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scarletl
12-27-2017, 01:56 PM
I was wondering what you UK niteflirts use for taking calls?
I am in the UK and have my UK number on niteflirt and my calls come in via that way. However I can barely hear the guys, it sounds like they are all miles away from the phone. They can't seem to hear me very well either.
Do you ladies have any suggestions of how to fix this issue or what you UK/EU ladies use to take your calls?
DancesWithSloths
12-28-2017, 06:04 AM
Do you ladies have any suggestions of how to fix this issue or what you UK/EU ladies use to take your calls?
Huh, I use my UK mobile number (swapping between a few old iphones on Giffgaff depending on the character), and can usually hear them fine, unless they're mumbling.
Could it be the fault of your handset, or any earpiece you use?
magicgembliss
12-28-2017, 06:13 AM
This is why I can't WAIT for BM to finally release Niteflirt to everyone! :-[
"BM" ?
SylvySinclair
12-28-2017, 07:06 AM
I use skype for calls (paid usa number) and i also am fairly new to NF and my fees are 1.99 for my main profiles, some at 1.69, 1.79 and for cam all are at 2.99
I got tons of calls and still do and some days i dont get anything but i sell videos....If you dont bid, most likely you wont get calls, i bid low, like 0.10 or 0.20 and i like to be around the #30 on the profiles that are not my main, for the main ones i like to be around #10, 20.
LaurenAus
12-28-2017, 07:32 AM
Does anyone get calls from 5am to 7am pacific time?
LaylaLovely
12-28-2017, 10:10 AM
So I just realized I set my pay to "Express" what does that mean is it like BM wer I get paid daily? I made money yesterday and today I saw it was gone! I freaked at first thinking my bids took it all but say it said it set to my express pay
On another note ...thank you to the ppl who helped me figure nf out I did all the things recommended and got some action!
SylvySinclair
12-28-2017, 10:48 AM
So I just realized I set my pay to "Express" what does that mean is it like BM wer I get paid daily? I made money yesterday and today I saw it was gone! I freaked at first thinking my bids took it all but say it said it set to my express pay
On another note ...thank you to the ppl who helped me figure nf out I did all the things recommended and got some action!
the daily pay through NF doesnt get you paid daily, its collected daily but it takes around 10 days for each of them to hit your acct.
DonaDiabla
12-28-2017, 11:56 AM
Yes, I get tons of long calls between this time :)
Does anyone get calls from 5am to 7am pacific time?
TheBrownFox
12-28-2017, 02:05 PM
the daily pay through NF doesnt get you paid daily, its collected daily but it takes around 10 days for each of them to hit your acct.
This is good to know.
So it's kinda like with that site Phrendly. How folks (including myself) got excited about the express pay, but it still takes several days for the money to reach your bank account.
hyori
12-28-2017, 02:47 PM
Ugh, I keep trying with these texting/PSO/indie type sites but I totally fail because you sort of have to be "on call" and available 24/7 and I just can't turn my personality on/off like that for performance.
Guess I'll always be a cam girl, LOL.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
12-28-2017, 02:51 PM
This is good to know.
So it's kinda like with that site Phrendly. How folks (including myself) got excited about the express pay, but it still takes several days for the money to reach your bank account.
NF and Phrendly are the same company. The ten day payout for express pay is only in place to cover their ass. It rarely takes 10 business days but if you submit a ticket about a payout thats less than that time you will get a canned response.
Goldenx.Chiquis
12-28-2017, 02:51 PM
"BM" ?
Boleyn Models
sarahlove
12-29-2017, 08:47 AM
Ugh, I keep trying with these texting/PSO/indie type sites but I totally fail because you sort of have to be "on call" and available 24/7 and I just can't turn my personality on/off like that for performance.
Guess I'll always be a cam girl, LOL.
