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I'mEveToo
08-15-2017, 12:30 PM
So so grateful to this thread and to NF. It has literally saved my ass over these past few weeks. I was uber scared of using it as I suck at phone sex. I decided I had nothing to lose and tried again a few months later. The first call I had, I couldn't hear the guy. Without any communication, he left me negative feedback which battered my confidence. I swiftly got it removed and tried once more. So glad I did. The calls kept coming in and my confidence and feedback quickly came with it.
Now guys are emailing asking for goodies and all sorts.
I'm going to try and expand with NF and perhaps get some goodies and emails going. I've never done this, but seems like it works well for other flirts?
I also have 2 phones. Is it against the rules to have 2 accounts on NF?
If you can't find photo content that you like to buy, you can also use your own photos and disguise yourself for a second character. You can make yourself look very different with wigs, lighting, different clothing and makeup and using side views or photos without your face showing.
foxirox
08-15-2017, 01:47 PM
Thank you so much ladies. I think what turned things around for me was offering phone with cam. Once I felt at ease doing Skype shows for NF custies, the calls came in, along with the positive feedback. Then I opened up my phone only listings and felt more confident. I tried to also play to my strengths and find little niche areas. I love doing fetish stuff, but offered it as this part of my character who doesn't look very fetish/domme. It somehow worked really well...
However, having 2/3 accounts is really good. Now I just need to get making some content! :)
Blovely
08-15-2017, 02:15 PM
I tried searching the thread but couldn't find my answer. I'm creating goody bag and getting ready to shrink my files so that they fit for goody bags. I saw Hayden's post about doing zip file but I don't want to do all that at least now yet. So I'm wondering what resolution do you ladies make your videos to fit the good bag?
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-15-2017, 05:02 PM
I tried searching the thread but couldn't find my answer. I'm creating goody bag and getting ready to shrink my files so that they fit for goody bags. I saw Hayden's post about doing zip file but I don't want to do all that at least now yet. So I'm wondering what resolution do you ladies make your videos to fit the good bag?
I do a few 720 clips uploaded but the bulk of my money is still from pay to views where I offer 1080 & 4k resolutions in pay to views. Allowing NF to render you clips deminishes the quality. I've had lots of customers who have said it's not the same as if they got it somewhere else. Goodie Bags are great for visibility but the quality may go down.
Girly_Girl
08-16-2017, 07:16 AM
I do a few 720 clips uploaded but the bulk of my money is still from pay to views where I offer 1080 & 4k resolutions in pay to views. Allowing NF to render you clips deminishes the quality. I've had lots of customers who have said it's not the same as if they got it somewhere else. Goodie Bags are great for visibility but the quality may go down.
We can do pay per views on nf? I didnt know that:( How do we set up pay per views?
JaneBurgess
08-16-2017, 11:14 AM
We can do pay per views on nf? I didnt know that:( How do we set up pay per views?
You do it in your mail. Click on compose message and you have the PPV option on there
grneyesnfl
08-18-2017, 06:53 AM
We can do pay per views on nf? I didnt know that:( How do we set up pay per views?
Be very careful setting up your Pay-To-View. People new to the process sometimes choose Payment Request instead of PTV and end up giving their stuff away for free (if the customer chooses not to pay the request).
Smurfette
08-19-2017, 10:51 AM
Are we allowed to use stock photos from a site like depositphotos.com to build a character profile or is that a no-no?
