View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
chanzep
09-29-2014, 11:48 AM
Lots of petty annoyances today....
There is absolute no shoe storage in my new place. I hate British closets (and fridges). Although I feel like I should be thanking the closet gods I actually HAVE a closet, this is the first flat I have seen one in, I always see wardrobes which take up so much space in rooms that are already so tiny. Everything really is bigger in America! I can't even put a rack over my door or the closet won't close. I'll have to buy a shoe stand to put in the room, which is gonna swallow up space.
I also wish I could temporarily add 5 inches to my height, I have 4 giant suitcases that will only fit in the highest closet which is above the stairs, so I can't put a chair up. There is one other closet that could hold one of them at least, but I can't even reach it on a chair, I tried to stack the suitcases but it started rocking so I gave up. I hate being small. I'm going to have to wait for my guy or a client to come so they can do it. In the meantime, my entire living room is being swallowed up by these suitcases. I spent an entire day unpacking and was looking forward to taking pics of my new place.
And lastly, most of the stuff I spent so much $$$ on for incall flat is just gonna end up getting thrown away-- furniture, knickknacks, wall stuff, it doesn't fit in this place at all. Gonna have to spent more $ on more stuff.
London is full of crap Landlords and agency's its a nightmare!.
SweetJulia
09-29-2014, 12:33 PM
^Do you ABSOLUTELY have to go through an agency to find and rent a place?
audrey_k
09-29-2014, 01:05 PM
Most places are owned by a landlord who chooses to go through an agency to find a tenant... I dunno why, but it's really unusual to find a landlord who does the vetting process themselves. There are private landlords, it's just everyone wants to deal with them as the agencies suck so they get snapped up super quick, and often they aren't in central London.
My landlord now used the agency to find a tenant but has chosen to deal with me personally for my lease, so I really don't know why they go through the agencies.
KikiGem
09-29-2014, 01:24 PM
I have such a stress headache...
So I moved into my new place over a week ago. My mother said she would help me bring my furniture from my storage unit to my new place. So last week, we went to the storage unit, loaded up her truck with a very sparse amount of light furniture (single bed, and a dresser weighing maybe 15 pounds.) It rained that night so we postponed the move.
Next day, I'm at school. I leave early because she said she would be driving the truck to my place to unload the furniture. My school is an hourly based program, so I need to be there all day whenever I can, leaving early is not something I like to do. SO I've left, waiting for her at my place and she cancels. I'm a little irritated, but I try not to let it get to me.
Two days later, at school again, she pulls the SAME SHIT! Calls me on my way home from school, after *confirming that very morning that she would be able to finally move the furniture* So I left early again, cut my day in half only when it was too late for me to do anything about it. Did not even have the courtesy to let me know she wasn't coming anymore.
Fast forward over a week later, me still with no furniture. I've been cleaning and preparing my place all day, because she said she would *finally* be coming. Nope! I actually had to call her to confirm this time. But what I found out was that she didn't want to tonight, but maybe tomorrow. I told her already I'm busy tomorrow. (I have an audition at a new club.)
Here's the absolutely maddening part: She does not work, does not really do anything these days so there's nothing making her *actually* unable to do it. Her reason, every single fucking time? SHE JUST DOESN'T WANT TO. She changes her mind, decides she just doesn't feel like it, and expects me to what? Cancel my plans, keep leaving school early every day in the hopes she'll actually just take an hour and help me do it this time?
I'm really pissed. The first few times, ok, but this is just absolutely absurd. She's wasted so much of my time with this bullshit. Meanwhile, I'm sleeping on an air mattress with no furniture, bags of crap just in the corner cause there's no way to organize it yet.
She is getting so lazy, she always has an excuse. I've tried to be as understanding as possible, but blowing me off three times for **literally** no reason is just infuriating.
And a gunshot to the face would feel better than my headache right now.
MyButter
09-29-2014, 01:39 PM
I can't stop eating :/ IDK if I am just bored or genuinely REALLY hungry.
SweetJulia
09-29-2014, 04:22 PM
When people get locked out of my building, they start just buzzing random residents. Awesome, esp. at 4 am.
