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ravenskyy
01-06-2018, 03:24 PM
I don't remember if I asked this before, but how do you ladies make mp3s?

missxxxsabrina
01-06-2018, 04:02 PM
Can somebody pleaseee help me out with this? I have been having an issue with Niteflirt showing my second listing on the first page of the category i advertise in, meaning my main listing which has the most reviews and rates doesnt show up like it used to, although it is not bnned or deleted it still exists but for some reason my niteflirt automatically advertises my second listing (i only have two) which has far less reviews and ratings. Does ant girl know why this is happening ? I dont really want to delete the second listing completely, i just want my main (first) listing to be the one that shows up

seashell
01-06-2018, 04:29 PM
I don't remember if I asked this before, but how do you ladies make mp3s?

I record mine in a free program called Audacity. Pretty much any recording program will work, though. You can even use a recording from your phone, although the quality would be lower without a proper mic.

laurielegs
01-06-2018, 04:58 PM
Hey, PTV brigade, what's your view on sending out a new PTV as soon as you make it, vs waiting until the end of the week and sending a link to it in a cute newsletter type thing?

Do both! I notice sometimes it takes more than one exposure before I get a sale.

juliette_
01-06-2018, 07:35 PM
Hey! So I just signed up with NF through the "become a flirt" link. I waited a while to put in my cc info, because I didn't understand that they use it to verify age. The NF help page says that I should have been taken to a prompt that asks my gender and what type of services I offer, etc., but instead I was just taken to the "My Account" page. It looks like my account is set up as if I'm a customer. I tried clicking on the "become a flirt" link while signed into my account, but it just takes me to a form fill to submit a help request. Does it take some time for them to approve my account before I can set up listings, or did something go wrong? I did write them to explain my situation.

grneyesnfl
01-07-2018, 12:33 AM
I heard it was 30 seconds into a phone call. Can't verify that though.


Thats correct.

That is incorrect. Feedback has NOTHING to do with the time the caller spends on the phone. Customers can rate their first purchase from any flirt regardless of the price. After that, the customer must spend at least 99 cents on a call, email, goodie, etc in order to be able to leave feedback.

You can read about it here: https://support.niteflirt.com/hc/en-us/articles/212830298-Giving-Ratings-Leaving-Feedback

queenelayliah
01-07-2018, 07:23 AM
I’ve been doing pretty well the past few days, and I’m a newbie with few reviews, so it seems like the traffic is there. Maybe bid a little higher, or offer some specials? I know it can be frustrating to have slow days.


Thanks for responding. Im actually bidding or bidded?? Anyway im on the first 3 pages at all times. My price was set to $1.99 and I have good reviews and 141 in the extra kinky category so kind if newish. But i sent my previous customers a email that im haveing a special for .99 cents and i got calls. You mind if I pm you for any other tips or if you could take a look at my characters to see if they're bad in a sense? If that make sense.

DancesWithSloths
01-07-2018, 07:56 AM
Thanks for responding. Im actually bidding or bidded?? Anyway im on the first 3 pages at all times. My price was set to $1.99 and I have good reviews and 141 in the extra kinky category so kind if newish. But i sent my previous customers a email that im haveing a special for .99 cents and i got calls. You mind if I pm you for any other tips or if you could take a look at my characters to see if they're bad in a sense? If that make sense.

Is this your first January in PSO world, hon? If so, relax: January is always, always slow as fuck, and there's nothing wrong with you. Your customers are broke, because it's tax season, and they're getting their credit card bills from holiday spending. The key to surviving this is to relax and keep yourself from rash choices (like taking calls you wouldn't normally take, or acting like you're desperate for their buck).

If they're faving you, that's great! Send each guy a "welcome" message with a cheapish PTV picture and/or a voice sample. At least you'll make some of your bidding money back that way.

queenelayliah
01-07-2018, 08:21 AM
Is this your first January in PSO world, hon? If so, relax: January is always, always slow as fuck, and there's nothing wrong with you. Your customers are broke, because it's tax season, and they're getting their credit card bills from holiday spending. The key to surviving this is to relax and keep yourself from rash choices (like taking calls you wouldn't normally take, or acting like you're desperate for their buck).

If they're faving you, that's great! Send each guy a "welcome" message with a cheapish PTV picture and/or a voice sample. At least you'll make some of your bidding money back that way.


Yes this is my first January as a pso. Lol am i that obvious ��. Thanks for the tip im glad to know its not me and just the fact they have no money. I have another quick question. So i want to create more than my current 3 characters but I know i will need to have another number. I thought about getting a landline but i dont want to spend the extra $65 a month. Is there any apps for ipads where i can get a free number and take calls that have good call quality. I dont have a laptop that work great. So im using my ipad, which i just mentioned sorry for rambling. I read the the forum and some people mentioned skype numbers but is that realiable? Also if you have 6 characters thats connected to two different numbers. What happens when you get a call on both numbers? I mean i know you cant answer both phones and will have to hang up one of them but wont that cause bad business with the customer. And the whole reason i want 6 profiles active and ready to take calls is for when days are slow. Any tips?

