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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-08-2018, 11:45 AM
This 1000 times - Im having a huge influx of guys who use thier phone for everything and they cant use NF and be on skype at the same time . My phone can do it tho because untill 2 weeks ago for 3 months i was using my phone for everything and was taking phone and cam calls with it and being on the phone and skype at the same time. NF is an old site that is not keeping up with the times Ive had callers tell me this too - they would like the platform to have revamp and get with the times on a lot of things . Most ppl are using their smart phones for everything - i agree they need to get with the times and allow block payments or integrate an in platform video support somehow. i dont care if its agianst the rules or not their site is written in practically ancient program script and i dont want to lose out on money by being a goodie two shoes and telling dudes no you cant do a tribute for a skype sesson beccause NF says so . Ive never had a dude try to get a charge back from a tribute show - IMO guys who ask for tribute shows are not trying to fuck over performers - theyre just trying to masterbate with a hot chick on skype and pay for it .

Just be sure not to advertise on your listings that you're doing that. Or post that info on a forum under your performer name :) The policing is real! I've stopped using NF for camshows about a year ago? To be honest I rarely log in as myself because most guys hit me up through other venues. NF is still a great site I would just like it to catch up a bit.

Marina Starr
03-08-2018, 12:17 PM
What's in the bold! I don't put I do tributes on my listings but I have no shame or feel any guilt doing it.


The only way NF can verify that the service was phonecall/camshow took place is when the automated system is keeping track. Its like a meter. Thats the technical explanation as to why NF doesn't want us to use tributes. But for practical reasons its far more convenient to do so when it comes to camshows. Especially now that more and more guys are using mobile phones to get shows. I think it would be best if they got some sort of plugin or video client like they have on their phrendly platform to keep track of shows. Or just realize and accept that most indy camming is done with block payments.

JaneBurgess
03-08-2018, 03:41 PM
What's the big deal with accepting tributes for shows/phones?
http://i65.tinypic.com/abilq0.jpg

It violates their rules, so thats reason enough. Plus guys can say you didnt do the show and get a refund and you have no recourse since you broke the rules. NF will close your account down if they find out so its not worth the risk. They added texting so hopefully they will work on a better payment option for cam shows.

SylvySinclair
03-08-2018, 04:27 PM
Its not only because its not allowed and they could close your account. If its their policy either you know how to work with rules or you dont! Everything in my life has rules, everything! I have my own set of rules in my house and if my kids dont comply with, it will be a huge problem for them! Rules are there for a reason, you can either like them or not, but they are there for a reason. If i dont like a rule, i just leave the site, same way i did with Streamate. I didnt like their rules for the types of shows I provide, so i left, but in no way, I will break the rules. Thats how it is, thats how you play the game. If not, most likely you will have your acct closed and no money to be payed, thats the main reason, maybe, but working by the rules, is a conscience thing, either you do have or you dont.

MaryElizabeth
03-08-2018, 11:11 PM
Since TTM is a topic if you show earnings at NF or elsewhere and make a case and ask you can get bumped to 50%.



Hello "my name",

Thank you for contacting us.

Your account commission rate has been adjusted to 50%.

Please let us know if you have any additional concerns.

Thank you for your business,

"person"
Customer Service Specialist
TalkToMe.com Support

BustyIsis
03-09-2018, 04:11 PM
I'm so happy ,they gonna send my money !!! I love NF !!LOL

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-09-2018, 04:54 PM
I'm so happy ,they gonna send my money !!! I love NF !!LOL

This great news! Did they ever tell you why they closed your accounts?

BustyIsis
03-09-2018, 05:01 PM
No they did not ...

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-09-2018, 05:05 PM
No they did not ...

Ugh SMH Well Im happy you will be able to get you're money.

BustyIsis
03-09-2018, 05:07 PM
Thank you for your support

LolaLu
03-10-2018, 04:23 AM
SO I have a question for those KNOW NF guys. I have a domme profile on there with a few listings but I want to add 'confessions' 'wife at home' type listings too. Is it better to set up a new account with a different persona or keep it on the one account?

I plan on changing my appearance with a wig for the new listings so that I have a different look.

