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annikah
03-31-2015, 06:12 AM
I was under the impression that blocked customers were not able to leave feedback. Apparently I was wrong because I blocked a really abusive, pushy guy last week, and when I logged in this morning he had left negative feedback on every one of our calls that we've done in the past few weeks.

I don't block often, but the guy was a total douche. I tolerated him for as long as I could, but he kept pressing hard for real, personal info which made me really uncomfortable. He kept saying things like "I know that's just your character answer. I want to know where you really (live, go to school, work). He also emailed me demanding that I log out until he was ready to call me so no one else would get in his way, and demanded that I send him free minutes as an apology/punishment for not being submissive enough. Because I called you Master instead of Sir? Like, seriously? GTFOH!!!

dianecallaway
03-31-2015, 06:37 PM
I was under the impression that blocked customers were not able to leave feedback. Apparently I was wrong because I blocked a really abusive, pushy guy last week, and when I logged in this morning he had left negative feedback on every one of our calls that we've done in the past few weeks.

I don't block often, but the guy was a total douche. I tolerated him for as long as I could, but he kept pressing hard for real, personal info which made me really uncomfortable. He kept saying things like "I know that's just your character answer. I want to know where you really (live, go to school, work). He also emailed me demanding that I log out until he was ready to call me so no one else would get in his way, and demanded that I send him free minutes as an apology/punishment for not being submissive enough. Because I called you Master instead of Sir? Like, seriously? GTFOH!!!

For future reference the best way to deal with these guys is straight forward. Yes that is my character name NO I would never give you my real name and it is rude of you to ask. I would never ask yours I know you have a life outside of here and I respect that. I am here to have a good time not to be harassed. I will not tell you where I live that might be something I reveal to someone I trust but like in all relationships trust is built (carrot them not now but SOON it is always SOON). If he starts getting too pushy NAIL him we dont always get what we want in life and just because you want it doesnt mean you get it sorry. This is your business not his and men like him need to understand we do what we want when we want it. Don't sweat the negative feed back they roll off soon enough and dont really hurt you. I am much more likely to block and move forward than I used to be. If someone creeps me out then they are GONE! If someone gets all stalky they are GONE! If they do not show respect I will no longer deal with them. Do NOT DO NOT DO NOT let them know that feedback affects you. I constantly tell them oh really you left me feedback I never even look at it (which is true I just watch my stars). If they know they can hold something over you believe me they will.

Nikki_Fox
03-31-2015, 07:15 PM
So I finally got most of my ads approved but what's this whole bid/clicks? How much am I suppose to bid and does it charge that amount every time someone clicks so if I bid 0.30 every click will charge 0.30 + 0.30+ 0.30 and so on?

yes- if you bid .30 it will charge you .30 every time someone clicks on your profile - there is no set amount you should or should'nt bid - i try to bid myself to the first two or three pages on some of profiles - other profiles I am so far back it would be to expensive for my taste to bid to the first few pages - bid a little bit but nothing excessive - my advice would be to take a character or two and work on getting it to move forward with the bidding and eventually the amount you need to stay there will be less or nothing at all - then work on a couple more - please just remember to set a budget on the bidding so it does not eat up all of your funds

not sure how familiar you are with the site - it can be really overwhelming when you first start so please dont be offended - the easiest for me is to go under my account and then click on my listings - from here you can view the rank of your profile - and place bids - i suggest making a few recordings - i have picked up clients from my recordings - the shorter ones for me have sold better -

I'm sure others use a different approach but this has done okay for me without spending a lot of money on bidding

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-31-2015, 11:29 PM
Yup they can still leave feedback. But NF will remove all but ONE of those. At least they used to. Submit a ticket with the link to the emails that he sent you and plead your case. Tell them that he obviously liked you enough to call more than once and that he is in violation of the tos. Multiple negative feedback on the same same flirt is spam. Unless it knocked you down to 4 starts, try not to let it get to you. Anyone reading your feedback will know that he's an idiot. Sweet talk your other guys to bury it with there comments.


I was under the impression that blocked customers were not able to leave feedback. Apparently I was wrong because I blocked a really abusive, pushy guy last week, and when I logged in this morning he had left negative feedback on every one of our calls that we've done in the past few weeks.

