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EricaErotica
10-02-2014, 10:18 PM
My daily goal as a performer is $200 - $250. I don't make that all on Niteflirt though. There on some days where I have done this but I don't expect that to happen every single day on Niteflirt. I have found that being on many different sites helps me achieve my daily earnings goal. :thumbsup:
Ok ladies I was just looking in the forum (I know smh) but I was curious if they were reacting to ebola being in Texas. There is a discussion of what is your goal per week. If you are not making enough to have a goal of at least $700 a week or more not saying you are going to hit that every single week but that should be your goal. EMAIL me! A $250 goal means something is just not right.
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Snowy0Star
10-04-2014, 05:50 AM
Someone just gave me a one star because his settings didnt allow him to get my camera feed the video call button was blocked off and my webcam icon was grayed out during the show with a red slash over it
he left me this review
Horrible her cam doesn't work and she gave me attitude. STAY AWAY
he said fuck you bitch and hung up on me then proceeded to harass me and insult me more on skype and me defending myself was the "attitude"
is there anyway i can get that off?
DonaDiabla
10-04-2014, 06:14 AM
Snowy, I am sorry about him leaving you one star. But I think you must talked to custom service about getting that review off. However, I am not very sure about to process. I believe I saw someone on SW talk about getting bad reviews off of Niteflirt. I hope this helps you :)
Someone just gave me a one star because his settings didnt allow him to get my camera feed the video call button was blocked off and my webcam icon was grayed out during the show with a red slash over it
he left me this review
Horrible her cam doesn't work and she gave me attitude. STAY AWAY
he said fuck you bitch and hung up on me then proceeded to harass me and insult me more on skype and me defending myself was the "attitude"
is there anyway i can get that off?
Snowy0Star
10-04-2014, 06:29 AM
I just made a request to get it off threw a support ticket. I'm just freaking out a bit because all my calls on NF are comming in thru paid clicks still even tho im tweeting my nitefirt i have the premium version of hootsuite and i have it set to tweet my phone/cam line every hour from 12 noon to 10 pm EST. Im just worried about this messing me up from getting more calls even tho i have regs who leave me reviews . Its just upsetting me because its right at the top now. I have other places i do PSO and NF isnt a "big" egg in my basket but it does suck i know it happens to everyone but this is my first 1 star review
dianecallaway
10-04-2014, 09:31 AM
I had a bad review one time and it got me more calls then any good review :) Depending on what he said they may or may not remove. I doubt it hurts you too much to be honest. If nothing else put a disclaimer on your site something like "hey guys I know skype can be moody sometimes it is a free service after all I do everything I can to make it work and most the time it is AWESOME but every once in awhile she just has to show us she's in charge dont take it personal and lets get naughty" or something light but still getting your point across that you can not control another site you can mention please check your settings before you call so we dont have issues. I have a feeling that it was a firewall like he was at work or something. Dont dwell on it and dont sweat the small stuff it will move down quickly.
*~aurora~*
10-05-2014, 03:29 AM
Okay, I'm coming back to NF! I've been signed up since 2011, but my living situation changed abruptly right after I joined, and I had no privacy to take calls, lol. I've been writing erotica (and some less interesting stuff) since then, but my stable jobs recently fell apart after Google changed its algorithms. Now that I've got my own place and no full time job, it's no big deal to take calls. I just hope I do a good job, and also that they don't reject my listing for anything minor I missed. I don't really understand the intense restrictions, but I'll try to respect them, especially in anything I write down.
Do you get in trouble for talking about things like anal sex on your listing? Or only the prohibited content? I probably need to review the rules again after some sleep. My brain feels like mush from reading the fair play stuff for so long.
Nikki_Fox
10-05-2014, 08:10 AM
it is a short list what you can not talk about on there - just be sure not to change anything once you have submitted your listing for approval - wait until after it is approved - if you make changes after it is submitted it can delay your approval time - once it is approved you can change it without waiting for approval from play fair
*~aurora~*
10-05-2014, 11:37 AM
Thank you, Nikki! I appreciate it a lot. I'm confused as to why we can't talk about some things, like "penetration while all four limbs are bound," lmao! I'm big into BDSM so that one seems almost vanilla to me. But of course I'll do my best to respect the rules, it's just funny.
