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Victoria_Gray
02-13-2022, 07:00 PM
I reached 48% of my NF goal this weekend before the weekend was done - those googie bags and tipping are the bomb diggity!
That and the amount of direct marketing I've been engaging in over the platform, I'm keeping top of mind for these guys I think.

PrincessAngel
02-14-2022, 07:19 AM
I LOVE findom. It's a shame how over-saturated it is actually.

I tend to find that with findom, the less I do the easier and more profitable it becomes. There are girls bragging on Twitter about how much they drained this dood only to show screen-caps of them getting like, 40 bucks on NF or C-App or whatever(lol).

Thing is, once you're successful at it, if you've genuinely had someone send you 15k last month, to your eyes this looks absolutely inconceivably pathetic (the bragging part), and rich clients probably feel the same. To a lot of people findom is 19 year old Becky bragging about 20 quid. Genuine opinion: It's oversaturated. And with absolute total crap.

Some confident pricing (You are worth 5-10 dollars a minute), a demeanor that makes you seem unattainable, might actually attract the rich clients a findomme-to-be dreams of. Part of the job is to actually have the confidence to actually go ahead and demand "big sums of money" when your time to shine has come. Not begging him, not asking him - making him do it. Why on earth should anything less impress you? And sure, you still need to read him, lean into what he likes, but you're not his whore, quite the opposite.

It's fine to you if these guys only show up once in a blue moon. You don't even need them. They need you. Sex with a god? Nudity? With a slave? Never. Not that I don't have listings like that. It's just totally incompatible with the findomme. Acting the part, advertising, and patience really make it possible. Eventually. And you do need advertising, you definitely want a lot of exposure.

Atekram
02-17-2022, 10:38 AM
Hello ladies, I have a question. I´ve started with Niteflirt few months ago, doing well and I though it came a time to set up second profile. How do you do it, when you have few different profile on NF? Signing on/off all day long? Or is there some way around it that I am missing (as a newbie)? I do have call and chat alerts on on both profiles.

Spemily
02-17-2022, 02:05 PM
Hello ladies, I have a question. I´ve started with Niteflirt few months ago, doing well and I though it came a time to set up second profile. How do you do it, when you have few different profile on NF? Signing on/off all day long? Or is there some way around it that I am missing (as a newbie)? I do have call and chat alerts on on both profiles.

If you use the same phone number, they both go busy at the same time. You can have three accounts on the same phone number.

Atekram
02-17-2022, 03:19 PM
If you use the same phone number, they both go busy at the same time. You can have three accounts on the same phone number.

Thank you, I know that.
The thing is the chat - I am getting notifications and of course, it is annoying to switch between accounts few times a day. I guess there is no way around it, right?

Spemily
02-17-2022, 03:53 PM
I have three accounts and use three different browsers (Chrome, Firefox and Edge, but there are other options if one of those doesn't work for you). I have one account on each browser, so I can hear and see the call monitor and respond to chats on all three at the same time. If I've got two chats on two accounts going hot and heavy, I resize two relevant browser windows so I can have them side by side, or one above the other.

Another option is to use a browser add-on like SessionBox. It allows you to have multiple "sessions" on Chrome, so that you can be logged into the same website on multiple different accounts. I had mixed results with it, but haven't tried it in years. They might have worked out the kinks. There are similar plugins for other browsers which you could also try out.

Diamond.Noire
02-17-2022, 09:48 PM
Hi ladies! I had a fake user- wellsbruce22 call for 1 minute and buy a cheap goody bag to leave negative feedback. Luckily it didn't affect my ratings, but is there anyway to get the bad feedback removed. It's my only bad feedback and really concerning me.

Edit: This user is registered as a flirt if that makes any difference.

clio
02-17-2022, 09:58 PM
I think if a call is shorter than 3 minutes you can get it removed. It's worth a try!

Spemily
02-17-2022, 10:16 PM
Hi ladies! I had a fake user- wellsbruce22 call for 1 minute and buy a cheap goody bag to leave negative feedback. Luckily it didn't affect my ratings, but is there anyway to get the bad feedback removed. It's my only bad feedback and really concerning me.

