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Selina M
09-02-2016, 12:34 AM
It is rude as fuck and socially inappropriate to hit on someone else's significant other. If you know they are in a relationship, back off. Seriously.

I get really irritated at girls like this because it's not cool. It's really hard to explain that it's not insecurity, it is literally "that is not polite and you need to mind your manners". If my exes try this nonsense, I tell them to knock it off for the same reason. It drives me bonkers when people don't respect other peoples relationships and commitments and try to stir up drama.

miss.a.p1600
09-02-2016, 06:38 AM
^^^i know how you feel. I was at a restaurant with that dude I was dating and the waitress was slick flirting with him right in front of my face. I could feel rage building up but I had to keep myself in check because that dude wasn't even my boyfriend. But deep down I wanted to snatch that hoes weave off and smack her in the eye with it. And then I wanted to take his protein power and shove it up his a$$.

Idiots!!!

Aurora_Sunset
09-02-2016, 07:24 AM
It is rude as fuck and socially inappropriate to hit on someone else's significant other. If you know they are in a relationship, back off. Seriously.

I get really irritated at girls like this because it's not cool. It's really hard to explain that it's not insecurity, it is literally "that is not polite and you need to mind your manners". If my exes try this nonsense, I tell them to knock it off for the same reason. It drives me bonkers when people don't respect other peoples relationships and commitments and try to stir up drama.

I wish I could thank this a thousand times!

It's rude as fuck. That was always my problem with my ex and his stupid ex-gf always being up his butt when she wouldn't even be in the same building as me. Everyone was always like "Oh, you have nothing to worry about. I'm sure nothing's going on. You're better than her." NO. I wasn't "jealous" or insecure or thought he would cheat with her. It's just fucking disrespectful. I cut off 3 different guy friends throughout that relationship when they would try to sleep with me or hit on me when they knew I had a boyfriend. You just don't do that. You respect other people's relationships.

JenniferNorth
09-02-2016, 08:34 AM
YES! ^ A million times! A couple years ago right when I first got preggo, this ho my husband had fucked (way back when I was still married to King D-Bag)-he didn't want a relationship, just wanted to fuck her after he broke up with his ex, mind you-had contacted on FB again. She added him AND HIS MOM. And his status clearly showed us as being in a relationship. This same ho wanted him to move out by her after he and ex broke up because (I was snooping through FB messages dated from forever ago) she had a crush on him. She was in the military and she even purposed marriage via FB because she would get extra money from the military or whatever for having a spouse. This continued on to 2011 until she finally got the picture it wasn't happening. So after all that, why would you add him and his mother on FB? Disrespectful as fuck. Now that we are married and have a kid, she hasn't said shit from what I have seen. Also, this ho is plain as fuck and even my husband told me she looks fermented in the face and he could never see himself with her.

Here's my pissy rant for the day. I took a cat in because I had seen it running around our complex. Very friendly but SO skinny/hungry. So I fed it, brought her in, made husband feel her because her nipples were showing and her tummy felt kinda hard, almost like she was preggo, but I couldn't feel kittens moving. Well after awhile she was yowling to go out. Husband was worried the babies would die, so we took her out. She kind of putzed around. Saw a neighborhood kid walk home, open the sliding door to their first floor apt, and she went to the door. Scratched at it. And they let her in! OK first off, if that is their cat, they should be ASHAMED! Seriously scrawny, out wandering where other dogs/racoons could get her. OMFG. I don't know if I should call animal control or not, because I don't want retaliation (my chihuahua barks when we are gone). Seriously fucking neglectful.

seashell
09-02-2016, 11:33 AM
Ughhh female customers are the worst! I danced for three different females last night and two of them were grabby types. One girl straight-up grabbed my boob and kept her hand there, and when I told her that wasn't allowed, she acted shocked. "You're the first girl who won't let me touch her! You don't let the men touch?!" I work at a nice club and I think she was full of shit, but then again, female customers get so much leeway. This is why I never dance for them unless they approach me first.

Oh well, ONE of the females was super nice and actually really hot. XD

Vyanka
09-02-2016, 12:31 PM
Ughhh female customers are the worst! I danced for three different females last night and two of them were grabby types. One girl straight-up grabbed my boob and kept her hand there, and when I told her that wasn't allowed, she acted shocked. "You're the first girl who won't let me touch her! You don't let the men touch?!" I work at a nice club and I think she was full of shit, but then again, female customers get so much leeway. This is why I never dance for them unless they approach me first.

