View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
KaraLynn
12-22-2016, 03:00 PM
I'm in a private group for dancers on facebook and I'm really considering leaving it because of all the bitchy attitudes on there.....I don't understand what it is with stripper groups and forums and people's tendency to be bitchy and on edge constantly. Calm the fuck down. There's no need for it.
If I get stressed out whenever I post and comment on something in a group and forum because I have to wonder what kind of argument this innocent comment is going to cause and who's going to snap at me it's not fucking worth it.
Elektra Luxx
12-22-2016, 03:27 PM
Yeah, I went through that with one mine, she lost her hearing and got confused a lot. Their sight gets worse too so sometimes putting up a bunch of nightlights can help. They get scared easily when they get old. She's still going though, I'm just hoping when she dies that she goes peacefully in her sleep.
My cat Pickles is about 15 years old and I know she she can't hear very well because I'm always sneaking up and startling her.
victoriavein
12-22-2016, 08:29 PM
Maybe super petty but why does every preschool age tv show always act like "playing alone" and "not having friends" is the WORST thing ever, and the characters in the show are sooo unhappy by themselves and can't entertain themselves for 5 minutes, and their lives are basically empty without friends around 24/7. I think it's good for kids to be able to play by themselves sometimes. What's wrong with being independent? Like really what kind of message are they trying to send to kids? I never had tons of friends and mostly played by myself growing up and I turned out okay-ish. I think I have a richer imagination and a more critical mind because of it.
Elektra Luxx
12-22-2016, 08:40 PM
Maybe super petty but why does every preschool age tv show always act like "playing alone" and "not having friends" is the WORST thing ever, and the characters in the show are sooo unhappy by themselves and can't entertain themselves for 5 minutes, and their lives are basically empty without friends around 24/7. I think it's good for kids to be able to play by themselves sometimes. What's wrong with being independent? Like really what kind of message are they trying to send to kids? I never had tons of friends and mostly played by myself growing up and I turned out okay-ish. I think I have a richer imagination and a more critical mind because of it.
Wow!!! Great observation. Same here. I didn't have a lot of friends, still don''t. I've learned to create my own little world in my head.
Aurora_Sunset
12-23-2016, 06:58 AM
My damn vanilla company is now changing ALL the scheduling company-wide for 2017. Does the fuckery around here never end? We all have to "bid" on what shifts we want and priority goes to employees based on number of warnings against them + seniority. I was initially like Yay, I can bid for a new shift! And then when I looked at the only options for my level, I realized I'll probably just wind up with the same shift I have now because I have no seniority over literally anyone...
I also got excited for a second because I was like hey, maybe I can bid on a shift for the station that is only 30 minutes from home, rather than an hour and a half, but they are redoing the schedules down here so that there are NO EMT shifts... Excuse me? I understand that the station down here does more 911, and the one I work is mostly medical transport, but what the shit? ---> Off-shoot rant: Gee, I wonder why this state is VASTLY lacking paramedics? Maybe it has something to do with the fact that every company around here is so butt-fucking scared to stick an EMT on 911 service even with a paramedic partner that EMTs 1) never get enough experience with the gritty stuff to make an adequate decision about whether to go through 2 years of medic school if they don't know if they can handle that stuff or not, and 2) nobody wants to do only medical transport during 2 years of medic school and then suddenly get thrown to the wolves as though they know what they're doing when in reality they haven't been given a chance for any real critical experience... Fuck this state.
Aurora_Sunset
12-23-2016, 09:05 AM
Annnd this is the danger of shopping online.... What were supposed to be the main xmas presents for my parents - matching "What I love about Mom/Dad" books are not... adequate. The pictures online showed them as decent-sized flip books. They have prompts for you to fill in the sentences with what you love about them and your favorite this or that - I figured I would pretty them up by adding pictures and crafty stuff. I sat down today to have that be my project... I finally opened the GIANT box they came.... and these books are so small, they would fit in my back pocket. They're more something I'd give for Mother's Day and Father's Day... not as a main xmas gift.
