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miss.a.p1600
12-04-2016, 11:15 PM
Went to target to buy hair ties. Was immediately annoyed. Zillions of frantic people everywhere buying dumb crap because I forgot about it officially being holiday season. I saw so many mothers straight up screaming at their children due to the stress they force themselves under in holiday season. Everyone seemed miserable.

Went to pay and the guy next to me was literally 2 inches away at all times and when I went to put my card in the slot he was half way blocking it and continued to stay there the whole time. It's so embarrassing when people try to push their way further to the front of the line because they somehow think the line will go faster or the their narcissism tells them they're more important.

So annoying.

I've noticed that people ignore cultural norms of 3 ft of personal space when they're standing in line. Anytime you move up to get away from the space invading person behind you, their dumb ass keeps moving closer. Like no heaux I'm moving up to get away from you, back up motherfucker!

baer45
12-05-2016, 11:28 AM
Would be nice to mention the friends you bring to my dinner party are vegetarians.

miss.a.p1600
12-05-2016, 11:38 AM
^^^^i know the struggle. The kid tells me we have to bake something from scratch for school project and I want to scream because every year, there has to be some kid with a nut allergy or a gluten allergy. Like look here little crumb snatchers I don't have all cotdamn day to cater to y'all sensitive stomachs - do you know how hard it is to find a nut and gluten free recipe, cook from scratch, and make it taste good???? Some bullsh*t and I should charge your parents for the inconvenience.

baer45
12-05-2016, 01:05 PM
^^^^i know the struggle. The kid tells me we have to bake something from scratch for school project and I want to scream because every year, there has to be some kid with a nut allergy or a gluten allergy. Like look here little crumb snatchers I don't have all cotdamn day to cater to y'all sensitive stomachs - do you know how hard it is to find a nut and gluten free recipe, cook from scratch, and make it taste good???? Some bullsh*t and I should charge your parents for the inconvenience.

I will just go to whole food and get the hipster-est gluten free food for these people. I don't believe a second that they will out live me.

Velveteen.Rabbit
12-05-2016, 06:50 PM
Omgggg you guysss lol.

I went to a small cafe and ordered a smoothie. There were lots of signs that said real fruit 100% fruit juice etc and I ask if the smoothies are fruit and yes. I order one. I see him make it. It's solely ice and high fructose corn syrup concentrates. 0% fruit.

Why do places pull this? I hate it. Oh and then he overcharged me for the XL size when I got the normal size.

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-06-2016, 10:11 AM
I was stripper shoe shopping online & noticed Tony Shoes is closed/sold to another company? wtf? This made me feel old and sad.

sigh. Also the price difference between online ordering & buying at a store is not that huge, in fact minus shipping it's cheaper to buy at a store. hmmm

lynn2009
12-06-2016, 10:35 AM
I can't find the word document with my final :(

KaraLynn
12-06-2016, 10:50 AM
First day at new club. I'm stuck going onstage after the girl with the nicest body I've ever seen in real life my whole shift. FML.

Aurora_Sunset
12-06-2016, 11:19 AM
I'm now into my third week of not working at my vanilla job...

Ok, the first week I did it to myself because they were waiting on me to tell them about something and I decided that if they weren't going to take initiative to be on top of things, I wanted the extra time to catch up on schoolwork. But last week, it took them a fucking week to even get back to me about fixing a problem. I dropped off what I needed to drop off on Friday morning... and still nothing yet. At this rate, I won't be scheduled at all this week either.

Which may, again, be a blessing in disguise because if I just had this week to do final schoolwork and not start until next week after my last class, that would probably be best. But their lack of communication and having it together is really bugging me. They're all good people there that I like working with otherwise, but their lack of organization... It's just pissing me off especially with it being holiday season. My family and friends keep asking what my schedule will be like for Xmas/New Years and during winter break from school - and I just have to keep telling everyone over and over that I don't know yet because it all depends on when they actually fucking start me on my regular rotation. It's even difficult to schedule escorting clients in advance because I have no idea if work will suddenly email me asking me to come in the next damn day. It's really screwing with my day-to-day life and scheduling.

