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Glamourmilf
08-18-2016, 09:11 AM
My sister if ruining my life and my sons life for no reason. I fucking hate her. She's decided to go completely kooky in her divorce and move in with my parents and then make it such a hateful, nasty, hostile environment for my son and I (seriously, my son won't step on flowers and he cries over furby abuse..and she's trying to say he's this wicked horrible child, yeah ok). Try getting a call from your mother saying she can't have you or your kid over as long as your sisters there for your own protection.
Thanks so much for further isolating me while pregnant of all times , you warmed over sack of dog shit. I just can't believe somebody who I thought was family is doing this to me. I have 0 friends in this state and I need my family, my son is very close with my mother. She's so done.

I can relate. My one and only sister has caused so many problems for me since the day I was born. Like really serious, life threatening problems. When people ask about her, I'm going to start saying that she's dead.
Or with new people who ask, I'm just going to say no, I don't have any sisters.

absolutelyadorable
08-18-2016, 10:13 AM
My sisters car is making a sound, so she takes my car to work and I take her car to a mechanic after my work. I build and fix computers, I maintain office computer networks and help people with software problems. I'm not stupid, I just don't know anything about cars. So I'm patiently giving the mechanic run-down of the problem and a couple of other grease monkeys gather around to listen in too. I then the mechanic says in serious tone "Have you checked the head-light fluid level?" I say in a confused voice "Head-light fluid?" The other guys break into a snicker. I could feel my face flush. They had me pegged as dumbass they could mess with. I turned left without saying anything and I didn't care that I was rude. I wish I could report them to somebody.

What a douche........

DonaDiabla
08-18-2016, 06:18 PM
People who follow you and unfollow on Instagram within the same hour. Maybe you should look at the profile before following someone? :)

whirlerz
08-18-2016, 06:23 PM
Someone was sayin' about kids not covering mouth when coughing, this witch comes down the hall hacking away not even trying to cover, & she's an adult!

whirlerz
08-18-2016, 06:28 PM
Rabbit & Glam, my so called sis tried to have me arrested, stole 3k frm my Mom, & told she 'forgot' she gave it to her. I always say I'm an only child

KaraLynn
08-18-2016, 11:36 PM
Daiya

Yep. Daiya cheese is awesome. It's REALLY hard to find a good vegan cheese. Sadly, it's one of the reasons I'm still vegetarian and not full on vegan yet lol

KaraLynn
08-18-2016, 11:37 PM
Why am I so drained lately? :/

whirlerz
08-19-2016, 03:34 PM
The heat?^¡^

Anywayso old rants here:
1.Sick to death of my hotel, [email protected] its best, of which it is NOT.
I mean I can barely get online..16 rooms of ppl, most have 2 -4 per rm, & my hotspot isn't working either, & despite many emails inquiring, (of course no phone # for them). Sent them a semi threatening email (but polite) saying they need to fix it or give some $ back..
Also, sick of kids running above my floor late night, loud voices outside & in the halls, & disgusting garbage left around, (not hsekeeping's fault)

2. The sd, tells me he gave his cousin $1,500.00 (she has 2cars & a shopping addiction) yea, his $ but I ran around for 2 wks w hardly any gas, food, etc
His aunt lives an hr away, they've gone gambling twice the past 2 wks..wht/ev I gotta start making a plan.
And, most of all, I despise how he thinks Im gonna keep seeing him forever..he made a remark about my former residence, I can tell he *enjoys* my difficult situation >:(
So yea, lots to think about sorry so long. :(

whirlerz
08-19-2016, 03:56 PM
Also, (ph won't let me edit) Mercury retrograde starts 8/30

absolutelyadorable
08-19-2016, 06:41 PM
Also, (ph won't let me edit) Mercury retrograde starts 8/30

smh thanks for the heads up..........at least this time I can prepare myself for the fuckery lol

Aurora_Sunset
08-19-2016, 10:08 PM
Long story short, this guy that I spent one evening with is getting over-the-top clingy right off the bat. I had a 12 hour drive home today and, at 1 in the morning, after all this, he asks if I'll be up for another hour or 2. When I said hell no, he was like "Ok, guess I'll just sleep in my car at the truck stop then..."

