View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
whirlerz
10-12-2016, 11:10 AM
My bank account was overdrawn and I was charged $70 overdraft fees for it. Ugh... being broke sucks.
Totally reminded me of this Louis CK joke...
https://youtu.be/myOxuIjwQnE
Imma bout to watch^..
Just wanted to say yea, this happened to me, I just checked my acct 5 min after bank closed, the Sat before Labor Day..
By sheer luck I guessed my pin & was able to stick some cash in, they still sent me an overdraft notice, but I was able to escape it by doing that.
Yea they make the most in their fuckin' fees :(
MyRealNameIsWeird
10-12-2016, 11:40 AM
I think I have ripped the last functional ab I had.
Elektra Luxx
10-12-2016, 12:24 PM
I've been in training this week, the guy sitting next to me keeps touching his knee on mine and just leaving it there! Eeeeeewwwwww!, no matter how much I move it away, he keeps brushing his knee on my knee. Creeeppping me out, I'm about to scream at him. He's got oily hair and insect bites all over his arms, yuck.
whirlerz
10-12-2016, 01:00 PM
I'd tell him to GTF away!^ Fuck all that! Can you report him? PIG
I'd say, "Stop assaulting me, NOW"!
lynn2009
10-12-2016, 02:46 PM
I've been in training this week, the guy sitting next to me keeps touching his knee on mine and just leaving it there! Eeeeeewwwwww!, no matter how much I move it away, he keeps brushing his knee on my knee. Creeeppping me out, I'm about to scream at him. He's got oily hair and insect bites all over his arms, yuck.
At work? That's gross and so purposeful on his end. Please say something directly to him and if it continues complain to his boss or HR.
Legz541
10-12-2016, 03:22 PM
The heater in my car stopped working. Fortunately, I have seat warmers. The club has been so slow. I don't even want to know what the repair will cost, stupid expensive Beamers. Ugh.
Legz541
10-12-2016, 03:42 PM
Gang bullshit. I drove almost 2 hours to go to a rap show. I've been in love with this guy since about 2005. He like NEVER tours to the NW. Last time he was here was '06. Anyway, I'm at the show, having a few drinks, watching all the openers and there's about 10minutes til he comes on....some dumb ass decides that's a great time to shoot. So there's hundreds of people running (downstairs) from the gunshots through two tiny exits. Of course I got separated from my friends, running down the street in the mob of people, in the rain, in 6 inch stilettos, in an area I'm unfamiliar with. It was a total fucking disaster. I'm SO salty about this. Can't you guys shoot at each other AFTER the show????? Or ya know, not at all.
whirlerz
10-12-2016, 04:06 PM
OMG! Glad you're ok, super scary. :(^
whirlerz
10-12-2016, 06:13 PM
DAMMIT!
I put my heavy, Silver Dollar (like a jade plant) plant on a lamp table & it just toppled the fuck over, poor baby hurt some of its leaves.
The fuck was I thinking, putting it on there.
Elektra Luxx
10-12-2016, 09:49 PM
At work? That's gross and so purposeful on his end. Please say something directly to him and if it continues complain to his boss or HR.
The training is for work, but offsite so I don't know him. After lunch, he even brushed by me during a break. And then it seemed like he was following me to the bathroom and even to my car for lunch break. I just stayed with the crowd and when I got back I waited until I could walk in with some other people. He's completely gross, he's got insect bites all over his arms and he scratching them so some are bloody. Ggggrrrossss! I wanted to move, but it's a full class. Tomorrow is the last day and it's only a half day. So just 4 hours and I can get out of there.
Elektra Luxx
10-13-2016, 06:23 AM
That guy is waiting for me in the parking lot right now. I just called my ex (the one I work with) and told him what is going on. Tell more later.
whirlerz
10-13-2016, 10:20 AM
That guy is waiting for me in the parking lot right now. I just called my ex (the one I work with) and told him what is going on. Tell more later.
OMG, PLEASE call the cops!!!
Not necessarily addressing you hon, but this's why this shit needs to be dealt w/immediately! Good luck.
