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miss.a.p1600
03-23-2017, 05:22 PM
This guy that I just started dating is already pissing me off.
I made him get an aids and std test before we have sex.
He hasn't received all the results yet, but all he talks about when we go out is the size of his dick, and how he really can't tell how big my boobs are (he's a boob guy). I always hide my boobs because it's conservative around here.
Last night was such a turnoff. Not only did he never offer to take me for something to eat after a class we took together, but he actually brought a ruler with him, in case I wanted him to measure his dick. Wtf!
I told him to go ahead. He whipped his dick out in my car in the parking lot , and it was small, and thin. Icky!
I Let him feel me up, and it felt like I was getting an exam at the gym I.
He has no finese, and I'm totally turned off.
If his tests come back negative, I don't want to have sex with him.
No civie sex for 6 years...If I let him fuck me, I'm afraid it will push me right back into celibacy.
What do you ladies suggest I do to get out of having sex with this cheap ass sex freak?

Definitely money but since you say he is cheap then you will have do get him to do stuff for you. Idk. Make a list of things you need help with .... a looooong list hehehehe and make him work extra hard for poussey and toss him a few bread crumbs here and there for his compliance. Whilst at the same time scout for richer men.

And if you don't want to have sex with him then just don't.

WendiStarr
03-23-2017, 05:31 PM
This guy that I just started dating is already pissing me off.
I made him get an aids and std test before we have sex.
He hasn't received all the results yet, but all he talks about when we go out is the size of his dick, and how he really can't tell how big my boobs are (he's a boob guy). I always hide my boobs because it's conservative around here.
Last night was such a turnoff. Not only did he never offer to take me for something to eat after a class we took together, but he actually brought a ruler with him, in case I wanted him to measure his dick. Wtf!
I told him to go ahead. He whipped his dick out in my car in the parking lot , and it was small, and thin. Icky!
I Let him feel me up, and it felt like I was getting an exam at the gym I.
He has no finese, and I'm totally turned off.
If his tests come back negative, I don't want to have sex with him.
No civie sex for 6 years...If I let him fuck me, I'm afraid it will push me right back into celibacy.
What do you ladies suggest I do to get out of having sex with this cheap ass sex freak?

He sounds arrogant and he's cheap on top of that with an icky looking dick? I don't blame you for being turned off. I would be too. You want to get out of having sex with him? Easy. Start talking about marriage out of nowhere and how your biological clock is ticking(even if it's a lie, haha), how you've picked out baby names, etc. 99% of the time that works to turn any man off. :D I guess you could just tell him the truth, that he turned you off, delete his number, and move on to someone who deserves you because it sounds to me like that tool sure doesn't. You could play it off like,"I've been keeping my options open and I met someone else. Bye." You could try the expensive date route. I did that before to get this cocky asshole to finally leave me alone. I told him that I wanted him to take me to Red Lobster, ordered the most expensive meal on the menu, appetizers, a dessert, and a meal to go. He never bothered me again. :-D

LoveyDovey
03-23-2017, 05:56 PM
Ugh. I feel kind of shitty at the moment. Today at work I was sitting with one of my regulars. Had to go onstage. Left my drink there with him and as soon as I left, some new girl sat with him and he told her to buzz off, so she did. After my set I found her in the bathroom and pretty much bitched her out. Told her to never do that again. I know she's new to the club, but not new to the business. She snapped back and called me a bitch. Told mgmnt about her so the 2 of us had to sit in the office to give both sides of our story. Mgmnt told us if we have issues, come to her, not to each other and told the girl not to call people anything outside of their name. Part of me feels bad for being so hotheaded, as I am usually not like that at all. But I'm sick of these new girls coming in from other clubs and pretending to not know the drill. I mean, really? She saw me sit with him, for 25 min, I left my drink there, just going onstage so obviously I was coming back...Part of me wants to apologize for being so snappy, and part of me just wants to leave it alone so that these new girls will be a little scared of crossing me. Other new girls before her seemed to feel that they could take advantage of me since I'm "nice". Maybe this is a good thing. Idk what to do. For now I'm just ignoring her.
Part of me feels bad. But another part of me feels like sometimes,in this business, you have to be a bitch to get respect. Shame it has to be that way, but it is what it is.

ScarletKitten
03-23-2017, 06:00 PM
hahahaha nice. Sounds like she deserved it :P

My rant was inspired by this guy who came in on a slow night and sat against the wall. I was the first to approach him. He talked to me for a little while and then just sat there and stared into space, didn't say a damn word. I hate that shit. It's awkward and rude. It really doesn't tell you ANYTHING and it feels awkward as fuck and you have to sit there for a second and think about how you're going to depart lol. I ended up just saying "Nice to meet you, enjoy the rest of your night" and walked off. He just nodded at me continuing to stare into space. I'm also not the super persistent type so "I'm good right now, thanks" is enough to get me to walk away.

