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fendergibson99
11-04-2013, 12:03 PM
Agreed, but most guys who can't decide between a Fender and a Gibson have a tendency to over think...8)

LOL. Have a Fender, want a Gibson.

fendergibson99
11-04-2013, 12:04 PM
@fendergibson99: I appreciate you posting so sincerely and taking the heat in return. This has been one of the best threads I've read on SW.

Thanks, bro.

musik22
11-04-2013, 07:54 PM
Fendergibson- You probably said some things you regret saying, but enough of the apologizing. People who commit crimes don't apologize as much as you did.

laurielegs
11-04-2013, 09:29 PM
My wife is the first woman I had a serious relationship with, and we were married young. She is not very adventuresome, the sex is fairly standard, blowjob MAYBE once a year and I have to ask, etc.

Sex begins in the kitchen (and the laundry room and so on).... Cook for her. Do something romantic and unexpected. You mentioned blow jobs - what do you really do for her inside and outside the bedroom? What does she want sexually?


Funny how adventurous I became after getting out of a boring marriage and finding out all men weren't so dull and unromantic as my ex.

(Of course if men did romantic things and their women responded with adventurous sex well, we'd be out of business soon so I really should shut up). ;)

justanothercamgirl
11-05-2013, 02:21 PM
The four of them sat lazily, biding their time checking facebook on their phones. Weekdays were the worst, but it only took a single person to turn her shift around. Sometimes cliches are true for a reason; you'll find it when you least expect it. She certainly wasn't expecting it to come walking in in the pants of a middle-aged married man, but there it was...the unmistakable bulge. The scent of old worn leather and aged paper filled the air, nearly intoxicating her. Could it be? No...it was too much to dream. But still, she could feel it in her body, and more importantly, in her heart. The unmistakable yearning; the call that wrenched her from her seat and towards him like sirens luring pirates of old to their demise. She nearly fell into his lap with sweating palms and a racing pulse. There...right there she felt it. Even bent in two it was thick, oh God so thick! Every time she tried to catch her breath he'd move and she felt it in his pants. She straddled it, the feel of it drivng her wild. She had to do something before the other three took it away from her. It was hers, she needed it. So she kissed him and gave in to her body's passion, for she had found it. The wallet of her dreams.

35375

justanothercamgirl
11-05-2013, 02:42 PM
But can’t she want my money and be attracted to me at the same time? I have taken a look at some other forums and sometimes strippers there admit that a few times they have been truly attracted to customers.

Okay.....I will follow your logic to its obvious end game.

Can't she want your money, be attracted to you and 'in to it'......but not want anything else other than that moment of experience? You had an experience that make you happy. She had an experience that made her happy. Why can't that be enough? I am hedonist, personally. I love 'first time moments'. The second time moments? Not so much.

No? Alright, let's say for the sake of argument she is hot for you. If she felt something amazing should would of contacted you ASAP to do it again. Has she contacted you about getting together again? Outside of the club?

Illusion is a wonderful and fun thing, but it is no substitute for reality.

I am not one to judge your situation. I don't know the first thing about it. But, if you are unhappy with your wife and your current relationship with her......talk to her now about it!

Life is to short for both you and your wife to be living without that kind of intimacy, love and connection between you.

fendergibson99
11-05-2013, 02:56 PM
She had an experience that made her happy. Why can't that be enough?

Interesting point.


If she felt something amazing should would of contacted you ASAP to do it again. Has she contacted you about getting together again? Outside of the club?

Actually I didn't give her my contact information. She did ask if we could meet up when she got off work at 3am.


Illusion is a wonderful and fun thing, but it is no substitute for reality.

Agree!


But, if you are unhappy with your wife and your current relationship with her......talk to her now about it! Life is to short for both you and your wife to be living without that kind of intimacy, love and connection between you.