NiteFlirt has a pretty strict policy about removing feedback, so you likely can't get it removed unless he broke one of their feedback rules (using a slur, sharing private information, rating the site in general rather than the flirt).

Diamond.Noire
02-17-2022, 10:36 PM
I kind of figured this. I'm really nervous to even try.

grneyesnfl
02-17-2022, 11:43 PM
I think if a call is shorter than 3 minutes you can get it removed. It's worth a try!

This isn't true. The length of the call has nothing to do with it. There are only a handful of reasons when NF will remove feedback. I don't know what your customer left you so I can't say if it fits into one of those reasons. Write to NF and ask.

Diamond.Noire
02-18-2022, 12:29 AM
This isn't true. The length of the call has nothing to do with it. There are only a handful of reasons when NF will remove feedback. I don't know what your customer left you so I can't say if it fits into one of those reasons. Write to NF and ask.

Do you happen know the reasons? I don't want to reach out to them unnecessarily.

Edit: I see the reasons NiteFlirt will remove feedback now. It says it's forbidden for a Flirt to call other Flirts with the intention of leaving negative feedback, but that isn't listed as a reason NF will remove feedback, so I'm unsure.

Diamond.Noire
02-18-2022, 12:30 AM
For the record, the account is registered as a flirt if that makes any difference for getting the feedback removed.

Spemily
02-18-2022, 01:31 PM
For the record, the account is registered as a flirt if that makes any difference for getting the feedback removed.

I doubt it will. Lots of guys make flirt accounts because they are hoping to make a bit of money. NiteFlirt repeats constantly that the only thing they take into account when considering feedback removal is the contents of the feedback itself. So unless he used a slur or posted something he shouldn't have (personal information, something about a competing site or taking payment off site), they won't take it down.

But there's no reason to be nervous about asking. You won't get in trouble, even if they say no.

MaryElizabeth
02-18-2022, 08:10 PM
Bad reviews are part of the game, not much you can do about them. When you have a great call ask the guy to leave 5 stars and bad reviews will get buried, you are worrying about it too much.

I might have mentioned it before but - FUCKING SMOKE ALARMS ?!?! This one was chirping sharply loud, and it was the same when he called me last week so he's been living his life with a nasty smoke alarm going off constantly. More than strange sexual shit people with banging smoke alarms worry me.

MsMeta
02-20-2022, 11:34 AM
Speaking of bad feedback, I had a guy leave me revenge feedback for blocking him. He was a real sicko - wanted to talk about stomping insects and animals. It's against the rules, I told him that and he ignored it and just continued (I won't repeat what he said because it was so disturbing). I finally hung up on him and blocked him. Got revenge feedback for that call and the last one where he wasn't that creepy - 1 star on each saying I'm a liar, I sound really old, I've been on NF forever, etc. Not great for my "18 year old hottie" profile and I had a definite drop in calls since he left that feedback. It's kinda hard to bury something like that especially when it wasn't deserved.

I did contact NF and haven't heard back yet, I submitted him to the NF bad boys site and I'm crossing my fingers they can remove the one feedback that's very damaging. I completely understand negatives if it is my fault or even if he didn't like my style or voice but revenge feedback should not be allowed when he was the one trying to break rules and literally talking about killing.

Spemily
02-20-2022, 04:58 PM
Speaking of bad feedback, I had a guy leave me revenge feedback for blocking him. He was a real sicko - wanted to talk about stomping insects and animals. It's against the rules, I told him that and he ignored it and just continued (I won't repeat what he said because it was so disturbing). I finally hung up on him and blocked him. Got revenge feedback for that call and the last one where he wasn't that creepy - 1 star on each saying I'm a liar, I sound really old, I've been on NF forever, etc. Not great for my "18 year old hottie" profile and I had a definite drop in calls since he left that feedback. It's kinda hard to bury something like that especially when it wasn't deserved.

I did contact NF and haven't heard back yet, I submitted him to the NF bad boys site and I'm crossing my fingers they can remove the one feedback that's very damaging. I completely understand negatives if it is my fault or even if he didn't like my style or voice but revenge feedback should not be allowed when he was the one trying to break rules and literally talking about killing.

