View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
LoveyDovey
02-27-2017, 11:02 AM
So if I go into another club and hear a girl utter the words "you're in my spot" while I'm getting ready I'm going to assume the club is fucking garbage and walk out.
Here's some advice....If you want to claim one particular spot and you will absolutely die if you are forced to get ready anywhere else STOP BEING TWO HOURS LATE FOR FUCKING WORK!!!!!
Dud wtf I have "my spot" in the DR and even being a veteran I don't say this shit to other girls. We all pay house fees and annual dues. Nobody "owns" a spot, a song, a look, a customer....gI've me a f break!
KaraLynn
02-27-2017, 11:39 AM
Dud wtf I have "my spot" in the DR and even being a veteran I don't say this shit to other girls. We all pay house fees and annual dues. Nobody "owns" a spot, a song, a look, a customer....gI've me a f break!
Exactly. I understand having a spot you are most comfortable in but walking up to someone who is already sitting there with their stuff out and demanding them to move while being 2 hours late is bullshit. Like, if you were on time you would already be in that spot.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-27-2017, 11:40 AM
I lost my nerve to try nicer clubs because I was turned down from a few when I put on weight and had to end up going to dives. All that weight is gone plus some but I still get anxiety going into nice clubs for some reason.
I need to get over that. I'm so fucking done with dives. I'm done being expected to remember who's spot is who's in the dressing room and worrying about getting jumped if I look at someone the wrong way and don't prove I'm "hard" guess what? I'm not hard. I don't fight. Maybe I AM soft. Idfk..I just don't give a shit. All I want to do is get ready in any open spot available, go hustle, and go the fuck home. I don't care about the other girls or proving anything to them, I just want to work with girls who want to do the same.
You're right to not want to fight. Trust me, it's not worth it.
Sorry for the nosy question but how did you lose the weight? I'm losing weight right now by dieting hard but I'm miserable. (But I can't work out hard or I'll gain muscle that makes me look un-feminine.) Just want to know. I'll do anything at this point lol
KaraLynn
02-27-2017, 01:24 PM
You're right to not want to fight. Trust me, it's not worth it.
Sorry for the nosy question but how did you lose the weight? I'm losing weight right now by dieting hard but I'm miserable. (But I can't work out hard or I'll gain muscle that makes me look un-feminine.) Just want to know. I'll do anything at this point lol
Ironically it was sort of by accident. When I was trying to gain weight it wouldn't go anywhere. I spent a couple months in NYC where I was walking and in some cases running everywhere instead of getting rides (no car) and eating less fast food and in smaller portions. That's what did it. So if you're able to I would say get used to walking and biking places that are close enough not to have to drive and eat in smaller portions, that worked for me. It was more about changing habits (accidentally) lol
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-27-2017, 02:04 PM
Ironically it was sort of by accident. When I was trying to gain weight it wouldn't go anywhere. I spent a couple months in NYC where I was walking and in some cases running everywhere instead of getting rides (no car) and eating less fast food and in smaller portions. That's what did it. So if you're able to I would say get used to walking and biking places that are close enough not to have to drive and eat in smaller portions, that worked for me. It was more about changing habits (accidentally) lol
Thanks. This worked for me a few years ago but now I'll have to throw more cardio into the mix.
BarbieNYC
02-28-2017, 07:03 PM
Annoyed because my partner for weight training wasn't there today so this guy decided to give me advice and try to train me. -_- he was also staring super obviously when I was squatting
Guys are idiots because they don't realize girls take weight training in school to avoid having dudes at the gym offer unsolicited advice. That's why there's a coach working out with us at all times so if we have a question or he sees us doing something wrong he can help us. I avoided doing the rest of my leg workout because it was so annoying having to move every time I caught him staring.
Glamourmilf
02-28-2017, 09:11 PM
I have more of a unique look so I don't hear it about myself too often but I have said it to people who are enduring a whirlwind of abuse from other people. (Anyone who has experienced the cobra-like hypnotism of Narcissists & Psychopaths knows what I'm talking about...) I just say it to remind them that they have ways to pull out of a downward spiral that someone else is pushing them into...
You live in LA so looks are not the same commodity as they can be in other areas. Just my thoughts. Attractiveness helps in life but it can also lead to getting ensnared in horrible situations....
