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Spemily
02-24-2019, 03:11 PM
It's possible Niteflirt would have an issue with us using Hangouts since the only way to connect with someone on there is to exchange email addresses and they no longer allow that.
xxxGothBarbie
02-24-2019, 10:59 PM
It's possible Niteflirt would have an issue with us using Hangouts since the only way to connect with someone on there is to exchange email addresses and they no longer allow that.
I thought about that too ^ Def gonna try either discord or skype again.
MaryElizabeth
02-25-2019, 05:14 PM
Holy cow, its been forced sex-tastic out there for me.
Winter being indoors makes some guys just crazy? My general opinion is that the guys you need to be worried about are not spending a couple dollars a minute to call some gal but - yowza. NF and TTM both are delivering this, I usually don't get those types of calls since its not, at all, how my listings go but I've been a streak.
Every day I'm getting at least one: me, a daughter, neighborhood girl, little sister. The one I just had the fantasy was me in an abandoned building and him breaking my spirit with his cock making me a slut/whore, violence even. Half hour calls sure are nice but holy shit. Last night was a guy who I am sure was trying to shock me, see if he could make me hang up - and I kept right there with him for the duration. That one got pretty crazy too, lots of c-bombs. "Yea, yea, you sure are dangerous getting your jollies spending a couple bucks a minute to call a sex line." What is it with guys wanting to hurt gals with their cocks?
It might just be the odds, eventually everyone gets a streak of something or another. Its an occupational hazard but this one I would not mind putting behind me.
Houston_Sugar
02-25-2019, 07:39 PM
This whole week, my calls haven't been coming through. I'll get the alert on the website that I'm getting a call, and my phone won't ring or it will ring for a split second so quick that it's impossible for me to answer - then I get the "We couldn't reach you at [insert phone number]"
I've contacted support. Haven't heard back yet. My phone line is perfectly fine. I'm getting calls on other sites. What is going on? Is it just me?
passionflower
02-26-2019, 08:51 AM
What is it with guys wanting to hurt gals with their cocks?
Calls like those makes camming look so much better to me. But cam has it's own drawbacks. I wonder if you're getting them because they get off on girls who *don't* specifically cater to it, like it's part of the forced aspect. Sorry you're getting such a heavy streak. I admire how you're able to stay with them through it. I've never been great at mentally shaking them off afterwards.
xxxGothBarbie
02-26-2019, 08:27 PM
How can we add funds to our account for bidding once they run out?
Nikki_Fox
02-26-2019, 08:40 PM
go to your account - on the top right by your balance - click on add to my account - put in your c/c info ( it should default to the card you used to open your NF account )
I set my minimum balance to leave a few dollars in my account so I always have money in reserves to use if needed for bidding
xxxGothBarbie
02-26-2019, 09:20 PM
go to your account - on the top right by your balance - click on add to my account - put in your c/c info ( it should default to the card you used to open your NF account )
I set my minimum balance to leave a few dollars in my account so I always have money in reserves to use if needed for bidding
I leave a few dollars in there just for bidding but the other day it was eating thru it with clicks but no calls so I didn't wanna go over my budget on there. How much d you usually spend a day on bidding?
sexysusie
02-26-2019, 11:58 PM
I spent $15 today on bidding and NO calls (for the second day in a row logged in all day). Compared to literally a few days ago when I was bombarded with tributes, emails, calls, chats. NF baffles me!
MaryElizabeth
02-27-2019, 02:26 AM
I leave a few dollars in there just for bidding but the other day it was eating thru it with clicks but no calls so I didn't wanna go over my budget on there. How much d you usually spend a day on bidding?
Bidding totally blows but it's a necessity.
At the beginning I hated it and tried to never bid but getting up in the listings is hard and the money spent is worth it. It's a small tax that the site puts on you. I also leave money in the accounts to be used for the next days biddings, five bucks is a round number that I have never bottomed out.
