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xCamLovex
08-24-2017, 05:59 PM
For me THE most annoying thing about these guys is that they know there are people who specialize in this sort of thing, but instead of booking a session with one of them they approach people who are less experienced.
Thank you so much for this. It really resonated with me. I was having a hard time w/ it all week b/c we usually talk everyday and now it's like a carrot dangle "i won't call you if you won't do this for me" and the scrolling through phone greetings until he found my other girl really made me realize how pathetic this is getting...so yep.
BTW, chat is cool. I use it for scheduling appointments and demanding tributes but I notice how guys are trying to get into really XXX chat for .69 a volley. LOL, no thanks. I won't fall for it b/c I think my time is worth more than .46 a message. But I'll get paid to convert to a more expensive way of communicating. So far, so good.
BustyAmeera
08-26-2017, 06:30 AM
Use text now https://www.textnow.com/ I'm in the US. But the UK ladies on the Niteflirt forum said they used text now. You can sign up from your computer and put in a US area code. I have 4 niteflirt accounts and wanted to try the new text feature with all of my accounts. Text now gave me free numbers to use for my SMS verification code. So far so good. And worked for people in other countries as welll.
If anyone can work out what app works to get a US number that will work with this feature, please let me know - the googling is making my head spin.
xCamLovex
08-27-2017, 04:11 PM
Here's an example of some issues in chat:
Member sends me 50 messages (yes 50) while I'm asleep
Since we can't turn chat off - he is spamming me for .69 cents.
I reply once...knowing very well why $$$$
Member goes bizerk and sends me 50 more messages on why he had to wait so long for one response.
I cannot block him from chat so I have to block him all together
DancesWithSloths
08-27-2017, 06:07 PM
Here's an example of some issues in chat:
Member sends me 50 messages (yes 50) while I'm asleep
Since we can't turn chat off - he is spamming me for .69 cents.
I reply once...knowing very well why $$$$
Member goes bizerk and sends me 50 more messages on why he had to wait so long for one response.
I cannot block him from chat so I have to block him all together
That's fucked uuuuup. Is it not possible to make yourself unavailable for chat?
(I missed the boat on signing up for beta, so no idea what the interface looks like inside.)
Though tbh if somebody behaves like this in chat, godsdamn right I'm going to block him everywhere. Entitled manbaby.
kortneykay
08-27-2017, 10:42 PM
I missed sign up too :(. I was informed just yesterday. Can't wait for the floodgates to be open again.
BustyAmeera
08-28-2017, 05:14 AM
I am loving the chat feature so far. Thank U to the Uk ladies for posting on NF about textnow. I have 4 different characters. 1. Myself as a black domme. 1. tranny domme 1. domme with model pics and 1 sub with model pics. So basically 3 dommes and 1 sub. My sub character rarely gets calls and has not received any chat messages AT ALL. My 3 other characters that are domme receive messages all day.
I have been averaging around $30 per day for chat since it started. I am logged on NF pretty much from the time I wake up (5:30am) till I go to bed (between 10pm to 12am) I am on everyday unless I make plans to do something else, like just hanging out or just don't feel like working when I'm tired of doing this.
If I'm averaging $30 per day (I'm sure it will be more once more guys use it) then that is $840 per month. I saw in the other forum people don't want to use this feature or don't like how we get .46 per volley. But if you think about it in the long run it can be very useful.
My 2 cons so far are the unsolicited dick pics.. I am so fuckin annoyed by the dick pics. This morning I woke up and heard the little noise that I got a message. I looked and bam! Disgusting regular send dick pic in chat before calling and asked if I like it. Someone said send them dick pics in response. So I found a small one online that I plan to send in response from now on. I only responded to him with "call me" and was annoyed. Too early for that mess. But hey, he called so...My 2nd con are the guys who type at record speed and able to send about 3 messages before I can get my 1 response in! It isn't the case with everyone. But it has happened with a few guys.
