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scarletl
09-03-2018, 10:51 AM
I'd also like to add onto what PrincessC said and mention that it's ok to weed out types of fetishes you aren't so keen on or ones that attract the most annoying type of customers. For me I hate blackmail guys so I make a point of not offering that. I'm not overly keen on sissification, again make a point of not offering that. I used to do ALL fetishes and now I have my little selection I enjoy which is mostly findom and foot fetish and coerced bi training.
I think it can be useful to have on your profile the fetishes you won't cover and at the same time customise your profile and listings up to make it obvious of the things you DO like.
Paradoxx
09-03-2018, 11:32 AM
I'd also like to add onto what PrincessC said and mention that it's ok to weed out types of fetishes you aren't so keen on or ones that attract the most annoying type of customers. For me I hate blackmail guys so I make a point of not offering that. I'm not overly keen on sissification, again make a point of not offering that. I used to do ALL fetishes and now I have my little selection I enjoy which is mostly findom and foot fetish and coerced bi training.
I think it can be useful to have on your profile the fetishes you won't cover and at the same time customise your profile and listings up to make it obvious of the things you DO like.
YES. This. I've recently stopped marketing to sissies. When I first started, I didn't offer CBT because I didn't know enough about it and didn't want to hurt anyone, so the painsluts were weeded out. And for a good while homewrecking made me uncomfortable and I hated the clientele I was attracting with that, so I had cut that out as well. I recently added it back in because I've had a few homewrecking subs who didn't gross me out, so I'm not letting a few bad apples ruin the bunch for now. Nothing wrong with being picky in that regard.
But yes, make your limits known and if you don't want to do that for any reason, just really push your other fetishes and most guys will be deterred by not seeing their fetish listed in things you like to do/offer.
queenelayliah
09-04-2018, 07:31 PM
It never fails to amaze me when I offer $0.99 i get a lot of guys who sounds uninterested, dont know what they want and ALWAYS end the call within the first 1 or 2 minutes. Why lol.
sarahlove
09-05-2018, 08:55 PM
It never fails to amaze me when I offer $0.99 i get a lot of guys who sounds uninterested, dont know what they want and ALWAYS end the call within the first 1 or 2 minutes. Why lol.
My personal experience was when I was in the $.99 bracket I got a lot of pedo calls and calls that were against TOU. I think that they try the lower rates because they do not want to "waste" money on girls who follow TOU. So they would rather take some time at $.99 and then ask the "so do you have any limits" question. They think if you are "invested" that you will want to continue to make money so you will talk about it. There was a girl who was on for $.69 for a while. My friend wrote to her and asked her why and she said that she was building feedback points. My thought on that is if you have the feedback of men who spend $.99 you just have a whole list of men who only want to spend $.99. I am at $2.99 for most of my listings (I would rather do chat and tributes since they can't leave feedback) but the guys who call at $2.99 are much different than the guys who call at $.99 just food for thought.
illuminaughty
09-07-2018, 09:24 AM
So for the past few weeks I've been noticing my calls have been showing up as missed when I never received a connected call.
Is anyone else experiencing this issue?
izshadow
09-07-2018, 06:25 PM
Nothing pisses me off more then these guys who think we sit in front of the computer 24/7, waiting to chit chat on Skype. If you want a cam show you CALL ME and then we can connect on Skype while you are paying me. You have a question, you can email me on NF and I'll answer any questions that you may have on there. And just because we did a cam show, does not mean I'm automatically your best friend.
JaneBurgess
09-07-2018, 07:51 PM
So for the past few weeks I've been noticing my calls have been showing up as missed when I never received a connected call.
Is anyone else experiencing this issue?
YES!!! Its a glitch on NFs end and you have to contact them to fix it. I had that all last week and this week calls arent connecting. They need a more stable phone carrier
caramelcraze
09-07-2018, 11:47 PM
Nothing pisses me off more then these guys who think we sit in front of the computer 24/7, waiting to chit chat on Skype. If you want a cam show you CALL ME and then we can connect on Skype while you are paying me. You have a question, you can email me on NF and I'll answer any questions that you may have on there. And just because we did a cam show, does not mean I'm automatically your best friend.
