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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-21-2018, 06:17 PM
The profile is an 18 year old submissive virgin so maybe they think they can take advantage of me cause I'm so young and naive? I really don't know. It used to happen every once an awhile but lately it's been almost constant.

Look at your listings and see if you're using words like free, sample, teaser or cheap. They could be using those search words.

MsMeta
11-21-2018, 08:21 PM
I do use the word sample, but it's in a graphic for my voice sample so not searchable. And I have "tease" in the text part of my listing as in "I love to tease men" so perhaps that's luring them? No free or cheap mentions though - and all my lines are 1.99 so I don't get the cheapos that a lot of girls encounter in the .99 & under range. Or maybe not lol.

The words I try to emphasize for that character are coed, schoolgirl, sorority, virgin, submissive, etc. Nothing about freebies or anything.

SuperPookie
11-22-2018, 07:01 AM
I currently use google voice and have it connected to my phone. If you look in the settings you will know what i mean. Anyway so the calls come straight to my phone and its super clear. Never had any problems with it plus its FREE!!!!!!

I had no idea this was possible ! 0.0 So we can have a another set of three characters as long as we use Google Voice? I don't have one but I'd certainly be willing to get one for the chance to have 3 more characters.
I assume you have to have a different verification card. I only own one credit card with the exception of my Home Depot card lol so I assume my regular debit card would work? Can you use the same direct deposit account?

sexysusie
11-23-2018, 05:03 PM
Ok so i joined amberly's site but i don't see any blog posts? Also, any recommendations for GOOD books about findom?

DirtyLittlePopSong
11-23-2018, 05:26 PM
are you in the paid session? I think it's $2 dollars or so to get access.

sexysusie
11-24-2018, 03:57 AM
I dod join and couldnt see much. I've found the videos now though. Weird.

I need a really nice custom template with some specific features, recomendations for good makers currently anyone?

sarahlove
11-25-2018, 10:16 PM
Those who have more than 3 accounts, I am aware you need a second number. Do you usually just buy a cheap phone and use a second phone or use some kind of online skype number?

I use google voice.

I also got a second phone line on Tmobile for $10

queenelayliah
11-27-2018, 02:12 AM
I had no idea this was possible ! 0.0 So we can have a another set of three characters as long as we use Google Voice? I don't have one but I'd certainly be willing to get one for the chance to have 3 more characters.
I assume you have to have a different verification card. I only own one credit card with the exception of my Home Depot card lol so I assume my regular debit card would work? Can you use the same direct deposit account?

Hey, yes you can have another three characters as long as you use another phone number. I just happen to use google voice instead of text now which is another free number because google voice call quality was WAYYY better. I don’t know about a different verification card I don't think you. Don't quote me but it doesn't hurt to try. I know for a fact you can use the same payment method.

The only downfalls I noticed with having multiple accounts aka 3+ characters is that

1) when your first number is busy the other 2 characters will go to busy so that customers can’t call those characters. However your other characters attached to your second phone number will remind available for calls. So i had someone call me on both numbers at the same time. But normally with things being slow I only had it happen once.

2) Having to log in and out of all of those accounts can be tiring. But I made an extra $200 this month for having 1 more character for a total of 4 characters. So ots worth it to me.

Wildone18
11-27-2018, 10:37 AM
So I really need to spend some time on niteflirt. it's the only egg for me that not consistent. and reducing to 2.99 from 3.99 hasn't done anything, I did get one call but he chose to use my other listing at 4.99 LOL. I'm obviously missing something so i'm going to read through this thread and hopefully get this going and I just know there's a lot of money to be made here!!

BadBitch
11-27-2018, 06:46 PM
So I really need to spend some time on niteflirt. it's the only egg for me that not consistent. and reducing to 2.99 from 3.99 hasn't done anything, I did get one call but he chose to use my other listing at 4.99 LOL. I'm obviously missing something so i'm going to read through this thread and hopefully get this going and I just know there's a lot of money to be made here!!

It's been incredibly slow recently. So, don't think it's you.

minniesoporno
11-28-2018, 11:38 AM
I dod join and couldnt see much. I've found the videos now though. Weird.