Now 2 days before Christmas, I have nothing to give them but some kitschy food items.
miss.a.p1600
12-23-2016, 09:41 AM
^^^always check the dimensions. I shop online A LOT! Your parents will probably love it anyway seeing the effort you put in. I'm going to just get a basic gift card for everyone and call it a day!
Standing in long store line and why is the woman in front of me and the woman behind me coughing? I feel like I walked into an invisible cloud of airborne pathogens. To make matters worse why people disregard social norms of personal space while in line. Back back (give me 3 ft) - especially if you are coughing/sneezing/sick. Ugh!!!! You bitches better not be sick.
I gotta hurry up and get out of here!
LoveyDovey
12-23-2016, 05:19 PM
So I've been depressed about the upcoming holidays because on Christmas, after my son goes to his dad's I'll be alone. I am estranged from my family because they are abusive. Other stuff too. So I woke up today with a uti. Went to the doc, got meds. Then I got a raging headache and started vomiting from the antiobiotics. My regular texted me to see if I'd be in. I did not want to go in, but I'd be out $300 if I stayed home. Somehow I found the strength to go in. Thankfully management was cool and said I could just go deal with him and then go home. I made it through 15 dances and then bailed. He is so gross and I nearly wanted to barf on him, but I powered through. It was busy too, and I could have made more, but I had to get home. Took a shower. Eating wheat thins and drinking ginger ale.I realized that I need to stop being depressed because it's fucking with my immune system ( I barely ever get sick) and just calm down and be happy in my own company. God will make sure I'm okay, and you know what? I trust myself to take good care of me. I just want 2017 to be a great year. Now I'm feeling better , but I'm still taking tonight off.
whirlerz
12-23-2016, 07:27 PM
Aw. Feel better soon hon.
So. Hairdresser fucked up my root touch-up, too dark.
I text & let her know, she called me BK & said "give it a few shampoos if I still don't like, she'll redo "
Ugh, sure bitch
DonaDiabla
12-23-2016, 09:08 PM
Newbies making threads where they need to be spoon-fed everything but yet have some sort of attitude behind the advice they were given.
LoveyDovey
12-23-2016, 10:39 PM
Aw. Feel better soon hon.
So. Hairdresser fucked up my root touch-up, too dark.
I text & let her know, she called me BK & said "give it a few shampoos if I still don't like, she'll redo "��
Ugh, sure bitch
Thanks hun. Already feeling better. I recover fast. I don't have the time to be sick!
Does salon color really change with shampoos? Hope she'll redo and you'll be happy :-)
Selina M
12-23-2016, 11:19 PM
^ heck yes it does! Mine was purple and has faded to a natural redhead with blonde sort of color, and when I was a blonde my hair would change tones pretty easily. If your shampoo is full of sulfate and stuff it will pull color or change it.
I splurged and had my acrylics done and a pedi. The woman obviously hated her job, was super rough with her tools, the man and his nieces working were loud and obnoxious, and she did a terrible job. The glitter tips are crookedly drawn, a few actual nails are uneven on top, and I waited 45 minutes before putting real shoes on and still ruined one big toe.
Waste of $60!
LoveyDovey
12-23-2016, 11:43 PM
^^Aw man. Maybe ask them for a redo?
whirlerz
12-24-2016, 01:06 AM
I called salon just now (2am). They must have an answering service, cause I spoke to someone. I told her my hair'S awful & I'm upset!
Also I did shampoo it again, waiting for it to dry.
Idk when they'll get back to me, as it's Xmas Eve now
SO Pissed, had to take a Tylenol as she scrubbed my head so hard, fuckin bitch!
Ooh, so sorry SEL! The fuck's wrong w ppl?
Yipes!
miss.a.p1600
12-24-2016, 10:08 AM
Newbies making threads where they need to be spoon-fed everything but yet have some sort of attitude behind the advice they were given.
Some people are true ingrates and have no qualms biting the hand that feeds them.
