View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
Aurora_Sunset
12-15-2016, 05:52 PM
^^Update: the curtains were delivered to the wrong address. The recipient just dropped them off. Yay!
Still mad about the gift though. I'm actually trying to NOT last-minute gift shop this year. I hate being that person who's like "I got you a present, but it'll arrive in the middle of January."
miss.a.p1600
12-15-2016, 06:31 PM
I ordered blackout curtains for my bedroom for my new sleep schedule and they were supposed to arrive today. I checked the order on Amazon and it said that it had been left at my front door at about 7:30 this morning. Um... no it wasn't. I've been home all day and was checking the front door every once in awhile to see if it had been delivered. I told them, because this has happened to me before with a DVD and the seller instantly sent me a new one. The response from this company was just that their records indicate that it was delivered and if it wasn't there, I should check with my local post office. Fantastic... There's money down the drain that I shouldn't have been spending at this time of year in the first place.
Then I checked on the order status of a present I had bought and it said it wouldn't be delivered until Jan. 9th! Wtf? If you're out of something, then it should've said so, or I should have at least received an email about it. But I specifically remember picking my free two-shipping option at checkout with nothing saying that it was on back order or something. Fucking Amazon.
Holiday shopping is too crazy. Everyone out shopping for the same thing, limited quantities, people off work for holidays, etc. The absolute best time to buy (in my experience) is in November -Thanksgiving night/Black Friday. And two day shipping only applies to stuff shipping out from their warehouse not the third party sellers shipping items out themselves.
You're right they should have notified you of the delay.
My pissy annoyance is im supposed to meet this dude at a certain time and this motherfucker is not ready. And now I'm pissed cause I'm waiting. Ugh!!! Well heaux don't be surprised when I leave early cause the clock is ticking and I only got 2 hours. And you better be as fine as i remember and your wallet better be ready!
Aurora_Sunset
12-16-2016, 07:51 AM
3 client cancellations in the last two days. One yesterday morning, one this morning, and one for this afternoon.
2 of the 3 have already rescheduled for next week, and I know the other one will too. But since 2 of these guys are pretty much "weekly" clients, the fact that I'll see them next week doesn't feel like so much of a "reschedule" as it does me missing out on this week's money.
Crossing my fingers that my sign-on bonus at work hits my next paycheck now that I'm "officially" scheduled. It's been months since I've seen one of my best regulars who was always the "anomaly" for amount of money made off one person, so I would use that money to set aside for school/big cash purchases/special events (like the holidays). He used to see me every 6 weeks or so, but hasn't scheduled an appointment in about 4 months even though he has been in contact, saying he wants to soon. At this point, I'm down to the amount I need to have to pay tuition next semester. Not that I have no other savings, but I consider that my real emergency savings, not my school or normal big purchases savings.
KaraLynn
12-16-2016, 12:29 PM
I walked into this mom and pop lingerie shop on my block to pick up some more sexy stuff. The store was completely empty besides me. Instead of greeting me and offering to help me the woman behind the counter glares at me and suspiciously follows me around the store like she thinks I'm going to steal something.
Wow....I walked into your empty ass store to spend money and you're going to treat me like an asshole? What a great way to lose a sale. Let's just say I went in with the intention of spending a good chunk of change and walked out empty handed because of that. Fuck you lady.
We had a rabbit like you
12-16-2016, 02:17 PM
I'm a good listener and love hearing other people stories but I'm starting to feel like that ALL I am to my few "friends" and family. Cause their lives are SOOO much more important and their problems are so much bigger, I need to just be there 24/7 all the time as their shoulder to vent on and talk about themselves cause really fuck me who gives a shit about anything I would wanna talk about. I would appreciate a give and take relationship. I'm so angry right now, so stressed, 36 weeks pregnant, I just need my family or one of my friends to stfu for two seconds, all I need is two seconds of support!!!
You know it's bad when you start to immediately feel guilty for daring to speak. We all have problems. I just choose to bury mine and not talk..wouldn't do me any good anyways. I really want to break something over somebody's head right now
whirlerz
12-16-2016, 02:28 PM
Yea, I can relate to that rn..^ Sorry bout that, they s/b more considerate!!
