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Aurora_Sunset
01-28-2017, 01:19 AM
I could never be with a guy who has a set sleeping time, when there's no work the next day. It's like, what are you, a senior citizen sleeping by 9 p.m.? I understand trying to get at least 5 hours of sleep to be functional at work though.

I guess that's why I am still single....

Right? Like, he needs to be up at 6am, not YOU. Stay up and do you if you have nowhere to be tomorrow... But no... :/ Ugh.... I hate the mindset of a lot of my female friends sometimes.

Violethollywood
01-28-2017, 07:18 AM
im always exhausted so i try to sleep as much as i can . i don't stay up past midnight usually. I used to be up til 4 am easy but not anymore. work and family have completely exhausted me so like anytime someone wants to go party im like fuck that sounds lame. i can drink at home and deal with less bullshit lol.plus it's too much of a hassle to find a babysitter .

LoveyDovey
01-28-2017, 08:46 AM
I have a customer who spent alot so I gave him my number (a while back). He's been asking me out on dates but not too much where I need to block him cause I've been trying to get him back into the club to spend more. He's coming in tomorrow but idk if he'll actually spend money or be annoying and try to sit for free just so he can say 'see I came and saw you now where's my date' or something. He even said once 'are you just trying to milk me for all my money' like really dude?! You've seen me ONCE in the club and we didn't even do a room we just did a bunch of dances and he tipped well. How is that milking you of all your money lol. Plus if he did expect a dancer to go out with him wouldn't you need to see her a few more times? Why the hell would I go out with some guy who came in and spent some money like months ago. AND now he just asked for a picture.

God these guys are so stupid I can't take it sometimes.

God, I hate guys like this!!! Why don't they understand. ...the money they spend is for time with us in the club and dances. It doesn't matter how much they spend...they are not entitled to see us outside the club!!! It's not a dating service!! We are not your girlfriend!! I had one just like this whom I was forced to block on my phone. The last straw was when he blew up my phone with calls and texts , saying "You need to answer your phone". Um, no I don't, dude. Blocked. God, when will they learn?

Aurora_Sunset
01-28-2017, 09:08 AM
I do not understand guys who continue to try to contact me when it's been pretty obvious that I have no interest. I once had a guy who flirted with me at work years ago, I told him I was moving soon and wasn't looking to hang out, and he continued to text me for a year even though I kept saying I wasn't going to hang out with him. One time, I talked to a guy in a bar one freaking night, in another state, drunkenly gave him my number, then proceeded to ignore him. He texted me for OVER a year - sometimes at 4am, talking about how he "missed me so much" (even though it's not like we were ever anything) and at one point, when I had deleted his number and asked who it was when he texted me again, he was all like "omg, I'm so relieved you remember me!" Ummm.... why? Also gave my number to a club customer one time who proceeded to text me randomly for well over a year after I quit. When I pretended that he had the wrong number and sent him a dick pic to "prove" that I was a guy and he was barking up the wrong tree, he made some disgusting comments about me sucking dick - even though I never even met this guy OTC, let alone did anything with him. Where the fuck does he get off pretending that anything happened between us, especially when he thinks he's talking to a goddam stranger!?

Now, this guy who was dating one of my friends months ago and who I've never even met, keeps trying to talk to me. I was responding for awhile the first time around, and he asked if it was weird for us to talk. I said honestly, yeah. He said he understood and if I wanted to talk to him further, I could message him, otherwise, he would take the hint and leave me alone.

....He's been trying to message me like every 2-3 weeks since then despite me never responding to the messages.

Like..... do they fucking teach this shit to men in some secret, private school? What goes through their minds that they keep messaging someone who has shown no interest, and who they don't even have a history with, for months or YEARS with no response??? And of course, if I said something like "stop texting me" I would be the "bitch" who didn't need to "be like that."

And men fucking deride us for being cautious about who we talk to and give out our number to because "it's no big deal." No, but.... it fucking is though

JGB2009
01-28-2017, 10:05 AM
Right? Like, he needs to be up at 6am, not YOU. Stay up and do you if you have nowhere to be tomorrow... But no... :/ Ugh.... I hate the mindset of a lot of my female friends sometimes.

I know a female like that....don't know what they do that SMH

chanzep
01-28-2017, 09:40 PM
Why is my Amazon package saying it was delivered on Thursday when it was not!, all the other stuff is here grr its annoying its flea stuff for my cat, I wanted to do all her treatments today, it better be here on Monday!.

whirlerz
01-28-2017, 10:00 PM
Does garlic powder or anything work in the meantime? That sucks.