Glamourmilf
12-06-2016, 11:26 AM
I was stripper shoe shopping online & noticed Tony Shoes is closed/sold to another company? wtf? This made me feel old and sad.

sigh. Also the price difference between online ordering & buying at a store is not that huge, in fact minus shipping it's cheaper to buy at a store. hmmm

I needed some pumps to wear with tights/Stockings for when I do outcall.
Was at a resale shop and while sifting through their shoes, , came across the hottest pair of black, shiny leather stripper shoes.
They had these thick, Velcro ankle straps.
They were scuffed and well worn.
I thought, "Boy, if those shoes could talk. The stories they could tell."
They looked so out of place among the many pairs of flats, and Quaker looking shoes.

lynn2009
12-06-2016, 02:09 PM
I can't find the word document with my final :(

Edit: someone from IT helped me save it!!

miss.a.p1600
12-07-2016, 12:33 AM
Why is it the sluttiest or most slutty people the main one trying to slut shame? Throwing stones when you live in a glass house u hypocrite.

Okay heaux. I got ur a$$ just wait I'm going ham in t mins 5 hours.

seashell
12-07-2016, 10:25 AM
It's really really hard to go shopping when you don't speak the native language. Ugh. I accidentally got in someone's way and said "Sorry!" loudly, before realizing the only thing anyone understood was the fact that I was shouting at them. >_> lulz

Serena-Shields
12-07-2016, 11:22 AM
Just found out that the costs of getting a legal name change are significantly higher than I thought and now I'm stressed. I really want to get rid of my mistake of a first name, and I'm realizing how much fucking work it's going to be. Fuck.

Velveteen.Rabbit
12-07-2016, 12:17 PM
Just found out that the costs of getting a legal name change are significantly higher than I thought and now I'm stressed. I really want to get rid of my mistake of a first name, and I'm realizing how much fucking work it's going to be. Fuck.

You might qualify for a free fee waiver if you have lower income reported. I saw that in my state the $300-$400 court fee would be waived for low income people so you only had to pay the $100 newspaper publishing fee. Each state has their own rules so I can't really help but I changed mine successfully. It was so easy.

Velveteen.Rabbit
12-07-2016, 12:21 PM
I'm now into my third week of not working at my vanilla job...

Ok, the first week I did it to myself because they were waiting on me to tell them about something and I decided that if they weren't going to take initiative to be on top of things, I wanted the extra time to catch up on schoolwork. But last week, it took them a fucking week to even get back to me about fixing a problem. I dropped off what I needed to drop off on Friday morning... and still nothing yet. At this rate, I won't be scheduled at all this week either.

Which may, again, be a blessing in disguise because if I just had this week to do final schoolwork and not start until next week after my last class, that would probably be best. But their lack of communication and having it together is really bugging me. They're all good people there that I like working with otherwise, but their lack of organization... It's just pissing me off especially with it being holiday season. My family and friends keep asking what my schedule will be like for Xmas/New Years and during winter break from school - and I just have to keep telling everyone over and over that I don't know yet because it all depends on when they actually fucking start me on my regular rotation. It's even difficult to schedule escorting clients in advance because I have no idea if work will suddenly email me asking me to come in the next damn day. It's really screwing with my day-to-day life and scheduling.

It's so crazy how everything always works out perfectly.

Serena-Shields
12-07-2016, 03:17 PM
You might qualify for a free fee waiver if you have lower income reported. I saw that in my state the $300-$400 court fee would be waived for low income people so you only had to pay the $100 newspaper publishing fee. Each state has their own rules so I can't really help but I changed mine successfully. It was so easy.
Thank you! I'll look into this.