I would say it's a con that guys are trying to be cheap. But I don't see it as a con as of yet. Because there are guys who have been on my customer list for years, and have never called, bought a goodie, paid a ptv...nothing. Now all of a sudden they are spending a few dollars to chat with me, and I respond with very short messages. I do my best to avoid giving them cheap jack off material. And sometimes I even respond with just an emoji. Eventually of course, the guys who think they're getting over by chatting so cheap will go away. Because they are hoping we give them some cheap cum material via chat. Not happening. I use this to refer them to my goodies, section, I send them ptv's, and copy and paste my flirt extension.
There are tons of pros so far. Because of chat, I have been getting ptv's sales, tributes, goodie bag sales and phone calls as a result. So on top of averaging the $30 per day so far, I am getting sales as well as calls. This feature works for me so far. Even on my days off I have my laptop in front of me. So if I am home and off work, I likely will still make a little money from chat and hopefully sales.
I don't mind the .46 per volley when it's one message at a time. But they really need to do something about them sending those free nasty ass pics. There is no way to unsee or not see those pics. I already did a survey the other day, but I plan to do another one asking them to PLEASE implement a feature where they HAVE to pay to send us pics.
Edited to add its not free to see the pics if you can hurry and respond to it before they send another. But still, I don't want to be forced to see that for .46. Chatting is cool but the pics? Nope
Oh and imagine you're on your day off hanging at a park, shopping center, starbucks and chatting away making some money and possibly sales! I can't wait for this to grow.
grneyesnfl
08-28-2017, 05:15 AM
I've been crazy-busy with Chat since it started. I figured it would take a while for guys to learn about it and decide whether or not they wanted to use it, but they seem to have jumped right in (according to what other flirts have posted in the forum). It's so easy to do during calls. I do it on my phone so guys can't hear me typing on my computer keyboard. For years I've seen bad feedback where guys have complained they could hear the girl typing on her keyboard during a phone call. I can understand why that would piss them off.
avalon_rose
08-28-2017, 09:47 AM
Yeah, I've been pleased with the chat so far, too.
kortneykay
08-28-2017, 11:31 AM
This is a great opportunity for me to open my old/new characters and gear them up for future chat sales.
EllieGold
08-28-2017, 01:37 PM
I can't wait to enroll in chat. I barely missed the cutoff! Glad to hear it's off to a great start.
sweetandnaughty
08-28-2017, 05:09 PM
Just got my first chat!! Made $21 and got a nice $10 tip. Luv luv luv this!!. I'm happy with the .49. Lots like the chatfunn app. Good money on chatfunn. Living NF more and more!!
BustyAmeera
08-29-2017, 10:36 AM
The message just came up that chat is reopened temporarily. Hurry and enable it before they close it again! Just wanted to tell anyone who might not be logged on. Time is limited.
jd5351
08-29-2017, 11:06 AM
I just signed up for chat and one of my cam guys messaged me almost immediately. Made $15 in about 30 mins so far. (He's still going.) It would be nice to make a bit more. But chat is so little effort. I'm eating pizza and haven't even showered yet, watching TV and chatting. I'm not in the mood to perform today so it's keeping some income rolling in while I'm being flaky. I'll take it.
EricaErotica
08-29-2017, 01:46 PM
I just signed up for chat and one of my cam guys messaged me almost immediately. Made $15 in about 30 mins so far. (He's still going.) It would be nice to make a bit more. But chat is so little effort. I'm eating pizza and haven't even showered yet, watching TV and chatting. I'm not in the mood to perform today so it's keeping some income rolling in while I'm being flaky. I'll take it.
Make sure you ask your customers for Tributes, sell your customers pictures, sell your customers videos, make your customers pay for assignments, etc. while you are on Chat. If you do this consistently you can make $50 - $100 just from this new Chat Feature. Get that money, ladies! Hustle on!!!
jd5351
08-29-2017, 02:08 PM
Make sure you ask your customers for Tributes, sell your customers pictures, sell your customers videos, make your customers pay for assignments, etc. while you are on Chat. If you do this consistently you can make $50 - $100 just from this new Chat Feature. Get that money, ladies! Hustle on!!!
Exactly. It's a great tool to increase.
Pics should go through PTV. They will not get anything other than a few words for $.46.
EricaErotica
08-29-2017, 02:09 PM
Make them pay to send YOU pics as well. I am a domme. I make these losers pay me to rate their dick pics. LOL!!! Be creative. Think outside of the box.