I actually do great on this site because it's not a on-call site. I get really bad headaches and sometimes I can't work for a day or two. But I have a lot of PTV and goodie bags and games and I make money when I don't even log on. I made $250 in chat in tips yesterday and did not take one single phone call. I know people don't believe me all the time but honestly you do not need to take phone calls on niteflirt to make really good money
ravenskyy
12-29-2017, 10:22 AM
I actually do great on this site because it's not a on-call site. I get really bad headaches and sometimes I can't work for a day or two. But I have a lot of PTV and goodie bags and games and I make money when I don't even log on. I made $250 in chat in tips yesterday and did not take one single phone call. I know people don't believe me all the time but honestly you do not need to take phone calls on niteflirt to make really good money
How do you do games on there? I get no chats on there and barely any calls. I added some goodies on there and I'm working on more, but no sales yet. This site frustrates me. I feel like the amount of site content I have isn't the problem, but that I don't have enough exposure. Any bidding that I do feels like a waste of money.
sarahlove
12-30-2017, 06:00 PM
How do you do games on there? I get no chats on there and barely any calls. I added some goodies on there and I'm working on more, but no sales yet. This site frustrates me. I feel like the amount of site content I have isn't the problem, but that I don't have enough exposure. Any bidding that I do feels like a waste of money.
Every customer I have gotten has been because of bidding. If you don't bid and you don't get to the front of the site no one will become your customer. I have been on there for 3 years now and have a fantastic customer list so I don't really bid anymore but when I started ibid everyday
Goldenx.Chiquis
12-30-2017, 06:03 PM
Every customer I have gotten has been because of bidding. If you don't bid and you don't get to the front of the site no one will become your customer. I have been on there for 3 years now and have a fantastic customer list so I don't really bid anymore but when I started ibid everyday
I was about to say... Like you can't start fresh off and not bid there are 1,000+ profiles and 2x 1,000 listings on there... You will NOT be seen be not bidding. Saying not to bid when you first start off is like the worst advice I've ever heard.
xxxGothBarbie
12-30-2017, 06:48 PM
I was about to say... Like you can't start fresh off and not bid there are 1,000+ profiles and 2x 1,000 listings on there... You will NOT be seen be not bidding. Saying not to bid when you first start off is like the worst advice I've ever heard.
How much do you have to bid to get on first page? I tried bidding once around 05 cents per click & it didn't work. i don't wanna put money into something that's not guarenteed.
Goldenx.Chiquis
12-30-2017, 06:57 PM
How much do you have to bid to get on first page? I tried bidding once around 05 cents per click & it didn't work. i don't wanna put money into something that's not guarenteed.
The goal isn't to be on the first page. (IMO) The goal is to be at LEAST in the top 25 position of your listing sub-category and not the actual category. SO say you're under BDSM if you're in Mistresses You want to at least bid in the top 25 range (If needed no further than page 2/3). And make sure to click BUDGET! Not "Use whenever I'm available" that's how you get all your money drained by not setting a budget. And it helps to have photo-sets, games, or clips on your listing cause I made the mistake of not having any and I got clicked to death by "Member since December 2010" or qualified bid all down my bid history. It PISSED me off! lol
ravenskyy
12-30-2017, 06:59 PM
Every customer I have gotten has been because of bidding. If you don't bid and you don't get to the front of the site no one will become your customer. I have been on there for 3 years now and have a fantastic customer list so I don't really bid anymore but when I started ibid everyday
Ok. You also have been on there for 3 years so that makes a difference in comparison. Bidding sucks for me unfortunately. I get clicked to death and it eats up my budget. I'll start bidding again after this weekend. And what games can you play on here?
Goldenx.Chiquis
12-30-2017, 07:04 PM
I'm in the process of adding clips, Audios, Games, photo set (PTVs), and more but I've been on hiatus. I'll be back starting up this week though. I'm excited! I can tell that girls who do have them have higher conversion rates of getting more clients. Due to the fact if Jimmy clicked on a naughty Santa JOI video, you can send him PTV mail for a new JOI hypnotic video you made. But also in your listings make sure they correlate With the category. Don't have Shoe fetish videos in the spanking section... Unless you happen to have both going on at the same time lol. But it helps make your listing look more personalized and not so "cut and paste".
Goldenx.Chiquis
12-30-2017, 07:06 PM
Ok. You also have been on there for 3 years so that makes a difference in comparison. Bidding sucks for me unfortunately. I get clicked to death and it eats up my budget. I'll start bidding again after this weekend. And what games can you play on here?
Check your Twitter DM's I got the hook up for you girl
LolaLu
01-02-2018, 04:23 AM
I'm in the process of adding clips, Audios, Games, photo set (PTVs), and more but I've been on hiatus. I'll be back starting up this week though. I'm excited! I can tell that girls who do have them have higher conversion rates of getting more clients. Due to the fact if Jimmy clicked on a naughty Santa JOI video, you can send him PTV mail for a new JOI hypnotic video you made. But also in your listings make sure they correlate With the category. Don't have Shoe fetish videos in the spanking section... Unless you happen to have both going on at the same time lol. But it helps make your listing look more personalized and not so "cut and paste".