I did some of this before - informational stuff but why not
my account > featured listings > Overview
This will show you how much you spent on clicks and how much money those clicks earned you. For one listing I had a Cost per qualified click of .44 cents and each click earned me on average $9.27 So it makes sense to bid. If a guy has added you to his favorite list and uses that to call you there are no click costs, there is more here that I don't understand yet. Don't bid to be #1, its not worth it - ANYWAY:
Guys are inside more so they are going to be clicking more, looking more, for a lot of guys this is part of the entertainment, finding the right person to call. The hunt, the search. If you are getting 'clicked to death' then your listing is boring. Guys like your thumbnail and go to your page and that is insufficient to get them to call. If your 'Customer Conversion' number is low then guys are clicking, looking and not calling - your listing is boring and you need to redo it or update it or something.
my account > reports > featured listings results > value score
click rates (https://imgur.com/a/woFriSO)
My click rate is certainly lacking but my conversion is very high. Only the guys that end up calling me click on my listing which is fine. It takes me weeks of deep mulling to make a listing, WAY to long but they have hooks for a certain slice of guys. The one above with "not enough data" has just over 200 calls so I don't know how much info they actually need, its probably because I don't bid with that one much.
If your conversion rate is low CHANGE YOUR LISTING. I'd put how much I made this week (today even) but I don't want to be a snatch, there are dollars flowing around out there possibly passing you by.
Guys don't give a fuck what you want to talk about, what you like or 'get to know you' picture yourself as an empty vessel that he can pour in his fantasies / Embrace the role of being on the bottom rung of the sex trade, its what you are doing - your not better than it so when a guy wants to talk about fucked up shit deal with it / A focused listing is better than one that lists every kink under the sun.
good luck
Kody_
02-27-2019, 02:41 AM
Does anyone have any experience with having a phone line purely for chatting/conversation and nothing sexual? I'm not into the whole phone sex thing but wanted to give it a go putting up a listing for lonely guys who would actually enjoy normal conversation. I feel like there's not harm in trying but I'm nervous that I'm just not going to get any calls at all or that the calls I do get are going to rate me badly because I'm not doing actual phone sex. Flirtation is fine, I just suckkkkk at dirty talk.
Luna66
02-27-2019, 09:28 AM
when a guy wants to talk about fucked up shit deal with it
I think this is the most important thing for people on this forum specifically (people on other forums and people who don't go on forums at all don't seem to do this). I see posts here all the time saying "I don't use XYZ website because it's full of disgusting guys who want ABC" or "should I quit XYZ site, I only get guys who want ABC on there, and it's disgusting" and everyone here will agree with them. Then you'll see a post from them complaining how little money they're making! Lol.
It's not that you can't have boundaries, OF COURSE you can have have boundaries. And you shouldn't do anything that breaks the site rules. But if you say "I don't do [insert 5 things here]", and those 5 things are the most common phone sex fetishes, you can't complain about not making any money doing phone sex. You can't change the industry, you can't change what guys are interested in, you can't change what guys will pay for. If you are not comfortable with the 5 most common fetishes in phone sex, and you're not making enough money doing phone sex without offering those 5 fetishes, consider doing something else. Move to camming or videos or stripping or even vanilla work.
SapphireXO
02-27-2019, 11:57 AM
Does anyone have any experience with having a phone line purely for chatting/conversation and nothing sexual? I'm not into the whole phone sex thing but wanted to give it a go putting up a listing for lonely guys who would actually enjoy normal conversation. I feel like there's not harm in trying but I'm nervous that I'm just not going to get any calls at all or that the calls I do get are going to rate me badly because I'm not doing actual phone sex. Flirtation is fine, I just suckkkkk at dirty talk.
I do. I only do phone with cam THEN vanilla phone line. Unfortunately, even though I don't list anything about phone sex - they just call me on that line anyways. Unless you make a bold listing that states you will not talk about sex/hang up on/disconnect all calls related to sex - I don't think it'll work. You will get phone sex calls. I speak from experience.