Oh well, ONE of the females was super nice and actually really hot. XD


I cannot with female customers. I make up an excuse when they want a dance. Unless it's a former stripper with a good human atm. These are the best!

Or a very shy, respectable, submissive regular girl with a rich S.O..... ha, it's a 1%, but I encountered that once.

KaraLynn
09-02-2016, 11:02 PM
Um, why the fuck should we have to tip the dj when we can't pick our music?? If the club wants to pick what is played all night and we don't get a say let them pay the damn dj.

Aurora_Sunset
09-03-2016, 07:05 AM
Usually, this place I take my car has really good service, but the people I dealt with when dropping off my car... Couldn't tell if they were really stupid or if they thought I was stupid...

I had to have it towed in cuz it wouldn't start. A tow truck can obviously not pull into the regular service lane like you would normally do with your car when you bring it in. So he pulled around to the side of the building and let me out to go talk to the service desk. First of all, they couldn't seem to comprehend that I was dropping off a car when they couldn't see the car, and I had to say about 3 or 4 times that it was on the tow truck - around the side of the building. Then one of the guys gets this weird attitude with me and goes, "So, you're just bringing it in - new customer, no appointment?" with this shit-eating smirk, like I was this silly, flippant girl who hadn't thought ahead. I was like "No, I had an appointment. I made it yesterday. And I've been here before." Rather than look me up in the computer, they made me fill out a whole new form.

Throughout the entire process, they asked literally 10 times if the car was already there. I kept telling them yes, it's here, the tow truck went around the side of the building - and would point. And they would keep staring at the solid fucking wall of this building, as though they'd be able to see anything without getting off their asses and walking around the corner, and then staring at the entrance to the service lane... which a tow truck is clearly not going to be able fit in, and somehow not understanding why they couldn't see my car or my car was not emerging. And asking me AGAIN AND AGAIN if the car was here yet. Omfg. YES. How many fucking times do I need to say it's on the tow truck around the side of the building? You're not gonna see it from where you're sitting! Get up and go fucking talk to the guy and tell him where you want it. I can't direct him. That's your job.

And the final time before they FINALLY got up and actually walked around the building, they were like "Are you sure it's here? Or is it still on its way?" I was like "Yes, it's here... I rode with him."

I may not know what's wrong with my car, but I'm not so hurdy-dur that I don't know where my car is, and would tell you that it's here and keep pointing to the specific fucking spot it's in if it wasn't actually there.

It was one of those moments where I'd like to blame it entirely on their stupidity, and I'm sure that's part of it, but another part of me thinks that they wouldn't have been so skeptical and kept asking that question if I was a man, because they would have just believed that I know where my fucking car is.

JenniferNorth
09-03-2016, 07:52 AM
OMFG. Aurora, can you file some kind of complaint or something? I have been treated disrespectfully like that before (via a Sears automotive). I called and got ahold of another woman, who took my complaint very seriously. I HATE going through something like this. I mean, that's why you took your car to them. They are professionals, they need to fix it, not treat you like a dumbass because you don't know exactly why your car is having issues. Shit like that just fries me, when so called "professionals" can't even act professional. I bet they had no problems taking your money, right?

My pissy complaint is that people on CL are flakes. We are trying to adopt a dog and we are looking via CL, and so many people are just flakey about getting back to us, or where they are willing to meet us etc. It's just annoying.

miss.a.p1600
09-03-2016, 08:52 AM
Usually, this place I take my car has really good service, but the people I dealt with when dropping off my car... Couldn't tell if they were really stupid or if they thought I was stupid...

I had to have it towed in cuz it wouldn't start. A tow truck can obviously not pull into the regular service lane like you would normally do with your car when you bring it in. So he pulled around to the side of the building and let me out to go talk to the service desk. First of all, they couldn't seem to comprehend that I was dropping off a car when they couldn't see the car, and I had to say about 3 or 4 times that it was on the tow truck - around the side of the building. Then one of the guys gets this weird attitude with me and goes, "So, you're just bringing it in - new customer, no appointment?" with this shit-eating smirk, like I was this silly, flippant girl who hadn't thought ahead. I was like "No, I had an appointment. I made it yesterday. And I've been here before." Rather than look me up in the computer, they made me fill out a whole new form.