Like... ok... yeah, I guess you will... I didn't invite your ass over tonight. I didn't say I'd have a place for you sleep at 2am. I have my own shit going on tonight, dude. Why are you out and about wandering around truck stops? Sounds like not my problem...

miss.a.p1600
08-20-2016, 04:37 AM
Someone was sayin' about kids not covering mouth when coughing, this witch comes down the hall hacking away not even trying to cover, & she's an adult!

Ugh! So gross! It's like if people want to be nasty I have no problem being full on OCD by moving far away from them and even giving them a look of disgust - I can't hide my facial expressions in moments like this.

A lot of people are clueless or just don't gaf about spreading their pathogens.

Ain't nobody got time to catch contagious airborne diseases.

Glamourmilf
08-20-2016, 06:50 AM
Long story short, this guy that I spent one evening with is getting over-the-top clingy right off the bat. I had a 12 hour drive home today and, at 1 in the morning, after all this, he asks if I'll be up for another hour or 2. When I said hell no, he was like "Ok, guess I'll just sleep in my car at the truck stop then..."

Like... ok... yeah, I guess you will... I didn't invite your ass over tonight. I didn't say I'd have a place for you sleep at 2am. I have my own shit going on tonight, dude. Why are you out and about wandering around truck stops? Sounds like not my problem...

Ugh! Clingy guys. I have only been on dating sites for a little over a month , and that's ALL I've been getting.
Idk. I haven't dated in a long ass time, so is this the normal behavior?
It's like a sense of urgency I get from guys, like , it better be now or never.
Such a turnoff.
It's a shame. I used to love dating.

Aurora_Sunset
08-20-2016, 07:07 AM
Ugh! Clingy guys. I have only been on dating sites for a little over a month , and that's ALL I've been getting.
Idk. I haven't dated in a long ass time, so is this the normal behavior?
It's like a sense of urgency I get from guys, like , it better be now or never.
Such a turnoff.
It's a shame. I used to love dating.

Seriously. This is someone I've technically "known" for a few months cuz he was in my EMT class, but that's not really the same as actually knowing someone and hanging out outside of class. Last Friday was literally the first time we actually hung out and was the very very beginning of a "hey, we like each other, let's keep hanging out" type thing. Nothing happened. We didn't even kiss. We hung out one night, I left town for the week, and within 3 days of me being gone, he basically texted me asking me to be his dedicated, longterm girlfriend, and "not wanting me to share my bed with any other guy." Like, I'm not even sharing my bed with you yet, dude! Wtf? I kept telling him we'd have this discussion in person when I got back, but he just won't back the fuck off.

That's not even all of it. I won't be able to adequately explain the other weirdness until I actually talk to him.

I have so much shit to do tonight, but I think I have to have him over at least around dinnertime just to get this "talk" out of the way, tell him I'm not the commitment he's looking for, and fucking end it. It's too damn much in too little amount of time.

I tried telling my friend this when he first brought up the subject, and she was all like "oh, I think it's sweet. He wants to know if you're on the same page. Guys move fast when they like someone." Like, no.... I know that guys move fast. But "be my exclusive, longterm girlfriend who responds to my texts instantly every day" after literally ONE night of fairly-platonic hanging out? That is not normal.

miss.a.p1600
08-20-2016, 07:09 AM
^^^yes girl. Apparently there are a lot of ain't sh*t women (and men) on there so if you're halfway decent looking and have something going for yourself - you will stand out and dudes will cling lol! Also they're probably horny and either too cheap or too scary to procure an escort - so they cling in hopes of getting some p*ssy.

Idk. My experience is limited and the one dude I met off there turned out to be a stage 4 clinger. I have yet to get the courage to ditch him. FML!!!

I'm sure there are some good dudes on there (I know quite a few people that have met and married that way) just gotta sift through and stay patient and optimistic. Don't let those f*ckers ruin your dating experience.

whirlerz
08-20-2016, 10:26 AM
I don't get this^..why can't you just tell him you don't want to be w/him/found someone else wh/ev? So you gotta have an albatross around your neck just cause?
Believe me, if the sitch were reveresed, he'd have no probs getting lost.

absolutelyadorable
08-20-2016, 12:12 PM
Ugh! Clingy guys. I have only been on dating sites for a little over a month , and that's ALL I've been getting.
Idk. I haven't dated in a long ass time, so is this the normal behavior?
It's like a sense of urgency I get from guys, like , it better be now or never.
Such a turnoff.
It's a shame. I used to love dating.


