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Morrigan
01-19-2014, 02:23 PM
0, because Ive never been with a male. strap on wise is a different matter entirely- yeah I know its not exactly the same even with a hyper-realistic toy - but on that its fairly common antics with the spouse and I
TheWeirdOne
01-19-2014, 04:04 PM
I won't reveal #s but I love it. In total I've only been done there about five times. Out of those five times I think I came 4. Dirty talk is what gets me ready and I like lots of passionate kissing.
Kellydancer
01-19-2014, 06:45 PM
None. Not interested. And you girls who say it sucks because your boyfriends etc are into it, why do you indulge them? My ex said it was a "deal breaker" that I didn't so I told him to walk, and guess what? He didn't. Don't do anything you don't enjoy.
What I don't get is all these men who are apparently into it now. I know I am older than most here by 10+ years but this has never been an issue for me. Not once did an ex have an anal fixation. The one time I tried it was because I was curious more than anything and he wanted to do it but we never did it again because neither of us cared. The other guys I dated never brought it up though one guy did it with an ex In fact most men I have dated didn't do it and most never tried it.
simone87
01-20-2014, 12:02 AM
None. Not interested. And you girls who say it sucks because your boyfriends etc are into it, why do you indulge them? My ex said it was a "deal breaker" that I didn't so I told him to walk, and guess what? He didn't. Don't do anything you don't enjoy.
i tried indulging mine once or twice because with the first guy it didn't hurt ( which is weird because the first guy had a HUGE dick. and was a huge dick himself) , but it hurt a ton with my current one. so i waited awhile and tried it again with more lube/slower/more anal stimulation and only once did i get off from it, every other time it hurt like hell. so no more for me. i don't give a shit WHAT all the online articles say about how it can't do any damage and its perfectly safe..it feels like its being ripped and the muscles are being forced the opposite direction they are supposed to be in. i have no time anymore for pleasing men while im miserable, and i was glad to see that he agreed that we just shouldn't try it anymore if i was in pain.
i totally agree with everything sam wrote, wish i could like it 1000+ times!
audritwo
01-20-2014, 12:41 AM
When I think about, I've had anal sex with more women then I've with men. 3 guys and 5 ladies.
audrey_k
01-20-2014, 02:36 AM
1 guy-- I dated him for 2+years and was madly in love with him, we named our future children... but he was such a sweetheart I had to convince him to do it (I wanted to do something nice for him) and we literally did it for 30 seconds and he was like does this feel good for? I said no but I need to get used to it and he pulled out.
Selina M
01-23-2014, 01:29 PM
None, and I don't anticipate ever doing it... I can't shut my medical brain off that goes "That is NOT meant to be shoved up there"... too much risk of tearing, bleeding, nasty infections... and if it hurts as bad as the ladies here have said, then hell to the no just because of that!
xStacey
01-23-2014, 10:39 PM
What I don't get is all these men who are apparently into it now. I know I am older than most here by 10+ years but this has never been an issue for me. Not once did an ex have an anal fixation. The one time I tried it was because I was curious more than anything and he wanted to do it but we never did it again because neither of us cared. The other guys I dated never brought it up though one guy did it with an ex In fact most men I have dated didn't do it and most never tried it.
I think it has more to do with the idea of dominating the woman and her letting the guy put it in her ass to please him even though she doesn't enjoy it, more than the sensation itself. I've heard guys saying it's so tight it hurts them, or tried it and didn't really find the feeling that pleasant, prefer the ''traditional'' way.
Maybe also because it is still considered a bit taboo, even though it is a more common practice than it used to be, makes the idea more appealing. And we can't forget the influence of porn nowadays...
Nuclear Martini
01-24-2014, 12:12 AM
My anus is exit only unless we are married. 0.
Flickdreams
01-26-2014, 11:16 AM
2, I have enjoyed sometimes and seriously disliked other times. Usually it hurts to poo the next day- like green ants are biting my anus. I don't do it anymore and my husband doesn't particularly enjoy so no loss.
I have been told by a gay guy to hold the head of the cock at the entrance, slowly penetrates, feel any resistance? hold position (can take 5min or longer) until the muscles relax around the cock, continue in this fashion.
simone87
01-26-2014, 11:18 AM
2, . Usually it hurts to poo the next day- like green ants are biting my anus. .