Genoveve
01-28-2017, 11:50 PM
Why is my Amazon package saying it was delivered on Thursday when it was not!, all the other stuff is here grr its annoying its flea stuff for my cat, I wanted to do all her treatments today, it better be here on Monday!.

Did it go UPS? Whenever my shit says it was delivered when it wasn't I take the tracking number to the actual UPS site and it will say that UPS dropped it off to my local post office, which means that now they have to bring it to me(which usually means I get it the next day). Super fucking annoying, I get packages directly from UPS all the damn time not sure why sometimes they have to add that extra step.

LoveyDovey
01-29-2017, 12:04 AM
I do not understand guys who continue to try to contact me when it's been pretty obvious that I have no interest. I once had a guy who flirted with me at work years ago, I told him I was moving soon and wasn't looking to hang out, and he continued to text me for a year even though I kept saying I wasn't going to hang out with him. One time, I talked to a guy in a bar one freaking night, in another state, drunkenly gave him my number, then proceeded to ignore him. He texted me for OVER a year - sometimes at 4am, talking about how he "missed me so much" (even though it's not like we were ever anything) and at one point, when I had deleted his number and asked who it was when he texted me again, he was all like "omg, I'm so relieved you remember me!" Ummm.... why? Also gave my number to a club customer one time who proceeded to text me randomly for well over a year after I quit. When I pretended that he had the wrong number and sent him a dick pic to "prove" that I was a guy and he was barking up the wrong tree, he made some disgusting comments about me sucking dick - even though I never even met this guy OTC, let alone did anything with him. Where the fuck does he get off pretending that anything happened between us, especially when he thinks he's talking to a goddam stranger!?

Now, this guy who was dating one of my friends months ago and who I've never even met, keeps trying to talk to me. I was responding for awhile the first time around, and he asked if it was weird for us to talk. I said honestly, yeah. He said he understood and if I wanted to talk to him further, I could message him, otherwise, he would take the hint and leave me alone.

....He's been trying to message me like every 2-3 weeks since then despite me never responding to the messages.

Like..... do they fucking teach this shit to men in some secret, private school? What goes through their minds that they keep messaging someone who has shown no interest, and who they don't even have a history with, for months or YEARS with no response??? And of course, if I said something like "stop texting me" I would be the "bitch" who didn't need to "be like that."

And men fucking deride us for being cautious about who we talk to and give out our number to because "it's no big deal." No, but.... it fucking is though

Omg I know!!! I have an ex-customer like this too. It just goes on...and on...

seashell
01-29-2017, 04:59 AM
Whyyy do some airbnb's only provide one roll of toilet paper when I'm staying for multiple weeks?!?

Am I a filthy human being? I need moarrr

rareaspasia
01-29-2017, 05:22 AM
Why is my Amazon package saying it was delivered on Thursday when it was not!, all the other stuff is here grr its annoying its flea stuff for my cat, I wanted to do all her treatments today, it better be here on Monday!.

The exact same fucking thing happened to me last month! Amazon two day delivery took a week to show up and my 19 year old kitty started getting a few fleas before it showed up finally. It got delivered to the wrong house apparently and when it did show up it looked like someone sat on the package. I think our mailman smokes crack because he always fucks up our deliveries.

chanzep
01-29-2017, 07:29 PM
Did it go UPS? Whenever my shit says it was delivered when it wasn't I take the tracking number to the actual UPS site and it will say that UPS dropped it off to my local post office, which means that now they have to bring it to me(which usually means I get it the next day). Super fucking annoying, I get packages directly from UPS all the damn time not sure why sometimes they have to add that extra step.

yes it said ups had it and had the name of the person , im gonna sort this out tomorrow its annoying me.

xStacey
01-29-2017, 07:55 PM
Haven't done a real interview in 5 years and tomorrow I have a mock interview with two big law firms. It's a "mock interview" where the interviewers give feed-back on how to improve, but everybody says it's a real first interview and it's important to do well to make a good impression.

A student who got an internship at a reputable law firm gave me 3 documents with practice questions, there's like over 200 of them, it's tomorrow, I'm sick and preparing my answers with a fever. I hate those questions omg.

