View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-03-2017, 07:12 AM
Dumb a$$ed people "celebrating" black history month but don't have any black friends, don't know any black history facts (like Fredrick Douglass is NOT alive), and shout out white men who "freed" slaves.
The purpose is to take roughly 28 days or less (out of 365) to acknowledge black people who have done or are doing positive things, making contributions to the world, etc. but prejudice people making a mockery and using it as pr.
#keepingitignorant
My surrogate grandparents were from the South (they lived under Jim Crow laws, decided to up & leave to California..where we all met.) So I always get a kick out of Black History Month.
Aurora_Sunset
02-03-2017, 07:24 AM
I went on a paid dinner date with a regular customer and he spent half of it grilling me about "What are you going to do with the rest of your life? What are you going to do when you can't do this anymore?" and similarly related questions. As usual with people who ask questions like this he wouldn't accept any answer I tried to give him and kept asking. I eventually tried to change the subject and ask him questions about himself and he responded with "I don't like to talk about myself" and continued with his annoying interrogation. Isn't the point of paying for a dinner date to relax, have fun, and pretend you're on a real date? Either way, it was annoying and made me not want to ever do that again. It' weird because he was a regular of mine in that city for awhile and never talked like that in the club, if he had I would have never agreed to do that date with him.
I don't mind people asking about my plans for the future, but I DO have a problem with it coming across as an interrogation and not accepting any answer I give. Oh well......I'm trying to rest and my dog wants in and out of my room every two seconds.
I feel like part of this is them fishing for some opening to offer an "arrangement" or play Captain Save-a-Ho. Negging you into thinking that you're not "young and beautiful" anymore and have no other options so you'll be willing to settle for a less-than-stellar situation with him.
Kinda ties into my pissy annoyance of the week in general: I feel like a lot of my regulars have been seeing me less because they've been focusing on girls who play the "needy" angle. It's the sort of shit where, when they do see me, they'll praise me for my having my shit together and act like they're so put out that all these other girls are constantly calling them up, asking for appointments because they need the money, hinting around about needing Christmas presents for their kids until the dude takes them shopping, laying all their sob stories on him.... and yet, they obviously get off on it. They keep recruiting girls like that into their lives and taking care of them long-term and spending the majority of their time and money on them. I feel like it's fairly obvious that they don't see me as often because I never act like I need their money, and wait for them to contact me. They can "complain" about those other girls all they like, but they clearly like being "needed" and playing the savior who takes care of the damsels in distress.
Another girl and I went out for dinner with that good regular who used to see me a lot and has been dragging his feet lately, and he once again said "We'll plan some private time together soon" and yet I haven't heard a peep from him since. He's never been like this in the 3+ years I've known him, and I really think it started when I got a vanilla job that isn't waitressing. Now he's been focusing all his attention and money on these waitresses that he meets at his weekly restaurants who are single moms with no money. It's clearly where he gets off, and me bettering myself now instead of being "just an escort" is no longer enticing to him. I think I am literally the only girl in his repertoire who isn't a single mom.
Every time they ask how things are going, I feel like I should just start laying my financial woes and some drama out there for them to pick up on and give me more money, but my pride won't let me. Even if it's just a hustle, I can't stand for any of my clients to think they're something special and I'm dependent on them.
BarbieNYC
02-03-2017, 10:35 AM
*sigh* this site has some calm periods and then all at once a shitstorm of controversial threads pops up or if they didn't start out controversial, they eventually turn into one.
That's the internet for you I guess
baer45
02-03-2017, 01:11 PM
I went on a paid dinner date with a regular customer and he spent half of it grilling me about "What are you going to do with the rest of your life? What are you going to do when you can't do this anymore?" and similarly related questions. As usual with people who ask questions like this he wouldn't accept any answer I tried to give him and kept asking. I eventually tried to change the subject and ask him questions about himself and he responded with "I don't like to talk about myself" and continued with his annoying interrogation. Isn't the point of paying for a dinner date to relax, have fun, and pretend you're on a real date? Either way, it was annoying and made me not want to ever do that again. It' weird because he was a regular of mine in that city for awhile and never talked like that in the club, if he had I would have never agreed to do that date with him.