Elektra Luxx
10-13-2016, 12:35 PM
OMG, PLEASE call the cops!!!
Not necessarily addressing you hon, but this's why this shit needs to be dealt w/immediately! Good luck.
Aww, thank you for your concern, but I'm fine and I should have checked in sooner. My ex (who I work with and is my supervisor, no uncomfortable moments there, anywhoo) came to pick me up in the parking lot of the training building and followed me back to my apartment. I felt okay, but he said I looked shaken up and told me to take the day off and relax and he would make some phone calls. Then the he asked if I needed him to go up to my apartment with me, but I said no I'm fine and I just went up to my apartment and took a nap.
RedJules
10-13-2016, 12:53 PM
I just found out I will have to pay for most of my TMJ treatment! Oh fuck!!!! I was told that I would have to pay PART of it, now I am sitting here looking for someone to blame it on.>:(
MyRealNameIsWeird
10-13-2016, 01:26 PM
Aww, thank you for your concern, but I'm fine and I should have checked in sooner. My ex (who I work with and is my supervisor, no uncomfortable moments there, anywhoo) came to pick me up in the parking lot of the training building and followed me back to my apartment. I felt okay, but he said I looked shaken up and told me to take the day off and relax and he would make some phone calls. Then the he asked if I needed him to go up to my apartment with me, but I said no I'm fine and I just went up to my apartment and took a nap.
Good to hear you're OK. But that shit's worth reporting to the police. The sooner you report, the sooner you can get a restraining order if he doesn't back off. Leave it too long and you need to build a case for the RO. So start building now.
seashell
10-13-2016, 07:18 PM
Ughhh. I'm trying to transition from stripping to camming, but today my mom came back home after being away for a couple weeks, and hiding camming from her is going to be difficult. I've been lying that I'm doing Uber... god I hope she doesn't ask too many questions about it, lol.
She's bringing a friend over tonight, and this stresses me out even more because I was supposed to do an art commission for that person, but I haven't finished it yet. Just... stress all around. :\
My bank account is still in the negatives, while I wait for my camming money to roll in (some sites take forever). I think I'm going to dance tomorrow, all day if I can manage it. It's been nice to have a break, but this girl needs money.
This is definitely burnout. I'm freaking out about having to sit on men's laps and put up with their disgusting grabby hands. On the internet, they could be literally on the other side of the earth from you. I *cannot wait* to move out.
seashell
10-13-2016, 09:02 PM
Well, she asked me about it, so I made up some stuff about how much I hate it and how people suck... then retreated to my room. lol. Now if only I can avoid the topic of what I'm doing for work for just one more month... :/
BarbieNYC
10-13-2016, 09:48 PM
^^ ugh I feel you living at home and working sucks. Thankfully my cover job is good enough to explain why I need to be in LA all the time. The good news is you will save a lot $$
I am annoyed at myself. I have a mid term tomorrow and instead of studying I am binge watching criminal minds. Lol
lynn2009
10-15-2016, 08:39 AM
I don't want to do work all day.
RedJules
10-15-2016, 08:57 AM
I cringe each time some guy wants to buy me a huge sex toy. Thanks but I do not want to dildos more than 10 inches :)
I love when they ask me that question in chat. Julia, please could you get your biggest toy? I'm always like, hummm why? it's not like your dick is that big or even close to the size of my biggest toy, right? . Are you a cuckold or something?
It seems to get my members laughing. I guess they think I am joking. But really, I'm not. }:D * Evil laughs*
Aurora_Sunset
10-15-2016, 09:26 AM
When the fuck did it start taking 20 goddam minutes for a computer to uninstall a program? It did not used to be like this. I thought technology was supposed to be getting faster.
BarbieNYC
10-15-2016, 09:42 PM
Shemar moore from criminal minds looks like my ex -_- unfortunately my ex is better looking
Still love the show though. Kinda think the tall white guy is cute.maybe I'll start giving tall skinny white guys a chance. Sometimes the problem with dating only one type of guy is you cut yourself off from other good options. I have a strict no asian/white guy policy but that's gonna change
Still annoyed I cant watch criminal minds without thinking of the ex.