I had one of these tonight and it wasn't worth the 3 minute show. like my lines are open... call me dude!
addytoi
09-10-2018, 12:37 PM
Wow. I have been chatting today across all 3 of my accounts. It is adding up.
ravenskyy
09-12-2018, 10:05 AM
Omg, I'm just getting clicked to death! All week, 0 calls, 1 goody bag purchase, 0 chats. Just burning through my bidding budget. Like wtf!?!?
whiteheat
09-12-2018, 01:03 PM
Just a heads up to girls from unsupported countries who want to work on NF like me.
The dailypayservice Uk, can pay girls from these not supported countries with wire and payoneer if anyone is interested, and for calls, you can use TextPlus or TextNow as skype and voip are not working through NF anymore. Just to let you know.
I'm based in the supporting countries, except for the CHAT option (which is only for US & Canada numbers), I have a US Skype number that can't verify nor use for texting... Great :|
Talking with support, and they confirmed VoIP numbers don't work (though I put mine in the chat section in my account, without veryfing aka useless)). But mentioning on when they're going to enroll chat to international numbers or how to go around that.
I guess I have to deal with it.
Spemily
09-12-2018, 01:49 PM
You don't actually use the number for texting, only to receive alerts. Just get a number with a service like TextNow.
sarahlove
09-13-2018, 09:12 AM
Wow. I have been chatting today across all 3 of my accounts. It is adding up.
I LOVE chat!! The other night I was at karaoke and I was chatting about the time we were having and we were getting tributes cause they thought we were using their money to buy drinks! lol
sarahlove
09-13-2018, 09:14 AM
You don't actually use the number for texting, only to receive alerts. Just get a number with a service like TextNow.
This is true! I am using a text now number for my chats and I still chat on the Niteflirt website. It is not text so you don't need a number. You just have to remember to use the text now number every like 60 days or something or you could lose the number.
queenelayliah
09-13-2018, 11:09 AM
Has anyone else calls been coming up as private? I been getting private calls so i finally answered and it was niteflirt. And all call coming through are private plus assholes at the end sigh.
kortneykay
09-13-2018, 02:02 PM
You can also get a google voice number for the alerts. It's nice to be wherever and getting an alert via gmail/google voice straight to your phone and you can instantly log into NF to chat with the client. They come in handy, especially if you demand tributes in your text sessions. Adds up and you were probably not doing anything, anyway, BOOM $20-80 you never know!
scarletl
09-13-2018, 04:08 PM
Omg, I'm just getting clicked to death! All week, 0 calls, 1 goody bag purchase, 0 chats. Just burning through my bidding budget. Like wtf!?!?
SAME and bidding is expensive as fuck the last 3-4 days. The place I was paying $1.30-$1.40 for last week is now $1.90+ at all times of day and night. Tha fuck
sarahlove
09-13-2018, 10:10 PM
SAME and bidding is expensive as fuck the last 3-4 days. The place I was paying $1.30-$1.40 for last week is now $1.90+ at all times of day and night. Tha fuck
Do you have PTVs and different things that they can buy when they click on you? Niteflirt bases your LVS on your conversions. So if you are just waiting for calls the older the profile gets the more expensive it will be to bid.
scarletl
09-14-2018, 02:02 AM
Do you have PTVs and different things that they can buy when they click on you? Niteflirt bases your LVS on your conversions. So if you are just waiting for calls the older the profile gets the more expensive it will be to bid.
Yeah I have voice sample, other cheap "clickbait" but that's the thing it's all cheaper like 99c.....does it matter how much they spend from clicking on the mails?