KikiGem
09-29-2014, 05:07 PM
Genoveve, I think my mom's attitude right now is "Well, I've had my kids, they're grown, moving on now." (Though my little bro is 15 and still lives with my parents).
While I'm happy she has more time to herself now- like she is eating healthier, losing weight and I'm thrilled for her- I want her to be happy and take care of herself BUT she is being way too self-indulgent right now. I don't think she even realizes how inconsiderate she is being, and how much she has been inconveniencing me for the past week. "I don't feel like it right now" is not a good reason to withhold furniture from your daughter.
I tried really hard not to be angry, because I have had my times of self-indulgence too, but if my loved one didn't even have their *bed* for over a week I would bring it over and help them move it. It really is that simple!
The very upsetting thing is, she drives 2 hours twice a year to my sister's college to help her load/unload an entire dorm room full of stuff. And the first time I ask for some help she won't give it?
whirlerz
09-29-2014, 05:09 PM
When people get locked out of my building, they start just buzzing random residents. Awesome, esp. at 4 am.
WUTTT?!^
Ok, so my lic. plate sticker expires tomorrow @ midnight. I go today to get it, & of course the clerk @ the currency exch. is shitty to me..after go out, writing down my car's info, standing in line AGAIN, waiting for the state's slow ass computer..I have to now go to get my car's emissions tested, WHICH I NEVER got the notice for!
Then I my 'friend' calls me & says "well you should have went a week ago" when she knows I went thru all this grief w/my dental prob.
Then, she has the BALLS to say I shouldn't buy a new dress for a special date I have coming up Fri. "because I have a lot of nice things"??!
lynn2009
09-29-2014, 08:03 PM
.......
simone87
09-29-2014, 08:10 PM
i love when my son's father gets fucked up, and then decides to blow my phone up saying the most nasty, vile, hatful, insulting things to me that should never be said to anyone! because i don't want him in my life or my son's..hmm i wonder why. never mind the fact that he abused me so badly that i feel like puking and get shaky anytime i'm around him, and that he has never given me one penny to help with his kid..the things he's done, and then has the balls to tell me that karma is going to get ME? i need to change my number, and i hate that i have to go through all that just to get rid of him. its beyond baby daddy drama by now
Kellydancer
09-29-2014, 08:19 PM
I'm in pain tonight with a toothache. I had an infected tooth all last week, dentist puts me on antibiotics and it helped. Today he removed bad tooth (luckily it's in back)and gave me medicine but the medicine is starting to not be effective. Tomorrow it'll feel better but tonight it's hurting. Better than the infection I had last week, that pain was excruciating.
michele11
09-30-2014, 07:31 AM
in pain and can't use my right arm. Leaving to drive 9 hours...
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-30-2014, 07:34 AM
I have a cold & I still need to work up the energy to clean the house today. It's my last day off.
Aniela
09-30-2014, 01:23 PM
The 'hashtag - X' commercials.
Txting while driving is a huge peeve of mine, & I agree w/ the 'no txt is worth a life' msg, but seriously -- you're under ZERO obligation to answer every txt immediately. If you truly can't handle the thought of waiting til you're done w/ the drive, lock your phone in the trunk b4 you go.
audrey_k
09-30-2014, 05:26 PM
My boobs are 3 inches wider than the widest of my hips.
That is not normal! Ugh. I feel like a freak. I have totally bizarre measurements, 36-25-33.
Vyanka
10-01-2014, 02:42 AM
Work has been super intensely cut throat lately. Christ! Next person who tries to cock block, I'm not gonna hold my hand down. I already warned my crap manager in advanced.
lynn2009
10-01-2014, 04:34 AM
Woke up with horrendous allergies
SweetJulia
10-01-2014, 08:06 AM
School today, awesome-I love walking around with weapons in the parking garage, terrified for my life.
michele11
10-01-2014, 12:45 PM
Cannot wait to go to the orthopedic surgeon tomorrow. I hope most the swellings gone and they can cast me or whatever. I think someone needs to come up with a fancier looking way to fix broken bones. I can't use my right hand at all. I can't wash myself. I was only going to do two more trips and then get my boobs redone. This really sucks.
audrey_k
10-02-2014, 10:58 AM
I got an email from my letting agency today asking me if I can please return the items that the previous tenants left in the flat. Yes, I've been here for two weeks and held on to other people's shit just for the fun of it?