They will remove all but the first feedback left in a series of bad feedback. So, if he left two, they will remove whichever one was left second.

MsMeta
02-20-2022, 05:01 PM
They will remove all but the first feedback left in a series of bad feedback. So, if he left two, they will remove whichever one was left second.

Yeah, I'm glad they'll remove the one but it still sucks that some guys abuse the system and we get penalized for following the rules.

Victoria_Gray
02-20-2022, 10:55 PM
I tend to find that with findom, the less I do the easier and more profitable it becomes. There are girls bragging on Twitter about how much they drained this dood only to show screen-caps of them getting like, 40 bucks on NF or C-App or whatever(lol).

Thing is, once you're successful at it, if you've genuinely had someone send you 15k last month, to your eyes this looks absolutely inconceivably pathetic (the bragging part), and rich clients probably feel the same. To a lot of people findom is 19 year old Becky bragging about 20 quid. Genuine opinion: It's oversaturated. And with absolute total crap.

Some confident pricing (You are worth 5-10 dollars a minute), a demeanor that makes you seem unattainable, might actually attract the rich clients a findomme-to-be dreams of. Part of the job is to actually have the confidence to actually go ahead and demand "big sums of money" when your time to shine has come. Not begging him, not asking him - making him do it. Why on earth should anything less impress you? And sure, you still need to read him, lean into what he likes, but you're not his whore, quite the opposite.

It's fine to you if these guys only show up once in a blue moon. You don't even need them. They need you. Sex with a god? Nudity? With a slave? Never. Not that I don't have listings like that. It's just totally incompatible with the findomme. Acting the part, advertising, and patience really make it possible. Eventually. And you do need advertising, you definitely want a lot of exposure.

I agree with you totally.

19-year-old Becky posting 20 quid is funny tbf.

The women pulling 10k in a night from the one guy are the women who have the most exposure. I am thinking of Ceara Lynch who has a documentary (of sorts) made about her and regularly appears on podcasts and in traditional media. She's that big because of exposure. Well - exposure plus years in the industry, learning the psychology of the kink, etc.

MaryElizabeth
03-01-2022, 02:42 AM
A new profile getting off the ground, tuesday morning at almost +900% of my goal (of 8$) might hit several thousand % by sunday?

* And either my bank or NF is going nuts because I am getting paid days earlier, for years things were stable and predictable and now things are earlier, its probably my bank? Anyone else getting earlier payments? thx *

56790

Moongirlluvr
03-01-2022, 03:40 PM
Congratulations that is awesome!

Not just your bank mine always used to come 7 days later between 12:00 and 1:00 a.m. nine times out of 10 12:37 a.m. exactly... Now it's between 3 and 4 days and it 2:30ish in the afternoon

MaryElizabeth
03-01-2022, 04:43 PM
Now it's between 3 and 4 days and it 2:30ish in the afternoon

EDIT - Turns out its only 2 days that gets paid early, arriving monday afternoon rather than 3am tuesday. The other days are the same.

Thank you and this, yea for all the years I have been at NF money arrived was 7 days later between 3am-4am, and yea, now showing up in the middle of the afternoon a couple days earlier, and even on Mondays when it used to never arrive So I guess this is NF or some change in the financial system of some sort, it isn't just my bank. It's fine, its earlier, doesn't make a huge difference it was just strange looking at the account jump in the middle of the day when it never did that before. Stay safe.

Victoria_Gray
03-07-2022, 09:16 PM
I am getting paid at the same time still.

I've been sending out little 'I'm available!' DMs to my people when I come online, because I know they all have long favorites lists and I want to let them know I'm here still. I've had a few of them block me, obviously not that interested... their names though. I'm not unhappy about some of these dudes blocking. Rejection is protection.

Moongirlluvr
03-11-2022, 09:21 PM
So I currently have Google voice and I want to switch over to skype number but how would that work with Skype cam shows?

Can I still answer the Skype cam show on my laptop but take the Skype night flirt call on my phone?

