View Full Version : Camming has taught me....
Issabelle
03-15-2014, 04:09 PM
Um, well, I'm going to claim newbie status and move to a happier note. :)
My best friend just broke up with her boyfriend (cheater, money leach, insulted her body, etc.) and was worried about paying the bills after kicking him out because even though he didn't contribute much, it kept them comfortable. She's definitely a BBW and kept saying 'if I had your body, I'd do it.' She agreed to sign up with me anyway and, go figure, made twice as much as I did online for the same amount of time. Guys are into her for how she looks now and she hasn't had that in forever. It makes her feel good (jerk customers aside) and she deserved to know that her body is appreciated at any size. So, camming taught me that there really are guys for every body, shape, and size. :)
Incantatious
03-15-2014, 04:09 PM
Then why are you calling people names? :(
I said, "If your job turns you into a self-righteous bitch toward ANYONE on behalf of their gender, gtfo of it for your own sanity", because I believe that to be rational and reasonable. I never insulted anyone on behalf of their gender, and my insults were not aimed or directed toward any one person in particular ~ if someone does think it's wonderful to be sexist (whether that's from male-female, or female-male), damn right I'll call them out, because that is some disgusting and deplorable bs.
justanothercamgirl
03-15-2014, 04:12 PM
Is it too late for us all to sing Kumbaya together? :(
If you'll excuse me, I need to take my leave from this thread. I have had a depressing day. My laptop spontaneous combusted so I can't really cam right now and I am not quite sure how I am going to end up paying the bills this month.
I love you all unconditionally and you'll always be my bbs, but all the fight has pretty much been knocked out of me.
Incantatious
03-15-2014, 04:16 PM
Is it too late for us all to sing Kumbaya together? :(
It's never too late bb... <3
If you'll excuse me, I need to take my leave from this thread. I have had a depressing day. My laptop spontaneous combusted so I can't really cam right now and I am not quite sure how I am going to end up paying the bills this month.
I love you all unconditionally and you'll always be my bbs, but all the fight has pretty much been knocked out of me.
Agg, I'm sorry to know you've had a depressing day... :( I hope your laptop will be okay and that things get better. I want you to know, regardless of all this crap, I'm still here if ever you want someone to talk to.
I'm sorry for derailing this thread all.
justanothercamgirl
03-15-2014, 07:21 PM
It's never too late bb... <3
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I'm sorry for derailing this thread all.
It is okay, love.
I totally get where you were trying to coming from.
I found it to be a good reminder that we should all keep in mind that it can be hurtful to use degrading or sexist language towards women or men.
LoraDoll
03-16-2014, 10:23 PM
Not to give up. :party:
Rhiiannon
03-17-2014, 05:53 AM
1. That a LOT of men are perverts and cheap and want to manipulate women... but that there's also a small handful who can respect women, pay them for their time, and treat them right.
2. That my body is valuable... no freebies, no cheap ass group shows with one person, no Skype discounts, etc. And that goes for random guys in my personal life who want to send nudes. In the past I was naughty and did it to feel good. Now I know that my body is worth a price, and only a special man in my life can see (not looking down on promiscuous girls of course, this is my personal preference).
That guys have a really strange idea of what women naturally look like. I can have six products on my face, eyeliner winged out to my hairline, big fake eyelashes, and a skintight purple lycra dress on and still get men who go omg bb so natural and sweet and cute i luv girls who arent fake!! If I'm the girl next door where the fuck do you live, under a table at the Bellagio?
cherryblossomsinspring
03-23-2014, 01:46 AM
That the saying "Life will have its ups and downs", never pertained more than while camming. Literally, and figuratively!
That the more intelligent I come across on cam to men, the less money I make. The more I act like a brainless bimbo, the more money I make.
Lol ^ This 100%!!! I told one of my regs to come in and watch so he could see me acting super bimbo style. It rained in my room the night a year ago when I did that. He was sending me messages on my twitter laughing his ass off at me Lol.
Jay12
03-24-2014, 03:57 AM
That my face is nowhere near as generic or forgettable as I thought (too many people were able to recognize me). I never knew my face was THAT memorable. I felt camming taught me to loved myself a little bit more because of that.