I need a really nice custom template with some specific features, recomendations for good makers currently anyone?

My girl design hustle hasn't answered my emails I have no idea what happened to her since her website says she is taking on clients.

but as for a back up I have found Devlish Templates. http://www.devilishtemplates.com/ prices are reasonable just need to decide if i can spend time adding on niteflirt again.

sarabimaraj
11-28-2018, 12:54 PM
I dod join and couldnt see much. I've found the videos now though. Weird.

I need a really nice custom template with some specific features, recomendations for good makers currently anyone?

Here's someone who does really good work https://twitter.com/CruelDomina
She's a member of this forum too.

sexysusie
11-28-2018, 05:49 PM
Here's someone who does really good work https://twitter.com/CruelDomina
She's a member of this forum too.

Awesome thank you. I have not heard of her. Will have a look now.


My girl design hustle hasn't answered my emails I have no idea what happened to her since her website says she is taking on clients.

but as for a back up I have found Devlish Templates. http://www.devilishtemplates.com/ prices are reasonable just need to decide if i can spend time adding on niteflirt again.

I actually have a Devlish template on my page right now :) It's 'girl next door' though and I've had it for 4 years and it doesn't fit my character at all now. I do like their templates but they're more pretty than practical, not really set up for modern selling/marketing i don't think.

Has anyone used Sparkle Whore for a custom design?

scarletl
11-29-2018, 03:31 PM
I also do custom NF profiles, have sent you some links to designs I have done x

blackbarbie21
11-29-2018, 06:06 PM
My regular profile that has my pictures on it has been very slow but my profile where I purchase model concent hasn't been slow at all and I know it's of course because I have the new girl vibe. Whenever a profile gets super slow and I know I can't make any more money off of it I just make a different profile.


This is going to sound crazy but don't judge me this is just what I do. I change my name, change the pictures, change everything about the entire profile and it'll start making some money again. And I kind of think that when customers see that your lsv is really high they know you're not new anymore so I delete the listing that has has a high lsv and customers think I'm brand new all over again. It's worked for me a bunch of times lol. I do whatever I can do to make that 1000 a week.

I don't always make that but from all of my profiles combined since I started in June I've been making about $4,000 a month and I usually only work about two characters a month. There's always one that makes so much more than the other one LOL.

I feel so mad at myself that I tried to be a stripper all those years ago LOL I should have been doing this

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-29-2018, 06:36 PM
My regular profile that has my pictures on it has been very slow but my profile where I purchase model concent hasn't been slow at all and I know it's of course because I have the new girl vibe. Whenever a profile gets super slow and I know I can't make any more money off of it I just make a different profile.


This is going to sound crazy but don't judge me this is just what I do. I change my name, change the pictures, change everything about the entire profile and it'll start making some money again. And I kind of think that when customers see that your lsv is really high they know you're not new anymore so I delete the listing that has has a high lsv and customers think I'm brand new all over again. It's worked for me a bunch of times lol. I do whatever I can do to make that 1000 a week.

I don't always make that but from all of my profiles combined since I started in June I've been making about $4,000 a month and I usually only work about two characters a month. There's always one that makes so much more than the other one LOL.

I feel so mad at myself that I tried to be a stripper all those years ago LOL I should have been doing this

I dont always delete the listing entirely. I rotate the content and change out the names. This way you dont have to wait through the approval process. Although I will say NF can be extremely fast at times. A few Saturdays ago I had a new listing approved in under an hour. It was 11:30 at night.

MaryElizabeth
11-30-2018, 04:17 AM
It's been slow, guys just spent a pile of cash on Black Friday and their wallets are dry.

Thankfully there are guys who do cocaine (https://imgur.com/a/TznQmXF) who come along and give a save. Guy calls up who is flying along with a pretty nutty fetish is like a blessing. Men with deeply ingrained fetishes are money in the bank, I would encourage everyone to spend the time to understand the basics of many, many kinks. Usually these guys are starved for someone who can bring their fantasy to life. If a guy has had a shoe or foot fetish for decades then he's consumed tons of porn and erotica and is aching to find someone who can breath some life into that thing. You won't get many calls where the guy wants to be shrunk down to being an inch tall but you should be able to roll with it when you do.