missxxxsabrina
08-19-2017, 11:25 AM
Hey girls I just signed up on here because i really need some help. My Niteflirt listing as of this morning has been ''ghosting'' itself, like I will bid myself to the top page and I go and check several times to see if it is where it says it is, and it's nowhere to be seen. My account seems to be ok, I havent been banned or warned by NF, my listing follows all the rules and its been working fine the last two days I was on it. I'm new there but had been doing pretty well, and now all of a sudden my listing wont show up on the front page :( I submittted a ticket but i expect minimal help from NF customer service thats why I posted here. I only have one listing in the phone section, Im thinking maybe start a new listing in the Phone with Cam and just copy paste my other listings html there? Idk why this is happening :/
caramelcraze
08-19-2017, 04:18 PM
Hey girls I just signed up on here because i really need some help. My Niteflirt listing as of this morning has been ''ghosting'' itself, like I will bid myself to the top page and I go and check several times to see if it is where it says it is, and it's nowhere to be seen. My account seems to be ok, I havent been banned or warned by NF, my listing follows all the rules and its been working fine the last two days I was on it. I'm new there but had been doing pretty well, and now all of a sudden my listing wont show up on the front page :( I submittted a ticket but i expect minimal help from NF customer service thats why I posted here. I only have one listing in the phone section, Im thinking maybe start a new listing in the Phone with Cam and just copy paste my other listings html there? Idk why this is happening :/
I have had this happen numerous times, as have many other ladies. It's a glitch in their system & it's been there for a while. your listing should pop back up if you refresh a few times.
missxxxsabrina
08-19-2017, 04:40 PM
ive been refreshing and trying all sorts of things for like 9 hours now lol i give up at this point ill just wait it out. My status is set to available yet my page is set to busy. go figure!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-19-2017, 04:45 PM
ive been refreshing and trying all sorts of things for like 9 hours now lol i give up at this point ill just wait it out. My status is set to available yet my page is set to busy. go figure!
There's a link in you dashboard towards the top. You may be able to click it to become unstuck.
missxxxsabrina
08-19-2017, 04:50 PM
what link do you mean hun? I am a bit confused. I also logged out, tried different browsers, and turned my availability off for a while then back on and nothing. :( im not givin up tho
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-19-2017, 04:53 PM
what link do you mean hun? I am a bit confused. I also logged out, tried different browsers, and turned my availability off for a while then back on and nothing. :( im not givin up tho
Its at the upper left portion of the page. Just under your ring to phone number. Sometimes you may be stuck on busy. Clicking that link will unstick it.
missxxxsabrina
08-19-2017, 04:56 PM
I fixed it !!! I went and changed my timezone and pin and it now shows me on the listingss
LaurenAus
08-21-2017, 07:15 PM
Curious if many people here only work very part time on niteflirt doing phone only and think it's still worth it or if the money's decent?
EricaErotica
08-22-2017, 01:06 PM
Thank you Lord!!! Chat is coming to Niteflirt! It is being introduced in Beta format right now. Check this out https://forum.niteflirt.com/t/announcing-our-newest-feature-chat-now-in-beta/52598
Staci
08-22-2017, 01:47 PM
Thank you Lord!!! Chat is coming to Niteflirt! It is being introduced in Beta format right now. Check this out https://forum.niteflirt.com/t/announcing-our-newest-feature-chat-now-in-beta/52598
Too bad you can't use it on all three accounts associated with the same phone number:
We’re sorry! That number is already verified on another account. You can only use Chat Alerts on one account.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-22-2017, 02:09 PM
Thank you Lord!!! Chat is coming to Niteflirt! It is being introduced in Beta format right now. Check this out https://forum.niteflirt.com/t/announcing-our-newest-feature-chat-now-in-beta/52598
Ha! And people say they don't listen to feedback. I think they saw the success with Phrendly and started paying more attention. Maybe onsite video streaming is next?
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-22-2017, 02:37 PM
Ha! And people say they don't listen to feedback. I think they saw the success with Phrendly and started paying more attention. Maybe onsite video streaming is next?
It's a start but I would like it a lot better if they allowed us to set our own texting rates. I have a lot of guys who pay for responses via ptv. This isn't something I would want enabled on every account even if the phone number limitation weren't a thing.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-22-2017, 02:40 PM
Curious if many people here only work very part time on niteflirt doing phone only and think it's still worth it or if the money's decent?