I do have some higher prices clickables on there too. I don't really do calls that much, I gave up on the idea of calls on NF now.
sarahlove
09-14-2018, 08:28 AM
Yeah I have voice sample, other cheap "clickbait" but that's the thing it's all cheaper like 99c.....does it matter how much they spend from clicking on the mails?
I do have some higher prices clickables on there too. I don't really do calls that much, I gave up on the idea of calls on NF now.
It does not matter how much they spend.
I kind of wonder though why you have a voice sample if you don't take calls? Maybe do some games if you don't interact on the phone. Do you "turn your light on" so to speak?
ravenskyy
09-14-2018, 11:03 AM
I added a greeting 2 weeks ago and now I'm not getting any calls! Idk why! I've never been told that I have a bad voice. I've always received compliments.
queenelayliah
09-14-2018, 08:21 PM
Okay so i dont know who else to ask but does anyone have the link to the talk to me thread. I tried searching for the last hour but i cant find it. I used talk ti me, ttm as searched terms and its not pulling it up. I would really appreciate it. Im trying to figure out how to block on ttm, i dont see the block button next to their names in the contact or their page.
PSOcodemonkey
09-14-2018, 09:53 PM
Okay so i dont know who else to ask but does anyone have the link to the talk to me thread. I tried searching for the last hour but i cant find it. I used talk ti me, ttm as searched terms and its not pulling it up. I would really appreciate it.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?194568
izshadow
09-15-2018, 11:38 AM
You can also get a google voice number for the alerts. It's nice to be wherever and getting an alert via gmail/google voice straight to your phone and you can instantly log into NF to chat with the client. They come in handy, especially if you demand tributes in your text sessions. Adds up and you were probably not doing anything, anyway, BOOM $20-80 you never know!
You can get text alerts on your google number? I thought it was for phone calls only.
whiteheat
09-15-2018, 07:40 PM
Yes I was aware I can use chat straight on NF, I just need a US number to just verify. TextNow and Google voice are not available here yayyy :| it doesn't even let me download the app or choose anything.
Spemily
09-15-2018, 09:05 PM
Yes I was aware I can use chat straight on NF, I just need a US number to just verify. TextNow and Google voice are not available here yayyy :| it doesn't even let me download the app or choose anything.
Maybe one of these will work for you:
https://www.topbestalternatives.com/textnow/
Google Voice isn't available outside the US. TextNow has worked for flirts in the UK, but I don't know what other areas it might now work in. Just do a search for "services like TextNow" and you'll get a lot of options.
xxxGothBarbie
09-15-2018, 09:42 PM
how do you guys get tributes on here? I've sold a few goodies here & there but nothing to write home about really :(
kortneykay
09-15-2018, 10:03 PM
You can get text alerts on your google number? I thought it was for phone calls only.
You can get texts straight to your google # and calls.
Paradoxx
09-16-2018, 10:23 AM
how do you guys get tributes on here? I've sold a few goodies here & there but nothing to write home about really :(
Personally, I've noticed it's all about my characterization. When I was working as more of a "general" Domme as opposed to really sticking to the findom niche, I noticed it was considerably more difficult for me to get tributes as opposed to now. Now that I'm pretty much solely a FinDomme, it's expected so I don't get too much push-back on it since the guys know what they're getting into.
Even when I catered to more kinks, however, I did notice it was way easier for me to get tributes via chat for whatever reason. It was a lot easier to sell goodies that way too, so you could definitely try that out if you've mostly been requesting/demanding them during live calls. Even now, guys occasionally flake when I demand tributes on the phone. Mostly because they're not into findom, but I've noticed some simply don't like to bother with the site at all while they're on the phone, so there's that too.
caramelcraze
09-17-2018, 11:37 AM
mumblers piss me tf off.
https://media.giphy.com/media/jUHTEnXPfzHri/200.gif
MyrtleTheTurtle
09-17-2018, 11:42 AM
Dreamlover just wrote me back after waiting a month and told me they're not hiring right now . I need more income while I build my camming business back , where is a good texting site ! Please help And I have no clue how to set up my niteflirt pleaseeee help
SuperPookie
09-17-2018, 11:52 AM
I haven't gotten a text from Dreamlover in over a year so I'd say unless you have a very big following you're not missing much.