How do you know who clicked on what without going through the customers individually? If I want to send a loser clip to all those that bought my hypnotic loser clip rather than those that bought 'any' clip do I need to arrange the lusts like that? Or is there a way of filtering that info within a report on NF?
Hope that makes sense
Carmel57
01-02-2018, 06:37 AM
Just taken my first call on this site, 51 minutes. I'm drained but buzzing. I'm going to pay more attention to this site and find what works.
seashell
01-02-2018, 07:28 AM
Just taken my first call on this site, 51 minutes. I'm drained but buzzing. I'm going to pay more attention to this site and find what works.
Woohoo! That is quite a long call. :) Definitely a great start!
Today has been pretty good to me, as well. I got the chat feature to work, and one of my customers has already sent $40 in tributes. Yaaas!
sexysusie
01-02-2018, 08:40 AM
Nice one carmel :)
lexxirain
01-02-2018, 09:56 AM
Oh. My. Goodness. I literally give you all kudos who can do this.. because I just had my first call and it was God awful, like I went completely brain dead. I had NO idea what to say and it didn't help that he sounded like he was doing a Batman impression and I was trying so hard not to laugh. I thought NF would be a good supplement for when I can't get on cam but I am literally the WORST phone sex person ever. I don't know whether to laugh or cry about it, so I will settle for feeling really stupid.
seashell
01-02-2018, 02:03 PM
Oh. My. Goodness. I literally give you all kudos who can do this.. because I just had my first call and it was God awful, like I went completely brain dead. I had NO idea what to say and it didn't help that he sounded like he was doing a Batman impression and I was trying so hard not to laugh. I thought NF would be a good supplement for when I can't get on cam but I am literally the WORST phone sex person ever. I don't know whether to laugh or cry about it, so I will settle for feeling really stupid.
Aww, it just takes time and practice, like anything else! I felt really awkward at first, and I still feel like I've run out of material if they keep me talking for too long. I think the key is asking them questions, and making sure you know exactly what turns them on/why they called you in the first place.
lexxirain
01-02-2018, 06:22 PM
Aww, it just takes time and practice, like anything else! I felt really awkward at first, and I still feel like I've run out of material if they keep me talking for too long. I think the key is asking them questions, and making sure you know exactly what turns them on/why they called you in the first place.
Maybe I'll try again... I immediately took my avail off after wards lol . I wouldn't hate to get a bunch of bad ratings though while I al learning. I would love to make this work but the being put on the spot was awful! And I know in retrospect I should have asked questions ... I didn't even know his name. He was like "hey baby you have a sexy voice grab my cock" omg lol
LolaLu
01-02-2018, 06:56 PM
I have post its on the side of my laptop with words I dont always use so I remember to drop them in now and again - just so it sounds a bit different
seashell
01-03-2018, 12:25 AM
Maybe I'll try again... I immediately took my avail off after wards lol . I wouldn't hate to get a bunch of bad ratings though while I al learning. I would love to make this work but the being put on the spot was awful! And I know in retrospect I should have asked questions ... I didn't even know his name. He was like "hey baby you have a sexy voice grab my cock" omg lol
The good thing is, you can always take down a listing if it receives a bad rating, and create a new one in its place. :) It sucks to start from scratch, but it’s better than sites with camscores and rating systems that you can never change.
Classy_Katy
01-03-2018, 02:40 AM
How soon after a call starts can they leave feedback or a rating?
On Adultwork, they used to be able to do it straight away and it really put me off phone chat. Some guys would use that to target a girl with repeated negative feedback, since you wouldn't know who was calling. That's been extended to 4 minutes now, thankfully.
I had a guy asking for a massage once...I went totally brain dead, all I could think was that was impossible to do down the phone!
magicgembliss
01-03-2018, 05:37 AM
How soon after a call starts can they leave feedback or a rating?
On Adultwork, they used to be able to do it straight away and it really put me off phone chat. Some guys would use that to target a girl with repeated negative feedback, since you wouldn't know who was calling. That's been extended to 4 minutes now, thankfully.