Spemily
02-27-2019, 12:06 PM
Does anyone have any experience with having a phone line purely for chatting/conversation and nothing sexual? I'm not into the whole phone sex thing but wanted to give it a go putting up a listing for lonely guys who would actually enjoy normal conversation. I feel like there's not harm in trying but I'm nervous that I'm just not going to get any calls at all or that the calls I do get are going to rate me badly because I'm not doing actual phone sex. Flirtation is fine, I just suckkkkk at dirty talk.
I had such a line once because so many guys seemed to call my regular lines and just end up chatting. I wanted something that I could keep turned out when I was out and about and unable to say completely filthy things.
Unfortunately, the listing ended up receiving a lot of negative feedback from guys who obviously hadn't read a word of it. They'd call and try to jump right into something incredibly sexual and redirecting them either resulted in them hanging up or completely ignoring me until I was forced to hang up. Then they'd leave me one star feedback.
It's a pity because there are guys who like to talk about everyday things but too many guys don't read the listing and just want whatever they want. I might try it again some day, but I ended up deleting it.
Nikki_Fox
02-28-2019, 02:57 PM
I leave a few dollars in there just for bidding but the other day it was eating thru it with clicks but no calls so I didn't wanna go over my budget on there. How much d you usually spend a day on bidding?
Yikes that sucks - my calls have been sparse the last couple of days too - I am spending more than I ever have but - i have barely worked this past year - i was busy at my vanilla job and my elderly parents were in a car wreck and multiple surgeries - a move etc.... so I went from top placement organically in a couple of categories and spending nothing to quite a ways back - now i am bidding about 8.00/10.00 a day to get within the first few pages - my profiles need a serious revamp though :-\
Houston_Sugar
02-28-2019, 07:58 PM
Is anyone experiencing their phone not ringing while the customer is calling? It used to happen every once in awhile, now it's happening to the majority of my calls. Very annoying. I've contacted NF, they've responded saying that they were looking into it, but it's still happening.
Hello, ladies,
Do you know studios who work with Niteflirt? Thank you very much! Have a day with tons of $$$$$.
sexysusie
02-28-2019, 10:11 PM
Why would you want a studio?
The explanation is not the reply to my question.
SuperPookie
03-01-2019, 11:21 AM
The explanation is not the reply to my question.
Are you located in a country that NiteFlirt doesn't accept? Otherwise I wouldn't recommend a studio either as you can get nearly daily pay with a minimum of only $10 directly through the site. To be honest I'm not sure that NF even works with studios.
All of which doesn't answer your question either so sorry lol. Good luck! :)
Are you located in a country that NiteFlirt doesn't accept? Otherwise I wouldn't recommend a studio either as you can get nearly daily pay with a minimum of only $10 directly through the site. To be honest I'm not sure that NF even works with studios.
All of which doesn't answer your question either so sorry lol. Good luck! :)
Yes. They work with studios. No problem. Thanks.
MaryElizabeth
03-01-2019, 02:52 PM
Check and make sure your listings look good on both a computer screen AND a phone. Especially if you have custom HTML - but also if you are using a template, they might not be optimized.
About half of all the porn consumed via phones. I have listings that are fine when I look at it on a pc but looks seriously jacked when on a phone. It's what I'll be doing this weekend. Alas.
SapphireXO
03-04-2019, 12:27 PM
Yikes that sucks - my calls have been sparse the last couple of days too - I am spending more than I ever have but - i have barely worked this past year - i was busy at my vanilla job and my elderly parents were in a car wreck and multiple surgeries - a move etc.... so I went from top placement organically in a couple of categories and spending nothing to quite a ways back - now i am bidding about 8.00/10.00 a day to get within the first few pages - my profiles need a serious revamp though :-\
I spend $8-$22 each day I'm on for bidding. Averages to be about 8-20% of my overall earnings from NF ie in the low $100s for $1125 earned to $330 out of $1700 earned per month. Seems high but the connections and consistent re-buys/exposure on that site are worth it IMO.
foxirox
03-05-2019, 05:09 AM
I think this is the most important thing for people on this forum specifically (people on other forums and people who don't go on forums at all don't seem to do this). I see posts here all the time saying "I don't use XYZ website because it's full of disgusting guys who want ABC" or "should I quit XYZ site, I only get guys who want ABC on there, and it's disgusting" and everyone here will agree with them. Then you'll see a post from them complaining how little money they're making! Lol.