I don't block often, but the guy was a total douche. I tolerated him for as long as I could, but he kept pressing hard for real, personal info which made me really uncomfortable. He kept saying things like "I know that's just your character answer. I want to know where you really (live, go to school, work). He also emailed me demanding that I log out until he was ready to call me so no one else would get in his way, and demanded that I send him free minutes as an apology/punishment for not being submissive enough. Because I called you Master instead of Sir? Like, seriously? GTFOH!!!

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-01-2015, 10:21 AM
I just noticed on NF there's no ethnicity other than Ebony, under Phone With Cam. Has it always been like that?

TheYazter
04-01-2015, 01:33 PM
I just noticed on NF there's no ethnicity other than Ebony, under Phone With Cam. Has it always been like that?

They have Latina and Asian too. :)

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-01-2015, 02:18 PM
They have Latina and Asian too. :)


When I go to NF.com the drop down menu for Phone With Cam shows this:



Phone with Cam

Women Home Alone
Anything Goes
Mistresses
BBW
Couples
Ebony
Lesbian/Bisexual

Not a big deal for me. I was just surprised. I wanted to create a latina listing in Spanish. I can still do this but I will have to do it under Phone only and tell them that it's a webcam listing.

Blackcollegehookup
04-04-2015, 05:48 PM
Okay everyone Im super new to NF. Today was my first day actually! I got 3 calls!
I have a twitter and tumblr set up but bc im new its not really doing much.
Im so happy seeing everyone make moneyyyyyy but when did you start to see an increase in your calls. like when did you have the "okay... this could work" moment lol

dianecallaway
04-04-2015, 06:03 PM
I just noticed on NF there's no ethnicity other than Ebony, under Phone With Cam. Has it always been like that?

Yeah the whole site needs a little work on making it easy for the customers to find what they are looking for. I would really like to see a better break down of prices as well.

JaceyLynn
04-07-2015, 08:38 PM
Just curious as to how many of you are selling goodies successfully on niteflirt, I am wondering of having just a few clips or 2 dozen+. I haven't really researched on niteflirt yet and figured I would ask here for some opinions.

LaylaLovely
04-07-2015, 09:36 PM
What's express pay?? Do you get paid daily?? I'm really confused on the payout min and schedule

dianecallaway
04-07-2015, 09:50 PM
Just curious as to how many of you are selling goodies successfully on niteflirt, I am wondering of having just a few clips or 2 dozen+. I haven't really researched on niteflirt yet and figured I would ask here for some opinions.
First off you have to stop thinking about everything in a direct dollar ratio. Yes you need goody bags recordings picture sets, stories, etc the reason you need these is they give you a reason to reach out to your guys. Isn't it better to say hey check out my newest xyz then to say call me. Older content is always good too because it allows you to reach out over and over again.

dianecallaway
04-07-2015, 09:57 PM
What's express pay?? Do you get paid daily?? I'm really confused on the payout min and schedule

Technically you get paid on average four days a week sometimes we do get five. YOu have to make at least $11 over your hold out. Most of mine are set at $1 so if I make $12 then I will get paid $11 for that day. It generally takes 4 days for the money to hit YOUR bank not necessarily your account because some banks are a little slow. So if you make money Mon 6th - Sun 12th you should have it all released to your bank by April 17th. For every min you are on the phone you get paid your cut of whatever you are charging.

sexysusie
04-08-2015, 10:46 AM
I really cannot be doing with camming on NF anymore due to their ridiculously long and convoluted pay process for UK girls, which is a shame as I love it there. Anyhoo I don't mind waiting on a bit of passive income so I was thinking of utilising the goodie bags. Does anyone do this successfully i.e. just use the site for selling content?

dianecallaway
04-08-2015, 12:13 PM
I really cannot be doing with camming on NF anymore due to their ridiculously long and convoluted pay process for UK girls, which is a shame as I love it there. Anyhoo I don't mind waiting on a bit of passive income so I was thinking of utilising the goodie bags. Does anyone do this successfully i.e. just use the site for selling content?

How long are you talking? Goody Bags and Content is generally only good for around $500 a month that is with constant updates.

Snowy0Star
04-10-2015, 04:16 AM
Technically you get paid on average four days a week sometimes we do get five. YOu have to make at least $11 over your hold out. Most of mine are set at $1 so if I make $12 then I will get paid $11 for that day. It generally takes 4 days for the money to hit YOUR bank not necessarily your account because some banks are a little slow. So if you make money Mon 6th - Sun 12th you should have it all released to your bank by April 17th. For every min you are on the phone you get paid your cut of whatever you are charging.