I think the key for part time people is to make sure you are working the same schedule. Be available at the same time slots so that your guys can find you and know when to call. Even if it's only two days a week. Send out messages reminding them that you're going to be available. Give them updates etc to keep them interested.
xCamLovex
08-22-2017, 03:07 PM
I'd love for them to implement a widget for live shows but I almost feel this is another avenue of niteflirt completely. I personally think the site looks cluttered with phone + phone w/cam all smushed together the way it is. Some guys think we're all phone with cam and asking to buy Skypes on 1.99 phone listings. Then there are models actually doing 1.99 skype shows...
Some member said it well here the other day the blood is in our custiess dicks not in their brains so I hope along with improvements comes organization. I think it could lead to less frustration for models and customers
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-22-2017, 03:18 PM
I'd love for them to implement a widget for live shows but I almost feel this is another avenue of niteflirt completely. I personally think the site looks cluttered with phone + phone w/cam all smushed together the way it is. Some guys think we're all phone with cam and asking to buy Skypes on 1.99 phone listings. Then there are models actually doing 1.99 skype shows...
Some member said it well here the other day the blood is in our custiess dicks not in their brains so I hope along with improvements comes organization. I think it could lead to less frustration for models and customers
They could easily fix that with a contextual link at the top where it says Find A Flirt, My Account, Beta Chat, Goodies, Help.
Just add a link that says Phone With Cam, or Webcam Host something. Then that would lead to the phone with cam page. I don't mind the way the site looks at the moment. But I remember how it use to look. Think Adultwork but with a purple theme instead of pink. I don't like how the goodies section is set up. I'm not too fond of that.
And why haven't they added an Asian and Latina link under phone with cam? After all these years and that's still not a category.
JaneBurgess
08-22-2017, 05:51 PM
NF said customers can start chatting tomorrow.
xCamLovex
08-22-2017, 05:58 PM
Yes I agree. I like the way the site looks...but lately I feel like custies are confused with phone w/cam and just phone listings. Unless the Flirt states this is PHONE w/CAM in the tagline and guys click and look under the category, there's little that identifies the difference between the listings. The goodie bag section is kind of EH I agree too. I think people skip over it TBH b/c it's not obviously clear what "Goodies" are. LOL. They'll find it but it's not like "OH! I CAN BUY CONTENT HERE!"
Exciting to see how chat works! I have so many guys who are trying to make small talk with me constantly, and on TTM I always bank at least $20 going back and forth texting. PTV is cool, but instant messaging is so much better. Faster...makes guys keep talking and spending.
caramelcraze
08-22-2017, 06:16 PM
I hate how low the per volley amount is. we should be able to pick our rate from .69-up! Personally would like to charge at least $1...
foxirox
08-23-2017, 03:11 AM
Although I'm super grateful to NF for saving my ass, does anyone else think some of the guys are pushy as fuck?
foxirox
08-23-2017, 03:14 AM
Forgot to add, is it normal for guys to call when they are high? At least 3 callers this morning have been on coke when calling...very strange! lol
EricaErotica
08-23-2017, 03:18 AM
Most of these customers are actually very sexually repressed. They use drugs and alcohol to help them loosen up. It is very normal to encounter intoxicated customers in ALL aspects of sex work.
caramelcraze
08-23-2017, 04:11 AM
Forgot to add, is it normal for guys to call when they are high? At least 3 callers this morning have been on coke when calling...very strange! lol
had two yesterday who were obviously coked out. Don't really mind though; it makes them chatty af and that just means pretty easy $ for super long calls.
foxirox
08-23-2017, 04:48 AM
I don't mind it per say, just haven't encountered it on other platforms (Unless the guys were hiding the issue,or didn't open up as much)
AvaLove
08-23-2017, 08:29 AM
I am looking forward to the new chat feature. I hope we can increase the price after beta.
avalon_rose
08-23-2017, 10:07 AM
I am looking forward to the new chat feature. I hope we can increase the price after beta.