I don't mind people asking about my plans for the future, but I DO have a problem with it coming across as an interrogation and not accepting any answer I give. Oh well......I'm trying to rest and my dog wants in and out of my room every two seconds.
That would piss me off as well. I have met a few men like that but none of them approached me like an interrogation.
Some men consider themselves as our advisors and saviors. They enjoy our service but they pitty us on various level. They like to give us advice on life, money, even the relationships. The funny part is, your client probably think he's being truthful to you. Like he really cares about you... I am sorry, you don't get to fuck me and tell me this is no way for a living.
SweetJulia
02-03-2017, 01:33 PM
I hate the state of the medical field and the humiliating state of mental health services in the US. After FINALLY getting in to see a shrink, waited four hours cuz the stupid cunt locked herself out of the office. After another two hours of the same questions over and over cuz she's senile, she asked me what I was thinking about. Being honest, I answered about killing her. Second time she asked, about puppies, third time, the stock market. After getting a prescription for meds I specifically said don't work for me, she prescribed just those. Went to the bathroom, came back to her office, and asked if I was the new receptionist. On the way to get them filled, almost got ran over by a car, and on the way back, got puked and hit on by a homeless person. Yeah, in that order. Thank God for drug dealers. FINALLY feeling better. Screw this, I hope when I die someday-probably from a papercut or an allergic reaction to a dildo, with my luck, I want to come back as a rich persons' spoiled Persian cat.
seashell
02-04-2017, 12:38 AM
Wow. Ugh.
Now I feel dumb.
Well, I went to Ulta, I asked an employee there about a product, I'd looked it up online, their site said that store had it in stock.
Well, this bitch took it upon herself to argue about it, saying they 'dont carry everything in store that's online'::)
AFTER I showed her the product on my phone telling her what section it was listed in, blah blah blah.
She kept insisting it wasn't in the store, she asked me to show her where it said that & I did.
I mean she continuously argued about it.
Finally she asked someone, (she did ask a stylist that didn't know) & they told her where to find it.
I got a bunch of stuff, but I think I'll return it all & fill out the questionnaire on how I was treated like shit:(
Sheesh! I would call and complain to a manager about that specific employee... but returning the stuff would be a lot of extra effort on your part. I think since Ulta's a big company, speaking to someone in charge is probably going to make just as much of an impact.
Glamourmilf
02-04-2017, 05:57 AM
Wow. Ugh.
Now I feel dumb.
Well, I went to Ulta, I asked an employee there about a product, I'd looked it up online, their site said that store had it in stock.
Well, this bitch took it upon herself to argue about it, saying they 'dont carry everything in store that's online'::)
AFTER I showed her the product on my phone telling her what section it was listed in, blah blah blah.
She kept insisting it wasn't in the store, she asked me to show her where it said that & I did.
I mean she continuously argued about it.
Finally she asked someone, (she did ask a stylist that didn't know) & they told her where to find it.
I got a bunch of stuff, but I think I'll return it all & fill out the questionnaire on how I was treated like shit:(
This girl I met when I moved here works for Ulta and is nearly suicidal because of it.
Why?
She's a hairstylist who makes minimum wage, and doesn't even get a commission until she sells $1000 worth of hair care, or/and makeup. All has to be done in a week's time.
She said that's how the girls in the floor get paid too.
I said then that explains why none of the employees give a shit!
She also told me that Ulta constantly writes her up for being late, or when she fucks up a clients hair.
Well, I told her if she doesn't like their rules, go work somewhere else.
I think their prices are too damn high.
I only pop in there to do my makeup once in a while.
Legz541
02-05-2017, 04:27 AM
Strangers touching me, both customers and just people out in public. I have really long, shiny, healthy hair and people reach out to feel/stroke it while they're commenting on it. Also, my nails are always very nicely done and people reach out and grab my hand to look at them WAY too often. Like look with your eyes NOT your hands damn it!
chanzep
02-05-2017, 02:42 PM
My laptop has gone crazy since I did HP update the other night, now the only sites that open are this one, Netflix and youtube and google! no amazon or even my homepage its insane, I tried so many things and called HP and they wanted to charge me to help I said no! because its their stupid update! FML!
miss.a.p1600
02-05-2017, 03:09 PM
Sometimes I hate my family members inviting me places and it's usually last minute. I don't want to go but then I have to lie and make up an excuse. T minus 20 min and the place is 30 min away and I'm still lounging in my pjs. Ugh!!!! I can't wait to move then problem solved.
