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Jesebel
10-06-2022, 04:28 AM
Do they want to be forced or raped or have a romantic time of it? :)
For me they want me to encourage them and watch them. They love being watched and praised on how well they do it. Or they like telling stories and thats fine by me. The longer the better. ;)
izshadow
10-06-2022, 11:34 AM
Whenever people call my cam listing, I always provide it. I actually prefer when they ask for it on the phone because it means they're going to spend either 1 or two minutes at 3.99 trying to find me, lol. I'm just asking about people asking for it in my free mail.
That to me is a cheap POS and I don't want him calling me anyway cause he will disconnect in under a minute.
avalon_rose
10-07-2022, 11:39 PM
I’ve made a little content plan/outline to add more recorded lines and goodies to my account. I’m supposing that having something available for purchase is better than having nothing available for purchase - but otherwise, how is the Goodies game these days (Fall 2022)?
Growlerpussy
10-08-2022, 12:00 PM
A bit of a rant: the amount of guys who repeat themself is delusional. "Are you going to cum you dirty whore? " Me trying to answer .... him "Are you going to cum you dirty whore/" ..... I had guys going on like this for an hour. Every single sentence twice.
It drives me fucking insane.
avalon_rose
10-08-2022, 12:16 PM
A bit of a rant: the amount of guys who repeat themself is delusional. "Are you going to cum you dirty whore? " Me trying to answer .... him "Are you going to cum you dirty whore/" ..... I had guys going on like this for an hour. Every single sentence twice.
It drives me fucking insane.
LOL and then if you don’t respond properly somehow you’ve apparently ruined everything!
Victoria_Gray
10-09-2022, 10:33 PM
I've only ever had one who wanted it to be romantic. Some of them want to be forced or raped by the man, but a significant amount of them want to be "forced" or "encouraged" by the woman. I'd also say that most of the time they don't want to hear anything about their being an actual person attached to the cock. They don't any description of the guy's body, or what he's really doing or feeling or saying. Just a disembodied cock.
Just a disembodied cock!!! Spat out my tea just now, thanks for the giggle!
jasmine22
10-10-2022, 10:46 AM
Did everyone get paid their September earnings? I made well over $10 minimum and its still sitting in my account. I contacted support I'm just wondering if anyone else had this happen.
ep2002
10-11-2022, 12:26 AM
Did everyone get paid their September earnings? I made well over $10 minimum and its still sitting in my account. I contacted support I'm just wondering if anyone else had this happen.
Isn't it more than $10 min.?
ep2002
10-11-2022, 12:29 AM
For me they want me to encourage them and watch them. They love being watched and praised on how well they do it. Or they like telling stories and thats fine by me. The longer the better. ;)
Welcome to the club lol, it's crazy, they all do. Well more than a year ago. i have 2 profiles dedicated to that fetish and they tell me all about their adventures to adult book stores or the glory hole.
And most of those guys rae doing the talking for hours with telling me all kind of stories how and when they started.
BBC is a crazy topic too at the second. just have a look at C4S NR.1 in the audio categorie. She's nr.1 since months and BBC is her main topic. That says it all.
I've only ever had one who wanted it to be romantic. Some of them want to be forced or raped by the man, but a significant amount of them want to be "forced" or "encouraged" by the woman. I'd also say that most of the time they don't want to hear anything about their being an actual person attached to the cock. They don't any description of the guy's body, or what he's really doing or feeling or saying. Just a disembodied cock.
Interesting & yes, every time I've come across (years ago) a guy who wants to do things with guys (this is IRL), he usually doesn't want to see the face, just the cock.
Thanks everyone!
Spemily
10-11-2022, 10:43 AM
Did everyone get paid their September earnings? I made well over $10 minimum and its still sitting in my account. I contacted support I'm just wondering if anyone else had this happen.
Yes, all three of my accounts got paid out as normal.