Would apprecate any feedback

seashell
03-10-2018, 05:27 AM
SO I have a question for those KNOW NF guys. I have a domme profile on there with a few listings but I want to add 'confessions' 'wife at home' type listings too. Is it better to set up a new account with a different persona or keep it on the one account?

I plan on changing my appearance with a wig for the new listings so that I have a different look.

Would apprecate any feedback

Since it's a different "character" with a different appearance, I'd make a new account. It makes your listings & profile page much more streamlined, and helps the guys believe in the fantasy.

sarahlove
03-10-2018, 07:17 PM
Since it's a different "character" with a different appearance, I'd make a new account. It makes your listings & profile page much more streamlined, and helps the guys believe in the fantasy.

This is my exact answer! lol. PLUS. More accounts... bigger net.. bigger net more income.. I am all about more income

xxxGothBarbie
03-10-2018, 09:28 PM
So after I make my ptv's how do I get these guys to purchase them? I'm still trying to figure this site out without having to bid.

Snowy0Star
03-10-2018, 09:32 PM
So after I make my ptv's how do I get these guys to purchase them? I'm still trying to figure this site out without having to bid.

you have to make buttons with the links to them then code them into ur profile

I'mEveToo
03-10-2018, 09:51 PM
So after I make my ptv's how do I get these guys to purchase them? I'm still trying to figure this site out without having to bid.

You could also put your content into Goody Bags because then it will show up in searches in the Goody Bag "store" so guys will see it even without seeing your profile. Make sure also to use all the applicable tags when you create the Goody Bags so they will show up when someone searches for particular fetishes.

xxxGothBarbie
03-10-2018, 10:03 PM
You could also put your content into Goody Bags because then it will show up in searches in the Goody Bag "store" so guys will see it even without seeing your profile. Make sure also to use all the applicable tags when you create the Goody Bags so they will show up when someone searches for particular fetishes.

Oh ya! good idea :) I was playing around with it yesterday & got overwhelmed and lost. I'm gonna try that route now. How elaborate do you make your goody bags? As in pic sets & voice clips maybe?

Snowy0Star
03-10-2018, 10:16 PM
i actually forgot goodie bags were a thing on NF ive never made any. are pay to views pretty much not a thing anymore since goodie bags came out ? are they like dodo birds ? they exsisted but no one cares about them lol

I'mEveToo
03-10-2018, 11:21 PM
I put my content in both ptvs on my listing page and in Goody Bags. Some of my callers don't necessarily check Goodies but will buy my stuff if they see if they see it on my page. I like using Goody Bags because my account and character gets exposure to more potential callers who haven't seen me otherwise. I'm just careful to name give the content the exact same title and description in both the ptv and Goody Bag version so I don't have guys accidentally buying both. I sell pics and clips in both.

sarahlove
03-11-2018, 01:39 PM
I send out a PTV to my list of PTV buyers every day. I also have a list called "buys everything" they get stuff all day long. Every PTV that I make I put in a goodie bag. Guys can search goodie bags and I do all the tags etc so that I can make sure they know I have things available. Goodie bags have a lot of details. There is a spot on Niteflirt that tells you how to make them. If you want to follow the link in my signature you can find resources that I have that are for just this topic! I make most of my money with PTV and goodie bags. I hardly ever take calls anymore now that they have chat!

GoddessxMocha
03-12-2018, 05:46 AM
Im having a hard time lately. Im struggling to get the calls to come in and when they do come in they hang up after a minute. I know for a fact that I am struggling with the start of the conversation. "hi. how are you? whats on your mind?" works for guys just trying to jerk and keep it moving or for the guys who love conversation...but what do I say to guys who just call saying they wanna be blackmailed and humiliated? If I ask too many questions they hang up. If I go with it and come on too strong, they hang up. Im confused on how to get these fem domme and findom conversations STARTED and how to keep them going.

sarahlove
03-12-2018, 01:00 PM
Im having a hard time lately. Im struggling to get the calls to come in and when they do come in they hang up after a minute. I know for a fact that I am struggling with the start of the conversation. "hi. how are you? whats on your mind?" works for guys just trying to jerk and keep it moving or for the guys who love conversation...but what do I say to guys who just call saying they wanna be blackmailed and humiliated? If I ask too many questions they hang up. If I go with it and come on too strong, they hang up. Im confused on how to get these fem domme and findom conversations STARTED and how to keep them going.