JGB2009
08-29-2017, 05:55 PM
Are the text from the customers suppose to come to our phone? Just wondering because last night it all came to me on the NF platform.
foxirox
08-29-2017, 06:18 PM
From what I've read, all texting will be done via the NF platform and not direct messaging from your phone...but you can easily open up NF on your phone, then text from anywhere x
Are the text from the customers suppose to come to our phone? Just wondering because last night it all came to me on the NF platform.
EllieGold
08-29-2017, 08:26 PM
Yay I finally got an invitation to test out the chat beta. Pretty neat. I'll report back how it goes.
kortneykay
08-29-2017, 11:23 PM
Yay I finally got an invitation to test out the chat beta. Pretty neat. I'll report back how it goes.
Me too :D
sarahlove
08-31-2017, 06:02 AM
he sounds like an asshat I would have blocked anyway. I am no ones "beck and call girl"
sarahlove
08-31-2017, 06:47 AM
Make them pay to send YOU pics as well. I am a domme. I make these losers pay me to rate their dick pics. LOL!!! Be creative. Think outside of the box.
When they send dick pics I say "wanna know what I think... I'll make you a 1 min MP3 with my thoughts for $20... but beware I am really, really honest" I have sold 4 recordings. I don't EVER yell at them. I act like I didn't even see it.
sarahlove
08-31-2017, 06:49 AM
Are the text from the customers suppose to come to our phone? Just wondering because last night it all came to me on the NF platform.
There is only one text that will ever come.
" character name, you have a message fro XXX. Visit (NF link for chat) to reply to unread messages)"
that is all you will ever see in your text. You have to log on to Niteflirt to do the chat like yahoo chat.
BustyAmeera
08-31-2017, 07:43 AM
Thanks to a lot of advise and feedback from other flirts, I started telling guys they need to tribute for dick pics. And those who send them without a tribute, I tell them I'm unable to view it unless they tribute. So now they are sending tributes for me to see. Some send tributes just to rate their size. Some just tribute just because. I keep getting more sales. I was only expecting like an extra $20 to $30 per day from chat, but it's more like $100 or more! Plus the shy guys are now messaging too. Loving this feature!
BustyAmeera
08-31-2017, 07:54 AM
When they send dick pics I say "wanna know what I think... I'll make you a 1 min MP3 with my thoughts for $20... but beware I am really, really honest" I have sold 4 recordings. I don't EVER yell at them. I act like I didn't even see it.
Omg great idea!
sexyadrienne
08-31-2017, 05:35 PM
Am I the only one who just feels socially awkward when talking to these guys?
I mean, I hate hate HATE having to chat folks up. Lately, I've been getting a lot of calls where the guy sounds nervous and isn't really enthusiastic . . . Usually just hanging up in a minute or two.
It's giving me a lot of anxiety because I feel that I have to be 'entertaining' on the other end of the line or just sitting there in an awkward period of silence.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-31-2017, 06:00 PM
Am I the only one who just feels socially awkward when talking to these guys?
I mean, I hate hate HATE having to chat folks up. Lately, I've been getting a lot of calls where the guy sounds nervous and isn't really enthusiastic . . . Usually just hanging up in a minute or two.
It's giving me a lot of anxiety because I feel that I have to be 'entertaining' on the other end of the line or just sitting there in an awkward period of silence.
You do need to be entertaing. Thats why they seek us out :) Often times they're nervous and may not be the best communicators. Especially if they have a boner. On cam you can just start your show and hopefully they'll give you some feedback to work with. Phone is different. If chatting isnt your thing you might be able to get away with just running a phone with cam line only. Tell them its just for naughty stuff no small talk. Kinda word it in a nice way.
All kinds of men call phone lines. Maybe try a sissy line. They love to talk I rarely get acword in on those because they tend to lead the call.
sexyadrienne
08-31-2017, 06:35 PM
You do need to be entertaing. Thats why they seek us out :) Often times they're nervous and may not be the best communicators. Especially if they have a boner. On cam you can just start your show and hopefully they'll give you some feedback to work with. Phone is different. If chatting isnt your thing you might be able to get away with just running a phone with cam line only. Tell them its just for naughty stuff no small talk. Kinda word it in a nice way.