LOL!! green ants..i love it
Flickdreams
01-26-2014, 11:24 AM
^ I didn't :D
Morrigan
01-26-2014, 12:23 PM
alot of the trick to it is being prepped if the muscles are not relaxed its going to be bad at first - I Do greatly enjoy it, and the wifey has her toys to play it, but its also a major part of my camming requirements too so the act of getting relaxed and ready and all that is part of the " getting read for work" process, usually involves starting with something smaller like a plug or something with a gradual sizing difference to ease things before Im doing anything bigger
whirlerz
01-26-2014, 04:06 PM
soo..
ok, somewhat gross alert..
what if you've hemorroids?
Kellydancer
01-26-2014, 05:31 PM
I think it has more to do with the idea of dominating the woman and her letting the guy put it in her ass to please him even though she doesn't enjoy it, more than the sensation itself. I've heard guys saying it's so tight it hurts them, or tried it and didn't really find the feeling that pleasant, prefer the ''traditional'' way.
Maybe also because it is still considered a bit taboo, even though it is a more common practice than it used to be, makes the idea more appealing. And we can't forget the influence of porn nowadays...
That makes sense and that's what I was wondering if it had to do with domination. I couldn't be with a man like that and could explain why most of the men I dated never even tried it.
The_Ecdysiast
01-26-2014, 08:31 PM
Tried it once with one guy, and never again. I didn't get any satisfaction from it at all, and losing my 'anal virginity' hurt worlds worse than my vaginal one. When I lost it he took his time and went slow, then he slipped and fell into my buttonhole (LOL) and I turned around and punched him in the face. Even prior to him slipping though, I just was like wtf is this shit?!?! It was so weird to me. The most I let a man stick in there now is a tongue or finger, but even with fingers inserted it feels like a shit turd is stuck in my ass. I can't even watch porn with anal; I get turned off immediately and clench my butt cheeks.
I'm all for folks 'doing them' in the bedroom, but this chick's ass is closed for business when it comes to the penis (or straps). Anyone who continuously tries to press me for it gets dismissed on the spot; this let's me know they don't respect me and my boundaries.
whirlerz
01-26-2014, 08:37 PM
LOL!! green ants..i love it
ooh is that an Aussie thing, Flick??
Flickdreams
01-26-2014, 09:31 PM
Must be, Painful biting insect, sharp pain followed by throbbing pain.
whirlerz
01-26-2014, 09:39 PM
Yeah, y'all got a lot of poisonous stuff over there!
jadey23
01-26-2014, 09:42 PM
just one... my ex bf took my anal virginity and i really learned to love it. we'd do anal maybe 2/5 times we'd have sex. i would for sure do it again once i find a steady hook up...
dirtydiamond
01-29-2014, 03:30 PM
2 :) my current bf is really great and has really gotten me into it!
chloemay
01-29-2014, 04:47 PM
5 or 6 different guys, one rather a lot. He was a boyfriend for 7 months or so, and I was the one who suggested it as his cock was so big my pussy was crying in spite of regular orgasms. He was good about taking time, and making sure I was ready, and if I suddenly realized I didn't want to, that was fine too. No bad after-effects other than cum-smelling farts now and then.
:-D It was fun, I came every time. I do have a submissive streak and believe the mind and physical combined to make it as orgasmic as it was.
Sabihah
02-02-2014, 06:59 PM
Just one. I'd never tried it before and was really interested in giving it a go. He was pretty well-endowed, didn't use enough lube, and didn't go slow enough. It hurt horribly and I told him so.
I was willing to try again, but I made it very clear that I needed him to try harder to make it comfortable for me. He didn't. Every time I told him to PLEASE be gentle with me, and every time he did the same damn thing. We probably tried it five or six times; by the last one, my poor little anus looked like it was in the early stages of prolapse (not actually sticking out, but looking raw and pink like an open wound).
I cut him off completely, and by that point I was rapidly losing interest in him and felt extremely resentful about his selfishness. He would beg and beg for it like a spoiled child! I basically stopped having sex of any kind with him, despite the fact that I was living with him. I packed my things for a working vacation, and before I returned I let him know that I wasn't coming back. There were other factors involved, but the way he treated me re: anal sex was probably the biggest.
caramelcraze
02-04-2014, 05:48 PM
1... and never again if i can avoid it. I'd never done anything anal, there wasn't enough lube, and he was so thick it hurt vaginally most of the time. So never again. I don't even like playing with toys in my ass. I have recently been dating someone who LOOOVES anal and I made the mistake of telling him I'd only do it if he let me do it to him first. HUGE mistake! instead of the standard "NOPE!" he immediately went online and ordered a strap-on because it quote "can't be that bad" >:( not sure how ill talk my way out of this one lol
lovelydancer
02-04-2014, 06:18 PM
This is gonna sound like TMI, lol, but as far has actual anal sex goes; 2 guys. As far as being anal fingering (does this count?); either 4 or 5 guys.