MaryElizabeth
01-07-2018, 10:10 PM
I'm feeling wordy so.....

A) I don't understand why people are down on chat, that feature is amazing. I'm good with words and that thing is giving me a couple hundred dollars a week. It's not uncommon for me to have a couple chats going at a time and turn off my phone availability.

B) For making MP3's use https://www.audacityteam.org/ I use it for all my audio needs.

C) Is there a way to sign out of multiple profiles at the same time? I'm doing the 3 characters manually but looking for a quicker way. Is there a way to sign out of all the profiles of an account in one action? I'm starting to move into AutoHotKey territory which seems excessive, alas.

D) I'm starting to come up with the rules for being a PSO and if you are on the phone rule #1 is - "NEVER SAY NO", if a guy says "Do you like fucking Walruses?" the correct answer is 'yes'. (edit - I used a bad analogy bestiality, just whatever a guy asks keep saying yes: anal, facials, gangbangs, whatever, a 'no' stops the conversation, keep saying yes.)

He asks "Do like getting coated with maple Syrup when you are fucking?" the correct answer is 'Yes baby, I love getting coated with syrup and screaming I'm a waffle!'. Don't throw up any roadblocks, just keep things going.

I'm pretty open and will talk about pretty much anything, the guys you need to worry about are not the ones spending a couple bucks a minute to talk. You are providing a fantasy service, try to put your sense of decency aside.

E) That said what the fuck with all the weird sexual racism? It can't be just me but I get one guy or another asking if I love BBC every couple of days.

F) Whales, if you get some guy that drops stupid money on you - work it. I got a brit that likes his chat / stories to get a tad gruesome (the things I do to his wife in photoshop OMG), (edit - I used a specific example of this guy who, since November has been good for almost $300 a month, he's a winner, if I could get 15 guys like him I wouldn't need anymore. The point is, if a guy is a heavy hitter do all you can to keep him calling)

it can be a challenge with him sometimes but I have a couple guys like him who are probably 15% of what I make in total. When you are lucky enough to get one of these rare gems who drops wads be really nice. Free minutes, lots of extra messages, best wishes of all sorts. Sure, eventually they go away but while they are around extract all you can. https://imgur.com/1sVb5Vx

G) Doing starter graphics for $20 amazon ie -- https://imgur.com/Bkr6Gs1

H) Stay warm, or try to

mm

PS - But for the record I do talk about just about anything, the calls I really don't like are the few I have gotten where drug users call me and drag me in to their addiction, one guy wanted me to command him to 'hit the pipe". Those guys I let go but most anyone else I indulge. Drug use, like masturbation is often a solitary experience so to some people there is a reward to sharing their activity.

I have a couple guys who I talk to occasionally who seem to want to relive their early molestation. Unfortunately adult victims are both drawn to, and repelled by, their experience. Its one of the more fucked up parts of their condition, being guilt fully and shamefully drawn to their worst experiences yet also incredibly aroused by them. I have spoken to enough of these guys that it must be a common affliction. Anyway, I rip them apart and after slather as much sweetness as I can to put them back together and do ten minutes of therapy, tell them its ok, be as sweet as they can until the next time they call.

Anyway, you judge, mention the terms of service / morality I say I made a grand last week so to each their own.

Spemily
01-07-2018, 10:26 PM
Regarding D and F, sometimes we do have to say no to some things because they are against the rules on Niteflirt. Certainly bestiality is off limits as are many things that you might describe as "gruesome".

As for E, it's not just sexual racism. It's regular old racism. Black people, men especially, are seen as bigger, stronger and more animalistic. Therefore, it's more depraved for a white woman to crave a big huge animal dick. It's the flip side of that other tired racist sexual trope: Asian women are meek and submissive.

MaryElizabeth
01-08-2018, 12:30 AM
Google Voice, get a gmail account. Gives a free number.

>> Is there any apps for ipads where i can get a free number and take calls that have good call quality.

queenelayliah
01-08-2018, 04:26 AM
Google Voice, get a gmail account. Gives a free number.

>> Is there any apps for ipads where i can get a free number and take calls that have good call quality.

Thanks for the tip.