Aurora_Sunset
10-16-2016, 10:02 AM
Here's the thing that guys don't seem to get when they persistently try to push boundaries and then are all like "Well, it doesn't hurt to try." Yes... it DOES. And not just me, but them as well.
For example: this guy KNOWS that he is not allowed to spend the night here any other night except if I'm free on a Saturday night, because every other day except Sunday, he has to be up at 5:30am for work and I refuse to be woken up that early. He KNOWS this is the rule, and he knows damn well that I won't budge on it. And yet, at least twice a week, he's asking to come over on a night other than Saturday...
Here's the thing, dude - When you put me in the position of having to say "No" to you over and over again, and reassert boundaries that you clearly can't respect - What do you think that does to my willingness to act any other way to you the rest of the time? If 90% of the time, I have to play defense of your boundary-pushing, and the majority of the time I have to reject you (for shit that you shouldn't be asking for, over and over, in the first place), how easy do you think it is for me to switch gears the other 10% of the time? How easy do you think it is to go from hardcore defense and getting shitty with you to being open and vulnerable and playful? How much do you think I want to even respond to a conversation with you when the odds are that I'm going to get pissed at you for pushing my boundaries? After spending weeks having to tell you "no" 50 fucking times, there reaches a point where, even if I am otherwise able and willing to accommodate what you want, I'm no longer in the mood to give you anything because it feels like opening up the door to a barrage of more boundary-pushing.
It does hurt to try - when you "try" over and over again for the same thing that you have been explicitly told that you are never getting.
It hurts our relationship a lot.
lilylilylily
10-16-2016, 11:35 AM
My car is kaput again 3 days after the mechanic 'fixed' it. Great, need to get a tow again and bring it back to him.
Aurora_Sunset
10-16-2016, 02:06 PM
I've been trying to get through this self-paced online course for literally years. This year I started over and told myself I'd really do it. There are 4 modules. I did the first two and then created a document where I looked back over all my notes and organized and combined the themes and lessons to make it easier to study and glance over. For the last several months, since finishing all the material (including extra stuff outside the modules), I finally sat down today to do the same organizing with the last 2 modules.... And all my notes from Module 3 are missing!
It's just... inconceivable that I wouldn't print out those notes and do the handwritten notes on the back thing (like I did with every other lesson) - especially for an entire module. I KNOW they existed at some point. But if they're not in the binder with everything else... I have no idea where on earth they would be.
If I can't find them, I'll have to re-listen to like 6 hours of audio to complete the notes. Goddammit
seashell
10-16-2016, 02:15 PM
Need to work today, but I have a painful red bruise on my knee. I think it's from dancing on an overweight guy and jamming my knee into the chair D: Going to literally tape my DIY knee pads to my knees so they don't slide around and can properly protect me... lol
Velveteen.Rabbit
10-16-2016, 02:38 PM
The #1 thing I dislike about a lot of other sexworkers is their inability to think about or plan strategically for the future. I am not stereotyping, I am speaking from sheer experience having dabbled in this world for 10 years now. Most of the girls I have encountered cannot plan for their future and then get angry and defensive when you innocently talk about your plan.
I literally don't want to befriend or even mildly entertain the company of girls who are not working their ass off at other things right now. There's only so many years you can profit at sexwork, and unless you're a touring escort with excellent marketing and dedication, you'd probably make more in a vanilla job that you can achieve with research, time (schooling), and meticulous dedication. Being an escort is not a goal of mine, and I'm done trying to explain things to people who won't listen to facts and numbers lol
whirlerz
10-16-2016, 02:43 PM
My car is kaput again 3 days after the mechanic 'fixed' it. Great, need to get a tow again and bring it back to him.
Oh no! What's wrong now, I wonder? Sorry, hope you can get it fixed soon.
