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Bootsie
08-10-2016, 07:15 PM
Man, I have tied myself to my computer to update my listings. The template I was using wasn't really working for me, so I decided to blow it all up and start again. I tested it on my phone with cam listing and guys seemed to really like it, so now I just have to re-do the remaining 3 listings. Fortunately I decided to create my new account with my new sort-of template. Sticking a great PTV at the bottom of the listing is helping move some extra $ without me doing anything. Nice when that happens :)
But ugh, I feel y'all on hating re-doing listings. But when my income on NF starts to drop, I start changing my thumbnails, my headlines, wording...it almost always helps goose some new clicks.
SuperPookie
08-11-2016, 12:21 PM
When I log out/log in one character does it automatically do so for the others? Also except for one guy who found me from Streamate every call I've gotten has been really sick-bestiality,child molestation etc. I can't really deal with that to long. Is this the norm or am I simply getting all the weirdos because I'm new?
Magical_Hoohah
08-11-2016, 02:06 PM
^Did you perhaps put something in your listings about "no taboos"? For awhile I saw it on so many listings, and thought it meant "I don't do any taboos," but after I put it on my listing, it became obvious that it actually means "Nothing is taboo for me, so I'm open to all your taboo fantasies. Bring on the kids and great danes!"
DonaDiabla
08-11-2016, 02:26 PM
Super pookie, I am sorry but that is the industry standard. No taboos or restrictions makes a lot of money in the phone sex world. It is not camming or other forms of sex work in which you almost never get those requests. Sick requests are the bread and butter of the pso work. Most phone sex customers are just regular guys but you will get some sickos as a pso as well. If you worked at most US dispatch companies, you will get requests for everything from daddy-daughter to snuff to pedo fantasies.Just block and move on because you are not a no taboo pso. However, it is very rare to get that on Niteflirt. Usually, you get that on TTM, dispatch sites, and direct-dial. :)
When I log out/log in one character does it automatically do so for the others? Also except for one guy who found me from Streamate every call I've gotten has been really sick-bestiality,child molestation etc. I can't really deal with that to long. Is this the norm or am I simply getting all the weirdos because I'm new?
DonaDiabla
08-11-2016, 02:29 PM
No, no taboos or restrictions are code words for "I will do anything and everything to get you off". Normally, it is used on dispatch and direct-dial for guys and girls looking to get their perverted fantasies met. I do not have those types of customers on Niteflirt but I have tons of those customers doing direct-dial and dispatch. It is funny because I do not get the bestiality or pedo guys. Frankly, I get the extreme guys such as the snuff and Holocaust guys.
^Did you perhaps put something in your listings about "no taboos"? For awhile I saw it on so many listings, and thought it meant "I don't do any taboos," but after I put it on my listing, it became obvious that it actually means "Nothing is taboo for me, so I'm open to all your taboo fantasies. Bring on the kids and great danes!"
There are many callers out there who want extreme taboo calls, whether or not you take those calls is up to you. I rarely get them on Niteflirt but TTM there are many more of those types. I don't do those types of calls and if I get a caller who wants that I tell them no and change the topic. Some of them will then move into the kind of call I do if they try to press it I hang up. There are all types of callers but you control who you talk to don't let it bother you. Most of my characters are domme but I have one MILF character and I will get guys asking about her kids. I know what that means. I don't actually have children but I tell them I have a 23 year old son. That gets most of them to change the subject or if they wanted pedo they hang up. Some will ask if I've ever seduced his friend and of course I tell them all about seducing those innocent college boys ;)
PS No judgement of those who do taboo calls. It's a personal choice.
sarahlove
08-11-2016, 07:03 PM
When I log out/log in one character does it automatically do so for the others? Also except for one guy who found me from Streamate every call I've gotten has been really sick-bestiality,child molestation etc. I can't really deal with that to long. Is this the norm or am I simply getting all the weirdos because I'm new?