Ditto, but even so ... if I'm just doing it between calls and other BS, then money is money. However, I do like the idea of it able to help us convert men into calling us, or leaving Tips/Tributes.
sweetandnaughty
08-23-2017, 01:32 PM
I wonder if the chat will work when you are logged in on a mobile device like a tablet or phone.
avalon_rose
08-23-2017, 02:08 PM
I wonder if the chat will work when you are logged in on a mobile device like a tablet or phone.
Yes, you just need to access the NF website. This is one of their selling points - it's not an SMS text program (except your alert that someone wants to chat with you), but you CAN use mobile devices for it.
xCamLovex
08-23-2017, 03:29 PM
Need some advice from the more experienced PSO ladies.
With camming, I feel custies get over shit easier but PSO custies will go out of their way to hunt you down and guilt you.
I have a custie who wants me to manage his Seeking Arrangements account because I will not meet him in person. He never asked me, he just one day dropped his SA login info and in a very entitled manner said ..."do this for me"
It made me shy away from him because well, how inconsiderate. Plus, why would I go out of my way to do this for anyone??
Well, now he's hunting me down and thinking it's cool to call me back to back on my other account because he's determined to 'catch me'. He told me one night he scrolled through thousands of voice greetings until he found my other account. AKA: PSYCHO.
I will not give him this pleasure so I just deny each and every one of his calls on my other line.
What should I do? I really feel like just flat out banning him without any explanation but I've never dealt with this and would really appreciate some advice.
BTW: Chat works, and it's cool! ready to up the prices though!
PSOcodemonkey
08-24-2017, 04:08 AM
Need some advice from the more experienced PSO ladies....
Just block the guy. Guys who try to give you login info to any sort of accounts of theirs are trouble. I'll let others here go into detail why, but block block block him.
Blue-Velvet
08-24-2017, 04:36 AM
Annoyingly, it seems UK girls (or anyone outside of the US and Canada) cannot use the chat feature.
fionafresher
08-24-2017, 08:06 AM
In the forum, flirts outside the US & Canada were using some sort of app to get a US number, I would go there to find out what it is.
And until they allow us to adjust the prices, this is going to be more annoying than anything to me. I had 4 chats going and made about $28.
MissGD
08-24-2017, 08:49 AM
I've been giving this whole pso thing a try, I've tried in the past but I was super inexperienced and didn't know how to work it very well. I will say I personally love the chat feature, as long as you engage it really can help you meet some margins without really trying. I made about 40 some bucks just from chatting with one person. I think it just depends on how boring or interesting the potential is. Also wanted to add I usually ask them questions to make them send me more responses etc since every message counts.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-24-2017, 09:06 AM
Just block the guy. Guys who try to give you login info to any sort of accounts of theirs are trouble. I'll let others here go into detail why, but block block block him.
For me THE most annoying thing about these guys is that they know there are people who specialize in this sort of thing, but instead of booking a session with one of them they approach people who are less experienced. Back in the day when I was more green and willing to do most anything to get paid, I'd get slammed with these sort of request. I didn't participate on any boards so I didn't have any guidelines like, MAKE THEM PAY for EVERYTHING. If it's taking up too much of your time ..make them pay more. If it's causing you too much of a headache block and move on. Once I became more experienced and started offering these services on my own terms the pushy weasels started to go away. Those types are looking for fresh meat and in some cases they want to take advantage of performers. Chargebacks, complaints, harassment etc. It's like once you're playing their game and not the other way around.
avalon_rose
08-24-2017, 09:54 AM
Annoyingly, it seems UK girls (or anyone outside of the US and Canada) cannot use the chat feature.
For right now, yes, that is the case - but they said this is only the beta and they're working on international ladies to be able to use it. I wonder - can you get a Google number in the states that forwards the alert to your UK number or a Gmail account (so you'd still receive some kind of alert on your phone?)?
In the forum, flirts outside the US & Canada were using some sort of app to get a US number, I would go there to find out what it is.