All kinds of men call phone lines. Maybe try a sissy line. They love to talk I rarely get acword in on those because they tend to lead the call.
Thank you love! Maybe that's why I tend to see a lot of "confession" lines . . . you're right about the sissies being all talk!
I'm just having difficulty in keeping the conversation going. I feel like some of the guys who call me are clueless and/or too busy stroking their cocks. I swear I can only do phone sex when I'm drunk or stoned out of my mind.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-31-2017, 07:20 PM
Thank you love! Maybe that's why I tend to see a lot of "confession" lines . . . you're right about the sissies being all talk!
I'm just having difficulty in keeping the conversation going. I feel like some of the guys who call me are clueless and/or too busy stroking their cocks. I swear I can only do phone sex when I'm drunk or stoned out of my mind.
Here's another point I'd like to make, sometimes when you do phonesex as the 'real' you vs using paid content these guys tend to clam up. Talking to pretty girls is intimidating for most of them. Even the most experienced phonesex connoisseur. Its just different. Most of them know the pso tricks and accept it but if you're a cammer as well they KNOW its you. For some it makes them nervous and if you're nervous too, issa bad vibe . You have to make them feel comfortable and figure out how to appear approachable. No shade on anyone who does phone only.
kortneykay
08-31-2017, 08:58 PM
Weird. I haven't worked NF at all this month before today, in particular, but I got a deposit today. Oh, and my first text guy was an off and on again reg I hadn't seen in months.
He was on his 3rd orgasm and 'was at school' so he needed a quickie. I charged him tributes for pics because ummm no dude. I'm not about to make you nut for 3 $0.46 messages from you. Especially since I have him on other platforms plus indy and he randomly hits me up here to be cheap.
PSOcodemonkey
09-01-2017, 07:11 AM
Thank you love! Maybe that's why I tend to see a lot of "confession" lines . . . you're right about the sissies being all talk!
I'm just having difficulty in keeping the conversation going. I feel like some of the guys who call me are clueless and/or too busy stroking their cocks. I swear I can only do phone sex when I'm drunk or stoned out of my mind.
Here's another point I'd like to make, sometimes when you do phonesex as the 'real' you vs using paid content these guys tend to clam up. Talking to pretty girls is intimidating for most of them. Even the most experienced phonesex connoisseur. Its just different. Most of them know the pso tricks and accept it but if you're a cammer as well they KNOW its you. For some it makes them nervous and if you're nervous too, issa bad vibe . You have to make them feel comfortable and figure out how to appear approachable. No shade on anyone who does phone only.
Sexyadrienne, definitely try a phone character totally different than yourself.
It makes you more comfortable talking, because you are just playing a role, it is not really you. You will be amazed how your tongue loosens up. Have fun with it. When you are more comfortable, the guy is as well, and things just work. Try to be not have any alcohol in your system when doing phone. I can't do phone with any alcohol, because I need my brain at 100% to do all the complex role plays, etc that make me the most money. Plus guys tend to notice. I'm sure others can do it with drink, but I know at least for myself, I do my best when I can think ahead. You know, to be able to ask yourself what you should say next while you are still talking. It is like chess, always think ahead while on the call. Plus sometimes when drinking, sometimes we can get too chatty, and not just listen. Listening is just as important as talking. Think about what questions you can ask him to get him talking, and you listening, etc...
avalon_rose
09-01-2017, 11:28 AM
No shade on anyone who does phone only.
Thank you!! :)
luna93
09-04-2017, 12:05 PM
It says there's too many people on the site?
melanielive
09-04-2017, 12:15 PM
Is the site down?? I can't log in... I get an error...
ChrissyAnn
09-04-2017, 12:26 PM
Is the site down?? I can't log in... I get an error...
Yes I just got the same thing.
avalon_rose
09-04-2017, 12:32 PM
I'm in - check now?
luna93
09-04-2017, 12:33 PM
Yay! Logged in now
bearemi
09-05-2017, 02:30 AM
Where can I find more info on the private group? Does it require X amount of comments/etc on this forum, or just NF experience/ratings?