It's pretty reassuring though to know that it's not really what you say that matters, but how you say it. I'm working with what I have and I'm surprised I came up with some clever answers, but that's still a hell lot of questions =_=!

lynn2009
01-29-2017, 07:56 PM
Haven't done a real interview in 5 years and tomorrow I have a mock interview with two big law firms. It's a "mock interview" where the interviewers give feed-back on how to improve, but everybody says it's a real first interview and it's important to do well to make a good impression.

A student who got an internship at a reputable law firm gave me 3 documents with practice questions, there's like over 200 of them, it's tomorrow, I'm sick and preparing my answers with a fever. I hate those questions omg.

It's pretty reassuring though to know that it's not really what you say that matters, but how you say it. I'm working with what I have and I'm surprised I came up with some clever answers, but that's still a hell lot of questions =_=!

Good luck!!!

chanzep
01-29-2017, 11:03 PM
glad there are no politics allowed on here!. Facebook is annoying as fuck right now and not just the main thing too, people I thought were cool with their views on other things too grr I don't want to know, argh its annoying and how dare they tell other people what to do! mind your business!.

KaraLynn
01-30-2017, 01:25 AM
glad there are no politics allowed on here!. Facebook is annoying as fuck right now and not just the main thing too, people I thought were cool with their views on other things too grr I don't want to know, argh its annoying and how dare they tell other people what to do! mind your business!.

I AGREE. My entire facebook feed is either full of politics or people posting a million memes blasting people for NOT talking about politics. (I'm most likely one of the people these memes are directed at because I almost never post about politics) not because I don't care, but because it turns into an ugly argument where people cover their ears and refuse to listen to one another and just want to hear themselves scream. Nothing useful gets accomplished. I'm happy this forum is a break from that.

Anyway......I have been getting annoyed by people asking "How long much longer do you plan on dancing for? You can't do it forever! Aren't you going to go to school!" blah blah blah *stab*

xStacey
01-30-2017, 05:15 AM
Haven't done a real interview in 5 years and tomorrow I have a mock interview with two big law firms. It's a "mock interview" where the interviewers give feed-back on how to improve, but everybody says it's a real first interview and it's important to do well to make a good impression.

A student who got an internship at a reputable law firm gave me 3 documents with practice questions, there's like over 200 of them, it's tomorrow, I'm sick and preparing my answers with a fever. I hate those questions omg.

It's pretty reassuring though to know that it's not really what you say that matters, but how you say it. I'm working with what I have and I'm surprised I came up with some clever answers, but that's still a hell lot of questions =_=!

I cancelled the mock interview last minute, not only am I not ready, but I am way too sick, coughing, sore throat, fever. I was googling how to handle interview when sick and the advice that keep coming up was reschedule or cancel lol. I'll do mock interview with friends or the career center, it just sucks because the spots were so limited and it was actual lawyers that would give us feed-back, sigh.

SweetJulia
01-30-2017, 05:20 AM
Dude, I just spent three days in the most excruciating pain ever. Horrible neuropathy on the whole left side of my body, like a line got drawn down the middle. Had the worst medical care ever. If one more idiot asked me one more question, I would have tried to put them in the same amount of pain. From the worst phlebotomist in the world who had to draw blood from my foot to the fat ass nurse who kept calling me honey to the touchy feely doctor who thought a pelvic exam was required for whatever was wrong. Seriously, screaming and begging. I so hope these pieces of crap find themselves in the same position with someone as stupid and slow as them doling out the meds. Oh, and how many pills are you gonna offer to someone who has to puke every second. You really think that's gonna stay down? My bottle of pills and I are writing a terrible review of them to add to literally every, single one they already have online.

SweetJulia
01-30-2017, 06:36 AM
I am so frickin' aggravated with the influx of girls in the strip clubs lately. It seems like all of the girls who used to frequent backpage's escort section have moved to the clubs. I lost two of my best customers this week due to these cheap ass "40 dollar specials" girls. One of my regulars was always respectful of my no sex rule but he caved the minute one of them offered him sex for 40. The other one was bragging to me about how he got a bbbj for cheap. The way I see it with the way strip clubs are over saturated around here they are going to be getting raided soon. I'm going to have to find another egg because I don't want to get caught up in that mess. I don't do extras and I'm certainly not going to start degrading myself to 40 dollar specials. Ugh, grr!

I so can't pretend that's happened to me, but it's literally going to drive tons of women to suicide, drug use or overdose, and an insane amount of danger.

