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izshadow
03-11-2019, 08:55 PM
I have numerous characters on NF and one web cam account and its DEAD DEAD DEAD DEAD!!!!!!!!!! All across the board, dead.
MissGD
03-11-2019, 11:18 PM
**HUGS** Thank you.
NP, I've been trying to stay positive but gosh it's been so slow. My strategy has to put express on pause to recycle the money I do rack up until the dry wave stops and for now just focus on clips because gosh bidding is a total mess right now hoping the warmer it gets the more things shape up.
seashell
03-12-2019, 08:30 AM
I have had guys do this. I notice they come back. I think they block me because I send a lot of chats and emails and entice and seduce them. I think it is the only way they can control themselves.
Yes. I've also had customers tell me this, when they do leave or come back. Sometimes it takes days/weeks/months, but if they spent that much on you, they will remember you!
queenelayliah
03-13-2019, 05:29 AM
I've experienced 2-5 days of 0.0 activity. I'm in the top 90-97% according to NF from January to March but yea last year I was averaging 100-96%.
Wow teach me to be like you lol. Shit my averages are all over the chart i have only been in the top 90% range a few times. This winter has been horrible. I have more days of inactivity verus activity. I know this mean to revamp my listings and make a more appealing profile. But i obviously lack the skills to create one. I really wish i could just pay someone becuase this shit right here is just pathetic, i have tasted the golden nectar of the promise land and i want more!
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SapphireXO
03-13-2019, 04:05 PM
I would suggest saving your NF earnings up and deduct them once you have $100 to pay someone to design a KICK ASS profile for you. Look at what the top models in your category are doing/saying/displaying. Lots of pictures and allure go a long way. For me, I do A LOT of customer service tactics that seem to really make the difference. Just like what keeps me coming back to a business to give them money, I do the same exact things. They aren't just a paycheck or a # - they are a person and a customer and I thank them for calling me (obviously more warm and less generic.)
I just started NF back in October and I only work 15 - 25 hours on average a week business hours during the week only.
SapphireXO
03-13-2019, 04:06 PM
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SapphireXO
03-13-2019, 04:08 PM
I moved and have some personal shit happen. Multiple days I didn't sign on at all or for short periods of time. The more effort I put in, the more it works out. So far anyways.
BadBitch
03-13-2019, 08:31 PM
I have numerous characters on NF and one web cam account and its DEAD DEAD DEAD DEAD!!!!!!!!!! All across the board, dead.
Yep! Same here. I've even been revamping my profiles. Nothing.
MistressX
03-14-2019, 10:24 PM
I thought it was just me. Its SO dead right now. I am not even getting clicks.
ravenskyy
03-15-2019, 11:45 AM
Why do men call your line and then immediately call your Skype, like you're going to be ready for them at that exact moment!?!? I'm doing my best to talk and get to know them, so that I can get ready and they freaking hang up!
Nikki_Fox
03-15-2019, 09:14 PM
Why do men call your line and then immediately call your Skype, like you're going to be ready for them at that exact moment!?!? I'm doing my best to talk and get to know them, so that I can get ready and they freaking hang up!
I state in my profile to send me a chat message to make sure im ready - not that they listen lol but a few do - ive had them ask for minutes if they call without messaging first and im like uh no - you should have messaged me first
izshadow
03-16-2019, 08:17 AM
Why do men call your line and then immediately call your Skype, like you're going to be ready for them at that exact moment!?!? I'm doing my best to talk and get to know them, so that I can get ready and they freaking hang up!
This pisses me off or when they ask if I'm available on Skype or say hello to me on Skype. I am NOT in front of my camming computer 24/7. I am out in the living room living my life till you call me. Then I'll move my butt to my bedroom to be in front of the camera. NF clearly tells you if I'm available or not and you can send me a message on NF because my laptop is on the table next to my couch.
SuperPookie
03-16-2019, 11:15 AM
Is there a way to remove yourself from another Flirts auto messages without blocking her?
I've been checking out some ladies who offer various services in the Flirt Forums and now I'm getting loads.