Im no sure if i should post this here or not. But after doing some observations on other flirts and just reading here on SW. I noticed that if I wanted to make that few thousands dollars a month i need to get into domination especially findom. I have 3 characters, two not my photos and a made up story etc and the third is me that i also offer skype and match my own personal character. All three are submissive but my most popular character is that "legal teen whore that loves to be degraded and etc" . The second one im not shocked that its not popular i get calls and etc, but as a fat,black and fugly female im not its not my popular character. ( not saying being fat or black is bad or qualifies one as ugly or not popular). The third character that is doing absolutely Horrible is in a girlfriend niche. I do bidding and the character been up for a month now, I have two 5 star reviews and peiced currently at .99¢ and only 3 calls!!!:banghead:

When i was checking my listing on the front oage a profile caught my attention and I clicked around the filrt page admiring the layout and reviews and she had 1900+ points from her length of calls and reviews, etc and the lsiting been up on nf as long as mine has!!!! I checked her tumblr account, which she linked to her nf page and she has a screenshot of $1000 tributes in one day!!!!!!! :shocking:. Like WTF i make that in about a month and she made that in one day from 3 tributes!!! Holy monkey jizz. At that moment I decided I need to get my shit together! Her niche was domme and findom, having slaves, ptvs, games, social media accounts, making them pay jizz tax, a slave apps, the works.

I really want to get into the domme niche, and develop adomme/ findom character but I dont know how. Im naturally submission and been taught my whole sexual life to submit to men and to make them first. Is there any reading materials, forums or tips someone can offer on how to become a domme and make a domme character?

sarahlove
01-08-2018, 11:53 AM
Thanks for the tip. Im no sure if i should post this here or not. But after doing some observations on other flirts and just reading here on SW. I noticed that if I wanted to make that few thousands dollars a month i need to get into domination especially findom. I have 3 characters, two not my photos and a made up story etc and the third is me that i also offer skype and match my own personal character. All three are submissive but my most popular character is that "legal teen whore that loves to be degraded and etc" . The second one im not shocked that its not popular i get calls and etc, but as a fat,black and fugly female im not its not my popular character. ( not saying being fat or black is bad or qualifies one as ugly or not popular). The third character that is doing absolutely Horrible is in a girlfriend niche. I do bidding and the character been up for a month now, I have two 5 star reviews and peiced currently at .99¢ and only 3 calls!!!:banghead:When i was checking my listing on the front oage a profile caught my attention and I clicked around the filrt page admiring the layout and reviews and she had 1900+ points from her length of calls and reviews, etc and the lsiting been up on nf as long as mine has!!!! I checked her tumblr account, which she linked to her nf page and she has a screenshot of $1000 tributes in one day!!!!!!! :shocking:. Like WTF i make that in about a month and she made that in one day from 3 tributes!!! Holy monkey jizz. At that moment I decided I need to get my shit together! Her niche was domme and findom, having slaves, ptvs, games, social media accounts, making them pay jizz tax, a slave apps, the works. I really want to get into the domme niche, and develop adomme/ findom character but I dont know how. Im naturally submission and been taught my whole sexual life to submit to men and to make them first. Is there any reading materials, forums or tips someone can offer on how to become a domme and make a domme character?I would start with Fetlife. It is a website where people who do it as a lifestyle go. I would not look for customers here because it is like facebook for kink. I would just learn. You can't do Findom just cause it makes more money. These guys with big money need to be DOMINATED. I see so many girls who like the FIN but not the DOM. lol I have made thousands in a day too. I was not pretending. I have made grown men cry in person. I have had a man hump a pillow in front of me while I did my nails and he cried from humiliation. I find that a lot of the guys who want to spend big money are Alpha in their lives and can see right through someone who is pretending to be Dominate. BTW the "real" me is 100% sub lol You have to get in the psychology of the topic, not the money. If you do you profile etc by the money you will not make money in findom. Let me know if you want to hear more. I don't like to go on too much. But I will say this is what I do as a full time job. No boss, No schedule, No hours. At the same time I HUSTLE.

sarahlove
01-08-2018, 12:04 PM
Hey, PTV brigade, what's your view on sending out a new PTV as soon as you make it, vs waiting until the end of the week and sending a link to it in a cute newsletter type thing?I send them out (1) on each account every day. So I send out about 4 a day. I have guys who buy them every day. I do a captioned photo and sell it for like $1.99. I have questions on them and I tell them to answer them in chat. SO I get like 10-12 chats going at a time. It is like chatting on Yahoo message rooms back in the day only I get $.46 per text so it REALLY ads up. I make a few hundred a day and don't talk on the phone anymore. I raised my rates on all phone lines to $3.99 I don't want to talk on the phone. I make a ton of money on the GFE of chat