Do you plan to only text? If so I'm not sure that NF would be the best platform though as in all things your experience may vary.
MyrtleTheTurtle
09-17-2018, 12:25 PM
I haven't gotten a text from Dreamlover in over a year so I'd say unless you have a very big following you're not missing much.
Do you plan to only text? If so I'm not sure that NF would be the best platform though as in all things your experience may vary.
Honestly I would be open to niteflirt phone/mail ect I just don't know how to set it up lol .Sad about dreamlover phrendly is annoying no one ever writes me first but I have a million people star me
whiteheat
09-17-2018, 12:45 PM
So ladies, thank you for the suggestions. Going to update on this chat situation for international flirtz like me who can't use the chat feature.
Tried a few, Textplus and Telos and another.
Got a free number with free credits (I have like 70 and something in total), put new number on NF to verify, hit verify, I do receive the texts (yes multiple cause I tried several times) with the code from NF system -sound notifications and decreasing credits and all- but this damn text with verification code does not appear in the text tab of Telos, like a ghost, I can't see it. I even texted back to that number from NF (and they texted back go to xy url to find chat chat host on NF, the only text I can see).
Closed the app, switched off and on my phone, reload app, and still get notification of a new text but it doesn't appear, again. I'm going to try with wifi again but I don't think it matters.
When I get free credits I'll try with Textplus as well.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-17-2018, 01:31 PM
They need to start calling express pay snail pay! I'm still waiting on 9/11 payments after receiving 9/10 & 9/12 already. Its just too sporadic! I guess Im going to have to go back to monthly payouts and experimenting with holding money for a week to manage payouts.
Marina Starr
09-17-2018, 04:04 PM
"are you available to cam?"
Um, my phone with cam line shows 'call now' that means I am AVAILABLE? The fuckery is real. IDIOTS.
queenelayliah
09-18-2018, 03:39 AM
Has anyone else been having trouble with skype when taking Skype calls on niteflirt? So for some information i use my ipad mini and the customers cant see my camera thiugh i can see them and i can see my camera in the upper right corner. All settings are correct and allows access to the camera,
I talked to skype support and they stated its a known issue with skype users using an ipad. I lost two callers because of this. Im just warning you guys to do a test call with a friend to make sure they can see your camera before you do any calls. For those of you who use skype on your ipad.
PSOcodemonkey
09-18-2018, 07:10 AM
They need to start calling express pay snail pay! I'm still waiting on 9/11 payments after receiving 9/10 & 9/12 already. Its just too sporadic! I guess Im going to have to go back to monthly payouts and experimenting with holding money for a week to manage payouts.
I use Express Pay, but turn it on once a week, then off for the rest of the week. I only pay myself from one profile each week (I rotate which ones). Tons of different ways to experiment. I used monthly in the past, but grew to love knowing at least some fresh money would hit my bank account each week.
passionflower
09-18-2018, 07:31 AM
I thought about going weekly to have fewer questions when I have to show my bank statements. But if I had deposits from multiple accounts it would still look odd. Alternating between accounts is genius. Kicking myself for not thinking about it sooner. Thanks!
naughtybustyteen
09-18-2018, 03:28 PM
Niteflirts is frightfully slow for me right now, its going about a month now...
I'm distracted with studies right now but soon I'll be back at it and any suggestions
for keeping sane would be nice...
any tips for getting fresh ideas for audio clips and PTV games would be
greatly appreciated since I often find myself stuck on these points....
queenelayliah
09-19-2018, 01:19 AM
I use Express Pay, but turn it on once a week, then off for the rest of the week. I only pay myself from one profile each week (I rotate which ones). Tons of different ways to experiment. I used monthly in the past, but grew to love knowing at least some fresh money would hit my bank account each week.