I like anal. Didn't think I would but I do. As long as it's on the slower side, and there's plenty of lube. :)
1 and i didnt enjoy it at all. It was gross. So when guys would bring it up anal i would say if you want to put something in my ass, im going to put something in your ass first.
Well the first bf I lived with called my bluff. Instead of just ramming something up his ass I consulted one of my gay friends about how to keep it safe and fun.
Turns out straight men have no damn clue about anal sex. There is a whole method ... from starting with something small like a bullet vibe and working up to different larger sizes, types of lube, different ways to clean yourself out first etc.
I ended up giving him more anal then he gave me lol
FreeSpirit
02-14-2014, 12:10 PM
I've had anal sex with 4 guys. The first one I had an assgasm. The second too were so-so, like sucking dick, didn't really do anything for me. The last one I felt it in my clit. The butthole is connected to the clit, so women can have orgasms from anal sex even though they don't have prostates.
I have mixed feelings about it. I definitely think if someone pesters you DAILY (???) about it he's a selfish asshole and should either be fucked in the ass himself or dumped pronto.
FreeSpirit
02-14-2014, 12:11 PM
I've had anal sex with 4 guys. The first one I had an assgasm. The second too were so-so, like sucking dick, didn't really do anything for me. The last one I felt it in my clit. The butthole is connected to the clit, so women can have orgasms from anal sex even though they don't have prostates.
I have mixed feelings about it. I definitely think if someone pesters you DAILY (???) about it he's a selfish asshole and should either be fucked in the ass himself or dumped pronto.
PrincessN
03-05-2014, 03:07 PM
really have lost count
anal sex is probably my favourite
girl1015
03-05-2014, 03:36 PM
Only once, one word messy (yes tmi) I didn't know you were supposed to take an enema or clean your system out first!
NEVER AGAIN
^^omg, I once did it after taking hydroxy cut and adderall both make u have to go, need I say more...lol. (I know tmi, but since were sharing)... The guy still did it again days after...lol. I guess he wasnt too scared
Cashmere Star
03-06-2014, 05:39 PM
I wouldn't want to be with a guy who wasn't willing to try new things out. I enjoy anal, it doesn't hurt, and it feels good (different strokes for different folks). However, anal sex was always initiated on my own terms, it was for my own pleasure (and my partner just going along for the ride), and I never had anyone ask me or push me into it. I use oil for lube and take it slow, and my partner takes my directions. You're not supposed to just ram it in there. However, if my partner was an asshole and just "stuck it up" there then yeah it will probably hurt me but my partner will be lose his teeth. ^^
That being said, if it hurts even just a bit, you shouldn't do it at all. There were a few times I tried to stick my partner in there but it hurts for some random reason. Nothing is worth the risk of injury, and pain is already a signal that something is wrong. There are many other ways to be happy with your partner. Plus, do we demand guys to do things for us that potentially hurts them or even just "bores" them? No. So I don't see why a girl has to "give in" to anal sex. That's fucked up. I also don't know why people are so fixated onto anal these days. It's really not that special...
Whenever I hear about guys begging, pleading, or trying to "accidently" stick it into their partners who clearly said no, it makes me really hate men because I hear about this ALL THE TIME. Are there really that many men who are that immature and disrespectful? Considering that the vast majority of these guys who pressure their partners daily or try to 'trick' their partners would never think of reciprocating the favor or put something up their own butts. What a bunch of assholes. It's so clear that the guys don't give a shit about you.
Nina_
03-10-2014, 09:20 AM
I have tried it once. I'll probably do it again, eventually. It wasn't a bad experience. But the guy's dick was huge (he was like 6'7" anyway and his dick matched his size) so I assume next time I do it the guy's dick will be smaller and it'll hurt less. Lol.
simone87
03-10-2014, 06:41 PM
^ haha i had a male friend who went to job corps, and had a girl ask him to have butt sex with her, and that she had picked him to be the one..he was so flattered at fist and asked why she wanted it from him of all people and she told him it was because she'd never done it before and she had heard that his dick was really small. he was crushed hahaha
PrincessN
03-10-2014, 07:27 PM
DP :D best thing like ever
Gia2608
03-10-2014, 08:13 PM
I have no idea why I started reading this thread.. or why I read almost the whole thing but since I'm here.... I say 4 or 5 (or 3)... I dunno I tend to have the same lovers on and off for awhile until I get bored so sometimes I will bounce back and forth between a guy or two. I like it, then again I like a lot of nasty raunchy stuff and am generally a freak in the sack. You would be shocked to know this if you knew me IRL but they always say its the quiet ones you have to watch out for.
