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Homewrecker
12-26-2022, 02:52 AM
I had a problem with the face scan when I joined as well. What I did to fix it was contact the NF support team. I included my photo ID in the message I sent their support team and that seemed to work. But it might take the support team some time to reply to your message during the holidays.
Best of luck.
Thank you I'll send them my ID and see what they say
chocbbwdoll
12-29-2022, 07:03 PM
Hello ladies I am not new here, but it is my first time posting. I have a question can someone tell me what wallet rinsing is ? and how exactly to do? it I’ve been getting a lot of requests lately and every time I get hung up on it’s because I have no idea what I’m doing and I can’t find anything about it on the web. I do already know the basics of fandom I am just stuck on this one thing! Anything helps, thanks in advance
Wallet rinsing is basically draining your finsub for cash. If they are into name calling i will be like send me $20 for being such a tiny dick loser or just simply "send" and they'll send more money. I prefer to play games though like spin the wheel and human ATM (where they send a prompt like they are an ATM machine and I choose to make withdrawals)
LaurenAus
12-31-2022, 12:03 PM
Hey everyone, I got an email from a customer saying they want to be taken off my mailing list. I tried searching for how to do this but the only option seems to be to block the customer? Is that accurate?
Spemily
12-31-2022, 10:52 PM
Hey everyone, I got an email from a customer saying they want to be taken off my mailing list. I tried searching for how to do this but the only option seems to be to block the customer? Is that accurate?
If you use customer lists, you can simply make a list called "No email" (or whatever) and put them on that list (and only that list). Then, when you send out mass emails, you send it to all your other customer lists and not that one. I have several lists that don't receive mail, including one for flirts, one for customers who have requested to not receive mass mail and customers that I don't want to send mail to (because, for instance, they use every email as an opportunity to try and chat me up for free).
LaurenAus
01-01-2023, 12:55 PM
Excellent, thank you!! :)
MaryElizabeth
01-06-2023, 05:57 PM
The uncomfortable moment when you realize an older, long time caller takes a marked turn into cognitive decline.....ug, 2 of those in the last month.
Ladybuggie
01-07-2023, 04:39 AM
The uncomfortable moment when you realize an older, long time caller takes a marked turn into cognitive decline.....ug, 2 of those in the last month.
Bless them and bless you 💔
It'll happen to most of us so all one can do is be kind and one day expect the same really, but it does suck when a little everyday thing suddenly reminds you of the passage of time, ageing and the nature of life! (speaking with my bereavement counsellor hat on instead of the sw one on just for one second, hope it's OK! 😉)
I'm sure that now more than ever they appreciate having you to be playful with, without fear of judgement or ridicule, so even though it can be awkward, you're doing a good thing while getting paid for it! Xx
Victoria_Gray
01-08-2023, 04:53 PM
I'm sure that now more than ever they appreciate having you to be playful with, without fear of judgement or ridicule, so even though it can be awkward, you're doing a good thing while getting paid for it! Xx
I couldn't have put it better. Being a bereavement councilor must give you good perspectives, as well as being a difficult job.
Susperia
01-11-2023, 05:45 PM
Anyone ever have a caller get obsessed with them and want to call everyday and talk for an hour? It was cool at first and now its getting annoying.
laurielegs
01-11-2023, 06:13 PM
Anyone ever have a caller get obsessed with them and want to call everyday and talk for an hour? It was cool at first and now its getting annoying.
I either block or I raise my price to make it worth it. It's way less annoying when I'm making more money. Sometimes even then it's not worth it though, have to decide that for yourself.
MaryElizabeth
01-11-2023, 10:46 PM
Anyone ever have a caller get obsessed with them and want to call everyday and talk for an hour? It was cool at first and now its getting annoying.
Are you doing this job to make money or not? Soon he will move on and call another flirt for that hour every day. When he leaves, you will mi$$ him, rake what you can.
Growlerpussy
01-11-2023, 10:49 PM
Anyone ever have a caller get obsessed with them and want to call everyday and talk for an hour? It was cool at first and now its getting annoying.