It will log out other listings but not other profiles
so for instance if you have character one and she gets a call her listing in Mistress anything goes and spanking will show busy
Character 2 will show as taking calls
Character 3 will show as taking calls
sarahlove
08-11-2016, 07:04 PM
I don't actually have children but I tell them I have a 23 year old son. That gets most of them to change the subject or if they wanted pedo they hang up. Some will ask if I've ever seduced his friend and of course I tell them all about seducing those innocent college boys ;)
PS No judgement of those who do taboo calls. It's a personal choice.
I LOVE this idea!
chloemay
08-12-2016, 09:36 AM
It will log out other listings but not other profiles
so for instance if you have character one and she gets a call her listing in Mistress anything goes and spanking will show busy
Character 2 will show as taking calls
Character 3 will show as taking calls
If all three separate characters have the same phone number enabled, it will change your status to 'busy' on all three.
IvyRose
08-12-2016, 09:40 AM
Anyone in here having exp with hiring someone to make your profile?
I was looking into the html, but after 1 houre I figured I better pay someone to do it for me since I am a total noob and time=money right?
avalon_rose
08-12-2016, 12:34 PM
There are many callers out there who want extreme taboo calls, whether or not you take those calls is up to you. I rarely get them on Niteflirt but TTM there are many more of those types. I don't do those types of calls and if I get a caller who wants that I tell them no and change the topic. Some of them will then move into the kind of call I do if they try to press it I hang up. There are all types of callers but you control who you talk to don't let it bother you. Most of my characters are domme but I have one MILF character and I will get guys asking about her kids. I know what that means. I don't actually have children but I tell them I have a 23 year old son. That gets most of them to change the subject or if they wanted pedo they hang up. Some will ask if I've ever seduced his friend and of course I tell them all about seducing those innocent college boys ;)
PS No judgement of those who do taboo calls. It's a personal choice.
This for NiteFlirt - I hardly ever get 'creepy' calls.
What are your prices like? Maybe you need to up them a bit, or watch the wording of your profiles? :)
xCamLovex
08-12-2016, 12:47 PM
Super pookie, I am sorry but that is the industry standard. No taboos or restrictions makes a lot of money in the phone sex world. It is not camming or other forms of sex work in which you almost never get those requests. Sick requests are the bread and butter of the pso work. Most phone sex customers are just regular guys but you will get some sickos as a pso as well. If you worked at most US dispatch companies, you will get requests for everything from daddy-daughter to snuff to pedo fantasies.Just block and move on because you are not a no taboo pso. However, it is very rare to get that on Niteflirt. Usually, you get that on TTM, dispatch sites, and direct-dial. :)
Yes! Dona! I love hearing your success at being a kickass PSO. Gosh, do you teach seminars? Haha (but seriously)
Im still learning the ropes of PSO but when it comes to taboo...realize you can make a the same amount of money not doing taboo. It's true. It's up to the performer what type of environment you want to set for yourself. Having peace of mind overall is so important. What good is the money if you feel like an overall shit person for talking about sick topics constantly? Plus, breaking site TOS, possibly risking your long term goal here which is to make money.
I think it's an overall great ethic in the adult industry to stand your ground on taboo and know you can make bank and not go there. Don't feed the sickos...
DonaDiabla
08-12-2016, 03:05 PM
XCamLovex,
Great question about doing taboo calls. I do not take taboo calls on Niteflirt or any platform because the tos and personal choice. Also, I do not do taboo fantasies on cam either because Tos and personal taste. However, I take them with dispatch and direct-dial calls.I get a lot of gorehounds into snuff or rape on dispatch or direct-dial and I charge them a lot. Many of them have been my customers for a long time because no one was going to touch their fantasies. Plus, I do not feel anything talking about the taboo because I have been doing that for a long time (Over 12 plus years). I got my started at one of the most extreme companies that ever been in business. Boulevard Entertainment was a non-taboo and creepy place overall. If you did not take taboo, then you will get fired there. There are many dispatch companies that will not take you if do not take taboo fantasies. Meanwhile, many psos never have to take taboo fantasies to make a killing such as those girls who do GFE only. Anyways, I encourage psos to determine what type of performer they want to be.