I hate large group function I always have to be "fake". I feel fake around my family members. They are not like me. If I didn't look somewhat like them I'd think I was adopted.
I think I'm going to come up with a way to be conveniently be out of town or busy every weekend.
Aurora_Sunset
02-05-2017, 07:29 PM
This fucking douchecanoe has been monopolizing the one and only cart in the laundry room for over half an hour now to stand at the counter and fold, what I can only assume at this point, is every goddam item he owns. I have 3 huge loads of laundry that need to be moved to the dryers but aren't anywhere near the dryers, and I need that cart to move them. I keep going back and he's still fucking standing there!
whirlerz
02-05-2017, 09:21 PM
I would walk right over there & say, "Excuse me, but I have three loads, I have a bad arm (or something), do you think I could grab that cart"? In the process of saying it, I'd grab it anyways, regardless of what Neandrethal said.
So, today I go in the lobby, I talk to this one lady, but I avoid her too, she always argues w/me about b/s, & it's petty/annoying af.
Then tge mgr's daughter has her kids, they're mostly looking at a netbook, but the one girl's laying FACE DOWN on the FILTHY FLOOR???
I mean, fine, it's your kid, but ugh. I even said, "Uh, she's on the floor, touching it w/her face/hands?:O She, (the mom) didn't even look up?::)
Then the other lady starts arguing w/me about if the movie that's on, on the lobby tv is 'scary' or not.."The Hand that Rocks the Cradle"?? She starts explaining to me why it's not scary, & I said, "yea, I know, cause I saw it more than once, & also when it was @ the movies"::)
Ookay, w/ev ladies.:-X
missykrissy
02-05-2017, 09:43 PM
I feel like part of this is them fishing for some opening to offer an "arrangement" or play Captain Save-a-Ho. Negging you into thinking that you're not "young and beautiful" anymore and have no other options so you'll be willing to settle for a less-than-stellar situation with him.exactly this. it is a neg. "tell me your plan for your life. oh nooooo, that will never work"
miss.a.p1600
02-05-2017, 10:50 PM
Just reported that deranged narcissist to the dating site I found him on. Told them he was mentally ill and emotionally abusive. I waited so if something happens it's not painfully obvious I'm the one reporting him.
He messed with the wrong one.
I hope karma and justice will be served. I hope they ban him from the site.
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seashell
02-06-2017, 05:30 AM
I have a UTI
Pharmacist won't give antibiotics without a prescription
Flight leaves in 2.5 hours
Constant painful urination... ugh
Phone is refusing to call Croatian phone numbers, so I can't get a hold of a dr
*cries*
LoveyDovey
02-06-2017, 08:41 AM
I have a UTI
Pharmacist won't give antibiotics without a prescription
Flight leaves in 2.5 hours
Constant painful urination... ugh
Phone is refusing to call Croatian phone numbers, so I can't get a hold of a dr
*cries*
Oh, no...I hate those. You poor girl. Can you get a hold of some apple cider vinegar somehow? That plus water will help. I'm so sorry...UTIS suck...
lynn2009
02-06-2017, 11:03 AM
Why do men all think once they're done being dickish and nasty I should get over it immediately as well?
Aurora_Sunset
02-06-2017, 11:36 AM
Guy friend who lives in another state has been hitting me up for the last few days, talking about a music festival happening next month, saying if I wanted to come out for it, I'm welcome to stay at his new house for the weekend. I said maybe, and he kept sending more messages about it that I just didn't feel a need to respond to cuz they were just repetitive.
I thought this guy knew I have a bf because it hasn't exactly been a facebook secret, but only a couple hours after I posted something mentioning him last night, dude messaged me again with "Nevermind. Don't worry about it."
WOW. Could you be any more obvious that the only reason you wanted me to come out was because you thought I'd hook up with you all weekend? He's totally one of those guys who constantly posts tales of woe and stupid memes on facebook about what a nice guy he is and how women don't appreciate niceness.... And yet, clearly the only reason it would be worth it to put up a female friend for a weekend of fun music festival would be if I'm fucking him... lolz
persianprincess
02-06-2017, 11:49 AM
^^^ HATE guys who bang on about how nice guys always finish last etc ... god wish they would give it a rest.
whirlerz
02-06-2017, 02:08 PM
OMG, I am beyond pissed rn..I go to meet the SD, we have lunch (@ least I do, his cheap ass has a bagel).
