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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-06-2017, 10:48 AM
What do you ladies do about guys who want you to call them off the site? I've told him it's against the rules (even read him the TOS word for word) and he keeps insisting that I can and other girls do it. I know that's bullshit but he's called me like, a dozen times in the past few days asking why I haven't called him yet. What do I do? I don't want a low rating on the calls because this character is new and I've been very clear (but nice) about it so I'm not sure how to handle it.
You can't worry about low ratings. When you stop caring about them that's when situations like this are easier to deal with. If he's annoying you so badly then just block him! Or you can read him the tos again, word for word. If he's willing to pay to hear that then why not? Take his money and tell him no over and over until you can't mentally take it anymore. Change the subject act as if you didn't hear him. If he gives bad feedback, he's only allowed to leave one. If he leaves more send NF a ticket and they will remove the additional ones.
Also many of these guys get off on trying to get you to break the rules. They do it in camming too.
MsMeta
07-06-2017, 11:21 AM
You can't worry about low ratings. When you stop caring about them that's when situations like this are easier to deal with. If he's annoying you so badly then just block him! Or you can read him the tos again, word for word. If he's willing to pay to hear that then why not? Take his money and tell him no over and over until you can't mentally take it anymore. Change the subject act as if you didn't hear him. If he gives bad feedback, he's only allowed to leave one. If he leaves more send NF a ticket and they will remove the additional ones.
Also many of these guys get off on trying to get you to break the rules. They do it in camming too.
Hmm, I think you may be right about him getting off on trying to get me to break the rules cause every time I tell him no he seems to get more excited, lol. I guess that's why he keeps calling back; I've had a couple other guys want me to call them offline but I said no and haven't heard from them since. This must be his thing, lol.
ebonee
07-06-2017, 05:20 PM
Hey ladies does it usually take the 2 days for NF to review your listing or does it take longer or shorter? Just made my listing spent most of the day taking pictures and doing my layout can't wait for it to go live. Hoping this will be another good egg for me
MsMeta
07-06-2017, 05:46 PM
I've created a lot of new listings over the past couple weeks and none took more than 24 hours to get approved. Hopefully yours will be quick too!
JaceyLynn
07-06-2017, 07:14 PM
Hey ladies does it usually take the 2 days for NF to review your listing or does it take longer or shorter? Just made my listing spent most of the day taking pictures and doing my layout can't wait for it to go live. Hoping this will be another good egg for me
Could take anywhere from a few hours to a few days. Unless its a holiday or weekend mine usually get approved within a day. Make sure you are not editing your listing before they approve it otherwise it will send it back to the bottom of the queue.
sarahlove
07-07-2017, 05:00 AM
Could take anywhere from a few hours to a few days. Unless its a holiday or weekend mine usually get approved within a day. Make sure you are not editing your listing before they approve it otherwise it will send it back to the bottom of the queue.
I also noticed if I don't put any pics in the listing and just put in plain html it goes through super quick. They still moniter the site closely so I still follow TOU when I put the pics in later but it goes faster when they are just reading words (my guess is the ones with no words get reviews by a keword search of banned words but pics need a human eye)
Just my observation.
ebonee
07-07-2017, 09:34 AM
All my ads were approved this morning and I even got my first caller within the hr. I have my prices set higher than most and was a lil worried that I might have to drop but so glad I didn't I'm pretty hyped off of just one call lol . Now let's see how many I get this weekend and within the next 30days also how long it take to get paid. I have express pay set up how long do you all usually wait to see payment in is it the whole 10days less or more? For US banks
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-07-2017, 10:06 AM
All my ads were approved this morning and I even got my first caller within the hr. I have my prices set higher than most and was a lil worried that I might have to drop but so glad I didn't I'm pretty hyped off of just one call lol . Now let's see how many I get this weekend and within the next 30days also how long it take to get paid. I have express pay set up how long do you all usually wait to see payment in is it the whole 10days less or more? For US banks
Your first payout will most likely take 10 days. But after that it speeds up. Right now Im getting payments 5 days from the date it's supposedly pulled from account. For awhile it was like three days to my netspend cards.