Wait till they send a chat message the SECOND you come online. Every single time. Some kind of stalking. I had some, but that's when you decide if you want the money or a messed up head.
You can tell them in a friendly manner to back a little off. Some are offended and block, others send a nice tribute and tell you how sorry they are and back off for a day or 2 before they start the same game again.
izshadow
01-11-2023, 11:38 PM
Are you doing this job to make money or not? Soon he will move on and call another flirt for that hour every day. When he leaves, you will mi$$ him, rake what you can.
I would give anything for that type of client. I go days, heck one profile went a full week with not even one call.
Susperia
01-12-2023, 09:06 AM
Thanks for the advice ladies, I think I'm gonna jack up my price and see what happens. I'm at the point where I am probably gonna tell him to back off a bit its getting too much for me. I love the money, but fuck, its not worth the mental toll its taking. I like it when they cum and then leave, this guy cums and wants to talk and talk and talk and talk and talk...ugh.
Hoetales
01-12-2023, 06:04 PM
Send him to me if you don’t want him shit
Victoria_Gray
01-12-2023, 09:14 PM
Does anyone have an email list? I was told to start one so I did, now I have a bunch of people on it and want to move to emailoctopus after hearing they're more SWer friendly. Anyone use them? Any advice is appreciated.
Khemistry
01-13-2023, 01:50 AM
Rant: I just came off a call and all I almost knock everything over! Omg!!! Idk who told me to sign up under submissive or wtf I was thinking but tonight did it for me! This might just be the last. I'm beyond grateful for the money I've been getting but I'm burnt outt!!! This particular customer, i make between $100-200 everything he calls, atlest 3 times weekly. but I have to gag, while moan samething!!pretend I'm sucking 20 dick while and "orgasm" every 3 second! While shouting ontop of my lungs to wake my neighbors! Madness! I kept telling myself I dont have what it takes to be a Dom or how to go about but this is it! I'm definitely gon learn right now! Madness! I could cry rn to how miserable and emotional I'm feeling.
redvelvette
01-13-2023, 02:49 AM
Rant: I just came off a call and all I almost knock everything over! Omg!!! Idk who told me to sign up under submissive or wtf I was thinking but tonight did it for me! This might just be the last. I'm beyond grateful for the money I've been getting but I'm burnt outt!!! This particular customer, i make between $100-200 everything he calls, atlest 3 times weekly. but I have to gag, while moan samething!!pretend I'm sucking 20 dick while and "orgasm" every 3 second! While shouting ontop of my lungs to wake my neighbors! Madness! I kept telling myself I dont have what it takes to be a Dom or how to go about but this is it! I'm definitely gon learn right now! Madness! I could cry rn to how miserable and emotional I'm feeling.
It's so funny that I'm reading this right now because I had the same experience on Streamate tonight and decided to block the guy even though he spends. He does the same thing though! First he's like you have to be quiet because my roommate is home, then he's telling me to dp but then says he wants anal & bj at the same time instead. When I ask "you want me to switch?" he says no, just keep the dp and talk about how much you love anal & bj at the same time. He wants bigger toys but doesn't want me to go get them. He wants me to say degrading things and be really "fierce", and then keeps telling me to "take it up a notch", but not too loud since his roommate is home. Like, make up your mind honey, I'm not a 6 armed robot with a volume dial. I think guys like this are just mad that we aren't 6 armed robots with 100 holes to fuck. lol I thought it would be easier being told what to do than thinking up tasks for them, but I'm no so sure about that now.
SapphireXO
01-13-2023, 07:04 AM
It's a paid service but look into YNOTmail.
Khemistry
01-13-2023, 08:23 AM
I'm burnt out! Beyond drained honestly! Sorry you had to deal with this too. I've found my mental health declining over the past few weeks definitely not worth it.
Susperia
01-13-2023, 11:08 AM
I'm burnt out! Beyond drained honestly! Sorry you had to deal with this too. I've found my mental health declining over the past few weeks definitely not worth it.