Agree, and thank you. I am going to counseling to figure out what drove me to do what I did. Once I get my shit together I can be a better partner, which includes better communication.

fendergibson99
11-05-2013, 03:03 PM
The scent of old worn leather and aged paper filled the air, nearly intoxicating her. Could it be?...The wallet of her dreams.

Interesting detail of my experience which I completely overlooked at first: I use a money clip, not a wallet. When I first started talking to the woman I bought her a drink. I had 15 crisp $20 bills fresh from the ATM, and of course I took out the whole wad to pay for the drink! If I had just thought about that I could have avoided the need for this whole thread...

justanothercamgirl
11-05-2013, 03:05 PM
If I had just thought about that I could have avoided the need for this whole thread...

I personally think that was money well spent. It appears that you've learned a very important lesson and a lot about psychological parts of yourself that you had forgotten existed.

The way I look it at, that was the deal of a lifetime. ;)

audritwo
11-05-2013, 03:24 PM
::) Man this was wonderful...

yoda57us
11-05-2013, 03:29 PM
Interesting detail of my experience which I completely overlooked at first: I use a money clip, not a wallet. When I first started talking to the woman I bought her a drink. I had 15 crisp $20 bills fresh from the ATM, and of course I took out the whole wad to pay for the drink! If I had just thought about that I could have avoided the need for this whole thread...

Duuuuude! You were doomed from the moment she saw that money clip! Never, I repeat, NEVER flash your wad in front of a dancer. Singles in one pocket, $20's in another!

Jasmine.Doll
11-05-2013, 04:04 PM
^^Big wads make me super horny!!! Love a man with a big wad....

oldster
11-05-2013, 06:19 PM
[wipes bourbon off of monitor]

dammit Jasmine!

Jasmine.Doll
11-05-2013, 06:42 PM
^^Sorry oldster.. Big wads just really do it for me. I lose all self control.

oldster
11-05-2013, 07:00 PM
But I mean really, I am drinking at night and this could cause a fire.......coffee is one thing but burning the house down could get me in real trouble...........................................

zivlet
11-05-2013, 07:23 PM
OK, you have done your job. You can feel good because I can confirm I have felt humiliated reading through all the replies. The one I appreciated most was the first one, because it was very direct. Most of the rest were just sort of piling on.

I am going to challenge you, though. It’s easy for you in this forum amuse yourselves and bond with each other by cleverly dissing me. I’m sure you have every reason to be cynical, given that most customers are disgusting, and of course women are in it for the money – why the fuck else would they do it?

You probably have an extra amount of disdain for me because I have a wife and family, and you are right to feel that way. I told you before I am ashamed that I visit clubs sometimes. Do I remind you of your awful father who disappointed you, or worse? I wouldn’t be surprised.

When I read back over my original post I realize I look like a fool asking about “connection.” But now let’s peel back the onion another layer. I will reveal more about myself. In return I want you to be honest and get out of your comfort zone. You can either double down and slam me more, or you can admit that I may have a point. Either one is fine, as long as it’s the truth, and you are being honest with yourself, not just with me.

Here’s the deal. I am honestly sort of a sappy person. My wife actually gets annoyed when I get starry eyed over her sometimes. I love her dearly and would never, ever leave her. Especially not for a 25 year old stripper with a 3 year old kid. God, no.

So why was I in the club that night? Usual story, I was tired and had been drinking. Not wasted, but definitely buzzed. It seemed like a good idea at the time. I was thinking with my dick, no question about it. But – and I’m not asking for a medal here – I am basically a good guy, loyal (stop laughing), a good father. Other than strip clubs I have never cheated, and I don’t want to.

Yes, I have a daughter. Would I want her to grow up to be a stripper? FUCK, NO! I would rather die. Why? Because she deserves the best. She deserves to be treated with respect. And strippers do not get treated with respect. It’s that simple. Guess what? I think you deserve better too. You deserve to be treated with respect (most of you, anyway). Everyone does, unless they are a bad person.

Am I a fucking hypocrite? Yes. But people are complicated. Most are neither all bad nor all good.