Lmao smh someone once posted on my fb timeline: nobody falls in love faster than a dude that needs a place to stay. I really feel like this is one of the biggest reasons! Glammy I remembered that guy you hung up on that had been living with his gf for 8 years and said she was a total bitch.......I think that quote applies here bahahahah

absolutelyadorable
08-20-2016, 12:15 PM
Believe me, if the sitch were reveresed, he'd have no probs getting lost.

And this too! If the shoe were on the other foot, she'd be the crazy psycho stalker bitch. Lol. I'd suggest doing like most men would do and go ghost. He'll get the hint.

miss.a.p1600
08-20-2016, 12:24 PM
I don't get this^..why can't you just tell him you don't want to be w/him/found someone else wh/ev? So you gotta have an albatross around your neck just cause?
Believe me, if the sitch were reveresed, he'd have no probs getting lost.

I know. My mind is not in the right space and I'm having a harder time than I thought. I know I need to have "the talk" I'm trying to figure the right time. Ugh!!!!!! FML!

I'm staring at this dude across the restaurant and trying not to get caught cause he's with his wife or gf. He is so hot and his muscles popping out this short sleeve shirt. Mmmmmmm.

*sigh* yeah I'm not satisfied and I wish I had a dude hot like that.

Idk maybe I just need to be single, get ridiculously rich, and hire men of the night.

Glamourmilf
08-20-2016, 01:11 PM
Lmao smh someone once posted on my fb timeline: nobody falls in love faster than a dude that needs a place to stay. I really feel like this is one of the biggest reasons! Glammy I remembered that guy you hung up on that had been living with his gf for 8 years and said she was a total bitch.......I think that quote applies here bahahahah

You know, I think you might be on to something. That, Or in my case, because of where I live, (a green card). I finally had to put on my profile~NO HISPANICS! Lol!
Then, of course, all the Hispanics are messaging me as to why?
I just answer with, "Because You're brining crime, raping, ...etc." (you know the speech). LOL!

miss.a.p1600
08-20-2016, 10:23 PM
Well. I'm done with that dude.

I guess I had to reach my last straw - him starting another argument with me over texting him 50 min later (apparently not fast enough for him) and criticizing me [email protected] near daily. Don't have time for insecure "men" who nag over petty sh*t.

Should have ghosted his a$$ 7/17 page 189 of petty annoyance, when my gut and Megan trainor song told me to do so. Thanks for tips on how to end in life support. He really only deserved ghosting.

I'm over it. Blocked his a$$ permanently.

Aurora_Sunset
08-21-2016, 07:01 AM
Well. I'm done with that dude.

I guess I had to reach my last straw - him starting another argument with me over texting him 50 min later (apparently not fast enough for him) and criticizing me [email protected] near daily. Don't have time for insecure "men" who nag over petty sh*t.

Should have ghosted his a$$ 7/17 page 189 of petty annoyance, when my gut and Megan trainor song told me to do so. Thanks for tips on how to end in life support. He really only deserved ghosting.

I'm over it. Blocked his a$$ permanently.

So happy you're free of that asshole! On to dating sexier, better men!

Aurora_Sunset
08-21-2016, 07:11 AM
This guy was all like "Oh I meant to stop at the gas station." When I assured him I had condoms, he was like "You probably don't have my size." Oh ho ho? Ok. I assured him I probably did. I keep several sizes.

Dude was completely average. In every way. I was just like 'hmm, whatever' and slapped a regular condom on him. It worked just fine. As he was taking it off at the end, he started complaining that it had been "too small." LOL, dude are you kidding me? When I say completely average, I mean completely average. There wasn't even anything funny about the girth. In fact, compared to a lot of dicks I've seen, it was on the "smaller" side. Compared to what the "national average" is supposed to be, his dick could've been the textbook dick. His dick would've gotten lost in a lineup of other dicks. That's how fucking average it was.

And he's lying there complaining that the condoms that I use on dicks 3-4 inches longer and far thicker than his is "too damn small."

45729

JessaJade
08-21-2016, 07:24 AM
^Too funny!

miss.a.p1600
08-21-2016, 07:27 AM
^^^thank you. That means a lot.

Like even though it wasn't like years of husband wife kinda thing I still feel sad and disappointed because every time it ends soon it means I didn't pick wisely and I'm still getting caught up in flings and that's not what I want.

Nothing I did was ever enough I had to constantly prove I liked him while he was constantly nagging me about what I was doing wrong in a relationship.