And until they allow us to adjust the prices, this is going to be more annoying than anything to me. I had 4 chats going and made about $28.
I'm sorry to hear that ... but how long were you in those chats? What's your dollar to time ratio? I've had one guy use it so far to plan a call with me so I ended up making about $90 for call and the chat volleys ... and then this morning I had some random guy I've never even spoken to before, sold some pics (he tributed for them) and made $30 for him alone in under an hour.
Make it work for you! You can do it! :)
I've been giving this whole pso thing a try, I've tried in the past but I was super inexperienced and didn't know how to work it very well. I will say I personally love the chat feature, as long as you engage it really can help you meet some margins without really trying. I made about 40 some bucks just from chatting with one person. I think it just depends on how boring or interesting the potential is. Also wanted to add I usually ask them questions to make them send me more responses etc since every message counts.
EXACTLY!
fionafresher
08-24-2017, 10:03 AM
I'm sorry to hear that ... but how long were you in those chats? What's your dollar to time ratio? I've had one guy use it so far to plan a call with me so I ended up making about $90 for call and the chat volleys ... and then this morning I had some random guy I've never even spoken to before, sold some pics (he tributed for them) and made $30 for him alone in under an hour.
Make it work for you! You can do it! :)
I've converted one customer to buying one recordings, but honestly most of them just want to get cheap conversations, so far. The issue is that my focus is hypnosis, so it's heavy on the effort on my end, with little return (compared to what I make selling PTVs, sessions, etc). I'm definitely playing around with tactics, etc, and I'm sure I'll come up with a better way.
DancesWithSloths
08-24-2017, 11:38 AM
If anyone can work out what app works to get a US number that will work with this feature, please let me know - the googling is making my head spin.
avalon_rose
08-24-2017, 12:37 PM
I've converted one customer to buying one recordings, but honestly most of them just want to get cheap conversations, so far. The issue is that my focus is hypnosis, so it's heavy on the effort on my end, with little return (compared to what I make selling PTVs, sessions, etc). I'm definitely playing around with tactics, etc, and I'm sure I'll come up with a better way.
Ahhh! Hypnosis sounds near impossible to do via text, I see the issue there for sure. Keeping my fingers crossed you find something that works for you!
If anyone can work out what app works to get a US number that will work with this feature, please let me know - the googling is making my head spin.
Will a Google Voice number not work?
DancesWithSloths
08-24-2017, 12:49 PM
Will a Google Voice number not work?
Nope. Google Voice needs you to have a US number it can forward calls to, as far as I understand.
avalon_rose
08-24-2017, 01:08 PM
Nope. Google Voice needs you to have a US number it can forward calls to, as far as I understand.
But you're not getting calls, you're just getting texts - which you can manage online, and receive Google Voice text alerts to the email associated with the Google voice number. So if you receive your email on your phone ... you get a Google Voice Text, it goes to your Google Voice Inbox, and then prompts and alert to your email, and the email goes to your phone ... maybe? Possibly? Do you HAVE to have it forwarded to a regular number? I thought you COULD do that, but didn't have to. This isn't for calls, just for an alert.
Okay, I lied: https://gyazo.com/c57c753cf9dbe11ad5d1a2dd166b4d4e
I'm sorry. :(
thatgingercamgirl
08-24-2017, 02:23 PM
Hey, I just had a guy tribute me for a show without asking me first. How do I get his money refunded?
DancesWithSloths
08-24-2017, 02:29 PM
But you're not getting calls, you're just getting texts - which you can manage online, and receive Google Voice text alerts to the email associated with the Google voice number.
You actually gave me an idea - it may be possible to string together a Skype number and a Google Voice together to make this work. Hmmm. I'll do some maths and see if it's financially viable.
JaceyLynn
08-24-2017, 03:59 PM
Hey, I just had a guy tribute me for a show without asking me first. How do I get his money refunded?
Contact support.