Genoveve
12-07-2016, 09:09 PM
I have a love/hate relationship with the Wendy Williams Show. It's my guilty pleasure but sometimes her info is so off that I'm wondering how no one on her team decided to do any fact checking before she goes live. She was talking today about how every project that Khloe Kardashian undertakes flops, she brought up her new jean line and said that it was a "flop" as well. Meanwhile I saw online today how well it's been doing: http://fashionista.com/2016/12/good-american-biggest-denim-launch-in-history I can't even stand Khloe but still. And I remember once she was ragging on FKA Twigs talking about how she is a talentless trust fund baby living off of her daddy's money......I'm not even a fan of FKA Twigs and even I know that she grew up poor and is a very successful and talented artist.

whirlerz
12-07-2016, 10:44 PM
It sounds like a Pain in the Ass there^!

BambiCutie
12-07-2016, 10:51 PM
Went to the club this afternoon and to my surprise there was a new manager with stricter rules, since the other retired. Throughout the night I was told to smile more..which I'll admit my resting bitch face does sometimes generally come out. Throughout the day the bartender tipped me over to a good spender who continuously slipped $2 around my bra and thong. I tried to tip her after he left, but was told it was my money.. When on the floor I was paired up with a dancer who was more in tune with the job to sit with two pretty heavy weight guys who bought plenty of champagne, but stayed on their devices. We both tried our best efforts making conversation and creating connection, sometimes both looking at each other with obvious frustration. When it was her stage call, I was stuck between the two heavy men who were browsing the web..literally. After the bartender came up to serve I hadouken the hell out of there! When the bartender came by to give me advice about drinks with clients, afterwards I replied "Oh I know..thank you.." Though I didn't see this as a rude gesture, she quickly turned her head and walked off. Feeling terrible and wanting to say sorry, I knew she was only trying to give useful information that could help. Also, you can tell how any word can easily get spread around and where drama can spark at any given moment when trying to adjust to the hustle. Being claustrophobic I was catching my breath a bit and heading to the bathroom when she approached me.

Later that night I started doing tons of twirling on the pole trying to learn not to fly off, bending, walking, ect. I was only able to remain 6 hours in new heels before my feet felt like they were going to snap in half. After going to the manager to get my slip, he started hinting that I take more shifts in the morning and stressing his changes for the club. Problem with this is I'm losing tons of money with getting rides to work. 2 round trips are costing me over $100 and by the time I've finished setting money aside for taxes, paying out, minus the ride I profit only what I make after $60 and taking on anymore shifts would kill me financially. As I was leaving the DJ started waving me over, giving me advice about staying longer when there was 2 hours till night shift, constantly hustling and how you don't make a ton of money at first. (Though I never said I'd make a ton of money) he felt the need to tell me. I didn't mind this till he started prying about my location, staring me down and questioning my capabilities. Throughout the day he said my dancing was good, but the issue is more approuching clients. When heading out a dancer who was on break came out just as I was leaving, saying I looked cute, giving encouraging words and how she was similar. Looking at all the cash is very intimidating, but when I think about how much I've made from camming it would also be pretty in $1, $2, $5, $10 and $20 bills. ;D

Aurora_Sunset
12-08-2016, 07:42 AM
1) I love my cats, but the last week, one of them has puked every single morning. They get a little bit of wet food in the morning, which they love. I've been getting up later than normal this week and they get so anxious about their stupid wet food that they devour it too quickly when I finally give it to them and then puke the entire serving up on the carpet. Dum-dums...

Aurora_Sunset
12-08-2016, 07:42 AM
2) I've been staying with friends in the city during the sporadic times I've worked during my training schedule. They're a couple, and the guy is older (beyond my personal capacity to pretend that age doesn't matter - it does to me), and he's always had a crush on me, but he's really gotten along with his gf since they got together, and I felt like things had finally calmed down to a legitimate friendship between the two of us. In the past, he has offered to roommate-up with me and I've always declined due to the awkwardness. Now that they just got a place, he offered to let me actually rent the spare bedroom rather than just crash there, but I don't really like their house and would be miserable actually living there.