sarahlove
01-08-2018, 12:11 PM
Sorry for the multiple posts but do anyone have any advice on this situation. So as i explained earlier for all three of my niteflirt profiles its been dead but im also getting clicked to death on all of my profiles. So i know customers are seeing my profiles but they just clicking and moving on. Some of them add me to their favorites but yeah clicked to death with only a few to no calls for DAYS. Any advice?You have to understand your market. 1. Football season (can't call) 2. Family here for holidays (can't call) I made them do the "bathroom jerking game and I had them jerking when they were supposed to spend time with their wives and Girlfriends. I used chat to mind fuck them. 3. Kids out of school (can't call) 4. Christmas parties (can't call) I did a tell me about the sluts at your work Christmas party. I also did a "gift exchange" where they send me tributes and I sent them Christmas pics. 5. New Years Eve (can't call) - I did a special "chat me at midnight" thing and made bank (no one wants to feel alone on the holidays) WHat they can do.... chat, listen to recordings, look at PTVsWith chat and this knowledge, I have been up 38% over last year at this time. That is right UP! They are clicking because they can not call. To many ears around. Use chat to get them to talk.

DancesWithSloths
01-08-2018, 12:33 PM
I send them out (1) on each account every day. So I send out about 4 a day. I have guys who buy them every day. I do a captioned photo and sell it for like $1.99. I have questions on them and I tell them to answer them in chat. SO I get like 10-12 chats going at a time. It is like chatting on Yahoo message rooms back in the day only I get $.46 per text so it REALLY ads up. I make a few hundred a day and don't talk on the phone anymore. I raised my rates on all phone lines to $3.99 I don't want to talk on the phone. I make a ton of money on the GFE of chat

If you don't mind me being nosy, how high-end do you go with your photos? I could see myself going down that road if I did a pro photoshoot every month and sent out really high-quality pictures, but I'm not sure I'm brazen enough to sell phone selfies for $1.99 each. Is this misguided, do you think?

seashell
01-08-2018, 12:50 PM
If you don't mind me being nosy, how high-end do you go with your photos? I could see myself going down that road if I did a pro photoshoot every month and sent out really high-quality pictures, but I'm not sure I'm brazen enough to sell phone selfies for $1.99 each. Is this misguided, do you think?

Guys are willing to pay for any hot pics, and some are even turned off by professional quality photos. They like knowing they’re getting something not everyone has. If it’s from your cell phone, it has an added personal touch.

I’m not an expert on Niteflirt PTV’s, but I know on Phrendly, guys will spend $10 for a couple of nudes taken on my cell phone. You can certainly charge $1.99 per pic :)

seashell
01-08-2018, 12:51 PM
You have to understand your market. 1. Football season (can't call) 2. Family here for holidays (can't call) I made them do the "bathroom jerking game and I had them jerking when they were supposed to spend time with their wives and Girlfriends. I used chat to mind fuck them. 3. Kids out of school (can't call) 4. Christmas parties (can't call) I did a tell me about the sluts at your work Christmas party. I also did a "gift exchange" where they send me tributes and I sent them Christmas pics. 5. New Years Eve (can't call) - I did a special "chat me at midnight" thing and made bank (no one wants to feel alone on the holidays) WHat they can do.... chat, listen to recordings, look at PTVsWith chat and this knowledge, I have been up 38% over last year at this time. That is right UP! They are clicking because they can not call. To many ears around. Use chat to get them to talk.

You have such great ideas... I’m taking notes! :D

sarahlove
01-08-2018, 01:14 PM
You have such great ideas... I’m taking notes! :Dawwww thanks. We are all so different that I do not think that there is any problem with helping each other. I have different characters and they rarely get the same caller. So I figure helping other women is a powerful karmic way to help my own life.

sarahlove
01-08-2018, 01:20 PM
If you don't mind me being nosy, how high-end do you go with your photos? I could see myself going down that road if I did a pro photoshoot every month and sent out really high-quality pictures, but I'm not sure I'm brazen enough to sell phone selfies for $1.99 each. Is this misguided, do you think?I only use paid content (I purchase and have rights to every picture I sell.) I have gone the $999.99 and I have done $.99. I do not go by my wallet. I go by the wallet of the guy who is purchasing them. Also Captioned photos work well for several reasons. 1. My name is on the photo but does not seem "watermarked" 2. I put in a question and they pay to answer on chat or in PTV 3. I have about 200 pics of each girl some more. I have been doing this for about 3 years and with the captions I can sell the same pic a few times. If I was playing myself I would do a pro shoot and selfies. If I were myself I would 1. Have an Amazon wish list and a special list where if a guy bought me something he was on an "exclusive" list to see all the items that other guys bought too. 2. I would take photos of myself with a chalkboard with messages to them 3. I would send out photos and videos all the damn time (if I can buy 100 pics for $4 and make several thousand then I would make a KILLING if I could be myself. Why am I not myself. Cause critics on a girl who is content is easy to just brush off and walk on.

DancesWithSloths
01-08-2018, 01:39 PM
Also Captioned photos work well for several reasons. 1. My name is on the photo but does not seem "watermarked" 2. I put in a question and they pay to answer on chat or in PTV 3. I have about 200 pics of each girl some more. I have been doing this for about 3 years and with the captions I can sell the same pic a few times.

