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Blue-Velvet
09-24-2016, 11:55 AM
Has anyone in the UK gotten their Niteflirt cheque yet? Mine usually comes between the 12th and roughly the 18th of each month, but I still haven't received it yet. I'm not sure how long I should wait before contacting NF.
illuminaughty
09-24-2016, 08:29 PM
Hello ladies,
I have my rates set to 3.99 per minute phone with cam on niteflirt
it seems on niteflirt I frequently get shows that only last 4 - 10 minutes
is that common? especially for my price?
Also how do the guys usually act ? what is the etiquette on skype?
I am getting a lot of guys just hang up after that time frame and not talk to me really after
Do guys on nite flirt have extremely high expectations for cam shows or are really demanding or something?
more than half the time I start a show on skype I feel like I am pulling teeth to simply get an answer of what it is they actually want to see. then when I just try to go with the flow and masturbate, they either get really into it and cum and stay a long time, or they leave after a few minutes.
I get the same types of situations alot on streamate too just not as frequently as niteflirt.
Am I just a bad cam girl ? Is this uncommon ? or do you girls deal with these frequently on streamate and niteflirt too ? Especially any fellow trans girls?
The only thing I can think of is maybe they just aren't used to interacting with a transgender woman, sleeping with one, or even doing shows with one before, so they get nervous or uncomfortable when they can't give me direction?
Also what is the skype etiquette? a lot of the guys try to talk to me on skype chat after a show, even days or weeks later, and I don't know how to respond unless they are straight up asking for a show with me. I usually ignore them, but sometimes if I am doing GFE I write to them a little and try to entice them to call me on NF. What do you ladies do ?
As always, thanks ahead of time for replies !
Kristen_Krystal
09-25-2016, 10:20 AM
Its a shame that Niteflirt only offer cheque as payment for us UK Ladies. Has anybody ever asked them if they can pay via Paxum or Payoneer. TalktoMe will pay via Paxum but you have to request it as it doesn't seem to mention this option on their site. I just wondered if Niteflirt could be the same - You have to ask for it?
Blue-Velvet
09-25-2016, 11:41 AM
From what I understand, NF are very adamant that they will never do anything other than cheques to the UK. It's a big pain in the arse because I get paid once a month, and the cheque doesn't arrive until the middle of the month...then my bank charges me £12 to deposit a foreign cheque. I've considered signing up to to TalktoMe, but wasn't sure if they accommodated UK service providers. I think I read that TTM was fairly strict about missed calls and cancelling your account if you had too many. I don't miss that many calls, but it does happen occasionally.
Blue-Velvet
09-25-2016, 11:50 AM
Hello ladies,
I have my rates set to 3.99 per minute phone with cam on niteflirt
it seems on niteflirt I frequently get shows that only last 4 - 10 minutes
is that common? especially for my price?
Also how do the guys usually act ? what is the etiquette on skype?
I am getting a lot of guys just hang up after that time frame and not talk to me really after
Do guys on nite flirt have extremely high expectations for cam shows or are really demanding or something?
more than half the time I start a show on skype I feel like I am pulling teeth to simply get an answer of what it is they actually want to see. then when I just try to go with the flow and masturbate, they either get really into it and cum and stay a long time, or they leave after a few minutes.
I get the same types of situations alot on streamate too just not as frequently as niteflirt.
Am I just a bad cam girl ? Is this uncommon ? or do you girls deal with these frequently on streamate and niteflirt too ? Especially any fellow trans girls?
The only thing I can think of is maybe they just aren't used to interacting with a transgender woman, sleeping with one, or even doing shows with one before, so they get nervous or uncomfortable when they can't give me direction?
Also what is the skype etiquette? a lot of the guys try to talk to me on skype chat after a show, even days or weeks later, and I don't know how to respond unless they are straight up asking for a show with me. I usually ignore them, but sometimes if I am doing GFE I write to them a little and try to entice them to call me on NF. What do you ladies do ?
As always, thanks ahead of time for replies !
I can only speak as a cis female, but I would say that the 6-10min time is fairly normal for cam. Every once in a while I'll get somebody longer, but they generally fall into that category for me.
As far as NF guys and etiquette...please don't see it as a reflection on you! I honestly think they just don't know how to behave, especially after they cum. They often just lean forward and cut me off without a goodbye, thank-you, or anything. I think they do it to anyone regardless of whether they're cis, trans, doing a good job, doing a bad job, etc. I often get guys randomly messaging me after a session, but I usually just ignore them. It's up to you. Some people use it as a means of trying to sell them another session, but I've found that most of them are just bored and trying to engage you for free. Every once in a while, I will politely respond that the best way to contact me is via NF mail as I rarely look at Skype unless I'm in a session. I tend to keep my Skype setting at "invisible" to avoid random messages. By all means, use it as a way to try and entice them into another session, but as soon as it appears that they have zero intention of doing so, I'd stop responding.