Have you verified the identity? How was it?
izshadow
10-14-2022, 11:38 AM
A bit of a rant: the amount of guys who repeat themself is delusional. "Are you going to cum you dirty whore? " Me trying to answer .... him "Are you going to cum you dirty whore/" ..... I had guys going on like this for an hour. Every single sentence twice.
It drives me fucking insane.
I've actually snapped on these people. One guy got so mad I wasnt responding, yet I was so I told him if he would just shut the fuck up, he would hear me. Or the ones who say I'm so quiet. I snap back and say well if you would stop talking and take a breathe, I wouldnt have to try to talk over you and be rude and disrespectful now will I? I have such a love hate relationship with this work. I swear it feels like the men are just getting stupider.
Victoria_Gray
10-17-2022, 02:50 AM
I've actually snapped on these people. One guy got so mad I wasnt responding, yet I was so I told him if he would just shut the fuck up, he would hear me. Or the ones who say I'm so quiet. I snap back and say well if you would stop talking and take a breathe, I wouldnt have to try to talk over you and be rude and disrespectful now will I? I have such a love hate relationship with this work. I swear it feels like the men are just getting stupider.
I've never had anyone complain for my just letting them talk. Sometimes they get huffy when I contribute though, they just want to get all this shit off their chest or whatever.
Angela888
10-17-2022, 07:26 AM
Is anyone here in the U.K.? I’m wondering about payment I’m worried about cheques , I emailed NF but not heard anything back, so
Old school sending bloody cheques!! Do ladies from U.K. get paid ok? X
chocbbwdoll
10-18-2022, 12:24 PM
Yea, I get those too...a lot. I am going to take a moment to apologize for all the sexual racism I partake in. Sorry all...
I recently made a new profile and her niche is BBC. A slender white girl who is into BBC is a real moneymaker. It's funny because I am a black woman myself so I really feel like I'm playing a character. An actress! Where's my emmy? ;) lol
izshadow
10-19-2022, 11:42 AM
How are you guys doing over here on cam? I havent logged in forever on the cam side cause I hate Skype and all the guys wanting free chat. Yes I ignore but it still drives me mad haha. SM is so dead, I'm thinking I may have to just suck it up and move myself to available.
ledaisonline
10-19-2022, 06:19 PM
Has anyone else been experiencing dropped calls? It's happened to me two nights in a row by only after 8pm?? Super fucking weird and annoying
MaryElizabeth
10-23-2022, 07:51 AM
I set a new one day earnings low yesterday - 3$ It happens, it does unnerve a bit...
Today, back to normal. I bit of that these days, hot and cold.
chocbbwdoll
10-24-2022, 09:34 AM
How are you guys doing over here on cam? I havent logged in forever on the cam side cause I hate Skype and all the guys wanting free chat. Yes I ignore but it still drives me mad haha. SM is so dead, I'm thinking I may have to just suck it up and move myself to available.
I am available for cam basically 24/7 and I bid all day....haven't had a cam call in weeks. I have great feedback and I'm at $3.99/minute, maybe that's it?
Not sure but it's been slow for camming on NF for me.
takeyourego
10-24-2022, 07:30 PM
Seeking someone to create an NF layout for me. Willing to pay six times for six different layouts.
Victoria_Gray
10-25-2022, 01:41 AM
I set a new one day earnings low yesterday - 3$ It happens, it does unnerve a bit...
Today, back to normal. I bit of that these days, hot and cold.
Glad it's not just me.
goddessgalore
10-27-2022, 10:09 AM
Hello. So I have a chat regular who always closes his account whenever he logs off, so we often miss each other by mins (I don't have a schedule as it's not my main site). I was thinking to create a Goodie for sexting and include my Skype in it, this way we coordinate more easily. He says he'd like to chat for 6-8 hours a week, so I wonder, first off, how much would you charge for something like this? 2nd, is it allowed? He'd buy the Goodie each week on NF, so it's not poaching I don't think. It's just more streamlined on my end.
grneyesnfl
10-27-2022, 10:55 AM
I was thinking to create a Goodie for sexting and include my Skype in it, this way we coordinate more easily. He says he'd like to chat for 6-8 hours a week, so I wonder, first off, how much would you charge for something like this? 2nd, is it allowed?