I'm pissed cause it's raining on top of having to deal with holiday crowds. Well I'm just gonna have to suck it up a power through........If I can roll out of bed first.
whirlerz
12-24-2016, 10:48 AM
Back @ hairdresser's, pt II. Stay tuned
Aurora_Sunset
12-24-2016, 12:02 PM
Did something I normally don't do and actually read through the childish rant of the day from one of my Facebook friends. He has an obsession with the concept that everyone else in the world lies to themselves and that this is unacceptable and he has to be the beacon of truth or some shit (aka: "I'm not an asshole, I'm just telling the truth").
He mentioned me in his rant today, as his friend who has practiced reiki "because energy something something." Goes on to say that he has "managed to maintain his friendship with this friend by learning to bite his tongue" and yet it is more hurtful to not say something to people who are living in a fantasy and it would hurt me more if he "didn't make a comment about the joke that is healing people by playing hover hands."
Lol dude, go fuck yourself. I don't need your comments to plant that "necessary kernel of doubt" in my mind about whether or not reiki has any value. Ffs, I work in the medical field. I am more than aware of the difference between real medicine and alternative treatments such as reiki and if certain people believe in and/or get any benefit out of it. The fact that he couldn't even remember or articulate my explanation to him of what it was beyond his own limited view of "playing hover hands" makes him the last person who has any right to be laying down "truth" on the matter...
It's one of those things where I'm like who gives a shit if it's "real" or not in terms of your specific scientific criteria if there are people who get benefit from it? Why does it matter to you what brings people comfort?
We're not still friends because he's learned to bite his fucking tongue around me... he never does anyway. We're still friends because I'VE learned to bite my tongue and walk away from HIM instead of engaging in his bullshit bids for arguments. Get over yourself
Selina M
12-24-2016, 12:34 PM
^^Aw man. Maybe ask them for a redo?
It was 60 miles out of town. Not worth it to go back... I have the colors so I'll just fix the smudged toe.
Mine: I got a nice rude little PM from someone this morning ::) Merry Christmas Eve to you too, defensive girl!
BarbieNYC
12-24-2016, 01:46 PM
I'll be the first to say that I haven't been on top of my game and have been letting myself look like a bum OTC since I moved back to Cali.
Well since it's winter break I decided to start dressing up, wear my extensions, and do my makeup. And I forgot just how bitchy civilian women are to pretty girls. I seriously got so used to being treated a certain way when I looked plain. I was in Petsmart wondering why the sales associate, who is normally nice to me, was being so mean to me and it clicked that she didn't recognize me! And I'm currently waiting on my order in a restaurant and a woman made her husband switch seats with her so he wouldn't be sitting by where I was standing. I have to remember any time I'm not in LA, women will view a pretty girl as a threat
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-24-2016, 06:13 PM
Funny petty annoyance- I have mild food poisoning, entirely my fault. Derp.
carmen_b
12-25-2016, 12:20 AM
I'd just use the " see less from this person " or just do that ban where you can't " see " " ea h other at all.
Did something I normally don't do and actually read through the childish rant of the day from one of my Facebook friends. He has an obsession with the concept that everyone else in the world lies to themselves and that this is unacceptable and he has to be the beacon of truth or some shit (aka: "I'm not an asshole, I'm just telling the truth").
He mentioned me in his rant today, as his friend who has practiced reiki "because energy something something." Goes on to say that he has "managed to maintain his friendship with this friend by learning to bite his tongue" and yet it is more hurtful to not say something to people who are living in a fantasy and it would hurt me more if he "didn't make a comment about the joke that is healing people by playing hover hands."
Lol dude, go fuck yourself. I don't need your comments to plant that "necessary kernel of doubt" in my mind about whether or not reiki has any value. Ffs, I work in the medical field. I am more than aware of the difference between real medicine and alternative treatments such as reiki and if certain people believe in and/or get any benefit out of it. The fact that he couldn't even remember or articulate my explanation to him of what it was beyond his own limited view of "playing hover hands" makes him the last person who has any right to be laying down "truth" on the matter...