So he tells me he's going to restroom..OK
Minutes tick by then more time goes by, finally I ask someone to go check on him..& he's fucking gone???
I text, then call him, nothing. As I'm waiting in line @ drive up for the bank..He text me everything s fine?!>:(>:(
Fucking Dick, Idk if he had a heart attack or something, I'm sitting there dying cause allergies are in overdrive!
Sooo pissed, embarrassed WHO tf does that?
OK, I'm gonna take my Benydryl & die now.
Fuck him. Sheesh
persianprincess
02-06-2017, 02:11 PM
^^^ wtf was his reason for leaving?
I would be pissed.
seashell
02-06-2017, 04:07 PM
Oh, no...I hate those. You poor girl. Can you get a hold of some apple cider vinegar somehow? That plus water will help. I'm so sorry...UTIS suck...
Thanks, I haven't tried that! I think they do sell it here... will see if I can pick some up.
My airbnb host gave me the address of a doctor that sees foreigners, and she got me all set up with a prescription. I'm starting to think it wasn't a UTI, though, because it started to feel better after a 5 or 6 hours, and then came back as just a dull burning sensation (instead of the silently-screaming, kill-me-now kind of pain). I didn't take the antibiotics, but they're there just in case.
seashell
02-06-2017, 04:11 PM
OMG, I am beyond pissed rn..I go to meet the SD, we have lunch (@ least I do, his cheap ass has a bagel).
So he tells me he's going to restroom..OK
Minutes tick by then more time goes by, finally I ask someone to go check on him..& he's fucking gone???
I text, then call him, nothing. As I'm waiting in line @ drive up for the bank..He text me everything s fine?!>:(>:(
Fucking Dick, Idk if he had a heart attack or something, I'm sitting there dying cause allergies are in overdrive!
Sooo pissed, embarrassed WHO tf does that?
OK, I'm gonna take my Benydryl & die now.
Fuck him. Sheesh
Wow, what an asshole!
Sex work attracts the crazies... I'd chalk it up to that. He probably got a call from his wife or something, and didn't have the brainpower to figure out how to leave like a normal person.
KaraLynn
02-06-2017, 04:24 PM
I'm so sick of the "cash me outside" bullshit. I swear I am two seconds away from being really petty and unfollowing anyone who posts a meme with that stupid phrase and that stupid little girl's face on it.
whirlerz
02-06-2017, 04:56 PM
^^^ wtf was his reason for leaving?
I would be pissed.
^Idk! Supposed to see him again this would & I damn well find out!
Wow, what an asshole!
Sex work attracts the crazies... I'd chalk it up to that. He probably got a call from his wife or something, and didn't have the brainpower to figure out how to leave like a normal person.
Yea, he's not married, but yea to the rest, absolutely!
For cry fucking eye, give a bitch some notice!
Trust me, I will grill his ass over it.
Ugh, took my Benydryl, took a nap but my sinus headache
Also, I moving to another storage & I dealt w that :(
Rd
missykrissy
02-06-2017, 05:05 PM
I have a UTI
Pharmacist won't give antibiotics without a prescription
Flight leaves in 2.5 hours
Constant painful urination... ugh
Phone is refusing to call Croatian phone numbers, so I can't get a hold of a dr
*cries*
Hun! You NEED to buy some D-Mannose at Whole Foods !!! You can also get it off Amazon. It's a powder you mix with water, and when you pee it out it grabs up the bacteria from your urinary tract. It has no side effects and always works! I used to get uti's all the time, but now, never. You can even use this preventitive after sex. You can buy it on Amazon cheaper than Whole Foods
WendiStarr
02-06-2017, 05:39 PM
I agree with the D-Mannose. I took it before when I had UTI symptoms but didn't have health insurance and didn't want to go to ER because the ER charges everyone $100 out-of-pocket if you don't have insurance where I live. The D-Mannose worked like a charm. From the 1st day of use, the constant peeing reduced and pain went away. By the 2nd day I felt totally better.