So what was I thinking? I allowed myself to get caught up in the thrill, and maybe my sappy nature made me starry eyed. My wife is the first woman I had a serious relationship with, and we were married young. She is not very adventuresome, the sex is fairly standard, blowjob MAYBE once a year and I have to ask, etc. Now I am getting older. Yes, I look longingly (subtly, I believe) at beautiful young women. I am human. Call me creepy, but you will be older one day, too. When it happens, you are basically still the same person, but you are getting older, too. It sucks.

So when I wrote up the original account, I was indulging in that juvenile fantasy of connection. That was the naïve part of me coming out, not thinking rationally, but responding to a desire. Yes, men have emotional desires too. I do know that what I had with this woman was not real intimacy.

I was satisfying a selfish desire. But I am not so selfish that I would ever let my wife find out to “get it off my chest.” That would hurt her deeply, and my kids, and, yes, I would be fucked. I will continue to be a family man – albeit with a couple of secrets.

Here’s the thing, though. What I really want to know is, not did she have “feelings” for me. That’s ridiculous. Of course she didn’t. What I do want to know is, was it completely Machiavellian, or is it POSSIBLE she could have truly been turned on.

Yes, she wanted my money. Of course she did. She has a kid at home and is probably a single mom.

But can’t she want my money and be attracted to me at the same time? I have taken a look at some other forums and sometimes strippers there admit that a few times they have been truly attracted to customers.

I am definitely more attractive than most guys in these places. I am 6 foot 2, dark, wavy hair with a tinge of salt and pepper at the sideburns. I am not fat, just normal in terms of body type. I have all my hair, I do have pretty nice eyes. I am pretty polite and a good conversationalist. And yes, I am a good kisser. I really am. (And I’m modest…)

So, now that you know more, could she have been attracted to me AND wanted my money, or is it 100% money?

You weren't there, I was. She REALLY seemed into it. Listen, I know what faking is like. I have watched plenty of porn. "Fuck me!" That's a turnoff because it's so obviously fake. I wish I could somehow convey to you just how into it this woman was.

If she was acting, she is better than you. Way better than you will ever be.

OK, start throwing up in your mouth again. Tear me a new asshole. Let me have it.

You seem to have redeemed yourself of these comments so I'll keep it short.

*She may have been married or in a long-term, loving relationship. If she was a single Mum, perhaps it's her own choice.She may have not had a kid and just figured out thatfrom her feelings about your personality,that if she said she had, she'd get more £ out of you. Strippers are actresses.
There is nothing wrong with being a single mum, and if you feel that there is-consider that there are many more single mums that aren't strippers, than those who are.
My Dad had the same attitude as you 'I would rather die than Sugarmouse became a stripper. I still did. Your initial attitude makes me hope that she does. With your genetics, she'll likely be very pretty, and if she's anything as bright as you (I'll leave it at that ) :p
EVERYONE, has all *their* hair.


Okay, first of all, all the "passion" and lust you had with this dancer I'm sure at one point you must have had for your wife.
You say your wife is, "not very adventurous" in bed. Do you ever wonder why? She's a mother and a wife and has been married to you for a long time. I guarantee you SHE is busy, tired, maybe even a little bored with YOU. Maybe instead of spending money on dancers, you should invest in counseling, or a little vacation with your wife.

Also, I agree with Simone87. You definitely sound very snobby. You automatically assume that the dancer you met was a single mom. A LOT of dancers are married, or in relationships. Why? Because there are men out there who dont categorize us based on stereotypes. I think its terrible you basically say that you could cheat on your wife with this dancer but would NEVER leave your wife for her. I get the feeling you definitely look down on girls in our industry.

I really love how you also assume stuff about us all having daddy issues and fathers who disappointed us. I hate when people assume that!