Girl number two approaches him......she has a more persistent hustle approach than I do. She sits for way longer than me. I observed for a second since it was dead and it looked like he was trying to do his annoying shitty stare into space thing with her too but she tried to keep the conversation going. Finally, she gets up.

Girl three approaches him and he's interested in her. She's brand new and looks like she could be 13-15 while me and the other girl are not that type, so there we go, that's his type. Later she tells me that he was complaining about girls who won't "leave him alone" especially the second girl. I was like ummm dude, he never said No thank you I'm not interested. He just sat there staring into space like an awkward, creepy fuck because he didn't have the balls to turn a girl down and now he's bitching? Get the fuck out of here. I'm glad someone finally made money off his dumbass but that kind of nonsense gets on my last nerve.

This is why you have to know body language. I always know that when a guy stares off and doesn't look at me when I'm talking and won't engage is not interested, and I quickly move on.

ScarletKitten
03-23-2017, 06:06 PM
If I ever see this dude come into my club again I'm going to be tempted to sit next to him, not say anything, and just stare for 10 minutes lmfao. Only if it's dead and I need some amusement of course.

Hahaha....this just reminded me of this thread: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?197861-Don-t-creep-out-a-customer&highlight=creep

One of the most hilarious threads of all time. lol

Glamourmilf
03-23-2017, 07:09 PM
Definitely money but since you say he is cheap then you will have do get him to do stuff for you. Idk. Make a list of things you need help with .... a looooong list hehehehe and make him work extra hard for poussey and toss him a few bread crumbs here and there for his compliance. Whilst at the same time scout for richer men.

And if you don't want to have sex with him then just don't.


He sounds arrogant and he's cheap on top of that with an icky looking dick? I don't blame you for being turned off. I would be too. You want to get out of having sex with him? Easy. Start talking about marriage out of nowhere and how your biological clock is ticking(even if it's a lie, haha), how you've picked out baby names, etc. 99% of the time that works to turn any man off. :D I guess you could just tell him the truth, that he turned you off, delete his number, and move on to someone who deserves you because it sounds to me like that tool sure doesn't. You could play it off like,"I've been keeping my options open and I met someone else. Bye." You could try the expensive date route. I did that before to get this cocky asshole to finally leave me alone. I told him that I wanted him to take me to Red Lobster, ordered the most expensive meal on the menu, appetizers, a dessert, and a meal to go. He never bothered me again. :-D
I knew I could count on my ladies! Thank You for your awesome advice.
The more I think about him, the angrier I get.
It also dawned on me today,that in the month we've been dating, he's never asked one thing about me, that didn't revolve around sex.
He talks about himself the entire time.
I'm definitely not going to have sex with him. So what if he gets mad because I made him get the tests?
He can use it to show the next bitch that he meets.

lilylilylily
03-23-2017, 07:26 PM
Ugh. I feel kind of shitty at the moment. Today at work I was sitting with one of my regulars. Had to go onstage. Left my drink there with him and as soon as I left, some new girl sat with him and he told her to buzz off, so she did. After my set I found her in the bathroom and pretty much bitched her out. Told her to never do that again. I know she's new to the club, but not new to the business. She snapped back and called me a bitch. Told mgmnt about her so the 2 of us had to sit in the office to give both sides of our story. Mgmnt told us if we have issues, come to her, not to each other and told the girl not to call people anything outside of their name. Part of me feels bad for being so hotheaded, as I am usually not like that at all. But I'm sick of these new girls coming in from other clubs and pretending to not know the drill. I mean, really? She saw me sit with him, for 25 min, I left my drink there, just going onstage so obviously I was coming back...Part of me wants to apologize for being so snappy, and part of me just wants to leave it alone so that these new girls will be a little scared of crossing me. Other new girls before her seemed to feel that they could take advantage of me since I'm "nice". Maybe this is a good thing. Idk what to do. For now I'm just ignoring her.
Part of me feels bad. But another part of me feels like sometimes,in this business, you have to be a bitch to get respect. Shame it has to be that way, but it is what it is.