It's one of those things where I'm like who gives a shit if it's "real" or not in terms of your specific scientific criteria if there are people who get benefit from it? Why does it matter to you what brings people comfort?
We're not still friends because he's learned to bite his fucking tongue around me... he never does anyway. We're still friends because I'VE learned to bite my tongue and walk away from HIM instead of engaging in his bullshit bids for arguments. Get over yourself
Glamourmilf
12-25-2016, 03:15 AM
I'll be the first to say that I haven't been on top of my game and have been letting myself look like a bum OTC since I moved back to Cali.
Well since it's winter break I decided to start dressing up, wear my extensions, and do my makeup. And I forgot just how bitchy civilian women are to pretty girls. I seriously got so used to being treated a certain way when I looked plain. I was in Petsmart wondering why the sales associate, who is normally nice to me, was being so mean to me and it clicked that she didn't recognize me! And I'm currently waiting on my order in a restaurant and a woman made her husband switch seats with her so he wouldn't be sitting by where I was standing. I have to remember any time I'm not in LA, women will view a pretty girl as a threat
Honey, welcome to my world.
It depends on my mood, but I purposely dress provocatively to get a reaction from other women.
I was returning from seeing a trick, and decided to stop into Ulta beauty to see a girl I know who works there.
Right in the middle of talking to me, she grabs my down jacket and closed it tight.
Why? My cleavage underneath was too much for her to handle. Oh, gasp!
Yes, heaven forbid she is thought bad of from her co-workers.
She's an ex porn star, call girl, who is trying very hard to not let anyone know her past.
Piss off bitches!
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SnuffleUffleGrass
12-25-2016, 02:31 PM
Petty Christmas specific annoyance- I got an unwanted text from my crazy ex-sugardaddy (he's been blocked all year but my cell company makes people renew blocks manually every 3 months.) I actually felt a wave of nausea when I saw the text (I'm already feeling sick today so that really pissed me off.)
Short story this guy is super-delusional in addition to being a typical NPD sufferer. He actually has a girlfriend his age (maybe she left him.) I loathe the idea of giving him any satisfaction/pleasure so i won't call him & demand he stop contact. He's the midddle-aged equivalent of the dumb preschooler who smashes other kid's Lego houses or steals toys. NO way would I pay attention to him.
(& btw..he was never really rich. I discovered he only had extra money from inheritance $ plus sponging off of his poor ex-wife. I can't feel sorry for myself when I imagine what 30 years of marriage to him must have been like. Ugh.)
TL ; DR- Be picky with your Sugar Daddy selections.
persianprincess
12-25-2016, 03:09 PM
Friend invited themselves for the holidays ... I like when convo flows naturally and with him it doesn't ... 'so how was your week' ... 'it was good' ... and silence. I just don't feel like putting in the effort to make endless convo when he just wants to talk about his tech job. FUCKING SUICIDAL.
lilylilylily
12-26-2016, 08:24 AM
I sent a few random regs simple Merry Christmas texts yesterday, and one of them took this as I must really like him cuz he keeps sending pics of himself and his dog, then asked if we can get together today and now I just got a good morning text from him. All because I wished him a simple Merry Christmas lol.
ScarletKitten
12-26-2016, 09:01 AM
Yahoo comments on news articles are the absolute worst I've ever read. I'm never reading them again. Actually, I should just avoid Yahoo completely from now on. I'd rather read Reddit and YouTube comments.
Glamourmilf
12-26-2016, 09:08 AM
I sent a few random regs simple Merry Christmas texts yesterday, and one of them took this as I must really like him cuz he keeps sending pics of himself and his dog, then asked if we can get together today and now I just got a good morning text from him. All because I wished him a simple Merry Christmas lol.
I had a text from a guy from a dating site I was on last summer.
He blew me off for several months, by always cancelling plans to meet, and NOW, on Christmas morning decides to text me?
Fuck off!