I haven't lived in L.A. in over 2 years.. Just sayin'.
Vyanka
02-28-2017, 10:51 PM
I love my club, but FUCKING HATE THE FKN STAFF WITH A PASSION!!!
The damn hosts intentionally block me from spenders, to set their damn hoes. One host literally pushed me away from a customer. Are you kidding me?? I wasn't even interested in the guy. He looks dirty anyway. Fuck off.
KaraLynn
03-01-2017, 09:36 AM
I love my club, but FUCKING HATE THE FKN STAFF WITH A PASSION!!!
The damn hosts intentionally block me from spenders, to set their damn hoes. One host literally pushed me away from a customer. Are you kidding me?? I wasn't even interested in the guy. He looks dirty anyway. Fuck off.
I'm not sure what area you're in but I've heard of this happening to a few girls in Manhattan clubs when they weren't willing to provide certain services to high spending customers.
I encountered a few working in Jersey and the outer boroughs who hate Manhattan clubs for shit like this.
It's bullshit. I would lose my shit on someone.
Selina M
03-01-2017, 09:41 AM
Inconsiderate ass apt complex.
Roofers stomping around at 8 am, no notice or anything.
I hate this place because of the office and shit like this. It's amazing how bad office staff can ruin cheap rent and huge floor plans.
persianprincess
03-01-2017, 09:47 AM
^^^ went through something similar in NYC, they started installing new lighting at 7am ... like why ... it's interior work and you know damn well that people are sleeping still as most people in my building were trust fund or banked and had zero job to go to.
LoveyDovey
03-01-2017, 01:06 PM
Fucking dammit girl with gross cellulite at work, can you puh leaze stop telling customers how you give a great blow job! Say that to the wrong guy and we'll all be shut down...
Shady fucking hustle..
WendiStarr
03-01-2017, 02:46 PM
Fucking dammit girl with gross cellulite at work, can you puh leaze stop telling customers how you give a great blow job! Say that to the wrong guy and we'll all be shut down...
Shady fucking hustle..
Ugh, extras girls who are dumb and make it obvious that they are doing that are annoying. That sounds like one of the girls that I work with. She doesn't even get up on stage and dance, just walks around the floor, talking about how good she is at blow jobs. It's like damn it, what the hell is wrong with all these strip club agents and managers hiring anyone and everyone? It used to be that everyone had to dance but now they're letting them just work in the VIP rooms only. Smh. I predict raids will be happening soon.
WendiStarr
03-01-2017, 03:01 PM
I'm nauseated as hell and every little thing is setting me off(side effect of pain meds for my awful cramps). I have zero appetite. On the bright side, maybe I'll loose some weight by not being able to eat.
Aurora_Sunset
03-01-2017, 03:15 PM
Uggggh, it's midterm week. That means an essay. I read over the questions for it the other night and realized that the online format has it's definite disadvantages. Basically, we're divided into groups online and one person starts the discussion by summarizing that week's readings and coming up with discussion questions... Well, ok, cool, but that means there's little to no guidance from the professor on what she specifically wanted us to glean from the readings and dig into. Now, the essay questions are here, and she's referencing things from readings that I have no memory of because it never came up in my online discussions. Now, I have to go back and figure out what the hell she's even referring to.
This is also my 60-hour workweek, so I basically have today and tomorrow to do it, because I work all weekend and it's due Monday.
Ah well, that's life, I guess. She's giving us the week after completely off from any schoolwork so that will be nice.
BarbieNYC
03-01-2017, 06:22 PM
^^I feel you. I am getting overwhelmed in school right now. I don't know how you do it with your job too. Good luck!
I had a presentation today in class and put my extensions in, makeup on, and was dressy casual. I got snide remarks from the other two girls presenting today about how they didn't feel the need to dress up. One of them is a cranky military wife going back to school.
Lol the suburbs. Full of bitchy civilian women who get mad when a girl has the nerve to look pretty. I killed my presentation and looked good while doing it.
lynn2009
03-01-2017, 06:59 PM
^^I feel you. I am getting overwhelmed in school right now. .