Throughout the entire process, they asked literally 10 times if the car was already there. I kept telling them yes, it's here, the tow truck went around the side of the building - and would point. And they would keep staring at the solid fucking wall of this building, as though they'd be able to see anything without getting off their asses and walking around the corner, and then staring at the entrance to the service lane... which a tow truck is clearly not going to be able fit in, and somehow not understanding why they couldn't see my car or my car was not emerging. And asking me AGAIN AND AGAIN if the car was here yet. Omfg. YES. How many fucking times do I need to say it's on the tow truck around the side of the building? You're not gonna see it from where you're sitting! Get up and go fucking talk to the guy and tell him where you want it. I can't direct him. That's your job.

And the final time before they FINALLY got up and actually walked around the building, they were like "Are you sure it's here? Or is it still on its way?" I was like "Yes, it's here... I rode with him."

I may not know what's wrong with my car, but I'm not so hurdy-dur that I don't know where my car is, and would tell you that it's here and keep pointing to the specific fucking spot it's in if it wasn't actually there.

It was one of those moments where I'd like to blame it entirely on their stupidity, and I'm sure that's part of it, but another part of me thinks that they wouldn't have been so skeptical and kept asking that question if I was a man, because they would have just believed that I know where my fucking car is.

I feel for you ladies with these piss poor car maintenance "men" - I assume they are men.

Like suggested you should report them to the manager. They shouldn't act clueless then make you feel like something is wrong with you cause they can't get it together. Something is wrong with them.

I had my vehicle towed in before and I was nervous, scared, couldn't think straight but they treated me so kind and nice and knew exactly what the problem was that cause my vehicle to stall out. And I had no clue exactly where the dude towed it, they just figured it out amongst themselves.

9 times out of 10 I get service at the dealership and they are a bit more costly but their service is impeccable. They get the problem fixed the first time, they communicate well, and some of them are fine as f*ck! I've never been treated like a dumb woman - at least not to my face lol!

If your service ain't on point, report, go to different service (if possible), or eventually get a different type of car with known quality service.

JenniferNorth
09-03-2016, 09:06 AM
Yes, this! ^ I am sorry, but if you are paying them, they need to be polite and professional about it.

whirlerz
09-03-2016, 09:08 AM
So right off the bat, my f'n phone's down..
I thought I was due to pay my motel, but it was tomorrow I paid anyway, & didn't get my lower rate I asked for
The real issue: these men [email protected] me. all the time! I mean maybe that doesn't sound like anything, but I DON"T want to be stared @, looked up & down etc, I got so upset, I ran bk in my room after this a/hole stared at me from down the hall.

Glamourmilf
09-03-2016, 10:35 AM
So right off the bat, my f'n phone's down..
I thought I was due to pay my motel, but it was tomorrow I paid anyway, & didn't get my lower rate I asked for
The real issue: these men [email protected] me. all the time! I mean maybe that doesn't sound like anything, but I DON"T want to be stared @, looked up & down etc, I got so upset, I ran bk in my room after this a/hole stared at me from down the hall.

I just texted u, but maybe u will read this first.
How many days does Karma internet device take to arrive?
I need a backup internet connection pronto.
Thanks Whirl

Aurora_Sunset
09-03-2016, 07:24 PM
I feel for you ladies with these piss poor car maintenance "men" - I assume they are men.

Like suggested you should report them to the manager. They shouldn't act clueless then make you feel like something is wrong with you cause they can't get it together. Something is wrong with them.

I had my vehicle towed in before and I was nervous, scared, couldn't think straight but they treated me so kind and nice and knew exactly what the problem was that cause my vehicle to stall out. And I had no clue exactly where the dude towed it, they just figured it out amongst themselves.

9 times out of 10 I get service at the dealership and they are a bit more costly but their service is impeccable. They get the problem fixed the first time, they communicate well, and some of them are fine as f*ck! I've never been treated like a dumb woman - at least not to my face lol!

If your service ain't on point, report, go to different service (if possible), or eventually get a different type of car with known quality service.

Yeah, funnily enough this WAS the dealership! I've never had this sort of problem with them before. I went back today to pick it up, and those same 2 guys were there. I think one is brand new, so that explains part of his stupidity. The other one just seems kinda hurdy-durr pretty boy who spends more time at the gym than he does exercising his brain. But the guy who ultimately gave me a rundown on what was wrong with it was super nice, so... at least it's not all of them.

Vyanka
09-03-2016, 10:00 PM
Stupid hurricane ruined my wknd plans.