Well, when assessing my ability to get out of this lease, it's not looking good, and I may just have to suck it up and "live" in that spare bedroom about half the month for the next 8 months. If I do that, I'd actually "move in" some stuff and sleep on something more permanent than some mats on the floor, and I was thinking about broaching that subject with him and offering to pay a couple hundred a month to half-live there those 2 weeks out of the month that I need to be there for work.

Then, yesterday, out of blue, we were having a perfectly fine conversation on facebook where he said that if I needed the place this weekend, they would be out of town so I'd have the place to myself, and I joked that if I needed to stay there, I was totally going to steal their bed... Which led him to start making a string of awkward comments about how I'm always free to share the bed with them, even when they are there; if I'm not comfortable with him in the bed, he'll trade me for the floor (I was like, what? No! I'm not going to actually kick you out of your bed in your house); which led to saying how he has feelings for me, and while his polyamorous gf doesn't mind, he thinks my bf might, so he should probably stay on the floor if I ever wanted to stay in the bed with his gf; how he tries to suppress it sometimes, but oh gee, he's so awkward, he just had to say that....

Why? Why did you have to say that? I know I said this was "out of blue," but I guess it's not really, since he's been acting very weird since learning that I had a bf. The comments he's been making about "curbing his inappropriate behavior," have reeked of the phenomenon of "I don't stop hitting on women just because they've said they're not interested and I respect their no, I only stop hitting on women when they officially 'belong' to another man because I respect that other man's property." This just seems like one more thing... Like, I'm sure the "you can share our bed" comment would've come up anyway - but now he has to make it extra awkward by offering to sleep on the floor to "suppress his feelings" for me... which probably wouldn't have been an offer if I was still single despite the fact that it's been YEARS of me explicitly not showing any interest in him romantically or sexually.

Soooo, now I don't want to live there. I have no idea what I'm going to do with this commute situation. It's way too far and the shifts are way too long for it to be reasonable, in any way, to drive all the back here just to sleep between consecutive days. Ugh

lynn2009
12-08-2016, 08:11 AM
^check Craigslist, lots of people rent out single rooms in their homes. That's what I did off and on when I was first graduated and really broke. I'm sure someone will let you do it part-time. What a creep.

BarbieNYC
12-08-2016, 08:46 AM
^^^ try airbnb. I stay in airbnbs on the weekends when I work. They have everything from private rooms to hostels on there. One lady offered me a spot for $500 a month but I don't need to be in the city that often so I didn't take it.

Genoveve
12-08-2016, 06:16 PM
People who rag on women that wear makeup to the gym, and I say that as someone who hates makeup and rarely wears it. If a woman wants to wear 5lbs of makeup on her face to the gym who the fuck cares? They say stuff like 'Are you going to the gym to workout or to look good?' in a derogatory fashion. Um why can't they do both???

miss.a.p1600
12-08-2016, 06:21 PM
I have a love/hate relationship with the Wendy Williams Show. It's my guilty pleasure but sometimes her info is so off that I'm wondering how no one on her team decided to do any fact checking before she goes live. She was talking today about how every project that Khloe Kardashian undertakes flops, she brought up her new jean line and said that it was a "flop" as well. Meanwhile I saw online today how well it's been doing: http://fashionista.com/2016/12/good-american-biggest-denim-launch-in-history I can't even stand Khloe but still. And I remember once she was ragging on FKA Twigs talking about how she is a talentless trust fund baby living off of her daddy's money......I'm not even a fan of FKA Twigs and even I know that she grew up poor and is a very successful and talented artist.

Wendy has rubbed ALOT of people the wrong way. I'm sure there is no shortage of tweets and YouTube videos of people going all the way in on her. But she's still on air so i guess she has more loyal fans than disgruntled enemies? I love FKA twigs music. I discover her stuff on SoundCloud and was hooked.

Im pissed cause I'm hungry and cold and I would kill to just pick up and go to a warm sandy tropical beach right now and have a hot guy waiting for me there.