Velveteen.Rabbit
10-16-2016, 02:47 PM
Also, why can no ones brain comprehend that you could be a part time provider (domme or whatever else) and a full time vanilla job holder at the same time? That's twice the lucrative income, only going in opposite directions. Domming/providing would be paying you lots right now but not as much as you get older (most likely) and your vanilla career will grow and pay you more as time goes on. I don't understand lol
xStacey
10-16-2016, 07:34 PM
LOL there's a strip club regular who keeps asking me for OTC, at first he was offering me 350 roses for a threesome (rolf), and he keeps texting me and begging me. Last time we spoke I said I wouldn't be back to work this week-end and he misunderstood he thought I would be available for OTC so he's been texting me the last couple of hours begging me to reconsider it, that it will be really fun, his friend really wants to meet me (although I'm pretty sure she's another sex worker) but she doesn't want to visit me at a strip club but at his condo. I stopped replying. He just texted me and said I am offering you 300 roses for one hour of your time. LOL
It was 350 at first now 300, maybe he doesn't realize it's not enough ? I know the prices in my area and some girls are willing to offer everything for $120 to $200 but I know my worth and I already don't do OTC (happened twice) if he thinks I'm gonna go meet him for a threesome for $300 he's delusional. I'm not gonna take an hour of my time getting ready, have sex with them, including transport to make $300 when I can only work 2 days in an entire month. He's not the best reg but spends around $200 per visit, does he really think I'm gonna fuck him and have a threesome for an extra $100, some guys really think we're stupid.
lilylilylily
10-16-2016, 07:51 PM
Oh no! What's wrong now, I wonder? Sorry, hope you can get it fixed soon.
Thanks!The towing company said it looks like my mechanic didn't install the alternator properly, but he's not even sure. I guess my mechanic will let me know tomorrow what it is. Hopefully something minor
Legz541
10-17-2016, 12:20 AM
I attract the worst fking people. I was at an event this weekend and in some pictures. I get a message from my friend that one of the guys (the one I was spending the most time with) is a Crip from another city. Perfect...I was in the company of and photographed with a freakin gang member. #mylife
KaraLynn
10-17-2016, 04:17 AM
My friend who is an escort had a client who wanted someone to dance for his birthday so she gave me his number so I could make some extra money before I left. I texted him to try to set something up but now he's talking about wanting to meet for drinks beforehand to make sure he's "feeling me" and all this other crap. I just wanted to dance for an hour and leave wtf..........
seashell
10-17-2016, 04:25 PM
My fridge smells really gross and I'm nervous to clean it out because it has been such a long time! I have some leftover takeout food from weeks ago. Can only imagine what is happening in there... D:
Aurora_Sunset
10-17-2016, 07:29 PM
Men are not cute when they turn everything into a sexual innuendo. I'm trying to tell you about my fucking day - I don't need you blowing off my serious comments by turning them into stupid, childish bids for sex... Goddam.
Selina M
10-19-2016, 12:45 AM
I am OVER these photo radar cameras. Ugh.
I'm pretty sure I got tagged last week even though I wasn't going the 11 mph over. Nothing in the mail yet & no record online though.
Last night I went a different way home & made a right on red. I rarely actually fully stop bc my car is a manual & I don't wanna go back through 1st gear... Never had a problem at other lights. I don't know what their threshold is for 'too fast' when making a right turn to indicate you didn't stop though. But yeah, definitely got flashed.
I ain't paying this shit. I got one several years ago & just ignored it until it was dismissed. They never tried to serve me. Hopefully they didn't get a good plate photo since I was turning... but otherwise I guess we are just not answering the door for 120 days :rotfl:
Aurora_Sunset
10-19-2016, 11:00 AM
The PSYCHO-BITCH ex-wife of my friend's now-ex-boyfriend is so fucking obsessed with them that she has made a fake facebook account JUST to make shit-talking posts about them. AND she follows me around to talk shit about them as well. She PMed me months ago, saying "Your best friend is a homewrecking cunt." I didn't respond. I shared a trivia night fundraiser event on my profile for the domestic violence shelter and made it public, because what kind of psychotic piece of shit is going to make a nasty comment on that? Apparently her. I finally blocked her, but what pisses me off is the fact that I have reported this bitch no less than 3 times. And facebook "reviews" her profile - which is literally nothing but shit-talking posts about these specific people and is obviously fake and created for this explicit purpose (which, um, Facebook? Is against your fucking rules) - and then they say there's nothing they can do and it's fine and leave it up.... I did the "are you satisfied with this response?" survey and said No - it's disgusting and disappointing that an obviously fake profile, which is against the rules, and has been created for the express purpose of harassment is apparently ok with facebook. Never received a response on that...