I pretty much get mine 7 days after NF pulls it out . 7 real days so like if NF pulls it out monday ill get my $ monday the next week

chloemay
04-10-2015, 09:49 AM
I pretty much get mine 7 days after NF pulls it out . 7 real days so like if NF pulls it out monday ill get my $ monday the next week


Me too, I must have one of the slow banks. Once in a while it surprises me with a quicker turnaround but not consistenly enough to count on as far as bills due are concerned so I keep some money in a short-term savings to move over if necessary.

sexysusie
04-10-2015, 10:11 AM
How long are you talking? Goody Bags and Content is generally only good for around $500 a month that is with constant updates.

Thanks, $500 is great :) I'm talknf nigh on two months - a month for the cheque to get to me then 2 - 3 weeks for my bank to verify it and cash it. I've had banks wait all that time then decline it, had to wait for another cheque from nf then go through the whole process again with another bank, so nearly half a year to get a measly $300!! Really wish they would offer a decent pay method for the UK. But like I say if it's passive income I don't mind waiting, I just refuse to wait for camming money.

SweetCandy
04-10-2015, 10:47 AM
I get my deposits from NF every 5 days.

On another note I want to thank you dianecallaway for your advise. I've notice that the money that I make every week is starting to increase. The number one thing really is to keeping tweaking and changing things until you find your sweet spot and then be consistent. I can honestly say now that I can pay my bills and have a little extra money in my pocket with just my Niteflirt income.

I still need to work on making content, social media, seo, and blogging. I feel like once I've mastered those things I should be able to easily pull in $1000 a week.

dianecallaway
04-10-2015, 04:31 PM
I get my deposits from NF every 5 days.

On another note I want to thank you dianecallaway for your advise. I've notice that the money that I make every week is starting to increase. The number one thing really is to keeping tweaking and changing things until you find your sweet spot and then be consistent. I can honestly say now that I can pay my bills and have a little extra money in my pocket with just my Niteflirt income.

I still need to work on making content, social media, seo, and blogging. I feel like once I've mastered those things I should be able to easily and pull in $1000 a week.

I am so happy to hear that in the end all that matters is bills are paid and a little to live on :)

dianecallaway
04-10-2015, 04:34 PM
Me too, I must have one of the slow banks. Once in a while it surprises me with a quicker turnaround but not consistenly enough to count on as far as bills due are concerned so I keep some money in a short-term savings to move over if necessary.

Bank of america is who Niteflirt use to bank with that is why I get mine faster ;)

Bootsie
04-12-2015, 11:34 AM
http://en.kioskea.net/faq/30138-pamela-for-skype-set-an-automatic-reply-message

This is the best thing ever. Thanks!

JaceyLynn
04-13-2015, 10:58 AM
Bank of america is who Niteflirt use to bank with that is why I get mine faster ;)

Diane, or anyone who gets deposits into Bank of America, can I ask what the deposit transaction name shows up as?

dianecallaway
04-13-2015, 02:26 PM
diane, or anyone who gets deposits into bank of america, can i ask what the deposit transaction name shows up as?

ach credit nf services payment on 04/13

HamNcheese
04-14-2015, 04:54 PM
I have every reason to believe that 3 out of every 5 men that call me daily, are under some kind of drug influence...

dianecallaway
04-14-2015, 04:58 PM
I have every reason to believe that 3 out of every 5 men that call me daily, are under some kind of drug influence...

Oh I think you are giving them a little bit of credit there I have my handful of guys that I adore (I have small hands) the rest are certifiable.

bigbootyjudy1
04-16-2015, 03:27 PM
I just got a charge back rom NF from one call .Has this happened to anyone?It was a $20.42.

chloemay
04-16-2015, 04:46 PM
I just got a charge back rom NF from one call .Has this happened to anyone?It was a $20.42.

I haven't to date (knock on wood) but recall a few years ago there was a guy buying cam shows and paying with fake credit cards so several flirts had chargebacks. His were big though, he was from the UK and always had 'boi' as part of his user names. It caused a big scare among flirts, hanging up and not taking calls from guys with Brit accents for a while there. It was always cam girls with dom listings if I recall correctly.

