new "character" or stick it out until after the holidays

MaryElizabeth
11-28-2021, 11:58 PM
Should I change my least successful profile or make a new one?

Change everything about her, You can change her name, photos, tagline everything. The only thing you can't change is the category, do this and you keep the stars and all those guys that favorited you. Guys have tons of favorites, they won't notice that one they didn't call changing. They'll think "when did I favorite her?" and give it a read.

So yea, change her. Whatever that character has or whatever isn't working for you.

Full flush, save all the pics and HTML somewhere just in case - but I don't get the sense that you want to be dragging that character around any longer. Finish her off and move on. Just let out a huge breath and say "Thank god I'm done with that dead weight". Leave her 'Away/Not Available' and figure out a plan and then switch her all around and go live. If you put up something that dies, do it again until you find what clicks. When I got going I made more than a dozen listings (ok, maybe not a dozen but a bunch) until I got one that was a money maker for me.

Stay safe / GL

In personal news, I mean it's better than most guys but jesus:
56246

passionflower
11-30-2021, 07:28 AM
Deleted my question because I'm getting calls now.

drnena
11-30-2021, 07:22 PM
Change everything about her, You can change her name, photos, tagline everything. The only thing you can't change is the category, do this and you keep the stars and all those guys that favorited you. Guys have tons of favorites, they won't notice that one they didn't call changing. They'll think "when did I favorite her?" and give it a read.

So yea, change her. Whatever that character has or whatever isn't working for you.

Full flush, save all the pics and HTML somewhere just in case - but I don't get the sense that you want to be dragging that character around any longer. Finish her off and move on. Just let out a huge breath and say "Thank god I'm done with that dead weight". Leave her 'Away/Not Available' and figure out a plan and then switch her all around and go live. If you put up something that dies, do it again until you find what clicks. When I got going I made more than a dozen listings (ok, maybe not a dozen but a bunch) until I got one that was a money maker for me.

Stay safe / GL

In personal news, I mean it's better than most guys but jesus:
56246

Thank you! Funny, I haven't logged in to see your response until a few minutes ago. While typing a reply, I got a call on this profile and it's the girl whose pictures I am using. When I made the account last year, I was dead broke and couldn't afford to buy model's licensed photos. So I just typed in "curvy brunette" onto pinterest and saved some photos. My other profiles are doing quite well and I forgot I even had this one until last week. Just my luck she is also an adult content creator and found my listing, signed up and called me to tell me to take it down and that she submitted a DCMA request. LMAO thats what I get

MaryElizabeth
12-01-2021, 12:31 PM
she is also an adult content creator and found my listing

Nah, one of her 'fans' saw the listing and let her know. You can probably get away with that for a a bit, I mean I see that one all the time, flirts swiping photos, but I would not make a habit of doing that. If you want to be super cool send her $50 at some point and thank her / apologize. Stay safe.

drnena
12-01-2021, 06:18 PM
Nah, one of her 'fans' saw the listing and let her know. You can probably get away with that for a a bit, I mean I see that one all the time, flirts swiping photos, but I would not make a habit of doing that. If you want to be super cool send her $50 at some point and thank her / apologize. Stay safe.
She's not on niteflirt as a flirt. She signed up and called me. And yes, I figured one of her fans found it and alerted her. But she is an adult content creator and has quite the following on reddit so I'm not surprised it happened. I took her photos off and replaced them with the models and I am just waiting for NF to approve

laurielegs
12-01-2021, 06:49 PM
She's not on niteflirt as a flirt. She signed up and called me. And yes, I figured one of her fans found it and alerted her. But she is an adult content creator and has quite the following on reddit so I'm not surprised it happened. I took her photos off and replaced them with the models and I am just waiting for NF to approve

I'm glad to read that you took them down. I would be furious if someone did that with my photos.
Some creators would have sued you for any money you made with their photos plus damages and legal costs. Really surprised Niteflirt doesn't ban for life for using someone else's photos.

To me though it would be even worse to use some random person not in the adult industry. What if their spouse was a jealous violent person? Could ruin someone's life.

Not fair to expose someone to a risk they didn't agree to take.