MissLeighton
03-25-2014, 08:25 AM
1. Most people have their own traditionally "weird thing" they enjoy sexually
2. There are a lot of lonely and sexually frustrated people in the world
3. There is virtually nothing sexually that will surprise me, ever. Ask me to give you a custom cake-sitting, incest K9 video? I'll just say that's not my thing, sorry.
4. You can really only rely on yourself. It's nice to have whales, but they will always, always come and go.
5. As a cam girl, you're an escape from reality for people, so act accordingly
6. How to get really good at talking dirty and being 1000x more confident
7. That I will NEVER be the same again, in a good way. I'm in the adult entertainment industry to stay :)
8. How to start and carry on a conversation with pretty much anyone
jay2the
11-20-2014, 01:42 PM
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justanothercamgirl
11-20-2014, 02:18 PM
Camming has taught me to never, ever put all your eggs in one basket.
EVER!
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Coffee
11-20-2014, 02:29 PM
Camming has thought me lots of things LOL.
1. I have learned that there are lots of people who have weird fetishes. - If i didn't became a camgirl i wouldn't know those people who will do weird and dirty things just because i asked them to.
2. Most guys actually like it if you ask them to do something especially when they are horny.
3. That there are so many lonely people in this world. So lonely they will pay just to have someone to chat with.
4. Nothing is permanent. No matter how close you are someday they will also get tired of you and boom you will be nothing for them.
5. They don't really miss you even after you are gone for a while.
6. It is easy to cotrol them
7. Just because someone is handsome,nice,polite and smart doesn't mean they are perfect or good cause they actually might have a kinky side lol.
kortneykay
11-20-2014, 02:52 PM
To stay hungry and to stay grinding
That I pretty much always have a job
patience
to be a great sales person
that if I don't log in, I don't get paid
LingerieMilf
11-20-2014, 04:38 PM
That guys like boobs. No matter what the size or shape, if they sag if they are a little uneven, If the veer off into different directions it doesn't matter. If you have boobs guys will like them, and pay to see them. It's almost like a super power.
hyori
11-21-2014, 09:06 AM
To love men who love giving me money and to not be ashamed of loving it.
CurvyCarysa
11-25-2014, 03:33 AM
Camming has taught me how to say NO.
I've always been a person that was too nice and sort of accepted anything. I was too tolerant of people. I took so much shit and drama from people in real life it's not even funny. I was the type of girl who will wake up in the middle of the night when an acquaintance calls and is too drunk to get home on their own. The type that will offer help, even if I had previous plans. Seriously, TOO NICE!
By saying no to annoying custies because of their incessant begging towards acts that I do not want to do, I started applying this in my real life as well.
So thank you camming, for teaching me to stand up for myself, and for teaching me to not let people walk all over me!!!!!
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this !!!! Same here... I am still quite newb BUT this is exactly me. Speaking about friends...Always time for everybody even when I was extremely tired, always travel to THEIR place cuz they were to lazy, always attention... and could not say no for anything...money, time ..whatev...camming teached me that I worth more then that and if people like me they must contribute the same to our "relationship" I am now applying "U can say NO"attitude to a real life and I noticed how blind I was :)
CurvyCarysa
11-25-2014, 03:36 AM
1) That I'm way more attractive and worthy than I thought I was
2) That I'm way more lazy and lacking in self-discipline than I thought I was
3) That the world operates based on stereotypes. Racial stereotypes, gender stereotypes, stereotypes of sex workers, all kinds of stereotypes color my interactions with customers everyday...I feel like cam customers are more bluntly honest with us than most people are with other ppl in the "real world," I am just amazed that what comes out of these people's mouths...
4) That even the best job has its downsides
with me number 2 :) only with camming I finally learn to have self discipline...(cuz no work no money) to be hard on my self and have some dedication
CurvyCarysa
11-25-2014, 03:44 AM
I'm not necessarily just talking about the song, (though I'm guessing the title was the operative meaning of why it was posted in the first place, otherwise.. what the point?) but like.. is anyone else seeing this?? Plenty of women posted stuff about men that I'm just..
http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/Shocked.gif
But the thing that gets me? SO many women are saying how surprised they were how men love all kinds of body types, colours and weights.. Gahh.. I'm probably way outnumbered on this, so whatever.