Lady, you're a stone cold genius. :) :) :)

As to the character vs myself issue: my best-earning character is a cartoon avatar, whereas my actual delectable ass is doing OK, but nothing special. I actually suspect it's because when I log on as the cartoon, I'm mother-effin shameless, whereas as my real self I keep fretting about my precious "brand", whatever it is. Definitely food for thought.

sarahlove
01-08-2018, 02:00 PM
Lady, you're a stone cold genius. :) :) :)As to the character vs myself issue: my best-earning character is a cartoon avatar, whereas my actual delectable ass is doing OK, but nothing special. I actually suspect it's because when I log on as the cartoon, I'm mother-effin shameless, whereas as my real self I keep fretting about my precious "brand", whatever it is. Definitely food for thought.LOL I like to think of myself as a money magnet. I listen to a lot of affirmations. YES when we are not "ourselves" it is a ton easier. I don't have to set up lights, set up a camera, take photos, edit photos, make PTVs and sell them and STILL not feel bad when something does not sell. I have looked at the feedback of "real" girls (the ones you can tell are real) and I SWEAR the guys are meaner. I was a cam girl for about a year and then I said fuck it and went to content. Now when they are insulting I am just like "whatever it isn't me!"Oh yeah and when something doesn't sell well I "yell" at the characters... " way to go (insert character name) you suck and these guys don't like you" sounds silly but it is better for me than saying it to myself!!!

LaylaLovely
01-09-2018, 10:35 AM
^^^i have been reading all ur posts!!! I'm learning a lot lol btw is ur site all written by yourself?

So can I turn off certain listings for example I only cam 3 days a week but I want to offer the phone listings 5 days a week. I tried to check all except the cam listing as " yes taking calls" but wen I go to my profile it shows all the listings on including phone w cam

sarahlove
01-09-2018, 03:22 PM
^^^i have been reading all ur posts!!! I'm learning a lot lol btw is ur site all written by yourself?

So can I turn off certain listings for example I only cam 3 days a week but I want to offer the phone listings 5 days a week. I tried to check all except the cam listing as " yes taking calls" but wen I go to my profile it shows all the listings on including phone w cam

Yes it is all written by me. Sometimes when you do changes on niteflirt doesn't quite show until you log out and log back in I noticed sometimes when I change my bid amount I will find myself anywhere. I also have a customer account and I log in to see what things look like from their View.

sarahlove
01-09-2018, 03:28 PM
Yes it is all written by me. Sometimes when you do changes on niteflirt doesn't quite show until you log out and log back in I noticed sometimes when I change my bid amount I will find myself anywhere. I also have a customer account and I log in to see what things look like from their View.

Going to where all of your listings are and there's an option and like the 5th or 6th row over where it says mail only when you click on taking calls so you can set those webcam listings to male-only and the other ones will still let them call. The only thing that I would warn you about with that is that you're going to have guys who still want cam only they're going to try and call your phone line and get your cam rate so really think about how you set that up it might be better to have two listings if you want to do cam or set all of the listings at your cam rate. Be strong do not let them talk you into doing cam at your lower rate. If they want to have you cam on a day that you are off I would make a button that had a off-cam day motivation button and make it be like $20 I would put on some makeup for $20 LOL but these can guys can be real swindlers

seashell
01-10-2018, 03:19 AM
How long does Niteflirt usually take to complete help center requests? Niteflirt is being super weird about verifying my payment information. It says that my social security number doesn't match my name, so may payments are on hold. Wtf?? I have a few accounts, and the rest of them pay me out just fine. This is after I switched out of being with a studio, back to a personal account.

caramelcraze
01-10-2018, 05:53 AM
had a dude who sounded like he was on his death bed today... so frail and barely there. :S not how I envisioned my wednesday morning.

LaurenAus
01-10-2018, 11:23 AM
had a dude who sounded like he was on his death bed today... so frail and barely there. :S not how I envisioned my wednesday morning.

I feel bad but I totally laughed when I read this. I'm at work and needed the comic relief

DancesWithSloths
01-10-2018, 11:31 AM
How long does Niteflirt usually take to complete help center requests? Niteflirt is being super weird about verifying my payment information. It says that my social security number doesn't match my name, so may payments are on hold. Wtf?? I have a few accounts, and the rest of them pay me out just fine. This is after I switched out of being with a studio, back to a personal account.

I've had anything from 2 hours to 2 business days with them.

LaylaLovely
01-10-2018, 04:39 PM
I'm trying to add my first goodies and it says 2257 incomplete ? I can't click on the button it's green out??

