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luna93
02-16-2017, 02:34 PM
The hell is going on? It's sooooo slow this month :(
JaneBurgess
02-16-2017, 02:51 PM
The hell is going on? It's sooooo slow this month :(
It really is. The strange thing is NF is kinda dead but Talk To Me is busy all of a sudden.
luna93
02-16-2017, 03:36 PM
It really is. The strange thing is NF is kinda dead but Talk To Me is busy all of a sudden.
Signing up as we speak. Lol
EricaErotica
02-16-2017, 03:39 PM
I have noticed a few of my callers on Niteflirt have opened accounts on Talk To Me in the past few weeks. I did not direct them to do this. So I found this to be very interesting...
JaneBurgess
02-16-2017, 07:09 PM
Signing up as we speak. Lol
LOL that is funny
JaneBurgess
02-16-2017, 07:11 PM
I have noticed a few of my callers on Niteflirt have opened accounts on Talk To Me in the past few weeks. I did not direct them to do this. So I found this to be very interesting...
NF is the SM of phone sites. They always have either phone connection issues or payment processing issues. Customers now know about TTM so they can just leave NF and go to TTM.
DonaDiabla
02-16-2017, 08:59 PM
Niteflirt has not been slow for me. However, I have seen customers more into buy goodies and stuff this month than last month :)
The hell is going on? It's sooooo slow this month :(
chloemay
02-17-2017, 08:19 AM
I have noticed a few of my callers on Niteflirt have opened accounts on Talk To Me in the past few weeks. I did not direct them to do this. So I found this to be very interesting...
Well that sucks due to the percentage on TTM vs NF.
fionafresher
02-17-2017, 08:57 AM
Well that sucks due to the percentage on TTM vs NF.
What is the percentage for TTM?
JaceyLynn
02-17-2017, 09:38 AM
If I remember, for new people who sign up it is now 40% but if you signed up before they made the changes (2015 I think it was) then you get to keep the rate of 50%
EricaErotica
02-17-2017, 10:18 AM
Well that sucks due to the percentage on TTM vs NF.
Just raise your rate on TTM to make up for that. On NF my characters are $1.69 per minute. On TTM my characters are $1.99 per minute. After fees are taken, I earn $1.05 per minute on NF and $1.00 per minute on TTM.
chloemay
02-17-2017, 11:10 AM
And no images are showing up on Niteflirt now. :-( Yay, they are back! (hopefully for good or at least the whole long weekend)
sexysusie
02-17-2017, 12:20 PM
I had a question about being nude on the "phone with cam" feature on NF...yes I am newbie...and here was the official reply form NF support. I posted it in case anyone else had this question. They are quite clear in their answer...wasn't expecting that!
phone with cam question
Avatar SweetandNaughty1 Thursday at 14:59
When I am doing a call with a customer on "phone with cam", am I allowed to get naked and show my body parts or is it required that I stay clothed and not show breasts, genitals, etc. I can't tell and I've read all the phone with cam articles and policies.
thanks
Avatar Play Fair Friday at 07:39
Hello,
Thank you for your message.
As NiteFlirt does not record phone calls, we only ask that you please be mindful of our policies when conversing with other NiteFlirt Members. Additionally, as we do not wish to manage how you do business, the choice to offer your phone with cam shows nude or clothed is completely up to you and what you feel comfortable doing. Our nudity policy only applies to public listings and Flirt Profiles so if you chose to sell content with nudity or offer cam shows with nudity, it would be allowed as long as the content was otherwise in line with our policies and guidelines.
Additionally, here are some helpful links with more information about our policies:
Play Fair Basics
Member Agreement
Flirt Policy
We appreciate that you have taken the time to request further clarification of our policy. Please let us know if you have any further questions or concerns.
Kindly,
Play Fair
NiteFlirt ®, Speak to Your Desire
I don't get this. Phone with cam is basically cam, that means you can be clothed if you want OR nude/naughty, just like on any other cam site.
sweetandnaughty
02-17-2017, 12:55 PM
Yes, You're right sexysusie. I wasn't clear if I was allowed to be "full on nude" when I did a phone with cam call on NF. I knew I could connect via skype during the call but wasn't sure if the "ok to be all nude" was allowed so that is why I sent the question for full clarity. I wanted to be 100% sure. That was the point of their response and just assured me that it was OK to be nude or not...your choice. I'm still a nubie!