I had a guy asking for a massage once...I went totally brain dead, all I could think was that was impossible to do down the phone!
I heard it was 30 seconds into a phone call. Can't verify that though.
I'mEveToo
01-03-2018, 09:28 AM
How soon after a call starts can they leave feedback or a rating?
On Adultwork, they used to be able to do it straight away and it really put me off phone chat. Some guys would use that to target a girl with repeated negative feedback, since you wouldn't know who was calling. That's been extended to 4 minutes now, thankfully.
I had a guy asking for a massage once...I went totally brain dead, all I could think was that was impossible to do down the phone!
On Niteflirt if a caller leaves several negative feedbacks, it's considered harassment. You can contact support and they'll remove all but the first one.
I'mEveToo
01-03-2018, 09:50 AM
Maybe I'll try again... I immediately took my avail off after wards lol . I wouldn't hate to get a bunch of bad ratings though while I al learning. I would love to make this work but the being put on the spot was awful! And I know in retrospect I should have asked questions ... I didn't even know his name. He was like "hey baby you have a sexy voice grab my cock" omg lol
Don't feel bad. There's a learning curve for everyone. No matter how long you do it, you'll always get some calls that don't go well. Asking questions is good especially if you can match the questions to his mood. If his voice sounds like he's ready to blow any minute, it's best to keep the questions sexy and provocative. Some guys who call and start right away with "grab my cock" talk are only intending to do a short call and will hang up if you start asking things like where they live.
Staci
01-03-2018, 09:53 AM
I have post its on the side of my laptop with words I dont always use so I remember to drop them in now and again - just so it sounds a bit different
When I first started, I made 'call help' notes for different categories with words and phrases that I kept on my desktop that I could glance at during calls so that I wasn't constantly repeating myself. These weren't "scripts", but rather descriptive words/phrases. I found it to be extremely helpful to me.
For instance, I would make one for small penis humiliation, and on it I would list a lot of different descriptive phrases to refer to his small penis (ie: vienna sausage dick, tater tots balls, little nubby, clitty cock, little squirter, teeny weenie) that I could throw in during a call to avoid constantly referring to it as a "small penis".
I did the same for other niches as well (shemale, cuckold, humiliation, etc).
Over time, I was able to use them without referring to a list - but it did assist me in the beginning until I had expanded my working vocabulary and it became second nature.
PSO newbies might want to consider doing this if they are finding it hard to come up with new things to say, or new ways to say the same old thing! LOL
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-03-2018, 12:23 PM
I heard it was 30 seconds into a phone call. Can't verify that though.
Thats correct.
ravenskyy
01-03-2018, 12:35 PM
Any advice on dealing with customers that try to be cheap and slick? I've got one guy that will spend bare minimum in chat with me, then he starts messaging me through my inbox instead. This is the second customer that has done this and the third time this particular customer has done this. It legit pisses me off.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-03-2018, 12:52 PM
Any advice on dealing with customers that try to be cheap and slick? I've got one guy that will spend bare minimum in chat with me, then he starts messaging me through my inbox instead. This is the second customer that has done this and the third time this particular customer has done this. It legit pisses me off.
You can respond with a ptv if they leave chat and use email instead. I only use chat on one account and its working out pretty well. I only log into that account two days a week so when I do make myself available it stays busy. The ones who want to spend will pay for the PTV. The cheapos will go away once they realize you don't give away free attention. Each interaction on the site has the potential to make money.
ravenskyy
01-03-2018, 01:07 PM
You can respond with a ptv if they leave chat and use email instead. I only use chat on one account and its working out pretty well. I only log into that account two days a week so when I do make myself available it stays busy. The ones who want to spend will pay for the PTV. The cheapos will go away once they realize you don't give away free attention. Each interaction on the site has the potential to make money.
Right after I posted this question I sent him a PTV lol it's just so blatantly disrespectful. Idk why men still surprise me with their rudeness. I have 2 characters on NF right now and I barely get chat messages. On one account, I haven't had chat customers since October. I'm having a tough time drawing in new customers. The only money I've been able to make on there has been through a few past customers. I've been adding lots of goodies, and had my first one sell yesterday, but still no new calls. I'd like to do chat more but I'm not sure how to advertise that.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-03-2018, 01:34 PM
Honestly I dont care too much for the chat feature on NF. Im on the market for a standalone service with a texting module that I can add to websites. Something I can customize myself in regards to pricing etc. Like the verifiedcall module but for texting. Until then I will not advertise texting on any platform. I use the chat feature to get them to spend money on other stuff.