Also: how do you make it where just by looking at a profile or button someone goes on your mailing list? Until this happened I didn't even know it was possible.
Spemily
03-16-2019, 11:54 AM
Is there a way to remove yourself from another Flirts auto messages without blocking her?
I've been checking out some ladies who offer various services in the Flirt Forums and now I'm getting loads.
Also: how do you make it where just by looking at a profile or button someone goes on your mailing list? Until this happened I didn't even know it was possible.
Looking at a profile never adds you to someone's customer list. Clicking on a button that auto-sends a PTV will, however, add you to their customer list.
PurpleSquirrel
03-17-2019, 02:06 AM
I'm fairly new to NF this year and until yesterday was doing great. Had my first day of being clicked to death, literally everything I made went straight into clicks. Had to switch the phones off eventually as realised it was weekend surfers lol. Had a great chat volley with one of my regulars this morning and made some of it back thankfully. The ups and downs of NF however, it's my new favourite platform! Hope it picks up for everyone today.
Nikki_Fox
03-17-2019, 08:18 AM
i almost logged out late last night but stalled for 30 more minutes then I scored a cam/ blackmail /toilet slave who made my week }:D:queen::thanx:
BadBitch
03-17-2019, 01:09 PM
Why do men call your line and then immediately call your Skype, like you're going to be ready for them at that exact moment!?!? I'm doing my best to talk and get to know them, so that I can get ready and they freaking hang up!
I hate when they hit me up on Skype first. CALL THE FUCKING LISTING! I rarely see Skype messages because I'm not at my computer 24/7!
queenelayliah
03-17-2019, 02:52 PM
Arghhhh omg!!!
Its so slow. I only made $62 this week wtf. Since the winter hit i havent made over $300 but i normally ALWAYS atleast make $100. This is my lowest earning week EVER since i have been a PSO. EVER, and i have 4 profiles. Im literally missing my rent and i only have 9 days to make $890. Omg.
Nikki_Fox
03-17-2019, 05:37 PM
Arghhhh omg!!!
Its so slow. I only made $62 this week wtf. Since the winter hit i havent made over $300 but i normally ALWAYS atleast make $100. This is my lowest earning week EVER since i have been a PSO. EVER, and i have 4 profiles. Im literally missing my rent and i only have 9 days to make $890. Omg.
Damn that sucks - maybe try some different hours - or run a special for 24 hours to existing customers
sexysusie
03-18-2019, 09:08 AM
A friend who is a real-time domme just joined niteflirt and is trying to figure out compliance. Does anyone know the best thing to do for compliance info for goodie bags? She has pics and videos from real sessions involving subs. They have given permisson for the footage to be used but there is no contract and she doesnt have their real names :/
SapphireXO
03-18-2019, 09:49 AM
A friend who is a real-time domme just joined niteflirt and is trying to figure out compliance. Does anyone know the best thing to do for compliance info for goodie bags? She has pics and videos from real sessions involving subs. They have given permisson for the footage to be used but there is no contract and she doesnt have their real names :/
Shell need their IDs uploaded, full name, DOB, and each person to certify the date created during the compliance part. I’ve seen male sub videos as goodies on male domme pages. I wondered the same thing.
MissGD
03-18-2019, 10:55 AM
Shell need their IDs uploaded, full name, DOB, and each person to certify the date created during the compliance part. I’ve seen male sub videos as goodies on male domme pages. I wondered the same thing.
Curiosity as a domme myself, if she has all the IDs etc couldn't she just list her address as the place where all those documents reside if any type of question arises on the age validity?
sexysusie
03-18-2019, 01:04 PM
Oh that is out then, that's way too much to ask of paying subs i think. What a shame :/
MaryElizabeth
03-18-2019, 03:20 PM
What is the etiquette for selling the same audio / file / goodie on different sites? It this something I need to take into account or just don't worry about it? If I put say, the same Hypno file on NF as I do on TTM does that matter?