Yes! Dona! I love hearing your success at being a kickass PSO. Gosh, do you teach seminars? Haha (but seriously)
Im still learning the ropes of PSO but when it comes to taboo...realize you can make a the same amount of money not doing taboo. It's true. It's up to the performer what type of environment you want to set for yourself. Having peace of mind overall is so important. What good is the money if you feel like an overall shit person for talking about sick topics constantly? Plus, breaking site TOS, possibly risking your long term goal here which is to make money.
I think it's an overall great ethic in the adult industry to stand your ground on taboo and know you can make bank and not go there. Don't feed the sickos...
SuperPookie
08-12-2016, 03:22 PM
Anyone in here having exp with hiring someone to make your profile?
I was looking into the html, but after 1 houre I figured I better pay someone to do it for me since I am a total noob and time=money right? I had this lady on NF called Robin Wildheart do mine. She charged $30 and came out very nice. The only faults are my own do to wording choices evidently lol.
LadyCoco
08-12-2016, 03:28 PM
Anyone in here having exp with hiring someone to make your profile?
I was looking into the html, but after 1 houre I figured I better pay someone to do it for me since I am a total noob and time=money right?
I love doing all the work myself but even I can admit it gets frustrating. Devilish Templates has good templates, even some freebies.
BustyVixen
08-12-2016, 04:53 PM
Stupid question about the templates..would I get a template for my listings and then another one for my profile? I'm just a little confused about Night Flirt's layout.
If I do by a template, how much html do I need to know on my own? Anything? Or does it just come so I down load and then copy and paste to NF?
NylaHayes
08-13-2016, 05:08 AM
Where would I go about getting stock photos for another character on NF? I have one for the real me, but I want to set up another character! Thanks in advance ladies.
You need to to an adult content site to buy photos. Make sure they give you 2257 info and read the terms of the agreement.
SuperPookie
08-13-2016, 02:55 PM
Ok,since it just shows busy on all characters when I'm in a call but doesn't log out/in with each one simultaneously is there anyway to set it up so it does? I've taken you guys advice and have been logging in at the same time as canning but I don't think a guy would be cool with me taking the time while in private to log out of that many other sites. Right now I've just been leaving the NF page up as a seperate tab and logging out while asking the guy if he can see me ok etc lol.
chloemay
08-13-2016, 03:55 PM
Ok,since it just shows busy on all characters when I'm in a call but doesn't log out/in with each one simultaneously is there anyway to set it up so it does? I've taken you guys advice and have been logging in at the same time as canning but I don't think a guy would be cool with me taking the time while in private to log out of that many other sites. Right now I've just been leaving the NF page up as a seperate tab and logging out while asking the guy if he can see me ok etc lol.
Ok, I see what you are saying. I just take the private on SM (for example) and don't bother logging out of NF. If a call comes in during the SM private I shove the phone under a pillow or something to muffle the sound and let the call be missed. High tech, I know. After the sM private I check NF to see who I missed, if its a good one I follow up with them on NF email with an excuse and maybe a free minute to coax them to call back. There probably is a program you can use, but I'd rather have that hot lead, aka guy whose call I missed, now on my list as a customer. NF guys understand that sometimes the calls don't ring through to our phones too.
Missing the call will also log you out of NF for all three characters on that account. I only run three at a time on NF so can't speak to the 10 and more character situation.
NylaHayes
08-13-2016, 06:26 PM
I just wanted to say thank you to all of the ladies in here. You've posted some great advice. NF was kind of confusing for me to start and get calls on but today has been excellent and I owe it to this forum. As soon as I raised my prices, the calls started coming in and it's been my best day thus far. So thank you, thank you, thank you!!
LorelaiP
08-14-2016, 03:54 AM
Hi everyone!
I have no idea if anyone has asked this already as I'm still working my way through this thread (if this has already been mentioned on stripperweb somewhere then please send me the link). Can anyone explain how a PTV session would work. Do you just email them back and charge per email? Can anyone explain how they conduct a PTV session.
Thanks
NylaHayes
08-14-2016, 06:20 AM
Hi everyone!
I have no idea if anyone has asked this already as I'm still working my way through this thread (if this has already been mentioned on stripperweb somewhere then please send me the link). Can anyone explain how a PTV session would work. Do you just email them back and charge per email? Can anyone explain how they conduct a PTV session.