Selina M
12-26-2016, 05:10 PM
Um... Explain how I can go to work and guys constantly make the "har har you've been dancing 5 years so you started at 15?" joke all day, and yet some 'photographer' just messaged me wanting me to play a 40 year old in his 'film'.
Bro did you even look at my portfolio?
whirlerz
12-27-2016, 06:04 PM
November Scorpion dude's fucking disgusting
Vyanka
12-28-2016, 12:30 AM
Eww. Just heard my neighbors fucking.
fbsmgirl
12-28-2016, 01:13 AM
I hate impractical people. I may be overly practical but still.
Like when moms freak out because their child has a fever - in December.
It's December. It's cold. Kids get sick. Especially when there are lots of other kids around. Ugh.
We had a rabbit like you
12-28-2016, 08:24 AM
Why are people so weird about the most BASIC facts of life..sex and death. My best friend didn't wanna take her 9 year old son to see her grandmas grave cause it was in a cemetery! Are the dead ppl gunna come out and grab him, or are you scared he may learn that..everyone dies??
To me as a parent it's just ridiculous. I try to be super straight up and honest with my kid the moment he has any questions and guess what, death is such a basic concept..it's adults that it scares.
We had a rabbit like you
12-28-2016, 08:30 AM
Oh and I'm starting to not be able to STAND my husbands middle brother or his wife. They think they are fucking King shit and make it very clear at any family gathering that they have 0 desire to interact w us or have any kind of relationship. It's just awkward. But hey they are super "suburban, picture perfect backyard, take the kids to their karate and ice skating lessons, soccer mom" twats anyways.
BarbieNYC
12-28-2016, 09:09 AM
I'm going to drop my "best friend" I've noticed I complain about her a lot on here but I always make excuses for her "she's young" if I need to complain about someone that much, they shouldn't be in my life
I've noticed jealousy, klepto tendencies, and extreme laziness. She hid it pretty well at the beginning but it's coming out now.
My dad gave her $400 to watch his pets while I was away. This was so I could be with my mom and work over the holidays. $400 is pretty cheap for a pet/house sitter for almost a month, but she gets like 8 hours a week at her job so it's a good chunk of money for her. The thing is, I've been doing all the work. The house is a disaster. I've been cleaning, cooking, taking out the trash, and I've been the one feeding the dogs and getting up at 530am to let them out. She said she doesn't let the dogs wake her up that early and I'm like -_- one of them is diabetic she can't wait for hours to hold her pee or eat. And I haven't worked the entire time my dad has been away.
The middle bathroom is disgusting. I refuse to clean it and I'm gonna make her clean it before my parents come back. I dry heave anytime I go in there. Thank God for the master bath.
Just the combination of everything makes me realize I am better off without her. She will learn as she gets older, but I have no business being best friends with a 20 year old no matter how mature she seemed, she still has a lot to learn and I don't have the patience to put up with that.
whirlerz
12-28-2016, 11:20 AM
Sounds like a good decision!
Well, the stylist that F'd my hair is paying me back today..
She's really weirding me out, we talked on the phone yesterday & she left me this long-standing message yesterday too
Hope she doesn't try to stab me or something, going to salon to get it so s/b ok..I hope!
persianprincess
12-28-2016, 11:29 AM
Honey, welcome to my world.
It depends on my mood, but I purposely dress provocatively to get a reaction from other women.
I was returning from seeing a trick, and decided to stop into Ulta beauty to see a girl I know who works there.
Right in the middle of talking to me, she grabs my down jacket and closed it tight.
Why? My cleavage underneath was too much for her to handle. Oh, gasp!
Yes, heaven forbid she is thought bad of from her co-workers.
She's an ex porn star, call girl, who is trying very hard to not let anyone know her past.
Piss off bitches!
46906
46907
Yep ... it gets too much ... don't punish me for being pretty and putting in an effort when it comes to how I look - because it's my job to look good, and if I don't .. no $$$.
