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samuimoon
01-10-2022, 08:31 PM
No. Get your shots. But after this ignoring you is the right thing to do. Stay safe.

56426

Like i said, keep getting all your shots.

66succubus
01-13-2022, 09:58 AM
I have a goal of $30 a day on NF right i have 2 goodies and 5 PTVs but have basically spent the same in bidding as I’ve made so far this month. Hoping someone goes on a shopping spree ASAP !

66succubus
01-13-2022, 09:59 AM
Happy holidays around the world to all of you. I know we are the types to never have meetings or get togethers but I would certainly buy a couple rounds.

The covid has been profitable to me but I am exhausted by it. Here in the states things are expected to get overly bad in the next couple weeks. I'm very thankful to have had a work-from-home job during all this. I know a couple of peoples whose lives got wrecked, heard about it on the news but I was untouched. A couple friends have had to constantly adapt to the changing restrictions and been through tons of stress. One set of friends divorced but I'm surprised they made it this long.

The little bubble of doing PSO work has been exactly what a person needs to make it through all this. In the 4 years I have been at this I made the most, up from last year by 30% so its been good for the bank and bad for my sanity. But I am so ready for all this to end. I would gladly have made less and not had to deal with the covid.

I'm pro-vaccine, getting my shots and am horrified by all the families that lost someone because of the garbage on fox news. All those families that had to put someone in the ground because they took a stand on a vaccine. Thus far here 800,000 lives lost, families struck that would have been fine and all this shit just keeps going on and on and on. Across the world millions of children lost parents, and there are too many orphans. I lost a parent years ago and it wrecked me and I can't imagine going through all that for the lack of a couple vaccine shots. Everyone has to deal with that eventually but lets not rush into it.

I think this is covid thing is just going to go on and on. The ones who screamed the loudest that people should not get vaccinated will use the pandemic to leverage votes and the states will end up with a horror of a government. I am not optimistic.

But stay safe out there, happy holidays, get your shots, all of them. Better 2022 !?!?!

I feel the same!

freakyspirit
01-13-2022, 06:37 PM
I have a goal of $30 a day on NF right i have 2 goodies and 5 PTVs but have basically spent the same in bidding as I’ve made so far this month. Hoping someone goes on a shopping spree ASAP !

I found my niche on TTM. I'm thinking about reworking my NF profiles which were largely successful for 2018-2019, and then dried up. As a PSO that uses almost no content and has a cartoon profile on both TTM and NF, my cartoon TTM profile is my banger. Although you take the bad with the good. I have nailed my character which brings put the worst of the worst. Although consistent. My last 2 weeks on TTM has paid half my (expensive) rent alone. No need for bidding, content... just a strong stomach for pervs.

I wish I had the gumption to do content and start bringing back my NF line. I only have one consistent NF caller who does long calls, but the SAME damn conversation every time. Its groundhog day every time he calls. And it's not even sexual talk, it's this fake big man vs little woman dynamic BS that he's stroking it to, yet tells me that he doesn't want sexual conversation, thank you very much. Listening to him trying to control his breathing while I repeat his canned lines is actually more draining than talking some dark stuff on autopilot.

NF is a tough nut to crack and in my opinion, the harder road to travel over TTM.

LaurenAus
01-14-2022, 11:19 AM
I found my niche on TTM. My last 2 weeks on TTM has paid half my (expensive) rent alone. No need for bidding, content... just a strong stomach for pervs.

I wish I had the gumption to do content and start bringing back my NF line. I only have one consistent NF caller who does long calls, but the SAME damn conversation every time. Its groundhog day every time he calls. And it's not even sexual talk, it's this fake big man vs little woman dynamic BS that he's stroking it to, yet tells me that he doesn't want sexual conversation, thank you very much. Listening to him trying to control his breathing while I repeat his canned lines is actually more draining than talking some dark stuff on autopilot.

NF is a tough nut to crack and in my opinion, the harder road to travel over TTM.