So it can happen but so far in my experience is rare on NF.

Red Velvette
04-16-2015, 11:35 PM
I just got a charge back rom NF from one call .Has this happened to anyone?It was a $20.42.

I have never had it happen, and it is very unusual for NF. I can't promise it will never happen to you again, but I've been there since 2009, and it is extremely rare.

bigbootyjudy1
04-16-2015, 11:41 PM
He sounded foreign.Thank god it was only a 4 minute call.To protect myself.i will not accept shows from new callers.I BLOCKED HIS SKYPE so he cant find me on my other sites .

Red Velvette
04-17-2015, 05:26 AM
I wouldn't suggest you turn down shows from new callers. You'll be missing out on a lot of money trying to avoid a very rare situation. You may want to post on the forums and see if anyone else has been dealing with this recently (esp. cam girls) but I'd think it would already be on the forums if this was prevalent.

dianecallaway
04-18-2015, 08:52 AM
Chargebacks are just part of the business dont be scared of them they are just going to happen. NF does a very good job of helping us avoid them much better than most but sometimes it just happens. If you are concerned because you are on a tight budget then build a cushion into your hold back so you dont have to worry about no having rent money till you get better established.

JusCammin505
04-19-2015, 12:46 PM
I have a couple of questions for all the NF ladies out there. I'm having an AWFUL week (been sick, had construction in my apartment, I'm facing tuition payments.... blah blah blah) and while I'd like to rant all about it, wasting my keystrokes on a bitch rampage isn't going to make it any better. Finding information will!! Onward with the post!!

There has been a lot of chat about Goodies, some girls are having excellent luck with them, other not so much.

For those of you who are doing great with them, what are your top selling goodies? Fetish? Masturbation? Mistressy type stuff?

For the girls who do the phone only lines, when are your peak hours? What are your most and least popular lines?

Now for the long questions:

For Mistress/BDSM/Femdom ladies, I've always had trouble figuring out what to do with a caller who will not tell me what he's into. I then resort to doing whatever I please with him, but this results in a lot of hangups (guys who won't tell me what they want usually end in hangups anyway.)

Are there ways I can either be generic in the type of domination I'm delivering or is there a better way to get them to clue me in as to what they want? Maybe I can write my listings differently so that I'm more specific about what I'm offering from the get-go??

I'm a great in-person Domme but when it comes to pretending I'm Miss Cleo, I am an epic fail. I'm very experienced BDSM, but doing it on the phone is a completely different animal.

I'm killin it with cam shows but I have no Goodies as of yet (been on NF 5 years w/o selling pics or vids.. yikes!) Basically I've been solely doing live shows with NF and I'm missing out on a lot of potential income. Any help you lovely ladies can give would deserve the highest of fives. Thanks so much!!! <3 <3 <3

DonaDiabla
04-19-2015, 01:17 PM
Hello JusCammin,
I can asked the phone only lines questions.

1. My peak hours vary from character to character. My Domme characters' peak hours are in the daytime and my submissive characters peak hours are between midnight to 5 am.

2. My most popular lines are my Asian switch/Ebony submissive lines. These lines are popular because my customers are into raceplay and I milked that fetish.My least popular line is Latina Transexual.

3. I would say that you need to highlight your domme talents in your listings. Cater to fetishes that interest you and your subs would follow.


I have a couple of questions for all the NF ladies out there. I'm having an AWFUL week (been sick, had construction in my apartment, I'm facing tuition payments.... blah blah blah) and while I'd like to rant all about it, wasting my keystrokes on a bitch rampage isn't going to make it any better. Finding information will!! Onward with the post!!

There has been a lot of chat about Goodies, some girls are having excellent luck with them, other not so much.

For those of you who are doing great with them, what are your top selling goodies? Fetish? Masturbation? Mistressy type stuff?

For the girls who do the phone only lines, when are your peak hours? What are your most and least popular lines?

Now for the long questions:

For Mistress/BDSM/Femdom ladies, I've always had trouble figuring out what to do with a caller who will not tell me what he's into. I then resort to doing whatever I please with him, but this results in a lot of hangups (guys who won't tell me what they want usually end in hangups anyway.)