I was in the mall the other day and two girls openly had a convo about me within ear shot "her ass must be fake, prob her tits too ... she is prob blah blah" ... really ladies? Sorry you look like you just rolled out of hell, ... :(
Pisses me off ... I'm also a pretty sweet person overall, so bitchiness just idk, rubs me the wrong way.
whirlerz
12-28-2016, 11:36 AM
Envy's a bitch!
Ugh, my lappie part's not in YET?
If that's the case, I'd like to change my $ pick up from pysch stylist tomorrow, but maybe that's not a good idea. Eesh
Selina M
12-28-2016, 01:29 PM
Ok I feel awful saying this, but I do not want this cat. This part probably belongs in 'confessions', but apparently he started to get out the other night and I wasn't terribly relieved that he came back.
He's a neat cat, but he's just created chaos. My other cat is a 9 year old male who has been an only cat his whole life, and HATES him. They cannot be in the same room together without mine hissing and getting so mad that he swats at everyone in the vicinity (so he's been clawing up the dogs as well). Every time there's a cat altercation, both dogs race over to it.
New Cat has to have his own room to eat in because Old Cat won't let him on the counter, and I can't put the baby gate up properly (because I need the door to shut at night), so he keeps knocking the damn thing over with an awful smashing clattering noise. Then the one dog keeps running in there to eat his food and out of the litter box. ARGH.
To further compound my annoyance, I just now lost my temper with the cats having another fight... Said I didn't want this damn cat, and SO (who is all pissed off because they woke him up fighting on the bed), yells at me that he doesn't wanna hear that. TOUGH SHIT. If I had WANTED another cat I would have gone to the shelter and picked one out >:[
lynn2009
12-28-2016, 07:03 PM
Ok I feel awful saying this, but I do not want this cat. This part probably belongs in 'confessions', but apparently he started to get out the other night and I wasn't terribly relieved that he came back.
He's a neat cat, but he's just created chaos. My other cat is a 9 year old male who has been an only cat his whole life, and HATES him. They cannot be in the same room together without mine hissing and getting so mad that he swats at everyone in the vicinity (so he's been clawing up the dogs as well). Every time there's a cat altercation, both dogs race over to it.
New Cat has to have his own room to eat in because Old Cat won't let him on the counter, and I can't put the baby gate up properly (because I need the door to shut at night), so he keeps knocking the damn thing over with an awful smashing clattering noise. Then the one dog keeps running in there to eat his food and out of the litter box. ARGH.
To further compound my annoyance, I just now lost my temper with the cats having another fight... Said I didn't want this damn cat, and SO (who is all pissed off because they woke him up fighting on the bed), yells at me that he doesn't wanna hear that. TOUGH SHIT. If I had WANTED another cat I would have gone to the shelter and picked one out >:[
Whatever you end up doing, you I don't think you need to feel bad about this. He was a stray.
I'm still not going to return him, because I very purposefully decided to adopt him and I'm not a POS, but I do not like my new cat. At all. I can't believe what a brat he is about his wet food. Every morning he screams and screams for it, like he hasn't eaten in days (when I leave plenty of high quality dry food out 24/7), tries jumping up on the counter, walks underfoot the whole time, eats a whole can in a minute then starts whining for more. I got him checked out at the vet (over $200) and their only idea for his rancid poop (which is still rancid) was to test for parasites, which was negative. Every evening he's whiny for his wet food again, the only time he's affectionate and meowing/whining again at which point I usually lose my mind over a cat's meowing and yell at him to shut up. I think I'm going to get him microchipped and let him be an indoor/outdoor cat in the spring-fall if he stays this annoying and his poop smell is going to penetrate the walls. He even sleeps in front of the fridge every night.