May I join this club? Five semesters in and I never get better at dealing with it!! Friday I have a take home midterm due, regular exam Tuesday. My last day of work is Friday and Im supposed to start my new really professional job march 20.
seashell
03-01-2017, 08:02 PM
Pissed that I dropped my phone and now it's acting up. It has two vertical blue lines going down the middle, and it has started opening random apps/scrolling/typing on its own. Grrrr
Hoping Verizon will let me trade it in and downgrade to a cheaper phone...
LoveyDovey
03-01-2017, 08:25 PM
Ugh, extras girls who are dumb and make it obvious that they are doing that are annoying. That sounds like one of the girls that I work with. She doesn't even get up on stage and dance, just walks around the floor, talking about how good she is at blow jobs. It's like damn it, what the hell is wrong with all these strip club agents and managers hiring anyone and everyone? It used to be that everyone had to dance but now they're letting them just work in the VIP rooms only. Smh. I predict raids will be happening soon.
God, that's what I'm afraid of. Trying to get my screenplay done so I can sell it and gtfo of the club.
One of my high-end regulars told me how she went up to his son, tongued the inside of his ear, and told him how awesome her blow jobs are. Completely turned both men off. Neither one is the type to go for this sort of thing. I was wondering how she was getting so many dances. She has a pretty enough face, but body? No. I'm not one to assume that certain girls bank because they do extras, but now that this info has reached my ear, I get it in this particular case.
I've been noticing more girls kissing customers on the mouth, too. Gross. Girls at my club are giving extras right out on the floor. I want to jump ship. Please God let me sell my screenplay for $80000000 so I can bail on this club...
WendiStarr
03-02-2017, 08:53 AM
I'm sick of my boyfriend's workplace! It wasn't enough that they've gone to a mandatory 6 day work week, and started throwing in a couple Sundays a month as well. Now he told me that they changed his schedule again, without warning. I already only get to see him on Saturday evenings and Sunday mornings and it's not like we live together. I have a jacuzzi suite booked for us for my birthday and it looks like I won't even get to enjoy it with him. I could always ask a female friend to come with me or if all else fails, take my daughter and hang out in the pool with her but that wouldn't be the same. I had planned on a romantic evening with him. :(
seashell
03-02-2017, 11:01 AM
I woke up having a nightmare last night, and it really freaked me out. There was a witch crawling around the side of my bed, like the girl from the Ring, trying to "get me." Afterward, I was afraid to get up in the dark and use the bathroom, lol.
Aurora_Sunset
03-02-2017, 01:34 PM
I took a break from writing my midterm last night just to eat and decided to have a glass of wine with my sushi delivery... Well, then I ended up chatting with a friend which made me go back for more wine while we were talking... This turned into an entire bottle of wine, a martini, 2 beers, and not going to bed until 4am. That isn't that bad since I usually am up all night, but I needed to be up at 9 today for my pap smear appointment... I was still so drunk/hungover when my alarm went off that I kept hitting snooze on it without actually fully waking up or having any comprehension to why it was going off in the first place until 10:45, which is when I needed to be at the doctor's office.
I had to schedule that appointment like 3 months in advance just to get in, and this place is really strict about no-call, no-shows and dropping them as clients... Dammit, that's so embarrassing. I haven't been so wasted that I straight-up could not make it somewhere the next day (as opposed to at least waking up and just not feeling like it and contacting someone) in ages.
seashell
03-02-2017, 04:25 PM
My dad just put down my childhood cat today without telling me. I've been ignoring his texts for a few weeks, because he's been treating my mom really badly. But I honestly don't believe he had a good reason to do this. He is such a cold-hearted asshole that I'm not surprised he didn't take anyone else's feelings into account... like the fact that I might want to see my cat one last time. But oh well, it's one more reason to never speak to him again.
I can't even text him to ask why, because my phone is broken. ugh
WendiStarr
03-02-2017, 04:41 PM
My dad just put down my childhood cat today without telling me. I've been ignoring his texts for a few weeks, because he's been treating my mom really badly. But I honestly don't believe he had a good reason to do this. He is such a cold-hearted asshole that I'm not surprised he didn't take anyone else's feelings into account... like the fact that I might want to see my cat one last time. But oh well, it's one more reason to never speak to him again.
I can't even text him to ask why, because my phone is broken. ugh
Aww, I'm sorry to hear that. That's sad. He should've at least let you say a final goodbye to the kitty. :-( What a heartless ass.