Also wer can u buy content for other characters?

lexxirain
01-10-2018, 05:56 PM
I only use paid content (I purchase and have rights to every picture I sell.) I have gone the $999.99 and I have done $.99. I do not go by my wallet. I go by the wallet of the guy who is purchasing them. Also Captioned photos work well for several reasons. 1. My name is on the photo but does not seem "watermarked" 2. I put in a question and they pay to answer on chat or in PTV 3. I have about 200 pics of each girl some more. I have been doing this for about 3 years and with the captions I can sell the same pic a few times. If I was playing myself I would do a pro shoot and selfies. If I were myself I would 1. Have an Amazon wish list and a special list where if a guy bought me something he was on an "exclusive" list to see all the items that other guys bought too. 2. I would take photos of myself with a chalkboard with messages to them 3. I would send out photos and videos all the damn time (if I can buy 100 pics for $4 and make several thousand then I would make a KILLING if I could be myself. Why am I not myself. Cause critics on a girl who is content is easy to just brush off and walk on.

What do you mean by "put in a question"?

sarahlove
01-10-2018, 06:36 PM
Sorry I mean like I go in and drop in the caption that is a question... So like I might say which one of these two pictures is your favorite? And then I don't respond to that question for free I respond in a PTV or in chat. Usually putting a question in there and then telling them I can't wait to chat with you about it and putting a link to chat will help you to have five or 10 chats going at one time.

DancesWithSloths
01-11-2018, 09:12 AM
So like I might say which one of these two pictures is your favorite? And then I don't respond to that question for free I respond in a PTV or in chat.

When you respond to emails with PTVs, would you put the start of the sentence in a description, typically? I've been trying to go with an enticing description that cuts off at the most interesting moment, but I dunno if I'm working too hard on the free portion of the email.

Real example. Him: "How would you punish me, Mistress?" Me, in description: "*raised eyebrow* I know exactly what a naugty boy needs..." and the rest in a PTV.

Too much, or doing it right?

sarahlove
01-11-2018, 01:06 PM
When you respond to emails with PTVs, would you put the start of the sentence in a description, typically? I've been trying to go with an enticing description that cuts off at the most interesting moment, but I dunno if I'm working too hard on the free portion of the email.

Real example. Him: "How would you punish me, Mistress?" Me, in description: "*raised eyebrow* I know exactly what a naugty boy needs..." and the rest in a PTV.

Too much, or doing it right?

I look at that description box as a movie trailer

Part that they see in the sea of other flirts

Subject: Bet you didn't know
Free box: How much of a

They have to pay to see the rest.

Do you feel that? The question? The wonder of what the hell else I am going to say? That is how you get them to open it. Now it is super important to remember two things.

1. You only get a first chance to make a first impress don't send out crap. Send out quality
2. a cheap starter PTV ($.99) can lead to BIG PTV ($999.99) if they like what you are doing and you treat them how you would want to be treated.

Now that is different when it comes to pricing. DO NOT price according to what you would pay. Price by what a horny guy will pay. If they trust you and you put out fun stuff they will pay more when the relationship develops.

Men are visual creatures. If you have anything but a clothed photo on your profile you are giving away to much for free. Men are visual creatures they NEED photos. It is hard for women to understand because we are biologically wired different. My photos on my profile are like "pieces" of me in different banners. Then my PTVS are nudes after they start spending about $19.99 per photo. Rememeber there is a sea of women doing things for free because they don't know that they have the power. Take control. Set your price, name your price, believe in it and have something that you are proud to sell and they WILL pay more money. You will be shocked. I work with other women and I will never forget when my friend was teaching me findom. She was selling every pick for $1.99 and I was adding a dollar each time (because I thought that is how you did it) We were talking to the same man and she was getting $1.99 and I was up to like $7.99 or something and she was like "WTF he told me he didn't have money" I said "He told me that too but I figure if he keeps clicking he has money"

My time is valuable, so is yours. You may have kids or a lover and do not give away THEIR time for peanuts. WOMAN YOU ARE AMAZING! I mean YOU, the woman reading this. YOU have so much power. These men are socially awkward or they are married and don't want to cheat or they did cheat and got caught and do not want to do that again. Treat yourself like a Goddess and they will too. DO NOT be afraid of feedback. DO NOT let them blackmail you and if they write that shit (if you don't do XYZ I will leave you bad feedback) say "I am so glad you admitted to trying to blackmail me in writing so I can turn this over to play fair. Did you know blackmail is a federal offense. I am so glad you put in writing that you are scum who tries to blackmail hard working women. I really wish NF was able to tell me the outcome cause when you sign up you agree that they can read all your e-mail and if you are this open with your plan to blackmail me I hope no other girl did it cause you could have some major issues" (If you feel weird writing that then copy and paste this. YOU don't need to be abused by a loser) and then BLOCK HIM.