Spemily
03-19-2019, 08:50 AM
What is the etiquette for selling the same audio / file / goodie on different sites? It this something I need to take into account or just don't worry about it? If I put say, the same Hypno file on NF as I do on TTM does that matter?
Each site has their own rules and there could be a rule about exclusivity or rights in their terms of service. NF doesn't have any such rules but I'm not sure about TTM or any other site you might be using. You'll have to check each site's terms of service and see if they say anything about exclusivity or exclusive rights to your content or not using competing sites.
sexysusie
03-22-2019, 10:38 PM
I had a new custie, he sent over 1000 in a few days via tribute and we had an amazing connection or so I thought until I saw he blocked me today! I'm not used to that. Fair enough custies have a break for a bit (or forever) but to block me? Did I mess up or did he just expire? :(
He came back! over $500 tonight in tributes alone :D
queenelayliah
03-22-2019, 11:12 PM
Damn that sucks - maybe try some different hours - or run a special for 24 hours to existing customers
Thanks for the tips. I actually did try running a special on all of my profiles, normally when i do this i get a few calls, chats and goody bags sold that day, or atleast favorited & added to their mailing list. Not this time around though. Completely dry when i did the sale last week.
I actually cant try any different hours. I am literally logged in 24/7., I’m logged in for 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and I’m being 100% honest. Thats how sparse my calls are that I literally cant afford to not be logged in.
Maybe that’s the issue? Maybe the customers think im a not real person or they think im not really available because my profile is ALWAYS on? Has anyone experienced this before?
Nikki_Fox
03-23-2019, 12:20 AM
Did you mass email all of your clients?
luna93
03-23-2019, 01:55 AM
If you block someone on nf can they still see your listing?
foxirox
03-23-2019, 06:35 PM
Does anyone have any advice on how to get custies to leave feedback? I have some regulars and do some great shows sometimes and politely ask them to leave feedback but they never do...I heard that some flirts give them free minutes, but I've never understood how to give custies free minutes. Does anyone do it? x
Nikki_Fox
03-23-2019, 07:53 PM
Its just a thing with some of them not to leave any - I always ask but only about 5% do it for me- Im pretty sure its against the rules to give minutes for feedback
when you go to send an email and open it up the first box says "type of email ' with a drop down - by default it will say "regular " - hit the arrow to see the drop down options - click on offer in the drop down - then it will ask you what you want to offer between 1-5 minutes - easy peasy once you know where its at - also beside the type of mail box it says "learn more " in blue letters - this will give you details on all of the different mail options
foxirox
03-23-2019, 08:04 PM
Thanks so much Nikki.
And are those free minutes taken off your earnings if the member decides to call you? I have never given free minutes before, but feel like I need to start.
Nikki_Fox
03-23-2019, 08:25 PM
You do not get paid for the free minutes you give out - i usually only give them to guys that i have missed their call ( forgetting to log out ) or a connection issue - I never give them to the quickie 3 min guys blah -
I would love to hear others suggestions on using them to generate business :)
I lied - lol - I send them to guys who have Favorited me - only 1 minute though
Spemily
03-23-2019, 08:25 PM
If you block someone on nf can they still see your listing?
Yes, they can. Blocking prevents them from calling, messaging or sending a chat. They can still see your listing and even favorite it.
queenelayliah
03-24-2019, 12:15 AM
Did you mass email all of your clients?
Yes i did and i even did the free pic trick so that they will open the email. However the pic with a caption, so i didnt give to much away before they potentially called me.
grneyesnfl
03-24-2019, 07:22 AM
Does anyone have any advice on how to get custies to leave feedback? I have some regulars and do some great shows sometimes and politely ask them to leave feedback but they never do...I heard that some flirts give them free minutes, but I've never understood how to give custies free minutes. Does anyone do it? x
Many customers will not leave feedback because other flirts they talk to may see it and hassle them about it. Yes... it happens. Also, in case you were not aware... you cannot give customers free minutes (or anything else free) in exchange for feedback. That is against the rules.
luna93
03-25-2019, 03:05 PM
I uploaded a quick vid to my file manager and it says this type of file can't be embedded. What site should I use to make a gif without a watermark of the gif site on it/embed a quick vid on one of my listings?
laurielegs
03-26-2019, 02:47 PM
I uploaded a quick vid to my file manager and it says this type of file can't be embedded. What site should I use to make a gif without a watermark of the gif site on it/embed a quick vid on one of my listings?