MayaMonroe
07-11-2017, 07:12 PM
Hey y'all I have a quick question. I've had my niteflirt account for almost a year and only now really put it to use. I set up monthly payout but realized the 30th of June that my banking info was old so I immediately updated it. This is also my first payout with niteflirt. I haven't received it as yet and wondering if my changing my banking last minute didn't go through?
laurielegs
07-12-2017, 12:05 AM
Hey y'all I have a quick question. I've had my niteflirt account for almost a year and only now really put it to use. I set up monthly payout but realized the 30th of June that my banking info was old so I immediately updated it. This is also my first payout with niteflirt. I haven't received it as yet and wondering if my changing my banking last minute didn't go through?
Express pay is free. If I were you I'd change to that because otherwise I bet you'll have to wait another month for your pay since you changed it at the last minute.
It takes a week to set up direct deposit so that's why so you'll have to wait till the next month's payout unless you switch to express pay. I love getting daily deposits every time I make over $10.
Magical_Hoohah
07-12-2017, 06:53 AM
As far as how fast I get paid, I pretty consistently get it one week from the day I earned it. For example, if I earn money on a Tuesday, NF sends it out in the early morning (3-4am) Wednesday, then it's in my bank the following Tuesday. Sometimes they surprise me and get it there a day early. If there's a bank holiday it might come a day late, although 4th of July didn't slow down my payments at all.
MayaMonroe
07-12-2017, 11:43 AM
Express pay is free. If I were you I'd change to that because otherwise I bet you'll have to wait another month for your pay since you changed it at the last minute.
It takes a week to set up direct deposit so that's why so you'll have to wait till the next month's payout unless you switch to express pay. I love getting daily deposits every time I make over $10.
UGGGHH! I was excited to have the extra money this month. Oh well. Thank you though for responding!!
sweetandnaughty
07-12-2017, 01:53 PM
the website is down with this message... WTF????
This website is under heavy load
We're sorry, too many people are accessing this website at the same time. We're working on this problem. Please try again later.
Spemily
07-12-2017, 02:06 PM
It's back now.
sarahlove
07-12-2017, 10:51 PM
the website is down with this message... WTF????
This website is under heavy load
We're sorry, too many people are accessing this website at the same time. We're working on this problem. Please try again later.
I saw this and decided to take a vacation day. lol Tomorrow should be busy since this message was up for the guys too.
jazzygirl08
07-16-2017, 07:02 PM
Can someone help me with this... in niteflirt there is a customer asking to video chat with me through Skype. How can I offer my service with my cam with phone option and get make sure i am getting paid through Niteflirt?
Spemily
07-16-2017, 07:09 PM
Can someone help me with this... in niteflirt there is a customer asking to video chat with me through Skype. How can I offer my service with my cam with phone option and get make sure i am getting paid through Niteflirt?
Make a listing in the cam with phone section. After he calls you, add him on Skype or have him add you on Skype, then make a Skype call to him. Turn off your mic on Skype (and have him turn off his, preferably) and continue the call over the phone. Some girls are comfortable putting the phone down and talking through Skype, but if you do make sure that you keep your eye on the phone. If he ends the call, stop the Skype show.
JaceyLynn
07-16-2017, 09:25 PM
If he ends the call, stop the Skype show.
Pay attention to this, guys like to pull fast ones on us.
jazzygirl08
07-18-2017, 09:00 PM
Thank You
DejaElectra
07-19-2017, 10:44 AM
Can someone help me with this... in niteflirt there is a customer asking to video chat with me through Skype. How can I offer my service with my cam with phone option and get make sure i am getting paid through Niteflirt?
As someone has already said make a listing in the phone with cam section and tell him to call you through that listing. What I personally do is I tell customers to buy my Skype ID before calling. Some people don't like to do this because you will get guys buying your Skype ID just to waste your time in text chat but I just tell them "call or you're getting blocked."