Yes, I'm recovering frm hoursss last nite of searching for a health plan not to mention an extra ass trip to the bank to cover it..
I'm also upset about being rejected by the short term ones, cause of a prev condition
Then, this jackass broker has the balls to send me, @ 9:45pm a link I was promised a day before..really::)?
I told him too expensive & got my own plan, so he sends me another email, "well the plans have gone up, & I'm a braker so I can get you more, blah blah::)"
Riiiight::)
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-16-2016, 02:52 PM
My dog just busted my laptop by knocking it over. ugh. So glad for him that I hate hitting dogs. He lucked out lol
KaraLynn
12-16-2016, 03:03 PM
Another petty annoyance....when I called a club to inquire about when to audition and they asked my age and acted like 29 is somehow old.......do you want to hire nothing but barely out of high school college girls SO badly that you somehow think 29 is over the hill?
Well, most of the top earners and best hustlers I've worked with are 10+years older than I am even and a lot of the barely out of high school girls don't know how to hustle so good luck with that. I've also seen plenty of 40+women who look way better than some 21 year olds.
miss.a.p1600
12-16-2016, 04:40 PM
I'm a good listener and love hearing other people stories but I'm starting to feel like that ALL I am to my few "friends" and family. Cause their lives are SOOO much more important and their problems are so much bigger, I need to just be there 24/7 all the time as their shoulder to vent on and talk about themselves cause really fuck me who gives a shit about anything I would wanna talk about. I would appreciate a give and take relationship. I'm so angry right now, so stressed, 36 weeks pregnant, I just need my family or one of my friends to stfu for two seconds, all I need is two seconds of support!!!
You know it's bad when you start to immediately feel guilty for daring to speak. We all have problems. I just choose to bury mine and not talk..wouldn't do me any good anyways. I really want to break something over somebody's head right now
Send them an invoice in the mail for utilizing your "coaching/consulting" services lol!
Aurora_Sunset
12-16-2016, 04:47 PM
Holiday shopping is too crazy. Everyone out shopping for the same thing, limited quantities, people off work for holidays, etc. The absolute best time to buy (in my experience) is in November -Thanksgiving night/Black Friday. And two day shipping only applies to stuff shipping out from their warehouse not the third party sellers shipping items out themselves.
You're right they should have notified you of the delay.
The thing I hate most about Xmas shopping is that every year, I tell myself I won't wait until the last minute.... but no one ever TELLS me what they want until I beat it out of them by asking for the 50th time at the last minute. This year, I gave it a reasonable amount of time and then decided that I didn't care what was on anyone's "list" if they weren't going to tell me and I would just find random gifts.
seashell
12-17-2016, 05:37 AM
Blehhh... stomach virus. And it's the first day I would actually have been able to cam.
whirlerz
12-17-2016, 10:13 AM
Another petty annoyance....when I called a club to inquire about when to audition and they asked my age and acted like 29 is somehow old.......do you want to hire nothing but barely out of high school college girls SO badly that you somehow think 29 is over the hill?
Well, most of the top earners and best hustlers I've worked with are 10+years older than I am even and a lot of the barely out of high school girls don't know how to hustle so good luck with that. I've also seen plenty of 40+women who look way better than some 21 year olds.
OMG, THIS^ I thought it might be just in my area! Cluess F'n sc mgr/hiring ppl
KaraLynn
12-17-2016, 04:37 PM
OMG, THIS^ I thought it might be just in my area! Cluess F'n sc mgr/hiring ppl
This club was in New York so maybe it's an up north thing. He ended up wanting me to send a picture before even giving me an audition time and overcomplicating shit all because I'm not barely legal lol. It's stupid. I ended up being like "I'll get right on that" and just hung up the phone. I don't like sending out pics at all. I've noticed since I started dancing up north (last time I danced it was in the south) that wasn't even the first time. A club in Jersey also wanted my age and then wanted me to send a picture when I told them my age. Last time I danced it was down south and they just gave me audition times and barely cared about age lol. It's weird. I'm tempted to call back one of these clubs and tell them I'm 19 and see if they still want a picture lol. That is, if I feel that level of petty in the near future lol.