It's not that you can't have boundaries, OF COURSE you can have have boundaries. And you shouldn't do anything that breaks the site rules. But if you say "I don't do [insert 5 things here]", and those 5 things are the most common phone sex fetishes, you can't complain about not making any money doing phone sex. You can't change the industry, you can't change what guys are interested in, you can't change what guys will pay for. If you are not comfortable with the 5 most common fetishes in phone sex, and you're not making enough money doing phone sex without offering those 5 fetishes, consider doing something else. Move to camming or videos or stripping or even vanilla work.
I agree with this, but there are bigger issues that I'm almost scared to discuss because NF will ALWAYS side with the member over a flirt. I understand as it's a business at the end of the day but I can't help shake off some of the calls I've had lately. The first call was a couple of weeks ago where a member was very abusive and swore and insulted me in his feedback. NF did nothing. So now I am a "fucking bitch" and everyone can read that. The second disturbing call happened about 2 hours ago. The caller started off fine, was talking about his daughter's friend. I asked how old,because didn't want to talk about underage stuff. He said in her 20's. So anyway, he talks about this girl, how she masturbated in his house, had 20 dildos blah blah. Wasn't the best call but went along with it, hoping he would cum quickly and end the call. Then suddenly he referred to the girl as his daughter. I asked him to repeat himself and he told me it was his daughter that he was jacking off to, and how he was pimping her naked photos out to Xhamster and then suddenly he said "I want her to get raped". And put the phone down. Stuff like that is beyond fuck*d up...but rightly or wrongly, I've learnt to shut my mouth. Bitching to NF about those calls will not get me anywhere. Thankfully, it doesn't happen too often but when it does, it does make me feel kinda :(
Coquinejulia
03-05-2019, 05:11 AM
Hi girls ! Sorry if this has neen asked before but i did not find any answers yet. Is the Express Pay otion available for europe ? If not how do we get paid? on niteflirt I read that if you do not have a bank account in the US you get paid by check?? I don't see how a bank in Europe would accept a US check ?
thanks ladies!
foxirox
03-05-2019, 05:42 AM
Hi girls ! Sorry if this has neen asked before but i did not find any answers yet. Is the Express Pay otion available for europe ? If not how do we get paid? on niteflirt I read that if you do not have a bank account in the US you get paid by check?? I don't see how a bank in Europe would accept a US check ?
thanks ladies!
I think express pay is only for US flirts. I'm from the UK but I signed up for dailypay with Colin. Before he offered this service, the only option for European flirts was a Check. I was a pain in the bum going to the bank to cash it in (plus waiting 6 weeks for it arrive!). Dailypay saved me lol.
Coquinejulia
03-05-2019, 05:55 AM
Thanks for your reply :)
May i ask how to sign up for daily pay with colin ?
foxirox
03-05-2019, 06:19 AM
Here is the link : https://www.dailypayservice.com/main/index.php/mem-forms for initial sign up.
Just select the sites you want to receive DP with. They offer a few. Then you will need to to fill out a request form each time you want your money. (Link below)
https://www.dailypayservice.com/main/index.php/mem-forms/ff_form/10/ff_page/1
I also recommend Katy Boleyn for daily pay. Never had an issues and she works with a ton of sites too. x
Coquinejulia
03-05-2019, 06:23 AM
Thanks so much! you've been so helpful!
SapphireXO
03-06-2019, 03:15 PM
Anyone else's bidding this week seem to go unusually fast?!?! No mail, no favorites, no calls/texts. Really makes me question if they are valid clicks. I guess they are as valid as the site says they are... Either way I paid and got ZERO.ZERO out of it.