Velveteen.Rabbit
12-08-2016, 07:03 PM
Wendy has rubbed ALOT of people the wrong way. I'm sure there is no shortage of tweets and YouTube videos of people going all the way in on her. But she's still on air so i guess she has more loyal fans than disgruntled enemies? I love FKA twigs music. I discover her stuff on SoundCloud and was hooked.

Im pissed cause I'm hungry and cold and I would kill to just pick up and go to a warm sandy tropical beach right now and have a hot guy waiting for me there.

Ugh I can't stand Wendy. If you notice, she always puts down women and praises men. She also sides with criminals and rapists such as Bill Cosby and almost never with any victims. She gets off on people failing. I'm hoping that's her persona for ratings and not how she really is.

LoveyDovey
12-08-2016, 09:05 PM
Seriously, why do men even get married if all they're going to do is cheat anyway?????


And God freakin forbid I miss a payment on my son's dental insurance. It literally took me 2 HOURS on the phone to make a payment and get the damn policy reinstated...lesson learned. ..

lynn2009
12-08-2016, 09:54 PM
No idea where this bitch got this idea that my parents paid for college but she was going on tonight about how she's glad she had to go through paying for herself because it made her responsible at a young age in a way most people don't have to go through. Um, excuse me. Please go fuck yourself.

miss.a.p1600
12-08-2016, 10:15 PM
Ugh I can't stand Wendy. If you notice, she always puts down women and praises men. She also sides with criminals and rapists such as Bill Cosby and almost never with any victims. She gets off on people failing. I'm hoping that's her persona for ratings and not how she really is.

Ikr. I loathe women who slut shame, victim blame, and enable these misogynistic men. Ugh!!!!

Velveteen.Rabbit
12-08-2016, 10:15 PM
No idea where this bitch got this idea that my parents paid for college but she was going on tonight about how she's glad she had to go through paying for herself because it made her responsible at a young age in a way most people don't have to go through. Um, excuse me. Please go fuck yourself.

People have done that to me too! I'm just like what in the fuck lol.

Aurora_Sunset
12-09-2016, 06:03 AM
No idea where this bitch got this idea that my parents paid for college but she was going on tonight about how she's glad she had to go through paying for herself because it made her responsible at a young age in a way most people don't have to go through. Um, excuse me. Please go fuck yourself.

A few years ago when I was in really bad financial straits, my "best friend" started trying to "put me in my place" when I was freaking out about money one night. Blamed the fact that she had never finished her college degree on her not having enough money (when really, I had watched her fail out of classes because her lazy ass just wouldn't get up in the morning), and get a fucking attitude about how "her parents weren't rich enough to just put her through college, so honey, don't act like you have it so hard."

Umm, excuse me? My parents weren't rich enough to "just put me through college" either. They were upper-middle class sure, but I don't think the dingbat realizes how expensive out-of-state tuition is. Far beyond their capacity to "just pay" it. The biggest reasons why I was so bad off financially was because MY student loans hit ME - not my parents. I paid my way through undergrad with personal loans, and now I'm paying for grad school out of pocket. Like, go fuck yourself.

We had a rabbit like you
12-09-2016, 01:33 PM
Everyone says don't make friends with other sex workers but I can't relate to other vanilla women. I don't wanna have to lie about my job, and I don't wanna hang w other moms cause they're all way older than me and super into the whole mini van yuppy suburban culture (so not me or how I grew up) ..but then the other vanilla girls my age who are childless don't wanna hang with me cause I have kids. I just relate with other strippers so much better for some reason, plus I don't have to cover their expenses when we hang.

LoveyDovey
12-09-2016, 01:39 PM
Everyone says don't make friends with other sex workers but I can't relate to other vanilla women. I don't wanna have to lie about my job, and I don't wanna hang w other moms cause they're all way older than me and super into the whole mini van yuppy suburban culture (so not me or how I grew up) ..but then the other vanilla girls my age who are childless don't wanna hang with me cause I have kids. I just relate with other strippers so much better for some reason, plus I don't have to cover their expenses when we hang.