ScarletKitten
03-02-2017, 09:16 PM
Seashell, I'm really sorry to hear about your poor cat. :( I can't even imagine how you're feeling right now. Your dad sounds like a complete asshole. I don't blame you if you cut him off. I would too. Maybe your nightmare last night was a kind of premonition of what happened today. Do you think your dad did that on purpose to "get at you"? Or was the cat legitimately in bad shape and needed to be euthanized?
Legz541
03-03-2017, 04:25 AM
I've been having to work WAY too hard for WAY too little money. I'm tired...mentally and physically exhausted. I truly NEED to take a strip trip, if not for money, for my sanity. Idk where TF to go though, wanna try somewhere other than Vegas. Ugh.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-03-2017, 10:03 AM
It's snowing again...ughhh
BarbieNYC
03-03-2017, 12:09 PM
My dad just put down my childhood cat today without telling me. I've been ignoring his texts for a few weeks, because he's been treating my mom really badly. But I honestly don't believe he had a good reason to do this. He is such a cold-hearted asshole that I'm not surprised he didn't take anyone else's feelings into account... like the fact that I might want to see my cat one last time. But oh well, it's one more reason to never speak to him again.
I can't even text him to ask why, because my phone is broken. ugh
Seashell, *hugs* I'm so sorry you didn't get to say goodbye to your kitty :(. I know what it's like to not be able to say goodbye to your pet because of someone else. your kitty is in kitty heaven and with you in spirit now <3
whirlerz
03-03-2017, 04:51 PM
It's snowing again...ughhh
I love snow! We had some, last year late. Just flurries here & there now.
lynn2009
03-03-2017, 06:07 PM
I've worked for my now former boss for over 2.5 years and he left work today without saying bye. Seriously?? Almost three years and I can't get a "thanks and good luck"??
WendiStarr
03-04-2017, 06:42 AM
My mom is a bipolar, hypocritical jealous person. Several years ago when she first found out that I was webcamming and working at a strip club she felt the need to announce it to the entire family, except over exaggerated. She told them that I was a porn star and prostitute. I did not speak to her again for a long time. Recently she started this crap again after being nice and civilized to me for a while. This time she felt the need to tell me that my boyfriend or any man will never marry me because I'm trash. Then she started talking about how so and so's daughter is married to a great guy, has such a great job as a nurse, makes so much money, lives in a nice house, has the cutest kids, blah blah blah. After that she had the nerve to ask to borrow $350 since I'm "rolling in dough", according to her. When I told her no she said that I was just trash. She's showing me the perfect example of how I never want to treat my own daughter.
LoveyDovey
03-04-2017, 07:58 AM
^^^ I am so sorry you have a mother like this. Some parents...
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-04-2017, 08:37 AM
My mom is a bipolar, hypocritical jealous person. Several years ago when she first found out that I was webcamming and working at a strip club she felt the need to announce it to the entire family, except over exaggerated. She told them that I was a porn star and prostitute. I did not speak to her again for a long time. Recently she started this crap again after being nice and civilized to me for a while. This time she felt the need to tell me that my boyfriend or any man will never marry me because I'm trash. Then she started talking about how so and so's daughter is married to a great guy, has such a great job as a nurse, makes so much money, lives in a nice house, has the cutest kids, blah blah blah. After that she had the nerve to ask to borrow $350 since I'm "rolling in dough", according to her. When I told her no she said that I was just trash. She's showing me the perfect example of how I never want to treat my own daughter.
My mom did this. & My sister is the one with the nerve to trash me constantly while begging for money every time I have the misfortune to talk to her.
I am soooo grateful I live 2 time zones away from them.
I have no idea why but I just did this guys facial and I sobbed all the way through it. He didn't say anything to me but something triggered memories of my sexual assault. I want to go home but have a full schedule. I am so embarrassed! I'm waiting for him to come out and pay now.
whirlerz
03-04-2017, 11:27 AM
Aww. It happens..randomly & out of the blue. Sometimes just nothing will set me off, that's the way it is.
After you're done, treat yourself nice, have a nice cup of tea n' relax.
Take care
Selina M
03-04-2017, 11:55 AM
I am so BEAT after 4 days in a row of work, and still 2 more coming. Even being 4 hour shifts doesn't matter. Ugh.