Same question here! Looking to get info on the private NF group as I'm new to SW.
beauvoir
09-05-2017, 01:55 PM
I had a 30 minute call which disconnected. Client has been charged but no transaction is showing on my account. I have proof of the call on my phone so is there anything I can. It was thirty minutes!!
JaceyLynn
09-05-2017, 02:09 PM
Submit a support ticket.
beauvoir
09-05-2017, 02:41 PM
Submit a support ticket.
Thank you. Is that the same as submitting a request because thats all I could see an option for.
EricaErotica
09-05-2017, 03:50 PM
Yes, it is under the Question Mark icon on your Flirt Dashboard. Click on "Create A Support Request". Provide NF Support with all the details you can about the call like your flirt name, the caller's member name, the time the call started, the time the call ended, etc. They are very quick to respond to issues like this.
luna93
09-05-2017, 07:17 PM
Hey, when I'm creating stuff on picmonkey for my profile, what dimensions should I resize it to so it doesn't look weird??
BustyAmeera
09-06-2017, 05:51 AM
Ok I was on a call on Niteflirt as well as chatting with 2 people when the site went down Monday. The site went down and obviously I could no longer use the chat feature, but I was still on a call and the call was going well for a while. Then at 46 minutes an automated message came up saying something about sorry Niteflirt is experiencing technical issues. This happened to me before months ago. The first time it was a call that was over an hour. I submitted a ticket and heard back from them the same day, and was paid the next day. So when it happened again Monday, I was not worried about it. I have not even heard back from them yet, and they are not even responding to those on the forum who keep asking when will they get a response. They could AT LEAST post something in the forum to let us know they're working on it or something. If I experience this type of issue during a call again, I will just have to apologize to the customer about us having tech issues and end the call. I don't like what if's. Typically they respond fast, but not this time.
izshadow
09-08-2017, 12:33 PM
Was curious if I should drop one of my phone accounts for a webcam account on NF. I have 3 phone sex accounts but SM and CC are driving me insane. I only want an extra $50 bucks a day!!!!! OMG its like pulling teeth. Plus sitting in front of the computer is driving me insane to. Haha!!!!
But yah, how are the webcam girls doing on NF????
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-08-2017, 01:18 PM
Was curious if I should drop one of my phone accounts for a webcam account on NF. I have 3 phone sex accounts but SM and CC are driving me insane. I only want an extra $50 bucks a day!!!!! OMG its like pulling teeth. Plus sitting in front of the computer is driving me insane to. Haha!!!!
But yah, how are the webcam girls doing on NF????
Webcam is poppin on NF. Just create an account and see how it goes. You really have nothing to lose.
izshadow
09-08-2017, 01:30 PM
Webcam is poppin on NF. Just create an account and see how it goes. You really have nothing to lose.
Thank you!!!! I've been doing PSO over there for many years. Back when it was Keen!!!! But needed to add an extra, better source of income. I'll figure out which PS account I want to lose and then try adding on webcam.
I hate that we only get 3 accounts per number!!!!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-08-2017, 01:45 PM
Thank you!!!! I've been doing PSO over there for many years. Back when it was Keen!!!! But needed to add an extra, better source of income. I'll figure out which PS account I want to lose and then try adding on webcam.
I hate that we only get 3 accounts per number!!!!
Get a google voice number to add three more accounts. To be honest these days I make the bulk of my money on there with only 4 accounts. All the others are just sitting waiting to be rotated.
izshadow
09-08-2017, 01:58 PM
Get a google voice number to add three more accounts. To be honest these days I make the bulk of my money on there with only 4 accounts. All the others are just sitting waiting to be rotated.
You are a goddess!!!!! I would have never thought of that. Will they care if all the accounts go to the same bank account? I do have a BlueBird account. I could always have the extra accounts dropped in there if needed. But would prefer all the money from all accounts to go in my BOA account.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-08-2017, 02:13 PM
You are a goddess!!!!! I would have never thought of that. Will they care if all the accounts go to the same bank account? I do have a BlueBird account. I could always have the extra accounts dropped in there if needed. But would prefer all the money from all accounts to go in my BOA account.
You will need a new bank account to create a 4th account I do believe. Its been a long time since I started a new one. I use netspend cards because I no longer want any of my adult payments going to a traditional bank account.