The error I made was, at his request, not dating other people at same time like i wanted (so I could chose the best candidate) and instead got stuck with him. And also not leaving, for good, when I meant it the first time. And giving him multiple chances when he didn't deserve them.

Well Whatever. I'll be over it tomorrow lol. until then .... I'll be ranting over in the exes thread. And after that I'm moving forward only. Getting money first THEN I'll consider real love.

wish
08-21-2016, 11:10 AM
Yesterday I massaged 2 big ass stone like people for a hour and a half each and they left me $10 each. Not to mention that I heard my elbow pop during and now I'm at work in a lot of pain.

carmen_b
08-21-2016, 01:04 PM
^ ugh
On a 90 minute ? Is this legitimate massage v.s. AMP ? Either way, they should have left more than $10. What the hell ?
I'm doing the massage thing, but it's almost impossible for me to do more than one session a day. ;/
Look up Thai techniques for the glutes / lower legs. I spend like 15 minutes of each session just using my knee's with my back completely straight ( kneeling position with a totally straight back ) on anyone who is bigger than me . You can reach up too while you do this stretching you own back out or swing your arms while you do this to stretch your own body.

wish
08-21-2016, 01:17 PM
^ ugh
On a 90 minute ? Is this legitimate massage v.s. AMP ? Either way, they should have left more than $10. What the hell ?
I'm doing the massage thing, but it's almost impossible for me to do more than one session a day. ;/
Look up Thai techniques for the glutes / lower legs. I spend like 15 minutes of each session just using my knee's with my back completely straight ( kneeling position with a totally straight back ) on anyone who is bigger than me . You can reach up too while you do this stretching you own back out or swing your arms while you do this to stretch your own body.

It's legit massage. Mostly Swedish. I'm a bigger girl myself so I can't get on the table with the client but I deserved way more than a 10 spot. Now I keep telling them (front desk) my arms hurt I might really be hurt and they scheduled me a massage anyway. Smh. Workers comp anyone?

carmen_b
08-21-2016, 01:27 PM
^ Gotcha.
Bend their leg in ( when they are mid massage and just have faced up ) to create a spot to sit on the table with them while you are doing their legs. You can stay seated at least 11-15 minutes of it that way and catch your breath. The key is to learn tricks to stay on your butt or kneeling at least half the session. I hope that helps somewhat. I used to get so worn out before a couple girls showed me their tricks.

wish
08-21-2016, 04:00 PM
^ Gotcha.
Bend their leg in ( when they are mid massage and just have faced up ) to create a spot to sit on the table with them while you are doing their legs. You can stay seated at least 11-15 minutes of it that way and catch your breath. The key is to learn tricks to stay on your butt or kneeling at least half the session. I hope that helps somewhat. I used to get so worn out before a couple girls showed me their tricks.

Ooooh. I was thinking you meant forme to get on top of the table with the client when I read Thai. I just looked up Thai massage on YouTube and some adult stuff came up but I understand now. You're right practicing good body macanics and sitting should keep in business a while longer.

Aurora_Sunset
08-22-2016, 05:12 AM
I hate when local guys insist on outcalls to weird locations, like complicated layout, key-card-access communities where they're all paranoid about "Blend in! I KNOW people here!" (As though I normally show up in my tanktop that says 'Whore' and thigh high boots because I lack any common sense or discretion...) And it turns into this covert operation to meet me in the parking lot and act like old friends as we go inside and blah blah blah... Ya know, I have a perfectly good, secluded apartment that's easy to get to and my neighbors don't give a fuck about me. If outcall is going to be so complicated, just come over! The drive is not that bad.

whirlerz
08-22-2016, 08:16 AM
LOL^! I KNOW you totally show up like Julia Roberts in "Pretty Woman", those patent leather thigh high's..::)

Ok, so last night I was going to audition, my allergies bother me so I took a generic Benedryl..
Kids loud, roaming the halls, screaming & laughing
Awakend @ 3am b/c of the ignorant fucks that have taken over..loud drunken yelling (inside & out) pounding on doors..>:(
Also before that, kid running, running upstairs. Yes, I called the front desk, about both thing the running (mostly not entirely) stopped.
I like it here, but I guess I gotta think about leaving. I just barely got in my new storage pl
Headaches & nervous all the time, btw NO security cameras
Edit: Calling cops doesn't work, by the time they get here, they're gone. Yes, I've been to this rodeo before.
I mean, I could run out there, pretend to call the cops & scare 'em, but they're drunk as hell, maybe they'd try some shit so no:-\

carmen_b
08-22-2016, 09:18 AM
OMG .
hahahah I could write a novel on this but the nutshell is basically that I only go to high end hotels because of the lack of speed in these types of bookings.
I just always want to point out that the solution is probably MOVING if it's such a production to have a pretty girl over for an hour or two.

