View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
WendiStarr
02-20-2017, 02:44 PM
Someone suggested I sign up for Southern Charms so I went ahead, sent the required 3 pictures, and then they sent me a long ass email that I was accepted and detailing what I have to do. I don't know why they can't just make it simple like ModelCentro or ExtraLunchMoney. Why not just have a website with a place where I can upload photo ID, model compliance form, pictures, bio, and all that fun stuff all in one place instead of having to send every individual section to different emails? I seriously spent 5 and a half hours working on photo sets to submit(fixing lighting, rotating pictures, editing red eye, photoshopping out a zit, etc). Now I'm having a problem with their damn uploading system. Ugh! I give up for right now.
persianprincess
02-20-2017, 03:01 PM
Quote of the day that set me off "Your body language and little micro facial movements gives off the signal you want to be raped"
Long pause. ERRRRRRR what.
People never fail to amaze and shock me.
whirlerz
02-20-2017, 03:18 PM
Who.The FUCK. said that^? Ugh! But, check out my sticky thread, "Thru a Rapist Eyes"
Wendi, I heard SC they're not that busy, but good luck.
Well, I've done enuf bitchin' for today. :)
KaraLynn
02-20-2017, 07:12 PM
I am in a new club about to audition and there's already some chick back here sloshing lotion all over herself.
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whirlerz
02-20-2017, 07:21 PM
Yipes^, ugh^! Hey, GOOD LUCK, you got this! :)
BarbieNYC
02-20-2017, 08:41 PM
I'm planning a girl's beach trip with my brothers and our cousins in Mexico. Suddenly people are trying to bring their kids and significant others and I'm hella annoyed. Like getting a big ass mansion in Mexico is cheap but I don't wanna be drunk off my ass in front of your 2 year old.
Why do people do this and invite other people? I invited you, not your kid and not your man.
persianprincess
02-20-2017, 08:45 PM
^^^^ yeh 100% you said Mexico not Disney. Common sense says unless sig others and kids were explicitly invited in the first place it's prob a girls outing or adults vacay.
Vyanka
02-20-2017, 10:37 PM
I'm planning a girl's beach trip with my brothers and our cousins in Mexico. Suddenly people are trying to bring their kids and significant others and I'm hella annoyed. Like getting a big ass mansion in Mexico is cheap but I don't wanna be drunk off my ass in front of your 2 year old.
Why do people do this and invite other people? I invited you, not your kid and not your man.
That sucks. Do they want you to babysit, while they're out with their man? Lol. No!
BarbieNYC
02-20-2017, 10:56 PM
Lol thanks guys. My brother's response was too funny
"lol oh no we should uninvite her. She's lucky we were even gonna let her sit with us ugh lol"
Lmao
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-21-2017, 08:20 AM
Stupid annoyance, totally my fault- ate Ramen before bed woke up dehydrated due to the MSG in it. Derp derp derp.
LoveyDovey
02-21-2017, 02:13 PM
I am seriously ready to kill my tax lady.
I filed on Jan 25. I claimed the eic, so I was told that I would receive my refund via direct deposit on the 15th of Feb. But the idiot filed it wrong so instead of a direct deposit, it is going to be snail mailed to me, and I'm not going to get it until March. I am investing in a stock that is doing really well and if I had that money by now I could have bought a good number of shares. At the rate my stock is increasing, I won't be able to buy as much by the time my refund check comes. So now I have to hustle at work and dump most of what I make into my stock so that I can afford a car next month. I am beyond pissed. Guess I'll use my refund check to pay rent instead. I don't think I'll be going to her next year.
carmen_b
02-21-2017, 02:23 PM
Just squash this immediately and say it's 21 and up only !!
I'm planning a girl's beach trip with my brothers and our cousins in Mexico. Suddenly people are trying to bring their kids and significant others and I'm hella annoyed. Like getting a big ass mansion in Mexico is cheap but I don't wanna be drunk off my ass in front of your 2 year old.
Why do people do this and invite other people? I invited you, not your kid and not your man.
Jupiter77
02-21-2017, 02:25 PM
I am seriously ready to kill my tax lady.