Are there ways I can either be generic in the type of domination I'm delivering or is there a better way to get them to clue me in as to what they want? Maybe I can write my listings differently so that I'm more specific about what I'm offering from the get-go??

I'm a great in-person Domme but when it comes to pretending I'm Miss Cleo, I am an epic fail. I'm very experienced BDSM, but doing it on the phone is a completely different animal.

I'm killin it with cam shows but I have no Goodies as of yet (been on NF 5 years w/o selling pics or vids.. yikes!) Basically I've been solely doing live shows with NF and I'm missing out on a lot of potential income. Any help you lovely ladies can give would deserve the highest of fives. Thanks so much!!! <3 <3 <3

dianecallaway
04-19-2015, 06:24 PM
I have a couple of questions for all the NF ladies out there. I'm having an AWFUL week (been sick, had construction in my apartment, I'm facing tuition payments.... blah blah blah) and while I'd like to rant all about it, wasting my keystrokes on a bitch rampage isn't going to make it any better. Finding information will!! Onward with the post!!

There has been a lot of chat about Goodies, some girls are having excellent luck with them, other not so much.

For those of you who are doing great with them, what are your top selling goodies? Fetish? Masturbation? Mistressy type stuff?

For the girls who do the phone only lines, when are your peak hours? What are your most and least popular lines?

Now for the long questions:

For Mistress/BDSM/Femdom ladies, I've always had trouble figuring out what to do with a caller who will not tell me what he's into. I then resort to doing whatever I please with him, but this results in a lot of hangups (guys who won't tell me what they want usually end in hangups anyway.)

Are there ways I can either be generic in the type of domination I'm delivering or is there a better way to get them to clue me in as to what they want? Maybe I can write my listings differently so that I'm more specific about what I'm offering from the get-go??

I'm a great in-person Domme but when it comes to pretending I'm Miss Cleo, I am an epic fail. I'm very experienced BDSM, but doing it on the phone is a completely different animal.

I'm killin it with cam shows but I have no Goodies as of yet (been on NF 5 years w/o selling pics or vids.. yikes!) Basically I've been solely doing live shows with NF and I'm missing out on a lot of potential income. Any help you lovely ladies can give would deserve the highest of fives. Thanks so much!!! <3 <3 <3

I am increasing my goodie line this year. I would say the best thing to do is pick out a few fetishes and work those. Trying to be all over the place is just too much work. My busy hours vary but generally day time is good for me. If you can do hypnosis that is very popular I looked into it but decided I just didnt have the patience for it. Guys that dont know what they want hang up that is just the way it is. I have some guy flirt friends and they run into the same thing. I dont even fret it anymore I just move on to the next thing. Decide who your character is and keep her there do not deviate just because you want to make that one dollar right now. If you stay in character it will pay off in the end. Doesn't mean you can not have additional characters. ;) If you can not get a guy to talk which is what I try and do. I ask him what kind of porn do you watch, what kinds of things do you think about, what is your most memorable experience etc. Guys that want to explore will talk with you others there is nothing you or anyone else can do to get them to that point of opening up they are just not ready. It is different in person than on the phone in person you dont have to tell them I am pinching your nipples you just are :)
BTW I adore your signature that is so me. I dont care if I fail as long as I try.

kitkatkawaii
04-20-2015, 01:26 PM
Ha ha! That is why I was worried about starting it in Camming Connection. It's the Schrödinger's cat of camming. It is camming...but it isn't camming....but it could be camming!

I just LOL'd so hard at this right now

sarajules
04-20-2015, 07:59 PM
Hi everyone!

I had a quick question and didn't see it answered anywhere. Is there a way to send an automatic email to people who look at my page\favorite me? I looked at a cam girl's page the other day and the next thing I knew, I had an email. Am I crazy?

THANKS!!

Sarajules

dianecallaway
04-20-2015, 08:14 PM
Hi everyone!

I had a quick question and didn't see it answered anywhere. Is there a way to send an automatic email to people who look at my page\favorite me? I looked at a cam girl's page the other day and the next thing I knew, I had an email. Am I crazy?

THANKS!!