Glamourmilf
02-06-2017, 05:48 PM
OMG, I am beyond pissed rn..I go to meet the SD, we have lunch (@ least I do, his cheap ass has a bagel).
So he tells me he's going to restroom..OK
Minutes tick by then more time goes by, finally I ask someone to go check on him..& he's fucking gone???
I text, then call him, nothing. As I'm waiting in line @ drive up for the bank..He text me everything s fine?!>:(>:(
Fucking Dick, Idk if he had a heart attack or something, I'm sitting there dying cause allergies are in overdrive!
Sooo pissed, embarrassed WHO tf does that?
OK, I'm gonna take my Benydryl & die now.
Fuck him. Sheesh
Jesus, what the actual f..k?
What strange behavior.
Did you at least get your $$$$$$$$_?
seashell
02-06-2017, 07:19 PM
^^Nice! I guess I'd better try this D-Mannose :D I ended up taking my antibiotics (when the needles and fire sensation started up again lol), but that is good to know. It would be easy to take it on a trip, too. I reeeally wish I would've bought Azo or some kind of painkiller with me... The pharmacy sold me herbal uva ursi/bearberry pills, but I was too chicken to take them, lol
whirlerz
02-06-2017, 09:00 PM
Jesus, what the actual f..k?
What strange behavior.
Did you at least get your $$$$$$$$_?
Yes ty, I did get my $ ( not what I expected, so seeing him Wed::))
He also of the check, but seriously, just wow:O
miss.a.p1600
02-06-2017, 11:00 PM
My mother is soooo typically like a scary like an old ass senior citizen......and it's annoying me!!!
I'm kinda tech savvy and trying to help her get out the dark ages but it's like dragging a dirty cat to a bath.
So I tell her to log in to an app to download digital coupons but she forgot her password and is about to create a whole new account I'm like dude just enter your email and ask for password reset. She does it then I'm like go log into your email and she can't remember her password. I'm like dude wtf?!?
So I tell her to go into her iCloud Keychain to retrieve the passwords and shes like I don't trust that I could get hacked. In my head I'm like bish no one is trying to hack the average Jane doe. As long as you have secure wifi (which she does) and logging into a secure website (with https) then you are fine.
The fact that she would rather hold onto her fear and waste time trying to remember passwords and login than to simply enter this data into Keychain to save time is baffling.
Then she's like I'm going to download 1password?!? I'm like why the hell would you download an extra app when you can use keychain???
Now she's complaining about being locked out of all these other sites.
I can't right now....
miss.a.p1600
02-07-2017, 01:16 AM
I can't believe haters are body shaming lady Gaga super bowl look saying she could stand to loose a little weight. I get she's a performer and in the public eye and should look her best but really though?!?
She is tiny as it is do they want a stick figure? If she had stomach flab it's because her bottoms were a size too small. Not because she needs to loose weight.
What is wrong with these people? I bet the same ones criticizing her are obese themselves.
Vyanka
02-07-2017, 02:57 AM
I can't believe haters are body shaming lady Gaga super bowl look saying she could stand to loose a little weight. I get she's a performer and in the public eye and should look her best but really though?!?
She is tiny as it is do they want a stick figure? If she had stomach flab it's because her bottoms were a size too small. Not because she needs to loose weight.
What is wrong with these people? I bet the same ones criticizing her are obese themselves.
Ppl are weird. Those shorts were cutting into her skin. I think she has a fabulous body.
seashell
02-07-2017, 10:21 AM
I'm trying to keep my head held high, but I'm in a pretty low place financially. This UTI set me back pretty far. :( It freaking sucks. I had an amazing weekend, seriously like something I could only have dreamed... and then I wound up in pain, spending money to see a doctor/get antibiotics, and now my bank account is overdrawn but I can't physically cam. Ugh. Also, my credit cards are completely charged up and I have a payday loan I still haven't paid yet. The only thing keeping me afloat is the $30 in change that I've been carrying around. Being disorganized served me well for once! lol
I just want to go home. I want to be in a familiar place where I speak the language and know how everything works. I want my own living space. I want my car. I want to go back to my old club and strip and make enough money to be comfortable for a little while.
carmen_b
02-07-2017, 10:52 AM
Oh yeah , take them for SURE. UTI pain is so awful, ugh.