These people left my flat a fucking mess and they expect me to hold onto their items and take time to return them? Ugh. That was the straw on the camel's back. I actually did hold on to them for a week, but no one contacted me, and when I moved my stuff into the flat I needed the space, so I threw them out. The agency has ignored my emails asking to be reimbursed for the inventory check-in fee which I had to perform myself on the day of because they fucked up with the keys, as well as still haven't given me my landlords contact info or confirmed they've received my pictures of the damage to the flat... but they have time to deal with this? I just unleashed on them a mountain of bitchyness, fuck these people...
Also... my boyfriend is taking me out somewhere nice tomorrow, and I honestly don't have one single dress that fits. All I have are super casual dresses that won't work, and I'm too broke to go shopping right now. I'm gonna have to wear jeans and try and dress it up. I hate that nothing fits me anymore!
SkyeSabrina
10-02-2014, 01:53 PM
Current pet peeve: Folks who tell me I should just quit my job when I've had a bad shift, just quit and get a vanilla one, like there's just some kind of job tree that grows employment opportunities (while I have friends with college degrees that are unemployed and struggling to survive). All because I don't make tons of money like folks think I should ALL THE TIME. Guess what? STRIPPERS HAVE OFF DAYS TOO. Sometimes things are hit or miss, sometimes customers just are not spending.
Saying that I should quit my job because I had a handful of nights where I made less that $100 is complete bs, because guess what? If I was waitressing, I would only be making $2.13 per hour plus tips if I'm lucky. So even if I am making $70-80 on a bad night, guess what? That's still better than some folks are doing.
Because we all know that if I was waitressing and had a shi*ty night you wouldn't even bother trying to tell me to quit. Guess folks mainly just do that to sex workers. -_-
Also, have they never heard of a single mother? What other job can I take time off whenever I want while I'm homeschooling my son? NONE.
lynn2009
10-02-2014, 04:02 PM
I do not understand why my roommate thinks we are like best friends...all I have ever wanted with roommates is for them to pay their half of the fuckibg rent, not to be disgusting & otherwise leave me alone. This attitude has usually been reciprocated. But I swear this guy in his forties, will not leave me alone. And I'm polite & will make small talk, but I swear I work full time M-F AND strip 3x per week on top of that, if takes me almost an hour to get to my day job, when I finally get a night off I need to clean, cook, and be BY MYSELF. Alone time is precious to me and I never get it.
SweetJulia
10-02-2014, 04:15 PM
I had to miss school today because there literally wasn't a free parking space in any of the lots.
whirlerz
10-02-2014, 06:21 PM
Was emailing bk & forth w/a dude, & now he's being an ASS over a little joke I made. So fuck him, bleh.
Spinnerette
10-03-2014, 03:06 AM
Dairy milk is the devil. I remember why I stopped drinking it years ago because my face is breaking out like hell right now. :( On the flip side, my nails are the strong as fuck right now and I haven't broken one in about 4 months. Hmmm.
Spinnerette
10-03-2014, 05:37 PM
More: Currently dealing with the second yeast infection I've EVER had in my life. It's my sugar addiction. This summer has stressed me the hell out so what do I do? Inhale sweets. I fiend for them. Dots jelly candies and RedBull Blue Edition are my new religion. But that seems to mean itchy, burny bits. This fucking sucks. I don't even like sugar!
ETA: I REALLY want an Arizona Green Tea right now (something else I also gave up years ago in favor of brewing hot green tea and drinking it plain).
whirlerz
10-03-2014, 05:58 PM
Try garlic pill supplements Kyolic brand. Helps w/lots of things, great for yeast prob.
Me: I really need to find a nice indoor pool, & get back into swimming
Spinnerette
10-03-2014, 06:15 PM
TY Whirlez. I'll have to add that to my shopping list.
audrey_k
10-04-2014, 06:08 AM
I am SO fucking hungover and my cat has destroyed two computer chargers now... I feel sooo naeseous and the last thing I want is to go to the fucking Apple store...
lynn2009
10-04-2014, 09:08 AM
Omfg, this guy I went out with briefly 3 years ago, made a new okcupid profile. I really hope me moving here didn't weird him out (he ended things, I was really upset about it). You live in a big city dude, other people want to live here too.