The people who were feeding him as a stray said he kept trying to go into their house and they couldn't take him because they already had three. You'd think for a stray that used to live outside he'd be a LITTLE grateful. Maybe he wouldn't annoy me so much if I didn't know about all the poor cats stuck in small cages or really small traps at the clinic, but I do and he is a bratty, fat shit. He's way worse than my first baby who was really sick.
baer45
12-29-2016, 12:18 AM
Thank God I am a dog person. :)
BarbieNYC
12-29-2016, 07:26 AM
^^lol my dad's dog wakes me up every morning at 5am D:
My pitbull on the other hand is super awesome and can sleep through the entire morning. Sometimes with pets it's the luck of the draw.
rareaspasia
12-29-2016, 07:26 AM
Cats can be a lot of work and can be hard to train, it can be difficult but it's doable. But there's no shame in rehoming them, they have personalities like people and sometimes just like people they're not going to get along with everyone. There's some good books on cat behavior though if anyone is interested, I can share them when I have time later.
whirlerz
12-29-2016, 10:25 AM
Well, once again the SD texted me @ the LAST MINUTE to say he can't make it..This after making me wait a day to respond to my text. Reeeally fed up w/ his shit.
I decided to go myself to breakfast, fuck him.
I had to change my seat cause 2 perfume doused women SAT behind me.
Psycho hair stylist is returning my $ by mail, as I refused to go to her salon to pick it up, had a bad feeling about it
Aurora_Sunset
12-30-2016, 06:07 AM
I've seriously started to consider not responding to my bf's texts on days that I work... I'm usually already tired and cranky and he always ends up saying something that puts me over the edge. The other day he was making vaguely passive-aggressive comments about how I was too busy to see him for a couple days, and then that same night after work, pulled some "Are you still awake? Oh, never mind, I had a question but it's better discussed in person" bullshit on me. I HATE that.
This might seem out of proportion but yesterday I ended up working 16 hours (and have an hour and 1/2 commute each way). He texted me long after I should have theoretically been home and wanted me to come over. I said I wasn't even off work yet. I know the response was well-meaning, but he was like "Do what you have to do. You can tell me about your day tomorrow. Text me when you get home tonight so I know you didn't pass out on the way home. I worry about you on that drive after the long days."
1) "Do what you have to do." He's been saying this every time I don't get off work in time and end up not being able to entertain him that night... Like, dude, I don't know when you're gonna catch on, but I have to do what I have to do, and I'm honestly not sitting around feeling bad about it. This is the schedule. This is the job. When are you gonna learn not to expect me to be able to make plans or have any energy after work?
2) I don't want to tell you about my day. Sorry if that's shitty, but I already lived it once, I don't need to go through it again. He's also way too emotional to handle venting about a bad day. When I want to vent, I need to vent to someone who, yes, is gonna be sympathetic, but also knows how to not let my emotions take over them - he gets so wrapped up in other people's emotions that he ends up taking them on, being way more anxious than I ever was originally, and then perpetuating it and not letting me just "get it out" and move past it. He's honestly the last person I want to explain a stressful day to.
3) This is the main thing that pissed me off - I don't mind "text me when you get home" things when it's late and the drunks are out, or the weather is shitty or something. But just "I want to make sure you didn't pass out?" I'm not a fucking child. I'm not going to pass out on the drive home just because I worked a long day. I'm very mature about the fact that if I don't feel like I can stay awake to make a long drive, I will pull over and sleep somewhere. The last thing I need at the end of a long day - one in which I end up being in charge of everything because my partner has health problems and starts to mentally check out if we go past a certain time - is to be babied. I hate being babied. And he knows this. Looking out for my well-being because of forces outside my control - fine. But don't treat me like an incompetent. Especially when I've been handling my shit all day, thank you very much.
Idk... I'm hoping it's just this new schedule and adjustment to a radically different lifestyle, and I'll start to cope with things better and calm down... but right now, I'm seriously questioning if I have the capacity to be in a relationship at the moment. It's not my job that's pissing me off and stressing me out. If I just had that, sure, I'd be tired, slightly stressed, and pissy, but I would handle it - it's him that puts me over the edge every time I talk to him while I'm in the middle of trying to deal with shit.... Idk, we'll see.
Glamourmilf
12-30-2016, 07:29 AM
Yep ... it gets too much ... don't punish me for being pretty and putting in an effort when it comes to how I look - because it's my job to look good, and if I don't .. no $$$.