Sarajules

To my knowledge there is no automatic way. I put my favorites in one folder and then divide everyone else up to email them. People that favorite me get a little more special attention even if they have not bought anything yet. YOu probably clicked on a girls profile and she just sent out a mass email. WE all do it. :) Some girls get mad when they get stuff from other flirts if I feel like looking I will if not I just click and delete it never upsets me. All of us email because emailing works. :)

Thymian
04-27-2015, 09:47 PM
I just wanted to say that I am not new to doing skype shows booked through camsites (CMD, AW) and scoured this thread and the NF forums before offering cam with phone there but FUCK ME if I didn't just do my first show there for only partial payment. I was so shocked to finally get a call on that line that I didn't realize once we put the phones down to do the session he could hangup part of the way through. FUCK ME! I mean he tributed afterward but it still didn't make up for the lost $. Guess I paid my newbie tax. *eyeroll*

And of course my second phone with cam request is asking to prepay. Goodness they are slick!

bigbootyjudy1
04-29-2015, 12:13 AM
I just wanted to say that I am not new to doing skype shows booked through camsites (CMD, AW) and scoured this thread and the NF forums before offering cam with phone there but FUCK ME if I didn't just do my first show there for only partial payment. I was so shocked to finally get a call on that line that I didn't realize once we put the phones down to do the session he could hangup part of the way through. FUCK ME! I mean he tributed afterward but it still didn't make up for the lost $. Guess I paid my newbie tax. *eyeroll*

And of course my second phone with cam request is asking to prepay. Goodness they are slick!

Put the phone on speaker.Just turn down the volume.Thank God i read it on here.So i never got burned.But i had a few slick motherfuckers try to hang up the phone .I hanged up on skype mid show.No warning.

Dear_lady
04-29-2015, 10:42 AM
Hi,

long time lurker and first time poster here.

I have read this entire thread and the wealth on information Is priceless :) Thank you for that. I have run into a problem however.

I have been on NF for about 4 months now. Yesterday, when I would click on my one listing, the call buttons appeared as if I were on a call, but I was not. I tried restarting the computer, changing browser, clearing cookies etc and nothing seems to do the trick. I am normally pretty busy, and since I didn't receive a single call yesterday I'm pretty sure no one could get through, they all thought I was on a call. I sent a help request into NF last night, but haven't heard anything back and today it's still stuck on busy. Any advice? I can ONLY receive my pay by check for the time being, so t would be great if I could work today and tomorrow and get two more days worth into my next check, as I have a lot of bills due this month. Thank you in advance.

-Dear

dianecallaway
04-29-2015, 10:51 AM
Hi,

long time lurker and first time poster here.

I have read this entire thread and the wealth on information Is priceless :) Thank you for that. I have run into a problem however.

I have been on NF for about 4 months now. Yesterday, when I would click on my one listing, the call buttons appeared as if I were on a call, but I was not. I tried restarting the computer, changing browser, clearing cookies etc and nothing seems to do the trick. I am normally pretty busy, and since I didn't receive a single call yesterday I'm pretty sure no one could get through, they all thought I was on a call. I sent a help request into NF last night, but haven't heard anything back and today it's still stuck on busy. Any advice? I can ONLY receive my pay by check for the time being, so t would be great if I could work today and tomorrow and get two more days worth into my next check, as I have a lot of bills due this month. Thank you in advance.

-Dear

can you either send me your listing [email protected] or post it here so I can look at it. Also go ahead and submit a ticket to NF to have their techs look at it. If you are hung up in the server there is nothing you can do to correct that it has to be done through their side. It should at worse case fix itself every 24 hours when the servers reset themselves.

Nikki_Fox
04-29-2015, 11:12 AM
I just wanted to say that I am not new to doing skype shows booked through camsites (CMD, AW) and scoured this thread and the NF forums before offering cam with phone there but FUCK ME if I didn't just do my first show there for only partial payment. I was so shocked to finally get a call on that line that I didn't realize once we put the phones down to do the session he could hangup part of the way through. FUCK ME! I mean he tributed afterward but it still didn't make up for the lost $. Guess I paid my newbie tax. *eyeroll*

And of course my second phone with cam request is asking to prepay. Goodness they are slick!

Sorry he did that to you = so irritating - I despise scammers -- but - you are not supposed to accept tributes for cam shows - the rules say you are supposed to have a call in conjunction with your cam show - I just wanted to give you a heads up so you dont get your account suspended - some ladies will report you for it if they see or know of you doing it -- I set my phone next to my screen with the volume just low enough so I can hear Madge if she comes on saying the call has ended or I can see the screen change

Dear_lady
04-29-2015, 12:04 PM
Thanks Dianne,

I will give it a full 24 hours in that case. If it's still like that tonight I'll shoot you an email. Thanks for responding so quick!