I almost walked out last night for the 2nd night in a row. The one owner is great and chill. His wife is a loony. She is so obsessive over EVERYTHING, not an hour goes by I don't hear "We stack napkins in this direction, not that one" or some random tiny thing she wants to comment on.
She also refuses to hire any support staff. I look at the restaurant my fiancé manages (corporate chain, admittedly). When he is a server/bartender, he makes about the same... and they have separate people for hosting, to-go, and a server assistant to run food and bus tables. The servers at this place are expected to host AND take to-go orders AND bus tables AND be half a bartender (get your own beers) AND help each other out (like, you can't just ignore someone else's drinks at the bar). It's a mess.
Last night I was next in rotation and sat 9 people. We already had a table set up for 9 that were coming in 15 minutes later. I wasn't busy, I figured I'd just real quick set another table. That became my only table. I got yelled at A) because while I was waiting for them to sit, she had sat another table that in her brain was 'mine' despite them walking in after, B) because I should have made them wait while I set up a table simply because they were a walk-in? She spent a full minute lecturing me. Then I'm trying to get their drinks and the phone is ringing, and she starts yelling "SERIOUSLY?!" because I was ignoring it. Bitch, please. I answered it and of course it was a to-go order, that I then had to enter in AND go give the kitchen containers for it. Everything is a fucking detour in there all the time, you can never just set out to do something and get it done.
Arrrrrrrgh.
BarbieNYC
03-04-2017, 12:26 PM
^^ I don't understand why owners let their wives get involved in the business and ruin it.
My ex is in hotel management and the owner ended up marrying some super young random european girl who was a hotel guest and who knew nothing about hotel management and she practically is running his businesses to the ground. On one hand I hated her when my ex and I were together because she was truly an awful boss to the point were he could've easily filed a workplace lawsuit. On the other hand as a dancer and hustler I gotta give her respect for pulling that shit off. Coming to the US as a tourist and marrying a hotel millionaire and managing a hotel without any education or experience. Damn
I'm all for letting my partner be involved if I have a business but if they're not doing a good job, I wouldn't allow them to. When guys let their wives get involved in their business it truly shows the power of pussy.
whirlerz
03-04-2017, 01:06 PM
OMG, again w/the: how can I get bk stripping, where should I go, blah blah blah..
Over & over, just tired of it.
Aurora_Sunset
03-04-2017, 02:00 PM
I do not understand why my eyes have been so fucky with my contacts lately. I've been super good about not sleeping in them, and, every once in awhile, sure, they might get kinda dry and irritated. Usually, I just have to wear my glasses for a day and it's all good. Or I'll switch to a fresh pair. I JUST switched them a week ago, so they should be fine, and I wore my glasses all day yesterday - which I hate doing because they were never fitted properly so spending an entire day with them falling down my nose is awful. And yet, every time I try to put my lenses in, they freak out like there's a horrible foreign object in the corner of my eye no matter much I rinse both the lenses and my eye. I've scratched my eyes before but this doesn't feel like that, and as long as I'm not trying to stick the lenses in, they aren't red or irritated so they're not infected.
ETA: I think this brand isn't good for me - I think they get warped really easily or something and dry out super quick. I have some leftovers of my old prescription in a different brand that I never had an issue with and put those in - everything seems fine... The doctor insisted I switch because these are more expensive, but hey, as long as I can, ya know, actually WEAR them, I think they're worth the extra money...
Aurora_Sunset
03-04-2017, 02:14 PM
Oh also, my grad class is usually divided into 2-week long chunks. Read one week, then discuss. Well, this 2 week chunk, we have readings but no discussion with them because we have the midterm to complete. The midterm is due this Monday night so it would make sense that the readings would be what we do next week.... Well, last night, I sat down at work with my readings to try to outline the rest of the questions that I hadn't done, and was like "What the fuck reading is she referring to in these?" Finally figured out it's this week's readings! How does that make ANY sense? Why would you have the midterm due at the end of the first week in the module, but yet have half the questions refer to readings that wasn't assigned until this module either? So I have to do about 6 readings before I can even finish the last half of of the midterm...
whirlerz
03-05-2017, 02:20 PM
OMG - Where do I now start?!