There’s pedos on that site. How do you avoid getting jaded towards men

freakyspirit
01-14-2022, 12:50 PM
There’s pedos on that site. How do you avoid getting jaded towards men

Well... in a nutshell, there is probably a part of me that is jaded towards men, but I try to reason that way and not let it dominate. I do love men, but the older I get, the more I see the vast difference in sexuality. In honesty, whatever level I am jaded has less to do with PSO work and more to do in personal experience.

To be real though, NF has pedos and degenerates too. The 2 most horrific calls I have ever had were through NF. My point is, those types are everywhere - living next door, in our grocery stores and schools, at the dog park. And I happen to make $$$ off of them...so what does that make me?

I try to keep everything in perspective. I cultivated a character. She has a story. Those men eat it up. Maybe.... just maybe.... that satisfies them enough to keep calling back and not take their desires elsewhere.

I try and separate the darkness from the person. Case in point, I would happily watch Cosby reruns knowing what kind of monster he was to some. I keep Michael Jackson on my playlist full well believeing he molested children. That's art vs the person, I suppose.... and the truth came out after the art was already in existence.

I draw up silos around things which makes it easier for me. Do I love Bill Cosby the man? Hell no and I wish he was still rotting in jail. Would I watch his content still even if he could still profit? Yeah, I would. Sometimes I may choose to withhold my dollars to not profit an entity (no Kardashian anything in my house)... but at the end of the day, if the veil was lifted up on everyone, and the dark secrets or all were exposed, this world would become a very small lonely place.

It sounds harsh perhaps... I still HATE the darkness and horrific things that exist in our world, I just try to limit the effect it has on me and keep it at arms length, mentally.

I will say, that I am profoundly.... glad, that I am much more aware of the dangers, the mentality, the prevalence of deviant sexual thoughts and it allows me to scrutinize intimate relationships so much more effectively.

Its not for everyone. I'm near 40. This work at 20 would have had a much more devastating impact on me. Years have given me experience and... hopefully wisdom. I will not maintain this work for years. I'm cultivating an exit. Even with healthy mental boundaries I believe cumulatively the work will have negative mental effects on even the strongest and healthiest of us. Not to be negative. I'm grateful for the opportunity when I needed it most... but it takes work to manage and navigate the effects of call after call. And for that I say: make them PAY, ladies. Because they will. If you can give them something they won't get elsewhere, you can name your price.

Victoria_Gray
01-16-2022, 07:10 PM
How has everyone's January been so far? Mine is starting slow... A bit depressing really.

caramelcraze
01-19-2022, 04:18 AM
How has everyone's January been so far? Mine is starting slow... A bit depressing really.
Mine started slow as well but it's FINALLY picking up a bit. it was so bad the first two weeks but I've had a lot going on in my personal life as well which doesn't help. Feel like I've turned a corner thankfully.

BubblyBlonde
01-19-2022, 01:21 PM
How has everyone's January been so far? Mine is starting slow... A bit depressing really.

The customers are there eating up my bids and sliding in to my messages rather than chat looking for free chat. Infuriating! I am taking a few days off from NiteFlirt.

melanielive
01-19-2022, 06:43 PM
It's been pretty dead for me since the beginning of the month..
The last couple days were a bit better but hoping things will start picking up next month..
Jan is usually my WORST month every yr..

SapphireXO
01-20-2022, 06:06 AM
I sent out a New Years 1 minute free offer (which I never do!) I literally had a guy call me for 1 minute to tell me how he is going to fuck his wife now after looking at my pics. Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhh Not it's purpose idiot.

sexkitten_666
01-20-2022, 07:23 PM
Has anyone received their 1099 yet?

grneyesnfl
01-21-2022, 12:19 AM
Has anyone received their 1099 yet?

I haven't. I find NF is my last one I receive every year. They have to be postmarked by the 31st and they wait until the last minute.

SallyCin
01-22-2022, 02:17 AM
Hi all - can anyone recommend a good app to receive texts from NF onto a UK mobile? I have just installed textplus and got a Manhattan number (haha love it), but the verification SMS from NF is not arriving.

So that's pissed on my chips :/

xxxGothBarbie
01-22-2022, 09:11 AM
The customers are there eating up my bids and sliding in to my messages rather than chat looking for free chat. Infuriating! I am taking a few days off from NiteFlirt.