Issabelle
10-04-2014, 01:40 PM
I am SO fucking hungover and my cat has destroyed two computer chargers now... I feel sooo naeseous and the last thing I want is to go to the fucking Apple store...
Good news--the kitten eating everything stage ends quickly enough and should temper out to 1 or 2 bad habits in his life. My two girls have gotten to the age where one will knock over any water glass in sight (onto my keyboard, of course) and the other has a bit of a scratching problem (scratching post!). Try buying some bitter apple spray from a pet store--it'll strongly dissuade him from chewing.
AlenaRoza
10-04-2014, 01:48 PM
This is sooo petty, but: Makeup and hair in the club. I can't believe at this day and age that girls still don't know how to apply makeup correctly. The hot pink eyeshadow on your lid with electric blue on your crease might look okay if you did the rest of your face, and wore a matching outfit. What seems to be pretty popular right now is working a shift (with bad makeup), not showering, then coming in the next night with the smudged black eyeliner and crusty lashes.
Only a few bother with foundation, which IMO is a necessity for most girls. I've seen one girl in the 5 clubs I worked who didn't need makeup at all. as for hair, I see a lot of at-home DIY hair disasters. These girls sit on their smartphones half the night, they can't google "youtube sexy makeup"? Lol. It's like, I see that you have some of the ingredients, learn to use them the right way, lol!
Like I said this is really petty and of course it's only helping me to do things that they aren't. It's more of an "I can't believe this" than an actual annoyance.
KikiGem
10-04-2014, 08:49 PM
- My roommate/landlord's cat peed on the kitchen floor right under the dishwasher like three days ago and it's STILL THERE. I am *not* cleaning it up, it just looks so nauseating and I cannot deal with it...
- My lover (IDK what to call him as we have exchanged lots of affection but haven't put a label on it or really even discussed it) went days without contacting me. Fine, but lately his texts are brief and I'll reply but he doesn't answer back, then starts a new convo the next day and does the same shit.
Actually this relationship is starting to get on my nerves. I'm distancing myself already because I refuse to let this guy break my heart all because he felt he loved me (whether he does or not IDK), decided to tell me, does not realize how much those three stupid words changed *a lot* in my life and if he's changed his mind- I'd rather just get prepared for the worst case scenario.
- I've been consistently pissed for weeks now. Part of it is probably because of my two week period that just ended. Yes I was bleeding for two straight weeks. Everything is getting on my last nerve, especially when driving.
- I've been working a local fair this weekend for an artist. I help her out a lot and she's great but ugh- some of the people there.
Greeting people who don't take the time to even look at me, so then I'm just sitting there looking like I'm talking to the air.
Stragglers who come in after the fair is over and walk around the studio leisurely like it's a privilege to have them there and start long, boring convos when really- we both are hungry, tired and want to go home. (And of course they don't buy anything)
Inconsiderate asswipes who walk in large groups, side by side, blocking the whole fucking road and *do not* get on the grass, holding up traffic and making it impossible for cars to leave. UNBELIEVABLE behavior.
So sick of the people in my hometown, they all think the world revolves around them. then again the whole world is becoming that way now...
KikiGem
10-04-2014, 08:51 PM
One more: The absolute arrogance and over-inflated egos of the members of my generation. "I'm a BAD BITCH and I been thru this shit and I'm STRONGER than you so you can KISS my ASS cause I got this and I don't need NO MAN I'm a PRINCESS and you're just a THOT...." Ughh shut up and get over yourself!