I say " I am so glad to meet you I am going to be asking questions so I can learn all about you and just what you are looking for." There is a difference between asking a question and interrogation. Everyone wants to feel like they are interesting. "Oh mr jackoff I have never heard of anyone wanting to put a sticker on there forehead and running in the rain please tell me more that is fascinating." You have to have a genuine curiosity.

For humiliation I said (almost word for word) " Mr Jack off you like humiliation? I think that is so cool. There are many types of humiliation, some people might find eating out of a dog bowl to be the worst humiliation and others might find that to be silly. What specific type of humiliation do you like? Oh you like SPH, lol tell me about how you learned that you like that, I bet that is a hot story" You don't plan out conversations with friends. You have an interest in your friend. So I treat these guys like they are friends, friends who give me money to be their friends! Good luck!

Also work on your self confidence. I can feel the fact that you are not confident even in your post so I am sure the guys feel it too.

I'mEveToo
03-12-2018, 02:59 PM
Im having a hard time lately. Im struggling to get the calls to come in and when they do come in they hang up after a minute. I know for a fact that I am struggling with the start of the conversation. "hi. how are you? whats on your mind?" works for guys just trying to jerk and keep it moving or for the guys who love conversation...but what do I say to guys who just call saying they wanna be blackmailed and humiliated? If I ask too many questions they hang up. If I go with it and come on too strong, they hang up. Im confused on how to get these fem domme and findom conversations STARTED and how to keep them going.

These guys can be really difficult because most of them don't want to be blackmailed and humiliated by you, they just want to jerk off to the idea of you doing it. Something that's worked for me is having a few stories ready about how I've blackmailed and humiliated men in the past in real life. My boss at my old job, my ex husband, whatever. I tell them the story and most of the time that gets the job done. For the ones who really want some kind of blackmail thing with you, it intrigues them and convinces them you're into that fetish too.

GoddessxMocha
03-12-2018, 09:32 PM
I've definitely struggled with my confidence and Niteflirt has actually helped ALOT but I still have a long way to go. Thank you for you input and I'm going to keep at it. It's sad that you could tell through just me typing but Im going to shake it off and just get better. Thank you!

AngelaLeeTS
03-13-2018, 05:48 AM
Does skype number is back to normal? Does anyone using it now? thanks

seashell
03-13-2018, 06:13 AM
Does skype number is back to normal? Does anyone using it now? thanks

Yes, it is. I'm back to using mine. :)

sarahlove
03-13-2018, 09:24 AM
I've definitely struggled with my confidence and Niteflirt has actually helped ALOT but I still have a long way to go. Thank you for you input and I'm going to keep at it. It's sad that you could tell through just me typing but Im going to shake it off and just get better. Thank you!

Oh no no it is not sad. It is insight. I hope you do not get discouraged. I would never want to do that to another woman. I am an empath. I feel emotions like other people don't. The fact that you even wrote a post is WONDERFUL because I feell like you typed it several times before you even posted it.

YOU are amazing because YOU had the courage to start your own company.
YOU are amazing because YOU put yourself out there to take calls
YOU are amazing because some girls look at the site and never turn the call light on.
YOU are amazing because YOU came here for help and insight to get better.

I do consultations for NF and I find that the biggest issue that people have is FEAR. YOU are overcoming that fear and putting yourself out there. Please do not mistake my insight for you being bad or sad. Please just take it as a gift, because when we know where we are struggling we can get better and make more $$$.

Please accept my sincere apology for not expounding and causing you distress.

xxxluv
03-13-2018, 10:21 AM
i actually forgot goodie bags were a thing on NF ive never made any. are pay to views pretty much not a thing anymore since goodie bags came out ? are they like dodo birds ? they exsisted but no one cares about them lol

They are still very much a thing and they boost your LVS - thats why many put their content in both. I dont do as good as I should with putting them in both. But I def make a wide variety of ptvs to send and rotate on my various phone listings.