Glamourmilf
01-30-2017, 07:42 AM
Whyyy do some airbnb's only provide one roll of toilet paper when I'm staying for multiple weeks?!?

Am I a filthy human being? I need moarrr

Lol! The airbnb I recently stayed at for over a month did same thing !
I don't understand it. The reviews he had from other guests mentioned that he was kind enough to leave toilet paper, shampoo, etc. Not for me. Oh well.
Another thing I thought was odd, was that there weren't any wastebaskets, or bath mats. ( I stayed in 2 different guesthouses he had) . I had to buy my own.
And no heat!!! Luckily I had my own space heater.
But, I gave him glowing reviews, because he offered the MOST important thing, and that was PRIVACY. He lived in the main house, and left me the f..k alone! Even made sure his bratty kid was out of sight.
With camming, I really was appreciative of that .

WendiStarr
01-30-2017, 12:37 PM
A couple days ago this photographer that I worked with told me about how he bought a couple dresses in my size and a vintage railroad lantern(we were talking about those and he knows that I collect them) that I could have if I was willing to do another shoot with him. It's not that I didn't like shooting with him because he was a nice guy and was respectful and professional during the shoot. But he has that whole lonely and desperate vibe going on like he kept trying to get me stay longer after the shoot, just to hang out and talk. He texted me after the shoot that he thought that I was such a nice person that he wanted to know if I'd like to just come over and hang out with him and he'd pay me for another photo shoot and give me the railroad lantern. My radar is going off big time on this guy. He told me that he doesn't get out much because he has no vehicle and it seems like now he's just bothering me because I was nice. Damn it, why do I have to treat people nice so that they think I want to be best friends? I guess I should be one of those stone cold bitches who barely says anything during photo shoots. While it would be cool to have a photographer that I was comfortable working with and could work with regularly, I get the feeling that he wants more than just a professional working relationship, especially with the whole buying dresses in my size thing and buying a railroad lantern after I mentioned that I collected them. I've never had any photographer buy stuff for me like that without expecting something in return(ie. sex, bj, or whatever sexual crap). I feel like I'm going to have to somehow convince my boyfriend to go to photo shoots with me from now on even though he never seems to have any interest in tagging along. Knowing my boyfriend, he would be pissed and tell me that he doesn't want me to do any more photo shoots if they're going to be creeps.

carmen_b
01-30-2017, 02:58 PM
^ Aw, the usual male photographer stereotype haha. I have also been there ( I have fantastic pics from a couple shoots, but have no idea where the guys put the images or even what happened to them )! Oh well. I just figure without my name attached, it's just an " example " ( no nudes ) in a portfolio somewhere or in their personal collection ha . I just really hope they didn't put them anywhere creepy.
I'll probably use lady photographers from now on too.

xStacey
01-30-2017, 05:49 PM
When people ask you about your GPA (especially people you don't really know), even if you have an amazing GPA, it feels like when people ask you about your salary.

miss.a.p1600
01-30-2017, 07:41 PM
So I think I'm done eating at McDonald's - permanently. It's just gross, greasy af, order is rarely right, and doesn't taste as good as it did when I was a kid. And I've gotten diarrhea at least 3 times right after. I thought if I go to better locations that would help but no the workers look busted like they don't give two fucks about themselves let alone someone else's food. I don't trust their food anymore.

I don't care if those Golden Arches are beaming and I'm dying of starvation I will press my foot on the gas pedal and drive right past.

Vyanka
01-31-2017, 12:18 AM
This is SO fucking awkward and HATE this shit so much, grrrrrr!!

This is the 2nd time a customer approaches me, who has hooked up with my BFF in the past. The guys NOT knowing who I am, but I know who they are bc I remember faces and names. UGH!!

I don't care how much he's willing to give, I can't. Gross.

seashell
01-31-2017, 09:09 AM
When people ask you about your GPA (especially people you don't really know), even if you have an amazing GPA, it feels like when people ask you about your salary.
That's so rude. Seriously, wtf is wrong with people? lol

seashell
01-31-2017, 09:14 AM
^I've been thinking about doing a photoshoot for my online adult stuff... but yeah, creeps galore out there. I'd only be willing to work with a female.

My petty annoyance is... men. Good god, I hate that my life revolves around men. Dating, then camming, then phone sex. Too many goddamn men.

WendiStarr
01-31-2017, 09:50 AM
^I've been thinking about doing a photoshoot for my online adult stuff... but yeah, creeps galore out there. I'd only be willing to work with a female.