That is not allowed. All chatting must be done through the NF chat feature. The biggest reason is this: Let's say you sold a 30 minute chat session on Skype for $30. The customer pays the $30. NF has no way of knowing if you ever delivered the session and how long you stayed on chat with him. He could contact NF and say you never gave him a session. Or, he could say you only gave him 10 minutes instead of 30. That's also why NF doesn't allow calls and cam sessions (via Skype) to be paid for with a tribute. It has to go through the NF phone system to keep track of the time.
goddessgalore
10-27-2022, 11:40 AM
That is not allowed. All chatting must be done through the NF chat feature. The biggest reason is this: Let's say you sold a 30 minute chat session on Skype for $30. The customer pays the $30. NF has no way of knowing if you ever delivered the session and how long you stayed on chat with him. He could contact NF and say you never gave him a session. Or, he could say you only gave him 10 minutes instead of 30. That's also why NF doesn't allow calls and cam sessions (via Skype) to be paid for with a tribute. It has to go through the NF phone system to keep track of the time.
Ahhhhh. Ok. Yeah. That all makes sense. Thank you for this.
Procrasturbator
10-27-2022, 01:41 PM
Hello. So I have a chat regular who always closes his account whenever he logs off, so we often miss each other by mins (I don't have a schedule as it's not my main site). I was thinking to create a Goodie for sexting and include my Skype in it, this way we coordinate more easily. He says he'd like to chat for 6-8 hours a week, so I wonder, first off, how much would you charge for something like this? 2nd, is it allowed? He'd buy the Goodie each week on NF, so it's not poaching I don't think. It's just more streamlined on my end.
You can't sell blocks of time like that, but you can sell him your Skype name (or just send it over chat) so he can add you and see there that you're online, and then chat you through Niteflirt. My clients often contact me before I turn my lines on when they see me come online on Skype. If he wants to pay for time instead of by the message, you could make a line for him to call and let it run in the background while you message on Skype (just be sure to put it on speaker so you'll know if the call ends.) I don't know if this is explicitly allowed but I don't see how it would be any different than phone with cam with a guy who wants you to type instead of talk out loud, and Niteflirt would have a record of the call length.
As for how much I would charge for that: without pics, I'd charge the same as phone, and with pics I'd charge the same as cam, since it would keep you on "busy" and unavailable for other calls.
MaryElizabeth
10-27-2022, 08:42 PM
For the international gals:
https://forum.niteflirt.com/t/new-updates/95299
erin
New Updates!
We’ve just made a few changes to NF, so I wanted to pop in to give you a briefing:
Redesign: We’ve toned down the white background and added in more NF purple based on the feedback we received.
Payout: MassPay 9 is now available to all Flirts! We’ve recently partnered with MassPay to provide electronic payouts for our international Flirts – NO MORE CHECKS!!! MassPay allows you to be paid out in a variety of ways in your own currency and is a great alternative to paper checks for our international Flirts. While Niteflirt doesn’t charge you to use MassPay, there is a fee associated with transferring your money from MassPay to your financial institution. Check out the Help Center 6 for more details.
My Customers: We’ve made a few small changes to My Customers based on your feedback! You can no longer delete customers from My Customers. We have had many reports of people deleting customers, and entire lists, in error. And when you delete a customer, the only thing it does is prevent you from contacting them – they can still contact you. So, we’ve made this change to prevent future deletion errors. To prevent customers from contacting you, assigning them to the Blocked list is the best practice. For customers with whom you no longer want to contact, create and assign them to a new Customer List.
We have also made some changes to how you assign customers to lists. Before today, it was very easy to accidentally remove a customer from a list as you assigned them to a new one. Now, you have to explicitly remove a customer from a list.