For my big files I try to make it a goodie first so that it can sell and get the space back and then if I want to make it a ptv do it.
So that's something else to keep in mind with ptv's. But both are essential and has definitely added to my passive income.

LaurenAus
03-13-2018, 04:08 PM
Oh no no it is not sad. It is insight. I hope you do not get discouraged. I would never want to do that to another woman. I am an empath. I feel emotions like other people don't. The fact that you even wrote a post is WONDERFUL because I feell like you typed it several times before you even posted it.

YOU are amazing because YOU had the courage to start your own company.
YOU are amazing because YOU put yourself out there to take calls
YOU are amazing because some girls look at the site and never turn the call light on.
YOU are amazing because YOU came here for help and insight to get better.

I do consultations for NF and I find that the biggest issue that people have is FEAR. YOU are overcoming that fear and putting yourself out there. Please do not mistake my insight for you being bad or sad. Please just take it as a gift, because when we know where we are struggling we can get better and make more $$$.

Please accept my sincere apology for not expounding and causing you distress.



Sarah on another note--do
You feel being an empath has noticeably helped you as a pso?

sarahlove
03-14-2018, 01:39 PM
Sarah on another note--do
You feel being an empath has noticeably helped you as a pso?

100%

i feel what a caller is calling me
I feel that he has a need. The other day I talked to a caller for 1.5 hours about how to break up with the lady he was with. I have talked to men who have lost their wives and are lonely at night. 80% of my calls are not about sex. They are about a person needing a connection. I watched "hotline" on Netflix and it changed my business.

Girly_Girl
03-15-2018, 02:29 PM
Where can I buy pictures for my nf character?

LadyCoco
03-15-2018, 05:20 PM
GFY.com.

There are some here who you can buy content directly from as well.

JaneBurgess
03-15-2018, 08:29 PM
Where can I buy pictures for my nf character?

I would hire a local model so you can get a lot of content of her. Plus NF has a lot of profiles with the same pics because the same sets are sold a bunch of sites

Girly_Girl
03-16-2018, 04:47 AM
I would hire a local model so you can get a lot of content of her. Plus NF has a lot of profiles with the same pics because the same sets are sold a bunch of sites

Wished I could afford to do that but right now I can't, maybe later on tho ;(

LadyCoco
03-17-2018, 06:59 AM
I'm trying to sign back up on Niteflirt but I think I signed up as a member, not as a flirt. Ugh. So frustrating.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-17-2018, 07:32 AM
I'm trying to sign back up on Niteflirt but I think I signed up as a member, not as a flirt. Ugh. So frustrating.

In your customer account select the purple "Become A Flirt" link at the very bottom of the page.

Actually its a blue link if you're on desktop.

LadyCoco
03-17-2018, 09:28 AM
In your customer account select the purple "Become A Flirt" link at the very bottom of the page.

Actually its a blue link if you're on desktop.

I signed back in and got my account set up as a Flirt. I'm all set now!

MaryElizabeth
03-17-2018, 10:30 AM
How does this work, getting the 2257, telling them what the pics will get used for. Seems difficult to make work.


I would hire a local model so you can get a lot of content of her. Plus NF has a lot of profiles with the same pics because the same sets are sold a bunch of sites

JaneBurgess
03-17-2018, 06:01 PM
How does this work, getting the 2257, telling them what the pics will get used for. Seems difficult to make work.

Its the same if you buy images from a company/photographer, you still need a copy of the the contract and 2257 information. NF doesnt ask for them but you need them for your records

sarahlove
03-17-2018, 11:18 PM
How does this work, getting the 2257, telling them what the pics will get used for. Seems difficult to make work.

I have a contract that I have them sign. I tell them exactly what it is used for. I have done it with 3 girls. It works out very well. I have amazon wish lists for each one of them. They get to keep the things and take videos and stuff and I pay them for those too. But I know what to look for so I make good money for them AND for myself. But I tell them all about it so there is no problem later on down the line.

minniesoporno
03-18-2018, 09:53 AM
So I've been curious who using is ACH from Paxum ?? I am thinking it might work.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-18-2018, 02:17 PM
So I've been curious who using is ACH from Paxum ?? I am thinking it might work.