I was in the mall the other day and two girls openly had a convo about me within ear shot "her ass must be fake, prob her tits too ... she is prob blah blah" ... really ladies? Sorry you look like you just rolled out of hell, ... :(
Pisses me off ... I'm also a pretty sweet person overall, so bitchiness just idk, rubs me the wrong way.
Ikr?
I've been in the middle of moving the last few days, so no make-up or sexy clothes.
I felt......how do I describe it?
Oh yeah, ...INVISIBLE!!
And Glam doesn't like invisible.:'(
I'm very flirty when I'm out and about running errands. Even when I was homeless I would always go to my Storage and change into sexy outfits, and do my make up.
At first I couldn't figure out why I wasn't getting the usual 'Flirt' back from men.
Then it hit me....ah. I see.
NEVER doing that again!!! Lol!!
#BombshellModeActivated.:flirt:
ScarletKitten
12-30-2016, 09:16 AM
WHY the FUCK do most companies put disgusting milk in their dark chocolate bars?!?! This is my number one pet peeve of all time. I get consumed with the wrath of a thousand gods and demons every single time I go to a grocery store, find a chocolate bar labeled "Dark Chocolate," and have my hopes crushed when I read the label and find out it has pus-contaminated mammary gland secretions in it! DARK CHOCOLATE is supposed to mean chocolate without milk!!!! How difficult is that to wrap these companies' brains around?! I think it's a conspiracy. They want to put milk in everything, everything, EVERYTHING! Fucking disgusting. I am a lactose-intolerant vegan, I just want some REAL dark chocolate. Is that too much to ask?! I think I'm going to start a petition.
/endrant
Violethollywood
12-30-2016, 09:18 AM
the rating system pisses me tf off bc these little mother fuckers who are either A) underage or B) have some sick twisted fantasy Sit there and rate my ass a 1 or 2 bc i wont associate with them. Those are the assholes i want to reach thru my screen . Pisses me the hell off. don't be a petty little fuck tard just bc i don't want to do your sick step sister fantasy fucker.
persianprincess
12-30-2016, 09:58 AM
Ikr?
I've been in the middle of moving the last few days, so no make-up or sexy clothes.
I felt......how do I describe it?
Oh yeah, ...INVISIBLE!!
And Glam doesn't like invisible.:'(
I'm very flirty when I'm out and about running errands. Even when I was homeless I would always go to my Storage and change into sexy outfits, and do my make up.
At first I couldn't figure out why I wasn't getting the usual 'Flirt' back from men.
Then it hit me....ah. I see.
NEVER doing that again!!! Lol!!
#BombshellModeActivated.:flirt:
LOL I love this ...
whirlerz
12-30-2016, 10:07 AM
I love invisible!
I get more than ENUF attention
Anyway, waiting outside the restaurant for the SD b/c he's late again & I don't want to be sitting in there myself
xStacey
12-30-2016, 03:23 PM
The cheapo regular rant again... I've known him for five years and he's always been cheap but it's getting worse. The last summer he only visited a couple of times instead of weekly and he waited until I started school again to text me he misses me instead of coming to see me before I am gone.
We haven't spoke the last few months and last week he texted me Mery Christmas and he asked me if I wanted a Christmas present. I can usually afford what I want, but been wanting Louboutin and I don't want to spend so much money on shoes so I said that's what I've been eyeing although I knew he couldn't afford it. He replied I am sure you'll look amazing in them but it's a little out of my budget. I replied well I don't really need anything but champagne and chocolate to celebrate new year's together would be great. He was like awwww :3
Today I texted him to ask what plans he has for new year's he replied my sister invited me but I probably wouldn't stay long, did you have anything to suggest? I said I thought we could celebrate new year's together again. He booked. Then I replied are you bringing the champagne and chocolate? The cheap ass replies I'll go shopping tomorrow and I'll see. I said aww you're so nice! He said there's high chances I won't have anything with me, I just don't wanna hurt you. I understand why he doesn't have a girlfriend lol.