When I have gotten bad feedback in the past I get guys who call to see what it is about. Men are like cheerleaders. It is surprising how much they like drama. So use it to your advantage. "Oh Billy I just don't know what I am going to do about this bad feedback. I wish there was something you could do to help me. Would you mind if I send you some pay to views so you can leave me some good feedback..." Billly who wants to make you happy says "sure" and then YOU MAKE MONEY ON BAD FEEDBACK. Nothing can stop you if you realize this is all a game.

sarahlove
01-11-2018, 01:09 PM
When you respond to emails with PTVs, would you put the start of the sentence in a description, typically? I've been trying to go with an enticing description that cuts off at the most interesting moment, but I dunno if I'm working too hard on the free portion of the email.

Real example. Him: "How would you punish me, Mistress?" Me, in description: "*raised eyebrow* I know exactly what a naugty boy needs..." and the rest in a PTV.

Too much, or doing it right?

I am sorry. LOL I went on a long rant. This to me is perfect. You gave them a "cliffhanger"

sarahlove
01-11-2018, 01:14 PM
I'm trying to add my first goodies and it says 2257 incomplete ? I can't click on the button it's green out??

Also wer can u buy content for other characters?

I have a list. Please PM me if you would like it. I do not post it publicly because then the guys can look and they can see who is fake (believe me you would be like WTF if you knew how many of the girls on NF were content. Some of the "famous" girls are using content.

LaylaLovely
01-11-2018, 04:25 PM
I have a list. Please PM me if you would like it. I do not post it publicly because then the guys can look and they can see who is fake (believe me you would be like WTF if you knew how many of the girls on NF were content. Some of the "famous" girls are using content.


For some reason each time I try to pm it takes me back to log in , could u please pm me n hopefully it will let me reply to you :-\

MistressX
01-11-2018, 05:24 PM
So I tried asking before but I dont think anyone saw it or something. I guess the headset I bught for my LG v20 doesnt work with it. Could not figure out why.. But is there a headset anyone recommends for pso's? I want to use it for my cell phone. I have a cheapy at&t landline that has the worst volume ever.. So I could also try something with that too. I just dont know what's compatible with that either. What do you guys use?

seashell
01-11-2018, 05:39 PM
So I tried asking before but I dont think anyone saw it or something. I guess the headset I bught for my LG v20 doesnt work with it. Could not figure out why.. But is there a headset anyone recommends for pso's? I want to use it for my cell phone. I have a cheapy at&t landline that has the worst volume ever.. So I could also try something with that too. I just dont know what's compatible with that either. What do you guys use?

I use this one, by Arama Wantek... it has been super reliable for the past year. :)

http://a.co/9yVl5Ag

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-11-2018, 05:39 PM
So I tried asking before but I dont think anyone saw it or something. I guess the headset I bught for my LG v20 doesnt work with it. Could not figure out why.. But is there a headset anyone recommends for pso's? I want to use it for my cell phone. I have a cheapy at&t landline that has the worst volume ever.. So I could also try something with that too. I just dont know what's compatible with that either. What do you guys use?

I use this one when I'm working on the go. It's a bluetooth. Anything by Plantronics is good. https://www.amazon.com/Plantronics-Voyager-Wireless-Bluetooth-Headset/dp/B00DQ5NU76/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&qid=1515717266&sr=8-4&keywords=plantronics+bluetooth+headset

Logitech also makes really great headsets although I've never tried one that didn't have a usb connection. And I'm not sure if they have a bluetooth option. So you will need to search for one that has a 3.5 jack connector to plug into your phone. I found one here but I can't tell you if the quality of this model is good or not. https://www.amazon.com/Logitech-981-000612-Stereo-Headset-H111/dp/B00YJJB7YG/ref=sr_1_1?s=wireless&ie=UTF8&qid=1515717530&sr=1-1&keywords=Logitech+Stereo+Headset+H111

MistressX
01-11-2018, 06:05 PM
Thanks! I will try that mid priced one. The last one I bought wouldnt work with my LG v20 for some reason so we will see

I'mEveToo
01-11-2018, 06:35 PM
I use this one, by Arama Wantek... it has been super reliable for the past year. :)

http://a.co/9yVl5Ag

This one has been working well for me too.

MaryElizabeth
01-13-2018, 10:21 PM
WTF These guys? Not the first of these that I have gotten, guys who want you to scream and they stay totally quiet:


"Let's play babe,? I want to hear you scream loud.? I'm going to force fuck your tight teen pussy so hard you cry.? I'm mute and can't talk so your voice is all i got "

Honestly, one sided calls are so difficult I turn them down, just not worth it.