There are calls that I don't really care for, like the guys who are smoking meth really, really bother me. I definitely try to hurry the call along and 'get them off' as soon as I can. There are gals who cater to this - 'forced intox' is a thing which seems super crazy to me, encouraging the worst. I've seen enough addiction that I'm personally overly clean.

But if someone is drinking or smoking or what not, their life and decisions are not going to change based on anything I do. Its not like a guy is going to pay me a couple bucks a minute to have an intervention so I don't think to hard about someone being lit up when they call. For some drug use is a solitary thing (just like masturbation is which is how we are all making the money) and they just want to have someone to talk with while they are at it. So if you get those calls, make a few dollars and let them go politely when you reach your limit.

Anyway, stay warm everyone.

Skyla18
11-30-2018, 11:49 AM
can somone tell me what im doing wrong? I created a niteflirt account and made a listing 3 days ago and haven't got one call.

queenelayliah
11-30-2018, 01:43 PM
My regular profile that has my pictures on it has been very slow but my profile where I purchase model concent hasn't been slow at all and I know it's of course because I have the new girl vibe. Whenever a profile gets super slow and I know I can't make any more money off of it I just make a different profile.


This is going to sound crazy but don't judge me this is just what I do. I change my name, change the pictures, change everything about the entire profile and it'll start making some money again. And I kind of think that when customers see that your lsv is really high they know you're not new anymore so I delete the listing that has has a high lsv and customers think I'm brand new all over again. It's worked for me a bunch of times lol. I do whatever I can do to make that 1000 a week.

I don't always make that but from all of my profiles combined since I started in June I've been making about $4,000 a month and I usually only work about two characters a month. There's always one that makes so much more than the other one LOL.

I feel so mad at myself that I tried to be a stripper all those years ago LOL I should have been doing this

What the fudge!! Girl can I ask you some quick questions if you dont mind. Im just trying to figure what im not doing right to make the same money. Shit a girl is barely scrapping by.

1) how many profiles do you have?
2) what rates are you charging?
3) are your characters more dominant or submissive?
4) Do most of your sales come from calls or like the selling of PTVs, goodies and games?

sarabimaraj
11-30-2018, 02:53 PM
1) I have 6 profiles
2) I charge $2.99/minute and up
3) My characters are a mixture but mostly dominant
4) Most of my sales come from selling items like games, pics, mp3s, etc.

I find it important to have an attractive listing(nice graphics that are eye catching, rotating/flashing text, etc.) and keywords that describe what you offer without giving too much away. Having interesting profile text is a plus. Also having a blog, social media, and bidding helps. Make sure you do have items to purchase on your profiles so you can make sales even when you're not available to take calls. Believe in the characters you play and make them come to life as much as possible.

This forumla helps me: social media+ blogging + advertising + being available

LaurenAus
11-30-2018, 03:53 PM
1) I have 6 profiles
2) I charge $2.99/minute and up
3) My characters are a mixture but mostly dominant
4) Most of my sales come from selling items like games, pics, mp3s, etc.

I find it important to have an attractive listing(nice graphics that are eye catching, rotating/flashing text, etc.) and keywords that describe what you offer without giving too much away. Having interesting profile text is a plus. Also having a blog, social media, and bidding helps. Make sure you do have items to purchase on your profiles so you can make sales even when you're not available to take calls. Believe in the characters you play and make them come to life as much as possible.

This forumla helps me: social media+ blogging + advertising + being available


May I ask how you figured out how to create games? There’s tutorials on ptvs can’t figure out games.

MaryElizabeth
11-30-2018, 03:59 PM
can somone tell me what im doing wrong? I created a niteflirt account and made a listing 3 days ago and haven't got one call.


You don't have any stars or calls and unless you have some you'll never get any.

You can go through the listings over at TalkToMe.com easier and when I did there were 14,000 listings and 70% of them didn't have a single stared feedback rating. NF is probably worse and without some stars your listing is lost and will never be found, just making a listing and expecting calls is futile.