I'm definitely going to try to grab some followers from fetlife, tumblr, and twitter, since it seems like marketing is absolutely essential for NF. I might supplement with another company that pays less but does more of the marketing for me-- maybe that'll be the right mix I need to make ends meet. I love how awesome everyone is here in this thread! :)
Nikki_Fox
10-05-2014, 11:58 AM
Credit card processors seem to be the biggest factor in what a site allows IMHO
Snowy0Star
10-06-2014, 08:19 AM
How do you deal with the guys that call for like 1-2 minutes? I got woken up at 5 AM this morning to a guy that spoke to me for one minute and there wasn't a one minute remaining thing as soon as we connected so i know it was something outside of him not having money. Im way too hard on guys sometimes because my issues /men but i wanna blovk them before i leave them a nasty message but i know i shouldn't. do u just leave it alone and if it happens again block him or is the best thing to just take it for what it is and have 1 minute man regular ? for me i feel like its really disrespectful of me and my time because i drop everything that im going to take the call sometimes clearing out my cam room if im logged into a site because pretty much everyone leaves when i pick up the phone if im camming and i get a call
Nikki_Fox
10-06-2014, 08:47 AM
I put a note in the pop file - 1 minute and the date - then I have a heads up next time they call - I have had guys call for 1 minute then the next time they get longer calls - maybe they are trying us out - lDK - but if they do it a second time then I assume this is their pattern - if they call again and i'm not busy i take it and give them dry to little conversation and get their dollar - if they annoy me or I'm in a mood I just go ahead and block them -- instead of logging off from your cam when you get a call - mute the audio - stand up and put cleavage or butt in camera while talking until you decide if the call is worth logging out for - that will keep their interest for a minute or two until you decide
laurielegs
10-06-2014, 08:48 AM
How do you deal with the guys that call for like 1-2 minutes? I got woken up at 5 AM this morning to a guy that spoke to me for one minute and there wasn't a one minute remaining thing as soon as we connected so i know it was something outside of him not having money. Im way too hard on guys sometimes because my issues /men but i wanna blovk them before i leave them a nasty message but i know i shouldn't. do u just leave it alone and if it happens again block him or is the best thing to just take it for what it is and have 1 minute man regular ? for me i feel like its really disrespectful of me and my time because i drop everything that im going to take the call sometimes clearing out my cam room if im logged into a site because pretty much everyone leaves when i pick up the phone if im camming and i get a call
I would give maybe 1 more chance if feeling generous and if he seemed polite. Maybe he had to leave suddenly. If he was the least bit annoying I'd block.
I usually jack up my rates if I'm going to take calls super early or super late to make it worth my time too (but usually i turn my availability off when I'm sleeping).
Snowy0Star
10-06-2014, 09:11 AM
My issue is most of the time i forget to log out before bed so i get calls at weird hours like that but because of that 1 min call i was able to be up for my foot fetish whale that hasnt called me in like 2 months and he always stays on @ LEAST 30 min. he told me that he opened up my profile and it said i was busy so they must have tired to call at the same time and 1 min man got to me first
dianecallaway
10-06-2014, 09:24 AM
I do not tolerate "one minute wonders" as we call them in my household. I look to see how much they have spent if under $10 they are GONE! If they start making it a habit they are gone. I really like the cleavage butt idea I had never thought of that. I send out a free minute every now and then which is great for business but every time you get some guy that thinks he has come up with the most awesome idea ever and thinks he is the first to do it and that is to try and get off in one min or less. I either just hang up if I am close enough to my computer to pull him up or I slow it all down and ruin his orgasm either way works for me.
chloemay
10-06-2014, 09:36 AM
My issue is most of the time i forget to log out before bed so i get calls at weird hours like that but because of that 1 min call i was able to be up for my foot fetish whale that hasnt called me in like 2 months and he always stays on @ LEAST 30 min. he told me that he opened up my profile and it said i was busy so they must have tired to call at the same time and 1 min man got to me first
That is pretty cool that it worked out for you. I made a list for Niteflirt called 'No Free Minutes' that I move the short callers too. Then, if its frequent or they annoy me I block them later, so basically what the other girls said about giving a chance. However, guys who use the free minute and hang up always get blocked.