I work both Adultwork and NF cam and phone. I swear, even though I'm an American living in the UK, I find the predominantly American NF crowd to be much harder work. American men often come across as a lot more awkward than my British crowd. Just try not to let it get to you. It's no reflection on your abilities as a cam girl. xxx
Kristen_Krystal
09-25-2016, 11:59 AM
From what I understand, NF are very adamant that they will never do anything other than cheques to the UK. It's a big pain in the arse because I get paid once a month, and the cheque doesn't arrive until the middle of the month...then my bank charges me £12 to deposit a foreign cheque. I've considered signing up to to TalktoMe, but wasn't sure if they accommodated UK service providers. I think I read that TTM was fairly strict about missed calls and cancelling your account if you had too many. I don't miss that many calls, but it does happen occasionally.
Yes with TTM you need to remember to switch off your availability if you get another call - but it becomes second nature to do that once you get in the habit - saying that I sometimes forget to do that and miss the odd call and they've never thrown m off the site.
I get paid via Paxum by TTM but they offered it to me as an alternative to cheque. A cheque is no good for me because they automatically pay out once a week as soon as you reach $50. They do still apply a processing fee for paying you by Paxum though - its the same as the processing fee for cheque but for me its sooooo much easier and better than a cheque.
Blue-Velvet
09-25-2016, 12:21 PM
Yeah, I signed up to another site that charges a small processing fee to use Paxum. I haven't invested a lot of effort into that site yet, so haven't been paid, but I don't mind the small processing fee so might give TTM a look in. Now that payment processing is up in the air with Adultwork, I might invest more time into sites that pay via Paxum now! I literally just emailed over the Paxum form that you have to sign IN BLUE INK (ha!) to get my bank account verified. Ugh. I'd much rather be doing 1,001 other things on a Sunday evening.
Kristen_Krystal
09-25-2016, 01:12 PM
Yeah, I signed up to another site that charges a small processing fee to use Paxum. I haven't invested a lot of effort into that site yet, so haven't been paid, but I don't mind the small processing fee so might give TTM a look in. Now that payment processing is up in the air with Adultwork, I might invest more time into sites that pay via Paxum now! I literally just emailed over the Paxum form that you have to sign IN BLUE INK (ha!) to get my bank account verified. Ugh. I'd much rather be doing 1,001 other things on a Sunday evening.
Oh yes I remember the blue inked pen! Its worth itthough once you're all set up - I've never had any problems with Paxum & it sounds like you're near the end of the tedious verification process :)
TTM is definitely worth a go - its not AW money but its not a bad extra little egg in your basket. You don't have to be able to do HTML either to set up your profile on TTM - You can have HTML profile on TTM but the basic profile looks Ok - That was another thing that put me off NiteFlirt because I can't do HTML.
xxxGothBarbie
09-25-2016, 06:09 PM
How does the cam with phone option work?
Kristen_Krystal
09-25-2016, 06:24 PM
How does the cam with phone option work?
I think on NiteFlirt you're supposed to sell them your Skype ID and then when they want a Skype show they phone you at the same time. That's how you get paid for the Skype show so make sure that your phone chat rate reflects that you're doing a Skype show.
If they hang up on the phone call then make sure you quickly end the Skype call x
PhoneGirly
09-27-2016, 02:10 PM
First, thanks for such a helpful post! I'm new to NF and was wondering how do recorded listings work. Do they have to pend like live listings? Also are recorded listings as successful as live ones?
Kristen_Krystal
09-27-2016, 02:37 PM
First, thanks for such a helpful post! I'm new to NF and was wondering how do recorded listings work. Do they have to pend like live listings? Also are recorded listings as successful as live ones?
Yes, I wouldn't mind knowing this too.
Good new on the horizon for us UK providers is that Daily Pay Colin on the AdultWork forum mentioned that he was going to be opening a Niteflirt Daily Pay Group soon. It's on the back burner for the time being due to the current AW payment processing issues.
That would be fantastic a daily pay group for Niteflirt - so much better than a cheque
sarahlove
09-27-2016, 08:35 PM
Yes, I wouldn't mind knowing this too.
Good new on the horizon for us UK providers is that Daily Pay Colin on the AdultWork forum mentioned that he was going to be opening a Niteflirt Daily Pay Group soon. It's on the back burner for the time being due to the current AW payment processing issues.
That would be fantastic a daily pay group for Niteflirt - so much better than a cheque
I make PM4s and turn them into PTV's you get 70% for those. Recording listenings you get 50% I know it is only 20% but that adds up.
Blue-Velvet
09-27-2016, 11:53 PM
First, thanks for such a helpful post! I'm new to NF and was wondering how do recorded listings work. Do they have to pend like live listings? Also are recorded listings as successful as live ones?