Bottom line-what does it matter if you had a connection? You answered your own question up there ^^. Would you leave your wife for her? "God no", "not that she would be inherently worthy"......
Personally, my Dad is a bit of an ass, yes.But it is still wrong to assume that's WHY I became a stripper. I don't think it was, who knows-who could EVER know.Also at 21 my boyfriend was 40. Because I was attracted more to older men, so I guess I'm a bit of an exception or just here to chuck in a slice of the devil's advocate lol -great post SP, my reply is obviously aimed at the OP.


Agreed, but most guys who can't decide between a Fender and a Gibson have a tendency to over think...8)
Hahaha :p


Duuuuude! You were doomed from the moment she saw that money clip! Never, I repeat, NEVER flash your wad in front of a dancer. Singles in one pocket, $20's in another!
As above.

Okay you seem to have redeemed yourself as I said. I will look into the book you recommended as I need a new read. My major is psychology/sociology.
I agree with the note that if you both had a great time and got what you wanted, where's the issue.
I hope you get your marriage sorted out! xx

fendergibson99
11-06-2013, 04:33 AM
My Dad had the same attitude as you 'I would rather die than Sugarmouse became a stripper. I still did. Your initial attitude makes me hope that she does. With your genetics, she'll likely be very pretty, and if she's anything as bright as you (I'll leave it at that ) :p

Well, she does take dance classes... :)

Listen, it's a cliche, but ultimately what I want for her is to be healthy and happy. I will be there for her no matter what until the day I die. I just want her to be a strong, independent woman who makes her own choices and doesn't take bullshit from anyone. I think a stripper has to deal with a lot of jerks, but then again, so do women in all professions.

OliveJardin
11-06-2013, 10:59 AM
I just want her to be a strong, independent woman who makes her own choices and doesn't take bullshit from anyone.

^I'm sure you mean that positively, but it does sound very "stripper-ish" IMO ::).

Jasmine.Doll
11-06-2013, 11:48 AM
Dealing with bullshit is an inevitable part of life, for every human being on earth. Whether its getting you ass pinched at a SC or being denied a much desearved promotion at Goldman and Sachs b/c your boss's unqualified son in law was given the job. Everyone has to take on tons of bullshit. It's how you handle the BS that matters. If you let assholes make you feel like crap and mess with your head, that's no good. But if you know who you are, value who you are and don't let other people's issues become your own, then all the BS isn't such a big deal... (Unless that BS involves getting beaten or shot or something..)

Anyway, you gotta raise your daughter under the assumption that she's going to be faced with all kinds of bullshit treatments. You can't keep her in a bubble or eliminate all the crap she will face in life. You can only prepare her to face it, head on and work through it while maintaining her integrity. That's what my parents taught me. I don't think they realized I would apply those skills/attitudes/whatever for stripping, but it's a universal lesson.

Vamp
11-06-2013, 12:18 PM
The book is called "The Honest Truth about Dishonesty" and it is by an Israeli psychologist who is a well-regarded professor at Duke University named Dan Ariely. He actually was burned over 75% of his body as a teenager and is a very wise and inspirational person.

Regardless of whether you read this book or have any interest in this topic whatsoever, please consider this my attempt at a peace offering. And if you do end up reading the book, I hope it is enjoyable and/or helpful to you.

http://www.amazon.com/Honest-Truth-About-Dishonesty-Everyone--Especially/dp/0062183613/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1383555611




Here is a book that might enlighten you about this experience as well .... The Art of Seduction by Robert Green (http://www.amazon.com/The-Art-Seduction-Robert-Greene/dp/1861977697/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1383765332&sr=8-2&keywords=seduction)

It is an extremely well written book about the history, art, and ways of seduction. If you are very observant, it may also point you to why you fell for it.

fendergibson99
11-06-2013, 12:56 PM
^I'm sure you mean that positively, but it does sound very "stripper-ish" IMO ::).