Nikki_Fox
10-06-2014, 09:37 AM
Thats funny - the first to think of that - lol - the free minute does seem to attract those guys - it seems most of my good spenders rarely redeem the free minutes I send -
dianecallaway
10-06-2014, 12:13 PM
You dont send out the free minute for them to use the free minute. You send it out as a way to contact guys and say HEY remember me. That is why we send out emails we just dont want to send out the same email over and over. So we very the content free this or that, new movies, chatty emails, add to social media etc. Don't get caught up on the its a free min if you are advertising like you should then you are giving away a LOT more time than that.
dianecallaway
10-06-2014, 01:22 PM
Trying to find new places to advertise on and this is just frustrating Pininterest can not have adult content at ALL so I can not even promote my blog which talks about fetishes honest toy reviews ect. Instagram is pretty much phone use only. It does look like google plus let me out of the dog house so I do have that. ABout time I was only in the bad girl corner for YEARS!
BlondebombGA
10-06-2014, 02:43 PM
My situation is a bit different Snowy, as I don't have to log off cam to take calls. But I have a decent amount of 2 and 3 minute callers, and some call most times I am online so I let them stay as sometimes it can add up faster than you think. Plus I always try to push them to stay on a bit longer. ;) Now, I also started a NO FREE MIN. list for these guys, although I rarely send those out lately. Consistent 1 minute guys would def get a block though.
dianecallaway
10-06-2014, 02:52 PM
My situation is a bit different Snowy, as I don't have to log off cam to take calls. But I have a decent amount of 2 and 3 minute callers, and some call most times I am online so I let them stay as sometimes it can add up faster than you think. Plus I always try to push them to stay on a bit longer. ;) Now, I also started a NO FREE MIN. list for these guys, although I rarely send those out lately. Consistent 1 minute guys would def get a block though. Years ago they did a big study and they said the AVERAGE cam session was 3 to 5 mins I would imagine that calls run about the same. I know mine do and yes we do try to push them but it is a fine line trying to extend a call and a guy thinking you are trying to waste his time. That is not saying I do not get long calls I have had calls that last six hours which is like eating fine steak (cuz I cant not spell simple words today) for 3 solid weeks. There is such a deal as too much of a good thing.
DonaDiabla
10-06-2014, 03:42 PM
OMG Diane, I block "one minute men' as well if they spend under $10 :) Good to see other ladies doing that as well :)
I do not tolerate "one minute wonders" as we call them in my household. I look to see how much they have spent if under $10 they are GONE! If they start making it a habit they are gone. I really like the cleavage butt idea I had never thought of that. I send out a free minute every now and then which is great for business but every time you get some guy that thinks he has come up with the most awesome idea ever and thinks he is the first to do it and that is to try and get off in one min or less. I either just hang up if I am close enough to my computer to pull him up or I slow it all down and ruin his orgasm either way works for me.
DonaDiabla
10-06-2014, 03:49 PM
It is a long shot but have you tried the "new" collarspace if you are into the fetish scene. This weekend, I received a great tribute from one paypig there. I know tons of ladies do not like collarspace since there are tons of cheapos and weirdos off there. But you can find many diamonds in the ruff there as well. However, I get more paying Second Life slaves from off collarspace but I did get one paypig. That counts for something.
Trying to find new places to advertise on and this is just frustrating Pininterest can not have adult content at ALL so I can not even promote my blog which talks about fetishes honest toy reviews ect. Instagram is pretty much phone use only. It does look like google plus let me out of the dog house so I do have that. ABout time I was only in the bad girl corner for YEARS!