I hate when local guys insist on outcalls to weird locations, like complicated layout, key-card-access communities where they're all paranoid about "Blend in! I KNOW people here!" (As though I normally show up in my tanktop that says 'Whore' and thigh high boots because I lack any common sense or discretion...) And it turns into this covert operation to meet me in the parking lot and act like old friends as we go inside and blah blah blah... Ya know, I have a perfectly good, secluded apartment that's easy to get to and my neighbors don't give a fuck about me. If outcall is going to be so complicated, just come over! The drive is not that bad.

carmen_b
08-22-2016, 09:23 AM
Ah bummer, whirlerz , I was going to suggest calling the cops and reporting a loud party or domestic abuse to get the point across that noise isn't acceptable but it sounds like you've tried it.
( as a side note, the closest I've been lately to a crazy cat flight was with two loud girls in a hotel corridor where I told them to shut the hell up or get moving so I didn't have to hear them in my room )

whirlerz
08-22-2016, 09:33 AM
Thanks, Carmen.. the mgr doesn't care either, I knew she wouldn't, too mch $
So yea 4 more days& counting here
Ppl just don't GAF
& one of the clan just came down by the breakfast bar, she's all Good Morning::) like nothing's ever happened >:(

baer45
08-22-2016, 10:32 AM
I hate when local guys insist on outcalls to weird locations, like complicated layout, key-card-access communities where they're all paranoid about "Blend in! I KNOW people here!" (As though I normally show up in my tanktop that says 'Whore' and thigh high boots because I lack any common sense or discretion...) And it turns into this covert operation to meet me in the parking lot and act like old friends as we go inside and blah blah blah... Ya know, I have a perfectly good, secluded apartment that's easy to get to and my neighbors don't give a fuck about me. If outcall is going to be so complicated, just come over! The drive is not that bad.

I won't give my address to anyone I have not seen before or someone who seems creepy. I also don't do outcalls to cheap hotels/motels. If you don't stay at a relative "expensive" hotel, you certainly can't afford me.
Some of the high end hotels do require the room key to operate the elevator and other facilities. What I would do usualy is to meet the guy at close by coffee place, in that case I can screen him in person and also get the room key. I won't walk in the hotel with the guy though.

whirlerz
08-22-2016, 04:57 PM
My stomach's upset, I just ate some white rice & chicken cause I was hungry.
The pounding (it's pounding now) continues upstairs..I talked to this nice lady @ the front desk she texted the mgr to see if I could move. She gave me a key to a room upstairs, (3rd fl) to look @ it. No one above me

miss.a.p1600
08-22-2016, 08:16 PM
I really wish I had some weed and wine right now.

Got on match to try to get over this dude, checked out the chat to see who was online now, and bam there his monkey ass is. FML!!! Seriously f*cker???

WHY WHY WHY can't we block people on match like we can on Facebook? *sigh* Well I guess Ill have to block him out mentally and go on late night when I know he won't be there.

lynn2009
08-22-2016, 08:22 PM
So I bought size zero jeans in May and now even those are too loose on me. I would love to go back to my gastroenterologist, who I emailed several weeks ago and told me to make another appointment, but I can't because of bullshit fucking union health insurance. It's changing from my baller PPO to a shitty HMO so before I go back to this doctor who told me to see her I have wait for crap in the mail, pick a GP, wait a million weeks to see the GP, get a referral and then finally see my gastroenterologist. FFS.

whirlerz
08-22-2016, 09:07 PM
Omg, that Suks, Lynn^!
I see a gastro, I've great insurance but it's only avail in IL & GA right now
Hope you can get thru the red tape & see her sooner rather than later

Me: Omg, these ignorant mofos upstairs, dropping shit, running..
I am not staying here
Taking enormous will not to pound the fuck out the ceiling>:(

whirlerz
08-23-2016, 10:44 PM
Well, I've had to call the front desk like 5X's already, w /loud people in the hallway. So, that settles it, I have to gtfo out of here. Really pissed/upset right now

carmen_b
08-24-2016, 06:29 AM
:(
I confirmed my schedule working long days today and tomorrow with my other job only to find out there is a convention in town starting today. 10,000 attendees . Pouting. :/
My outcall massage offerings can't start until 7:30pm and I would normally go ALL day when an event that size is in town. I'm working outside too and will be tired. Whah.
I am feeling SO bummed but I'm so new here, I don't think I can realistically ask for a swap.