Legz541
09-04-2016, 01:09 AM
Ugh my health is pissing me off. I got a cut on my shin at work Wednesday night, woke up Friday morning and it was HUGELY swollen (like I was smuggling a golf ball under my skin), red and hurt to bear weight on that leg. I go to urgent care and get some antibiotics. Well......I end up in ER that night with anaphylactic shock. Apparently I'm now allergic to those antibiotics even tho I've taken the same type before with no problems, wtf. To top it off, I woke up today with oral thrush after just 2 doses of antibiotics. AND a damn migraine. FML. What a great holiday weekend.
*the ONLY good part of this is they tested the infection in my leg and its NOT Staph. Phew!

whirlerz
09-04-2016, 07:37 AM
Glad it's not staph, get better soon^

WHY IS A MALE reading posts in this section, & contacting me about it..
deleting most of my stuff now

JenniferNorth
09-04-2016, 08:27 AM
^ WTF?!! A longtime blue or something? Or someone disguised as a pink? Let the mods know, whirl! Not cool, this is just for us ladies to hang and shoot the shit...

whirlerz
09-04-2016, 08:45 AM
Yea, Aurora's already on it..

Aurora_Sunset
09-04-2016, 09:06 AM
How quickly men get angry when they try to smooth talk you and then still don't get their way. How very maturely and calmly this guy initially responded to my concerns that we shouldn't see each other this weekend... until I stood firm that this particular weekend wasn't going to work even though I acquiesed to seeing each other again in the future. Suddenly, that calm and maturity turns into pissy little boy guilt-trips about having "no other option" than to get drunk at home alone and masturbate this weekend... Yeah... you totally understood my concerns until it became clear that your "understanding" wasn't going to lead to pussy and the outcome that you wanted this weekend, because you totally thought that your "nice, understanding guy" play was going to ensure that I backed down from my convictions about my own emotional needs right now. Mmhmmm...

Glamourmilf
09-04-2016, 09:29 AM
Stupid hurricane ruined my wknd plans.

That's why I text you about it. My roommate had the weather channel on blast Friday, and that's all they were talking about.
Stay safe my love.

Vyanka
09-04-2016, 09:56 AM
That's why I text you about it. My roommate had the weather channel on blast Friday, and that's all they were talking about.
Stay safe my love.

It hasn't rained in my area, but where I was going there's warnings saying it's suppose to be worse than Sandy. It's sunny out. Grrr. Well, it's unpredictable still. so.... I'm staying around my area and not taking chances, but man I'm fkn bored! :(

We had a rabbit like you
09-04-2016, 10:20 AM
I'm not putting you in the friend zone, you're putting me in the girlfriend zone and its fuckingim creepy and unasked for.

xStacey
09-04-2016, 05:18 PM
Again about the fat annoying regular who's become even cheaper and needy than he already was and that I was thinking of dropping... He used to come every week so although he didn't tip and texts a lot I still put up with him but now he comes maybe once a month or even less but still keeps texting me. I was fed up and was just gonna delete his number but he ended up visiting a month ago. I did not hear back from him since and I did not text him, after he said to me "okay, I'll let you get back on the market, it's like a meat market in here" before leaving the club :O

He knows I start school again on September, and I knew it, that he would go silent and wait until weeks later when he knows I will be too busy to work to text me instead of coming to visit as much as possible until I am gone. Guess what ? I started school last week and it was my last week-end at the club, it's been a month since the last time I saw him and he just texted me " I miss you ". What a fucker, I'm just gonna ignore this. No longer have any patience or tolerance for this.

Sometimes I just want to reply, well I don't miss you and if you wanted to see me that bad you should have just came to the club. He was bragging about how he got a new job and he was brave to even apply for that position, and I guess he also got a pay increase but he got even cheaper LOL. Not only did he not tip the last time (first visit since he got the job), he's visiting even less frequently.

xStacey
09-04-2016, 05:42 PM
I really enjoy the time I spend with regulars I truly appreciate or nice customers but lately, it's hard tolerating the bullshit from assholes. As I'm moving closer to my goals, I find it really difficult to act ditzy, pretend I am impressed by what they're telling me about their jobs or their lives and being treated like I'm just a piece of meat.

A customer last night was such a jerk and asked me so what do you plan on doing with your life in such a condescending way. I replied I will be a lawyer, and he thought he misheard so he asked me again what do you want to do with your future? I repeated I will be a lawyer. LOL he probably did not believe me and I could care less. Yeah, it's unusual for law students to be strippers but we do exist.