I use ezgif
https://ezgif.com/video-to-gif
luna93
03-27-2019, 08:35 PM
Does anyone have vids/tutorials on how to construct PTV games? I know nobody wants to give up their content secrets etc, but how to design/make them in general etc
PurpleSquirrel
03-28-2019, 02:05 AM
I've been thinking the very same thing Luna! I've got some great ideas now for some PTV games but no clue how to actually construct them. I may well have a bit of fiddle with this today.
MiraMichele
03-28-2019, 07:41 AM
I feel like an idiot for this and I'm not exactly sure what to do to make sure it doesn't happen again. I did my first show on Niteflirt last night and it was a call with cam. The call lasted 15 minutes on Skype then I noticed the cheap asshole hung up the phone after just 11 minutes so he got 4 minutes for free :( I was thinking I can mute my mic on Skype and just talk over the phone but then they may not be able to hear me well unless I keep the phone right by me the whole time which can be awkward. What do you girls do to make sure this doesn't happen?
Nikki_Fox
03-28-2019, 10:15 AM
I feel like an idiot for this and I'm not exactly sure what to do to make sure it doesn't happen again. I did my first show on Niteflirt last night and it was a call with cam. The call lasted 15 minutes on Skype then I noticed the cheap asshole hung up the phone after just 11 minutes so he got 4 minutes for free :( I was thinking I can mute my mic on Skype and just talk over the phone but then they may not be able to hear me well unless I keep the phone right by me the whole time which can be awkward. What do you girls do to make sure this doesn't happen?
thats the sucky thing about calls with phone - if mine is to close to my computer I get terrible reverb echoing - so I have to move it across the room - i turn it up where i can hear prudence if she gives the one minute warning or if she starts saying that the call has ended - I also set it upright so i can glance over and get a visual if it is still connected - hope that helps and would love to hear if anyone has a better method or solution to the reverb :)
passionflower
03-28-2019, 11:38 AM
I feel like an idiot for this and I'm not exactly sure what to do to make sure it doesn't happen again. I did my first show on Niteflirt last night and it was a call with cam. The call lasted 15 minutes on Skype then I noticed the cheap asshole hung up the phone after just 11 minutes so he got 4 minutes for free :( I was thinking I can mute my mic on Skype and just talk over the phone but then they may not be able to hear me well unless I keep the phone right by me the whole time which can be awkward. What do you girls do to make sure this doesn't happen?
Switching to a bluetooth headset for cam calls lets me hear them and the system clearly. My hair covers it but they still seem to hear me just fine.
MiraMichele
03-28-2019, 01:11 PM
Switching to a bluetooth headset for cam calls lets me hear them and the system clearly. My hair covers it but they still seem to hear me just fine.
Perfect. I think this is what I am going to do. Thank you.
naughtybustyteen
03-30-2019, 02:42 AM
I already posted this in another thread but I thought,
I might post it here too cos I wanna know what you girls think. I hope this is okay...
So guys I make audio content and I sell them on Niteflirt, Clips4sale and IWC.
I find my NF buyers are hella cheap, which I don't mind at all, I would actually like to price myself
somewhat cheaper as my content is quick and easy to digest femdom, and I think erring on the cheaper
side is a benefit not a loss.
My only issue is that I would like my prices to be the same across all platforms. As you all know,
C4S sets a cap on the minimum you can charge, so for an 11 mins clip, I might sell it for $6.99 on NF,
but I have to sell it for much higher on c4s.
I know that I over think things, but does it matter if the same clips are priced differently on different websites?
caramelcraze
03-30-2019, 03:40 AM
I already posted this in another thread but I thought,
I might post it here too cos I wanna know what you girls think. I hope this is okay...