I don't get this. Phone with cam is basically cam, that means you can be clothed if you want OR nude/naughty, just like on any other cam site.
sweetandnaughty
02-17-2017, 01:01 PM
NITEFLIRT ROCKS!! Damn I wish I had signed up for this years ago!! I am making almost half as much on NF as I am on my daily SM and other splitcam sites together! I am only on my third day! It's probably small potatoes to what other girls earn but it's a big deal to me!
No big surprise that my big seller is phone with cam. I haven't had any bites on just the phone chat listings but I only have 3 listings and will be getting all of the others up today so that might change. I only charge 1.50 per minute phone with cam shows but I'm new and ready to work my ass off to get a following. I'll raise rates slowly as needed but for now working a 12 hour day on NF taking random shows is SO MUCH EASIER than sitting for 5 hours in chat on SM etc. Love luv luv it!!
I'm signing up for arousr, dreamlover and TTM as I type. I would love to get my daily low goal with all of these other PSO/Indy eggs to the point of what I make on my main cam sites. It literally would put me earning double! WOW...CAMMING IS ROCKING AGAIN and I was thinking of stopping or quitting. NOT NOW BABY!! lol....I love NF and will rock the shit out of it! Wham bam thank you mam!!...lol
Bring it on.
Go get those $$$$$$$$$$$ ladies!!
sweetandnaughty
02-17-2017, 01:03 PM
I signed up using a debit/credit prepaid VISA card from NETSPEND that I got for free. I use bluebird exclusivly but some businesses don't take AMEX so I use the NETSPEND visa for those times. Maybe that helps....
fionafresher
02-17-2017, 03:00 PM
Just raise your rate on TTM to make up for that. On NF my characters are $1.69 per minute. On TTM my characters are $1.99 per minute. After fees are taken, I earn $1.05 per minute on NF and $1.00 per minute on TTM.
My phone line is on at $3.99 a minute on NF. NF attracts a lot of the fetish dudes who are willing to pay that... I'm wondering if TTM has a similar customer base?
JaneBurgess
02-17-2017, 04:20 PM
My phone line is on at $3.99 a minute on NF. NF attracts a lot of the fetish dudes who are willing to pay that... I'm wondering if TTM has a similar customer base?
Yes I do a lot of fetish shows shows on there.
fionafresher
02-17-2017, 04:35 PM
Yes I do a lot of fetish shows shows on there.
Awesome, it may be time to branch out :)
xCamLovex
02-19-2017, 12:16 PM
Has anyone found the NF forums to be slightly catty and unfriendly? I recently tried to introduce myself there and I was surprised at how many flirts we're just mean. maybe I'm spoiled by the welcoming love here on SW. I just wanted to say hi and was surprised at flirts just like "duh well you should just know that but I'm assuming you don't"
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-19-2017, 02:41 PM
Has anyone found the NF forums to be slightly catty and unfriendly? I recently tried to introduce myself there and I was surprised at how many flirts we're just mean. maybe I'm spoiled by the welcoming love here on SW. I just wanted to say hi and was surprised at flirts just like "duh well you should just know that but I'm assuming you don't"
You also have to be very careful on that forum. Like make sure your listings are fully compliant. If not some flirts will report you. There have been instances where people innocently asked questions in the forum only to have groups of people openly discuss them. Then report whatever rule they may have broken. I've had pictures reported for showing a shadow of an areola. The only way to see that little sliver is if the pic was blown up and it occurred after posting in the forum. Ive had people contact me and other people I know who worked the platform to taunt us for getting suspended. Some of them are trip. This is why I've always been very quick to shut it down whenever it creeps into this thread. I used to be a very active post but now and days I just pop in to get info and leave.
xCamLovex
02-19-2017, 03:06 PM
thanks for the heads up. i got that vibe the moment i introduced myself. there was one performer who was just outright nasty to me..making assumptions about my listing...it was terrible. i know she was a domme, but OMG don't domme on me...domme on your calls lady.
whats your experience? if someone reprots you does niteflirt check it out or automatically suspend you?
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-19-2017, 03:11 PM
thanks for the heads up. i got that vibe the moment i introduced myself. there was one performer who was just outright nasty to me..making assumptions about my listing...it was terrible. i know she was a domme, but OMG don't domme on me...domme on your calls lady.
whats your experience? if someone reprots you does niteflirt check it out or automatically suspend you?