I feel that way about cam right now, I'm gonna take some time off and gather myself, hope you can do the same. Burnout sucks, but it happens to all of us at some point.
laurielegs
01-13-2023, 11:09 AM
Rant: I just came off a call and all I almost knock everything over! Omg!!! Idk who told me to sign up under submissive or wtf I was thinking but tonight did it for me! This might just be the last. I'm beyond grateful for the money I've been getting but I'm burnt outt!!! This particular customer, i make between $100-200 everything he calls, atlest 3 times weekly. but I have to gag, while moan samething!!pretend I'm sucking 20 dick while and "orgasm" every 3 second! While shouting ontop of my lungs to wake my neighbors! Madness! I kept telling myself I dont have what it takes to be a Dom or how to go about but this is it! I'm definitely gon learn right now! Madness! I could cry rn to how miserable and emotional I'm feeling.
Same thing happened to me a few years ago. I realized I prefer to deal with submissive men. Most vanilla men just end up making me angry with their stupid demands. My submissive customers spend way more money on me also. You can totally try it out without giving up your current clients.
That's the cool thing about Niteflirt. You just need to use another email to make a separate profile. Make yourself a new domme profile (with higher prices to match the domme persona)! Use that anger and frustration, learn the fetishes and if you're like me you will like it so much it will end up being your main income.
Hoetales
01-13-2023, 08:24 PM
What’s your income like on nf?
Khemistry
01-13-2023, 11:47 PM
This is the goal. I know its a learning process and might be harder for me since I sound ridiculous when humiliating but definitely spending these coming days learning what I can.
laurielegs
01-14-2023, 10:28 AM
This is the goal. I know its a learning process and might be harder for me since I sound ridiculous when humiliating but definitely spending these coming days learning what I can.
Your callers will train you on different fetishes. Use them to learn more. I ask questions like "Tell me about yourself. Do you have any fetishes. What turns you on?" and they will tell you all the details you need to know.
laurielegs
01-14-2023, 10:30 AM
What’s your income like on nf?
Not sure if you were asking me, but if I focus on Niteflirt I can usually pull at least a couple hundred a day, sometimes more and sometimes less. Here lately I've been working more on Loyalfans, but I always upload any new videos I make to my goodies on Niteflirt and send out a preview to my mailing list which results in sales.
Victoria_Gray
01-15-2023, 09:10 PM
It's a paid service but look into YNOTmail.
Thanks for the tip! :)
sarabimaraj
01-16-2023, 10:57 AM
Thanks for the tip! :)
I use https://www.gopostr.com/ and the basic package is free.
izshadow
01-16-2023, 09:41 PM
All 6 of my NF accounts were terminated a few hours ago and they won't explain why. Their TOS says that they don't have to provide reason or notice. I will get my last pending payments but my relationship with them is over. Sucks because I made great money with them but it's whatever. Now I have more time to focus on creating audio clips and crossposting them on other sites and also working on my onlyfans, camming and escorting career. I kind of missed it even though it's very dangerous and it's the slow season. I have a professional photoshoot scheduled next week. When life give you lemons, right?
Did you talk about anything illegal? If you broke the TOS, that would be why. They don't give warnings for that.
LaurenAus
01-17-2023, 08:01 AM
It’s a little worrisome that they would randomly ban like that. I’ve seen a couple posts like this in the Reddit cam girl problems subforum as well
chocbbwdoll
01-17-2023, 09:55 AM
It’s a little worrisome that they would randomly ban like that. I’ve seen a couple posts like this in the Reddit cam girl problems subforum as well
Yeah I've seen it for streammates a lot
Smurfette
01-17-2023, 04:11 PM
Wow that's scary. I'm so sorry! I'd be freaking out if that happened to me.
chocbbwdoll
01-17-2023, 04:26 PM
Wow that's scary. I'm so sorry! I'd be freaking out if that happened to me.
I am! Yesterday I cried on and off all day and drank a little bit. It's like 90% of my income and the new semester started today. So stress on top of stress.