We have more changes coming, so stay tuned!
Strawberryblonde
10-28-2022, 01:48 AM
Might be worth checking the posts on the SM thread re Mass Pay.
ep2002
10-28-2022, 08:54 AM
Hey all,
How can I get paid from NF, TTM, SinCats, etc. without a US checking account?
Thanks
SuperPookie
10-29-2022, 01:18 PM
Hey all,
How can I get paid from NF, TTM, SinCats, etc. without a US checking account?
Thanks
SinCats offers PayPal and check
NiteFlirt has check & evidently now MassPay but there is currently issues with their international payments.
seashell
10-29-2022, 03:10 PM
Dunno if this has been mentioned yet, but if the white background is giving you migraines like it is me, you can download an extension called Dark Reader. It makes the background black on websites. Saw this in the NF community forum :)
Victoria_Gray
10-30-2022, 10:18 PM
SinCats offers PayPal and check
NiteFlirt has check & evidently now MassPay but there is currently issues with their international payments.
What are the issues with the international payments?
I'll never forget when the guy at the bank asked me what 'NF services' was, all suspicious... I wanted to say, "you know, worm." but just laughed.
SuperPookie
10-31-2022, 11:52 AM
What are the issues with the international payments?
I'll never forget when the guy at the bank asked me what 'NF services' was, all suspicious... I wanted to say, "you know, worm." but just laughed.
Something about Masspay changing the way they paid to international accounts and with the way it is atm there is a lot of fees. I didn't really understand it but it was discussed on the Streamate thread
SuperPookie
10-31-2022, 11:53 AM
Hey all,
How can I get paid from NF, TTM, SinCats, etc. without a US checking account?
Thanks
Oh btw I believe TheDailyPayService also works with NiteFlirt but I do not know the percentage cut. As far as I know they are the only studio that does
chocbbwdoll
11-01-2022, 08:01 PM
Where can I purchase licensed model content to use for NF and TTM? redbridges, classycontent, weshootadult and similar sites are either outdated or I've seen the models be used time and time again :( you can DM me to keep it on the low if you need to
chocbbwdoll
11-01-2022, 09:56 PM
Rant: my rates on all of my profiles on NF and TTM are $2.99. Sometimes I'm tempted to lower them to $1.99 just to get more calls, where I can ask for tributes and upsell my content. I know that will attract the cheapos and pedos and others but I'm leaving the U.S. for grad school next fall and need as much $$$ as I can get
I don't know what to do at this point. It crossed my mind to create a wordpress site and blog and have links to my Niteflirt profiles on there but would guys recognize my voice if they were to call in and listen to the greetings on multiple profiles. Like if my blog was for "the filthiest flirts"? Idk where to go with this but I want to drive traffic to my NF profiles as much as I can so I can bid less
ep2002
11-04-2022, 06:23 PM
For the international gals:
https://forum.niteflirt.com/t/new-updates/95299
erin
New Updates!
We’ve just made a few changes to NF, so I wanted to pop in to give you a briefing:
Redesign: We’ve toned down the white background and added in more NF purple based on the feedback we received.
Payout: MassPay 9 is now available to all Flirts! We’ve recently partnered with MassPay to provide electronic payouts for our international Flirts – NO MORE CHECKS!!! MassPay allows you to be paid out in a variety of ways in your own currency and is a great alternative to paper checks for our international Flirts. While Niteflirt doesn’t charge you to use MassPay, there is a fee associated with transferring your money from MassPay to your financial institution. Check out the Help Center 6 for more details.
My Customers: We’ve made a few small changes to My Customers based on your feedback! You can no longer delete customers from My Customers. We have had many reports of people deleting customers, and entire lists, in error. And when you delete a customer, the only thing it does is prevent you from contacting them – they can still contact you. So, we’ve made this change to prevent future deletion errors. To prevent customers from contacting you, assigning them to the Blocked list is the best practice. For customers with whom you no longer want to contact, create and assign them to a new Customer List.