Spemily
03-12-2022, 04:10 PM
So I currently have Google voice and I want to switch over to skype number but how would that work with Skype cam shows?

Can I still answer the Skype cam show on my laptop but take the Skype night flirt call on my phone?

Yes, you should be able to answer the call on your phone using the Skype app and then initiate a video call on your laptop to do the show. If you have issues, just use two different Skype accounts. Make a new one and use that one to buy your Skype number, that way any customers that still have your Skype ID won't have to use a new one. Another upside is that if Microsoft shuts down your camming Skype account because you were using it for adult purposes, your other one, where you've paid for a Skype number, might not be affected.

chocbbwdoll
03-21-2022, 03:43 PM
Hello everyone! I've been a lurker for years on my old roommate's account and just made this one today. I've been on Niteflirt for almost 2 years now and doing well. January and Feb were awful but March has been okay. According to my 1099, I made a little over $55k on Niteflirt between my 3 accounts, only $6k from TalktoMe and even less on Sincats (sick site, wouldn't recommend unless you are into extreme age play).

My goals this year are to purchase new licensed model photos for my 2nd page (the current lady has old ass pics that look like they are from the 90s), double my income and peddle my erotic fiction to my customer base. I know some of them don't pay attention to their inbox and don't even buy my PTVs but I do wanna maybe add a link in the bottom of my PTVS for those interested. I was thinking sendowl or something IDK, any suggestions? Can I publish taboo erotic fiction on Amazon under a pseudonym?

My last goal is to be more active on cam. I made a new account recently for cam and added my NF to my linktree. I have been doing escorting and fetish stuff in person for the past few years but want to be completely virtual. I'm emotionally exhausted and burnt out from dealing with men and I prefer Niteflirt and phone sex in general over everything else. Even onlyfans is tiring.

Anyway, how are you ladies doing?

Victoria_Gray
03-21-2022, 05:07 PM
Hello everyone! I've been a lurker for years on my old roommate's account and just made this one today. I've been on Niteflirt for almost 2 years now and doing well. January and Feb were awful but March has been okay. According to my 1099, I made a little over $55k on Niteflirt between my 3 accounts, only $6k from TalktoMe and even less on Sincats (sick site, wouldn't recommend unless you are into extreme age play).

My goals this year are to purchase new licensed model photos for my 2nd page (the current lady has old ass pics that look like they are from the 90s), double my income and peddle my erotic fiction to my customer base. I know some of them don't pay attention to their inbox and don't even buy my PTVs but I do wanna maybe add a link in the bottom of my PTVS for those interested. I was thinking sendowl or something IDK, any suggestions? Can I publish taboo erotic fiction on Amazon under a pseudonym?

My last goal is to be more active on cam. I made a new account recently for cam and added my NF to my linktree. I have been doing escorting and fetish stuff in person for the past few years but want to be completely virtual. I'm emotionally exhausted and burnt out from dealing with men and I prefer Niteflirt and phone sex in general over everything else. Even onlyfans is tiring.

Anyway, how are you ladies doing?

I might be able to help with the erotic fiction - yes, you can publish on Amazon under a pen name. I also wonder how you are going to use NiteFlirt to promote it? Send those stories through PPV? Linked to your profile? Where do you publish your erotic fiction now? Literotica?

Spemily
03-21-2022, 06:10 PM
Hello everyone! I've been a lurker for years on my old roommate's account and just made this one today. I've been on Niteflirt for almost 2 years now and doing well. January and Feb were awful but March has been okay. According to my 1099, I made a little over $55k on Niteflirt between my 3 accounts, only $6k from TalktoMe and even less on Sincats (sick site, wouldn't recommend unless you are into extreme age play).

That's also my feeling about Sincats. I don't know if they've improved things since they first launched, but they were also incredibly unprofessional and disorganized in terms of payment and how the site was organized.


My goals this year are to purchase new licensed model photos for my 2nd page (the current lady has old ass pics that look like they are from the 90s), double my income and peddle my erotic fiction to my customer base. I know some of them don't pay attention to their inbox and don't even buy my PTVs but I do wanna maybe add a link in the bottom of my PTVS for those interested. I was thinking sendowl or something IDK, any suggestions? Can I publish taboo erotic fiction on Amazon under a pseudonym?