I was always kinda chubby and good with it. My skinny friends never understood. I always could get almost any men I liked. I think belly dance did big part in it ..to be comfortable with my body and be feminine. When I started camming lot of friends were like OHHHH I cant imagine to see my self from each angle and all those imperfections. Never understood. I always knew that there is a girl for everyone. About men..some are pigs ,some not. Some think u r not even human being, some treat u as a lady even in pvt. I dont hate men. Just sometimes when they try to "build up connection" and in the end they just ask for freebies on skype :p It is business of course but some are so nice :) that I kinda like them. I hope I will not change at this.
Glamourmilf
11-26-2014, 11:50 PM
^^I agree! I used to be super skinny, and when I started camming, I had not only gained weight, but gained wisdom from my belly dance experience, and with private party dancing, so I was pretty sure I'd be great at it.
A friend who knew me when I was 100 pounds laughed when I told her about camming.
"You're too fat now! Nobody will pay to see You naked and masturbating", she said.
So, I sat her down and turned on a couple of websites that had bbws (making money), watched her mouth open in disbelief. That shut her up for good! Oh, and she's no longer in my life.
I was kind of shocked how guys much prefer a big ass, over big tits. That's been my experience.
So, camming has taught me that it is always full of surprises. Some I like, and embrace, and some I just put up with. Because in the end, it is just a job, and so I don't what other's say too seriously.
CurvyCarysa
11-27-2014, 03:45 AM
^^I agree! I used to be super skinny, and when I started camming, I had not only gained weight, but gained wisdom from my belly dance experience, and with private party dancing, so I was pretty sure I'd be great at it.
A friend who knew me when I was 100 pounds laughed when I told her about camming.
"You're too fat now! Nobody will pay to see You naked and masturbating", she said.
So, I sat her down and turned on a couple of websites that had bbws (making money), watched her mouth open in disbelief. That shut her up for good! Oh, and she's no longer in my life.
I was kind of shocked how guys much prefer a big ass, over big tits. That's been my experience.
So, camming has taught me that it is always full of surprises. Some I like, and embrace, and some I just put up with. Because in the end, it is just a job, and so I don't what other's say too seriously.
ha I love ur post :) it is good that ur friend shut up :D I have big boobies as well and I love when guys worship them :) and they little piss me off when I oil my tits and they ask for ass and then when I oil my ass they ask for tits..Men are really big babies LOL. Also I think that they ask for ass because they cant see it... at least with me men want what they cant have..classic..when I am on doggy then "tits bb" when I sit "ass bb" ....oh God :D
LoraDoll
11-27-2014, 07:37 AM
Camming has taught me, that i dont need to care, what other ppl think about me, what they say, or how they act.
audritwo
11-27-2014, 09:34 AM
You can say NO to anything, no matter how much money they drop.
SweetJulia
11-28-2014, 09:40 AM
That no matter what you look like, you're PERFECT to tons of guys. Those are the ones to focus on, not the serial killers in training who treat all sex workers like shit. Also, that plastic figurines, when adequately lubricated, make surprisingly comfortable dildos.
Cutie101
11-28-2014, 08:55 PM
1.Camming has taught me that if you don't take care of yourself as a woman,even after you get married,have kids or you are in a longer relationship and don't keep yourself sexy for your partener, he will spend money on a ...camgirl/stripper/hooker ,or any woman better looking than you.No matter you are a bbw or a slim one.Men are animals.No matter how much they love you.When they think with their dicks,is over.I've had too many guys in my privates who always complain that they love their wives ,they have been married for x years,but are not atracted phisycally of them anymore because they stopeed taking care of themselves after a while.I got that in my head so bad that I kinda got crazy to not get trough this later hahahaa :)))
2.Camming has taught me to be a woman.Has taught me how to take care of myself and take advantages of being a woman in the real life too.Has taught me to be sexy.Has taught me to get my self confidence (I was a very very introverted girl and was seeing myself ugly when I started camming), taught me to use make up,taught me to do my hair,my nails, etc.
LaylaLovely
11-28-2014, 10:11 PM
Men are animals.No matter how much they love you.
While this sooo true for many men... There a a few good loyal men who stand by there woman no matter what, when they get cancer , become obese, etc... Have kids... Then again.. For the men that are complaining about there wife's/gf's not bieng physically attractive..hmmm how do they look?? Or how about have they been emotionally there for them?? It's a a two way street guys!! If a man isn't making me feel special or loved how am I suppose to feel like dressing up for him and sucking his dick every night!! And this goes for woman as well I know too many wife's that cheat as well, it's usually one or the other in a marriage.. O and sorry to me that's not love...