DreamsInDigital
03-13-2014, 12:05 PM
3, one of which is my current bf. I don't dislike it, but it doesn't really do anything for me either.
DreamsInDigital
03-13-2014, 12:09 PM
^ haha i had a male friend who went to job corps, and had a girl ask him to have butt sex with her, and that she had picked him to be the one..he was so flattered at fist and asked why she wanted it from him of all people and she told him it was because she'd never done it before and she had heard that his dick was really small. he was crushed hahaha
Haha! Sucks for him...did he end up doing it anyway?
simone87
03-14-2014, 02:59 PM
^ knowing him, im sure he did! he was very self conscious about his equipment after that tho
Savannah Lee
03-16-2014, 04:48 PM
I'm 23 and have been in a relationship for the past two years. When I was 19 I was with my ex for a year and a half. I lost my virginity when I was 13 and have been with about 25 men. I could add about another 10 or so that were just oral sex. I've never had an STD and don't regret any of it. I've had a lot of great sex and I love the variety. I've had anal sex with all of them too, I kind of prefer it more.
Brilynne
03-18-2014, 09:17 AM
2. I like it but I get super nervous about it. I masturbate anal so much more than I let my husband have it...he loves it, so I wish my inhibitions were lower but idk something about doing it with an actual other person freaks me out. But I do enjoy it.
LanaRevol
09-10-2014, 09:54 AM
I've been a Very bad girl this summer........
Many many new adventures !
Lana
Jay12
09-11-2014, 01:30 AM
About five dudes. I love anal sex!!!!
Adrienne26
09-13-2014, 01:04 PM
3.
The first time, I picked up a guy I was dating from a bar downtown because he was drunk so I brought him back to my apartment. I was on my period and he was super horny so I decided we could try it. OMG was that a mistake. He just rammed it in and I bled.
Second guy was my ex husband but he was an asshole (no pun intended) and insisted upon it even though I had minimal desire to try it.
The third is my now, super loving and wonderful boyfriend of almost 4 years. We've done it a few times, neither of us is SUPER into it but we like to switch things up from time to time. He is really gentle and slow until he's all the way in the door and I tell him it's ok to actually start. It took probably 2 years before I was even ok with the idea of it with him just due to my awful prior experiences.
Luna66
09-13-2014, 02:08 PM
2, but that makes me sound more tame than I am! I LOVE anal.
The first guy was my first boyfriend (who I lost all my virginities to), and it was fine, but he wasn't that good at sex in general, so it wasn't great.
The second guy is my current boyfriend who i've been with for 4 and a half years. We both love it and we do it like 4 out of 5 times we have sex. It has never hurt me, i've always found it so hot. I've never cum from it, but I love it just as much as he does. In fact, it feels kinda weird when he's in my pussy nowadays to be honest.
Love anal!
SexedUpCat2
09-13-2014, 03:12 PM
3. I just "discovered" it 2.5 years ago, haha
1st guy was the one who introduced my to bondage and some kink
2nd guy was my boyfriend for a year. He was my best in bed, and we had sex (anal and otherwise) more than I thought possible, lol
3rd guy was a brief fling from Tinder lol I was horny and single
fishielicious
09-16-2014, 08:01 PM
lol I'm gonna feel like a prude now but none. I've had guys try to slip it in discreetly and I'm like, how do you think I would not notice that?
It definitely would never be something I'd ask for. Maybe I should be curious, but I'm not. Most guys I've been with have never even brought it up (and none of the girls I've been with have); I like to think it's cause my pussy's tight enough as it is. ::)
skripper
09-16-2014, 08:35 PM
3 to 5..I can't remember honestly. I love it, if it's done right. I've noticed I always like it more than the guys I do it with. I get told it doesn't feel as good as vaginal sex to them so they don't like it as much. If I wasn't so afraid of my asshole falling out, I'd do it more too.
Elektra Luxx
09-25-2014, 02:10 PM
2, I kinda like it but only every once in a blue moon. I dont like the finger in the ass tho
I feel the same way about anal. Guys love really love it. I think it makes them feel like "I'm really slamming this bitch", but really I gave in a few times just to stop the begging. So, 4 guys in my personal life, but I really had to be into him, super horny and really lubed up. I considered it once for a regular, but I chickened out at the last minute. Afterwards, I always feel like I have poop.