I think you did the right thing standing up for yourself. That's the only way they'll learn. Otherwise they'll keep doing it. The other day I had been sitting with a regular for a while, got called on stage and as soon as I got up this girl I had been friendly with says "I'll just keep him company for you while you go on stage" I freaked out on her and asked the dj to get me off from doing stage, I don't think she'll try that again.

persianprincess
03-23-2017, 07:34 PM
This guy that I just started dating is already pissing me off.
I made him get an aids and std test before we have sex.
He hasn't received all the results yet, but all he talks about when we go out is the size of his dick, and how he really can't tell how big my boobs are (he's a boob guy). I always hide my boobs because it's conservative around here.
Last night was such a turnoff. Not only did he never offer to take me for something to eat after a class we took together, but he actually brought a ruler with him, in case I wanted him to measure his dick. Wtf!
I told him to go ahead. He whipped his dick out in my car in the parking lot , and it was small, and thin. Icky!
I Let him feel me up, and it felt like I was getting an exam at the gym I.
He has no finese, and I'm totally turned off.
If his tests come back negative, I don't want to have sex with him.
No civie sex for 6 years...If I let him fuck me, I'm afraid it will push me right back into celibacy.
What do you ladies suggest I do to get out of having sex with this cheap ass sex freak?

You don't owe him sex ... whether he took an STD test on your behalf or not. Honestly don't go grudgingly into civilian sex or you'll just be like "VAGINA IS CLOSED FOR CIVILIAN BUSINESS" shortly after. He sounds like a twat ... like who appears with a rule in case you wanna measure his dick, I would have smacked him in the balls with it.

Doesn't sound like sex with him will be enjoyable, I've been with clients who were like fumbling grabby dickheads and was getting paid and didn't let them come back ... so imagine bad sex for free.

Just tell him - you know what, you're not someone I think I'm compatible with and hit block. Don't even listen to any verbal meltdowns he has.

xo

seashell
03-23-2017, 07:38 PM
This guy that I just started dating is already pissing me off.
I made him get an aids and std test before we have sex.
He hasn't received all the results yet, but all he talks about when we go out is the size of his dick, and how he really can't tell how big my boobs are (he's a boob guy). I always hide my boobs because it's conservative around here.
Last night was such a turnoff. Not only did he never offer to take me for something to eat after a class we took together, but he actually brought a ruler with him, in case I wanted him to measure his dick. Wtf!
I told him to go ahead. He whipped his dick out in my car in the parking lot , and it was small, and thin. Icky!
I Let him feel me up, and it felt like I was getting an exam at the gym I.
He has no finese, and I'm totally turned off.
If his tests come back negative, I don't want to have sex with him.
No civie sex for 6 years...If I let him fuck me, I'm afraid it will push me right back into celibacy.
What do you ladies suggest I do to get out of having sex with this cheap ass sex freak?

Sheesh, that's like the definition of a douchebag loser. Gross. Don't feel bad about him taking the test... it's the least he could do, after being a disgusting perv. I wouldn't sleep with him or even contact him again... There are better guys out there. Not worth it.

If only there were some kind of registry for non-creepy, good-in-bed, decent-looking guys. That would be awesome. It's so hard to find one when you need one.

LoveyDovey
03-23-2017, 11:44 PM
I think you did the right thing standing up for yourself. That's the only way they'll learn. Otherwise they'll keep doing it. The other day I had been sitting with a regular for a while, got called on stage and as soon as I got up this girl I had been friendly with says "I'll just keep him company for you while you go on stage" I freaked out on her and asked the dj to get me off from doing stage, I don't think she'll try that again.

Thanks L. I feel better. I hate being a bitch but I swear I'm at my wits end with people thinking since I'm "nice" they can just walk all over me and my boundaries.
Praying/meditating/crying and letting it all out now so that when I go back in tomorrow, I can go back with a better energy and mindset. I have had worries on my mind lately and I'm realizing I just need to chill and relax, put positive out there and let the Universe just do its thing.

LizzyMe
03-24-2017, 12:07 AM
This guy that I just started dating is already pissing me off.
I made him get an aids and std test before we have sex.
He hasn't received all the results yet, but all he talks about when we go out is the size of his dick, and how he really can't tell how big my boobs are (he's a boob guy). I always hide my boobs because it's conservative around here.
Last night was such a turnoff. Not only did he never offer to take me for something to eat after a class we took together, but he actually brought a ruler with him, in case I wanted him to measure his dick. Wtf!
I told him to go ahead. He whipped his dick out in my car in the parking lot , and it was small, and thin. Icky!
I Let him feel me up, and it felt like I was getting an exam at the gym I.
He has no finese, and I'm totally turned off.
If his tests come back negative, I don't want to have sex with him.
No civie sex for 6 years...If I let him fuck me, I'm afraid it will push me right back into celibacy.
What do you ladies suggest I do to get out of having sex with this cheap ass sex freak?