I don't think there's any place you could link to that NF would not consider a violation of their TOS. They don't allow you to link to outside sites that offer competing services and since you can sell text files on NF, linking to Amazon would probably be an offense worthy of suspension.

Also, Amazon is pretty strict in terms of what they allow for self-published erotica. If by "taboo" you mean the things that tittering church ladies would consider taboo, like anal and having sex with the lights on, then you can self-publish on Amazon. If you mean incest, rape fantasy, golden showers, underage, diaper play, animal stuff (including sentient, intelligent animals who are people), then Amazon is a no-go. Basically, most of the things that don't fly on NF don't fly on Amazon and then some.

If you want to self-publish taboo stuff, your best bet is Smashwords. They aren't completely no-limits, but they have far fewer than Amazon and have decent internal traffic. You still won't be able to link to Smashwords from NF, but if you use the same pen name, some people might find you through Googling.


My last goal is to be more active on cam. I made a new account recently for cam and added my NF to my linktree. I have been doing escorting and fetish stuff in person for the past few years but want to be completely virtual. I'm emotionally exhausted and burnt out from dealing with men and I prefer Niteflirt and phone sex in general over everything else. Even onlyfans is tiring.

Anyway, how are you ladies doing?

March has been dismal for me. Ever since I got sick in late October, lost my voice and had to take nearly a month off, my income is in the toilet. March has been particularly bad for me, across all sites. I don't cam, but I'm considering adding it to my line up.

newbiecammer
03-22-2022, 06:13 AM
Hi, Do nite flirt asks you to verify with ID? If so when do they ask you this?. I can see they require credit card info to verify you. Is that it or at what point they will ask more? I am in the UK.
Thank you

MsMeta
03-23-2022, 07:54 AM
Is there any way to safely make an Amazon wishlist? I have a new sub who is insisting that he needs to buy my wishlist and it's not as good for his fetish to tribute me. I am wondering if he's so insistent because he thinks he can get my address that way? He lives about an hour from "me" - not really, I live about 1000 miles away lol. Maybe I'm paranoid but I don't know his intentions and while I'd love him spending $$$ on me, I don't want to compromise my location and safety. Any thoughts?

chocbbwdoll
03-23-2022, 08:58 AM
I might be able to help with the erotic fiction - yes, you can publish on Amazon under a pen name. I also wonder how you are going to use NiteFlirt to promote it? Send those stories through PPV? Linked to your profile? Where do you publish your erotic fiction now? Literotica?

That would be awesome! and I have a newsletter from doing in-person sex work. Quite a few of my regulars enjoy erotic fiction so when I have a new book available I mention it in my newsletter and they buy it directly from me. I was thinking of linking through my weekly PTVs but if it's against their TOS I don't want to risk my account.

chocbbwdoll
03-23-2022, 09:00 AM
That's also my feeling about Sincats. I don't know if they've improved things since they first launched, but they were also incredibly unprofessional and disorganized in terms of payment and how the site was organized.



I don't think there's any place you could link to that NF would not consider a violation of their TOS. They don't allow you to link to outside sites that offer competing services and since you can sell text files on NF, linking to Amazon would probably be an offense worthy of suspension.

Also, Amazon is pretty strict in terms of what they allow for self-published erotica. If by "taboo" you mean the things that tittering church ladies would consider taboo, like anal and having sex with the lights on, then you can self-publish on Amazon. If you mean incest, rape fantasy, golden showers, underage, diaper play, animal stuff (including sentient, intelligent animals who are people), then Amazon is a no-go. Basically, most of the things that don't fly on NF don't fly on Amazon and then some.

If you want to self-publish taboo stuff, your best bet is Smashwords. They aren't completely no-limits, but they have far fewer than Amazon and have decent internal traffic. You still won't be able to link to Smashwords from NF, but if you use the same pen name, some people might find you through Googling.



March has been dismal for me. Ever since I got sick in late October, lost my voice and had to take nearly a month off, my income is in the toilet. March has been particularly bad for me, across all sites. I don't cam, but I'm considering adding it to my line up.