My petty annoyance for today is that new Ariana Grande and Nicki Minaj song I hear every fucking time I go into a store on the radio. That song annoys the shit out of me.
whirlerz
12-17-2016, 06:43 PM
Thank, KL..well I better hang it up then, cause I know a bunch of times when I've gone, it's "where's your ID"?, then they say my age & that's that: "we'll call you" suuurrre you will::)
So, rn I just got off the phone my insur. they sent me a 'can't process payment' email, then a past due email, & now the whole thing isn't even active til I get the paper statement??
Nice.waste.of.time/energy & aggravation, thankyou VERY much::)
Aurora_Sunset
12-17-2016, 07:22 PM
Freezing rain. Is there anything in this world more disgusting?
By 2 hours after I got to work, one of the main highways had so many accidents, they shut down the entire interstate for hours. It was NASTY.
KaraLynn
12-17-2016, 10:12 PM
Thank God for this thread because I feel like bitching a lot lately.
I'm starting to remember why I stopped dancing to begin with. It's so hard for me to find a club that is a good fit for me. I'm too small and weird for urban clubs or hispanic clubs. (Plus not speaking spanish doesn't help) but I'm too tattooed and not thin ENOUGH for the nicer clubs so I feel like I struggle in this industry because in so many places my choices are to work at a club where my type isn't preferred and I don't fit but can get hired and barely scrape by or just not get hired. I think perhaps I need to rethink the area I chose to move to because there aren't enough clubs that don't fit into either of those categories and the ones that do either get booked up with girls really quickly or is a hell of a commute away from me. Yeah, I think I just chose the wrong spot to go to, I need to reresearch.
Aurora_Sunset
12-18-2016, 06:42 AM
I really hate it when people (*cough*men*cough*) fuck with my computer. What is this male urge to dig around in and fuck with people's technology just because you "know a little bit about computers?" You're not a computer genius; you're not even in tech support - you're just some asshole that owns a gaming computer...
When it comes to this current laptop, something happened with the hardware shortly after I got it. It crashed completely and the operating system wouldn't even load. The repair shop got it working again, but ever since then, it has this weird malfunction where it will shut down randomly. Doesn't matter what I'm doing, or how long it's been on, there's no rhyme or reason to it. It has nothing to do with overheating or running too many apps. Sometimes it doesn't do it for 3 months, sometimes it does it multiple times in a day, 2 minutes apart. I have uninstalled/reinstalled the entire operating system 3 or 4 times. I have had the repair shop look at it 3 times and also reinstall everything. It's clearly not a software issue - it's something with the computer itself.
Every. Single. Time. I tell a guy about this issue with my computer, they want to "take a look at it." WHY? What the fuck do you think you're gonna find that NO ONE else has? What do you think you're gonna find, within the software, that no one else has found before - that wouldn't be solved even by wiping everything and reinstalling it? And even if you did, what the fuck do you think you're gonna be able to do about it? It's been YEARS. Just leave it the fuck alone. I'm due for a new laptop soon anyway.
But no. They "really really really" want to "poke around" and see what they can find. The most recent guy to do this was horrified that I only use Windows Defender as my antivirus and downloaded two other programs that he swore would make everything much safer and my computer run much more smoothly. Ever since then.... everything runs SLOWER. Things take forever to open, and it constantly makes the overheated, whirring noise...
Thanks a lot. My computer was fine. I haven't had a virus issue pretty much the entire time I've had it. Whatever's wrong with it isn't a virus. If it was, it would be erased when the operating system is erased.
When I get a new computer, I'm not letting a damn soul touch it.
miss.a.p1600
12-18-2016, 06:57 AM
The hot guy asks me if I like to cook and jokingly asks would I cook for him......um you want the truth? (I think cooking for a dude is a girlfriend duty and we ain't there yet plus you paying for the groceries and just so you know there is no guarantee sex will happen) or you want the sugar coated version?
rareaspasia
12-18-2016, 08:56 AM
Thank, KL..well I better hang it up then, cause I know a bunch of times when I've gone, it's "where's your ID"?, then they say my age & that's that: "we'll call you" suuurrre you will::)
So, rn I just got off the phone my insur. they sent me a 'can't process payment' email, then a past due email, & now the whole thing isn't even active til I get the paper statement??