Ask him if he knows the meaning of SPH, then look down towards his pathetic cock in his pants and laugh at it. He will get the hint. If he doesn't know what it means, tell him to Google it. After that walk away. You don't need to put up with this cheap, disrespectful, tiny dick man. :)

JenniferNorth
03-24-2017, 07:37 AM
My pissy-ness: been applying for pso jobs and anxious about the waiting to hear back part.

Got a bill from my state because we went to the city without an Ipass, and with fines, we owe $60 in tolls. (Husband and I didn't realize man-operated or coin-operated toll booths had been done away with and most of the city uses nothing but Ipass). We have been scrambling around trying to acquire enough money between bills and prepping to move, and it has been frustrating.

I feel like a bad mom because I am so focused on applying both of us for more work, and I don't spend as much time with daughter/pets as I would like.

ETA also what is up with texting companies wanting you to bring a following? Like Arousr, SextPanther etc. I mean, they don't "require" it, but I get the feeling they would rather you come to the table with a nice twitter following.

Ginnyyy
03-24-2017, 09:02 AM
Last week bought cat food and supplies for the next month though was not needed yet. Yesterday seen an offer for which I have to buy cat food and supplies for 2 months to get a big free cute cat toy. Fuck, why haven t I just waited before ordering? I had no alternative than being trapped into their market and ordered this offer.
Guess what? The order came today but without the bonus. Now I am just waiting for Monday to come and give it to me.I really wanted to test the cat toy today... Uhhh

Glamourmilf
03-24-2017, 09:22 AM
Ask him if he knows the meaning of SPH, then look down towards his pathetic cock in his pants and laugh at it. He will get the hint. If he doesn't know what it means, tell him to Google it. After that walk away. You don't need to put up with this cheap, disrespectful, tiny dick man. :)


You don't owe him sex ... whether he took an STD test on your behalf or not. Honestly don't go grudgingly into civilian sex or you'll just be like "VAGINA IS CLOSED FOR CIVILIAN BUSINESS" shortly after. He sounds like a twat ... like who appears with a rule in case you wanna measure his dick, I would have smacked him in the balls with it.

Doesn't sound like sex with him will be enjoyable, I've been with clients who were like fumbling grabby dickheads and was getting paid and didn't let them come back ... so imagine bad sex for free.

Just tell him - you know what, you're not someone I think I'm compatible with and hit block. Don't even listen to any verbal meltdowns he has.

xo


Sheesh, that's like the definition of a douchebag loser. Gross. Don't feel bad about him taking the test... it's the least he could do, after being a disgusting perv. I wouldn't sleep with him or even contact him again... There are better guys out there. Not worth it.

If only there were some kind of registry for non-creepy, good-in-bed, decent-looking guys. That would be awesome. It's so hard to find one when you need one.

Thank You ladies for the support in my decision to not sleep with him.
It's not so much the icky little dick, but how he treats me.
No romance, no hand holding, never tells me I look pretty, only took me out to eat once. Ugh!
I get more compliments from strangers that come up to me on the street! Lol!
I guess I was curious because he said he just broke up with his girlfriend that he lived with for over 10 years.
And he dated only 1 girl off the site, who after the first fuck, broke into his house out of jealousy because she saw his ex come out. She claimed she was pregnant.
He says he wore 2 condoms, and she must've gone in his trash to insert the sperm. Said she had a history of drug use.( Thus the reason I made him get tested.).
I figured he was possibly dynamite in bed, because who does that? And why did his girl stay for 10 plus years?
I really don't care, at this point, because I'm totally turned off. And knowing myself the way I do, .....Nothing can bring me back to wanting to be with him.
THIS is why I don't tell guys where I live.

LoveyDovey
03-24-2017, 09:26 AM
Thank You ladies for the support in my decision to not sleep with him.
It's not so much the icky little dick, but how he treats me.
No romance, no hand holding, never tells me I look pretty, only took me out to eat once. Ugh!
I get more compliments from strangers that come up to me n the street! Lol!
I guess I was curious because he said he just broke up with his girlfriend that he lived with for over 10 years.
And he dated only 1 girl off the site, who after the first fuck, broke into his house out of jealousy because she saw his ex come out. She claimed she was pregnant.
He says he wore 2 condoms, and she must've gone in his trash to insert the sperm. Said she had a history of drug use.( Thus the reason I made him get tested.).
I figured he was possibly dynamite in bed, because who does that? And why did his girl stay for 10 plus years?
I really don't care, at this point, because I'm totally turned off. And knowing myself the way I do, .....Nothing can bring me back to wanting to be with him.
THIS is why I don't tell guys where I live.