Victoria_Gray
12-01-2021, 08:23 PM
I'm glad to read that you took them down. I would be furious if someone did that with my photos.
Some creators would have sued you for any money you made with their photos plus damages and legal costs. Really surprised Niteflirt doesn't ban for life for using someone else's photos.

To me though it would be even worse to use some random person not in the adult industry. What if their spouse was a jealous violent person? Could ruin someone's life.

Not fair to expose someone to a risk they didn't agree to take.

Remember when Nintendo sued that streamer and they got all her earnings? Copyright law is serious stuff. So is privacy..

ep2002
12-02-2021, 04:46 PM
It’s been so slow! I made maybe $500 this week but then about 2 hours ago an old regular came through and I drained him for $1k. Life saver! He actually followed me to nf from ttm.

LOL, I love how $500 is slow for you.

How did he find you on NF or even think to search there? You just told him to search for your user name there?

ep2002
12-02-2021, 04:48 PM
I'm glad to read that you took them down. I would be furious if someone did that with my photos.
Some creators would have sued you for any money you made with their photos plus damages and legal costs. Really surprised Niteflirt doesn't ban for life for using someone else's photos.

To me though it would be even worse to use some random person not in the adult industry. What if their spouse was a jealous violent person? Could ruin someone's life.

Not fair to expose someone to a risk they didn't agree to take.

You aren't allowed to use pics you bought on NF? I thought you can.

I use them on TTM.

Spemily
12-02-2021, 06:35 PM
You aren't allowed to use pics you bought on NF? I thought you can.

I use them on TTM.

They weren't bought. The person being discussed said they just did an image search and downloaded some pics they liked.

SapphireXO
12-03-2021, 06:56 AM
I have learned 2 things this week about NF after all these years: 1) NF will only remove negative feedback if the user posts more than 1 negative review in a row 2) Blocked users can still leave feedback.

This idiot calls on NF. His name is sugardaddy something. He said, "Can we Skype?" I say, "Did you add me on Skype first like it says?" He says, "I did but you didn't respond." I say, "Yeah because you have only spent less than $25 on me in over 2 years. That's a disgrace for anyone labeling themselves as a sugar daddy." He hung up on me. Then left me reviews that I am awful and to stay away. Then I'm a scam. I may be an honest bitch but I am not a scam...

Susperia
12-03-2021, 10:54 AM
I thought if you blocked someone after 30 days they couldn't leave feedback? Is that still correct?

SapphireXO
12-03-2021, 01:12 PM
I know just if you have a show and immediately block them, they can still leave a bad review. I don't think anyone can leave reviews past 30 days?

MsMeta
12-03-2021, 02:47 PM
Yes I'm pretty sure that all customers have 30 days to leave feedback, even if they are blocked. It sucks to do but I'm really careful with feedback because if you block a problem customer and he realizes it, he can (and probably will) leave you negative feedback. I've had this happen 4 times when I blocked someone so now I just decline their calls, don't send them PTVs and wait out the 30 days and then I block them. It totally sucks, we shouldn't be punished for blocking a guy who wants to violate TOS.

TheRealBitch
12-03-2021, 04:27 PM
Thank you! Funny, I haven't logged in to see your response until a few minutes ago. While typing a reply, I got a call on this profile and it's the girl whose pictures I am using. When I made the account last year, I was dead broke and couldn't afford to buy model's licensed photos. So I just typed in "curvy brunette" onto pinterest and saved some photos. My other profiles are doing quite well and I forgot I even had this one until last week. Just my luck she is also an adult content creator and found my listing, signed up and called me to tell me to take it down and that she submitted a DCMA request. LMAO thats what I get


Hey love! Me again. The "model". Accountability is the first step to healing right? You very well knew i was an adult content creator and you didn't find me off a search. You had my social media accounts (where the gifs and photos you used were posted) blocked before I was even notified of your existence by multiple colleagues and clients. You didn't just use my photos on niteflirt, you also have a Twitter etc..
I chose to ignore it for several months but the underhandness of trying to preemptively make sure I couldn't find out eventually became a hard line for me - that and you used a gif with my beloved mannequin slave Lars in it.
Now that you've profited with my work and that of others, sounds like the perfect time to go through the proper channels of purchasing photos and legitimizing your business to ensure there's no possibility of losing your income.