Nikki_Fox
10-06-2014, 04:16 PM
^^^ heavy sigh - if only me and second life got along :(
DonaDiabla
10-06-2014, 04:23 PM
It will take some time to learn Second Life, Nikki :) But hang in there :) It can be quite fruitful in the long run :)
^^^ heavy sigh - if only me and second life got along :(
Nikki_Fox
10-06-2014, 04:54 PM
Girl I gave up - I am standing somewhere with my morphing boobs not properly attached - lol - and tsani had a sky box for SW ladies to use but she quit so IDK - i would love to make money ther but I think the learning curve was a bit much
dianecallaway
10-06-2014, 05:10 PM
Girl I gave up - I am standing somewhere with my morphing boobs not properly attached - lol - and tsani had a sky box for SW ladies to use but she quit so IDK - i would love to make money ther but I think the learning curve was a bit much
Morphin boobs not properly attached now that would be a site to see ;) I dont have the patience for sites like those so dont feel bad
Snowy0Star
10-06-2014, 06:41 PM
has anyone gotten there direction deposits from daily pay from the end of the September yet? im still waiting for money that got pulled from my account September 30th and everything after that. i hate waiting for money ....
justanothercamgirl
10-06-2014, 06:51 PM
Girl I gave up - I am standing somewhere with my morphing boobs not properly attached - lol - and tsani had a sky box for SW ladies to use but she quit so IDK - i would love to make money ther but I think the learning curve was a bit much
I totally agree with this. I found the learning curve very overwhelming!
dianecallaway
10-06-2014, 06:54 PM
has anyone gotten there direction deposits from daily pay from the end of the September yet? im still waiting for money that got pulled from my account September 30th and everything after that. i hate waiting for money .... I am paid up to the 10/3 pull
dianecallaway
10-06-2014, 06:55 PM
anyone use google plus? I set up a nf exclusive one tonight have no clue how well it will work cuz you have to keep everything pretty pg but at least I can talk about fetishes and stuff
Nikki_Fox
10-06-2014, 07:02 PM
no but that sounds cool - what exactly is it
Snowy0Star
10-06-2014, 07:08 PM
I am paid up to the 10/3 pull
hmm that worries me should i contact NF ? ill give it until tomorrow that will be a full week .
dianecallaway
10-06-2014, 07:09 PM
no but that sounds cool - what exactly is it If you have a gmail account it is the social network that comes with it I am trying to figure out if there is a "tweetdeck" for google plus that allows you to set out updates so you dont have to baby sit it. You can do videos (pg of course) pictures etc. When it first came out I got kicked off cuz well frankly I didnt read the rules before I starting using it. OOOPS! Once you understand the rules it is really something we can use as long as we use your heads.
Nikki_Fox
10-06-2014, 08:14 PM
I am having an issue getting gmail to separate my ish - it keeps linking stuff together from my vanilla stuff - is there a way to separate it - it seems like a great idea but I don't need to be anymore outed than I already am
JaceyLynn
10-06-2014, 08:56 PM
I know it can be a pain, but I use 2 separate email accounts. Easier to manage and keep separate.
Nikki_Fox
10-06-2014, 09:45 PM
I have several accounts but gmal is associating all of them together -
JaceyLynn
10-06-2014, 09:53 PM
Strange, have you ever sent mail between the accounts, that could be why.
Nikki_Fox
10-06-2014, 10:40 PM
yes I have - anytime I sign out of one then go to sign in to another the box opens up and has all of the accounts listed - I have to keep deleting them - I have another weird thing with my iphone and my granddaughters ipod - she is getting my text - havent had time to go to the genius bar to get that resolved - she is on my itunes but should not be getting my text - all of this info linking/sharing is annoying
JaceyLynn
10-07-2014, 01:17 AM
Oh, I misunderstood what you meant, I have to keep deleting the google cookies to, to get rid of all the accounts. Lucky for me no one uses my work computer, only my laptop maybe. But I just researched it and the only way I can see to not have to delete the cookies all the time is this,delete all your current google.com cookies, log into your account and then log out and you get sent back to the login screen, use the x to delete the account information. Hopefully this helps. As for itunes, I no nothing about it. Hopefully someone can offer up help.