Try responding to them with a ptv message of like 1.00 , it's worked for me a couple times. I learned that tip from this thread awhile back. Some will take the bait , some won't.

xxxGothBarbie
01-22-2022, 03:07 PM
Does NF allow forced intoxication vids by chance? I would basically be telling him to drink more whiskey for him to appeal to me.

Spemily
01-22-2022, 06:03 PM
Does NF allow forced intoxication vids by chance? I would basically be telling him to drink more whiskey for him to appeal to me.

Intox is fine, but not forced intox.

https://forum.niteflirt.com/t/policy-changes-please-read/49165

xxxGothBarbie
01-23-2022, 11:08 AM
Intox is fine, but not forced intox.

https://forum.niteflirt.com/t/policy-changes-please-read/49165

So just telling him I think he needs to drink more to make me happy is ok?

Victoria_Gray
01-23-2022, 05:51 PM
Just read the responses to my question about everyone's Januaries.

For me it has been slower than most months, but I have other projects in my vanilla work that are taking up time, so I wasn't sure if it was just me. Thanks for your input ladies!

Right now too I have little patience for BS, which means the guys who actually want FemDom are eating it up, which is great!

KamKam
01-24-2022, 08:01 AM
Hello. I am having problems navigating this site, when I go to my account there is no button to click onto edit profile and add picture, what I am doing wrong? Any help much appreciated.

Moongirlluvr
01-24-2022, 01:06 PM
Silly question how long does a goodie bag stay in the feature section? I've looked everywhere and can't figure it out

Spemily
01-24-2022, 02:35 PM
So just telling him I think he needs to drink more to make me happy is ok?

I think the most important is to stay away from the word "forced" and any other word that basically means he doesn't have a choice or you are doing it against his will. If you have something borderline you want to do, your best bet is to run it by Playfair.

Spemily
01-24-2022, 02:45 PM
Silly question how long does a goodie bag stay in the feature section? I've looked everywhere and can't figure it out

What do you mean by "feature section"? If you mean the scrolling carousels on the front page of the goodies bags section, then each carousel serves a different function and contains a fixed number of goodies. The top carousel is called "Recent Additions", your goody will disappear from there once 40 other goodies have been added to the site. If it's a very busy day, you might only appear there for an hour or two, if it's very slow, you might stay up all day or even longer. The second carousel is "Top Goodies This Week" and your goody will appear there if it is one of the top 40 selling goodies during that week. If your goody is a consistent seller, it could stay there for several weeks. But other people can out-perform you at any point and knock your goody down to 41st position. The third carousel is "Most Liked This Month", similar to the second carousel, you can appear there for a long time if your goody is both popular and receives good feedback. But how long you get to stay also depends on how well others are doing.

Additionally, for the bottom two carousels, an goody could fall to 41st place or below and not be visible, but then climb back up the ranking at a later date, months or even years later, if you get more sales or feedback on it.

MaryElizabeth
01-24-2022, 11:25 PM
Hi all - can anyone recommend a good app to receive texts from NF onto a UK mobile? I have just installed textplus and got a Manhattan number (haha love it), but the verification SMS from NF is not arriving.

So that's pissed on my chips :/

Search "sms online" you might be able to work around.

Moongirlluvr
01-25-2022, 01:02 PM
Thank you so much!


What do you mean by "feature section"? If you mean the scrolling carousels on the front page of the goodies bags section, then each carousel serves a different function and contains a fixed number of goodies. The top carousel is called "Recent Additions", your goody will disappear from there once 40 other goodies have been added to the site. If it's a very busy day, you might only appear there for an hour or two, if it's very slow, you might stay up all day or even longer. The second carousel is "Top Goodies This Week" and your goody will appear there if it is one of the top 40 selling goodies during that week. If your goody is a consistent seller, it could stay there for several weeks. But other people can out-perform you at any point and knock your goody down to 41st position. The third carousel is "Most Liked This Month", similar to the second carousel, you can appear there for a long time if your goody is both popular and receives good feedback. But how long you get to stay also depends on how well others are doing.