I went to 12 noon mass today, it was almost a circus w/loud kids (lots of 'em) (NOT babies) running up down the aisles, talking, laughing & the parents sit there? There's a little 'cry room' or w/ev they call it, where the mass can be seen/heard on close circuit tv/but everyone doesn't hear that. Of course, no they can't be bothered, or wh/ev the reason..
We have this thing where you give the sign of peace at the end of service & people insist on hand contact, even though it's been said about flu season (which's in peak rn) this lady in front of me give me the evil eye cause I won't shake her hand??
Then, some lady comes up to me after the service & starts talking to me, fine, but then she asks me for MONEY??? Uh, big nope. Yipes :(
LoveyDovey
03-05-2017, 02:35 PM
^^^ Girl, this is why I stay home and pray. Other people ruin the experience for me. Last time I went to church, a guy started following me around, sitting next to me, always commenting how he"didn't see a ring on the finger yet", just would not stop. I was like, really, at CHURCH??? I don't think God blames me for staying home and praying. As long as we stay connected, that's what matters.
whirlerz
03-05-2017, 02:40 PM
Aw, thanks for saying that! I will keep that mind, & damn that's awful about that guy what.a.Pig. Ugh.
One time I changed my seat cause this other dude would.NOT.stop.staring.
I saw him outside afterward, but then he was too busy trying to kiss some important guy's ass lol
Another thing - Stop.w/the.HEAVY,stink-ass perfumes!!
I get more than my share of daily weirdos from this hotel, thank you::)
persianprincess
03-05-2017, 02:42 PM
^^^^ those really old school heavy perfumes give me a A-grade headache it's the worst ... my mum kills me with the overuse of Opium the YSL perfume ...
LoveyDovey
03-05-2017, 02:54 PM
Aw, thanks for saying that! I will keep that mind, & damn that's awful about that guy what.a.Pig. Ugh.
One time I changed my seat cause this other dude would.NOT.stop.staring.
I saw him outside afterward, but then he was too busy trying to kiss some important guy's ass lol
Another thing - Stop.w/the.HEAVY,stink-ass perfumes!!
I get more than my share of daily weirdos from this hotel, thank you::)
I think it's nice you go to church. It just sucks when other people ruin it. With their behavior, their kid's behavior, with their reek, etc. I wish they had like a private VIP area at church where you had your own little box free from disturbances.
whirlerz
03-05-2017, 03:02 PM
I think it's nice you go to church. It just sucks when other people ruin it. With their behavior, their kid's behavior, with their reek, etc. I wish they had like a private VIP area at church where you had your own little box free from disturbances.
Thanks, the same about you!
There is a day schedule mass, Tues/Thurs/Sat 8:30, it's a lot less people, no kids & very streamlined service, I'll just try to go to that.
Vyanka
03-05-2017, 08:22 PM
I cannot believe some asshole opened up a jar of olives in the supermarket to munch on a few, then put the jar back on the shelf. I wanted to say something to him so bad, but my mom knowing how feisty I am..made me bite my lip. I did tell a sales associate. So rude and disgusting. Jerk off.
Second rant. I am done helping ppl out who come to me. The minute I do, they act like shady fucks and disappear or talk smack behind my back . Fuck you. Don't bother me again. The nerve of some ppl.
LoveyDovey
03-05-2017, 08:56 PM
This dumb customer at work keeps texting me, asking if I want to go to the casino when I've told him no like 4 times already. THE ANSWER IS NO!!!!
Glamourmilf
03-06-2017, 08:20 AM
^^^ Girl, this is why I stay home and pray. Other people ruin the experience for me. Last time I went to church, a guy started following me around, sitting next to me, always commenting how he"didn't see a ring on the finger yet", just would not stop. I was like, really, at CHURCH??? I don't think God blames me for staying home and praying. As long as we stay connected, that's what matters.
I stopped going. The constant begging for money was a turnoff.
So glad that my 2 favorite churches have live streams of the services.
SnuffleUffleGrass
03-06-2017, 01:31 PM
^^^^ those really old school heavy perfumes give me a A-grade headache it's the worst ... my mum kills me with the overuse of Opium the YSL perfume ...
I swear though, "grandma perfume" can result in high VIP sales. Trust me lol.