^^Nice! I guess I'd better try this D-Mannose :D I ended up taking my antibiotics (when the needles and fire sensation started up again lol), but that is good to know. It would be easy to take it on a trip, too. I reeeally wish I would've bought Azo or some kind of painkiller with me... The pharmacy sold me herbal uva ursi/bearberry pills, but I was too chicken to take them, lol
carmen_b
02-07-2017, 10:53 AM
Also .... can you ask the guy who was also involved in creating the UTI to help ? It's sexy times that almost always cause them.
carmen_b
02-07-2017, 10:56 AM
Also, get AZO for the pain . It's over the counter. I travel with it ! I get them multiple times a year, it is such a hassle . Knock on wood .... I have been doing 4-6 cranberry pills a day and haven't had one since September.
seashell
02-07-2017, 11:39 AM
Also .... can you ask the guy who was also involved in creating the UTI to help ? It's sexy times that almost always cause them.
I could've asked him for help, but I was too embarrassed... we don't know each other that well. And now I'm in a city a few hours away from him. But yeah, I'm 100% sure it was from sexy time in his car, the ONE TIME I didn't pee right afterward. Ugh. But despite everything... it was still kind of worth it.
And thanks for the tips!! I will definitely be traveling with Azo from now on... and I used to have that and cranberry pills ready to go back home in the US, don't know why I didn't think to take it with me!
WendiStarr
02-07-2017, 04:00 PM
Ugh, eff this day, I swear! Around 2:30pm when I went to wash my hands I noticed that my hot water wasn't working. I checked my kitchen sink and nope, no hot water there either. My dumbass landlord, as usual, doesn't answer the phone. I didn't have time to worry about that because I had an interview at 3 at a bikini sports bar. I got to the interview and I seen this older lady standing there. The other girls are in bikinis and she's dressed in normal clothes so I figured she must be her. I tell her who I am and that I had an interview with so and so at 3pm. I asked her if she's (her name). She just gives me this blank look, staring at me and says that yeah, she is (name). I told her that I just spoke to her yesterday on the phone to make the interview for today. She still acted as if she was totally clueless. I recognized her voice from yesterday and she has the same name of the woman that I spoke to yesterday. She pointed to the chairs and told me to wait there. She whips out her cell phone and starts babbling to someone about, "Um, some girl's here for an interview. I don't know who she is". I'm looking around and this broad is pacing around, going off on someone on the phone about me being there and who sent me there. I happen to catch her looking at me and she's staring me down, eying me head to toe with a look on her face, as if she just sucked on a sour lemon. After she hung up with whoever, she lied and said that she never talked to me before, had no idea who I was, and told me the boss isn't in so I'm not going to get an interview today. She said that if I left my name and number she'd give it to the boss and have him call me. That part confused me because yesterday she told me that she was the hiring manager. While I was leaving, I seen her crumple up the paper where I had wrote my name and phone number. I was pissed at having wasted my gas money and time for nothing. I called my friend who referred me to the job and he told me that when he talked to her, it sounded like she thought I'd be competition for her, that I'd steal away her regulars. What the hell is an old granny doing working at a bikini sports bar if she's gonna get jealous every time another young woman applies to work there?
seashell
02-07-2017, 06:31 PM
OOOMG. I took twice the prescribed dose of antibiotics, two separate times, before realizing it. Ughhhhh. I somehow misunderstood the doctor and the pharmacist when they told me to take two pills. Good thing you can't OD on augmentin, lol. For fuck's sake.
JessaJade
02-08-2017, 04:38 AM
I swear I just wanna bite the nose off every sleazy man who does that thing where you've gone to give a cheek kiss to say hello and they turn their stupid face at the last minute to try and catch you on the lips. It fucking disgusts me. I would actually be less disgusted if they blatantly went for the lips straight off but they have to be so desperate and sneaky with it. UGH
LoveyDovey
02-08-2017, 10:39 AM
I swear I just wanna bite the nose off every sleazy man who does that thing where you've gone to give a cheek kiss to say hello and they turn their stupid face at the last minute to try and catch you on the lips. It fucking disgusts me. I would actually be less disgusted if they blatantly went for the lips straight off but they have to be so desperate and sneaky with it. UGH
One of my old regulars tried to pull this crap. I finally told him from then on, I'd be giving him hugs only.