Also, how fucking pathetic of a person do you have to be to facebook stalk the friend of a girl - someone you've never even met - for MONTHS just to make shitty comments on my posts? Jeezus
I'm reporting it again. Their "Community Standards" say they "remove content that appears to purposefully target private individuals with the intention of degrading or shaming them. This content includes, but is not limited to:
Pages that identify and shame private individuals." - Which is literally all this profile is.
whirlerz
10-19-2016, 11:55 AM
Selina, @ least in Chicago area, some of those lights w/cams are fucked up - I got one, & later went bk, & it went straight to red, barely a split second in yellow!? Who the fuck's gonna beat that lol, then, they tacked on some pkg tix I owed (btw more than 15 yrs ago) & a Seize/Impound notice? Riiight, for $400.00?
They don't fuck around here.
Anyway, I got up a little later (from being wound up from being downtown yesterday) & it was nice & sunny, I sat out for a bit, then it suddenly clouded over & got cool.
Yea yea I get it's Oct but damn. :(
Genoveve
10-19-2016, 01:31 PM
The PSYCHO-BITCH ex-wife of my friend's now-ex-boyfriend is so fucking obsessed with them that she has made a fake facebook account JUST to make shit-talking posts about them. AND she follows me around to talk shit about them as well.
What a nut. I've had a few people get weird on me over the years and honestly you just have to appreciate the fact that them being so obsessed is them getting their karma, because they are literally torturing themselves emotionally in the process. Plus them trying so hard to make their victims look so bad does nothing but make them look insane.
seashell
10-19-2016, 01:33 PM
I am OVER these photo radar cameras. Ugh.
I'm pretty sure I got tagged last week even though I wasn't going the 11 mph over. Nothing in the mail yet & no record online though.
Last night I went a different way home & made a right on red. I rarely actually fully stop bc my car is a manual & I don't wanna go back through 1st gear... Never had a problem at other lights. I don't know what their threshold is for 'too fast' when making a right turn to indicate you didn't stop though. But yeah, definitely got flashed.
I ain't paying this shit. I got one several years ago & just ignored it until it was dismissed. They never tried to serve me. Hopefully they didn't get a good plate photo since I was turning... but otherwise I guess we are just not answering the door for 120 days :rotfl:
I dated a cop a few years ago who said to just ignore those. He said he got a photo of himself speeding in the mail and just threw it away since he knew they weren't going to come knocking on his door. I ignored mine, too, and never had any trouble. Fingers crossed for you!
Funny story, I once got flashed by a traffic camera when my friend had a pizza box open in the passenger seat, so you couldn't see my face. And a friend of mine got flashed while sipping milk from a cereal bowl (do not recommend), with the bowl covering his face. They responded to the traffic violation and it was let go because they couldn't prove his identity.
baer45
10-19-2016, 03:01 PM
This moring I was cooking my dinner (yes, you read it right). I cut my finger. And my period started this afternoon.
MissAdriana
10-19-2016, 03:08 PM
I dated a cop a few years ago who said to just ignore those. He said he got a photo of himself speeding in the mail and just threw it away since he knew they weren't going to come knocking on his door. I ignored mine, too, and never had any trouble. Fingers crossed for you!