My petty annoyance is... men. Good god, I hate that my life revolves around men. Dating, then camming, then phone sex. Too many goddamn men.


Good luck finding female photographers. It seems there is a shortage of them but an overabundance of creepy men.

baer45
01-31-2017, 01:03 PM
When people ask you about your GPA (especially people you don't really know), even if you have an amazing GPA, it feels like when people ask you about your salary.

Nobody asked me about my GPA not even in an interview. I had it on my resume anyway.

KaraLynn
01-31-2017, 02:07 PM
Most of my pissy annoyances lately have been politics related and this one is no different......I don't think people understand that being able to go on strike is actually a privilege and a luxury that a lot of people don't have and can't afford to do. People want to get all pissed off and accuse people of being racist, insensitive Trump supporters for not saying fuck my job, my life, and my family, I'm going to risk losing my job and everything else to just not show up to work so I can protest Trump. No, sometimes people just have families to feed and support.

Not going on strike or sitting at protests every day does not automatically mean you're a racist, don't care about human rights or Muslims, or support Trump, it very well could mean you don't have the luxury of being able to decide not to go to work. People want to preach tolerance and understanding but they only want to tolerate and understand what THEY want to tolerate and understand. They couldn't give two fucks about anything outside of that box.

xStacey
01-31-2017, 03:05 PM
Nobody asked me about my GPA not even in an interview. I had it on my resume anyway.

In an interview it's fine, it's one of my biggest selling point, but I'm talking about classmates lol

baer45
01-31-2017, 03:58 PM
So I think I'm done eating at McDonald's - permanently. It's just gross, greasy af, order is rarely right, and doesn't taste as good as it did when I was a kid. And I've gotten diarrhea at least 3 times right after. I thought if I go to better locations that would help but no the workers look busted like they don't give two fucks about themselves let alone someone else's food. I don't trust their food anymore.

I don't care if those Golden Arches are beaming and I'm dying of starvation I will press my foot on the gas pedal and drive right past.

I eat at wendy's twice a year. Haven't been to Mcdonald's or KFC for years. But I do eat hotdogs and pizza often at costco.

baer45
01-31-2017, 04:12 PM
In an interview it's fine, it's one of my biggest selling point, but I'm talking about classmates lol

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Genoveve
01-31-2017, 04:30 PM
So I think I'm done eating at McDonald's - permanently. It's just gross, greasy af, order is rarely right, and doesn't taste as good as it did when I was a kid. And I've gotten diarrhea at least 3 times right after. I thought if I go to better locations that would help but no the workers look busted like they don't give two fucks about themselves let alone someone else's food. I don't trust their food anymore.

I don't care if those Golden Arches are beaming and I'm dying of starvation I will press my foot on the gas pedal and drive right past.

I loooove McDonald's but your post reminds me of something; the food never ends up being as amazing as it smells for me and I think it's because growing up the dark meat nuggets were my favorite and that's what I associate the smell with, however they don't have those anymore and so the current nuggets aren't great to me. My McD's trips always end up being more than a little anticlimactic because of this. I still love their fries, hashbrowns, and iced vanilla coffees though. And the basic hamburgers. ;D

miss.a.p1600
01-31-2017, 04:42 PM
My OCD has been activated and the only thing saving me right now is this pop music on the radio

ScarletKitten
01-31-2017, 05:07 PM
My petty annoyance is... men. Good god, I hate that my life revolves around men. Dating, then camming, then phone sex. Too many goddamn men.

Girl, I hear ya.

baer45
01-31-2017, 06:47 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLkZTJczirU

Aurora_Sunset
02-01-2017, 07:49 AM
I hate this one guy I work with sometimes at my day job on the ambulance. He is so damn negative, it brings down my entire day. He just bitches constantly about how everyone else at the company is a dumbass/asshole and calls his wife multiple times throughout the shift to yell and argue on the phone with her. On top of that, he lies and exaggerates everything and steals. We did a psych transfer yesterday - nothing crazy, guy had checked himself in for chronic pain and suicidal thoughts because of the pain and he was going to a more well-equipped hospital.

1) The first thing my partner said to the guy when I walked away to talk to the nurse (I could still hear him) was "Hey, are you gonna give my partner any trouble in the back of the truck?" I appreciate that sort of thing if he was combative in any way, but he clearly was just super despondent - I felt it was really inappropriate to bark at an already depressed guy like that as though he had done something wrong when he clearly wasn't going to be any trouble.