I filed on Jan 25. I claimed the eic, so I was told that I would receive my refund via direct deposit on the 15th of Feb. But the idiot filed it wrong so instead of a direct deposit, it is going to be snail mailed to me, and I'm not going to get it until March. I am investing in a stock that is doing really well and if I had that money by now I could have bought a good number of shares. At the rate my stock is increasing, I won't be able to buy as much by the time my refund check comes. So now I have to hustle at work and dump most of what I make into my stock so that I can afford a car next month. I am beyond pissed. Guess I'll use my refund check to pay rent instead. I don't think I'll be going to her next year.
Oh god I feel ya.
I was supposed to have mine on the 15th too but now when I check wheres my refund it doesnt even tell me anything
persianprincess
02-21-2017, 03:06 PM
Supposedly on the tax front they are really running behind this year ... :/ SUCKS.
victoriavein
02-21-2017, 03:51 PM
I've had it with non paying bitches on eBay. Apparently people don't know what best offer means. It means you've agreed to BUY IT not blow up my inbox asking 100 questions and hounding me for more pics after I've already boxed your shit up. Ask questions before not after the fact broke cunts. Grrrrr... this is the 3rd time I've got an offer on the same dress followed by excuses and no payment. I guess no matter what industry you're in the cheap assholes find you
persianprincess
02-21-2017, 05:56 PM
^^^ welcome to customer service and online retail - eBay makes it a bit too easy for buyers to drive you nuts. The best is when someone offers 150 for an item that's buy it now price is maybe 450 or 500. Like clearly they're no stellar negotiators.
I've learned on there some people just like the thrill of clicking buy it now - and it's the rush of feeling like they have the item ... then they no longer feel the need to pay or acquire it. The payment settings etc will be your best friends - or at least minimize hassles.
xo
victoriavein
02-21-2017, 06:06 PM
^^^ welcome to customer service and online retail - eBay makes it a bit too easy for buyers to drive you nuts. The best is when someone offers 150 for an item that's buy it now price is maybe 450 or 500. Like clearly they're no stellar negotiators.
I've learned on there some people just like the thrill of clicking buy it now - and it's the rush of feeling like they have the item ... then they no longer feel the need to pay or acquire it. The payment settings etc will be your best friends - or at least minimize hassles.
xo
I'm not allowing best offer on any more designer women's clothes...from now on the have to pay without negotiating. this definitely tends to happen more with my higher ticket items, and I think you're right. They just love the thrill. Lol!
Update: this broad actually paid up. Thank GOD! Finally!
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-21-2017, 07:35 PM
The internet is a weird place. Last year when we sold a lot of our stuff to get ready for the move, this one lady cursed me out. I was selling a beach cruiser for $100. Only used three times and she said it was ridiculous because it was at Target for $140. Her argument was dumb. Then she said she could get one for $79 at Walmart. Okay then why are you bothering me?
whirlerz
02-21-2017, 07:58 PM
The internet is a weird place. Last year when we sold a lot of our stuff to get ready for the move, this one lady cursed me out. I was selling a beach cruiser for $100. Only used three times and she said it was ridiculous because it was at Target for $140. Her argument was dumb. Then she said she could get one for $79 at Walmart. Okay then why are you bothering me?
What is a beach cruiser?
& thanks, for the reminders, lol..I was thinking of going back to selling on EB, but no thanks! PIA people, & yea the no pay cheapos suck.
A couple times I've lucked out dragging my shit around selling in massage parlors, maybe I'll give that a shot, otherwise I'm hauling my shit to Goodwill or somplace!
whirlerz
02-21-2017, 08:34 PM
Oh, & today I was @ a red light, the lady next to me had the same radio station on, I called out to her & we smiled about it..
The light changes, some ASSHOLE comes barreling up & honks @ both of us, even tho we're doing NOTHING WRONG, he just want us to speed up? PIG.
chanzep
02-21-2017, 10:10 PM
the drama in my job is unreal!, looking elsewhere.
lynn2009
02-21-2017, 10:16 PM
My doctor thinks I have pertussis, fucking whooping cough. I pulled muscles on both sides of my stomach from coughing so much and so hard and it's fucking painful.
chanzep
02-21-2017, 10:25 PM
^ sorry to hear that, I hope you feel better asap.