KatyBoleyn
01-14-2018, 08:54 AM
WTF These guys? Not the first of these that I have gotten, guys who want you to scream and they stay totally quiet:

"Let's play babe,? I want to hear you scream loud.? I'm going to force fuck your tight teen pussy so hard you cry.? I'm mute and can't talk so your voice is all i got "


Sounds like they're recording you for whatever reason - sort of like the ones on cam that come to you and just give you this strange list of cold instructions.

Classy_Katy
01-14-2018, 10:05 AM
WTF These guys? Not the first of these that I have gotten, guys who want you to scream and they stay totally quiet:


"Let's play babe,? I want to hear you scream loud.? I'm going to force fuck your tight teen pussy so hard you cry.? I'm mute and can't talk so your voice is all i got "

I'd find it difficult to do that for very long.

I've had guys email me first and saying that they won't be able to speak because they're at work and calling me from the toilets.

MaryElizabeth
01-14-2018, 10:15 AM
The problem isn't that you are getting clicked it's that when guys go to your page you don't give them enough reason to call. Redo your page, add lots, enough to make them stop, get them interested and make them want to call or txt. You have a listing that guys like to click on but you need to have more or something different to "close the deal.



Sorry for the multiple posts but do anyone have any advice on this situation. So as i explained earlier for all three of my niteflirt profiles its been dead but im also getting clicked to death on all of my profiles. So i know customers are seeing my profiles but they just clicking and moving on. Some of them add me to their favorites but yeah clicked to death with only a few to no calls for DAYS. Any advice?

I'mEveToo
01-14-2018, 12:43 PM
Sorry for the multiple posts but do anyone have any advice on this situation. So as i explained earlier for all three of my niteflirt profiles its been dead but im also getting clicked to death on all of my profiles. So i know customers are seeing my profiles but they just clicking and moving on. Some of them add me to their favorites but yeah clicked to death with only a few to no calls for DAYS. Any advice?

There are so many reasons why you may not be getting calls. The listing text or photos may not be appealing to your target caller. Your character may be very vague so guys don't know what they'd get if they call. The price may be too high for your category or what your character offers. It could be that it's just slow right now after the holidays. You need to look over your characters and listings from the point of view of a horny guy and try to see them the way he might, try to think the way he'd think as he looks at them.

But if you're getting clicked to death, you should try to get at least some of that money back by putting a couple of cheap PTVs on your page so that guys who are clicking when they're broke have something to tempt them. You could try a .69 teaser photo or a short .99 audio. If they buy, you've made back some of what you spent bidding to get them to your page and once they've bought something from you, they might be more likely to call. But if not, at least now they're on your customer list so you can market to them.

CapturedDoll
01-16-2018, 07:30 AM
Hi :)

I will be joining Niteflirt soon to be a PSO.

My (first) question is: After I am signed up.... is it required that I start working immedietly? I want 2-3 months to really take my time fixing my page. And learning from all of you the do's and don'ts. But... if I sign up now... I'm wondering if there are any penalties or... will I be kicked off or... know what I mean? I don't want to get into trouble when really I'm just trying to take this slow.

Also: Is there a way to make my page stay private for the time being while it is under construction? I don't want people to see it before I am ready to start.

DancesWithSloths
01-16-2018, 08:12 AM
Hi :)

I will be joining Niteflirt soon to be a PSO.

Welcome :)


My (first) question is: After I am signed up.... is it required that I start working immedietly? I want 2-3 months to really take my time fixing my page. And learning from all of you the do's and don'ts. But... if I sign up now... I'm wondering if there are any penalties or... will I be kicked off or... know what I mean? I don't want to get into trouble when really I'm just trying to take this slow.

There's no penalty - you can take your time. When I first started, I registered a bunch of characters at the same time, but "moved in" one at a time, so to speak. The rest were sitting there until I had time for them.

However, I really don't recommend that you waste 2-3 months building your listings, because *the only way* to find out the best content and layout for your listing is to watch customers interact with it. You have to put your design in front of the customers as quickly as possible, then tweak things here and there, and see what they prefer. 2-3 months of fiddling with a design just to find out you need to redo it is a waste of hundreds of dollars in lost income. (Google "minimum viable product" if you think this is nuts - you need a minimum viable listing to get started, then test new stuff based on what customer interactions tell you.)

Definitely read the forums for commons scams, and the internal flirt forum, just to know what to watch out for - but give yourself a week at the outside. Then turn your phone on and start taking calls, while you work on your listing. It's fine to mess up.


Also: Is there a way to make my page stay private for the time being while it is under construction? I don't want people to see it before I am ready to start.

Yes - you create a dummy listing in a category you're not going to use, and in the title you put DO NOT APPROVE - DUMMY LISTING. You can use it to test your code. Once you're satisfied (hopefully in no more than 2-3 days ;) ) you can copy the code and create listings in the categories you actually want.

Seriously, don't wait to start taking calls. It can take a long time to build up a volume of calls when you first start out.