I completely understand. Totally feel the same way.

lynn2009
12-09-2016, 03:32 PM
A few years ago when I was in really bad financial straits, my "best friend" started trying to "put me in my place" when I was freaking out about money one night. Blamed the fact that she had never finished her college degree on her not having enough money (when really, I had watched her fail out of classes because her lazy ass just wouldn't get up in the morning), and get a fucking attitude about how "her parents weren't rich enough to just put her through college, so honey, don't act like you have it so hard."

Umm, excuse me? My parents weren't rich enough to "just put me through college" either. They were upper-middle class sure, but I don't think the dingbat realizes how expensive out-of-state tuition is. Far beyond their capacity to "just pay" it. The biggest reasons why I was so bad off financially was because MY student loans hit ME - not my parents. I paid my way through undergrad with personal loans, and now I'm paying for grad school out of pocket. Like, go fuck yourself.


People have done that to me too! I'm just like what in the fuck lol.

This woman knew my story too!! She's another sex worker I met and have gotten friendly with in my area. I paid for my undergrad entirely through loans that are very nearly over even though when I graduated the total was 3x my first starting salary. She must have had me confused with someone else or she was totally out of it. But it was not cool.

Selina M
12-09-2016, 05:54 PM
Okay seriously, I am still irritated from last night.

I left work early cause it was so dead and went to hang out with an old friend that just moved back from CA after several years. He now lives quite close to the club so it was convenient. I thought it was him & our mutual friend (who I am much closer with). I'm halfway there & turns out it will be just us. Meh, whatever, he knows I'm engaged.

He wants booze, gets some probably 'call' level whiskey, and all night makes comments about how he "bought me an expensive bottle and isn't even getting anything" like he wants decent human being points. First, I'm not a huge drinker so I could care less about whether it's there or not. Second, it was like a $30 bottle... wooooo? Stripper. Not 'expensive' to me. Third, fuck that mentality, no woman owes you anything for buying her alcohol or dinner or w/e.

Then it becomes like the conversation keeps circling back to him trying to trick me into saying something negative about my fiancé. Like, commenting on all the shit I've done with college degrees & how I must make soooo much money, like he was trying to get me 'admit' my SO was 'beneath me' or something? It was weird. I kept calmly restating that I was happy & countering his silly questions & changing subjects. After this happened a couple times, I abandoned my drink & started counting down 'til I'd be ok to drive home.

Then at some point he pulls out "Well you're sitting here drinking with me at 3 in the morning... so I'm just saying... that's not good".
Dude what the fuck. Again... I'm a stripper. I get off at 2 am most nights. The fact that it's 3 am means nothing, that's equivalent to 6 pm to 9-5 job people. The fact that I'm having a drink means nothing. The fact that you happen to have a Y chromosome means nothing. My SO is very desensitized given my job & I don't think me having a drink fully clothed is a huge cause for alarm. Like... there is zero significance to any of this. "You can't measure a non-traditional life by traditional milestones' sort of thing, ya know?

I got home & hugged SO a bazillion times, just for not being a shitdick like that.
I am still feeling very icky and weird about that whole encounter for some reason. I think it's that he came off as borderline predatory & sociopathic almost? I dunno.

miss.a.p1600
12-09-2016, 09:09 PM
^^^sounds like a jerk. And yes many dudes think if you go to their place late night/very early morning (plus liquor) that they're going to automatically get some p*ssy.

I messed around with my married coworker at my former vanilla job. Bad idea I know. He bought me gifts to try to win me over one of which was a bottle of my favorite vodka. So I drank the vodka by myself and he was like what? That was $30 and that was for me and you (I assume he was hoping to get me liquored up so I'd f*ck him).

Like dude, who gives a shit about a measly $30, you're turning me off acting really cheap right now and no just cause you spent $30 definitely does not mean I'm going to instantly f*ck you. #killyoself. My p*ssy is worth waaaay more than a $30 bottle of vodka. You're going to have to do better than that motherfucker.