ScarletKitten
02-22-2017, 02:55 AM
I've had it with non paying bitches on eBay. Apparently people don't know what best offer means. It means you've agreed to BUY IT not blow up my inbox asking 100 questions and hounding me for more pics after I've already boxed your shit up. Ask questions before not after the fact broke cunts. Grrrrr... this is the 3rd time I've got an offer on the same dress followed by excuses and no payment. I guess no matter what industry you're in the cheap assholes find you
I used to sell on ebay. If I were you, I would never do "Best Offer" again. It attracts cheap people.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-22-2017, 08:21 AM
The pole dance community is a mess in general but I really don't like when for example ex-strippers use their stripping as an excuse to look down on or make bad jokes about strippers. When it's pointed out that what was said was rude towards strippers the pole dancer says "I used to be a stripper so..." as if that makes it ok.
I always wonder how long they stripped. A week? Three months? Did they make any money or were they just there to practice on the pole? (Of course even if they did work for a longer period of time that's not an excuse to behave badly.)
It's like there's a special kind of stripper that mainly see themselves as pole dancers or university students or whatever other identity they have but they will bring up their "stripper experience" as soon as they can use it to their own advantage somehow or be rude without having to take responsibility for it. I never met this type of dancer when I worked in a lap dance only club with no stage shows, I don't know if it's the stage that attracts them or if that's just a coincidence.
That's too bad. I quit pole dancing due to years of injuries. Pole fitness is a great thing but there's no need to bag on exotic dancers. That sounds like waitstaff at a fancy restaurant making fun of waitstaff at McDonald's. Like, hey you all have important jobs & a place in society. Stop the hate...
buttonpop
02-22-2017, 08:47 PM
My doctor thinks I have pertussis, fucking whooping cough. I pulled muscles on both sides of my stomach from coughing so much and so hard and it's fucking painful.
i sympathize with you. i caught whooping cough at the club during my first month dancing and it was horrible. I bruised my rib coughing and that hurt for ages. Its the most painful cough and i couldn't sleep at night.
if you are suspicious about pertussis you should take antibiotics right away, dont wait for the test. its one of the things that its worth the risk (of taking antibiotics when you might not need them in case its not pertussis) because the test takes a week or more to come back and by then you're stuck with it. you have to take the antibiotics RIGHT AWAY or else you'll be coughing for 3 months or longer. If anyone around you starts coughing, tell them to go in right away and tell their doctor they've been exposed... if they wait too long they'll be stuck with it for months and no amount of antibiotics can help.
I asked my doc about the immunization i had for pertussis as a child and she said they dont last forever. they wear off after a few years, so if you haven't had a vaccine for whooping cough recently you're vulnerable again.
lynn2009
02-22-2017, 08:53 PM
i sympathize with you. i caught whooping cough at the club during my first month dancing and it was horrible. I bruised my rib coughing and that hurt for ages. Its the most painful cough and i couldn't sleep at night.
if you are suspicious about pertussis you should take antibiotics right away, dont wait for the test. its one of the things that its worth the risk (of taking antibiotics when you might not need them in case its not pertussis) because the test takes a week or more to come back and by then you're stuck with it. you have to take the antibiotics RIGHT AWAY or else you'll be coughing for 3 months or longer. If anyone around you starts coughing, tell them to go in right away and tell their doctor they've been exposed... if they wait too long they'll be stuck with it for months and no amount of antibiotics can help.
I asked my doc about the immunization i had for pertussis as a child and she said they dont last forever. they wear off after a few years, so if you haven't had a vaccine for whooping cough recently you're vulnerable again.
My doctor gave me the antibiotics without even ordering the test but now that she said it I think she's right. I'm sorry you had to deal with the same thing! No idea where I would have gotten it from. She gave me Robitussin plus codeine to sleep but I wouldn't use that besides weekends.
CandySora
02-23-2017, 02:37 AM
It's so fucking slow! Thank God my rent and bills are taken care of, but I want to save :( tax seasons suck, ugh.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-23-2017, 09:43 AM
What is a beach cruiser?