If i were you, I'd straight up ghost the guy completely. You dont have time for this when there are wayyy better guys out there.

Glamourmilf
03-24-2017, 09:40 AM
If i were you, I'd straight up ghost the guy completely. You dont have time for this when there are wayyy better guys out there.

True that.
I was THIS close to ghosting 2 guys who want to take me out. A cute, and very polite fireman, and a young guy who just moved here from Chicago ( love Chicago guys) and wants to have coffee and people watch and just have a blast.

KaraLynn
03-24-2017, 02:07 PM
True that.
I was THIS close to ghosting 2 guys who want to take me out. A cute, and very polite fireman, and a young guy who just moved here from Chicago ( love Chicago guys) and wants to have coffee and people watch and just have a blast.

I read your posts and I would definitely ghost that guy lol ew. Like, I get it, we all want and enjoy sex but if that's ALL he is talking about that is a huge red flag.

DonaDiabla
03-24-2017, 04:47 PM
Awww Jennifer, I feel you. Usually, it should take between one to three weeks for phone sex companies to give you a call back. Have you look into some direct-dial places as well? BTW, ChatStar does want you have at least 1000 followers to get notice by them :) At least, I always felt that from ChatStar :)


My pissy-ness: been applying for pso jobs and anxious about the waiting to hear back part.

Got a bill from my state because we went to the city without an Ipass, and with fines, we owe $60 in tolls. (Husband and I didn't realize man-operated or coin-operated toll booths had been done away with and most of the city uses nothing but Ipass). We have been scrambling around trying to acquire enough money between bills and prepping to move, and it has been frustrating.

I feel like a bad mom because I am so focused on applying both of us for more work, and I don't spend as much time with daughter/pets as I would like.

ETA also what is up with texting companies wanting you to bring a following? Like Arousr, SextPanther etc. I mean, they don't "require" it, but I get the feeling they would rather you come to the table with a nice twitter following.

persianprincess
03-24-2017, 05:24 PM
Thank You ladies for the support in my decision to not sleep with him.
It's not so much the icky little dick, but how he treats me.
No romance, no hand holding, never tells me I look pretty, only took me out to eat once. Ugh!
I get more compliments from strangers that come up to me on the street! Lol!
I guess I was curious because he said he just broke up with his girlfriend that he lived with for over 10 years.
And he dated only 1 girl off the site, who after the first fuck, broke into his house out of jealousy because she saw his ex come out. She claimed she was pregnant.
He says he wore 2 condoms, and she must've gone in his trash to insert the sperm. Said she had a history of drug use.( Thus the reason I made him get tested.).
I figured he was possibly dynamite in bed, because who does that? And why did his girl stay for 10 plus years?
I really don't care, at this point, because I'm totally turned off. And knowing myself the way I do, .....Nothing can bring me back to wanting to be with him.
THIS is why I don't tell guys where I live.

I mean he is probably lying about the girlfriend thing ... you know some of these guys will spin any story to glorify themselves.
You can find 100% better ... he sounds like a pain in the ass.

LizzyMe
03-24-2017, 05:29 PM
Thank You ladies for the support in my decision to not sleep with him.
It's not so much the icky little dick, but how he treats me.
No romance, no hand holding, never tells me I look pretty, only took me out to eat once. Ugh!
I get more compliments from strangers that come up to me on the street! Lol!
I guess I was curious because he said he just broke up with his girlfriend that he lived with for over 10 years.
And he dated only 1 girl off the site, who after the first fuck, broke into his house out of jealousy because she saw his ex come out. She claimed she was pregnant.
He says he wore 2 condoms, and she must've gone in his trash to insert the sperm. Said she had a history of drug use.( Thus the reason I made him get tested.).
I figured he was possibly dynamite in bed, because who does that? And why did his girl stay for 10 plus years?
I really don't care, at this point, because I'm totally turned off. And knowing myself the way I do, .....Nothing can bring me back to wanting to be with him.
THIS is why I don't tell guys where I live.

Oh, I certainly get the reasons why you are not interested in him, I would not be either. You deserve better than him. I offered my sarcastic advice because that guy sounds like a loser and I just love putting loser men in their place.

xxxGothBarbie
03-24-2017, 06:08 PM
Why do I always try to get my shit together the week that I start my period? It never fails. I'll make a bunch of healthy food, set an exercise schedule, clear my schedule, and then.... I'm just the shitty, crampy, bloat-monster that just wants to eat cheese. I'm not gonna work out when I can barely get off the couch. It doesn't matter how much healthy food I eat, if what I'm craving is cheese, I am eventually going to end up eating out of the bag of shredded parmesan.