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Snowy0Star
10-07-2014, 03:38 AM
I got paid from the pulls taken out 9/30 and 10/2 during my sleep so i guess it was just taking them awhile :/
pinkpink
10-07-2014, 03:57 AM
So far with NF, I have paid more than I have earned. I don't like this. I put $10 on my account to pay for bids to get my listing up higher and got 1 two minute call. My balance went down from the clicks and I turned it off again. Grrrr.
What are the best times to turn my bids on/up and actually get calls?
justanothercamgirl
10-07-2014, 04:40 AM
What are the best times to turn my bids on/up and actually get calls?
In my uneducated opinion? Never.
I bid very low just to get my placement up a little but I don't bother doing anything else because I just end up paying through the nose when I do. :(
pinkpink
10-07-2014, 05:00 AM
In my uneducated opinion? Never.
I bid very low just to get my placement up a little but I don't bother doing anything else because I just end up paying through the nose when I do. :(
Well then. :/ Do you earn a decent amount from NF at all?
Also, you may have mentioned elsewhere, but why are you leaving camming? Are you still going to do other sex work? Just curious!
justanothercamgirl
10-07-2014, 05:08 AM
Well then. :/ Do you earn a decent amount from NF at all?
Also, you may have mentioned elsewhere, but why are you leaving camming? Are you still going to do other sex work? Just curious!
I can only really help you on how NOT make money on Niteflirt......LOL......dianecallaway is the sweetheart of a camgirl you want to talk to about how to make money on NF. :D
I will be doing other sex work, yes. Not completely sure at this time what type other than camming but probably mainly clips and phone.
Snowy0Star
10-07-2014, 05:28 AM
I can only really help you on how NOT make money on Niteflirt......LOL......dianecallaway is the sweetheart of a camgirl you want to talk to about how to make money on NF. :D
I will be doing other sex work, yes. Not completely sure at this time what type other than camming but probably mainly clips and phone.
with SM being glitch city and the fact its so PC demanding im pretty much doing the same thing MFC CB NF and another PSO place
Nikki_Fox
10-07-2014, 08:04 AM
I dont know how many listings you have but with bidding what I do is focus on the listings that require less bidding to get within the first 2 pages - just one or two listings - not all of them - i was making at least 100.00 a day there on calls - I took a 2 week hiatus and have not recovered /:O where did all my perv's go???
chloemay
10-07-2014, 02:09 PM
I dont know how many listings you have but with bidding what I do is focus on the listings that require less bidding to get within the first 2 pages - just one or two listings - not all of them - i was making at least 100.00 a day there on calls - I took a 2 week hiatus and have not recovered /:O where did all my perv's go???
Same place as mine. Was making $$ effortlessly for a while and now the past 2 weeks have sucked ass. But that happens sometimes.
As far as bidding goes, it isn't always effective. That doesn't mean give up completely, it may mean bidding 2 or 3 cents on the listings with the highest organic placement, and keeping your Niteflirt account set to 'taking calls' while you are working outher sites. When I did free chat more often, and a nf call would come in, I'd just take the call while still on free chat and move around seductively in front of the cam or whatever.
As was mentioned, most calls are on the short side. As you get to know your callers you will know who to log off for to concentrate on their longer call and who you may as well multi-task through it.
That said, my pov is that of an established NF operator who hates freechat, so my priorities are where my $$ is, mostly NF. It seems like most of the girls here are in the reverse position as they make a lot of $$ from the freechat sites and may expect that sort of a new girl bang from NF. One thing I believe is universal, is that Niteflirt is a patience game. The longer you are there the better you will do, if the effort is put in. Its not a quick money site.