I'm sorry to hear that. I hope things pick up for you soon! thanks for the info on NF. As far as sincats, I've had several payments not process at all. I had to reach out to the owners and didn't like their attitude. it was like they were insinuating that I was lying? So I switched my payment from direct deposit to paypal and now every payment goes through. smh

Spemily
03-23-2022, 11:06 AM
Hi, Do nite flirt asks you to verify with ID? If so when do they ask you this?. I can see they require credit card info to verify you. Is that it or at what point they will ask more? I am in the UK.
Thank you

In order to sign up a flirt on NiteFlirt, you will need to provide ID during the initial sign up process. You can't offer any services on there until your ID is verified.

Spemily
03-23-2022, 11:10 AM
Is there any way to safely make an Amazon wishlist? I have a new sub who is insisting that he needs to buy my wishlist and it's not as good for his fetish to tribute me. I am wondering if he's so insistent because he thinks he can get my address that way? He lives about an hour from "me" - not really, I live about 1000 miles away lol. Maybe I'm paranoid but I don't know his intentions and while I'd love him spending $$$ on me, I don't want to compromise my location and safety. Any thoughts?

Personally, I don't think there's any safe way to have an Amazon wishlist unless you are able to have several layers of anonymity, like having the mail come to an address that isn't yours, to a name that isn't yours and whatever address and name used can't be easily linked to you. Given the fact that laws about receiving mail don't allow for anonymity and the fact that Amazon is not interested in protecting your identity and is actively against sex workers having wishlists, I just don't bother.

Your customer might not necessarily be trying to pull a fast one on you, but you'd be opening yourself up to some risk. And so many guys say how much they want to spoil you and do all sorts of things, but a lot of it is just talk. I have occasionally jumped through hoops for customers who insisted they could only give a gift in whatever specific way suited them and then received nothing for my trouble. Sometimes insisting on something that isn't available is their way of trying to get credit for being generous without actually having to spend any money.

Spemily
03-23-2022, 11:14 AM
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope things pick up for you soon! thanks for the info on NF. As far as sincats, I've had several payments not process at all. I had to reach out to the owners and didn't like their attitude. it was like they were insinuating that I was lying? So I switched my payment from direct deposit to paypal and now every payment goes through. smh

If PayPal ever bothers to take a look at what Sincats does, they will probably immediately ban them from using the service. I'd consider it risky to receive payment that way, as you might end up losing your PP account, too.

My experience with Sincats was similar. They claimed to have paid me when I received nothing. I posted about it here and they got snippy with me. In the end, I got paid via a Western Union transfer, but I never used the site again.

Moongirlluvr
03-23-2022, 01:40 PM
I have a problem if CYS is asking me questions and wants to know each individual website that I am on do I need to give them that information

Spemily
03-23-2022, 02:10 PM
I have a problem if CYS is asking me questions and wants to know each individual website that I am on do I need to give them that information

What is CYS in this context? The only thing I can think of Child & Youth Services. Without knowing what jurisdiction you're in and in what context you're being asked, it's hard for us to help. However, in general, if a government organization is asking you for information, especially as part of some official process, you probably have to comply.

However, every country of the world or even state/province of a country has different rules, so what is legally required of you is impossible for us to say.

If I'm totally wrong about what you meant by CYS, then please clarify your question.

Carmel57
03-24-2022, 12:12 AM
When Someone wants to get me something I suggest they send me an amazon gift card code.
That way I receive the money in my amazon account and can purchase that way.

Is there any way to safely make an Amazon wishlist? I have a new sub who is insisting that he needs to buy my wishlist and it's not as good for his fetish to tribute me. I am wondering if he's so insistent because he thinks he can get my address that way? He lives about an hour from "me" - not really, I live about 1000 miles away lol. Maybe I'm paranoid but I don't know his intentions and while I'd love him spending $$$ on me, I don't want to compromise my location and safety. Any thoughts?