2) The nurse handed us a bag of his stuff and my partner "discretely" pulled out a pocket knife and put it in his pocket. I told him that wasn't a bad idea to not have it within reach but to make sure he remembered he had it. He was like yeah, of course. Then we got to the receiving hospital, I was handing over the guy's stuff and turned to him to loudly ask if he had it (because I know he's a fucking thief) and even then he was just like "No." When the nurse looked at him funny, he goes "He had a small knife, which I know you guys would take away from him anyway so I just threw it away before leaving the other hospital." No he fucking didn't.... he just pocketed it. Maybe he's right that they would have taken it from him anyway, but that's not his fucking call to make and you don't fucking steal from patient's belongings.

3) On our way back to the truck, we had been escorted up by a cop who took us back down, and my partner starts making comments about "Oh, they're gonna have fun with that guy - totally detoxing - off of pills," making the patient sound like a shitty addict despite the fact that I had specifically told him that the guy's tox screen had come back with only marijuana... Why do you need to lie about that? He does the same shit when he drives like a maniac to back up an emergency run. He drives so dangerously and if anyone calls him on it, he'll be like "Well, it was an important run, we had to get there." No, but not really though.... the medic was already on-scene and it was just low blood sugar. We were just going for lift assistance.... He's so desperate to make the job more exciting than it is. I can't stand people like that. You're not there to be a fucking hero every day - you're there to do a lot of things that don't involve life-or-death or everyone being jacked-up-crazy. If that's gonna make you so unhappy that there's no "action" every minute of every day, you're in the wrong job.

On top of that, if we ever get a psych patient who is clearly hallucinating or has dementia before we get them in the back of the truck where I take over, he'll start fucking with them. Feeding into their delusions or just saying random crap because he knows they don't understand. It makes me sick. First of all, you don't feed into someone's hallucinations. That makes it worse - you're supposed to just calmly say "I don't see anything." And it's SO inappropriate to fuck with a dementia patient. Look, I make stupid, inappropriate comments to my partners sometimes and off-color jokes to people when I describe something ridiculous. It comes with the job - you have to be able to laugh at morbid things. But to someone's face, while they're in your care, show some respect. They're a human being.

I fucking hate working with him. I ignore him most of the day and try to talk over him if he starts being stupid in front of a patient, but he just doesn't seem to get it. I'm glad he failed his EMT test and can only be a driver. The last thing this city needs is him in the back of the fucking truck.

SnuffleUffleGrass
02-01-2017, 07:54 AM
I hate this one guy I work with sometimes at my day job on the ambulance. He is so damn negative, it brings down my entire day. He just bitches constantly about how everyone else at the company is a dumbass/asshole and calls his wife multiple times throughout the shift to yell and argue on the phone with her. On top of that, he lies and exaggerates everything and steals. We did a psych transfer yesterday - nothing crazy, guy had checked himself in for chronic pain and suicidal thoughts because of the pain and he was going to a more well-equipped hospital.

1) The first thing my partner said to the guy when I walked away to talk to the nurse (I could still hear him) was "Hey, are you gonna give my partner any trouble in the back of the truck?" I appreciate that sort of thing if he was combative in any way, but he clearly was just super despondent - I felt it was really inappropriate to bark at an already depressed guy like that as though he had done something wrong when he clearly wasn't going to be any trouble.

2) The nurse handed us a bag of his stuff and my partner "discretely" pulled out a pocket knife and put it in his pocket. I told him that wasn't a bad idea to not have it within reach but to make sure he remembered he had it. He was like yeah, of course. Then we got to the receiving hospital, I was handing over the guy's stuff and turned to him to loudly ask if he had it (because I know he's a fucking thief) and even then he was just like "No." When the nurse looked at him funny, he goes "He had a small knife, which I know you guys would take away from him anyway so I just threw it away before leaving the other hospital." No he fucking didn't.... he just pocketed it. Maybe he's right that they would have taken it from him anyway, but that's not his fucking call to make and you don't fucking steal from patient's belongings.