I've just submitted my second recorded listing a couple of days ago and it's still pending. They do have to pend like live live listings, I assume so they can actually listen to your recording and make sure you're not discussing anything out of the terms and conditions. I've only had 1 live listing before this and it wasn't hugely successful. I've had 59 calls to it in 2yrs, 5min length, priced at $1.50/min.
Blue-Velvet
09-28-2016, 02:22 AM
I make PM4s and turn them into PTV's you get 70% for those. Recording listenings you get 50% I know it is only 20% but that adds up.
That's very good advice!! Do you know if we're allowed to do both? Like can you make a recorded listing and use the same recording on your live listings as a PTV?
Yes you can use the same MP4 for a recorded call and a PTV.
PhoneGirly
09-28-2016, 09:40 AM
That's a bummer. I just discovered how live listings work and I thought it would be perfect since I recently picked up another job. I'm not available as much, but I still want to tend to my customers. I'm finally building clientele!!!.....Thanks for the heads up, didn't want to put all my hopes and time in it for little to nothing!
PhoneGirly
09-28-2016, 09:46 AM
So, with these PTVS...are the callers able to buy and download for their personal use? Yes 20% does add up!!! Lol
PhoneGirly
09-30-2016, 01:30 PM
Niteflirt Rates/Prices Opinion, Tips & More.
I'm a new flirt and currently I'm at the 0.99 cent rate. This rate works for me. However, through research I see that this is considered a very low price. Often, I see that 1.49 is a standard rate. Since I'm new to NF I plan on increasing my rates overtime as my ratings increase. I read somewhere to be aware of the difference between being busy vs being productive. It was a good point... You may receive less calls with higher prices but you will be more productive with each call....So flirts, what's your opinions or advice for this situation?
sexysusie
09-30-2016, 05:31 PM
Start as you mean to go on. If you're talking about cam with phone you definitely don't want to start cheap. Try 3.99+
Blue-Velvet
10-01-2016, 07:55 AM
I started out at $1.99 and charge $2.19 now. For cam, I agree with Susie at $3.99 or so. I'm in the UK so lose more in connections fees, currency exchange rate, etc. so I'm not willing to charge less than $1.99/min for phone. Charge what you're comfortable with, but I would definitely bump it up from .99/min.
beauvoir
10-02-2016, 12:13 AM
What on earth is a recorded listing??
sexysusie
10-02-2016, 04:40 AM
Like AW recorded erotica https://support.niteflirt.com/hc/en-us/articles/212830718-Recorded-Listings
beauvoir
10-02-2016, 08:15 AM
Got it! I thought so, not my thing.
Thanks for clarifying, SS xx
Dorami
10-02-2016, 01:43 PM
Does anyone know if they are ever going to accept paxum or payoneer? None of their other payment methods work for my country unfortunately..
sarahlove
10-02-2016, 08:37 PM
Yes you can. I do everything as a goodie bag too!
Kristen_Krystal
10-02-2016, 09:05 PM
Does anyone know if they are ever going to accept paxum or payoneer? None of their other payment methods work for my country unfortunately..
I don't know why they don't offer Paxum - More & more adult sites are offering Paxum nowadays so you never know they might one day soon. There is plans for a Daily pay group for the Uk though - I'm not sure if DP UK caters for other country's sorry - Some one else might be able to answer that x
Euryale
10-03-2016, 06:40 PM
I don't know why they don't offer Paxum - More & more adult sites are offering Paxum nowadays so you never know they might one day soon. There is plans for a Daily pay group for the Uk though - I'm not sure if DP UK caters for other country's sorry - Some one else might be able to answer that x
I use UK Daily Pay for a few sites. I'm from the states.
xxxGothBarbie
10-05-2016, 06:58 PM
Ugh omg I'm having issues signing up :/ I signed up as a member but when I go click on become a flirt, it takes me to the credit card /billing info. Where do I go to create a phone listing for myself to get started? I looked all over that dam site LoL
xCamLovex
10-05-2016, 11:12 PM
Contact support and. Explain you want to become a flirt not have a customer account and they will switch it for you. niteflirt support has always been impressive to me bc they actually work fast and resolve problems!
grneyesnfl
10-05-2016, 11:36 PM
Ugh omg I'm having issues signing up :/ I signed up as a member but when I go click on become a flirt, it takes me to the credit card /billing info. Where do I go to create a phone listing for myself to get started? I looked all over that dam site LoL
They can't change a member account into a flirt account. You need to make a new account. First, look at the top of the NF page and make sure you are signed out of the member account you made. Once you are signed out, then click on the "Become a Flirt" link. Choose your name, fill out your email address and password and then continue to the next page. You WILL have to add a valid credit card to become a flirt. They use it as a form of age verification. They will authorize your card for $1.00 (to make sure the card is good). The authorization will drop off after a couple of days.