Additionally, for the bottom two carousels, an goody could fall to 41st place or below and not be visible, but then climb back up the ranking at a later date, months or even years later, if you get more sales or feedback on it.

Erika_Xstacy
01-25-2022, 08:48 PM
can someone private message me stock./model photos sites?

SallyCin
01-26-2022, 03:07 PM
Thanks ME.

So I purchased a Skype US number, which both allows me to receive NF calls and receive chat alerts.

It also means an extra $0.20 a minute for me, which is cool. For other UK flirts, the Skype number costs less than £6 a month and the app seems to work really well. Nice, clear sound.

You can't reply to SMS alerts via Skype, but that doesn't matter as it turns out, because the chat alerts are literally just texts that say 'you have a new chat message on NF'. So either way you have to login to the site to read it.

I was thinking I could read custie messages and reply via SMS, but no. So US SMS functionality is not required as far as I can see.

Spemily
01-26-2022, 03:17 PM
Thanks ME.

So I purchased a Skype US number, which both allows me to receive NF calls and receive chat alerts.

It also means an extra $0.20 a minute for me, which is cool. For other UK flirts, the Skype number costs less than £6 a month and the app seems to work really well. Nice, clear sound.

You can't reply to SMS alerts via Skype, but that doesn't matter as it turns out, because the chat alerts are literally just texts that say 'you have a new chat message on NF'. So either way you have to login to the site to read it.

I was thinking I could read custie messages and reply via SMS, but no. So US SMS functionality is not required as far as I can see.

You need the SMS functionality to work once, in order to sign up. But once you are signed up for chat, you don't need it again.

SallyCin
01-26-2022, 03:36 PM
I never needed SMS functionality in order to sign up for chat via the website. Been doing it for a year or so without ever getting an SMS (because I was using a UK number). I just thought I was missing out on some way to reply by phone.

Spemily
01-26-2022, 08:37 PM
I never needed SMS functionality in order to sign up for chat via the website. Been doing it for a year or so without ever getting an SMS (because I was using a UK number). I just thought I was missing out on some way to reply by phone.

Oh, then maybe they got rid of that requirement. When chat initially launched, you had to be able to sign up to get the notifications and had to put in a one time code activate chat. People were rather outraged about it, given that the chat was web-based, so they must have gotten ride of that requirement. I've been using the same cell number since chat launched, so I've never had to activate another number.

MaryElizabeth
01-29-2022, 08:36 PM
Oh, then maybe they got rid of that requirement.

About a year ago I had to SMS verify a Skype number to get chat. I used a temporary number and always set the chat to "Available - Chat Alerts Off". I'm not positive if I had to sms verify my Google Voice number a couple years ago but I think I did.

That said, when chat went to a buck a message I was mortified and thought it would kill me but I'm decent with words and chat is 30-50% of what I make.

Just got my 4 years: 26 silvers, 63 bronze, NO GOLD.

56553

Spemily
01-29-2022, 11:41 PM
Wow, I think that's a pretty good showing. I've never achieved gold either.

I have three accounts two and they stack up like this:


Main account: 5 years of service, 4 silver, 15 bronze
Secondary account: 3 years of service, 2 silver, 12 bronze
Third account that does very poorly and that I sometimes go long periods without using: 1 year of service (because of all the periods where I don't log in), 1 bronze


I actually haven't received any awards since August 2021, which is kind of nuts considering that September 2021 was my best month ever, by a lot. That must have meant the site as a whole was booming then. I then promptly got super sick and lost my voice in late October. So my October earnings were cut short and then I made a whopping $400 in November because I was only able to start working again right near the end of the month. This business is crazy.

Victoria_Gray
01-30-2022, 09:10 PM
About a year ago I had to SMS verify a Skype number to get chat. I used a temporary number and always set the chat to "Available - Chat Alerts Off". I'm not positive if I had to sms verify my Google Voice number a couple years ago but I think I did.

That said, when chat went to a buck a message I was mortified and thought it would kill me but I'm decent with words and chat is 30-50% of what I make.

Just got my 4 years: 26 silvers, 63 bronze, NO GOLD.