MaryElizabeth
03-06-2019, 05:31 PM
It's winter guys are cooped up, they are bored, (no football or baseball) surfing and looking more and clicking more. If your listing is dull you'll get click demolished.
Your mileage may vary but the last couple weeks I've been slammed, there is money out there.
Anyone else's bidding this week seem to go unusually fast?!?! No mail, no favorites, no calls/texts. Really makes me question if they are valid clicks. I guess they are as valid as the site says they are... Either way I paid and got ZERO.ZERO out of it.
SapphireXO
03-07-2019, 07:24 AM
It's winter guys are cooped up, they are bored, surfing and looking more and clicking more. If your listing is dull you'll get click demolished.
This is legit feedback. I live in a state where it's summer all the time. Didn't even think about that. My ad could be better. I'll work on it! I have a beautiful high level design page but there isn't as much text or lure. I'll think of updates and ask my designer to make it pop more.
drearea
03-07-2019, 08:12 AM
This is legit feedback. I live in a state where it's summer all the time. Didn't even think about that. My ad could be better. I'll work on it! I have a beautiful high level design page but there isn't as much text or lure. I'll think of updates and ask my designer to make it pop more.
My clicks are going super fast right now too and I'm pretty sure my profile is ruining my potential lol I love the honest advise on this site
queenelayliah
03-07-2019, 10:14 AM
This is legit feedback. I live in a state where it's summer all the time. Didn't even think about that. My ad could be better. I'll work on it! I have a beautiful high level design page but there isn't as much text or lure. I'll think of updates and ask my designer to make it pop more.
Does your designer offer their services to others? Im looking to update 5 profiles. If anyone knows anyone or they themselves make or design profiles please let me know.
BadBitch
03-07-2019, 01:29 PM
It's winter guys are cooped up, they are bored, (no football or baseball) surfing and looking more and clicking more. If your listing is dull you'll get click demolished.
I don't think that it means that our listings are "dull". I used to get so many calls a day. Now? Nothing. It's slow right now. Go look under the "Camming Sucks" thread.
MissGD
03-07-2019, 09:21 PM
I don't think that it means that our listings are "dull". I used to get so many calls a day. Now? Nothing. It's slow right now. Go look under the "Camming Sucks" thread.
To be honest with you, I agree with you. I've seen some kick ass listings and usually top girls and it just seems NF is just a little dead right now. I've given myself all new everything and even my best girl isn't pulling it in. I think this is just a time where building up our characters as much as possible during the slow moments is the best panacea. That and I plan to bust out clips to ride out this dry wave until things pick back up.
queenelayliah
03-07-2019, 09:50 PM
Okay i need you guys help. So i just had a super weird call. Like this guy is offering to pay me off site to basically be a indie customer for phone sex. Now i wouldnt mind this. But he was really, really persistent about giving me money off site. He wasnt trying to take the call off site, no he was just really insisted on giving me money and i guess have future calls off site.
We was on the phone for 45 minutes and it was a really good call., so its not because he was cheap or trying to get a cheaper call. What im scared about, is this being a set up by niteflirt to get me fired lol. Nf pays a good portion of my bills and im not trying to get fired. Anyone had this happen to them before? Do nf be hiring “secret agents”, trying to fire girls?
MaryElizabeth
03-08-2019, 03:18 AM
A relevant discussion here (https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?186291-The-Niteflirt-Thread&p=3041926&viewfull=1#post3041926) where in "I have been doing this for 3 years and I have never heard of that. To be honest I feel that NF is kind of stingy with resources and I do not see them caring enough to spend money to call one of us."
In my experience its just not worth it to go offsite. He starts acting like the two of you are friends and taking up time and not paying for it. He ends up sending messages and chatting and chewing up time and you don't make anything from it. Even if he calls it gets to where you do the math and you realize you are making less than if he just called on NF. Pretty soon you are trying to drop the guy and getting all worried that might go off the rails and call the company.