Some of these guys are so dumb. Just cause they bought a $30 bottle or a $40 meal you're supposed to jump on their dick. Um no b*tch I'm running that tab up as far as it will go and I MIGHT give you some p*ssy but I can't guarantee.

I bet you that guy tried to line that situation up so he could try you. Be careful cause he might snitch you out and make it seem like more than what it was - especially since he didn't get any action like he thought he was going to get.

Selina M
12-09-2016, 10:24 PM
^ Seriously... I was so disappointed. I wonder if living in Hollywood/LA made him so douchey. I dunno. Definitely wasn't like this before.

And don't put things in my head to make me nervous... Ugh. Do not need drama. We have a policy, if someone hits on the other person they just handle it themselves & don't need to mention it unless the offender isn't getting the hint & the other half of us has to step in... so I didn't say anything to SO about it.

We've actually discussed this exact scenario (being set up as friends hanging out & then realizing that was not the case). SO has had lots of 'female admirer issues' recently & he is always giving them the benefit of the doubt to the point of naivety... And in this situation, he said he would realize it was getting inappropriate, finish his drink, and find a way to politely leave. So I did exactly as he would have.

Frankly, I also didn't wanna mention it because I feel kinda stupid & really didn't wanna admit I'd let a guy partially pull one over on me. Pfft. I try to give someone a chance to not be a douche & that's what they do with it. I just don't understand people... if someone is in a serious relationship, don't try to pursue something. How hard is it. Shit.

LoveyDovey
12-09-2016, 10:42 PM
You guys have a good policy. I'm going to remember that should I ever get married.

miss.a.p1600
12-09-2016, 11:52 PM
Oh ok. I was thinking tell him about it before that dude does but you have a certain way you both handle situations so it's all good then.

You shouldn't feel stupid that was his fault and you didn't know he'd turn a group thing into a one on one thing and you left in good time.

I'm pissed cause it's cold as fuck!

LoveyDovey
12-10-2016, 12:09 AM
^^ It was totally his fault. Manipulative little fucker...

BarbieNYC
12-10-2016, 03:30 AM
^ Seriously... I was so disappointed. I wonder if living in Hollywood/LA made him so douchey. I dunno. Definitely wasn't like this before.

LA does that to people lol. The men here suck. My brothers and girlfriends agree.

Do you guys remember the creeper who followed my best friend and I around our hike and wouldn't leave us alone?

I never updated on it, but after two weeks of him blowing up my work google voice non stop with phone calls and text messages I finally told him to stop contacting me. I couldn't block him because I didnt know how to and I think I needed a computer. He then harassed me to give my number to my friend and I told him again to stop contacting me. He then proceeded to curse me out and continue to blow up my phone. I showed the messages to her and she was shocked. I hope this is a lesson learned for her. I don't even wanna think about what would've happened if she had given him her real number.

Also I think it's so interesting that out of all the men I have given that number to, it was a non customer who disrespected me

Velveteen.Rabbit
12-10-2016, 07:42 AM
Everyone says don't make friends with other sex workers but I can't relate to other vanilla women. I don't wanna have to lie about my job, and I don't wanna hang w other moms cause they're all way older than me and super into the whole mini van yuppy suburban culture (so not me or how I grew up) ..but then the other vanilla girls my age who are childless don't wanna hang with me cause I have kids. I just relate with other strippers so much better for some reason, plus I don't have to cover their expenses when we hang.

I think stripper moms are often a different breed though. Most are working their ass off and have meticulous schedules so they don't have time to fuck around with drugs and blow off the future. The responsible ones anyway, which I'd imagine is pretty high since stripping and having kids is not easy.

Velveteen.Rabbit
12-10-2016, 07:47 AM
LA does that to people lol. The men here suck. My brothers and girlfriends agree.

Do you guys remember the creeper who followed my best friend and I around our hike and wouldn't leave us alone?