3) On our way back to the truck, we had been escorted up by a cop who took us back down, and my partner starts making comments about "Oh, they're gonna have fun with that guy - totally detoxing - off of pills," making the patient sound like a shitty addict despite the fact that I had specifically told him that the guy's tox screen had come back with only marijuana... Why do you need to lie about that? He does the same shit when he drives like a maniac to back up an emergency run. He drives so dangerously and if anyone calls him on it, he'll be like "Well, it was an important run, we had to get there." No, but not really though.... the medic was already on-scene and it was just low blood sugar. We were just going for lift assistance.... He's so desperate to make the job more exciting than it is. I can't stand people like that. You're not there to be a fucking hero every day - you're there to do a lot of things that don't involve life-or-death or everyone being jacked-up-crazy. If that's gonna make you so unhappy that there's no "action" every minute of every day, you're in the wrong job.

On top of that, if we ever get a psych patient who is clearly hallucinating or has dementia before we get them in the back of the truck where I take over, he'll start fucking with them. Feeding into their delusions or just saying random crap because he knows they don't understand. It makes me sick. First of all, you don't feed into someone's hallucinations. That makes it worse - you're supposed to just calmly say "I don't see anything." And it's SO inappropriate to fuck with a dementia patient. Look, I make stupid, inappropriate comments to my partners sometimes and off-color jokes to people when I describe something ridiculous. It comes with the job - you have to be able to laugh at morbid things. But to someone's face, while they're in your care, show some respect. They're a human being.

I fucking hate working with him. I ignore him most of the day and try to talk over him if he starts being stupid in front of a patient, but he just doesn't seem to get it. I'm glad he failed his EMT test and can only be a driver. The last thing this city needs is him in the back of the fucking truck.

Report him.

whirlerz
02-01-2017, 10:03 AM
I know someone that had a knife & when in the hospital, stabbed himself, then sued hospt/Dr for LOT$$$$.
Seriously!

buttonpop
02-01-2017, 08:42 PM
I wrote this whole thing about how so many of the students at my college are idiots and mouthbreathers and then deleted it because I realized i'm only annoyed about it because i bought a slice of pizza to reward myself for a long day of school then dropped the thing face down on the ground just outside my house.

whirlerz
02-01-2017, 09:20 PM
Shit!
Just got the local bar band monthly, there's a Chippendale-type review & it's already sold the fuck out! >:( The real Chipps are coming to Hse of Blues, but it's in the city which's be mega expensive & pkg, blah blah.:(

KaraLynn
02-02-2017, 06:30 AM
I don't give out club information as much on here anymore. I'ts not for the reason that most people say they stopped, I really don't care if someone returns the favor or not that's up to them, it's because I can't stand the whole condescending "Well I did WELL THERE so you must not know what you are talking about!!" responses when someone's experience somewhere is different than mine. Or the people who tell me I'm wrong about an area I danced in as recently as last week when I know for a fact they haven't been there in about 2 plus years, yet they're automatically believed over me because they have a higher number of stripperweb posts than me.

Everyone has different experiences in different areas and clubs. There's no need to be a condescending asshole and accuse people of lying if they didn't do as well as you did. Also, just because someone has more posts doesn't mean they are automatically correct over someone who doesn't have as many. It's best to find things out for yourself. I've done well in areas people say suck while I've bombed in "profitable areas" It happens. Everyone is different.

Aurora_Sunset
02-02-2017, 06:56 AM
I don't give out club information as much on here anymore. I'ts not for the reason that most people say they stopped, I really don't care if someone returns the favor or not that's up to them, it's because I can't stand the whole condescending "Well I did WELL THERE so you must not know what you are talking about!!" responses when someone's experience somewhere is different than mine. Or the people who tell me I'm wrong about an area I danced in as recently as last week when I know for a fact they haven't been there in about 2 plus years, yet they're automatically believed over me because they have a higher number of stripperweb posts than me.

Everyone has different experiences in different areas and clubs. There's no need to be a condescending asshole and accuse people of lying if they didn't do as well as you did. Also, just because someone has more posts doesn't mean they are automatically correct over someone who doesn't have as many. It's best to find things out for yourself. I've done well in areas people say suck while I've bombed in "profitable areas" It happens. Everyone is different.