May i ask what the purpose of rotating accounts does? I plan on pausing pay so that i can have weekly pay and my checking not to look so werid. But im really curious in why you rotate accounts.
PSOcodemonkey
09-19-2018, 12:20 PM
I use Express Pay, but turn it on once a week, then off for the rest of the week. I only pay myself from one profile each week (I rotate which ones). Tons of different ways to experiment. I used monthly in the past, but grew to love knowing at least some fresh money would hit my bank account each week.
May i ask what the purpose of rotating accounts does? I plan on pausing pay so that i can have weekly pay and my checking not to look so werid. But im really curious in why you rotate accounts.
Many different reasons. Mainly, because NF is not my only egg/basket. I get so many payouts from so many places that the last thing I need are multiple NF direct deposits arriving the same day or week. If only NF would let us combine the accounts for payout. Easier to keep it limited to one a week. I don't have a ton of accounts on NF, so it is not that much different than getting paid monthly for all of them.
While not an issue with my bank account, I know for some people, they are limited to something like 10-12 direct deposits total a month. Same for some debit cards that accept direct deposits. For other people, they just don't like how it looks on their accounts, getting multiple direct deposits from the same place the same day. esp if they are using a personal banking account vs a business account. Just depends on the person and their situation.
xxxGothBarbie
09-19-2018, 06:21 PM
What's up with the guys sending me mail asking for 3 mins free in exchange for 5 stars & great reviews to help me get more business?! It sounds scammy AF & I didn't bother answering him.
Girly_Girl
09-20-2018, 05:10 AM
What's up with the guys sending me mail asking for 3 mins free in exchange for 5 stars & great reviews to help me get more business?! It sounds scammy AF & I didn't bother answering him.
fuck that....lol...I wouldn't either....I only send one free minute and even then I had one guy would only use his 1 free minute and then hang up and I am on several sites...i ended up blocking the loser
sarahlove
09-20-2018, 05:38 PM
fuck that....lol...I wouldn't either....I only send one free minute and even then I had one guy would only use his 1 free minute and then hang up and I am on several sites...i ended up blocking the loser
Oh yeah I do that too. I hate that when they use just the free min. I only send out free mins once a month and even then so many girls send out free mins that it isn't even a big deal to the guys anymore.
MaryElizabeth
09-21-2018, 10:04 AM
If I was setting up a new profile I would glady / joyfully trade 3 minutes for a 5 star. I would do that dozens of times, when getting going stars matter.
Alas, its in the terms that you can't give free minutes in trade for anything. If I miss a call from a 'regular' I don't hesitate to send him as many minutes as I can. The heavy callers you have to treat differently and special.
fuck that....lol...I wouldn't either....I only send one free minute and even then I had one guy would only use his 1 free minute and then hang up and I am on several sites...i ended up blocking the loser
THANK GOD AUGUST IS FUCKING OVER (https://imgur.com/a/k6PQmW7). It's the first time I have felt human in about a month.
foxirox
09-23-2018, 09:56 PM
I'm beyond pissed with NF...had so many problems with calls getting cut off...support is horrendous. They can't get to the bottom of why my calls keep dropping and will only remove neg feedback if I agree to refund the customer... What can I do to get a stable number/numbers? My phones are not cutting it. I work two characters and that's it. x
LolaLu
09-24-2018, 12:39 AM
Can someone tell me how to invite people to chat please?
Spemily
09-24-2018, 01:02 AM
Can someone tell me how to invite people to chat please?
I'm not exactly sure what you mean. There is not specific mechanism on Niteflirt for inviting people to chat. You could send out an email to your existing customer list and tell them you'd like to chat. You could include your chat link in the email.
Alternatively, you could promote your chat services on Twitter, Tumblr or anywhere else you have a profile or website (that allows promotion, of course).
foxirox
09-24-2018, 03:40 AM
Does anyone use a google number(s) to take calls? Is it possible? I'm at my wits end now. All my calls are just looping and NF cannot find a solution.