We have also made some changes to how you assign customers to lists. Before today, it was very easy to accidentally remove a customer from a list as you assigned them to a new one. Now, you have to explicitly remove a customer from a list.
We have more changes coming, so stay tuned!
Interesting how all the sites are now going to Mass Payments. Boleyn literally just did that.
SinCats offers PayPal and check
NiteFlirt has check & evidently now MassPay but there is currently issues with their international payments.
Yeh I'm not international per say, but my bank account just got closed down & it looks like the bigger banks are going to be closing down people who aren't RICH b/c I just called HSBC & was just SHOCKED that they only offer their premier account now. Min. $75k or $50 fees. I HATE evil owned banks.
What are the issues with the international payments?
I'll never forget when the guy at the bank asked me what 'NF services' was, all suspicious... I wanted to say, "you know, worm." but just laughed.
Worm meaning you wanted to call him a pathetic worm? I don't understand.
I can't stand these zombies who believe that a bank is righteous & we are the bad guys if they see something & report it & we get into trouble. It's one thing to know the bank you are working for is evil & still work there, it's another to blame the customer with NO proof they are doing anything wrong. sigh
ep2002
11-04-2022, 06:29 PM
Who here is an expert when it comes to mics.
I want to record things & my headset creaks & you can hear the noises in the recording (sigh).
I bought a cheaper mic on Amazon b/c the reviews were great for the most part (I've come to realize most reviews on Amazon are all lies) & I would have to hold it in my hand to record to make it sound loud & raise my voice which I don't want to do, but I think we got that solved, but it doesn't sound full bodied or like it's in stereo. :(
I know most of you use Yeti, but I was told it's the same type of mic as this cheaper one (condenser) or something where you have to talk loudly.
There's no way I can talk loudly unless I'm yelling & I don't want to yell or raise my voice, I just want to talk normally.
Thanks
seashell
11-04-2022, 07:28 PM
Who here is an expert when it comes to mics.
I want to record things & my headset creaks & you can hear the noises in the recording (sigh).
I bought a cheaper mic on Amazon b/c the reviews were great for the most part (I've come to realize most reviews on Amazon are all lies) & I would have to hold it in my hand to record to make it sound loud & raise my voice which I don't want to do, but I think we got that solved, but it doesn't sound full bodied or like it's in stereo. :(
I know most of you use Yeti, but I was told it's the same type of mic as this cheaper one (condenser) or something where you have to talk loudly.
There's no way I can talk loudly unless I'm yelling & I don't want to yell or raise my voice, I just want to talk normally.
Thanks
I use a Yeti, and you can whisper or talk normally. I've used it for years, often for whispery ASMR stuff, for Skype shows, streaming, and recording audio clips & videos. No complaints. If you're doing recordings, you can always adjust the volume in post-production on to make it louder. I use Audacity or iMovie, and it's super easy to do!
The best setup is to have a boom arm, where you can put it closer to your face, so that it's not several feet away from you. If you're whispering, then yeah, it's gonna have to be close. But with regular talking, people have always been able to hear me fine.
HexCode
11-04-2022, 08:15 PM
Hi everyone!
I'm new to this forum and also new to sex work. I recently made a niteflirt account to help pay off some of my college debt. I compiled a bunch of racy selfies, edited my listings with HTML and graphics to make it look pretty, but I haven't had a single click on my listings yet. I kept refreshing the page to check my $ balance and it remained exactly the same with no deductions from clicks. I bid 41 cents for both my listings which put me at the very top of page 3, and I'm wondering if I'm doing this wrong? Should I bid higher to get on page 1 or page 2? I'm charging $1.60 per minute now, but maybe that's too high and I should lower it?
What should I have as my profile pic that would draw in customers to click on my listing? A close up of my boobs in a bra or something like that? My listings are in the submissive women categories. I could really use some tips from the experienced flirts here. It would be much appreciated, thank you!
seashell
11-04-2022, 09:18 PM
Hi everyone!