Lol, right? I posted once about why I wouldn't go back to a certain club because they were super dead the first night I was hired. And someone who travels a lot was like "I TOTALLY MAKE SO MUCH MONEY DURING *busy event season*!" Like, ok, that's cool, but I was talking about just a random Monday during the rest of the year. "WELL I ALSO HAVE A FRIEND WHO WORKS THERE AND MAKES 1000 A NIGHT!" lol, ok, whatever. I believe you, I was just sharing the fact that when I was there, there was one other dancer and one customer for hours.... They also proceeded to argue with me when I said they opened later these days, probably because they're too slow to justify opening earlier. Yeah, ok, your "friend" works there but doesn't know the hours? They literally just told them to me, and oh yeah, they're even on the website lol... guess I just don't know what I'm talking about though ::)

Aurora_Sunset
02-02-2017, 07:12 AM
*sigh* The women's shelter is now requiring 2 hours a month of continuing education for all volunteers. I get it, it just seems like a lot of reading to do on top of grad school reading and writing, working more than 40 hours a week, and continuing education for my job. I've had to pretty much give up my other volunteer gigs when I started working a vanilla job. I kept this one because it was important to me and it's easy to sign up for on-call shifts overnight on my nights off. I have to either keep digging up documentaries or decent articles on my own that equal 2 hours, or they're like "We have a reading group (which I don't have time for) and a bunch of great articles in the crisis line office!" (which I'm never in because I do on-call, not in-shelter shifts).

I have a documentary queued up for when I have free time - I just haven't had any that doesn't involve sleep, 30 minutes of decompression time in the morning, or appeasing my bf who gets upset at how little we see each other. I thought I'd have some wiggle room into February, but like first thing yesterday morning, I got an email reminding me I needed to get hours in.

I actually do wish I had time for reading group this month because they're doing one on sex workers.

miss.a.p1600
02-02-2017, 11:12 AM
Dumb a$$ed people "celebrating" black history month but don't have any black friends, don't know any black history facts (like Fredrick Douglass is NOT alive), and shout out white men who "freed" slaves.

The purpose is to take roughly 28 days or less (out of 365) to acknowledge black people who have done or are doing positive things, making contributions to the world, etc. but prejudice people making a mockery and using it as pr.

#keepingitignorant

seashell
02-02-2017, 02:01 PM
I just got hired for a year-long teaching job in Japan, and my mom asked if I want to celebrate with friends/family. Nooot reeeally... I lost touch with most of my friends from home over the past couple years, because of a dysfunctional relationship... and my family... well, our get-togethers are pretty dysfunctional, too, lol. >_>

KaraLynn
02-02-2017, 03:24 PM
I went on a paid dinner date with a regular customer and he spent half of it grilling me about "What are you going to do with the rest of your life? What are you going to do when you can't do this anymore?" and similarly related questions. As usual with people who ask questions like this he wouldn't accept any answer I tried to give him and kept asking. I eventually tried to change the subject and ask him questions about himself and he responded with "I don't like to talk about myself" and continued with his annoying interrogation. Isn't the point of paying for a dinner date to relax, have fun, and pretend you're on a real date? Either way, it was annoying and made me not want to ever do that again. It' weird because he was a regular of mine in that city for awhile and never talked like that in the club, if he had I would have never agreed to do that date with him.

I don't mind people asking about my plans for the future, but I DO have a problem with it coming across as an interrogation and not accepting any answer I give. Oh well......I'm trying to rest and my dog wants in and out of my room every two seconds.

baer45
02-02-2017, 10:23 PM
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Glamourmilf
02-03-2017, 06:45 AM
I went on a paid dinner date with a regular customer and he spent half of it grilling me about "What are you going to do with the rest of your life? What are you going to do when you can't do this anymore?" and similarly related questions. As usual with people who ask questions like this he wouldn't accept any answer I tried to give him and kept asking. I eventually tried to change the subject and ask him questions about himself and he responded with "I don't like to talk about myself" and continued with his annoying interrogation. Isn't the point of paying for a dinner date to relax, have fun, and pretend you're on a real date? Either way, it was annoying and made me not want to ever do that again. It' weird because he was a regular of mine in that city for awhile and never talked like that in the club, if he had I would have never agreed to do that date with him.

I don't mind people asking about my plans for the future, but I DO have a problem with it coming across as an interrogation and not accepting any answer I give. Oh well......I'm trying to rest and my dog wants in and out of my room every two seconds.

This type of interrogation questioning is something I have had from EVERY person who finds out I'm a sexworker.( That I've told).
Bugs me to no end. And to add insult to injury, every one of them ask me how to get into it too, when they lose their job.
Yeah, right. Like I'm going to stop what I'm doing to spoon feed you all the info. GTFO!
That's why now I make up a job that I do. Truth is, I enjoy sexwork, have been doing it for most of my life.
I'm older than most on here, and am living proof that there is no age limit on being successful in the adult biz.