If only they knew how unimpressed I am with their stories. I finished my first year top 5% of the faculty so I'm not too worried about the lack of jobs although there's so many reports about how the field is satured and there's too many lawyers...

Well, luckily this is just temporary, I know I will miss sex work, some great people I met, but it's about time to move on because I can't stay in this industry forever. I am probably gonna work even less than last year, my savings account will suffer but I need more law-related extracurriculars, volunteer, moot competition, research assistant job and network... My marks will get me in the door for an interview in every law firm but I need to fill my resume, otherwise I'm scared I wouldn't have anything to talk about and I've heard stories about some academic super stars who got 20 interviews and 0 offer. Don't want this to happen to me, I did not work this hard to get the best marks I could to screw up during the interview.

If everything goes well, I should have a law-related summer job by next year and I graduate in 2 years... It's different from working vanilla jobs during my first undergrad when I still had so many years left and did not even know if I would be accepted into law school. I'm still really grateful for sex work but my situation is different now and having a blank resume would be more fatal than it was then.

Vyanka
09-05-2016, 12:38 AM
Omg. I had a blast tonight with my good friend....BUT, she threw up all over the car and in the house. Her phone fell into the toilet too. Lol. Omg :-/ hot mess. She slept in her vomit pants.

rareaspasia
09-05-2016, 08:19 AM
So sick of rain. But at least the hurricane missed us. I have friends in Tallahassee who had trees fall on their houses. Eek!

whirlerz
09-05-2016, 11:20 AM
Yep. I've actually experienced this, it was 2 trees (they were branches, but HUGE enough to almost be trees)

I like how the site I just bought a stripper dress & shoes off of, now has a sale ending today. :(

xStacey
09-05-2016, 11:20 AM
So fucken pissed. All the documents i spent hours working on and class notes i took the first week of class are all gone. I saved them but when i try to open the word document everything is blank. What the fuck happened ?!?!?!?! Now i have to spend hours listening to the recordings all over again and doing the same readings i've already done and taking notes, i already have so much to do, fuck. Why is this happening to me ?!?!?!?!

Cashmere Star
09-06-2016, 12:05 AM
This is my third time trying to audition at the best club around my area (usually 15+ girls show up and only 3-4 gets picked). First time was last year, second time was last week, and today there wasn't even an amateur night because only 3 girls showed up including me. I decided to talk to the manager that day (there are like 3 managers) about getting hired anyway, and what he said? "oh theres too many asian girls if we hire you we need to fire another one". What a crock of shit. This ain't no San Francisco. This manager is also Asian, if that matters. The times I've been there, I've only seen one other Asian girl and she was filipino looking, so it's still a different flavor of Asian anyway. I also was often the only Asian most places I've been to. Yeah no, what a bullshit reason. I am sure it's something else.

I already know a lot of girls who worked at that club so I am crossing my fingers. It's only 15 min from my home and I need money.

I can't imagine what it would feel like to be black and be rejected because of "the black quota". :'(

I've also done shittily this week. Made only $100 the whole week for 3-4 days of work. Other girls are getting dances but me. So much for people loving Asian girls. Just puts so much unwarranted expectations on me, like "if you're asian and you dont make money you must just be ugly". I think I give off a bad vibe at work because I am going through a restraining order against my own dad who molested me as a child, and he's hiring two attorneys against me and sucking my savings dry trying to fight him in court, and customers can sense that bad vibe on me. It's also so hard trying to hustle right now. It wasn't always this hard.

lynn2009
09-06-2016, 07:14 AM
I pay six dollars a day to park at work and you get in and out of the garages with your company ID card. I forgot mine today and the guy was being such a pain in the ass and by the time I had finished signing their sheet for irresponsible adulting he asked where ID card was and I said on my desk and he was like ok make sure you put it in the car later. REALLY????!!! omg the card should be in my car? What an amazing insight and I never would have gotten there by myself!!!

xStacey
09-06-2016, 02:59 PM
Last year, all the research assistant jobs I was interested in were for second and third year law students.. Now that I'm finally a second year student, all the research assistant positions are for masters or ph.d students -_-. It's great the faculty send us weekly emails with job offers unrelated to law but with interesting salaries, $22-24/hr for secretary job which is very good... But the hours not that much (from 15 to 30 hours per week).... I think I will be better off volunteering at the legal clinic, doing pro bono and registering for a moot competition to get as much relevant experience as I can, will be more flexible and less time commitment. There's not many law students with part-time jobs... There's also tons of conferences I want to attend every month, in-firm tours and cocktails.