I went ahead and waited 24 hours before filing the DMCA notice takedown in the event you wanted to swap out the photos yourself and keep that stream of income and I'm glad you chose to do so.

Best of luck & HappyHolidays.

Growlerpussy
12-04-2021, 10:39 AM
Change everything about her, You can change her name, photos, tagline everything. The only thing you can't change is the category, do this and you keep the stars and all those guys that favorited you. Guys have tons of favorites, they won't notice that one they didn't call changing. They'll think "when did I favorite her?" and give it a read.

So yea, change her. Whatever that character has or whatever isn't working for you.

Full flush, save all the pics and HTML somewhere just in case - but I don't get the sense that you want to be dragging that character around any longer. Finish her off and move on. Just let out a huge breath and say "Thank god I'm done with that dead weight". Leave her 'Away/Not Available' and figure out a plan and then switch her all around and go live. If you put up something that dies, do it again until you find what clicks. When I got going I made more than a dozen listings (ok, maybe not a dozen but a bunch) until I got one that was a money maker for me.

Stay safe / GL

In personal news, I mean it's better than most guys but jesus:
56246

Lol ..... amazing tip!
That's nothing compared to this guy who send me a message on my 0.89 per minute profile I only go online when i's dead everywhere else.
56272

stripanon34
12-07-2021, 11:51 AM
hey everyone

new to the thread and this site but been on niteflirt for a few years now

can anyone refer me to someone that does html for niteflirt profiles? been looking for a while now and everyone I contacted before has been unreliable.

SapphireXO
12-08-2021, 10:18 AM
hey everyone

new to the thread and this site but been on niteflirt for a few years now

can anyone refer me to someone that does html for niteflirt profiles? been looking for a while now and everyone I contacted before has been unreliable.

I can teach you how to do your own profiles on Canva Pro with image mapping so you can change and update them as needed. I am $120/hr.

MaryElizabeth
12-08-2021, 09:09 PM
hey everyone

new to the thread and this site but been on niteflirt for a few years now

can anyone refer me to someone that does html for niteflirt profiles? been looking for a while now and everyone I contacted before has been unreliable.

Why don't you post what you are looking for and what you are looking to spend. thx

nerdygyal
12-13-2021, 12:33 PM
This is my first week on NF, and I'm meeting daily earning goals but it's mainly by caller who just chats me. I've already had a 1 hour call and just a few reviews on my listing. I am wondering what is causing people to not call my live listing. I am just trying to work on goodies and content during the down time. I'm worried with just one regular it's not long term sustainable.

stripanon34
12-13-2021, 02:29 PM
thanks I found digitalsnackbar.com on another thread and going to try him out

MsMeta
12-13-2021, 05:33 PM
This is my first week on NF, and I'm meeting daily earning goals but it's mainly by caller who just chats me. I've already had a 1 hour call and just a few reviews on my listing. I am wondering what is causing people to not call my live listing. I am just trying to work on goodies and content during the down time. I'm worried with just one regular it's not long term sustainable.

Hi! You're right - it's not long term sustainable with just one regular. But don't worry too much because it's your first week. You're doing a great job already by making goodies, engaging in chat (I make as much money in chat as I do on calls). Are you paying to feature your listings? If you get on the second or third page you will get TONS of calls because guys love new girls. That will wear off in a couple months but by then you'll have lots of regulars and plenty of content for customers to buy so you should be set.

Don't get me wrong, it's a lot of work but the more time and effort you put in, the more you can make. Good luck!

nerdygyal
12-13-2021, 10:08 PM
Hi! You're right - it's not long term sustainable with just one regular. But don't worry too much because it's your first week. You're doing a great job already by making goodies, engaging in chat (I make as much money in chat as I do on calls). Are you paying to feature your listings? If you get on the second or third page you will get TONS of calls because guys love new girls. That will wear off in a couple months but by then you'll have lots of regulars and plenty of content for customers to buy so you should be set.

Don't get me wrong, it's a lot of work but the more time and effort you put in, the more you can make. Good luck!