So guys I make audio content and I sell them on Niteflirt, Clips4sale and IWC.
I find my NF buyers are hella cheap, which I don't mind at all, I would actually like to price myself
somewhat cheaper as my content is quick and easy to digest femdom, and I think erring on the cheaper
side is a benefit not a loss.
My only issue is that I would like my prices to be the same across all platforms. As you all know,
C4S sets a cap on the minimum you can charge, so for an 11 mins clip, I might sell it for $6.99 on NF,
but I have to sell it for much higher on c4s.
I know that I over think things, but does it matter if the same clips are priced differently on different websites?
Personally I try not to vary it too much site by site for content. If it's $14.99 on c4s, it's 14.99 on nf, 15 on elm (they don't allow you to .99 things there), and 14.99 on manyvids. if cheaper clips are selling better for you, maybe make shorter versions and full versions, that way they may pick up both!
luna93
03-30-2019, 11:20 AM
I know I’ve asked before but I can’t find it what are the sites that sell pictures/adult stock photos?
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-30-2019, 01:54 PM
I already posted this in another thread but I thought,
I might post it here too cos I wanna know what you girls think. I hope this is okay...
So guys I make audio content and I sell them on Niteflirt, Clips4sale and IWC.
I find my NF buyers are hella cheap, which I don't mind at all, I would actually like to price myself
somewhat cheaper as my content is quick and easy to digest femdom, and I think erring on the cheaper
side is a benefit not a loss.
My only issue is that I would like my prices to be the same across all platforms. As you all know,
C4S sets a cap on the minimum you can charge, so for an 11 mins clip, I might sell it for $6.99 on NF,
but I have to sell it for much higher on c4s.
I know that I over think things, but does it matter if the same clips are priced differently on different websites?
Personally I try not to vary it too much site by site for content. If it's $14.99 on c4s, it's 14.99 on nf, 15 on elm (they don't allow you to .99 things there), and 14.99 on manyvids. if cheaper clips are selling better for you, maybe make shorter versions and full versions, that way they may pick up both!
Adding on to what she said be sure to give the content the same name and description accross platforms. This way they won't buy the same thing twice. A lot of these guys shop on all the sites but most have a preference. They may get pissed off if they spend money twice on the same thing.
MsMeta
03-31-2019, 06:57 PM
I've had something really weird happen with my express pay. With one of my accounts, I never log on for calls on the weekend but I do answer emails, send PTVs, do chat etc. And I always leave $10 in my account for featuring the next day so when Saturday morning began, I had $10 in that account. Didn't do much, just had a chat session with one guy which earned me $23.92. Spent today just relaxing, no work, and I decided to check my accounts tonight to return emails, etc. My balance was back to my default $10 and I went into transactions to double check some PTVs that I sent out...and my express pay for yesterday was only $17.48. How did I lose over $6? I didn't feature at all because obviously I wasn't logged on and my featuring amounts are all .20-.30 so even if they were holdovers from the previous day that is A LOT of clicks. I never get that many clicks lol.
There's nothing showing in the transactions either. It's literally just Friday's express pay, chat earnings from that one guy Saturday, then Saturday's express pay - which are of course two different numbers even though they shouldn't be. What the hell?
BadBitch
04-01-2019, 08:37 PM
I feel like an idiot for this and I'm not exactly sure what to do to make sure it doesn't happen again. I did my first show on Niteflirt last night and it was a call with cam. The call lasted 15 minutes on Skype then I noticed the cheap asshole hung up the phone after just 11 minutes so he got 4 minutes for free :( I was thinking I can mute my mic on Skype and just talk over the phone but then they may not be able to hear me well unless I keep the phone right by me the whole time which can be awkward. What do you girls do to make sure this doesn't happen?
I mute Skype and have my phone on speaker. I want to be able to hear when the assholes hang up. I then immediately disconnect Skype. They then try to play dumb and act like they lost their connection.