Thanks
I was wondering the same, I had a customer get mad when I didn't know what it was. I finally figured out how to send a PTV message and he opened it and never responded. Wondering if I did something wrong?
LadyCoco
08-14-2016, 01:07 PM
I don't understand PTV at all.
Horny
08-14-2016, 01:13 PM
So this might sound stupid has anyone made multiple characters using their own pictures ie in a wig heavy make up etc? I'm just wondering if I could get away with it rather than buying stock pictures? Obviously I would be similar figure wise but could be a blond and brunette so a different ish look?
Bootsie
08-14-2016, 03:44 PM
So this might sound stupid has anyone made multiple characters using their own pictures ie in a wig heavy make up etc? I'm just wondering if I could get away with it rather than buying stock pictures? Obviously I would be similar figure wise but could be a blond and brunette so a different ish look?
So I have 2 different accounts on NF, and the listings on both are me...but very different. One of my accounts is heavily domme/fetish-focused, and the other account is very GND/GFE type. I didn't try to make myself look that different (well obviously I wore different clothes and makeup a bit diff) and if anyone looks at the listings side by side it is obviously me. The domme account uses a similar variation of the name I use on the other account.
I don't want to use stock photos because a) I am cheap and b) it limits your offerings. Because all of my listings are me, I am able to make videos for goodies, photo sets for PTVs, etc at any time. I just make sure to put the CBT goodies on the domme profile and the vanilla masturbation on GFE :) I also offer cam through NF, and guys who have called my phone-only lines have commented that when they see someone has a cam listing, they know it's a "real girl and not fake pictures". Stock photos and lots of characters works well for some people, but I would rather have fewer characters and more options with them because they're me.
Obviously if you want 10 different accounts each with a different character this won't work, but if you just want diff categories that maybe don't fit together (like me with GND and domme), you can use yourself.
Horny
08-14-2016, 10:29 PM
So I have 2 different accounts on NF, and the listings on both are me...but very different. One of my accounts is heavily domme/fetish-focused, and the other account is very GND/GFE type. I didn't try to make myself look that different (well obviously I wore different clothes and makeup a bit diff) and if anyone looks at the listings side by side it is obviously me. The domme account uses a similar variation of the name I use on the other account.
I don't want to use stock photos because a) I am cheap and b) it limits your offerings. Because all of my listings are me, I am able to make videos for goodies, photo sets for PTVs, etc at any time. I just make sure to put the CBT goodies on the domme profile and the vanilla masturbation on GFE :) I also offer cam through NF, and guys who have called my phone-only lines have commented that when they see someone has a cam listing, they know it's a "real girl and not fake pictures". Stock photos and lots of characters works well for some people, but I would rather have fewer characters and more options with them because they're me.
Obviously if you want 10 different accounts each with a different character this won't work, but if you just want diff categories that maybe don't fit together (like me with GND and domme), you can use yourself.
My thoughts exactly my character that is 'me' at the moment has about ten listings all different versions of a similar thing. I will just do another then that's fab didn't see the point in wasting all that time
writing out another one and paying money for someone to be my new model too
BustyVixen
08-15-2016, 05:59 AM
Stupid question about the templates..would I get a template for my listings and then another one for my profile? I'm just a little confused about Night Flirt's layout.
If I do by a template, how much html do I need to know on my own? Anything? Or does it just come so I down load and then copy and paste to NF?
Can anyone help me out w this? Thanks
avalon_rose
08-15-2016, 06:24 AM
Can anyone help me out w this? Thanks
I've never paid to have a template done for me, so I can't answer that part of your question.
As for the other. Right now, nearly all of my listings have the same look for consistency/"branding". Possibly also due, just a little bit, to a little laziness. My profile page looks exactly the same as my listings — EXCEPT my listings have more textual information depending on the type of listing it is. Certain key words, clever turns of phrase to attempt to convert the call, etc.
I kind of look at your main profile being the 'Cover Letter' or the front cover of your book - the listings to possibly have more details within it.
sarahlove
08-15-2016, 02:30 PM
Okay so here we go.. lol
1. I have several adult content sites and I don't post them in here because I don't want a guy to find them. So please DM me if you want the list.