My goal is to make the same amount selling audio clips and other content so I'm going to focus on that. By summer time I want to have a steady income selling my audios and not have to take calls on TTM or sincats or any PSO sites. Just audios, pic sets and custom vids. That was my long term goal since last year but when life gives you lemons, you make limencello
LaurenAus
01-17-2023, 06:25 PM
I am! Yesterday I cried on and off all day and drank a little bit. It's like 90% of my income and the new semester started today. So stress on top of stress.
My goal is to make the same amount selling audio clips and other content so I'm going to focus on that. By summer time I want to have a steady income selling my audios and not have to take calls on TTM or sincats or any PSO sites. Just audios, pic sets and custom vids. That was my long term goal since last year but when life gives you lemons, you make limencello
Did they ever respond why? I can't verify this but I read on a forum that there's apparently a glitch right now related to a new tool NF added that catches TOS words. It's creating some issues they weren't expecting.
Spemily
01-17-2023, 07:48 PM
It's unlikely that discussing topics that violate TOS was the problem. They don't usually take much action on that front, unless there is content (emails, goodies, uploaded files, chat messages, feedback) that shows the violation. In that case, they usually just delete the content. Banning is usually reserved criminal or financial violations. If they believe you collaborated with another user to defraud NF or a credit card company, they would ban you. If you repeatedly shared links to other adult sites where customers could pay you, or shared outside payment info, they might ban you for that, although probably not without a warning. If they have any reason to believe you solicited customers for in-person meets, they would ban you for that. Anything that costs them money and/or puts them in legal jeopardy is the kind of thing they ban people for.
The fact that you post your NF profile on your escorting ads could certainly be the issue. However, if they didn't figure that out and based the ban on something else, it could have had to with your IP address or something else that mistakenly caused them think you were the same person as someone else who was banned. Unfortunately, it's difficult to defend yourself and show they made an error when they won't tell you what the ban was for.
chocbbwdoll
01-17-2023, 07:55 PM
It's unlikely that discussing topics that violate TOS was the problem. They don't usually take much action on that front, unless there is content (emails, goodies, uploaded files, chat messages, feedback) that shows the violation. In that case, they usually just delete the content. Banning is usually reserved criminal or financial violations. If they believe you collaborated with another user to defraud NF or a credit card company, they would ban you. If you repeatedly shared links to other adult sites where customers could pay you, or shared outside payment info, they might ban you for that, although probably not without a warning. If they have any reason to believe you solicited customers for in-person meets, they would ban you for that. Anything that costs them money and/or puts them in legal jeopardy is the kind of thing they ban people for.
The fact that you post your NF profile on your escorting ads could certainly be the issue. However, if they didn't figure that out and based the ban on something else, it could have had to with your IP address or something else that mistakenly caused them think you were the same person as someone else who was banned. Unfortunately, it's difficult to defend yourself and show they made an error when they won't tell you what the ban was for.
Thank you for this infomation. Whatever the reason, there's not much I can do but keep my in-person and online stuff as seperate as possible going forward. I thought about using my LLC and business bank account to get back on NF but I think I'll pass. iWantPhone and Sextpanther have been great to me today and I want to focus on selling my audio clips.
grneyesnfl
01-18-2023, 06:52 AM
They responded with the same copy and paste answer from the initial termination email.
And I'm also on that forum and saw that response. I've been on NF for 3 years almost and am pretty familiar with TOS. It wasn't ageplay, poop, fisting or any of the taboo subjects. I did link my niteflirt profile in my escorting ads, linktree and such but I doubt it's that.
I guess I'll never know. No point in trying to figure it out since there's no way for me to get back on
I saw your post in another thread on here that you asked guys on NF to send you money for books for school. I'm just wondering if you gave them your CashApp/Venmo/PayPal instead of suggesting they send you a tribute. That would do it right there.
grneyesnfl
01-18-2023, 07:07 AM
Nope, I don't do ageplay, poop or anything like that. I block or ignore. TBH I didn't even take any calls yesterday or today. Which is why i am confused. I emailed them around 4pm and if I don't get a response by tomorrow afternoon I will email again.