Nice.waste.of.time/energy & aggravation, thankyou VERY much::)
The age thing is such bullshit. I stay at my club because I don't want to get rejected from one that might be slightly more lucrative because my home club appreciates me (they actually tell me this lol) and wants me there. I'd rather be respected and treated well and make a little less money. And health insurance is awful. Part of the reason I came back to my day job company is for their great insurance. I remember hoping to god I didn't get sick with the one I had when I danced. Which brings me to today's vent... I love it when people try to look down on me for working in customer service. I'm like, I love my job and my benefits are amazing. Wait, you're right my life must suck. Let me wipe my tears away with my free stock grants that I'll be selling to buy a house, and with the 20000 dollars I didn't have to pay for medical bills. How's your boring desk job going? Draining and soul sucking and you're getting fat from sitting on your ass all day? That's right now shit the fuck up.
whirlerz
12-18-2016, 09:52 AM
Wow! What great lil' section here..
@ Kara, YES I can relate about the club! @Aurora, yes, to me freezing rain's terrifying..there was a 55 car pileup on e. coast, & that guy sucks for f'ing w/your puter.
Ms P yea, get that $! & it does sound like he's aim towards 'desert' (not the culiniary kind)::)
& Rare.^ yep. I've been thinking seriously of going bk part time to a 'normal' job..seriously! Although, my resume's full of 'holes' (long periods of, well nothing):(
I'll tell you what: I know my body's decent..I recently went to get a passport photo, & my face looks..old.:( I'm trying w, makeup, I just ordered some shit, & (also more skincare, I also use a antiaging face roller) I've been using this expensive shit now, I guess it can only do so much.
So, I can still try a couple clubs, but yea the age thing.
One more thing: the sd mentioned about $ for my upcoming insurance, & I'd told him I was supposed to be signing up w/either of the 2 asshole brokers that let me down, but I got my plan (w/much struggle) & he said he give me some more $, but leaves me out cause 'it's cold/snowy' wh/ev::)
So I had to cash an life insurance check I was trying to hold onto/send bk. Asshole:banghead:
Hope it made sense
whirlerz
12-18-2016, 10:07 AM
Also, now the power supply cord just frayed & I gotta get another one ! 5 degree out, nice.
Balletpolegirl
12-18-2016, 02:00 PM
This club was in New York so maybe it's an up north thing. He ended up wanting me to send a picture before even giving me an audition time and overcomplicating shit all because I'm not barely legal lol. It's stupid. I ended up being like "I'll get right on that" and just hung up the phone. I don't like sending out pics at all. I've noticed since I started dancing up north (last time I danced it was in the south) that wasn't even the first time. A club in Jersey also wanted my age and then wanted me to send a picture when I told them my age. Last time I danced it was down south and they just gave me audition times and barely cared about age lol. It's weird. I'm tempted to call back one of these clubs and tell them I'm 19 and see if they still want a picture lol. That is, if I feel that level of petty in the near future lol.
My petty annoyance for today is that new Ariana Grande and Nicki Minaj song I hear every fucking time I go into a store on the radio. That song annoys the shit out of me.
I hate that song too, girl lol.
lynn2009
12-18-2016, 02:39 PM
I know no one wants to hear me complain about losing weight without trying but I would give almost anything to not feel shitty all the time. Especially the last few weeks, I keep getting episodes, sometimes multiple times a day, where I feel really nauseous suddenly and like I'm going to vomit. I never have thankfully but very sometimes I need to sit and put my head down which of course only looks stupid at work. I finally got a referral to go back to my gastroenterologist by yelling at some poor girl answering phones at the GP but who knows if my BS insurance will still deny it or how long it will take to be able to see her.
KaraLynn
12-18-2016, 02:41 PM
I hate that song too, girl lol.