Dear

****just checked again and it's back to normal, yay!

dianecallaway
04-29-2015, 12:56 PM
Thanks Dianne,

I will give it a full 24 hours in that case. If it's still like that tonight I'll shoot you an email. Thanks for responding so quick!

Dear

****just checked again and it's back to normal, yay!

It will generally fix itself and their servers seem to cycle several times a day. Logging out and letting it sit for a few mins can help. It doesnt happen that often maybe a few times a year. Sometimes rebooting your modem will help to because a lot of internet providers use floating isp so it can trick the server into thinking a different person is logging on so it uses a different port other than the one that is having the hiccup.

apryll11
04-29-2015, 08:43 PM
Can someone give me a quick dummies guide to buying clicks, cos I swear every time I look at the bid page It just confuses me even more.
Are girls actually paying 2.19 a click, are is that perhaps the limit they have set that I am seeing?
Maybe I m just being cheap but I need to know the magic that happens at this price that cant happen at .5 cents.

Bridget Gives
04-30-2015, 12:24 PM
I just wanted to say that I am not new to doing skype shows booked through camsites (CMD, AW) and scoured this thread and the NF forums before offering cam with phone there but FUCK ME if I didn't just do my first show there for only partial payment. I was so shocked to finally get a call on that line that I didn't realize once we put the phones down to do the session he could hangup part of the way through. FUCK ME! I mean he tributed afterward but it still didn't make up for the lost $. Guess I paid my newbie tax. *eyeroll*

And of course my second phone with cam request is asking to prepay. Goodness they are slick!

I turn off my MIC in Skype...so nothing is coming through on my computer....its all through the phone line that way I know when the dumbasses hang up and whatnot and when they need time to "add funds" I turn off my cam while so they don't keep going and then hang up lol....they think they can sneak us but nope!

Bridget Gives
04-30-2015, 12:25 PM
Haven't been on here in so long and I've been slacking on my NF time as well...def getting discourage :( How in the hell do I do these stupid ass goodie bags. I can read this shit all day long but I am still not understanding how it goes :(

chloemay
04-30-2015, 12:56 PM
Haven't been on here in so long and I've been slacking on my NF time as well...def getting discourage :( How in the hell do I do these stupid ass goodie bags. I can read this shit all day long but I am still not understanding how it goes :(

You kind of have to just get in there and do them, the instructions are confusing.Deal with the 2257 info first, upload your pic with your ID.

I suggest having the Goody Bag Help up on one browser, and your NF account on another, so you can refer back and forth.

The way I do it is, first make folders in the File Manager for Goody Bag Clips, and Goody Bag pics. Then upload your files to the appropriate folders in the File Manager. Then tag them. Then add them to a Goody Bag, it gives you a blank one to create. Complete the 2257 stuff- its easy once your info is approved, choose a date to go live and boom.

Thymian
04-30-2015, 10:14 PM
Thank you all for your helpful suggestions on skyping with phone. I def knew the tribute for payment thing was verboten (and I wouldn't want to anyway) so I couldn't believe I got hoodwinked into it right off the bat! Maybe because my listings haven't had so many calls that they assume they can get one over on a newbie? Fuck that! How are my listings going to get feedback and ratings if they don't CALL THE LISTING.

Most of the cam custies so far have asked to tribute but will call the line after I say no, no and no. One was persistent (but I had a feeling he would relent) so I told him if the phone line is not busy it shows me as available to take calls and I am not going to log out of NF just to do a session with him and have to turn my lines off and back on. That seemed to tip him as he hemmed and hawwed then finally agreed, LOL. (It was funny that this convo took place on the phone with cam line, I will gladly discuss the pros and cons of payment option for that per-minute rate. Like, dude–we could already be skyping right now, but it's your nickel.)

Anyway, thanks and sorry for the rant. . . it was just frustrating after doing so much research and set up and patiently waiting for lines to ring just to have it be TOS-violating requests. But I am finally getting some legit calls from proper custies so patience pays off. It's nice to not have to monitor the length of the skype show and have to cut them off myself when their time runs out like on other indie platforms.