Moongirlluvr
03-24-2022, 06:57 AM
I'm in Pennsylvania and Yes cys's children and youth services... I left a physically and verbally abusive relationship in 2011 my ex-husband found out I had a child two and a half years ago and has been calling CYS on me about every 6 months since well this last time they want every website I'm on because I posted something on my Facebook about looking for models and apparently models is code word for prostitutes
I did used to be a prostitute and I keep some of my websites open like on em and when guys hit me up I then send them to my nf
The complaint was that me and my mother are using drugs as well as marijuana and I'm running a prostitution ring to pay for it.
At this point I think I might just lawyer up

SuperPookie
03-24-2022, 11:29 AM
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope things pick up for you soon! thanks for the info on NF. As far as sincats, I've had several payments not process at all. I had to reach out to the owners and didn't like their attitude. it was like they were insinuating that I was lying? So I switched my payment from direct deposit to paypal and now every payment goes through. smh

I guess I'm lucky but I have never had any issues with payment there. I have direct deposit as I was worried that getting paid from a site like that might cause issues with my PayPal account.

Spemily
03-24-2022, 01:33 PM
I'm in Pennsylvania and Yes cys's children and youth services... I left a physically and verbally abusive relationship in 2011 my ex-husband found out I had a child two and a half years ago and has been calling CYS on me about every 6 months since well this last time they want every website I'm on because I posted something on my Facebook about looking for models and apparently models is code word for prostitutes
I did used to be a prostitute and I keep some of my websites open like on em and when guys hit me up I then send them to my nf
The complaint was that me and my mother are using drugs as well as marijuana and I'm running a prostitution ring to pay for it.
At this point I think I might just lawyer up

Yes, I'd strongly suggest getting a lawyer. Many people view all sex work as a moral failing, so that fact that everything you're doing is legal won't necessarily be enough to protect you.

chocbbwdoll
03-24-2022, 06:02 PM
I guess I'm lucky but I have never had any issues with payment there. I have direct deposit as I was worried that getting paid from a site like that might cause issues with my PayPal account.

I only switched to paypal because the direct deposit to my credit union stopped going through. I may switch back but honestly 99% of the calls are extreme ageplay so I don't log in often and I don't want to continue using it =/

If anyone knows of any besides Niteflirt and TalkToMe, let me know. They are both great but I always like being able to crosspost my audio clips and take calls/chats on different sites when one is slow

SPeaking of slow, this week has been pretty slow. So far I'm at $600 b/w all my accounts in total but just 30 mins ago one of my findom guys popped up after a 2 month absence. We're at $500 now and I hope he is going to be on all night ;)

chocbbwdoll
03-26-2022, 07:00 PM
How do you all manage your customer lists? Do you go through and delete people who never call, chat or buy PTVs anymore? Do you have specific lists?

I personally have lists for ppl into ageplay, findom, PTV & Goodie Bag buyers, roleplay guys, etc. That way I can tailor the PTVs I send out. I even keep notes on them so when they call I can peek at my laptop screen and know how to answer or start the call

grneyesnfl
03-26-2022, 10:10 PM
delete

grneyesnfl
03-26-2022, 10:12 PM
I personally have lists for ppl into ageplay

Ageplay is against the rules on NF! You said in a previous post you've been on NF for 2 years. You did not know that??

Newbie3
03-27-2022, 02:20 AM
Thank you for your reply. When i signed up, it just asked for credit card to age verify and that was it. I am in the UK. I haven’t made any money so far and was wondering do i have to provide ID for a payout?
Yhank you x
In order to sign up a flirt on NiteFlirt, you will need to provide ID during the initial sign up process. You can't offer any services on there until your ID is verified.

Victoria_Gray
03-28-2022, 12:48 AM
How do you all manage your customer lists? Do you go through and delete people who never call, chat or buy PTVs anymore? Do you have specific lists?

I personally have lists for ppl into ageplay, findom, PTV & Goodie Bag buyers, roleplay guys, etc. That way I can tailor the PTVs I send out. I even keep notes on them so when they call I can peek at my laptop screen and know how to answer or start the call

I don't keep specific lists, and will keep messaging people until they block me or delete their accounts. You never know, they could be off the site for a bit and come back after a break.