I know I need to just give myself a break during this week, but I really need to get back on track and it frustrates me that I physically feel unable to. It makes me feel like a failure and like I'm just making excuses.

OMG girl I'm right there with you! I thought I was the only one this month slacking off with shit. I always wait until the last dam minute to get anything together ugh I sooo wish I could change that.

xxxGothBarbie
03-24-2017, 06:47 PM
Ugh So I had a fun night out dancing last night a local bar with friends however until the end of the night & my one girlfriend gets all super pissy & starts an argument bc I mentioned her ex bf's name in passing about whatever the hell we were laughing at (which she normally does bc he's all she talks to me about). She's been obsessing over this one guy & driving me crazy talking about him nonstop when he's made it rather clear to her that he's not into her anymore & has moved on. She is really needy & super clingy towards me (even when we aren't hanging out) and I am reaching the point of telling her to fuck off. Especially after her getting all snippy & pissy with me bc she was convinced that "everyone" was listening to her conversations when no one around really gave a fuck. Ugh I'm so irritated by that still.

KaraLynn
03-25-2017, 12:57 AM
I've been suffering emotionally ever since my major breakup and I'm seriously trying to hold it together and pretend it doesn't bother me but it's hard. I wish I knew what went wrong so I could go back in time and fix it.

He was the ONLY real relationship I ever had. He was the ONLY person I was ever in love with who treated me well. If this was a piece of shit who treated me like garbage it wouldn't be bothering me but he wasn't.

We split all the bills so I didn't work as often. Now that I'm on my own and having to work damn near every day to stay afloat I'm getting so burned out and seriously depressed. This just sucks.

xxxGothBarbie
03-25-2017, 01:24 AM
I've been suffering emotionally ever since my major breakup and I'm seriously trying to hold it together and pretend it doesn't bother me but it's hard. I wish I knew what went wrong so I could go back in time and fix it.

He was the ONLY real relationship I ever had. He was the ONLY person I was ever in love with who treated me well. If this was a piece of shit who treated me like garbage it wouldn't be bothering me but he wasn't.

We split all the bills so I didn't work as often. Now that I'm on my own and having to work damn near every day to stay afloat I'm getting so burned out and seriously depressed. This just sucks.

awww babe <3 I hope you're ok. Message me on fb if you wanna talk x0x0

miss.a.p1600
03-25-2017, 06:35 AM
Thank You ladies for the support in my decision to not sleep with him.
It's not so much the icky little dick, but how he treats me.
No romance, no hand holding, never tells me I look pretty, only took me out to eat once. Ugh!
I get more compliments from strangers that come up to me on the street! Lol!
I guess I was curious because he said he just broke up with his girlfriend that he lived with for over 10 years.
And he dated only 1 girl off the site, who after the first fuck, broke into his house out of jealousy because she saw his ex come out. She claimed she was pregnant.
He says he wore 2 condoms, and she must've gone in his trash to insert the sperm. Said she had a history of drug use.( Thus the reason I made him get tested.).
I figured he was possibly dynamite in bed, because who does that? And why did his girl stay for 10 plus years?
I really don't care, at this point, because I'm totally turned off. And knowing myself the way I do, .....Nothing can bring me back to wanting to be with him.
THIS is why I don't tell guys where I live.

Wow! If you continue to entertain this guy you may have to just tell him like demand he do what you want. He sounds like that type that gives bare minimal effort unless you boss him around. But it seems like you're over him.

And second wearing two condoms is one of those things that sound good like hey that guy fucked a lot of sketchy women so I'm going to make him wear two condoms but in reality wearing two condoms in no safer than not wearing a condom. They are not designed to be worn like that. From what I understand if you attempt to wear two condoms you increase the likelihood of breakage significantly. So it could be possible the condom malfunctioned as a result of him using it in a way it was not intended.

Yeah after my last two breakups I NEVER trust men with my home address because some of them turn out to be crazy as hell and will try and pop up unannounced or worse. Unless you live in gated communities that tracks license plates I would not tell a man I'm dating where I live.

The last guy I dated was a narcissist and got pissed frequently that I never invited him to my home. Well if you know anything about narcissist not only do they feel entitled to know everything about you and have access to you at all times but when they attempt to / do discard you they hover back around trying to get you back at any means and this could include showing up at your doorstep with flowers and a fake apology (uninvited of course) or something worse.