2. I have a website where I sell very detailed videos about how to set up your own html. I figure if you can spend the $ and learn how to do it you can use that knowledge to do other things. The same html used on NF is the same html used to set up your own site. When you have information you can use it in som many places. I do not post my site on here so I am not spamming but if you DM me I can give you the link.
3. PTV for me works like this: (All of my characters and myself are Financial Domination so this may vary in other sections of the site)
A. Customer sends message: Hey baby how would you suck my dick?
B. I send PTV (.99 for my first one) and in the subject line I put: "BB you would love my..." then in the box under that I put "hot wet" then INSIDE the PTV I put something like mouth as I blah, blah, blah If you view the subject line and the into section as a tease you will get them to click to open it. I include a photo with EVERY PTV so they feel they are buying something other then the words. I try to make each PTV 2 or 3 sentences. Also if you include questions they will want to write back.
C. When they reply then my next PTV to them is $1.99. The goal with this kind of PTV session is to create a conversation that they can only get the rest of when they click on the button.
If you have any questions just send me a message :)
PlayfulDesire
08-15-2016, 08:46 PM
I've been around the block a while and was wondering if anyone would be interesting in a webinars teaching things such as html, getting started, and that type of stuff? For a price of course but with screen sharing and being able to ask your question and have it answered.
LorelaiP
08-16-2016, 03:09 AM
Okay so here we go.. lol
1. I have several adult content sites and I don't post them in here because I don't want a guy to find them. So please DM me if you want the list.
2. I have a website where I sell very detailed videos about how to set up your own html. I figure if you can spend the $ and learn how to do it you can use that knowledge to do other things. The same html used on NF is the same html used to set up your own site. When you have information you can use it in som many places. I do not post my site on here so I am not spamming but if you DM me I can give you the link.
3. PTV for me works like this: (All of my characters and myself are Financial Domination so this may vary in other sections of the site)
A. Customer sends message: Hey baby how would you suck my dick?
B. I send PTV (.99 for my first one) and in the subject line I put: "BB you would love my..." then in the box under that I put "hot wet" then INSIDE the PTV I put something like mouth as I blah, blah, blah If you view the subject line and the into section as a tease you will get them to click to open it. I include a photo with EVERY PTV so they feel they are buying something other then the words. I try to make each PTV 2 or 3 sentences. Also if you include questions they will want to write back.
C. When they reply then my next PTV to them is $1.99. The goal with this kind of PTV session is to create a conversation that they can only get the rest of when they click on the button.
If you have any questions just send me a message :)
Thanks so much for explaining the PTV. I never understood how it was meant to work.
sarahlove
08-16-2016, 03:53 AM
I've been around the block a while and was wondering if anyone would be interesting in a webinars teaching things such as html, getting started, and that type of stuff? For a price of course but with screen sharing and being able to ask your question and have it answered.
I do something similar to this. I have a program that records my screen and I walk people through each step of the process of setting up, doing html, finding content etc. I have my first MP3 from a customer who used my stuff and she is making money! I have tested it with several people. So far no one has needed further help then what is given in the video but I always am around for answering questions. If you are interested in more info please feel free to send a pm as I don't want to be "spammy"
Good luck!
sarahlove
08-16-2016, 03:55 AM
Thanks so much for explaining the PTV. I never understood how it was meant to work.
You are more then welcome! That is how it works for me I am sure that other ladies do things differently but I do PTV like that and PTVs make me 3 times what calls make me. I also add games and quizes to my profiles to encourage more interaction.
sarabimaraj
08-16-2016, 07:04 AM
I've been around the block a while and was wondering if anyone would be interesting in a webinars teaching things such as html, getting started, and that type of stuff? For a price of course but with screen sharing and being able to ask your question and have it answered.
That's a great way to profit off your skills and really help ladies who need assistance. I do something similar with my adult writing business and a few other online businesses of mine.
gorgeousbbw
08-19-2016, 05:31 PM
Is there a way to turn off the free 3 minutes feature? I seem to be getting 3 minute heros non stop. These callers will hang up at 3 minutes and call me back again for 3 more minutes. In 3 min increments. does anyone know if it's possible to not offer the free mins?