It sounds nice and you think it would be good but it just turns into a mess. Have him call the site, otherwise eventually he is going to call you on whatever number you give him out of the blue and its going to scare the fucking shit out of you. I guard my NF phone number harder than my SS number. (Disclaimer - I didn't do this at NF, it was at a small Canadian shit hole of a company that I started at back when.)
The outside possibility is someone used a stolen card (https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?186291-The-Niteflirt-Thread&p=3041941&viewfull=1#post3041941) to call you / tip you and after it all got reversed NF called to test you. But then he would not have spent 45 minutes talking to you? Either way, not worth it. There is tons of information in the 150-ish pages of this thread and if you have not gone back to page 1 and read ALL of it you are missing out.
I'm 99.999 % sure you are allowed to put a link to an Amazon account (or use NF mail to send it? ) so if he wants to be nice he can get something off a wishlist or send you a gift card and then you get 100% of the value. I would say "I'm just going to buy something off of amazon anyway so there isn't a difference, just get me a gift card", easy-peasy.
Okay i need you guys help. So i just had a super weird call. Like this guy is offering to pay me off site to basically be a indie customer for phone sex. Now i wouldnt mind this. But he was really, really persistent about giving me money off site. He wasnt trying to take the call off site, no he was just really insisted on giving me money and i guess have future calls off site.
We was on the phone for 45 minutes and it was a really good call., so its not because he was cheap or trying to get a cheaper call. What im scared about, is this being a set up by niteflirt to get me fired lol. Nf pays a good portion of my bills and im not trying to get fired. Anyone had this happen to them before? Do nf be hiring “secret agents”, trying to fire girls?
seashell
03-08-2019, 09:44 AM
Okay i need you guys help. So i just had a super weird call. Like this guy is offering to pay me off site to basically be a indie customer for phone sex. Now i wouldnt mind this. But he was really, really persistent about giving me money off site. He wasnt trying to take the call off site, no he was just really insisted on giving me money and i guess have future calls off site.
We was on the phone for 45 minutes and it was a really good call., so its not because he was cheap or trying to get a cheaper call. What im scared about, is this being a set up by niteflirt to get me fired lol. Nf pays a good portion of my bills and im not trying to get fired. Anyone had this happen to them before? Do nf be hiring “secret agents”, trying to fire girls?
I've wondered similar things before, but not on Niteflirt, so I don't think it's totally impossible. But either way, you're best off staying on NF for many reasons. First, what does this guy mean by "off site?" A non-adult payment processor? A different adult site? Niteflirt has a pretty decent payout percentage, might as well just stick to them, and clearly this guy is having zero issues with using his credit card here/placing calls. So he's up to something.
Reminds me of working at a strip club and having guys attempt to take you home instead of to the champagne room, so you can "keep all the money" and "basically do the same thing." Riiight... no thanks, dude, I work inside this establishment for the added security and benefits and keeping a healthy distance from your creepy ass.
I wouldn't trust him. Now if he finds you on another adult site and wants to pay there, that's a different story.
queenelayliah
03-08-2019, 09:55 AM
Thank you to the both of you. Yeah risking my job and security is just not worth it at all for one person. So yeah mini crisis averted thanks.
xxxGothBarbie
03-08-2019, 06:11 PM
Thank you to the both of you. Yeah risking my job and security is just not worth it at all for one person. So yeah mini crisis averted thanks.
^ ESP if NF pays most of your bills & you rely on it, I wouldn't bother risking it just for him. In my experience, regs & whales come & go. Nothin lasts forever in this industry. Just keep him talking & kinda distract him away from the topic of going off site with other questions or "whats that static sound? LOL is that on your end??? That way you can avoid it & not lose his $$$.