To sell your Skype ID go to My Account > Create Buttons > Payment Mail Buttons. Once you're there click "create new button" then select type of mail as Pay-To-View, I have my subject just say "Buy My Skype ID" and in the description I put my Skype rules and ask them to include their NF username when adding me. In the body of the PTV I repeat myself telling them the important rules and then put my Skype ID at the bottom. Then I set the "for listing" to my cam line listing, then just copy the payment mail link and put it at the top of my listing. I personally do it this way because when they buy your PTV it will prompt them to rate you (and also extra money) I know some flirts prefer to tell the caller their Skype ID over the phone, but that never worked well for me.
I have them add me first then prompt them to call my NF listing, once they are on the phone call I drag it out with a bit of "hello, how are you? etc. etc." and then either wait for them to ask if they can call my Skype or I ask them. Once we're on the Skype call I put my phone on speaker (out of range of my mic to avoid echo) and then just chat through Skype, if I hear that automated "please stay on the line..." I hang up the Skype call. Some flirts prefer to mute Skype and just talk over the phone, but depending on what kind of shows you do this could be a pain in the ass.
Some More Tips:
Never mute your phone, even if they hang up the call will still keep going with the automated voice and they could be getting free minutes with you
If you charge for your Skype ID when setting up your Skype account don't put your username/full cam name, cheap guys will just search for you and add you without paying. I personally have mine as my first name and then some BS as a last name like "The Mistress" or "Camline" also make a new email/Skype ID and make sure that doesn't include your full user/cam name either
Make sure you're searchable on Skype. You'll have to login to the Skype website then go to edit profile then scroll to the bottom where it says "Profile Settings" and make sure "Include me in People Search and Suggestions" is checked off
Never accept tributes for Skype shows, lots of guys try to pull this shit but it's a scam and against NF TOS
If possible use a fast VPN for security so your real IP address is covered
Blue-Velvet
07-20-2017, 04:53 AM
Has anyone in the UK gotten their cheque yet?
JGB2009
07-28-2017, 07:28 AM
Has anyone here been having trouble with stupid Skype? When I add someone and they try to start the video call, it will not let me connect. Should I try to uninstall Skype and reinstall it? This is so frustrating to me :(
grneyesnfl
07-29-2017, 01:05 PM
Has anyone here been having trouble with stupid Skype? When I add someone and they try to start the video call, it will not let me connect. Should I try to uninstall Skype and reinstall it? This is so frustrating to me :(
You could try that. I watch guys on cam and have not been having any problems with it.
BlondebombGA
08-01-2017, 02:14 PM
Hi everyone. I'm the admin for the private PSO/Niteflirt group. Apologies for being inactive for so long but I was battling major depression and literally left the world for a year and a half. I'm slowly making my way back to work and life now and see about 35 requests to join the group.
First off, if anyone would like to take over admin of this group I think that would work best as I am just unable to take too much on right now. This will mean you verifying the potential members rather like "Verified Cam Girls" group.
This group was created for experienced PSOs so I think it best that the new admin be quite experienced with Niteflirt and/or other PSO services. In other words, THIS thread was for newbies etc. and the group was for those who had gotten through the training wheels of PSO work...kinda like NF's "Accomplished Flirt" section compared to "Flirt Support" for those under a 250 feedback.
Again, sorry for the lapse on my part but I was busy finding my way out of the darkness.
I've missed it here. :)
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-01-2017, 02:31 PM
Hi everyone. I'm the admin for the private PSO/Niteflirt group. Apologies for being inactive for so long but I was battling major depression and literally left the world for a year and a half. I'm slowly making my way back to work and life now and see about 35 requests to join the group.
First off, if anyone would like to take over admin of this group I think that would work best as I am just unable to take too much on right now. This will mean you verifying the potential members rather like "Verified Cam Girls" group.