Spinnerette
10-04-2014, 11:35 PM
Wannabe sugar daddies (he's a wannabe until I have the cash in hand) that want multiple photos of me but weasel around sending any of their own. Like look, you're REALLY not as important as you think you are. My photos could end up on a punter forum. Wtf am I going to do with a picture of some pasty-faced balding old guy, hm? Ugh. He's probably hideous (but then I find most men hideous, especially if they annoy me).
whirlerz
10-05-2014, 12:29 AM
Yea. When they ask for pics (other than the ones you have posted) they're crap.^
audrey_k
10-05-2014, 11:36 AM
So fucking annoyed right now...
my cat has destroyed two computer chargers in two weeks. Yesterday I was too hungover to go to the store. I've been at my boyfriend's all weekend and should have left earlier to go to the store today, but I got there 30 mins before close. They said they were to busy to see me at the genius bar and I had come too late, but I could buy a new charger and come back another time to return it and get a new one with my warranty. So I said fine.
I get home... sold me the wrong fucking charger!! I am booked solid for the next 3 days so I'm trying to move clients around, except I can't even get the fucking site to work to make an appointment at the genius bar...
On top of all that wonderful-ness, my cat pooped all over the carpet, I assume he was angry about being left alone. For fuck's sake.
michele11
10-05-2014, 06:00 PM
I'm done with my sister! My daughter hasn't been helping me because , oh my sister told her I was a baby. I have a fucken broken wrist, that's impacted! I can't lift anything, put my hair up or even open a pill bottle. I sign on face book and she's all" I was back at work 2 days after my surgery and my cast went up higher than yours, get over it adapt! Really. Um she had broken thumb( not wirst) that she did her self by punching a table! And she's a pain pill junkie, worked at a rinky dink club where she was lucky if she did a few dances a night! She's just mad because the cat she got( to copy me) needs surgery and she wan'ts to go work with me and was mad I went to M.B. without her. Um I don't play dance when I need money and I didn't shit through 80,000in less than a year. She called me 2 days ago wanting to go work somewhere because of her cat and I told her I couldn't and said there's a million clubs here go somewhere and work! ( I was on speaker phone ) and I hear my mom go , yeah right and they hang up. It's not my job to take her and get her hired places. I'm done! Every single time There was an issue and after her screwing me over in july and not wanting to spend close to 900 to go with me on a trip she can fuck off! My fucking family hasn't even helped me. Oh my moms husband took me to the doctor and shopping when I got home thursday just because my mom doesn't want to give me money I borrowed her. their like freaken babies ! Don't get things if you can't afford. Think things through. They act on impulse like babies. Thank god I take after my dad and have his work acumen. Like I'd leave a work trip where I paid for a condo and was banking if I was a baby, didn't need to!
michele11
10-05-2014, 06:22 PM
I just went back on facebook and my sister put lmfaoftbt or some shit and my mom put " I'm so proud of you Michele". Whatever. Because when she said she went back to work a day after I said you work lmfao and tagged her. And I told my cousin It's ok I have family to help. Lafao. So I said Yeah mom it's sickening how your 40 year old daughter is still attatched at the tit. You should be so proud of her. My moms always favored that piece of shit. She broke into my house last year . Yes I said it here. Before she got like 80 grand she didn't deserve and I was the bad guy because I lied and told my mom the cops got her prints. It caused a bunch of crap and I disowned them for like 2 months. What;s utterly disgusting is I had to sneak my stuff she stole back ( On christmas) because my mom wouldn't get it for me!
michele11
10-05-2014, 06:59 PM
I don't know why my mom has to even get involved! After screaming on the phone to her for 20 min and her hanging up on me every 5. SHe's telling me what my sister said wasn't offensive. Really. OH and I'm the one that belittles her all the time. Yeah everyrime I post a pic she says I look the the masks in the purge. MY mom tried to turn it around and said " she had that mask on and said it made her look beautiful like you. No , those were other masks. Then my mom says I'm horrible and to never talk to her again. She kept saying I was Jealous. No She's Jealous of me! Why would I be jealous of a druggie on disability?!? I'm sick of going around and arund with her. my mom will always think my sisters the greatest tging in the world even though she broke in my home and has done all kinds of shit I can't even write it all. So I defriend them and my sister messages me" , I don't wanna argue with you, if I said anything to offend you I'm sorry. Really. After I just basically told mom to fuck off and never talk to me again. She makes me act this way to my mom and I'll be sorry one day! That's why I despise her/ them.