I think its a bit of both. It hasnt happened to me in a very long time. But for a moment there my listings were pulled 3 times in a month? And I was cross promoting other flirts who I knew personally on my listings and they got suspended too. They also had link backs to my listings so I suppose we stuck out? The last time I got suspended I was up and running within the hour because it was an oversight on NF's part. Lucky for me someone responded to my ticket right away.
Nikki_Fox
02-21-2017, 12:08 PM
:shocking: :cop: Must read :cop: :shocking:
This just appeared on top of my NF listing
Please note that NiteFlirt does not permit the following content:
Explicit or suggested willingness to violate NiteFlirt’s policies such as “no taboos” and “no limits”
Non-consensual content
Blood play
Needle play
Knife play
Abduction fantasies
Forced intoxication
Please remove any content relating to these topics before next Monday. On Tuesday, February 28, we will be removing all listings, profiles, and Goody Bags containing this content.
For more about NiteFlirt’s policies, see Play Fair Basics. Please join us in the forums for more information if you have comments and questions.
The link did not post to the help forum - Erin is fielding question to clarify the new policy - I assume you will see it once you log in - if you do not pm me and I will send it to you
Please review your listings to avoid having it deleted -
JaceyLynn
02-21-2017, 12:16 PM
Here is what I seen in the forums just now
As of today, NiteFlirt will no longer permit the following:
Explicit or suggested willingness to violate NiteFlirt’s policies such as “no taboos,” “no restrictions,” and “no limits”
Non-consensual content
Blood play
Needle play
Knife play
Abduction fantasies
Forced intoxication
If you have any content relating to these topics we ask that you please remove it before Tuesday, Feb. 28. On Tuesday, we will unaccept all listings, profiles, and Goody Bags containing this content.
You’ll note we are prohibiting the popular terminology of “no taboos.” As many of you have pointed out, “no taboos” suggests that a Flirt is willing to violate our policies and therefore engage in content we do not permit (even if that is often not the intent). By prohibiting this content, and other content that suggests you are willing to circumvent our policies, we make great strides in ensuring NiteFlirt remains a safe place for you to run your business and we minimize the requests for prohibited content that you receive from customers.
In that vein, we are also changing the “Anything Goes” category name to “Extra Kinky.” You will see this change in the coming days.
This begs a very obvious question, “Why?” As you may already be aware, FetLife was hit with a huge blow a few weeks ago and are currently unable to process credit cards (you can read more about that here13). In order to protect NiteFlirt, our Flirts, and our community as a whole, we have reevaluated our policies and decided to make some changes.
We are happy to engage in a discussion regarding this change, however we ask that you leave politics out of the discussion and remain respectful towards us and your fellow Flirts. While it’s hard to ignore the role that politics plays, let’s make our moms happy and not discuss politics at the dinner table. In addition, we will not comment on the situation at Fetlife or the decisions they have made.
Nikki_Fox
02-21-2017, 12:20 PM
as of a few minutes ago Erin was responding pretty quickly to questions in the help forum - ughhh - thankfully I dont have much to clean up on mine
fionafresher
02-21-2017, 09:10 PM
wow - yikes. HUGE sigh of relief when they said hypnosis is still allowed. Not a great direction though.
Blue-Velvet
02-22-2017, 06:36 AM
Well, given that Fetlife was dropped by their banks/processors, I'm not at all surprised that NF would want to protect their business and us from that happening. If the new US government is taking a more proactive, anti-porn approach, they would want to take all necessary preventative measures from being shut down, worst case scenario.
Magical_Hoohah
02-22-2017, 09:23 AM
In that vein, we are also changing the “Anything Goes” category name to “Extra Kinky.” You will see this change in the coming days.
My most popular listing is under "Anything Goes." I put it there and promoted it thinking that that meant "I accept requests from many different categories" or "miscellaneous." Since I'm a switch, and I do vanilla, kink, and fetish, that seemed like a nice, catch-all category.
I now see that I misunderstood the phrase. *facepalm*
Smurfette
02-22-2017, 09:46 AM
Hey guys, quick question: Do Canadian/international flirts have to opt for checks? Their ACH option is asking me for numbers that don't exist on my bank account, so I assume I can't use ACH for direct deposit (I'm Canadian).
Kinda bummed the only other option is a monthly check that will take weeks to arrive...
sweetandnaughty
02-22-2017, 12:33 PM
Yeah..I wondered about all of this when I saw so many listings claiming "no limits, no taboos..." etc. I thought...well, that's not right. There are lots of things we can't do on NF. I get calls to do it all the time and say I'm on other sites that have no limits but custie has to find me.