JaneBurgess
08-19-2016, 06:03 PM
NiteFlirt tells you when they call that the customer has free minutes, you can decline to accept the call.
SuperPookie
08-19-2016, 06:54 PM
I thought you had to offer the guy the 3 free minutes. So like if a guy who has just joined the site calls me first than three minutes of that I don't get paid for? Do they only get one set of free minutes?
gorgeousbbw
08-19-2016, 07:24 PM
what i am getting is repeat 3 minute callers, even the same callers after their initial free 3 minutes. so i was unsure if they get 3 free minutes every time. I don't want to decline calls i just want to take off the 3 free minute feature if possible.
JaneBurgess
08-19-2016, 07:27 PM
what i am getting is repeat 3 minute callers, even the same callers after their initial free 3 minutes. so i was unsure if they get 3 free minutes every time. I don't want to decline calls i just want to take off the 3 free minute feature if possible.
There is no list to be taken off of. If a customer is given free minutes from the site, they can use them with any performer they want. Like I said, the site tells you they are using free minutes when you get the NF call. If they keep having free minutes, you might want to contact CS with their username and have them look into it. They shouldnt have tons of free minutes to use.
JaneBurgess
08-19-2016, 07:30 PM
I thought you had to offer the guy the 3 free minutes. So like if a guy who has just joined the site calls me first than three minutes of that I don't get paid for? Do they only get one set of free minutes?
When they first sign up they get free minutes from the site, but I always still was paid. They just pay us a lesser rate so its not actually free.
Bootsie
08-19-2016, 07:55 PM
what i am getting is repeat 3 minute callers, even the same callers after their initial free 3 minutes. so i was unsure if they get 3 free minutes every time. I don't want to decline calls i just want to take off the 3 free minute feature if possible.
You get paid when the caller gets their 3 free minutes for their first sign up. If YOU send a caller free minutes, then you do not get paid for those free minutes, but Madge (the lovely phone lady) tells you that you have given them free minutes. I am a weirdo and keep track of who (and why) I send out free minutes AND I keep track of if/when they use them and how long the call was. To get free minutes they have to sign up with a brand new cookie on their comp from the visit and a new phone number and CC. So if a guy is opening multiple accounts, that is...impressive. I know a guy who has 3 accounts and I tease him for being a 9 minute freeloader, but he's had his newest one for 2 years I think.
But yeah, if it is the 3 free minutes for guys new to the site, you should be getting paid. If it is guys YOU have given free minutes to, then you need to look at who and why you are giving free minutes, because if you're giving free minutes to guys who are just calling and using those minutes and nothing more, you need to change your tactics on sending out minutes.
DO NOT give free minutes to guys for adding you to their favourites. A LOT of guys add you to faves and then expect free minutes. Don't do it. I send a cute message and a cute (non-nude) pic for a fave add to remind them how awesome I am, but even then some guys will ask if I do "mins for faves"...HAHAHA no. Use giving out free minutes wisely.
sarahlove
08-20-2016, 06:29 AM
You get paid when the caller gets their 3 free minutes for their first sign up. If YOU send a caller free minutes, then you do not get paid for those free minutes, but Madge (the lovely phone lady) tells you that you have given them free minutes. I am a weirdo and keep track of who (and why) I send out free minutes AND I keep track of if/when they use them and how long the call was. To get free minutes they have to sign up with a brand new cookie on their comp from the visit and a new phone number and CC. So if a guy is opening multiple accounts, that is...impressive. I know a guy who has 3 accounts and I tease him for being a 9 minute freeloader, but he's had his newest one for 2 years I think.
But yeah, if it is the 3 free minutes for guys new to the site, you should be getting paid. If it is guys YOU have given free minutes to, then you need to look at who and why you are giving free minutes, because if you're giving free minutes to guys who are just calling and using those minutes and nothing more, you need to change your tactics on sending out minutes.