OMFG It follows me everywhere I go too! :'(
LoveyDovey
12-18-2016, 05:59 PM
I can't stand it when strippers yell stuff while onstage. It just looks so tacky. I don't mind it when they get up close to a customer and say something, but when they yell stuff to customers, it's just....NO.
BarbieNYC
12-18-2016, 06:40 PM
my dad and his wife are in Mexico so I am taking care of their pets while they are away. My best friend helped me out by watching them while I was gone all week
The thing is that in just one week she has managed to turn the house upside down. Instead of resting my first free day after finals, I spent it deep cleaning the house. The trash was piled up everywhere, the floors needed to be mopped, and the dishes were stacked to the top. I was in school from early morning to evening this week and then needed to go to LA all day yesterday so I didn't realize how bad it had gotten until I was home all day today.
I am grateful she helped me out this week but I don't think I am gonna work while my parents are away. I'd rather stay home all Christmas break and keep the house clean than work a few shifts and come back to a disaster.
I realize this is her first time sort of living on her own and I try to remember how sloppy I was when I first moved out. I am not a neat freak by any means, but man the state of the house was enough to make me clean and I hate deep cleaning.
Also this makes me never wanna buy a big house because maintaining it is a pain in the ass. White marble floors dont stay clean for very long especially with dogs in the house. I give huge props to my stepmom.
Vyanka
12-18-2016, 07:08 PM
I can't stand it when strippers yell stuff while onstage. It just looks so tacky. I don't mind it when they get up close to a customer and say something, but when they yell stuff to customers, it's just....NO.
That just makes her look ghetto.
Selina M
12-18-2016, 10:01 PM
90% of the time I love the At-Home Zoo.
But right now I'm just cranky from a bunch of things & they are sooooo on my nerves. The dogs almost broke my ankle going downstairs & forgot all their leash manners, the new cat is sitting behind me on the couch pawing at me while I eat... then the dogs start running around like a damn elephant herd and chase the cat out of the room, so he starts yowling at me to come rescue him. ARGH SHUT UP ALL OF YOU.
I swear they only behave like wild animals when I'm already in a bad mood >:[
Balletpolegirl
12-19-2016, 04:01 AM
I know I've said this before, but I've had enough of the dumb shit I've heard at my current pole studio. Civilian b*tche$ saying how they feel bad when pole event patrons offer to tip them (like they're real strippers lol) because "they already paid at the door!" Lmfao! I stay quiet in that class for a reason.
Good thing there is a better studio close to my new vanilla job thank God. The gossip and peacocking of non-dancers is unlike anything I've really ever seen.
KaraLynn
12-19-2016, 04:34 AM
Bitches and their fucking lotion at work. I want to use the pole damnit! That shit was like trying to climb mount everest today. :(
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-19-2016, 09:09 AM
I know no one wants to hear me complain about losing weight without trying but I would give almost anything to not feel shitty all the time. Especially the last few weeks, I keep getting episodes, sometimes multiple times a day, where I feel really nauseous suddenly and like I'm going to vomit. I never have thankfully but very sometimes I need to sit and put my head down which of course only looks stupid at work. I finally got a referral to go back to my gastroenterologist by yelling at some poor girl answering phones at the GP but who knows if my BS insurance will still deny it or how long it will take to be able to see her.
Do you possibly have a sinus infection with postnasal drip?
I wish I could lose weight, I fattened up as soon as I came off the road lol
lynn2009
12-19-2016, 09:24 AM
Do you possibly have a sinus infection with postnasal drip?
I wish I could lose weight, I fattened up as soon as I came off the road lol
Idk what it is, I've been to see my gastroenterologist before over the summer and she took a bunch of blood for tests and said if it was all negative there could be something wrong with my pancreas. Then I forgot about it for a long time because one really gross symptom went away until I kept losing weight into being underweight.
So I emailed her and she said to come in again but that was right after my insurance went to a shitty HMO and they said I couldn't get a referral until seeing my me GP and I couldn't get an appointment with the GP until May. So the other day on the phone I yelled at some poor girl just doing her job and they did say I could get one referral as long as I kept the appointment in May. I thought it would take weeks to get an appointment with her but she had an opening tomorrow!! I'm stupid excited to go to the doctor (even if she is going to be really annoyed with me for not following her instructions from last time).