EDIT : Yeah, I was too worn out to do any Outcalls which was a really bummer. ;/
I need to make sure I am free the whole weekend ( Fri . - Sun. ) to get at least some of this convention cash.
I guess I will just take this as an expensive lesson to review the convention calendar more carefully for next time .

rareaspasia
08-24-2016, 08:45 AM
Had to cancel our hotel reservations for our much needed vacation because we're probably going to get hit with a tropical storm. If it doesn't come through we're still going to go because there are a million hotels at this beach but I really liked THIS hotel, damn it. I hate uncertainty. I guess I'm living in the wrong state.

whirlerz
08-24-2016, 11:11 AM
No^. It's the big season right now, for hotels, getting into Labor Day. Trying to move myself & shit the dumps are charging 70.00!
Also, have you [email protected] Airbnb? When I was considering going down there, I sa some great deals, nice places too. Not like the shit we have in Chicago

So, my blood pressure's up, w/the no sleep, leadfoot upstairs, & general aggravation
I am getting my strip shoes overnight so hopefully can be in conditions to audition tomorrow

miss.a.p1600
08-24-2016, 04:12 PM
Suggested to dude I'd been chatting with that we could chat on phone. This a$$ is like text me at (insert phone number here). *sigh*. If you don't get the clue that I ain't doing these endless messaging then it going to be On to the next.

miss.a.p1600
08-24-2016, 05:54 PM
Feeling kind of sad and lonely and missing male affection. Stay strong. Stay strong. Stay strong. Must continue to ignore. Must find worthwhile activities to get my mind off this. [email protected] it!!! Fml!!!!!

JessaJade
08-24-2016, 11:33 PM
^Same here.

I can't be bothered with mediocre encounters. There's no one in my life worth spending time with and I don't have the mental energy to sift through piles of crap on dating sites. I've always been a 'leave it to chance' person with dating... but I'm getting frustrated.

I haven't bothered with Tinder for months but went on last night...had a chat with a guy who was good looking but quickly started asking intrusive rude questions while ignoring mine and giving nothing about himself...unmatched, felt angry, went to bed. I'm really sick of the behaviour of some of these idiots.

carmen_b
08-25-2016, 07:40 AM
^ i'd probably be single a long time if my partner and I split. It's so much nonsense to shift through online. I highly recommend the old school way. For me, I have to see and hear someone immediately to see if there is a spark. I think I'm getting even pickier lately and many men's voices irritate me ( over 50% ) , so sound is really important and that's left out in anything online .
I always revert to old school style picking up ( volunteering / getting jobs in regular bars to meet lots of men all at once ect. ) .
:/

We had a rabbit like you
08-25-2016, 09:19 AM
People want to see you trim and skinny, but don't want to be reminded that a lot of times it takes effort and discomfort to get that way. They all wanna see the naturally skinny girl wolfing down three cheesy pizzas. They grow uncomfortable when they see you munching salads and turning down desserts or seconds or pushing yourself at the gym..they want you to be effortlessly thin!
Same w plastic surgery..they want to see you w big perky boobs and will make fun of you for less than perfect tits but if you get a BA you're a shallow looks obsessed whore. There's no winning so fuck them

rareaspasia
08-25-2016, 09:33 AM
/\ God, yaass! I hate getting compliments from people that are out of shape too. Like, "I bet you eat whatever you want!" No, I work out and am really careful with my diet and rarely drink anymore. That's why I look the way I do. But they want it to be effortless because if it's not then they have to accept that being in shape usually takes a lot of hard work, not just luck, and that appearance is something you are responsible for. And I don't fat shame, I really don't. How I live is a personal choice and how they live is theirs. But I'm tired of people trying to involve me in these kinds of conversations because it's usually people trying to reassure themselves that being fit is unattainable so they feel better about themselves, not out of genuine interest in what I eat or how I work out.