Seriously??? Damn.. I don't know anybody that hasn't had to pay them lol
RedJules
10-19-2016, 03:18 PM
So instead of camming tonight I decided to go " fancy" and bake some home-made bread. Why my breads never ever look like the picture from the book? :banghead:
I wasted 3 hours of my life in the kitchen baking a stupid focaccia that is UGLY, HARD AND DRY! arrrrrrrrrrrgh
persianprincess
10-19-2016, 03:57 PM
Sold a bag to online consignment store (well known, supposedly reputable) ... they received bag last week the 13th ... it's the 19th, no cash in account yet. Then, logged into my site account to check status of it all ... they changed the received date to the 18th. REALLY. I have the fedex receipt and was promised cash within two days. Now they're saying the cash will land tonight ... but like c'mon you've got a bag worth a hell of a lot least u could do would be quick with payment. Idiots I swear.
Wasted an entire day. Ate way too much.
whirlerz
10-19-2016, 04:06 PM
Sold a bag to online consignment store (well known, supposedly reputable) ... they received bag last week the 13th ... it's the 19th, no cash in account yet. Then, logged into my site account to check status of it all ... they changed the received date to the 18th. REALLY. I have the fedex receipt and was promised cash within two days. Now they're saying the cash will land tonight ... but like c'mon you've got a bag worth a hell of a lot least u could do would be quick with payment. Idiots I swear.
Wasted an entire day. Ate way too much.
Yea, I know^. I'm still waiting for my shipping charges (she refunded me, but didn't give me the shipping, I pd return shipping!) Annoying. I'll wait, if nothing tomorrow I have to go to PO & have them look up & print receipt since I threw out the original.
Selina M
10-19-2016, 04:29 PM
Seriously??? Damn.. I don't know anybody that hasn't had to pay them lol
Idk where you are, but yeah they're a bit of a joke in Phoenix. They removed them from the highways and a downtown area by the college because they had increased accidents so much (people slamming on their brakes).
@Seashell, they do get funny photos! The one I ignored was from Payson... I was driving a govt. vehicle... and we had all been flipping the camera off seconds earlier & you could still see my middle finger at a suggestive angle :P The ticket came to my branch chief and of course he was NOT pleased & identified me pronto... but I ignored it after that & it was dismissed.
xStacey
10-20-2016, 08:20 AM
Hmm people who stop saying "thank you" when they ask you for a favor and who "borrow" money from you but take forever to pay you back if they ever do, because you are now "familiar". Not big sums of money, like $20 here and there, I wouldn't have minded paying for them occasionally but when they ask to borrow but never pay back hmm.... I wonder if they forgot or just pretend they did.
Okay it happened again, the same person who still hasn't paid me back what she borrowed from me last year and this year asked me again to pay $3.50 for her, ok I know it's only $3.50 but it's getting really annoying. I don't think she's gonna pay me back either because this time she did not talk about giving it back to me and I would feel cheap asking for $3.50. I just get the feeling some people take me for granted. I remember when we talked about borrowing money she said she feels so bad once she had to ask a classmate she's not too familiar with for $20 because she forgot her wallet at home and didn't have money to return home and the next days she gave it back to her and bought her a coffee to thank her. I don't see her in a hurry to pay me and buy me a coffee ::)
MissAdriana
10-20-2016, 09:26 AM
Idk where you are, but yeah they're a bit of a joke in Phoenix.
Canada but we don't have them all over the country yet.
Today my not so petty annoyance is PAYPAL NONSUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGES. Umm wtf? Excuse you. There WERE sufficient funds in EVERY METHOD I have of payment but just take extra money because you want to and send an email AFTER you already withdraw. Dicks
lynn2009
10-20-2016, 11:16 AM
Today my not so petty annoyance is PAYPAL NONSUFFICIENT FUNDS CHARGES. Umm wtf? Excuse you. There WERE sufficient funds in EVERY METHOD I have of payment but just take extra money because you want to and send an email AFTER you already withdraw. Dicks
I don't use PayPal anymore they have been such a pain in the ass.
DonaDiabla
10-20-2016, 01:47 PM
Company owners who do not want to do any promotion themselves but they want you to bring in customers. Particularly in the pso world....that is just getting bad. What is up that? Seriously,it is not that hard to advertise in many different places. I advertise all over the place but no not you, huh? This is why I am mainly an indie adult performer! :)