Thanks for your dismissiveness! That's my favorite thing!
xStacey
12-19-2016, 12:56 PM
I hate when delivery men leave packages right in front of the door when the recipient is not home, not everyone in the building are honest people ::)... So I made an order awhile ago, tracking number says it was delivered today, I wasn't home. I am not sure if it's the landlord upstairs who picked up my package or if it was stolen. Ugh I hate going upstairs to see them and I never allowed them to pick up my package, it happened once. I would prefer they leave the package at the post office, it's a 5 mins walk.
persianprincess
12-19-2016, 01:03 PM
^^^ same at a building I used to be at in NJ ... the parcel services would literally leave TVs etc in the front lobby of the building despite there only being cameras and no doorman ... so yeh you can imagine a ton went missing especially as we were right near a train station and all kinds of people got off there and helped themselves.
xStacey
12-19-2016, 01:49 PM
^^^ same at a building I used to be at in NJ ... the parcel services would literally leave TVs etc in the front lobby of the building despite there only being cameras and no doorman ... so yeh you can imagine a ton went missing especially as we were right near a train station and all kinds of people got off there and helped themselves.
Omg that's terrible...
Ugh landlord says she didn't pick it up.
persianprincess
12-19-2016, 02:06 PM
Omg that's terrible...
Ugh landlord says she didn't pick it up.
It's frustrating - like insanely so - probably best in future when you have tracking info to interject the package online and request it's held at the post office xo
rareaspasia
12-19-2016, 03:09 PM
Coworker at my vanilla job told me that as she was talking to a gay customer of ours (she is also gay) about the pulse shootings and the friends that they'd lost that night that another customer said "all faggots need to die." She just looked at the guy and told him "you can leave now." I admire her restraint so much. I'd have lost my shit.
I'm stopping by the site later this week to pay my respects. I wish people weren't so fucking twisted.
Exxotica
12-19-2016, 04:10 PM
That just makes her look ghetto.
I thought ghettos were poor jewish neighborhoods
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-19-2016, 05:04 PM
Coworker at my vanilla job told me that as she was talking to a gay customer of ours (she is also gay) about the pulse shootings and the friends that they'd lost that night that another customer said "all faggots need to die." She just looked at the guy and told him "you can leave now." I admire her restraint so much. I'd have lost my shit.
I'm stopping by the site later this week to pay my respects. I wish people weren't so fucking twisted.
Where I live in the Midwest homophobia is sooooo common but there are tons of gays here too (crime rate is very low here.) I cringe when I hear those things in public...
xStacey
12-19-2016, 06:18 PM
It's frustrating - like insanely so - probably best in future when you have tracking info to interject the package online and request it's held at the post office xo
Usually they hold it at the post office, but in some rare occasions some delivery men who don't do their job and shit like this happens. I tried asking people in my building if they picked up my package and someone told me the guy just left the package in front of the building, anybody could have took it. Now I don't know where it is, lost or stolen.
Well, I am done with my exams and I am pretty mad about how two exams went although I still did not get the marks, I now have plenty of time. I will make all the calls tomorrow morning to place complaints about this delivery guy.
Vyanka
12-20-2016, 12:23 PM
This Mercury Retrograde has me so cranky. Thank goodness it's around the holidays, when I'm not gonna be working much.
seashell
12-20-2016, 01:36 PM
I attempted to use Instagram for camming, for about 24 hours... until I got a facebook notification that one of my fellow teachers "followed you on Instagram." D: I freaked the fuck out, and it just happened that I only saw this moments before meeting a guy on a date... so a few hours passed before I could look into it.
Thank god it turns out that she followed my normal Instagram, which I never post anything to, and I had completely forgotten about.
I was ready to throw in the towel and just come out as a camgirl. Ughhh, Instagram. Why does it have to be linked to everything?!
seashell
12-20-2016, 01:37 PM
Bitches and their fucking lotion at work. I want to use the pole damnit! That shit was like trying to climb mount everest today. :(
I don't get it, either. How do they even use the pole with it? Must be the noobs.