I made my first listing and after I got just one call my category ranking went from like, #1100 to to #400. But I knew one guy and would talk to him for as long as he wanted (he had a lot of stories to tell) at like, 25 cents a minute, I would talk to him for an hour and make less than a dollar. But you get stars for each 15 minutes of a call and stars for positive feedback. Once you get about 15-20 stars you can put some bids in and get your listing up there where it can be seen. If your new to NF ya gotta make a really good listing and scrounge up some stars to get in the game.

Just out of curiosity how much are you charging per minute for your no stars listing?

BadBitch
11-30-2018, 06:35 PM
My regular profile that has my pictures on it has been very slow but my profile where I purchase model concent hasn't been slow at all and I know it's of course because I have the new girl vibe. Whenever a profile gets super slow and I know I can't make any more money off of it I just make a different profile.


This is going to sound crazy but don't judge me this is just what I do. I change my name, change the pictures, change everything about the entire profile and it'll start making some money again. And I kind of think that when customers see that your lsv is really high they know you're not new anymore so I delete the listing that has has a high lsv and customers think I'm brand new all over again. It's worked for me a bunch of times lol. I do whatever I can do to make that 1000 a week.

I don't always make that but from all of my profiles combined since I started in June I've been making about $4,000 a month and I usually only work about two characters a month. There's always one that makes so much more than the other one LOL.

I feel so mad at myself that I tried to be a stripper all those years ago LOL I should have been doing this

I love this idea, but I have some questions. What about your regulars? Won't they get confused if they see a different photo/wording (assuming they have you favorited)? Also, what if your regulars need to find you? They won't be able to.

I would love to change out my photos, name and profile info to appear new, but I'm just concerned about the regulars.

I just thought about it. I won't be able to do it because of Twitter. I have my model name on Twitter. If I change my name on my existing listing, people on Twitter will click on it and see a new name and new photos. :(

Looks like I will just have to create a whole different account.

blackbarbie21
11-30-2018, 08:58 PM
what the fudge!! Girl can i ask you some quick questions if you dont mind. Im just trying to figure what im not doing right to make the same money. Shit a girl is barely scrapping by.

1) how many profiles do you have?
2) what rates are you charging?
3) are your characters more dominant or submissive?
4) do most of your sales come from calls or like the selling of ptvs, goodies and games?


1. I have my normal profile (which is myself), 2 brunettes and a blonde. 1 usually only play 2 characters at a time. I just keep the others on standby.
2. No more than $1.62
3. They're all dominant
4. I have no goodies, no games none of that. On my regular profile i have goodies and games. The games have never rally sold but they're still there. My money is made up of calls, chats and tributes.

I love getting submissive guys because i demand a tribute.

blackbarbie21
11-30-2018, 09:05 PM
i love this idea, but i have some questions. What about your regulars? Won't they get confused if they see a different photo/wording (assuming they have you favorited)? Also, what if your regulars need to find you? They won't be able to.

I would love to change out my photos, name and profile info to appear new, but i'm just concerned about the regulars.

I just thought about it. I won't be able to do it because of twitter. I have my model name on twitter. If i change my name on my existing listing, people on twitter will click on it and see a new name and new photos. :(

looks like i will just have to create a whole different account.


i only do that when the character is dead af. Like no calls chats emails nothing.

I'm not super concerned about regulars because if they were really regulars they would've called me when my profile was dead for 1 to 4 weeks.

These guys go from girl to girl and i feel like there's not alot of loyalty. Just my opinion.

Make some characters just to have on standby. We're here to make a living not here to wait for regulars who go to other girls anyway. Because they want new pussy.

blackbarbie21
11-30-2018, 09:09 PM
I've had a profile that did ok then i changed the character the name everything and then the same customers come back because they think I'm new and we've never talked. THESE GUYS WANT NEW PUSSY. Some girls on the Niteflirt forumn might disagree with me about changing the character completely but then again they're the ones complaining about not making money.

blackbarbie21
11-30-2018, 09:20 PM
Don't worry about the guys that have you favorited andall of sudden your character is different, because more than likely they've favorited tons of girl. And they just think you're one of those girls. I've did this lots of times and I've never had a problem. For example...