56553

Congratulations!

MsMeta
01-31-2022, 01:14 PM
Wow, I think that's a pretty good showing. I've never achieved gold either.

I have three accounts two and they stack up like this:


Main account: 5 years of service, 4 silver, 15 bronze
Secondary account: 3 years of service, 2 silver, 12 bronze
Third account that does very poorly and that I sometimes go long periods without using: 1 year of service (because of all the periods where I don't log in), 1 bronze


I actually haven't received any awards since August 2021, which is kind of nuts considering that September 2021 was my best month ever, by a lot. That must have meant the site as a whole was booming then. I then promptly got super sick and lost my voice in late October. So my October earnings were cut short and then I made a whopping $400 in November because I was only able to start working again right near the end of the month. This business is crazy.


September 2021 was my worst month of the year! LOL, I guess that shows how variable it is for all of us. Weirdly after that I got gold in October which is wild. That's why I don't take their awards too seriously because I work a very regular schedule, churn out content very regularly and I can go from making 2k in one month to 8k the next. I don't even look at the awards because it just stresses me out more lol.

SapphireXO
01-31-2022, 02:35 PM
About a year ago I had to SMS verify a Skype number to get chat. I used a temporary number and always set the chat to "Available - Chat Alerts Off". I'm not positive if I had to sms verify my Google Voice number a couple years ago but I think I did.

That said, when chat went to a buck a message I was mortified and thought it would kill me but I'm decent with words and chat is 30-50% of what I make.

Just got my 4 years: 26 silvers, 63 bronze, NO GOLD.

56553

Those are huge achievements still!!!! Really impressive! I only got GOLD twice due to financial domination where one person is single handedly giving me $3,000 that month.

SapphireXO
01-31-2022, 02:37 PM
Now I looked at my reports. I don't notice any increase in sales one way or another tbh.
56557

SallyCin
02-04-2022, 02:46 PM
Thanks ME.

So I purchased a Skype US number, which both allows me to receive NF calls and receive chat alerts.

It also means an extra $0.20 a minute for me, which is cool. For other UK flirts, the Skype number costs less than £6 a month and the app seems to work really well. Nice, clear sound.

You can't reply to SMS alerts via Skype, but that doesn't matter as it turns out, because the chat alerts are literally just texts that say 'you have a new chat message on NF'. So either way you have to login to the site to read it.

I was thinking I could read custie messages and reply via SMS, but no. So US SMS functionality is not required as far as I can see.

Update for any UK flirts who pick up this thread.

Been using Skype for a few weeks now and calls only work intermittently. Occasionally NF just can't connect and so you miss the call and they sign you out.

I've reverted back to taking calls on my usual +44 UK mobile number and taking the $0.20 hit.

Moongirlluvr
02-04-2022, 07:38 PM
For real I am so upset right now I got my first two star review today asshat bought my goodie bag gave it a thumbs up said super hot then calls me I think we have a great conversation we talked for 15 minutes it cuts us off he kept going on about how hot my goodie bag was we talked about all the different types of pantyhose he was into I thought it went really well turn around and check my feedback he leaves a two-star review beginning he says I'm not a great conversationalist fine whatever and then goes on to say

"her goodie bag she claims she came but I didn't see it"

how can he leave a two-star review on a phone call and comment about a goodie bag if he didn't like the goodie bag shouldn't he have just thumbs downed it originally?

MsMeta
02-05-2022, 09:00 AM
For real I am so upset right now I got my first two star review today asshat bought my goodie bag gave it a thumbs up said super hot then calls me I think we have a great conversation we talked for 15 minutes it cuts us off he kept going on about how hot my goodie bag was we talked about all the different types of pantyhose he was into I thought it went really well turn around and check my feedback he leaves a two-star review beginning he says I'm not a great conversationalist fine whatever and then goes on to say

"her goodie bag she claims she came but I didn't see it"

how can he leave a two-star review on a phone call and comment about a goodie bag if he didn't like the goodie bag shouldn't he have just thumbs downed it originally?