I'm not sure I understand what you mean by "stripperish."

fendergibson99
11-06-2013, 01:03 PM
Here is a book that might enlighten you about this experience as well .... The Art of Seduction by Robert Green (http://www.amazon.com/The-Art-Seduction-Robert-Greene/dp/1861977697/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1383765332&sr=8-2&keywords=seduction)

Sounds really interesting! Thanks, I'll definitely be checking that one out.

fendergibson99
11-06-2013, 01:05 PM
Dealing with bullshit is an inevitable part of life, for every human being on earth. Whether its getting you ass pinched at a SC or being denied a much desearved promotion at Goldman and Sachs b/c your boss's unqualified son in law was given the job. Everyone has to take on tons of bullshit. It's how you handle the BS that matters. If you let assholes make you feel like crap and mess with your head, that's no good. But if you know who you are, value who you are and don't let other people's issues become your own, then all the BS isn't such a big deal... (Unless that BS involves getting beaten or shot or something..)

Anyway, you gotta raise your daughter under the assumption that she's going to be faced with all kinds of bullshit treatments. You can't keep her in a bubble or eliminate all the crap she will face in life. You can only prepare her to face it, head on and work through it while maintaining her integrity. That's what my parents taught me. I don't think they realized I would apply those skills/attitudes/whatever for stripping, but it's a universal lesson.

Well said. You obviously have your shit together.

Etain_
11-09-2013, 04:47 AM
Why not take the money ($300) you budgeted for the club, and spend it on a cleaning person to give your wife a break, a babysitter, an nice mani/pedi for her, and then a few drinks and apps together at a quiet place where you can talk?

You seem unhappy with your sex life with your wife. You need to give in order to get. If connection and intimacy are so important to you, you are more likely to get that at home by being extra nice to your wife.

Of course, if you just want to see other beautiful women nude, than the club makes sense!!

lynn2009
11-10-2013, 03:52 PM
Not to mention, when I first started stripping I would joke that it felt like more respect at the club than at my professional day job. started as a joke, but there is a lot of truth to it.

Vackra
11-10-2013, 05:08 PM
Girls who make out with customers disgust me.

Nina_
11-10-2013, 05:48 PM
Girls who make out with customers disgust me.

Lol I remember a time when there was this guy who'd come into a club I used to work. He had one dancer who was kind of his current fave until he met me. He left the table he was sitting at w/her and told me he wanted to get dances after he talks to her, since he didn't want to be rude to a girl he'd talked to and gotten dances from. So after he returned to the table and sat with her she obviously sensed that was going to 'lose' him so next thing I know I look over and she's just making out with them. Right there out in the open. I couldn't believe how stupid and desperate she looked... just... wow. And this girl had a boyfriend too. If she's going to make out with a guy out on the floor, imagine what she does in the vip.

sman1109
11-10-2013, 07:10 PM
Interesting detail of my experience which I completely overlooked at first: I use a money clip, not a wallet. When I first started talking to the woman I bought her a drink. I had 15 crisp $20 bills fresh from the ATM, and of course I took out the whole wad to pay for the drink! If I had just thought about that I could have avoided the need for this whole thread...

Money was a reason, but I think you had a chance to marry the stripper and divorce your wife if that was something you wanted to explore. Many young women find middle aged professionals very attractive, somewhat for the security they can provide and other because a married man is very handsome in a psychological way.

But if you threw away the number then good luck with your marriage, and try to stay way from the clubs and do the counseling as everyone suggested. Thanks for the story I can relate to it.

Jasmine.Doll
11-10-2013, 07:21 PM
Money was a reason, but I think you had a chance to marry the stripper and divorce your wife if that was something you wanted to explore. Many young women find middle aged professionals very attractive, somewhat for the security they can provide and other because a married man is very handsome in a psychological way.


What?!? So, we all agree the chick made out with him for $. How did we jump to "maybe the stripper will marry him?" You say that young women want to be with middle aged guys for security (aka $)? So you think OP should switch out the mother of his children for a gold digger? How is a married guy who makes out with strippers for cash "handsome in a phychological way?"