I'm new to this forum and also new to sex work. I recently made a niteflirt account to help pay off some of my college debt. I compiled a bunch of racy selfies, edited my listings with HTML and graphics to make it look pretty, but I haven't had a single click on my listings yet. I kept refreshing the page to check my $ balance and it remained exactly the same with no deductions from clicks. I bid 41 cents for both my listings which put me at the very top of page 3, and I'm wondering if I'm doing this wrong? Should I bid higher to get on page 1 or page 2? I'm charging $1.60 per minute now, but maybe that's too high and I should lower it?
What should I have as my profile pic that would draw in customers to click on my listing? A close up of my boobs in a bra or something like that? My listings are in the submissive women categories. I could really use some tips from the experienced flirts here. It would be much appreciated, thank you!
Don't lower it! I'd suggest $1.99 at the bare minimum, even if you're new. A basic sexy profile pic that shows your assets, is enough. It might sound obvious, but it's worthwhile to look at other flirts' listings that have lots of 5 star reviews, and see what they're doing.
Being on page 1 or 2 gets you a lot of clicks, but it won't necessarily translate to calls. Page 3 or later is OK.
I'd suggest making a free or $1 voice recording sample, and link it on your profile. This will help bring in new customers, and it's especially helpful if you have no reviews yet.
Also, making some paid content ("goody bags") will help you get exposure on the site, too. You can do voice recordings, photo sets, videos, etc. If people add you to their favorites, you can message them to say hello, send a link to your voice sample, and a sexy pic or a link to your content.
As a noob, it's good to stay available as often as you can.
ep2002
11-04-2022, 09:18 PM
I use a Yeti, and you can whisper or talk normally. I've used it for years, often for whispery ASMR stuff, for Skype shows, streaming, and recording audio clips & videos. No complaints. If you're doing recordings, you can always adjust the volume in post-production on to make it louder. I use Audacity or iMovie, and it's super easy to do!
The best setup is to have a boom arm, where you can put it closer to your face, so that it's not several feet away from you. If you're whispering, then yeah, it's gonna have to be close. But with regular talking, people have always been able to hear me fine.
Thanks
Are there different types of Yetis? Which one did you get & which arm?
I don't whisper, but I'm not talking very loudly. Who wants to do that when doing sex talk? LOL
iMovie is only for MACs, right?
Audacity is so complicated I've always avoided it.
Thanks again :)
seashell
11-04-2022, 09:25 PM
Thanks
Are there different types of Yetis? Which one did you get & which arm?
I don't whisper, but I'm not talking very loudly. Who wants to do that when doing sex talk? LOL
iMovie is only for MACs, right?
Audacity is so complicated I've always avoided it.
Thanks again :)
Mine is an old Blue Yeti from like 5 years ago, I think they've come out with newer models, but the older ones are just fine. This is the boom arm from amazon -- there are different kinds, some that stand up on their own, but this one attaches to a desk.
https://a.co/d/ec1jy5g
ep2002
11-04-2022, 09:35 PM
Mine is an old Blue Yeti from like 5 years ago, I think they've come out with newer models, but the older ones are just fine. This is the boom arm from amazon -- there are different kinds, some that stand up on their own, but this one attaches to a desk.
https://a.co/d/ec1jy5g
Yeh I have no room on this desk & the thickness of the desktop is very thick.
Thanks :)
HexCode
11-04-2022, 11:26 PM
Don't lower it! I'd suggest $1.99 at the bare minimum, even if you're new. A basic sexy profile pic that shows your assets, is enough. It might sound obvious, but it's worthwhile to look at other flirts' listings that have lots of 5 star reviews, and see what they're doing.
Being on page 1 or 2 gets you a lot of clicks, but it won't necessarily translate to calls. Page 3 or later is OK.
I'd suggest making a free or $1 voice recording sample, and link it on your profile. This will help bring in new customers, and it's especially helpful if you have no reviews yet.