Because some guys get off on giving negative reviews. I'm sorry that happened to you but it will get buried in all the other good reviews you have. And I've had a few customers tell me that the guys that leave bad reviews often, they remember the names and figure it's just an asshole - I even had a customer call me specifically because a girl he really enjoyed got a 1 star review from the same guy that gave ME 1 star so he figured he'd enjoy me too lol.

Was his screenname pantyhose without the "t" by any chance?

Moongirlluvr
02-05-2022, 11:53 AM
Nailed it well Sissypanyhose but I'm guessing it's the same person

And thank you for your kind words are encouragement I was having a really bad day yesterday (PMSing, terrible twos, washing machine broke, mom had a bad Parkinson's day and I had to argue with CVS about a prescription) I know there's always that one asshat I have one dude that follows me around since 2014 and leaves me negative reviews on every platform. I just left it get under my skin yesterday🙄

clio
02-05-2022, 07:29 PM
Nailed it well Sissypanyhose but I'm guessing it's the same person



lol the same guy left my girlfriend an offensive comment but attached it to five stars, and niteflirt removed the offensive comment but left the five stars. He seems to be making the rounds.

Diamond.Noire
02-06-2022, 02:42 AM
Does anyone have ideas for recorded listings? What types of recorded listings have sold well for you? Or can you direct me to any ideas that have been previously posted?

Thanks in advance.

SallyCin
02-06-2022, 02:56 AM
Thanks fellow flirts. I've just put Sissypanyhose in the bin (block list).

MsMeta
02-06-2022, 08:41 AM
Nailed it well Sissypanyhose but I'm guessing it's the same person

And thank you for your kind words are encouragement I was having a really bad day yesterday (PMSing, terrible twos, washing machine broke, mom had a bad Parkinson's day and I had to argue with CVS about a prescription) I know there's always that one asshat I have one dude that follows me around since 2014 and leaves me negative reviews on every platform. I just left it get under my skin yesterday🙄

Yup, that's the same guy. He has a few screennames that are all similar and he's pretty well known, I've even seen him mentioned on the NF badboys site. He's negged me on 2 different accounts in the past couple years. A definite block lol. Glad I could help! ;D

Moongirlluvr
02-06-2022, 09:06 AM
So my models I have a copy of their ID obviously do I also need a model contract? Like is there a template for a model contract?

Spemily
02-06-2022, 10:49 AM
So my models I have a copy of their ID obviously do I also need a model contract? Like is there a template for a model contract?

I think the document you need is called a "model release form". You can try googling and take a look at what's out there, maybe with some added keywords for the adult industry. There are many available online. This is required not specifically by NiteFlirt, but so that you have the paperwork that proves that you have the legal right to use someone's image.

Moongirlluvr
02-06-2022, 01:36 PM
Thank you ❣️❣️❣️

Victoria_Gray
02-06-2022, 10:20 PM
Those are huge achievements still!!!! Really impressive! I only got GOLD twice due to financial domination where one person is single handedly giving me $3,000 that month.

I LOVE findom. It's a shame how over-saturated it is actually.

DollEParton
02-07-2022, 11:13 AM
How much does everybody pull in on recorded listings? Do you feel they've helped you pull in a larger customer base?

Spemily
02-07-2022, 01:28 PM
How much does everybody pull in on recorded listings? Do you feel they've helped you pull in a larger customer base?

I have one recorded listing. It has been up for four and a half years and has received 15 calls. It's only 9 minutes long and most callers only listen to 1-5 minutes of it. So, I've made next to no money off it. The same file that I use for the recorded listing is also available as a goody bag. While the price of the goody bag is cheaper than listening to all 9 minutes of the call would be, I've still made more money from the goody, as it has sold 17 times in the same time frame.

Obviously, this file isn't particularly popular either way, so it might just be a dud. Given how old the file is, the fact that NF doesn't allow us to easily see which customers have bought what and the fact that we don't get any kind of notification when someone calls a recorded listing, I can't say for sure if it really brought me many customers. There are a couple of customers who appear to have called my recorded listing before calling me or buying a goody bag, but there are also some who called the recorded listing for one minute and never contacted me again in any way.