My address equals we are in a meaningful relationship and "I trust you" privilege. But that's just me I'm very cautious now a days.

LoveyDovey
03-25-2017, 06:49 AM
I've been suffering emotionally ever since my major breakup and I'm seriously trying to hold it together and pretend it doesn't bother me but it's hard. I wish I knew what went wrong so I could go back in time and fix it.

He was the ONLY real relationship I ever had. He was the ONLY person I was ever in love with who treated me well. If this was a piece of shit who treated me like garbage it wouldn't be bothering me but he wasn't.

We split all the bills so I didn't work as often. Now that I'm on my own and having to work damn near every day to stay afloat I'm getting so burned out and seriously depressed. This just sucks.

Im sorry you're going through such a hard time. I went through something similar last summer and I know how it feels. Take the time to grieve and take good care of yourself. Eventually you'll heal...things change. Make sure you treat yourself well and let your emotions out. I cried a lot and wrote in a journal and channeled my energy into creative pursuits. That helps. Who knows why this happened. Just for now, take good care of you.

SnuffleUffleGrass
03-25-2017, 07:28 AM
I'm annoyed my brain decided to wake me up with a PTSD memory from me being raped by an ex. Thanks brain. Using a nice quiet moment to upset me . ughhhh

WendiStarr
03-25-2017, 07:54 AM
My pissy-ness: been applying for pso jobs and anxious about the waiting to hear back part.

Got a bill from my state because we went to the city without an Ipass, and with fines, we owe $60 in tolls. (Husband and I didn't realize man-operated or coin-operated toll booths had been done away with and most of the city uses nothing but Ipass). We have been scrambling around trying to acquire enough money between bills and prepping to move, and it has been frustrating.

I feel like a bad mom because I am so focused on applying both of us for more work, and I don't spend as much time with daughter/pets as I would like.

ETA also what is up with texting companies wanting you to bring a following? Like Arousr, SextPanther etc. I mean, they don't "require" it, but I get the feeling they would rather you come to the table with a nice twitter following.

I think that SextPanther definitely is that way. They rejected me because I had my social media account on private. I did that because I sometimes get creepy guys who like to cyberstalk. They told me that they wouldn't approve my profile unless I made it public so that they could "make sure I was a real person". Arousr..I don't bother with them due to bad past experiences with Linda, the site owner. You could try Phrendly.com for texting. They don't care how many followers you have or don't have.

WendiStarr
03-25-2017, 07:56 AM
I'm annoyed my brain decided to wake me up with a PTSD memory from me being raped by an ex. Thanks brain. Using a nice quiet moment to upset me . ughhhh

That's awful! I'm sorry.

lilylilylily
03-25-2017, 10:41 AM
Two of my regs this week told me they think some girls at the club are jealous of me by certain things they are saying to them. I guess having haters us good, shows you are doing something right, but it makes me sad because those same girls are nice to my face. Trying not to let it get to me

Vyanka
03-25-2017, 11:50 AM
Two of my regs this week told me they think some girls at the club are jealous of me by certain things they are saying to them. I guess having haters us good, shows you are doing something right, but it makes me sad because those same girls are nice to my face. Trying not to let it get to me

Definitely don't let it get to you! You said it right. When you have haters, it is a sign of success
Unfortunately and fortunately.

JenniferNorth
03-26-2017, 07:01 AM
Snuffle-I'm so sorry. I thanked your post yesterday as a form of support, but I realized today maybe that didn't make much sense. I just wanted to say I understand and feel for you. I hope today is much better. I have PTSD feelings come out of nowhere too, so I totally understand.

Wendi-I'm going to PM you if that's okay!

Dona-Thank you for the heads up, girl! One to three weeks-man oh man! When did this become a "normal" job?! I am all about that direct dial and actually cannot wait to start on platforms. I am trying to save up money to purchase pic sets because I'd like to do a combination of platforms and DD as my own boss. But yes, I have mostly applied to combo and DD companies.

Today's pissy rants:

-I love my daughter, but she is such a turd this morning. Doesn't want yogurt, throwing toys on the floor, won't let daddy sleep. It doesn't help that I am PMSing. We are watching Babyfirst right now, and I am going out of my mind.

-I am behind on work. I need to catch up. Yuck.

-We have to spend a chunk of today cleaning at husband's grandma's house. My BIL hasn't been cleaning or doing anything at all, because he doesn't get down like that. Oh, but the other day he and his new squeeze came over, and she "cleaned" something. More likely, she lifted Gma's meds or money (his women are mostly trashy pieces of shit like that). But the minute you hear your brother and I are coming over to clean, you haul ass to help. I could go on and on, but I won't, except to say husband and I live 45 minutes away, and BIL lives 15 minutes away.