I had a blonde profile that did really well, then i turned her into someone else. Had another blonde then turned her into an Asian ( couldn't do an accent so I turned her into a different blonde) MONEY IS MY MOTIVATOR. SO IF I HAVE TO KEEP FLIPPING CHARACTERS INTO OTHER CHARACTERS THEN I WILL. FOR THE SIMPLE FACT THAT THESE GUYS AREN'T LOYAL AND NEW HOT PUSSY SELLS. Now there are some loyal customers who have been calling the same girls for years but those same loyal guys call other girls and I see them leaving reviews for other flirts. MEN AREN'T MEANT TO BE MONOGAMOUS EVEN IN PHONE SEX.

Y'all can disagree but just my observation and opinion.

I HAVE ALOT OF OTHER SITES TOO. Y'ALL PROBABLY KNOW BUT I'LL LIST THEM ANYWAY

blackbarbie21
11-30-2018, 09:26 PM
Go to (link: http://Sexyjobs.com) Sexyjobs.com
Gab calls
Palm Island
I want phone
I want clips
Lip service
Pillow Whisper
Paid by the minute
PSB ASSOCIATES
CHAT RECRUIT
MY GIRL FUND
DREAM LOVER
CHAT FROM HOME
PHONE ENTERTAINERS
1800 PHONE SEX
Phone sex kingdom
Our little secret
My girl find
Chatstar
Phone entertainers
Talktome

There's definitely some more I'm missing

queenelayliah
11-30-2018, 09:58 PM
MEN AREN'T MEANT TO BE MONOGAMOUS EVEN IN PHONE SEX.

I HAVE ALOT OF OTHER SITES TOO. Y'ALL PROBABLY KNOW BUT I'LL LIST THEM ANYWAY


YES A MILLION TIMES YESSS MEN CANT BE MONOGAMOUS TO SAVE THEIR LIVES.

I would love to hear about the other sites your working.*edit* Are you still working for ALL of those companies?* end of edit* Earlier you mentioned you make about $1000 a week or $4000 a month. Not to be all up in your business. But is that JUST from niteflirt, a combination of all phone sex sites OR a combination of all of your income streams?

Im asking just because I have a current goal of hitting $500 a week and I mainly just use niteflirt which im not sure if you personally noticed but call volume has been down since September. So i havent been able to hit goal for the last *cough 8 weeks*. Sigh.





To answer the same questions i asked you
1) I have 4 characters ., one profile is me and the other three are mixed raced ebony/ latina looking girls.
2)I charge between $1.69., $1.89., $2.50 for phone with cam.
3) Two of my profiles are DEFINITELY submissive more so the cumdump/bimbo niche., the other is a therapist switch character., and my newest is in cuckold and i been getting alot of submissives so i can say she’s dominant.
4) Most of my money come from calls., i have VERY few goodies bags that I sell on my profiles and no mp3s or recorded phone listings.

Not to sound racist to anyone but maybe I should add a white girl character? I know there are some guys who want to talk to a white female only.

sarabimaraj
11-30-2018, 09:59 PM
Don't worry about the guys that have you favorited andall of sudden your character is different, because more than likely they've favorited tons of girl. And they just think you're one of those girls. I've did this lots of times and I've never had a problem. For example...

I had a blonde profile that did really well, then i turned her into someone else. Had another blonde then turned her into an Asian ( couldn't do an accent so I turned her into a different blonde) MONEY IS MY MOTIVATOR. SO IF I HAVE TO KEEP FLIPPING CHARACTERS INTO OTHER CHARACTERS THEN I WILL. FOR THE SIMPLE FACT THAT THESE GUYS AREN'T LOYAL AND NEW HOT PUSSY SELLS. Now there are some loyal customers who have been calling the same girls for years but those same loyal guys call other girls and I see them leaving reviews for other flirts. MEN AREN'T MEANT TO BE MONOGAMOUS EVEN IN PHONE SEX.