I don't have paxum so I'm not sure if this would work for international members or not? If you use it for global payments does it issue an accounting plus a routing number that you can enter into your banking details on the site? Ive read here on SW and other boards that they're going through some serious changes/issues and doesn't seem very stable at the moment.

https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?217870-Has-anyone-had-Paxum-just-suddenly-close-your-account

MaryElizabeth
03-18-2018, 03:05 PM
Model Mayhem?


I have a contract that I have them sign. I tell them exactly what it is used for. I have done it with 3 girls. It works out very well. I have amazon wish lists for each one of them. They get to keep the things and take videos and stuff and I pay them for those too. But I know what to look for so I make good money for them AND for myself. But I tell them all about it so there is no problem later on down the line.

minniesoporno
03-18-2018, 07:36 PM
I don't have paxum so I'm not sure if this would work for international members or not? If you use it for global payments does it issue an accounting plus a routing number that you can enter into your banking details on the site? Ive read here on SW and other boards that they're going through some serious changes/issues and doesn't seem very stable at the moment.

https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?217870-Has-anyone-had-Paxum-just-suddenly-close-your-account

All I know is paxum offers ACH virtual account in USD$.

All their testimonials on their website are all cam sites and other adult sites/adult services. I am still waiting for my Paxum account to be verified.

Since I believe I can use my Paxum card for my US dollar purchases just trying to streamline getting my money all in one place. so I can maximize my resources and spend less on currency exchange rate for business.

Plus I am in Canada, so what services I can access from Paxum are probably different then in the thread.

MaryElizabeth
03-18-2018, 08:54 PM
If you physically go the America you can open an account stateside, might cut down on fees.
http://btr.michaelkwan.com/2007/10/06/how-to-open-a-us-bank-account-as-a-canadian-citizen/





All I know is paxum offers ACH virtual account in USD$.

All their testimonials on their website are all cam sites and other adult sites/adult services. I am still waiting for my Paxum account to be verified.

Since I believe I can use my Paxum card for my US dollar purchases just trying to streamline getting my money all in one place. so I can maximize my resources and spend less on currency exchange rate for business.

Plus I am in Canada, so what services I can access from Paxum are probably different then in the thread.

minniesoporno
03-19-2018, 10:35 AM
If you physically go the America you can open an account stateside, might cut down on fees.
http://btr.michaelkwan.com/2007/10/06/how-to-open-a-us-bank-account-as-a-canadian-citizen/

I am not interested in opening an account in the US when I can use the ACH Virtual account provided by Paxum. Why would I travel and make it more of a hassle when I can use what Paxum has available.

olgivy
03-21-2018, 09:17 AM
Can someone tell me if it’s possible to make $100 a day with 10 hours a day log on time and regular bidding as a newbie? Im a Domme, but right now I’m not in a position to drive traffic to my listings from twitter or use blogs as I have a high profile vanilla job too. I’m on aw too, but traffic is becoming really dire there.

MaryElizabeth
03-21-2018, 03:40 PM
How fast do you need to get to $100 a day? How many profiles do you have? Do your pages look interesting or are they bland?


Can someone tell me if it’s possible to make $100 a day with 10 hours a day log on time and regular bidding as a newbie? Im a Domme, but right now I’m not in a position to drive traffic to my listings from twitter or use blogs as I have a high profile vanilla job too. I’m on aw too, but traffic is becoming really dire there.

olgivy
03-21-2018, 03:55 PM
How fast do you need to get to $100 a day? How many profiles do you have? Do your pages look interesting or are they bland?

Hi mary, thank you for replying. I need to get to $100 a day within about 2-3 weeks. Is that a reasonable time frame? I haven't wrote my listings yet, but I'm a copywriter so I know how to write persuasively. I am looking into someone getting all the html templates done for me too. I have no problem with setting cheap rates, if it makes me the most money either.

olgivy
03-22-2018, 06:41 AM
I'm making my way through this amazing thread. Page 82 so far. Could someone also tell me where I can find good stock photos too please? thank you in advance.