chanzep
10-06-2014, 05:16 PM
work is annoying, my boyfriend is annoying and its cold yuck!
lol1337a
10-07-2014, 02:17 AM
I put off visiting my kinda narcissist mom for a while because I'm too drained to deal with her mean, usually hypocritical comments. So I get here and she grills me on my mental health. I went through some shit... TEN YEARS AGO. Then she says that my boyfriend must be a saint to put up with me because I told her I was having a really bad day something like, three months ago. This is the same woman who routinely called me up suicidal over her ex when I was 18-20. And self injured pretty often and told me there was nothing I could do about it because she'd talk her way out of the hospital and it would be cruel for me to make her pay a hospital bill while she's so depressed. Not to mention that she demands I have zero boundaries, even about her fucking SEX LIFE, while if I mention I'm going through a hard time she says, "And what's the point of telling me? Grow up!" And since we're on the topic of no boundaries, she wanted to be my coworker at a strip club!
She's even mean about really petty stuff. She talks about pooping all the fucking time and one day I said "I gotta poop" she said EWWWW. WTF mom. I was about to tell her how I really feel today, but stopped just like I do literally every single time because her first response will be to question my mental health. And I've never even been suicidal so who knows where she fucking gets off stigmatizing me. I want to go home! The house I grew up in is NOT home!
What makes this time even more infuriating is that she knows the reason I'm in town is because of my close friend's death. Lol mom!
LadyFionaStar
10-07-2014, 03:57 AM
I am so pissed off with having aroomful of guys in free chat and nobody taking me private and having to smile and chat with these guys and act likecIm having fun.
Tonight, after 10 hours of this I lost it:
Ahole: " Bb do you do---in private? "
Me: " Bb if you hit that big yellow button" I will
Ahole: "Bb show ass"
Me: "Bb show wallet"
Ahole: "bb I wanna fuck your ass"
Me: "Than do it already bb"
I HATE THEM ALL RIGHT NOW...10 HOURS= $50 USD ARGGGH..WALMART LOOKS GOOD RIGHT NOW!
LadyFionaStar
10-07-2014, 03:58 AM
I am so pissed off with having aroomful of guys in free chat and nobody taking me private and having to smile and chat with these guys and act likecIm having fun.
Tonight, after 10 hours of this I lost it:
Ahole: " Bb do you do---in private? "
Me: " Bb if you hit that big yellow button" I will
Ahole: "Bb show ass"
Me: "Bb show wallet"
Ahole: "bb I wanna fuck your ass"
Me: "Than do it already bb"
I HATE THEM ALL RIGHT NOW...10 HOURS= $50 USD ARGGGH..WALMART LOOKS GOOD RIGHT NOW!
lol1337a
10-07-2014, 08:06 AM
I just woke up from the worst dream after sleeping 3 whole hours, and there's not a chance I'll get back to sleep. It was typical satanic/demonic bs with sleep paralysis which sadly I'm used to, but when a bag that contained mummies of all my pets appeared on my (dream) bed I lost it. So glad I'm alone in bed at my mom's house because I woke up trying to throw a nonexistent bag off my real bed. I would've hit my boyfriend pretty hard. But what the fuck, brain, you're so fucking weird!!
Selina M
10-07-2014, 10:17 AM
Petty annoyances... having to talk to people outside of work. I'm an introvert by nature, so on my days off (which are usually spent at school), I want to sit in the back of the lecture hall or in the library doing homework. I do not want to shoot the shit with people. I don't want to go to the 20 person recitation classes where I have to feign paying attention to some grad student who doesn't know anything, and God forbid get called on.
I get annoyed at having a roommate, because he's lonely as fuck and always comes out and wants to talk about his day. Basically if I want to sit on the couch, I have to do it when he's not home and then move into my bedroom before he gets home.
Also: people wanting to talk to me about strip clubs. NO. Argh. I was waiting for bf the other night in the bar and one of his barflies started talking to me. Knew I was a stripper, so for the next hour and a half, he went on and on and on about every club in the city. I had to be nice to him because he runs up a $100 tab at the bar frequently and tips well... but c'mon dude, I came in to have a drink and eat dinner with my SO and NOT talk about work.
audrey_k
10-07-2014, 03:43 PM
Having major problems with my kitten now that I'm working again. He is the biggest drama queen ever, 20 hours of the day he can run around to his heart's content, but for the 4 hours he has to stay in the bathroom he whines like he's being tortured with a chain saw. I don't know what to do because it's a SERIOUS turn off to my clients....