Y'all can disagree but just my observation and opinion.

I HAVE ALOT OF OTHER SITES TOO. Y'ALL PROBABLY KNOW BUT I'LL LIST THEM ANYWAY

ALL OF THIS!!!! So true

queenelayliah
11-30-2018, 10:01 PM
Girl you work for chat recurit and chat from home. Me too but i never started because of the bad things i heard about chat recuirt, and chat from home i never made paid out. Shit can i just pm you lol

queenelayliah
11-30-2018, 10:12 PM
Hi @ sarabimaraj

Is that your website onlinesexwork.com., if so when will you be holding classes?

sarabimaraj
11-30-2018, 11:06 PM
Hi @ sarabimaraj

Is that your website onlinesexwork.com., if so when will you be holding classes?

Yes that’s my website. My online sex worker academy will be complete around Jan 2nd. That’s my target date. If you send me your email in a pm I can notify you when it’s ready :)

blackbarbie21
11-30-2018, 11:37 PM
YES A MILLION TIMES YESSS MEN CANT BE MONOGAMOUS TO SAVE THEIR LIVES.

I would love to hear about the other sites your working.*edit* Are you still working for ALL of those companies?* end of edit* Earlier you mentioned you make about $1000 a week or $4000 a month. Not to be all up in your business. But is that JUST from niteflirt, a combination of all phone sex sites OR a combination of all of your income streams?

Im asking just because I have a current goal of hitting $500 a week and I mainly just use niteflirt which im not sure if you personally noticed but call volume has been down since September. So i havent been able to hit goal for the last *cough 8 weeks*. Sigh.





To answer the same questions i asked you
1) I have 4 characters ., one profile is me and the other three are mixed raced ebony/ latina looking girls.
2)I charge between $1.69., $1.89., $2.50 for phone with cam.
3) Two of my profiles are DEFINITELY submissive more so the cumdump/bimbo niche., the other is a therapist switch character., and my newest is in cuckold and i been getting alot of submissives so i can say she’s dominant.
4) Most of my money come from calls., i have VERY few goodies bags that I sell on my profiles and no mp3s or recorded phone listings.

Not to sound racist to anyone but maybe I should add a white girl character? I know there are some guys who want to talk to a white female only.

I don't work for all of those sites. I have worked for Gab calls, Palm Island. Now I work for Talktome, Niteflirt and Iwantphone. A majority of my income comes from niteflirt.

You should definitely incorporate different ethnicities. You should definitely play a Caucasian girl, a Latina girl, and Asian girl do all of it. Guys like everything.

sexysusie
12-01-2018, 12:00 AM
Girl you work for chat recurit and chat from home. Me too but i never started because of the bad things i heard about chat recuirt, and chat from home i never made paid out. Shit can i just pm you lol

Chat recruit are TERRIBLE!

OK ladies, need to vent. I had my first bad feedback tonight. Guy stayed 30 mins on cam (30 FUCKING MINS) then decided he didn't like me after all and sent a bunch of insulting skype messages then left feedback saying he'd had better from girls much cheaper. This guy deliberately just wanted to chat, not even get into anything sexy or what he originally said he wanted (CEI), so i relaxed with him, smiled, laughed, didn't do my usual in control act at all. Then he goes and does that. Clearly the 'almost real me' just doesn't cut it. Still made over $200 from him though, fucker!

Although that pushed my LVS through the roof and made my bidding for first page much cheaper, I got no calls after that for 3 hours. Has that feedback messed me up? Are friday nights on NF not great? Gah.

blackbarbie21
12-01-2018, 12:42 AM
Girl you work for chat recurit and chat from home. Me too but i never started because of the bad things i heard about chat recuirt, and chat from home i never made paid out. Shit can i just pm you lol

No I don't work for chat recruit or chat from home those are just some that I know of

Sweet_Sadie
12-01-2018, 09:15 AM
Not to sound racist to anyone but maybe I should add a white girl character? I know there are some guys who want to talk to a white female only.