This group was created for experienced PSOs so I think it best that the new admin be quite experienced with Niteflirt and/or other PSO services. In other words, THIS thread was for newbies etc. and the group was for those who had gotten through the training wheels of PSO work...kinda like NF's "Accomplished Flirt" section compared to "Flirt Support" for those under a 250 feedback.
Again, sorry for the lapse on my part but I was busy finding my way out of the darkness.
I've missed it here. :)
I sent you a pm.
fionafresher
08-01-2017, 05:05 PM
Where can I find more info on the private group? Does it require X amount of comments/etc on this forum, or just NF experience/ratings?
JayzGirl
08-01-2017, 05:09 PM
Will someone send me an invite to the private NiteFlirt group, please. Thanks!
ChrissyAnn
08-02-2017, 11:53 AM
I don't allow them to use Skype sound only phone so I know when they hang up SHOW OVER..
ep2002
08-06-2017, 09:20 PM
I don't allow them to use Skype sound only phone so I know when they hang up SHOW OVER..
I finally figured out why you don't just do the whole thing on SK, it's b/c you are charging them by the minute on NF, but why can't you just sell them blocks of time?
This would be just like SM where the guy can call you, but still sees on you cam, so I think you are right, the phone is best, I assume I'd have to just mute SK, right?
Thanks
grneyesnfl
08-07-2017, 03:59 AM
but why can't you just sell them blocks of time?
Thanks
NF doesn't allow selling blocks of time (for cam or texting). There's no way to track it. A guy could buy a 30-minute block of time and the girl never gets on cam. Or, she gets on cam for 10 minutes and then she's gone. It's his word against hers regarding how much time they spent together, or at all.
ep2002
08-07-2017, 08:39 AM
How much do you gals usually charge for galleries of pics & how many pics do you normally include?
ChrissyAnn
08-07-2017, 10:22 AM
Correct I make them pay per min to reduce the chance of a charge back. Yes I mute Skype or make sure that I never turn my sound down on my phone so low that I can not hear the alert message that the call has ended if they insect on Skype sound. I just had a guy on 8/30/17 hang up on the call per min so I went off cam and He told me to get back on he was still paying me. I told him he was not. I don't know if I can say he nickname here so U all can watch out for him. So TICKED to he left me 1 star and a bad comment cause I called him out. Sent a ticket to NF but have not heard back from them Not happy about that either. I have all 5 stars and great comments til him.. OMG...
Rispy_Girl
08-07-2017, 01:12 PM
Who did you guys pay to do your ad? I half made one, bout have been stuck in a procrastination cycle.
xCamLovex
08-07-2017, 06:44 PM
NF won't remove it one star ratings unless it's spam or harassment. TBH they are not understanding about this at ALL.
I only cam on PPM cam sites because I find the skype and NF call thing to be more of a hassle and trust me guys are willing to cut the call off and gamble to see if u notice.
Maybe one day if NF had a widget like sky private tho for sure
sweetandnaughty
08-08-2017, 11:58 AM
Oh the crickets of summer are hitting me now on NF. Very quiet and used to be rocking. I hope it's due to the summer slowdown. All PSO is quiet. Bring on fall!!
xCamLovex
08-08-2017, 03:01 PM
Oh the crickets of summer are hitting me now on NF. Very quiet and used to be rocking. I hope it's due to the summer slowdown. All PSO is quiet. Bring on fall!!
I noticed this for the past two weeks. Thought it was just me. This is the first summer I've ever done PSO. So it's normal?
Personally, I even feel it. I've been in full hustle mode all summer but ever since August started, I want to be out and enjoy the weather just a little bit. Can't blame the guys for wanting to do the same.
Are there any trends that a new PSO should be aware of? I always get butt hurt when things get slow, but maybe I have to start realizing there is a natural rise and fall to this industry like any other sales oriented business.