Blue-Velvet
02-22-2017, 12:43 PM
Hey guys, quick question: Do Canadian/international flirts have to opt for checks? Their ACH option is asking me for numbers that don't exist on my bank account, so I assume I can't use ACH for direct deposit (I'm Canadian).
Kinda bummed the only other option is a monthly check that will take weeks to arrive...
I'm in the UK and the only payment option is monthly check. I assume it's the same for everywhere that's not in the US.
Smurfette
02-22-2017, 01:49 PM
Thanks. That's a bummer. I was excited to take advantage of the daily pay! Oh well.
DonaDiabla
02-22-2017, 05:38 PM
Well, anything goes in the phone sex world means that you can do every fetish without any moral problems. Usually, it stands for girls who are able to do super extreme stuff. Frankly, I was kinda of suprised that NF let that fly for so long because I knew what that meant. But now, they have came to their senses before their merchant provider causes them more problems. :)
My most popular listing is under "Anything Goes." I put it there and promoted it thinking that that meant "I accept requests from many different categories" or "miscellaneous." Since I'm a switch, and I do vanilla, kink, and fetish, that seemed like a nice, catch-all category.
I now see that I misunderstood the phrase. *facepalm*
Snowy0Star
02-23-2017, 04:54 AM
what do u do when a guy calls and says hes on drugs and wont talk after that ? I just had a call and he said he was smoking weed I asked him what he wanted to talk about and stuff and he wouldn't say anything then right before I try to talk to him again he hung up on me. the system said the call was a minute long so it most have been like 30 seconds or so that we wasn't saying anything before he hung up .
Nikki_Fox
02-23-2017, 08:04 AM
I just talk and talk and talk until they hang up - as long as the call is connected I keep talking -- I have one guy who gets sooooooo jacked up on crack- his few responses become inaudible then silence - I talk until he hangs up - its really sad in the bigger picture - I think I am like his security blanket that he is not alone - our calls are 200 to 400 my part
Blue-Velvet
02-23-2017, 09:12 AM
I had a guy once who was so wasted he fell asleep and literally started snoring. I kept talking and trying to wake him up. Eventually, woke up and just carried on with the intox session. Had he stayed asleep, I would have sat there maybe 10 minutes before hanging up unless he was clearly looking to be drained.
Snowy0Star
02-23-2017, 01:04 PM
ok ty guys I was gonna start talking if he didn't say anything after that second time but he hung up maybe im giving them too much time to not say anything
nattythefattyforsure
02-23-2017, 01:35 PM
Hi, everyone. My friend just told me about NF, and I'm excited to try it. (I'm on c4s, and I used to do caming) But I don't have a landline. I have super fast internet, so I'm thinking about getting Vonage, and if I get Vonage, can I just get the North American line?
For example, if a caller is from Europe, does NF take care of the global phone connection? Or do I have to get the international calls option on Vonage?
Sorry if this is a stupid question.
innocentindian
02-23-2017, 05:03 PM
Can I get a 1 star rating removed? A guy messaged me begging for free minutes, I said no. Then he called me, begged during the call to give him 5 free minutes. I said no, he hung up, and he's rated me 1 star saying I have a bad attitude!
What the hell is this?? This is my very first rating on that listing, and he's literally blackmailing me into giving him free shit so he doesn't rate me badly and unfairly.
PSOcodemonkey
02-23-2017, 07:00 PM
Can I get a 1 star rating removed? A guy messaged me begging for free minutes, I said no. Then he called me, begged during the call to give him 5 free minutes. I said no, he hung up, and he's rated me 1 star saying I have a bad attitude!
What the hell is this?? This is my very first rating on that listing, and he's literally blackmailing me into giving him free shit so he doesn't rate me badly and unfairly.
Yeah, not going to happen. Just how NF is. Since you only have that one feedback, you can delete the listing, then recreate it.
Snowy0Star
02-23-2017, 08:24 PM
Yeah, not going to happen. Just how NF is. Since you only have that one feedback, you can delete the listing, then recreate it.
yup i had to do that with a phone call on TTM he wanted me to talk about training a 10 year old girl to suck his dick and i was trying to redirect the convo into something else he gave up hung up rated me bad TTM didnt take it off so i just made a new profile and stopped using TTM for anything other then the vchat line for about a year its only been since end of last month that i opened my profile to take calls again because of that . Really messed up that phone sex platforms have this sort of 'customer is always right' mentality they record our calls they can go back and listen on that shit but wont.