It's really unfortunate they don't do this in other programs. When I was in Psychology it would have been nice having a part-time vanilla job that pays $20 an hour, it would have been possible to work 15-20 hours but not in law.

miss.a.p1600
09-06-2016, 04:33 PM
I'm feeling down and need something to pick me up.

I can't think straight I can't sleep. I hate this right now. :( .... Yes those are tears

rareaspasia
09-06-2016, 05:31 PM
I was doing so well and now my depression is knocking at the door again. I go from feeling strong, beautiful and capable and okay with how my life is going to feeling like a weak, slobby and old looking useless failure at life in days. I hate being bipolar so much. It's so hard to go to bed sometimes never knowing how I'm going to feel when I wake up in the morning, and I go from being to okay to miserable in just a few hours sometimes. And what really sucks is I'm trying to do everything I'm supposed to do to make it better and it's still so hard sometimes to make myself believe that this episode will pass like all the others have before and I'll be okay again, especially when I know that it's only a matter of time before I have another one. Maybe I'll get lucky and it'll be years, but what if I only get a break for like six months?

I seriously think every day how much I hope they'll find a cure in my lifetime. They've been making amazing advances in understanding what causes it and the treatments are getting better every year but it's hard to focus on that when I'm just trying to get out of bed in the morning. Especially when some of what they're finding out is really frightening, like how it's now being considered a neurological disorder like MS (which my dad had), Parkingson's and Alzheimer's and/or possibly seizure disorders as well. They have scans showing how the bipolar brain is different and they don't know if we're born that way or if the disease causes damage. And I've experienced first hand problems with memory, balance, and sometimes I stutter and replace words with other words that sound similar.

I don't know. I'm probably oversharing but I'm just sick of it today. My dancing income is down because I'm having a hard time staying focused and fake happy. I need to get my shit together before we start getting into busy season. There's a lot of shit I want to accomplish and I need to get my numbers back up to get that shit done.

baer45
09-06-2016, 05:34 PM
I'm feeling down and need something to pick me up.

I can't think straight I can't sleep. I hate this right now. :( .... Yes those are tears


Will I Live to see 80?

Here's something to think about.

I recently picked a new primary care doctor. After two visits and exhaustive Lab tests, He said I was doing fairly well for my age.

A little concerned about that comment, I couldn't resist asking him, 'Do you think I'll live to be 80?'

He asked, 'Do you smoke tobacco, or drink beer, wine or hard liquor?' 'Oh no,' I replied. 'I'm not doing drugs, either!'

Then He asked, 'Do you eat rib-eye steaks and barbecued ribs?' 'I said, 'Not much... My former doctor said that all red meat is very unhealthy!'

'Do you spend a lot of time in the sun, like playing golf, boating, sailing, hiking, or bicycling?' 'No, I don't,' I said.

He asked, 'Do you gamble, drive motor-cycles, drive fast cars, or have a lot of sex?' 'No,' I said...

He looked at me and said,.. 'Then, why do you even give a shit?'

miss.a.p1600
09-06-2016, 06:28 PM
Yeah. I guess in the grand scheme of things, which is would I should be thinking about, I have things to be grateful for. It's just those overwhelming obstacles and people that make me want to stick shards of glass in my vagina. Well actually no because my vagina is valuable to me but I'm just pissed, annoyed, scared, pretty much every negative feeling and I'm trying to snap out of it.

*sigh*

Aurora_Sunset
09-06-2016, 07:33 PM
I'm at a point where I find absolutely no pleasure in what most people consider the "cute" things about flirting/dating/relationships. I hate pickup lines. I don't find "dirty" comments sexy. Funny? Yes. I have the mind of a 12 year old. Will they turn me on? No. They're just obnoxious if you think you're actually seducing me. When guys distract me from my work, I don't find it "cute." When they wake me up for "attention," I want to throw them out the window. I don't find it romantic for someone to cancel plans for me - I find them rude. I don't find it attractive to have me be the center of your world - it's creepy and sad. I absolutely do not want you to text me every day. I don't want to know the minutiae of your life. Nor do I want to tell you about my standard-ass day. How fucking boring. Not intimate. Not stimulating. Boring.