I think I missed something...

sman1109
11-10-2013, 07:26 PM
What?!? So, we all agree the chick made out with him for $. How did we jump to "maybe the stripper will marry him." You say that young women want to be with middle aged guys for security (aka $)? So you think OP should switch out the mother of his children for a gold digger? How is hooking up with a married guy who makes out with strippers for cash "handsome in a phychological way?"

I think I missed something...

I think he should do whatever makes him happy, I'll just leave it at that because I don't want to get into a heated debate as this subject is sensitive. Sorry for the inconvenience.

Jasmine.Doll
11-10-2013, 07:35 PM
I didn't mean to make you feel defensive. I was just genuinely confused by the logic if your statement....

safado
11-10-2013, 07:40 PM
Money was a reason, but I think you had a chance to marry the stripper and divorce your wife if that was something you wanted to explore. Many young women find middle aged professionals very attractive, somewhat for the security they can provide and other because a married man is very handsome in a psychological way.

But if you threw away the number then good luck with your marriage, and try to stay way from the clubs and do the counseling as everyone suggested. Thanks for the story I can relate to it.

Seeing that your ribbon is pink I am going to assume that middle aged men get you wet.

Jasmine.Doll
11-10-2013, 07:44 PM
I'm changing my recent position. If OP still has the number, I think he should call up that little cold sore spreading, sexpot and propose. I'm sure they will live happily ever after...

itzi_bitzi_mitzi
11-11-2013, 11:42 AM
Babe, when I'm in a VIP ROOM, in PRIVATE (not a nasty ass corner of the club!) customers try to kiss me all the time. It's nothing to them, but when I refuse to let them, they get upset. Until I explain to him just how unsanitary that practice really is. Point being: if a girl lets you shove your tongue down her throat for "X" amount of money, how many other guys do you think she let do the same (or WORSE) before you came along? I don't know about you, but I don't want sloppy 23rds. Guys usually relent once I explain that. You should have been more considerate of your family, as well. You don't need to bring MONO or Herpes back to your wife and kids because some dancer was sticking her tongue so far down your throat she could reach your wallet. I'm not trying to make you feel like shit, I'm just being real.

*ladies, what you chose to do to make your money is your prerogative. I do not judge you. This just isn't my thing. RESPECT! :)

SweetJulia
11-11-2013, 07:10 PM
Hate to sound cruel, but she's a very good-and desperate-entertainer. While I never made out with a customer, I definitely pulled the whole "I feel a special connection with you, you're different from the others" line of shit, word for word, with numerous customers. Try telling her you're having money problems when you see her next and see if she doesn't take off at the speed of light.

EyesWideShut
11-11-2013, 07:56 PM
What I find strange about this story is that this stripper made-out with a customer - a new one at that - for 40 mins.
That is club activity that I have never witnessed or heard of before, and I have spent a lot of time in many clubs in the past.
I've had a lot of private dances, and never once did a stripper ever kiss me on the mouth. They did just about everything else though.
Its been a few years, so maybe things have changed.

It seems easier for women in this business to do anything physically with a customer, but kissing seems to be way out of bounds.
Even prostitutes (or sex-workers, if you prefer) typically will not kiss customers that much, if at all.
I had a girlfriend that would have sex with me on a regular basis, but would not kiss me. And NO I was not paying her.
She said she could only kiss someone if she was in love. No biggie there. Lots of people in sexual relationships are not in love.
I'm convinced she was a hooker in the past for many reasons I won't go into.

I'm not suggesting that the girl in this story was truly interested in this guy, but it is a very surprising account.

yoda57us
11-11-2013, 08:00 PM
Name calling, from either male of female members, will not be tolerated in this section. If you can't make your point without resorting to insults it may be best to just move on. I don't have time to edit out the bad words so offensive posts will simply be deleted. Going forward, warnings and/or moderation points will be issued to anyone who violates this policy.

Thank you all for your anticipated cooperation.

fendergibson99
11-11-2013, 08:02 PM
I'm convinced she was a hooker in the past for many reasons I won't go into.