Nikki_Fox
02-23-2017, 10:58 PM
At leaset TTM allows you to leave a comment back to any feedback that is posted - I had a guy bug the shit out of me to lower my rate - when I refused he went on with the call for 25 minutes - got off - seemed like all was well - then I see his crapppy feedback - I just commented my side of it and magically it disappeared -
Snowy0Star
02-24-2017, 12:00 AM
At leaset TTM allows you to leave a comment back to any feedback that is posted - I had a guy bug the shit out of me to lower my rate - when I refused he went on with the call for 25 minutes - got off - seemed like all was well - then I see his crapppy feedback - I just commented my side of it and magically it disappeared -
I commented on TTM then he went and commented a photo set he got before he called me and said my photos were shitty quality and how I was bitchy and had no business tact and a bunch of other shit . I looked at his other reviews and they were all profiles using stock photo and those were my real photos so I guess to him "real' is "shitty" after that I just gave up and scraped that profile and deleted and cloned it to get a fresh slate
Blue-Velvet
02-24-2017, 04:29 AM
I didn't think you were allowed to delete and recreate profiles on NF? I had this happen when I created a cam profile. My first caller was a 2min call whereby he (an obese man in his late 50s/early 60s) dug a turd out of his ass, chewed on it, laughed and ended the call. Then he left bad feedback saying I was "much fatter" than my profile photos. Because of the low rating and it being my first, I was unable to bid for placement. It was my understanding that if I deleted the profile and recreated it, the same feedback would be attached to it. Maybe I was mistaken.
xCamLovex
02-24-2017, 08:48 AM
Yep this has happened to me too in the pastweek - users manipulating flirts for free mins
PSOcodemonkey
02-24-2017, 10:35 AM
I didn't think you were allowed to delete and recreate profiles on NF? I had this happen when I created a cam profile. My first caller was a 2min call whereby he (an obese man in his late 50s/early 60s) dug a turd out of his ass, chewed on it, laughed and ended the call. Then he left bad feedback saying I was "much fatter" than my profile photos. Because of the low rating and it being my first, I was unable to bid for placement. It was my understanding that if I deleted the profile and recreated it, the same feedback would be attached to it. Maybe I was mistaken.
You are allowed to delete listings. No, the feedback does not come back to the new listing if you have deleted the original listing. It will still show up in your internal feedback link( ), but not to the clients. You are able to bid the new listing once it is approved.
SuperPookie
02-24-2017, 04:32 PM
I have a character that has gotten like 6 calls in the 4-5 months I've had her and that's with bidding. If I delete that character can I do a entirely new one? Also how many listings can one character have? I thought it was 3 but I saw one lady with 6.
Snowy0Star
02-24-2017, 05:16 PM
I have a character that has gotten like 6 calls in the 4-5 months I've had her and that's with bidding. If I delete that character can I do a entirely new one? Also how many listings can one character have? I thought it was 3 but I saw one lady with 6.
i dont see why not just change ur new characters name from the one that had 6 calls and recode ur profile and u should be good to go. u want to completly change it so u dont go over the 3 per phone number and card limit NF has yah ?
PSOcodemonkey
02-24-2017, 05:58 PM
I have a character that has gotten like 6 calls in the 4-5 months I've had her and that's with bidding. If I delete that character can I do a entirely new one? Also how many listings can one character have? I thought it was 3 but I saw one lady with 6.
You are actually asking several different things. You can have up to 3 characters linked (same phone number), all will go busy when any of the three are called, etc. You can have more than that, but must have a different phone number, and will not go busy when any of the other three are called. You can also not have more than three characters with the same CC on file.
Listings are a different thing. You can have many many listings for the same character. Whether that is a smart thing or not depends on the PSO and the character.
As far as "deleting a character" what most do is rename the character and delete all the listings, then create new listings and get them approved. But that way you loose all your customers for that character and any feedback. Not a big deal if you did not have many to begin with, but a big deal if you have a customer base. In those cases, better to just create a totally new profile from scratch. Downside of course is that if you already have three with the same phone number, the new one will need a different phone number, etc. Some PSOs will rename their characters and redo but not delete their listings. Downside of that is you might have some mad customers who will suddenly see that you are "someone else".