Cutie101
11-28-2014, 11:00 PM
Yeah I didn't put all in one place and i didn't say that this is available for every man in this world.
I have been with mine for 6 years and he never cheated me and I can swear for him.But he has no reason either.I struggled to lose weight,to look beautiful,to be the perfect woman for him..and he is the perfect man for me in exchange ( i still get flowers for no reason,just like that...he still says to me how much he loves my hair and my eyes and how I smile and other romantic stuff that eyes wet right now when i talk about ).
SO,I didn't generalise.
All i have say above is based on my camming experience.Nothing else.
I get lots of married guys in private telling me their stories,that's why is a lesson that I have learned.They always say "i wish my gf/wife was like you".Wich gives me a big one conclusion :)
In fact is good to be the woman that your husband,boyfriend has fallen in love with you since the beggining,or evolouate,not inevoluate.
So making your own boyfriend/husband happy should not feel like an obligation.As time as you are in love with him you always want to look like u were at your first date.
I mean I love that after almost six years ,I buy a new lingerie and when he comes back from work and sees me waiting him like this, is getting instantly hard for me.He always gives me a nice fuck even he is tired as hell (he couldn't sleep anyway if i put my head under blanket mwhahahahaha ).
Plus the naughty pics I send to him while he is at work....how can he look for another woman?:)
And talking about sick women,here is a different story.U must be very pig as man to cheat your sick wife instead of being there to support her.
All I talk about is diversity.No matter how fat/slim you are.The thing is to keep the fireworks between you 2 active all the time,no matter you have 1 months or 20 years of mariage :D
This is called love.And in fact are normal stuff in an open minded relationship of 21st century.
BUT! this is why I have written here.As I said, CAMMING HAS TAUGHT ME THIS!
I am pretty sure if I wasn't camming,i wouldn't know how to treat my man to keep him happy,nowadays and i don't know if he would have cheat me or not.But all I can say is that I was very shy before.Before I started camming I wouldn't accept to send naked pictures,be bitchy in bed, do roleplays or even a show in front of him while he is getting nuts.
So again I have to say thanks to this cam job because it helped me,first of all,to have a healthy relationship and based of the experience gaines,it taught me how to avoid some situations.
BUT...there is a big BUT (not butt lol) : Men or women are making huge mistakes ( i talk about those who cheat) because they are not honest and tell to their parteners what they don't like anymore.What has changed.Why they liked them before and now not anymore.Or what they would like to get from them.Honesty is also important in a relationship.Most of them are hiding their thoughts and prefer to cheat.Cheating is easier than finding a sollution with your life mate :( That's so sad.
Maybe sometimes I don't make myself understood very well as I my english sucks,but u got my point.
All I talk about is my experience.Is not judging,is not discriminating or generalising.It's just MY experience and what conclusions I got from this.
In fact,every person should not let itself affected by routine and still try to keep itself fresh and happy for his/her partener.And the most important is to LOVE and be happy with itself!
And for those who have the hottest girlfriends and still cheat then go and suck the dick hahahahahaha :)))) This is availble for my bf too if he ever cheat me.
I am sure he maybe soemtimes he is thinking at another woman.Oh well,i can't control his mind at all.But at least I can control his actions...for the moment :)
Ah and when I meant by "men are animals" i was saying about their sexual appetite.If they get hard and really want to fuck in that moment,no matter what he loves u...well...that's why we have so many customers on sites hahahahaa :D
LaylaLovely
11-28-2014, 11:04 PM
^^ nothing about your post lol sorry if it came off that way :) I just hate wen guys use excuses when how they're wife's aren't " physically attractive anymore etc etc..
hyori
11-29-2014, 08:03 AM
Men are simple. Make them feel sexually desired, often, and they'll give you everything they can to keep it going. Nothing wrong with that.
LenaLux
11-29-2014, 08:13 AM
Camming has taught me that there is no such thing as weekend lol
apryll11
11-29-2014, 10:23 PM
How to spell beggar properly, always thought it had 2 E's
LaylaLovely
11-29-2014, 11:33 PM
Math..... % to be exact!!!lol I'm horrible at it
Glamourmilf
11-30-2014, 10:08 AM
Camming has taught me that ..."It's all about the bass, bout the bass, bout the bass, no treble"........39824