You said you don't do ageplay, but in another post of yours you said you have a customer list on NF specifically for ageplay customers. If it's one thing NF is extremely harsh with (probably more than any other taboo) is anything to do with underage girls/boys.
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Smurfette
01-18-2023, 11:20 AM
Niteflirt is glitched, I can't believe they still haven't fixed it yet. I couldn't work my cam line yesterday, and still can't today, because I can't change my availability from mail only to accepts calls. Nothing happens when I click it. Also can't change rates, etc. Really annoying
MaryElizabeth
01-18-2023, 09:50 PM
Anytime I hear about someone getting banned, it nearly gives me an anxiety attack. And today one of the slowest days ever I ever had, like, hours of nothing that makes you wonder. And then a call comes in and its like a relief. I toe the lines sort well - outside of phone conversations where everything goes....stay safe all.
izshadow
01-19-2023, 09:49 AM
I’m tempted to remove my chat listings. Not only is it not a money maker for me, it’s annoying. I no longer get notifications that I have a chat, which I’m going to assume is part of the issue other companies are having with the phone carriers and why they revamped their texting services but these guys get so uppity when you don’t respond. Sorry but it shows me away from chat and I’m sleeping. I hate chat.
MaryElizabeth
01-19-2023, 04:26 PM
If you are on a computer switch to the 'account' page, if I am on the chat page, no, I don't get alerts either. But being on a page OTHER than the chat you get a 'ding' and you can switch over.
For me, chat is a money maker but everyone has to find what works for them.
I’m tempted to remove my chat listings. Not only is it not a money maker for me, it’s annoying. I no longer get notifications that I have a chat, which I’m going to assume is part of the issue other companies are having with the phone carriers and why they revamped their texting services but these guys get so uppity when you don’t respond. Sorry but it shows me away from chat and I’m sleeping. I hate chat.
LaurenAus
01-19-2023, 04:46 PM
it's been as slow as a whore swimming in molasses...
MaryElizabeth
01-19-2023, 06:53 PM
Monday was very good for me, yesterday one of my slowest ever $11, (eleven. mother. fucking. dollars.) Today is better - but still slow. Might turn into a ok-low day , we shall see. GL...
it's been as slow as a whore swimming in molasses...
Percy
01-20-2023, 02:43 AM
Does anyone know of a legit site to get model content that you pay for that is legal?? I cannot find any and I am not using my own photos.
izshadow
01-20-2023, 08:57 AM
If you are on a computer switch to the 'account' page, if I am on the chat page, no, I don't get alerts either. But being on a page OTHER than the chat you get a 'ding' and you can switch over.
For me, chat is a money maker but everyone has to find what works for them.
Unless I’m camming, I don’t have my computers turned on. I’m busy doing other things between phone calls. Or relaxing, I’m not listening to random dings coming out of the bedroom.
izshadow
01-20-2023, 08:58 AM
Does anyone know of a legit site to get model content that you pay for that is legal?? I cannot find any and I am not using my own photos.
I need this too. All the content sites I use to buy from shut down and I’m desperate for account makeovers.
justanothercamgirl
01-20-2023, 06:56 PM
Niteflirt is glitched, I can't believe they still haven't fixed it yet. I couldn't work my cam line yesterday, and still can't today, because I can't change my availability from mail only to accepts calls. Nothing happens when I click it. Also can't change rates, etc. Really annoying
I noticed that too! I honestly thought it was just a strange glitch happening to me. It is beyond annoying to know that it is happening to everyone else as well.
ep2002
01-20-2023, 10:07 PM
The uncomfortable moment when you realize an older, long time caller takes a marked turn into cognitive decline.....ug, 2 of those in the last month.
It's due to the death jab. We are all being killed off even if we haven't taken it.
I get zapped by the zombies all the time & my brain is getting worse. sigh
ep2002
01-20-2023, 10:11 PM
it's been as slow as a whore swimming in molasses...
Ditto minus the whore part LOL
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