dianecallaway
10-07-2014, 02:50 PM
I have NEVER bid ever! I have always made what I consider decent money off nf. I guess some of it depends on what you consider decent money. When I worked outside the home I made around $26K and I have NEVER made less than that in fact I clear a lot more than I ever did then. I think a reasonable goal per year off nf is $25 to $45 K per year not saying that is the most you can make it certainly is not but that is a good place to start. That is JUST off nf we have a number of other things we do so we make money off that too. This is your business so you have to work on it every day. I have got a LOT let me repeat that a LOT of hate mail from other flirts because of my price but my money is consistent and my phone rings consistent. That doesnt mean I do not have bad days I do! In fact I consistently have one horrible week out of every month and I cant seem to fix it but I have made it better. You have to advertise the best I have found so far is twitter, a blog, and I am trying out google plus, tumblr isnt bad either. We shoot a lot of content which helps for a couple of reasons but characters do make money too. I work a lot of hours most the time but if I want to go out to lunch, need to run errands etc I take off. I shut it off at midnight every night cuz I need some me time. :) I email my guys a LOT all kinds of stuff from selling them stuff, free min, chit chat, etc. We email cuz email works. I give away stuff when it gets slow a free pic, free min, I have even done a free movie to my high spenders or for a certain thing. I am redoing my listings so some of them have this and some of them dont so dont judge :) The biggest thing you need is a few decent pics (YOU DO NOT HAVE TO SHOW YOUR FACE) at least 400 words explaining yourself your listings your fetishes etc and a great avatar picture. Lets go over some misconceptions here first off guys want real girls, there is a market for bbw, not every guy likes big breasts, big feet do sell. Now the numbers I gave you are for my ONE character that is my personal pictures not all my characters because giving you numbers for a lot of characters when you only have one is no help at all. You should spend 2 to 4 hours a day advertising yourself in some way. I work around 80 to hours a week.
dianecallaway
10-07-2014, 03:23 PM
with SM being glitch city and the fact its so PC demanding im pretty much doing the same thing MFC CB NF and another PSO place Hun you lost me in acronyms. Who is SM? PC? MFC (I dont do my free cam at all) CB? and not sure who or what the other pso place is :) I will tell you I gave up on Rude horrible traffic, My phone site horrible site period, adult phone pal has terrible traffic. I have tried a bunch of them nf has been the most consistent in service, traffic and money. OH Naked (cam site) we made a crap load of money their first year but now I am with all the other girls I wouldnt touch that site for anything for all you camming ladies.
chloemay
10-07-2014, 04:11 PM
I have NEVER bid ever! I have always made what I consider decent money off nf. I guess some of it depends on what you consider decent money. When I worked outside the home I made around $26K and I have NEVER made less than that in fact I clear a lot more than I ever did then. I think a reasonable goal per year off nf is $25 to $45 K per year not saying that is the most you can make it certainly is not but that is a good place to start. That is JUST off nf we have a number of other things we do so we make money off that too. This is your business so you have to work on it every day. I have got a LOT let me repeat that a LOT of hate mail from other flirts because of my price but my money is consistent and my phone rings consistent. That doesnt mean I do not have bad days I do! In fact I consistently have one horrible week out of every month and I cant seem to fix it but I have made it better. You have to advertise the best I have found so far is twitter, a blog, and I am trying out google plus, tumblr isnt bad either. We shoot a lot of content which helps for a couple of reasons but characters do make money too. I work a lot of hours most the time but if I want to go out to lunch, need to run errands etc I take off. I shut it off at midnight every night cuz I need some me time. :) I email my guys a LOT all kinds of stuff from selling them stuff, free min, chit chat, etc. We email cuz email works. I give away stuff when it gets slow a free pic, free min, I have even done a free movie to my high spenders or for a certain thing. I am redoing my listings so some of them have this and some of them dont so dont judge :) The biggest thing you need is a few decent pics (YOU DO NOT HAVE TO SHOW YOUR FACE) at least 400 words explaining yourself your listings your fetishes etc and a great avatar picture. Lets go over some misconceptions here first off guys want real girls, there is a market for bbw, not every guy likes big breasts, big feet do sell. Now the numbers I gave you are for my ONE character that is my personal pictures not all my characters because giving you numbers for a lot of characters when you only have one is no help at all. You should spend 2 to 4 hours a day advertising yourself in some way. I work around 80 to hours a week.
There is a lot of good information in this post, some things that I need to do and I am a Niteflirt vet. Thanks Diane.