I never updated on it, but after two weeks of him blowing up my work google voice non stop with phone calls and text messages I finally told him to stop contacting me. I couldn't block him because I didnt know how to and I think I needed a computer. He then harassed me to give my number to my friend and I told him again to stop contacting me. He then proceeded to curse me out and continue to blow up my phone. I showed the messages to her and she was shocked. I hope this is a lesson she learned to assert her boundaries. I don't even wanna think about what would've happened if she had given him her real number.

The men in LA are awful. They lead women on so they have a steady stream of multiple women they're leading on. No one commits because they're too busy trying to get rich or famous, otherwise they'd live somwhere cheaper with less traffic. They all have attitudes and also act like sociopaths. Men tend to drop you for someone more famous and it's all about social climbing here. I only ever see men commit to famous women and to women who are far advanced in their own career field, probably to career and social climb lol. Everyone is really really really entitled here, especially men. Lots of ghosting and then they blame it on traffic. It's a fun and interesting place but dating can't be at the top of your list lol. The only people I have even seen in relationships are ones who moved here with their SO.

This is probably one of the worst places to for women to date in unless you are moderately famous and want to date significantly down and date like a barista even though you're moderately famous and have your shit together.

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-10-2016, 10:07 AM
A few years ago when I was in really bad financial straits, my "best friend" started trying to "put me in my place" when I was freaking out about money one night. Blamed the fact that she had never finished her college degree on her not having enough money (when really, I had watched her fail out of classes because her lazy ass just wouldn't get up in the morning), and get a fucking attitude about how "her parents weren't rich enough to just put her through college, so honey, don't act like you have it so hard."

Umm, excuse me? My parents weren't rich enough to "just put me through college" either. They were upper-middle class sure, but I don't think the dingbat realizes how expensive out-of-state tuition is. Far beyond their capacity to "just pay" it. The biggest reasons why I was so bad off financially was because MY student loans hit ME - not my parents. I paid my way through undergrad with personal loans, and now I'm paying for grad school out of pocket. Like, go fuck yourself.

IMO people are judgy because most parents won't co-sign for student loans no matter what (if the student dies, they're still on the hook for the payment.) Also it is depressing re- the amount of extra time it takes to get more Fed. aid for school if you're lone wolfing it.

seashell
12-10-2016, 11:03 AM
My pissy complaint is that I feel really insecure in Eastern Europe. Literally 3/4 of the men and women here look like models, and there are not very many Hispanic looking people like myself. I definitely don't see many people here with chubby cheeks, brown hair/brown eyes, and a butt. Oh and I'm about a foot shorter than everyone else. lol

I have the urge to go back to blonde, but... must. fight. the temptation.

BarbieNYC
12-10-2016, 11:05 AM
My pissy complaint is that I feel really insecure in Eastern Europe. Literally 3/4 of the men and women here look like models, and there are not very many Hispanic looking people like myself. I definitely don't see many people here with chubby cheeks, brown hair/brown eyes, and a butt. Oh and I'm about a foot shorter than everyone else. lol

I have the urge to go back to blonde, but... must. fight. the temptation.

Don't do it! You're the exotic one over there!

lynn2009
12-10-2016, 11:43 AM
How long is getting roots done supposed to take? I'm getting mine done today because they were really bad but I was really looking to get in and out to work on my final but it's been over 2 hours already and she hasn't even washed out the color :(

whirlerz
12-10-2016, 11:46 AM
WHAT^
I do my own roots & it doesn't take that long, & I have no skills!
Dye should NOT be sitting on your scalp that long, NO!

BarbieNYC
12-10-2016, 12:28 PM
Lynn are you bleaching or dying? Honestly it depends how bad your regrowth was. I dont have experience with dye just bleach. Longer roots take longer to lift but your hairdresser should be extra cautious regardless. When I get my roots done I notice ladies getting their regrowth dyed are usually done faster than me and I take two hours.

Also good luck on finals!