Please elaborate.

Jasmine.Doll
11-11-2013, 08:08 PM
Even prostitutes (or sex-workers, if you prefer) typically will not kiss customers that much, if at all.


How do you know this? Did you watch Pretty Woman?

I'm joking. But I wish I shared your experience and didn't see strippers sucking face in the strip clubs, these days. Unfortunately, I see it a lot. I've worked all over the country and have seen it in high end clubs, in dives, occasionally on stages. It's annoying. A lot of guys seem genuinely surprised when u refuse to make out with them. They think its really innocent, way more innocent than a BJ or whatever. But I think it's gross. And extremely unhygienic.

Aurora_Sunset
11-11-2013, 08:08 PM
It seems easier for women in this business to do anything physically with a customer, but kissing seems to be way out of bounds.
Even prostitutes (or sex-workers, if you prefer) typically will not kiss customers that much, if at all.


lol, where are you getting this from? Pretty Woman? I've never met a prostitute IRL who had this "rule" because it was oh-so-much-more-"intimate" to kiss than fuck... lol I mean, really? I feel like the whole "hookers don't kiss" thing is such an urban legend.

Jasmine.Doll
11-11-2013, 08:10 PM
Ha!! Pretty Woman! Exactly what I was thinking!!

Aurora_Sunset
11-11-2013, 08:10 PM
Haha I saw that right after I posted!

tuesdaymarie
11-11-2013, 08:18 PM
Re: kissing, a lot of girls I've worked with do it. Every damn night at my last club, I'd see ol' Venus with her tongue down some clueless bastard's throat. She'd start out with short pecks after they'd tip her on stage, then she'd progress to making out with them. I'm not even sure I ever saw her do a lap dance. She just straddled and started sucking face. She even had women believing they were going to meet up and go for dates over the weekend. Almost every night, there would be some guy sitting at the bar at closing time. The lights would come on, and managers would shoo customers to the parking lot. There was usually that guy though sitting at the bar as though he had all the time in the world while we waited behind a curtain a few feet away. And every damn time, a manager would have to ask him to leave, and the poor bastard would say, "Oh, no, it's okay. I'm waiting for Venus!" And Venus would snicker as he was tossed out. This girl was missing teeth and had a gut, but she knew how to make customers, men and women alike, feel as though they were soul mates. As she liked to ominously slur between shots: this wasn't her first fuckin' rodeo.

simone87
11-11-2013, 08:20 PM
this is a common myth believed by many men made popular by..yes, pretty woman! i thought the same thing when i saw it haha, which is why its a hustle that works well for a lot of girls to make it feel more like a "connection" and more emotionally intimate and all that crap. i personally have a huge aversion to swapping saliva with customers but i guess it fools a lot of men..obviously..

safado
11-11-2013, 08:24 PM
Please elaborate.

Nice choice of an avatar! lol

whirlerz
11-11-2013, 08:30 PM
This thread gets more train-wreck-ish by the day::)

EyesWideShut
11-11-2013, 08:32 PM
Ok I stand corrected on the club-kissing issue. That is why I posted. It was news to me - and no, I didn't get the idea from Pretty Woman. I have fallen prey to the urban legend.

@moderater Was your post regarding the insult directed to my post? What? The word prostitute? Its a real word with wide ranging applications - even beyond the sex industry.
Who is being thin skinned now?

Jasmine.Doll
11-11-2013, 08:34 PM
This thread gets more train-wreck-ish by the day::)

I feel like every time it takes one step forward, it takes 5 steps back...

Jasmine.Doll
11-11-2013, 08:39 PM
And EyesWide, I don't want to speak for Yoda, but I think it's pretty clear he was not chastising you... So don't insult his skin thickness.

whirlerz
11-11-2013, 08:59 PM
@moderater Was your post regarding the insult directed to my post? What? The word prostitute? Its a real word with wide ranging applications - even beyond the sex industry.
Who is being thin skinned now?

O, Jeez, really::)^?