Good luck!
sexysusie
03-08-2019, 08:53 PM
Ok I don't know what the fuck has happened but in literally just over a week something has happened so that now I am not getting ANY calls and my bids are just being eaten up straight away. I didn't change anything on my profile. A couple of weeks ago bidding to get on the 2nd (main) page was getting me at least 3 or 4 guys into chat and then a whole bunch of money out of them plus probably a couple of calls. Three times over the last week now i've spent over $20 bidding in under 2 hours and NO chats or calls. wtf man, wtf!
BadBitch
03-08-2019, 09:52 PM
Ok I don't know what the fuck has happened but in literally just over a week something has happened so that now I am not getting ANY calls and my bids are just being eaten up straight away. I didn't change anything on my profile. A couple of weeks ago bidding to get on the 2nd (main) page was getting me at least 3 or 4 guys into chat and then a whole bunch of money out of them plus probably a couple of calls. Three times over the last week now i've spent over $20 bidding in under 2 hours and NO chats or calls. wtf man, wtf!
Yes. This is what I have been saying, NF has gone dead. It's so strange.
whirlerz
03-08-2019, 10:08 PM
Glad I didn't waste $ w/that bidding, ugh
sexysusie
03-08-2019, 10:27 PM
Ok so i jumped the gun a little, i did just get ONE measly customer who wanted ptv's. I've at least made my $20 back lol. Gee thanks nf.
sexysusie
03-10-2019, 10:29 PM
I had a new custie, he sent over 1000 in a few days via tribute and we had an amazing connection or so I thought until I saw he blocked me today! I'm not used to that. Fair enough custies have a break for a bit (or forever) but to block me? Did I mess up or did he just expire? :(
sarahlove
03-10-2019, 11:37 PM
I had a new custie, he sent over 1000 in a few days via tribute and we had an amazing connection or so I thought until I saw he blocked me today! I'm not used to that. Fair enough custies have a break for a bit (or forever) but to block me? Did I mess up or did he just expire? :(
I have had guys do this. I notice they come back. I think they block me because I send a lot of chats and emails and entice and seduce them. I think it is the only way they can control themselves.
MissGD
03-11-2019, 12:34 PM
I had a new custie, he sent over 1000 in a few days via tribute and we had an amazing connection or so I thought until I saw he blocked me today! I'm not used to that. Fair enough custies have a break for a bit (or forever) but to block me? Did I mess up or did he just expire? :(
It’s just a cycle sometimes they come back sometimes they don’t. I had a guy spend 4K in a week on my character and then boom I’m blocked one day they might return if not there are bigger fish in the sea that’s the beauty of our jobs always someone new.
SapphireXO
03-11-2019, 01:51 PM
Ok I don't know what the fuck has happened but in literally just over a week something has happened so that now I am not getting ANY calls and my bids are just being eaten up straight away. I didn't change anything on my profile. A couple of weeks ago bidding to get on the 2nd (main) page was getting me at least 3 or 4 guys into chat and then a whole bunch of money out of them plus probably a couple of calls. Three times over the last week now i've spent over $20 bidding in under 2 hours and NO chats or calls. wtf man, wtf!
I commented about this last week. It does seem suspicious. *shrugs* Usually legit clicks, end up in favorites or mail being sent. At least ONE during my entire shift. Looking over my 2019 stats, I've experienced 2-5 days of 0.0 activity. I'm in the top 90-97% according to NF from January to March but yea last year I was averaging 100-96%.
When more than 1 performer is noticing it, I just wonder if they are actually qualifying clicks not just money grabs.
That being said, another performer mentioned if a profile isn't extensive in explaining why they need to call YOU - in the winter months customers will just click and click and click.
SapphireXO
03-11-2019, 01:53 PM
To be honest with you, I agree with you. I've seen some kick ass listings and usually top girls and it just seems NF is just a little dead right now. I've given myself all new everything and even my best girl isn't pulling it in. I think this is just a time where building up our characters as much as possible during the slow moments is the best panacea. That and I plan to bust out clips to ride out this dry wave until things pick back up.
**HUGS** Thank you.