lynn2009
02-08-2017, 11:00 AM
I swear I just wanna bite the nose off every sleazy man
Please do this
Aurora_Sunset
02-08-2017, 01:09 PM
Omg with the irrational, emotional BS drama with my SO.... It's been constant back and forth on this issue all night and all morning. I keep doing more to appease him and he keeps acting like it's not enough. He says he doesn't want to force me to do XYZ... but then gets mad when I don't do it. Basically the shit where someone doesn't want to "tell" you to do something but they expect you to want to do something and are going to continue being mad if you don't do it, even though they won't come right out and tell you that's what they need to be happy with the outcome.
miss.a.p1600
02-08-2017, 07:34 PM
Im confused. Melly Mel is suing to distance herself from "escorting" by suing bloggers claiming she's losing out on millions as a result of such "claims". Whether or not the escorting is true, she has nude pics online/was a nude model so .......
I don't think women should be stigmatized at all but if every woman in America right now has to suffer the consequence of being stigmatized for working in adult industry then she should too. Now she knows first hand what it feels like to be a woman who whose alleged past has interfered with career opportunities. Maybe this will put an end to the stigma for all women?
#equalrightsforallwomen
#endstigmaforwomeninadultindustrycareers
Elektra Luxx
02-08-2017, 08:23 PM
Im confused. Melly Mel is suing to distance herself from "escorting" by suing bloggers claiming she's losing out on millions as a result of such "claims". Whether or not the escorting is true, she has nude pics online/was a nude model so .......
I totally get an "high-class escort" vibe from her. And it's not in a bad way at all. Okay, crazy talk here, I can't pin it down to anything specific, but it's like everything, the way she walks, the way she does her make-up, her hair, the way she dresses etc. Maybe it takes one to know one. (escort, not high-class escort)
TBH, this is my biggest fear of the future. I living my life and everything is going great. I have a husband, kids, friends, a job and all of a sudden I outed as a escort. My husband and family would know the truth already, but it might cause problems with friends and jobs.
miss.a.p1600
02-08-2017, 09:16 PM
Same here girl....I lived in torment for years living a double life. Even now I am still afraid. Like I feel like I have a calling to be in the public eye but on edge some trolling a$$ dude will out me like hey didn't you strip at xyz club?
I feel her though. Like I'd sue a dude putting my past out there ---- even if it was true }:D like you have no proof a$$hole so retract and apologize.
I just see her in a position to stand up to the stigma and end it for all women but maybe the world is not ready yet :(
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-08-2017, 09:25 PM
Omg with the irrational, emotional BS drama with my SO.... It's been constant back and forth on this issue all night and all morning. I keep doing more to appease him and he keeps acting like it's not enough. He says he doesn't want to force me to do XYZ... but then gets mad when I don't do it. Basically the shit where someone doesn't want to "tell" you to do something but they expect you to want to do something and are going to continue being mad if you don't do it, even though they won't come right out and tell you that's what they need to be happy with the outcome.
Oh GOD I feel this. I am a victim of Manstruation right now.......
miss.a.p1600
02-08-2017, 09:27 PM
Haha "manstruation"..... thats a good one. I totally believe men have their PMS moments/ Full moon crazy meltdowns.
BarbieNYC
02-08-2017, 10:07 PM
There is this girl in my class who thinks she is the smartest person in there when in reality my lab partner is the one with the highest grade. The professor asked us what grades we thought we would get on the final and both my lab partner and I said B's and the girl gave us a look and had the nerve to mutter smugly "self fulfilling prophecy" and said she would get an A.
Bitch if my lab partner is the only one in the class who has managed to get A's on the exams, wtf makes you think you'll be able to pull off an A when she's been the only one doing it so far and still thinks she is gonna get a B on the final exam. In all seriousness, we could both do poorly on the exam and still keep our A's. Wth is wrong with wanting a B on the final? I swear people who have to get A's on everything even if it doesn't make a difference in their grade annoy the shit out of me. Whether I get a C on my final and you get a B on yours, we are still getting the same A as the final grade wtf
They are in for a rude awakening in the real world. I'm all for confidence and believing in yourself but don't look down on people because they don't wanna be overachievers. I'm gonna get a good night's sleep tonight instead of trying to cram for an A on the final