Also, making some paid content ("goody bags") will help you get exposure on the site, too. You can do voice recordings, photo sets, videos, etc. If people add you to their favorites, you can message them to say hello, send a link to your voice sample, and a sexy pic or a link to your content.
As a noob, it's good to stay available as often as you can.
Thank you!!!! I will do your suggestions!
I haven't figured out the goody bag system yet, but I'd like to do it. I have a set of 4 pictures of my bare boobs in various angles, but I'm not sure how much to charge for a goody bag of 4 pics. What's a reasonable price? I checked different listings of other Flirts to see what they're charging but their prices are wildly different from each other. Some flirts are selling 10 pics for $3 and other flirts are selling 6 pics for $10. Same goes for audio recordings... I'm a bit lost how much to charge for my content.
As far as looking at 5 star Flirt listings for ideas, I haven't noticed a pattern. Some 5 star Flirts with hundreds of reviews had nothing but text on their listings and no photos of themselves. And then other 5 star Flirts had listings full of their pictures and fancy HTML. It seems like they all have their own unique formula for their success.
Another question: I know you're not allowed to call a customer "daddy" because it's against the NF rules, but is "sugar daddy" also banned? I wanted to do an audio recording where I say those words, but I won't say it if that's also banned.
Kara Brooke
11-06-2022, 03:47 PM
How long did it take for the daily pay option to start paying, a d did you get a lump of what was owed?
MsMeta
11-06-2022, 04:46 PM
It's been so slow for me the past few months. I thought it would pick up in the fall but it hasn't and I'm making half of what I was a year ago. I have three characters right now, different niches so I have all bases covered, and I send out something for each of them once or twice a week (pics, audio, games, etc). Out of a couple thousand customers I'll sell only one or two! Hardly any chats, maybe a few phone calls a day. I do bid and I'm roughly in the same place I always am. I've changed up my profile photos but not the listings, I may hire someone to redo them because I've had the same ones for about a year.
I work 7 days a week and I'm only not logged in when I sleep. I do promote on social media but I don't seem to get much traffic from that. Any ideas on how to get things moving? I thought about starting another account a few months ago but I couldn't make the investment of buying new pics (I don't use my own). I stopped going to the forums on NF because I'd read the posts about someone having the best week ever and I would just cry because I don't know what I'm doing wrong. A lot of people work on other sites too I know but I think they're all on cam or use their own photos and I do not. NF is my main income and I've done so well with it the past few years, I do have a couple vanilla side hustles and I've been leaning into them more but I know I'm good at NF and I'm just so frustrated.
Victoria_Gray
11-06-2022, 08:53 PM
Worm meaning you wanted to call him a pathetic worm? I don't understand.
I can't stand these zombies who believe that a bank is righteous & we are the bad guys if they see something & report it & we get into trouble. It's one thing to know the bank you are working for is evil & still work there, it's another to blame the customer with NO proof they are doing anything wrong. sigh
It was a FemDom reference - as the site is mostly catering to fetish/BDSM/FemDom, I was like... well how would he know what it was if he wasn't a sub?
Yes - I think people take their jobs too seriously. If you died tomorrow, you boss would replace you in a moment. People deprive too much identity, community, and meaning from their work but that's a problem with modern capitalism and the erosion of community, spirituality, etc. that is pretty far outside the scope of this forum somehow. ;D
Victoria_Gray
11-06-2022, 08:56 PM
It's been so slow for me the past few months. I thought it would pick up in the fall but it hasn't and I'm making half of what I was a year ago. I have three characters right now, different niches so I have all bases covered, and I send out something for each of them once or twice a week (pics, audio, games, etc). Out of a couple thousand customers I'll sell only one or two! Hardly any chats, maybe a few phone calls a day. I do bid and I'm roughly in the same place I always am. I've changed up my profile photos but not the listings, I may hire someone to redo them because I've had the same ones for about a year.