& thanks, for the reminders, lol..I was thinking of going back to selling on EB, but no thanks! PIA people, & yea the no pay cheapos suck.
A couple times I've lucked out dragging my shit around selling in massage parlors, maybe I'll give that a shot, otherwise I'm hauling my shit to Goodwill or somplace!
A beach cruiser is a type of bycicle. The one I had was all wrong. Too retro and had zero gears. The tiniest incline was too much work for my knees. I have hybrid now.
rareaspasia
02-23-2017, 10:04 AM
So today I go to get in my car for work and my neighbors have a big ass moving van in front of my house that looks like it might block me from pulling out. So I go over and nicely ask them if they can move it a little so I can safely pull out. One of them laughs and says, "that ain't happening." So I say, " ok, hopefully I won't hit it then" and go to get in my car. I hear one of them say, "wow." And the other guys are acting like they're in disbelief that I could be so rude. I'm thinking I'm definitely not the asshole here and you guys are going to react like I'm being a bitch when I was being reasonable and polite? I got my car out safely but seriously? You could tell they were trying to be shitty because it was all guys and they didn't expect a little blonde woman to react in a way I thought was appropriate to them being rude dicks. Please, mother fuckers. I will stand up to any bitch ass who needs to be put in their place. Especially when I always catch them letting their dog shit on my lawn.
persianprincess
02-23-2017, 11:06 AM
^^ Why do people have to be so unhelpful, they could have just pulled the truck up temporarily, let you pull out and rolled right back into place.
Aurora_Sunset
02-23-2017, 01:04 PM
I'm in one of those moods where just everything is pissing me off and I don't really know why.
And I just found out my partner at work is quitting (again! Shit, is it me? lol) I hope they just find me a new one and keep me on this shift. If they try to move me back to a shift where I have to get up at some ungodly hour, I'm quitting too. I understand they can't help the fluctuating employees but getting a new schedule literally every month is fucking ridiculous. I'm not doing it again.
LoveyDovey
02-23-2017, 01:09 PM
So today I go to get in my car for work and my neighbors have a big ass moving van in front of my house that looks like it might block me from pulling out. So I go over and nicely ask them if they can move it a little so I can safely pull out. One of them laughs and says, "that ain't happening." So I say, " ok, hopefully I won't hit it then" and go to get in my car. I hear one of them say, "wow." And the other guys are acting like they're in disbelief that I could be so rude. I'm thinking I'm definitely not the asshole here and you guys are going to react like I'm being a bitch when I was being reasonable and polite? I got my car out safely but seriously? You could tell they were trying to be shitty because it was all guys and they didn't expect a little blonde woman to react in a way I thought was appropriate to them being rude dicks. Please, mother fuckers. I will stand up to any bitch ass who needs to be put in their place. Especially when I always catch them letting their dog shit on my lawn.
I just love you.
rareaspasia
02-23-2017, 02:52 PM
I just love you.
Awww. :D Thank you. I don't know if I'm getting bitchier in my old age or just more assertive.
LoveyDovey
02-24-2017, 12:36 AM
Awww. :D Thank you. I don't know if I'm getting bitchier in my old age or just more assertive.
I'm going through the same thing.Sometimes you just have to give zero fucks and be a bitch.
Aurora_Sunset
02-24-2017, 04:29 PM
Ugh... sleep deprivation really is like being drunk/hungover. I had to reschedule a 3 hour appointment for tonight because I just cannot deal with this client for that long in my current physical state. Oh well, he'll come back next week.
chanzep
02-24-2017, 06:12 PM
when you go to the store drained from day job without a lost and forget important stuff!, and you use your 30% coupon grr, I should of got a list. this is also how I am buying almost everything online nowadays even grocery's sometimes! so I don't forget shit.
Aurora_Sunset
02-24-2017, 06:35 PM
when you go to the store drained from day job without a lost and forget important stuff!, and you use your 30% coupon grr, I should of got a list. this is also how I am buying almost everything online nowadays even grocery's sometimes! so I don't forget shit.