Nothing is cute, or sexy, or funny to me that most people find the "good" things in dating and relationships. I'm actually not opposed to hooking up, if I could just have an honest conversation beforehand about "What are you interested in? What are you willing to be interested in for me? Are we compatible in that sense? Will you come over, have a couple drinks while we shallow-connect, fuck, and then leave so I can sleep alone diagonally across my bed?" Perfect.

I'm so close to posting one of those wham-bam-thank you ma'am craigslist ads... or going on tinder.

KaraLynn
09-06-2016, 08:34 PM
Glad it's not staph, get better soon^

WHY IS A MALE reading posts in this section, & contacting me about it..
deleting most of my stuff now

ew yeah, I always worry one of the ladies only posts are going to eventually become a tuscl thread. There's no verification that I know of so I guess it would be really easy for a guy to create a new account as a woman and read these threads. But seriously, I pity the fool who goes through all that trouble in the first place. Um. Get a life?

I hope you reported whoever this is.

Vyanka
09-06-2016, 08:41 PM
I'm at a point where I find absolutely no pleasure in what most people consider the "cute" things about flirting/dating/relationships. I hate pickup lines. I don't find "dirty" comments sexy. Funny? Yes. I have the mind of a 12 year old. Will they turn me on? No. They're just obnoxious if you think you're actually seducing me. When guys distract me from my work, I don't find it "cute." When they wake me up for "attention," I want to throw them out the window. I don't find it romantic for someone to cancel plans for me - I find them rude. I don't find it attractive to have me be the center of your world - it's creepy and sad. I absolutely do not want you to text me every day. I don't want to know the minutiae of your life. Nor do I want to tell you about my standard-ass day. How fucking boring. Not intimate. Not stimulating. Boring.

Nothing is cute, or sexy, or funny to me that most people find the "good" things in dating and relationships. I'm actually not opposed to hooking up, if I could just have an honest conversation beforehand about "What are you interested in? What are you willing to be interested in for me? Are we compatible in that sense? Will you come over, have a couple drinks while we shallow-connect, fuck, and then leave so I can sleep alone diagonally across my bed?" Perfect.

I'm so close to posting one of those wham-bam-thank you ma'am craigslist ads... or going on tinder.


This is great! Lol

miss.a.p1600
09-07-2016, 01:44 AM
Can't sleep....again

xStacey
09-07-2016, 09:53 PM
There's a girl I've been hanging out with, at first I kinda liked her but now I just find her so annoying oh my god... There's a lot of naive law students, mostly 18-19 years old who think they will grow up to do international human rights law, which doesn't really exist or you don't get paid for it (it's not jet set glamour travelling), or become a diplomat.

But the girl is almost 27, she has a bachelor degree, a master's but not really any real life experience, never worked in her life besides 4 months internship after her bachelor and after her master's... So she tells me she wants to do international human rights, feminism movement, etc... But in law school the big business law firms do a lot of advertising in the campus etc. and we hear about them as soon as we start law school, and let's be honest, most students are interested for the money. But she tells me, oh I want to do business law because it will help me do humanitarian law in the future (okay rationalize as much as you want lol, I prefer people who are honest and say they just want money lol, because there's nothing more diametrically opposed, than working for big corporations and doing humanitarian work...). Then she works about talking for big firms, and then saying she wants to work 3-4 years there and for sure she will return to school to do a doctorate in medicine and she's planning her next studies already. But not too long ago she was telling me she was debating whether she should do an extra year to complete the JD after the LLB degree... And today we went to a conference about business consulting and she asked one of the people there can I work at your firm at the same time while completing a Ph.d ? And she told me oh my god I love school so much I know I will end up going to do a Ph.d.... Okay that girl really doesn't sound like she knows what she wants at all...

And she's always so stressed out, at first I was understanding and tried to help her but she's so stressed that it rubs on me. She doesn't work, doesn't really have any friends, she has some but she doesn't see them at all during the school year, her family is away, she has no boyfriend and did not have sex in over 2 years, she doesn't follow the news or has any hobbies, doesn't work out, she doesn't have a cellphone, doesn't have a computer, so only has to take care of her classes but she never has time for anything and is constantly stressed out, lacks time to finish her readings ? She's constantly complaining about how stressed out she is, she was about to cry today and we only had one week of class... -_-

rareaspasia
09-08-2016, 10:03 AM
I work with a girl (at my day job) who left a violently abusive relationship with nothing but a backpack, just got on a greyhound and fled from a guy who threatened to kill her and beat the shit out of her every day for three months. Now she's working her ass off, going to school while working full time and taking care of her grandmother who is going senile. And she's only 19. She has no sense of self worth and is constantly saying she's a fuck up, doesn't understand how strong and remarkable she is. It breaks my heart. I tell her every day that she's awesome and try to build up her self esteem even though I'm not a mom type but I don't think she really hears me. I hate that her family doesn't really support her and i hate that this guy did this to her.

seashell
09-08-2016, 02:22 PM
I was going to hang out with my fuck buddy this weekend, but "shark week" has taken over. Ughhh. So bloated and crampy.