DO NOT give free minutes to guys for adding you to their favourites. A LOT of guys add you to faves and then expect free minutes. Don't do it. I send a cute message and a cute (non-nude) pic for a fave add to remind them how awesome I am, but even then some guys will ask if I do "mins for faves"...HAHAHA no. Use giving out free minutes wisely.
I don't send out free mins unless you deserve a "reward" lol I joke cause the only guy I have ever sent 5 free mins to had spent thousands. I am in financial domination so these guys don't expect free anything. I tell them my smiles are free when I take their money. Honestly I had a guy say that he had so many free mins he didn't even look at them anymore. I have more luck sending out a "hey how are you" e-mal then free mins. PLUS guys do what you train them to do and if you start out with free they will expect free.
As Jane said the NF whisper tells you if they have free minutes and you can decline the call. However if they are the NF issued new customer minutes you are paid for those three minutes. Now if you're normal rate is more than 1.99 for phone you will make less on those three minutes than you normally would. No one caller should have more than 3 free Niteflirt minutes, though. So if a guy has a bunch of NF issued free minutes I would let playfair know because that guy might be doing something fishy.
The only free minutes flirts aren't paid for are the ones we give out. I only give out 1 free minute on my vanilla chracter if I miss a call. That's it.
Selenasecret
08-21-2016, 03:19 PM
Hmm seam to have hit a nothing but messages stage. Keep getting guys who want stop follow up messages and trying to get their fantasy that way. I always try to get them to call but "im too shy"
How many messages before a block should it be?
sarahlove
08-21-2016, 07:19 PM
Hmm seam to have hit a nothing but messages stage. Keep getting guys who want stop follow up messages and trying to get their fantasy that way. I always try to get them to call but "im too shy"
How many messages before a block should it be?
I don't really block them. I do 3 free vanilla messgages and say give me a call "I would love to talk about that" If they don't call I say "sorry if I don't get back to you. I am doing ptv mails with other guys. If you want to keep talking and can't call because you are a naughty boy I can send you ptvs too" normally they call or say they will do PTV. If they say they don't have money I say "I can't wait until you have money and we can talk more about this" have a great night :)
I find when I am up front about it being pay for play they seem more likely to pay
PSOcodemonkey
08-21-2016, 07:19 PM
Hmm seam to have hit a nothing but messages stage. Keep getting guys who want stop follow up messages and trying to get their fantasy that way. I always try to get them to call but "im too shy"
How many messages before a block should it be?
Some guys don't call and email instead. Not a big deal, assuming you are charging them for your emails. No need to block anyone for that, as sometimes they do end up calling. Most guys who are trying for free stuff, stop trying on their own once they realize they have to pay to open your emails. If they keep trying for free stuff after refusing to open ones that they have to pay for, then maybe block them.
Assuming the guys email does not look like a cut and paste job he sent to 100s of flirts, I always email for free once or twice depending on the guy, and the situation. After that, every one they pay for. Price depends on many things, different in every situation. I have guys who have spent a fortune on me, just emailing back and forth.
sexysusie
08-21-2016, 07:42 PM
Non US ladies, what is the best way to work NF in terms of cutting down the wait for payment? I love NF and always made money there but it literally takes a minimum 3 months before I see any of the money I make during a shift there. I'm sure if i worked all my sites regularly and had money coming in every day this wouldn't be an issue, but I don't. I work sporadically and have been thoroughly spoiled by daily pay. I absolutely despise waiting longer than a week for my money.
Sooo, any tips? I know some girls on MFC for eg only work just before the pay period ends, perhaps this is a good strategy for NF too. Or maybe some of you know a quicker way to get paid - is it still cheque only? Ta x
MistressX
08-22-2016, 12:06 AM
how do you make them pay to open emails? i didnt even know you could do that
sarahlove
08-22-2016, 02:49 AM
how do you make them pay to open emails? i didnt even know you could do that
In the drop down where you send free mins. There is an option for pay to view mails. THe only thing that they can see when you send it is the box on top of the e-mail. SO be sure that the box is a real tease. If you have more questions I can
https://support.niteflirt.com/hc/en-us/articles/212830308-What-is-NF-Mail- this might help too. This is from thier help section.