Thank you for the feedback! I try to make sure I'm on the first few pages of my category, but I am going to dedicate more bidding money to get on the main page of listings. I am definitely gonna take December to create content to sell for those slower days or when I lose the novelty of being a new flirt lol.

MsMeta
12-14-2021, 10:15 AM
Being on the first page of each individual category can be beneficial but don't spend your money trying to get to #1 on the main page, that just gets you a hell of a lot of clickers and can burn through your money fast. Also, make sure you have something in your listings to hook them like a cheap voice sample or pic as a PTV because they end up on your customer list and you can market all your new goodies to them every time you post one. And I think that if someone clicks on your listing and then buys something (even a $1 PTV) then you converted them to a customer and it raises your LVS and makes it cheaper for you to bid (I'm pretty sure that's how it works but if I'm wrong someone please correct me!).

I'm not sure if you've read through this whole thread but it's got so much great info so I recommend that as well. ;D

BFX
12-14-2021, 11:15 PM
Hello, how do I know who visited my profile? I keep on getting emails with offers from the flirts I've seen and wonder how do they know I was on their profiles. I am doing research on what niche to choose that's why I study other girls' pages.

laurielegs
12-15-2021, 12:32 AM
Hello, how do I know who visited my profile? I keep on getting emails with offers from the flirts I've seen and wonder how do they know I was on their profiles. I am doing research on what niche to choose that's why I study other girls' pages.

If you click on a pay-to-view (even if you don't pay it) you get added to their email list (which is why it's a good thing to have some PTV things guys can click on).

BFX
12-15-2021, 10:23 AM
If you click on a pay-to-view (even if you don't pay it) you get added to their email list (which is why it's a good thing to have some PTV things guys can click on).
Thanks a lot. I revamp all my listings and will do a ptv. Hugs

caramelcraze
12-18-2021, 12:10 AM
So i have a listing on and it's not showing up when I click on the "with cam" category... but it shows up when I click the sub-category. I've never had this happen before and I'm bidding quite a bit to be high up on the "with cam" list. kind of pissed. is this happening to anyone else?

MaryElizabeth
12-23-2021, 08:17 AM
Happy holidays around the world to all of you. I know we are the types to never have meetings or get togethers but I would certainly buy a couple rounds.

The covid has been profitable to me but I am exhausted by it. Here in the states things are expected to get overly bad in the next couple weeks. I'm very thankful to have had a work-from-home job during all this. I know a couple of peoples whose lives got wrecked, heard about it on the news but I was untouched. A couple friends have had to constantly adapt to the changing restrictions and been through tons of stress. One set of friends divorced but I'm surprised they made it this long.

The little bubble of doing PSO work has been exactly what a person needs to make it through all this. In the 4 years I have been at this I made the most, up from last year by 30% so its been good for the bank and bad for my sanity. But I am so ready for all this to end. I would gladly have made less and not had to deal with the covid.

I'm pro-vaccine, getting my shots and am horrified by all the families that lost someone because of the garbage on fox news. All those families that had to put someone in the ground because they took a stand on a vaccine. Thus far here 800,000 lives lost, families struck that would have been fine and all this shit just keeps going on and on and on. Across the world millions of children lost parents, and there are too many orphans. I lost a parent years ago and it wrecked me and I can't imagine going through all that for the lack of a couple vaccine shots. Everyone has to deal with that eventually but lets not rush into it.

I think this is covid thing is just going to go on and on. The ones who screamed the loudest that people should not get vaccinated will use the pandemic to leverage votes and the states will end up with a horror of a government. I am not optimistic.

But stay safe out there, happy holidays, get your shots, all of them. Better 2022 !?!?!

Victoria_Gray
01-03-2022, 05:15 PM
Happy holidays around the world to all of you. I know we are the types to never have meetings or get togethers but I would certainly buy a couple rounds.

The covid has been profitable to me but I am exhausted by it. Here in the states things are expected to get overly bad in the next couple weeks. I'm very thankful to have had a work-from-home job during all this. I know a couple of peoples whose lives got wrecked, heard about it on the news but I was untouched. A couple friends have had to constantly adapt to the changing restrictions and been through tons of stress. One set of friends divorced but I'm surprised they made it this long.