BlondebombGA
08-08-2017, 03:19 PM
@xCamLovex, yes for many, Summer slows down quite a bit. Kids are home, saving up for vacations, more new PSO's as teachers with time off come on board or so I've heard, etc. You will see quite alot of talk about it on the NF boards. When you get a nice, solid regular base you may not feel the effects as much but for me the difference from May to June was still pretty noticeable.
For myself personally, I feind that January drops a bit too. Holiday credit cards coming in and such, New Years resolutions...who knows. However December is usually pretty outstanding so I learned to just budget that bonus for the slower time.
sarahlove
08-09-2017, 01:02 AM
@xCamLovex, yes for many, Summer slows down quite a bit. Kids are home, saving up for vacations, more new PSO's as teachers with time off come on board or so I've heard, etc. You will see quite alot of talk about it on the NF boards. When you get a nice, solid regular base you may not feel the effects as much but for me the difference from May to June was still pretty noticeable.
For myself personally, I feind that January drops a bit too. Holiday credit cards coming in and such, New Years resolutions...who knows. However December is usually pretty outstanding so I learned to just budget that bonus for the slower time.
I have been doing this for about 3 years. I have a fan base on a couple of characters. I have found that this helps during the "slow" times but it also helps to pay attention to how you look things. I don't really go on the NF forums because it seems like a bunch of women who come in with every little glitch and have a list of demands for NF. I would LOVE to put a post in there called "what if it all went away" NF may not be perfect but NF is enough to be a sole income. NF is enough to pay all of my bills and rent and go on vacations and so forth. I have been thinking a lot about how things could be if NF went away. It is why I am looking for investors and working on some VERY exciting things but in the mean time I am very grateful and thankful for NF and the way it works.
JaneBurgess
08-09-2017, 11:21 AM
Oh the crickets of summer are hitting me now on NF. Very quiet and used to be rocking. I hope it's due to the summer slowdown. All PSO is quiet. Bring on fall!!
Kids are going back to school in many states this week and next week so it will pick back up again.
foxirox
08-10-2017, 02:57 AM
Does anyone know how long cheques take to arrive for UK gilrlies? x
BlondebombGA
08-11-2017, 02:12 PM
I know lots of kids went back yesterday, and man can I already tell the difference! Hooray!
BlondebombGA
08-11-2017, 02:15 PM
Also...I know I have several clients who call me on NF but also like to show off on Skype using only their cellphone for both. Today I had a reg client who wanted to do a 2 way session but only had his cellphone and every time he connected to Skype, NF would disconnect. Does anyone know how to remedy this? I know it is possible.
sarahlove
08-11-2017, 03:04 PM
I know lots of kids went back yesterday, and man can I already tell the difference! Hooray!
I know right! I had a great day today! Thank you Universe!
grneyesnfl
08-11-2017, 11:12 PM
Also...I know I have several clients who call me on NF but also like to show off on Skype using only their cellphone for both. Today I had a reg client who wanted to do a 2 way session but only had his cellphone and every time he connected to Skype, NF would disconnect. Does anyone know how to remedy this? I know it is possible.
If there is a way... I'd like to know what it is. This subject gets brought up in the NF forum once in a while and no one there has figured it out. As far as I know, it is not possible for a customer to do a NF call AND a Skype call all from his cell phone. That's why so many of them try to get you to accept a tribute for a Skype show (which everyone should know is against the rules).
Blue-Velvet
08-12-2017, 04:58 AM
Does anyone know how long cheques take to arrive for UK gilrlies? x
Generally speaking, they arrive between about the 12th and the 17th depending on holidays, etc. My cheque for June earnings that was meant to arrive middle of July didn't arrive until the 24th. Other UK people that I spoke to also received theirs late on the 24th, and some a few days after that. Hopefully the cheque we're meant to get around now arrives in the next few days.
Girly_Girl
08-12-2017, 07:14 PM
I have a few regulars on nf but not a whole lot. What is the secret to getting more calls? (Also I offer skype) Right now my profile is pretty plain:( Would adding a template with more pictures get me more calls? Also, would I get more calls if I paid for bidding?