AnnaOpulence
03-28-2022, 01:35 AM
Hello ladies, my name is Anna. I've been lurking for a while and I find this thread to be really helpful. I have a question, because I feel I am still doing something wrong on NF. I started with Niteflirt a year ago and I must say that NF is the site I feel most comfortable working on ( I am also on Sincats and TTM). I am making 2500 $ a month from all the sites together and its not enough obviously. Last year I made 30.0000$. I get the feeling that I should be able to make way more, but I don't know what to change. I do not like to Cam too much it drains me a lot. I have no problem staying on the phone 6 days a week though. I need to double my income as soon as possible and I would like to ask if anyone has an idea of what I might be doing wrong or what I can do? I have 3 profiles on NF and I am logged in almost daily. I have 200 5 star ratings on two of them ( one is vanilla, the other dominant therapist listing, 3rd is hypno dom), so I am doing well in terms of ratings but I don't make a lot. I am wondering now if it's because I am in Europe and always logged in at the ' wrong' time? I am usually online from 7 am - 3 pm Central european time which is 1 am - 9 am EST and sometimes 9 am - 12 pm EST. I am never online for example when its evening or night in the USA. When is the time that you ladies are most busy? I am grateful for any advice. Thank you :-)

MsMeta
03-28-2022, 06:52 AM
Hello ladies, my name is Anna. I've been lurking for a while and I find this thread to be really helpful. I have a question, because I feel I am still doing something wrong on NF. I started with Niteflirt a year ago and I must say that NF is the site I feel most comfortable working on ( I am also on Sincats and TTM). I am making 2500 $ a month from all the sites together and its not enough obviously. Last year I made 30.0000$. I get the feeling that I should be able to make way more, but I don't know what to change. I do not like to Cam too much it drains me a lot. I have no problem staying on the phone 6 days a week though. I need to double my income as soon as possible and I would like to ask if anyone has an idea of what I might be doing wrong or what I can do? I have 3 profiles on NF and I am logged in almost daily. I have 200 5 star ratings on two of them ( one is vanilla, the other dominant therapist listing, 3rd is hypno dom), so I am doing well in terms of ratings but I don't make a lot. I am wondering now if it's because I am in Europe and always logged in at the ' wrong' time? I am usually online from 7 am - 3 pm Central european time which is 1 am - 9 am EST and sometimes 9 am - 12 pm EST. I am never online for example when its evening or night in the USA. When is the time that you ladies are most busy? I am grateful for any advice. Thank you :-)

Hello! There's money to be made at all times of the day, one thing I've read as advice from others is to switch up the times that you're on to get different/more customers. Other things.....are you featuring? I always try to be on the second or third page of my category so I don't lose too much money but also I'm still seen. Make A LOT of goodies/ptv content. Photo sets, audio and I know you said you don't like cam but videos are also good for content. Check out Build-A-Domme on NF for tutorials on how to make more as a domme, also google Amberly Rothfield's ebook. Are you on social media? That can help bring in your own customers rather than relying on just the site's traffic. Switch up your listings/thumbnails often, and make sure you're in as many categories as possible. Send intro emails to new customers with clickable links to get them to spend (this applies to your listings as well...voice sample, tempting pics, etc). Good luck!

AnnaOpulence
03-28-2022, 10:12 AM
Hello! There's money to be made at all times of the day, one thing I've read as advice from others is to switch up the times that you're on to get different/more customers. Other things.....are you featuring? I always try to be on the second or third page of my category so I don't lose too much money but also I'm still seen. Make A LOT of goodies/ptv content. Photo sets, audio and I know you said you don't like cam but videos are also good for content. Check out Build-A-Domme on NF for tutorials on how to make more as a domme, also google Amberly Rothfield's ebook. Are you on social media? That can help bring in your own customers rather than relying on just the site's traffic. Switch up your listings/thumbnails often, and make sure you're in as many categories as possible. Send intro emails to new customers with clickable links to get them to spend (this applies to your listings as well...voice sample, tempting pics, etc). Good luck!

thank you so much ! I will do all that and hopefully I'll get to 5000 $ a month soon. Thats my goal :-)