LoveyDovey
12-20-2016, 03:49 PM
My landlord is a total butt tool. Just a cheap ass mother fucker who doesn't understand that he needs to respect the privacy of others. This is the universe's way of making me step up my game so I can afford a beautiful new home and move the fuck out. And leave his cheap nosy ass in the dust.
baer45
12-20-2016, 05:04 PM
My landlord has raised the rent three times in the past three years. I am think of moving or buying my own place now.
persianprincess
12-20-2016, 05:15 PM
^^^ went through the same thing. First year raised it $250. Very annoying.
Aurora_Sunset
12-21-2016, 06:19 AM
One of my cats is annoying the shit out of me. I don't know what his deal is lately. He'll find any reason to meow and cry all over the apartment, at any time of the night or morning, and I have no idea why. Every time I go to bed, the last thing I do is clean the litter boxes, fill the food bowl, and fill 2 water bowls so that they have nothing to whine about. On nights when I go to bed early and have to be up at 1:30am, he'll wake me up at midnight with his crying. When I try to sleep in on my days off, he'll wake me up at 5am with the same thing. And this stupid cat doesn't just meow - he yowls and gets louder and louder the more I ignore him.
I've wondered if he's just lonely, and he's old so his eyes are kinda bad, so I've called for him - he'll come running into the bedroom... and he'll just start crying again. So I go pick him up and put him in the bed next to me and pet him, and he just jumps down and runs back out to the living room to continue crying. WHAT DO YOU WANT?
I feel like a bad "mommy" having favorites, but my other cat just crawls into bed with me whatever time I go, and lies there cuddling with me until whatever time I get up. Only then does she start following me around and giving out little meows for attention. It's precious.
But the other hairy baby? Ugggh.... I don't know what his deal is. He doesn't need food, water, or a clean place to poop. I leave toys out for him that I hear him play with at night sometimes. He doesn't want to cuddle. Wtf, cat?
lynn2009
12-21-2016, 07:20 AM
One of my cats is annoying the shit out of me. I don't know what his deal is lately. He'll find any reason to meow and cry all over the apartment, at any time of the night or morning, and I have no idea why. Every time I go to bed, the last thing I do is clean the litter boxes, fill the food bowl, and fill 2 water bowls so that they have nothing to whine about. On nights when I go to bed early and have to be up at 1:30am, he'll wake me up at midnight with his crying. When I try to sleep in on my days off, he'll wake me up at 5am with the same thing. And this stupid cat doesn't just meow - he yowls and gets louder and louder the more I ignore him.
I've wondered if he's just lonely, and he's old so his eyes are kinda bad, so I've called for him - he'll come running into the bedroom... and he'll just start crying again. So I go pick him up and put him in the bed next to me and pet him, and he just jumps down and runs back out to the living room to continue crying. WHAT DO YOU WANT?
I feel like a bad "mommy" having favorites, but my other cat just crawls into bed with me whatever time I go, and lies there cuddling with me until whatever time I get up. Only then does she start following me around and giving out little meows for attention. It's precious.
But the other hairy baby? Ugggh.... I don't know what his deal is. He doesn't need food, water, or a clean place to poop. I leave toys out for him that I hear him play with at night sometimes. He doesn't want to cuddle. Wtf, cat?
It could just be him getting older. My parents cat that I took wasn't that bad but he did meow for no reason a lot plus was weird in other ways. I asked the vet about it and she said cats can get senile in old age like people do and there's not much that can be done for it :/
seashell
12-21-2016, 04:32 PM
Cold weather sucks. I've been outside sightseeing for too many days in a row, and I'm starting to feel sick.
rareaspasia
12-22-2016, 01:39 PM
It could just be him getting older. My parents cat that I took wasn't that bad but he did meow for no reason a lot plus was weird in other ways. I asked the vet about it and she said cats can get senile in old age like people do and there's not much that can be done for it :/
Yeah, I went through that with one mine, she lost her hearing and got confused a lot. Their sight gets worse too so sometimes putting up a bunch of nightlights can help. They get scared easily when they get old. She's still going though, I'm just hoping when she dies that she goes peacefully in her sleep.