The little bubble of doing PSO work has been exactly what a person needs to make it through all this. In the 4 years I have been at this I made the most, up from last year by 30% so its been good for the bank and bad for my sanity. But I am so ready for all this to end. I would gladly have made less and not had to deal with the covid.

I'm pro-vaccine, getting my shots and am horrified by all the families that lost someone because of the garbage on fox news. All those families that had to put someone in the ground because they took a stand on a vaccine. Thus far here 800,000 lives lost, families struck that would have been fine and all this shit just keeps going on and on and on. Across the world millions of children lost parents, and there are too many orphans. I lost a parent years ago and it wrecked me and I can't imagine going through all that for the lack of a couple vaccine shots. Everyone has to deal with that eventually but lets not rush into it.

I think this is covid thing is just going to go on and on. The ones who screamed the loudest that people should not get vaccinated will use the pandemic to leverage votes and the states will end up with a horror of a government. I am not optimistic.

But stay safe out there, happy holidays, get your shots, all of them. Better 2022 !?!?!

I just got back from my holiday break. I hope everyone had a happy and safe break!

looklovely
01-04-2022, 12:57 PM
Anyone have customer rama4v?
I had to report this guy twice. He is on chat:
1. He is asking to pay me outside of the site 2. He wants me to talk him into suicide.
Upon, further investigation (here) others have had a problem with him.

laurielegs
01-04-2022, 01:38 PM
Anyone have customer rama4v?
I had to report this guy twice. He is on chat:
1. He is asking to pay me outside of the site 2. He wants me to talk him into suicide.
Upon, further investigation (here) others have had a problem with him.

I would just block him. Once they start asking for pay outside the site they are just too much trouble and usually turn cheap. Also that's creepy.

Victoria_Gray
01-09-2022, 06:26 PM
I would just block him. Once they start asking for pay outside the site they are just too much trouble and usually turn cheap. Also that's creepy.

I had a guy once send me an Amazon GC after he'd googled my name - found me on a site I am no longer using - and then he was like, "that's for a 30 min phone call", it was well under what I charged on that site. "Can I pay you outside the site" is always a red flag.

Edited to add: I didn't ask for the GC, or offer to speak outside the site. He just sent it and felt entitled.

samuimoon
01-10-2022, 12:50 AM
Happy holidays around the world to all of you. I know we are the types to never have meetings or get togethers but I would certainly buy a couple rounds.

The covid has been profitable to me but I am exhausted by it. Here in the states things are expected to get overly bad in the next couple weeks. I'm very thankful to have had a work-from-home job during all this. I know a couple of peoples whose lives got wrecked, heard about it on the news but I was untouched. A couple friends have had to constantly adapt to the changing restrictions and been through tons of stress. One set of friends divorced but I'm surprised they made it this long.

The little bubble of doing PSO work has been exactly what a person needs to make it through all this. In the 4 years I have been at this I made the most, up from last year by 30% so its been good for the bank and bad for my sanity. But I am so ready for all this to end. I would gladly have made less and not had to deal with the covid.

I'm pro-vaccine, getting my shots and am horrified by all the families that lost someone because of the garbage on fox news. All those families that had to put someone in the ground because they took a stand on a vaccine. Thus far here 800,000 lives lost, families struck that would have been fine and all this shit just keeps going on and on and on. Across the world millions of children lost parents, and there are too many orphans. I lost a parent years ago and it wrecked me and I can't imagine going through all that for the lack of a couple vaccine shots. Everyone has to deal with that eventually but lets not rush into it.

I think this is covid thing is just going to go on and on. The ones who screamed the loudest that people should not get vaccinated will use the pandemic to leverage votes and the states will end up with a horror of a government. I am not optimistic.

But stay safe out there, happy holidays, get your shots, all of them. Better 2022 !?!?!


As long as you keep getting your shots that should be your only concern, clearly you haven't had any adverse reactions, but many have, and i am hearing from alot of customers, particularly in America, who diligently had all their shots and still got very sick. You keep taking the shots and the boosters for the rest of your life and mind your own business.

MaryElizabeth
01-10-2022, 11:52 AM
...and mind your own business.

No. Get your shots. But after this ignoring you is the right thing to do. Stay safe.

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