I totally vouch for online grocery shopping. So much easier and faster - and if you schedule your delivery for a few days out, you can go back and edit your order for awhile for things that you forgot. I do it all the time!
MistressX
02-24-2017, 08:50 PM
I just replaced my water pump in the 96 caddy like a week and a half ago. A couple days ago, my fuckin radiator blew up! I cant. catch. a fucking. break!
Aurora_Sunset
02-24-2017, 08:57 PM
God, I despise being guilt-tripped. Especially when the conversation starts out as "Oh well, it's fine" and then suddenly deteriorates into text after text of passive-aggressive "I'm just disappointed that *blah blah blah*" GUILT GUILT GUILT.
Especially especially when it's in regards to something that I legitimately thought I was going above and beyond in, and all I fucking get is the message of "it's not enough" thrown in my fucking face.
Glamourmilf
02-25-2017, 04:26 AM
It pisses me off to no end that, even now that I'm older, I'm STILL getting the "You're too pretty " ( insert here).
I've heard this ALL my life.
You're too pretty to:
Date that guy
Marry that guy
Strip
Escort
Take THAT job
Live in that city
Be on dating sites
Wear that outfit
On, and on.
So, if I were ugly, I could live my life the way I want?
So tired of hearing this.
Anybody else hear this bullshit from people?
47517
persianprincess
02-25-2017, 09:23 AM
Yes 100% Glam ...
You literally get persecuted for being pretty by some people - it's like idk maybe because of how much beauty is pushed in this world if you do really stand out as pretty you're some sort of deity to SOME people and you shouldn't be doing normal things. (OK OK not deity, but it's like the worship of pretty)
It sounds stupid but it's like some people really don't think you do normal stuff probably ... or people jump do wild conclusions like you have no problems in life because you pull yourself together and look good ...
My mom even will say things like "you're such a pretty girl why would you want to do that" .... errrrr because I have interests lol or needs lol.
Side note ... just watched After Porn Ends on Netflix again last night being that I didn't really engage the first time ... the guy who said "sex workers really only do this work because they can do nothing else" really kinda irked me. I hate that ppl try and make you try to conform to their sense of normality or how things should be.
KaraLynn
02-25-2017, 03:47 PM
1. My friend who always says "we're almost 30! We can't do this or wear that anymore!
I'm like, if you want to let yourself go because you're 29 (which isn't even old by any means) you knock yourself out but don't try to speak for me. I'm too old when I'm dead.
2. When it's 70-80 degrees all week but suddenly starts pouring on my head when I have 8 more blocks to walk. Yay for the probability of getting sick!
rareaspasia
02-25-2017, 04:03 PM
Yeah, I totally get it. My favorites are, "You're too pretty not to be married," or, "You're too pretty not to have kids." Because my appearance makes my life decisions invalid.
Sorry, world. I was lucky to have good-looking parents and I certainly appreciate the advantages it's given me, but I don't rely on that to get ahead. I guess I should feel lucky because over the years I've watched other people my age one by one start to kind of fall apart physically due to poor life decisions or bad luck while I'm still holding out fairly well, just like my mom did... and now I'm starting to understand why she had so few friends and stayed home most of the time. She was very beautiful and now I remember and understand the shitty little comments I heard our neighbors say. Aging poorly doesn't make the people around me less valuable, obviously, but they sure have no qualms about trying to me feel like I'm an inferior person because I do work very hard to take care of my looks... because that is how I show love to myself and I feel that it is very healthy to take the time to take care of myself on ALL levels. And it's also frustrating because I feel like my appearance is hampering my future with my company, because even though my manager really values me his boss is closer to my age and I can TELL he's attracted to me and he's showing signs of not taking me seriously even though I am qualified, professional, and work my ass off. At this point I won't even wear makeup if I know he's going to be coming in to my location.
Also, to vent about something else, because it is irritating the fuck out of me, why do the people in my "real" life who are supposed to be my closest friends always say that they're there for me and to let them know if I need anything, then get fucking weird and change the subject when I finally do open up and try to talk about very real, dark things like how I was suicidal last year and how I'm still struggling with my father's death and how I'm afraid of having another surgery for the endometriosis I was just diagnosed with? Great job at being there for me, and ignoring me needing someone to listen, "friends." Thank god for my partner. He's just as jaded and grumpy as me. And he's a very damn good looking 44 year old so he also gets people being fucking weird about appearances, except it's, "You're too handsome to..."