I'mEveToo
08-13-2017, 03:39 PM
I have a few regulars on nf but not a whole lot. What is the secret to getting more calls? (Also I offer skype) Right now my profile is pretty plain:( Would adding a template with more pictures get me more calls? Also, would I get more calls if I paid for bidding?
Recent lurker, stepping out from the shadows.
I've been on Niteflirt for over 9 years and make most of my income there. I think there are a lot of factors that go into getting more calls and for every thing someone tells you that you "must" do, you can find 10 successful Flirts who do it differently. What works for one person doesn't always work for someone else.
I think listing text is very important. You need to define your persona and what you do. There are thousands of listings for a horny guy to browse and unless something really grabs them, they tend to move on to the next listing. You need to give him enough information that he can quickly and easily get a sense of your personality and what a call with you would be like.
Professional templates look great but I don't think you need one. I think it helps to have a few very good, sexy photos that focus on your best features and reinforce the image of your character.
Choosing a good account name can help too. A name like "Busty Cougar Cuckoldress" will catch the attention of your target caller more quickly than something more vague like "Sexy Sally".
I think bidding helps but bid carefully. Bid in the categories where it's cheapest for you and always set a budget.
sarahlove
08-15-2017, 07:43 AM
Recent lurker, stepping out from the shadows.
I've been on Niteflirt for over 9 years and make most of my income there. I think there are a lot of factors that go into getting more calls and for every thing someone tells you that you "must" do, you can find 10 successful Flirts who do it differently. What works for one person doesn't always work for someone else.
I think listing text is very important. You need to define your persona and what you do. There are thousands of listings for a horny guy to browse and unless something really grabs them, they tend to move on to the next listing. You need to give him enough information that he can quickly and easily get a sense of your personality and what a call with you would be like.
Professional templates look great but I don't think you need one. I think it helps to have a few very good, sexy photos that focus on your best features and reinforce the image of your character.
Choosing a good account name can help too. A name like "Busty Cougar Cuckoldress" will catch the attention of your target caller more quickly than something more vague like "Sexy Sally".
I think bidding helps but bid carefully. Bid in the categories where it's cheapest for you and always set a budget.
This is some very useful information! I also think that it helps to grow the guys that you do have. I love sending out a PTV to my list and waking up to money. Don't be afraid to send them things. When a new guy clicks on my listing I send out a welcome packet and tell them that if they don't want me to send them something then let me know and I will keep them on a seperate list.
foxirox
08-15-2017, 11:33 AM
So so grateful to this thread and to NF. It has literally saved my ass over these past few weeks. I was uber scared of using it as I suck at phone sex. I decided I had nothing to lose and tried again a few months later. The first call I had, I couldn't hear the guy. Without any communication, he left me negative feedback which battered my confidence. I swiftly got it removed and tried once more. So glad I did. The calls kept coming in and my confidence and feedback quickly came with it.
Now guys are emailing asking for goodies and all sorts.
I'm going to try and expand with NF and perhaps get some goodies and emails going. I've never done this, but seems like it works well for other flirts?
I also have 2 phones. Is it against the rules to have 2 accounts on NF?
sarahlove
08-15-2017, 12:13 PM
So so grateful to this thread and to NF. It has literally saved my ass over these past few weeks. I was uber scared of using it as I suck at phone sex. I decided I had nothing to lose and tried again a few months later. The first call I had, I couldn't hear the guy. Without any communication, he left me negative feedback which battered my confidence. I swiftly got it removed and tried once more. So glad I did. The calls kept coming in and my confidence and feedback quickly came with it.
Now guys are emailing asking for goodies and all sorts.
I'm going to try and expand with NF and perhaps get some goodies and emails going. I've never done this, but seems like it works well for other flirts?
I also have 2 phones. Is it against the rules to have 2 accounts on NF?
I am glad you tried again! You can have 3 account per phone number. Lots of people buy content and use content models to make extra money.