I'm not white, but my phone characters *always* are. It's not racist - it is what it is. Yes, there's a market for ethnic women, but there's always going to be more of a market for white women, and we're in this to earn as much money as possible, right? None of this has anything to do with my personal life or my personal politics.

You know the old saying - It's business, not personal.

Sweet_Sadie
12-01-2018, 09:22 AM
Re: Amberly's book

Thanks to you ladies, I bought the book, and I'm reading it now. Even in the beginning chapters, she's helped me to change my perception of the guys who call, why they're so quiet at first, and how I should be creating an experience for the callers.

I've also already learned the "whys" behind availability and consistency...on a deeper level. In short, I can see that this book is gonna allow me to approach what I do like a sales and marketing professional, with great levels of customer service thrown in.

Also...thanks to the book, I'm able to solidify my cam and phone characters. I'm able to envision their character "stories," so now I have character templates to work from, instead of winging it, hoping the guys like something I'm doing, lol.

TSD
12-02-2018, 02:05 PM
Chat recruit are TERRIBLE!

OK ladies, need to vent. I had my first bad feedback tonight. Guy stayed 30 mins on cam (30 FUCKING MINS) then decided he didn't like me after all and sent a bunch of insulting skype messages then left feedback saying he'd had better from girls much cheaper. This guy deliberately just wanted to chat, not even get into anything sexy or what he originally said he wanted (CEI), so i relaxed with him, smiled, laughed, didn't do my usual in control act at all. Then he goes and does that. Clearly the 'almost real me' just doesn't cut it. Still made over $200 from him though, fucker!

Although that pushed my LVS through the roof and made my bidding for first page much cheaper, I got no calls after that for 3 hours. Has that feedback messed me up? Are friday nights on NF not great? Gah.

Is his username all capital letters with the word “SUB” in it? If so I know who you are talking about and dealt with him about a month and a half ago. Told me he was into feet and CEI so I started off trying to direct the session to that. He ended up redirecting to general chit chat so I just followed his lead and got chill and just chatted with him as my natural self. Woke up the next morning to a scathing, lie filled 1-Star review saying that it was a terrible Skype call and that I kept discussing personal issues (LOL like I really want to do THAT with a compete stranger I just met on Niteflirt), he couldn’t hear me, and that Skype kept freezing up, etc. ALL LIES! He stayed on the call for a good long while too..so if it was that horrible why didn’t he end it sooner? Pffft. The only thing I think was that he was disappointed that I didn’t get nude for him. I am listed in the Mistress category and only charge $2.99 and had verbiage on there about how I stayed fully clothed (and CFNM in the title), but I know some guys just don’t pay attention to shit like that. I think he was hoping I would eventually strip down and was disappointed that I didn’t. Anyway I just decided to delete and start over due to the shitty, lying comments, not the fact that it was one star There are so few listings in that category that it is dirt cheap to be in the top few so I really didn’t lose anything. I redid the listing and it has gotten off to a good start. I rarely get around to offering much cam on there, but with how slow things have been it did save me this past week. Hopefully you recover OK too. Most guys on NF are great but there are a few creeps.

sexysusie
12-02-2018, 04:18 PM
Thankfully a few hours later I was inundated with calls and chats again so I think the quietness was just down to the time of night. As it happened right after that douchbag though I thought the worst lol! No it didn't have sub in the name but he sounds very similar. Some of these guys are just straight up cock faces!

TSD
12-02-2018, 05:36 PM
Good...glad it got better for you again! LOL and you are right about them being cock faces! ��

queenelayliah
12-04-2018, 08:08 PM
Is his username all capital letters with the word “SUB” in it? If so I know who you are talking about and dealt with him about a month and a half ago. Told me he was into feet and CEI so I started off trying to direct the session to that. He ended up redirecting to general chit chat so I just followed his lead and got chill and just chatted with him as my natural self. Woke up the next morning to a scathing, lie filled 1-Star review saying that it was a terrible Skype call and that I kept discussing personal issues (LOL like I really want to do THAT with a compete stranger I just met on Niteflirt), he couldn’t hear me, and that Skype kept freezing up, etc. ALL LIES! He stayed on the call for a good long while too..so if it was that horrible why didn’t he end it sooner? Pffft. The only thing I think was that he was disappointed that I didn’t get nude for him. I am listed in the Mistress category and only charge $2.99 and had verbiage on there about how I stayed fully clothed (and CFNM in the title), but I know some guys just don’t pay attention to shit like that. I think he was hoping I would eventually strip down and was disappointed that I didn’t. Anyway I just decided to delete and start over due to the shitty, lying comments, not the fact that it was one star There are so few listings in that category that it is dirt cheap to be in the top few so I really didn’t lose anything. I redid the listing and it has gotten off to a good start. I rarely get around to offering much cam on there, but with how slow things have been it did save me this past week. Hopefully you recover OK too. Most guys on NF are great but there are a few creeps.

Did you have to delete your entire character or just that listing with the bad review? Because I got a really bad review and I deleted the listing but it was still there.

TSD
12-05-2018, 06:47 PM
Did you have to delete your entire character or just that listing with the bad review? Because I got a really bad review and I deleted the listing but it was still there.


I only deleted the listing...I know the review is still viewable by ME but I don’t think others can see it. If so it didn’t seem to cause any trouble with my traffic afterwards. I just rewrote the listing and started it over again with zero stars and ratings.

MsMeta
12-07-2018, 02:38 PM
I can't figure out if I'm having a phone problem or if NF is being glitchy for me. I've had two callers in two days tell me that they can't hear me - like my end goes silent suddenly. My voice comes back after 5-10 seconds. I can hear them fine the whole time. I do use a cell but I'm not moving around at all. I work for another service and I've had no issues there and none with regular personal calls either. Is this a NF problem or my phone?

I've had lots of other technical problems with NF - calls never connecting properly or going straight to my voicemail, dropping at exactly 16 minutes or 30 minutes, connecting but either he can't hear me or I can't hear him, and one weird day with one guy where it dropped the call every time we got close to a climax, etc. But this current problem is new and my phone is a little older and I guess I'm paranoid. And it's extra irritating because I've been getting so few calls anyway and when I do, there's a problem and I'm afraid it's scaring off they guys.

SapphireXO
12-07-2018, 03:51 PM
I'd try getting a land line vs a cell phone. Also turn your cell coverage to work off your WIFI instead of your cell service.

HaydenBlue
12-07-2018, 04:44 PM
I'm a bit in the intermediate category (not new and not veteran). I found LOTS of helpful ideas in her book, but WAY MORE on her website. She puts out videos regularly (trying for daily) and recently she put out a few on PSO calls (vanilla, domme, and submissive). Each is 3-4 parts and extremely in depth. Unfortunately the 'creative' part of this job is the one thing that cannot be taught. But she gives so much advice and info that it practically will run itself if all you fuel it is creativity. Plus she also offers consultations to help on specific issues one-on-one.

Chiming in to say the same. I got her book and enjoyed it and learned some new things. Her website is AWESOME. I start my morning watching her videos and it gets me in the mood to create. 1000% recommend her website.

sexysusie
12-07-2018, 09:07 PM
So my profile has gone dead again the last 3 days. From non stop all last 2 weeks to nothing :( Was going to make some ptv games - do you think it'll be worth it now as no one seems to be looking at my profile?

BadBitch
12-07-2018, 09:19 PM
So my profile has gone dead again the last 3 days. From non stop all last 2 weeks to nothing :( Was going to make some ptv games - do you think it'll be worth it now as no one seems to be looking at my profile?

My profiles have gone dead mid-October. I'm going to do games. I have to do something!

TSD
12-07-2018, 09:38 PM
The traffic has been very weird on there for me too. Sometimes I get spurts, other times it is totally dead. I’m sure the holidays are at least partly to blame. I do need to get a few things done on my end too though.

SapphireXO
12-08-2018, 11:34 AM
So my profile has gone dead again the last 3 days. From non stop all last 2 weeks to nothing :( Was going to make some ptv games - do you think it'll be worth it now as no one seems to be looking at my profile?

What are PTV games for NF???