Anyway, he's awesome. I'm really going to miss this guy if I end up moving next month. He's great in bed and we also have quite a bit in common... We're both into writing and music. I've never had casual sex partner ask when our next writing workshop was going to be. And be 100% serious about it.

miss.a.p1600
09-08-2016, 04:34 PM
So I closed my account on match (temporarily) cause I thought I may need to hit the club and not trying to be recognized. Well the ex match date hit me up next day - I knew his ass was stalking my profile and log ins. F*ck you match thanks for making things easy for creepers.

Anyhow he's pissing me off - again.

I have a kid so I can't just meet up at the drop of a dime, even if I didn't have a kid I would not meet up at the drop of a dime. I told him I couldn't meet up till Sunday and this fool looses his damn mind. I could pay for childcare to meet him sooner but do you think this idiot offered to help pay nope. Well next suggestion was to meet during lunch while kid is in school. I suggested a cafe and this dumbass said he want me to meet him at his house. Hell no! You broke things off and if you expect a second chance you are going to come correct. I'm not meeting you at your house so you can try to get me to sleep with you. You have to earn this p*ssy and your dumbass is too clueless to know money could speed things up but you wanna be cheap then you can wait.

Idk. Maybe reconciliation is not a good idea:

Gawd - why can't he act NORMAL? Wtf?!? This is a middle aged man you would think he would have better finesse with women.

I think I'm going to have to end it before it starts.

I envy escorts who can go on dates, get money, and not have to deal with a demanding motherfucker hogging all her time.

whirlerz
09-08-2016, 05:01 PM
Is this that same guy? Doesn't matter their age, they could b just as immature @ middle + age, as younger..he sounds super CREEPY, on MANY levels..
Seriously, I'd take @ least a temp break on the sites, but your choice, what about some of the prev suggestions I gave u?

Me:
I have a creeper as well, on _____site, (I have one on here too, that reads or has read my LO mssgs) & he keeps sending me mssgs thru the site, which I want nothing to do w/his CSI-style ass.
Also, I mssg'd a seller about an item, "Oh we get bk right away"!, well its been 3 days, & the item's now sold..it's ok, I got something almost as nice, for less, + I got a darling skirt, jacket & shorts for 25.00 less than what I would've pd JUST for that item, so fuck you, clueless seller.

miss.a.p1600
09-08-2016, 06:37 PM
LOL!! Yeah same dude. I wish I could show y'all his pic so you all could say what you think about him based on looks.

But yeah, Its kinda my fault. I wanted to make him thirst after me because I was pissed he ended things on a bitch level. Like if you want to end things i don't gaf just be mature. So I applied some techniques - basically ignored him, was real short with him when he finally did text/call, and did some covert mind control.

It worked but instead of him apologizing, being reasonable, and coming to his senses he is basically the same and annoying me already.

All this just making me realize I don't have the patience or energy to deal with a bipolar narcissist - maybe if some money was involved i could look past it but nah I know what I have to do......

Oh yeah I was going to take your idea of trying tinder but I think he has a profile there. Once I get my funds up to par Im going to try some freestyle sugaring. I did check out the tumbler you recommended. thanks.

I need some new dudes.

whirlerz
09-08-2016, 07:22 PM
Well, started a new thread in this section
Meeting guys not on sites

whirlerz
09-08-2016, 07:35 PM
What's kijiji?
Is it like Craig's list?

Velveteen.Rabbit
09-08-2016, 10:08 PM
Before my current guy, the last like 10 guys who were really into me all had the grossest small dicklets with erectile dysfunction. Thought about this and got straight up offended lmao. I mean they have to know how fucked up theirs is or they're in serious denial.

This is why I stopped telling guys about domme work. They must have heard that and it promoted them to pursue me hard. They know they're attracted to femdom but don't know why yet. Damn dicklets

lynn2009
09-09-2016, 06:04 AM
I've had a near constant headache for going on two weeks. I need a head transplant.