I try not to let them get to me or view their actions as being disrespectful. I just mirror their actions by hitting them up for money. I dont even respond to all of my chat responses. :) After two or so (depending on my mood) I send them a ptv with my response to the last chat. And then I ignore the rest. Some will pay. Some will make a phone call. Some will disappear.
Once they hit your mailing list you can market to them however you like. I dont really follow a formula for that to be honest. I just prefer to not spend too much time on building up chat volleys. This is also why I make more money due to customer retention vs. new customers. I like new customers and most platforms want us to like new customers as well, but they arent my bread and butter.
Again I only have the chat option on one account and I think it was just pure luck that its become popular among chat guys? It could be the way I treat them? Maybe the tagline? I really don't know. Its possible that if I added it on a second account (which I wont) I could get crickets.
AmiAndrews
01-03-2018, 01:51 PM
So I'm very new to the whole NF idea, but I'm definitely intrigued. I'm sure this question has been answered somewhere, but with 139 pages of posts in this thread, I'm going to go ahead and re-ask it...
I love the idea of texting/sexting, whatever you want to call it, but am not so big on talking on the phone, and definitely don't want to do video. Can I still sign up with NF, or is it mandatory to talk on the phone?
There's an insane amount of information here, I'm uber glad I found this thread! :)
DonaDiabla
01-03-2018, 04:43 PM
No, you don't have to take phone calls on Niteflirt. I have an account where I just sell content and recorded listings only. :)
So I'm very new to the whole NF idea, but I'm definitely intrigued. I'm sure this question has been answered somewhere, but with 139 pages of posts in this thread, I'm going to go ahead and re-ask it...
I love the idea of texting/sexting, whatever you want to call it, but am not so big on talking on the phone, and definitely don't want to do video. Can I still sign up with NF, or is it mandatory to talk on the phone?
There's an insane amount of information here, I'm uber glad I found this thread! :)
DancesWithSloths
01-05-2018, 08:47 AM
Hey, PTV brigade, what's your view on sending out a new PTV as soon as you make it, vs waiting until the end of the week and sending a link to it in a cute newsletter type thing?
lexxirain
01-05-2018, 09:03 AM
This is the worst question ever. It ... what is PTV????
DancesWithSloths
01-05-2018, 09:18 AM
This is the worst question ever. It ... what is PTV????
"Pay-to-view", which is another name for a payment mail button, ie an email they have to pay to open.
queenelayliah
01-06-2018, 12:34 PM
Has it been slow for anyone else for the last 3 days? All three of my profiles have just been dead. I only made about $48 in 3 days from a few phone calls. It was like this for me in the first week of December as well. Sigh.
queenelayliah
01-06-2018, 12:42 PM
Sorry for the multiple posts but do anyone have any advice on this situation. So as i explained earlier for all three of my niteflirt profiles its been dead but im also getting clicked to death on all of my profiles. So i know customers are seeing my profiles but they just clicking and moving on. Some of them add me to their favorites but yeah clicked to death with only a few to no calls for DAYS. Any advice?
seashell
01-06-2018, 12:43 PM
Has it been slow for anyone else for the last 3 days? All three of my profiles have just been dead. I only made about $48 in 3 days from a few phone calls. It was like this for me in the first week of December as well. Sigh.
I’ve been doing pretty well the past few days, and I’m a newbie with few reviews, so it seems like the traffic is there. Maybe bid a little higher, or offer some specials? I know it can be frustrating to have slow days.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-06-2018, 02:01 PM
I know this is a long thread but it really is beneficial if you take the time to read it through. So many helpful and generous post provided on how to use the site on how to: create ptv's, working your customer list, bidding, multiple accounts, price points and more. You just have to dig in and read. Even if you start midway you'll begin to notice that many of the same questions have been asked and answered every ten pages or so.
Blovely
01-06-2018, 02:51 PM
Do you ladies only post fresh mp3's for sale? I plan on recording mp3's but I was also thinking of converting all of my clips into mp3 so that I'd have more content available. I figured by having both files of the same content availble guys would have more options and that would also give the possibilty to make more money.