I work 7 days a week and I'm only not logged in when I sleep. I do promote on social media but I don't seem to get much traffic from that. Any ideas on how to get things moving? I thought about starting another account a few months ago but I couldn't make the investment of buying new pics (I don't use my own). I stopped going to the forums on NF because I'd read the posts about someone having the best week ever and I would just cry because I don't know what I'm doing wrong. A lot of people work on other sites too I know but I think they're all on cam or use their own photos and I do not. NF is my main income and I've done so well with it the past few years, I do have a couple vanilla side hustles and I've been leaning into them more but I know I'm good at NF and I'm just so frustrated.
Cry. A lot. Get all those shitty feelings out. They need to come out and shouldn't be suppressed - it sucks that your hard work isn't getting you anywhere and you are putting in the hard yards. WTF!?
Then try to take a step back - if the problem isn't hard work, which you're putting a lot in, what is it? Do you need to work smarter? Diversify? Market yourself differently? What can you control here to improve your chances of success? Make a plan and do that thing. Best of luck and please keep us updated.
MaryElizabeth
11-07-2022, 10:11 AM
I have three characters right now, different niches so I have all bases covered.....I thought about starting another account a few months ago...
What does this mean? Do you have 3 different kinks / fetishes under the same account ?
When a guy clicks around your account does he find 3 different interests or do you have them separated in different accounts?
We lie , they lie, its a game we are all playing. But if you have one listing for being a hotwife and another for being foot fetish material it throws guys off. Don't have too many different things going on in one account, you can have variations of a kink but they should mostly be the same. So thats "A".
For "B" If you are get few / no calls your listings are bad and you need to rework them. You should be regularly getting calls from 'new' callers who are 'checking you out' , if you are not getting that your listings are not creating new interest, and you don't have enough of them and maybe you have them bunched up which guys don't like, at least lie in the way that appeals to guys. You need to do a lot of work on your listings. I get a calls and the guy hangs up after 30 seconds, my voice, approach doesn't work for him and he hangs up, some guys want what I don't have, just how it is. You SHOULD be getting those calls, it shows guys are testing you out.
"C" And 3 characters having "all bases covered" is just crazy talk, really, that's bananas. There are sooooo many different things that excites guys its sometimes bewildering. There are the unmoveable ones, even I get foot fetish guys and I don't advertise for it, but new interests emerge, ass licking was never a thing but in the last year and whatever it has taken off, probably because it is in porn. And sometimes I go am looking around NF and bump into a listing with like, thousands of stars, 4.99 a minute for a kink I don't even understand and think "Really????"
I am now running 3 accounts with a total of 13 different listings. Each listing is related, there is not a lot of range, but they are in different categories and are a bit tuned to that category. I don't do the copy / paste and make totally different ones, I write ok and think that guys appreciate the effort if you put some imagination out there. And I have an account doing nothing because I have to rework it because I never got a kink to work for me, I'm not a dominatrix, I don't have it in me to be mean and yell. There is money in that one but I can't make it work for me. I like being sweet, and I drip sugar in guys ears and it works for me.
The lockdown / covid was wildly lucrative and it was a lot easier to make money. There is still plenty of money out there, if you are going bust the worst thing you can do is sit still. Listings get customers in the door for a trial, being entertaining keeps them around / coming back and makes you money. Repeat callers is the route to real money.
Sounds to me like your listings need a bunch of work and you need more of them. Just because you made money in the covid doesn't mean you will make money now. In the lockdowns there were thousands of women who signed up for cam work / phone sex and as maybe the economy tightens up many of them will move on to other things.
Stay safe.
sarabimaraj
11-08-2022, 05:23 AM
What does this mean? Do you have 3 different kinks / fetishes under the same account ?
When a guy clicks around your account does he find 3 different interests or do you have them separated in different accounts?
She said she has three characters so she probably has three different accounts she signs into and each character offers a different fetish to cover all bases and attract more customers. I do the same.