Good luck!
xxxGothBarbie
10-06-2016, 01:45 AM
They can't change a member account into a flirt account. You need to make a new account. First, look at the top of the NF page and make sure you are signed out of the member account you made. Once you are signed out, then click on the "Become a Flirt" link. Choose your name, fill out your email address and password and then continue to the next page. You WILL have to add a valid credit card to become a flirt. They use it as a form of age verification. They will authorize your card for $1.00 (to make sure the card is good). The authorization will drop off after a couple of days.
Good luck!
Thanks :) Ok then I am doing it correctly then haha. Ok, will do after I have funds in my account again yay
You have to give credit card info to make a flirt account though. Just FYI
duck3555
10-09-2016, 03:19 PM
Hi, does anyone have recommendations for sites to license model photos from for NF? If I need to PM you privately that's understandable.
Kandigrace
10-09-2016, 03:58 PM
Hi, does anyone have recommendations for sites to license model photos from for NF? If I need to PM you privately that's understandable.
https://www.scarlettcontent.net/
AvaLove
10-11-2016, 05:29 AM
Did anyone received 10/4 and 10/5 payments?
Thanks
sarahlove
10-12-2016, 03:31 PM
Did anyone received 10/4 and 10/5 payments?
Thanks
My payments are a little behind because it was a bank holiday.
JaneBurgess
10-12-2016, 04:46 PM
I had three come in today
Girly_Girl
10-14-2016, 06:30 AM
I was just approved for NF and received my first message from someone wanting my skype ID from my phone & cam listing. How do they pay for the show tho? Is it like cmd and they prepay for the show? Or is it more like sky private and they pay by the minute?
sarahlove
10-14-2016, 06:49 AM
I was just approved for NF and received my first message from someone wanting my skype ID from my phone & cam listing. How do they pay for the show tho? Is it like cmd and they prepay for the show? Or is it more like sky private and they pay by the minute?
They call you on the phone and you keep the phone on so it charges them through that. Be sure to keep the phone on speaker so you can hear if the lady says they ran out of money. Sometimes they won't add enough and hope you don't notice. I always turn my skype off when it tells them to add more money. Also I don't charge for my skype because then they feel like you "owe" them something.
Also I tell them that they have to make the NF call first otherwise they call you on skype and want to "chat" first. Nothing is free in this game. If they could get free conversation they would be in a relationship. Don't let them guilt you into a free show.
GOOD LUCK!
Girly_Girl
10-14-2016, 07:07 AM
They call you on the phone and you keep the phone on so it charges them through that. Be sure to keep the phone on speaker so you can hear if the lady says they ran out of money. Sometimes they won't add enough and hope you don't notice. I always turn my skype off when it tells them to add more money. Also I don't charge for my skype because then they feel like you "owe" them something.
Also I tell them that they have to make the NF call first otherwise they call you on skype and want to "chat" first. Nothing is free in this game. If they could get free conversation they would be in a relationship. Don't let them guilt you into a free show.
GOOD LUCK!
Thank u:)
Also what # will show on my caller id when I am getting a call from NF?
JaneBurgess
10-14-2016, 11:35 AM
Thank u:)
Also what # will show on my caller id when I am getting a call from NF?
It will say NiteFlirt and be an 800 number
Kandigrace
10-14-2016, 12:15 PM
Does anyone know where i can promote my nf profiles? I am considering taking out an ad in my local newspaper but i need to know if it would be worth the investment.
JaneBurgess
10-14-2016, 01:57 PM
Does anyone know where i can promote my nf profiles? I am considering taking out an ad in my local newspaper but i need to know if it would be worth the investment.
Social media like Twitter, FB, Tumblr, etc. It also helps if you have a blog where you can promote your stuff too
Girly_Girl
10-17-2016, 07:24 AM
do you get new status with nf and what percentage do we make ?
Marina Starr
10-17-2016, 07:25 AM
70 percent!
what percentage do we make with nf?
Marina Starr
10-17-2016, 07:25 AM
70 percent! #callmenow #talktome
what percentage do we make with nf?
passionflower
10-17-2016, 08:26 AM
70 percent! #callmenow #talktome
It's actually a little less than that. They take a .20 cents per minute fee for the phone service on top of their commission. Your net % will increase the more you charge but it will never actually be 70%. At my phone only/phone with cam rates right now I get 63-65%.
caramelcraze
10-17-2016, 09:20 AM
Anybody know of any profile templates for nf? My profile is a lot less glitzy than i'd like.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-17-2016, 07:42 PM
Anybody know of any profile templates for nf? My profile is a lot less glitzy than i'd like.
There's a section in the NF forum but it really needs to be updated. This designer came up on google and seems to be back in business http://www.sinfullywickeddesigns.com/ I've used her templates in the past. Lots of really great designers on NF but many have gone mia