My hatred for petty people is making this beer I'm drinking taste mighty fine, let me tell you.
seashell
02-25-2017, 04:47 PM
^I've always thought that being pretty was kind of a curse. Men staring at you from a young age. People having preconceived notions about you. Women judging you. Men thinking they can do or say whatever they want because your facial features or body is somehow "asking for it."
I'm staying at my mom's apartment for the weekend, and she got rid of the water filter that I had bought for her, the kind that goes on the kitchen sink. What the heck? She's living off of jugs of bottled water from the grocery store, apparently. lol
Aurora_Sunset
02-26-2017, 06:43 PM
I hate this one guy I work with sometimes at my day job on the ambulance. He is so damn negative, it brings down my entire day. He just bitches constantly about how everyone else at the company is a dumbass/asshole and calls his wife multiple times throughout the shift to yell and argue on the phone with her. On top of that, he lies and exaggerates everything and steals.
I fucking hate working with him. I ignore him most of the day and try to talk over him if he starts being stupid in front of a patient, but he just doesn't seem to get it. I'm glad he failed his EMT test and can only be a driver. The last thing this city needs is him in the back of the fucking truck.
HALLELUJAH! Enough of us have been complaining to dispatch and the supervisors about his shitty behavior they they've been more on top of hounding him lately. He got called out the other day for not checking the fluids in his truck when they were completely empty, and ended up quitting in tears. Not exactly him getting fired for actual poor behavior, but still, good riddance.
BarbieNYC
02-27-2017, 08:52 AM
I swear we get two types of newbie members
The first are completely clueless and want to be spoonfed everything.
The second are members who have just joined, but seem to have the answers for everything. So either they're banned members coming back from the dead or they're long time lurkers who don't understand that just because they're long time lurkers doesn't mean they automatically get to say snarky things and be rude to veteran members.
Where are we getting these people lmao
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-27-2017, 09:32 AM
It pisses me off to no end that, even now that I'm older, I'm STILL getting the "You're too pretty " ( insert here).
I've heard this ALL my life.
You're too pretty to:
Date that guy
Marry that guy
Strip
Escort
Take THAT job
Live in that city
Be on dating sites
Wear that outfit
On, and on.
So, if I were ugly, I could live my life the way I want?
So tired of hearing this.
Anybody else hear this bullshit from people?
47517
I have more of a unique look so I don't hear it about myself too often but I have said it to people who are enduring a whirlwind of abuse from other people. (Anyone who has experienced the cobra-like hypnotism of Narcissists & Psychopaths knows what I'm talking about...) I just say it to remind them that they have ways to pull out of a downward spiral that someone else is pushing them into...
You live in LA so looks are not the same commodity as they can be in other areas. Just my thoughts. Attractiveness helps in life but it can also lead to getting ensnared in horrible situations....
KaraLynn
02-27-2017, 09:35 AM
I lost my nerve to try nicer clubs because I was turned down from a few when I put on weight and had to end up going to dives. All that weight is gone plus some but I still get anxiety going into nice clubs for some reason.
I need to get over that. I'm so fucking done with dives. I'm done being expected to remember who's spot is who's in the dressing room and worrying about getting jumped if I look at someone the wrong way and don't prove I'm "hard" guess what? I'm not hard. I don't fight. Maybe I AM soft. Idfk..I just don't give a shit. All I want to do is get ready in any open spot available, go hustle, and go the fuck home. I don't care about the other girls or proving anything to them, I just want to work with girls who want to do the same.
KaraLynn
02-27-2017, 09:47 AM
So if I go into another club and hear a girl utter the words "you're in my spot" while I'm getting ready I'm going to assume the club is fucking garbage and walk out.
Here's some advice....If you want to claim one particular spot and you will absolutely die if you are forced to get ready anywhere else STOP BEING TWO HOURS LATE FOR FUCKING WORK!!!!!