Tsepmet1
10-07-2014, 03:59 PM
I am so fed up with the bouncers at the club that I work in.
I had one floor guy let "his" VIP customer literally hold me down and try to do stuff to me, and did nothing to help me.
Last night, the same floor guy refused to show my customer and me to a room because he wouldn't get a tip from it. He made the floor guy that watches over the lap dance area do it instead.
It's like these guys will only do their fucking jobs if you throw money at them. I've had multiple complaints from customers that they are bombarded as soon as they walk in by aggressive floor guys trying to sell them bottle service and VIP rooms before they have even chosen their dancer companions for the evening.
They have the audacity to walk up to me while I'm with a customer to try to move me to "their" tables so that they can get a tip from the customers and me (for helping out). I'm OBVIOUSLY busy!
I'll ask a bouncer if my customer treated them well, and they'll say "not really" and then ask ME for a tip. WHAT THE FUCK, MAN? You have done nothing for me, ever. Fuck off.
michele11
10-07-2014, 04:23 PM
Well, I attempted to shower and do my hair today and it' s apparent I'm not going to be able to work. I can't freaken use that hand at all. I'm left handed but amdidextrous ( I use right hand for most everything). I couldn't hold the blow drier or straighten my hair well. Which means I won't be able to give a lap dance. My girlfriends trying to get me back to work now saying( well your in vip all the time). So I still can't be helpless with one hand and guys do still want dances and I have to go up and down stairs! thanks to a fellow stripperwebber who said she'd help me do my hair and stuff and I can stay with her. Though she probably won't see this as she's going through her own shit and not on here often.
lynn2009
10-08-2014, 06:44 PM
I am so frustrated with my apartment I could seriously cry. I have gone through apartment and roommate hell since college, esp. after graduating because my school loans were so high, I could have afforded better places but I always rented cheaply to save money and had the WORST roommates. I have excellent credit but it has been torture, trying to cover for roommates who signed leases with me and bailed, living in the ghetto, loud, obnoxious, rude people. I finally moved to my current city, thought I found a normal apartment shared with *1* other person and he is driving me fucking insane. And I am pretty sure he's lying to me about the utility bills, I've already paid like 100 dollars and only been here three weeks. And we owe another 200 with next months rent, which he already said he would pay (which I thought was fair since he gave me a # for my first month, which was subletted and I gave him that) and now he wants to split it. On top of all that, this place is expensive for me to start with. But I was moving in a hurry and basically took the first decent place that I found and figured I could at least have a *real* apartment this time. But he's still so overbearing, he texted me at 7pm tonight asking if I was working at a club because I was late getting back from my day job, and I said no, I went to the gym after work and was getting off the train now. So even though I said I was getting off the train (aka. less than FIVE minutes away) he still texted me that he cleaned the kitchen (I still don't know why he did this, does he want a fucking cookie and a 'good job!'? It was 95% his mess to start) and thanks to me for putting his stuff in the dryer last night. Like, WHY ARE YOU BOTHERING ME WITH THIS? And he knows my schedule is fucking ridiculous and he NEVER stops complaining about his own. I think this is why he annoys me so much, I realize we all have different priorities when it comes to buying property/careers and family but he seems COMPLETELY incapable of dealing with adulthood. He's bragged before about how he makes so much money working at a quasi-upscale restaurant, he blows 100s on drinking in one night, makes a huge drama out of paying bills, tonight he kept saying 'oy vey' over and over again because he has to run errands tomorrow!!! Like, so sorry dude, must be so hard to be you, you do realize that my day off is fucking NEVER? WHY ARE YOU COMPLAINING TO ME. My parents didn't pay for college, or me to travel for months after, oh my god!! And I really, really, don't want to have to move again but I swear him being all sneaky and weird w/ the utilities bills, I do not appreciate.