-Money is frustrating right now.

Glamourmilf
03-26-2017, 08:34 AM
Wow! If you continue to entertain this guy you may have to just tell him like demand he do what you want. He sounds like that type that gives bare minimal effort unless you boss him around. But it seems like you're over him.

And second wearing two condoms is one of those things that sound good like hey that guy fucked a lot of sketchy women so I'm going to make him wear two condoms but in reality wearing two condoms in no safer than not wearing a condom. They are not designed to be worn like that. From what I understand if you attempt to wear two condoms you increase the likelihood of breakage significantly. So it could be possible the condom malfunctioned as a result of him using it in a way it was not intended.

Yeah after my last two breakups I NEVER trust men with my home address because some of them turn out to be crazy as hell and will try and pop up unannounced or worse. Unless you live in gated communities that tracks license plates I would not tell a man I'm dating where I live.

The last guy I dated was a narcissist and got pissed frequently that I never invited him to my home. Well if you know anything about narcissist not only do they feel entitled to know everything about you and have access to you at all times but when they attempt to / do discard you they hover back around trying to get you back at any means and this could include showing up at your doorstep with flowers and a fake apology (uninvited of course) or something worse.

My address equals we are in a meaningful relationship and "I trust you" privilege. But that's just me I'm very cautious now a days.

Exactly why my address stays private.
I now live in a house with no security. Yep, people can just walk on up to my front door.
I don't even tell friends my address, because in the past, they've been known to pop in if I don't answer their calls for a while. Sadly, even a security building didn't stop them.
I have enough to worry about with the neighborhood being a bit sketchy. Everytime I go to my mailbox, there's always some weird guy walking by, who wants to talk to me. Nope.
I have my name on the waiting list for a better place, so I'm just going to hang in there until then.

miss.a.p1600
03-26-2017, 09:02 AM
Exactly why my address stays private.
I now live in a house with no security. Yep, people can just walk on up to my front door.
I don't even tell friends my address, because in the past, they've been known to pop in if I don't answer their calls for a while. Sadly, even a security building didn't stop them.
I have enough to worry about with the neighborhood being a bit sketchy. Everytime I go to my mailbox, there's always some weird guy walking by, who wants to talk to me. Nope.
I have my name on the waiting list for a better place, so I'm just going to hang in there until then.

Same here. Only one person knows my address and I'm already regretting the fact that his ass knows because this fucker showed up unannounced when I allegedly didn't answer 3 calls. Number one rule I hate is people call and you don't answer then they freak out like anxiety riddled chihuahua dogs when you leave them home alone - like why the fuck didn't you just text?!? Has it not occurred to you I can't talk or maybe don't want to talk?

Like cotdamn it I get your concern but fuck! Have you though maybe I just want to be left to my own accord and not feel obligated to answer everyone's phone calls??? When people call you it's basically a surprise as to what they will discuss. THIS is one reason I don't like talking on phone. I prefer a quick text as to what you want then we can continue text or phone call if warranted.

I refuse to let people waste my time or use guilt trips on me (I was sooo concerned you didn't answer so I stopped by unannounced) to get me to answer their calls when they want and indefinitely.

Now I know how Richard Simmons feels. Sometime a motherfucker just want to be left alone and not have to deal with everyone's agenda or their baggage. I ditched Facebook for days and felt so much better.

So annoying and I'm either doing something with gated community or surveillance next go around. Bet that will end random pop ups.

Glamourmilf
03-26-2017, 02:29 PM
Same here. Only one person knows my address and I'm already regretting the fact that his ass knows because this fucker showed up unannounced when I allegedly didn't answer 3 calls. Number one rule I hate is people call and you don't answer then they freak out like anxiety riddled chihuahua dogs when you leave them home alone - like why the fuck didn't you just text?!? Has it not occurred to you I can't talk or maybe don't want to talk?

Like cotdamn it I get your concern but fuck! Have you though maybe I just want to be left to my own accord and not feel obligated to answer everyone's phone calls??? When people call you it's basically a surprise as to what they will discuss. THIS is one reason I don't like talking on phone. I prefer a quick text as to what you want then we can continue text or phone call if warranted.

I refuse to let people waste my time or use guilt trips on me (I was sooo concerned you didn't answer so I stopped by unannounced) to get me to answer their calls when they want and indefinitely.

Now I know how Richard Simmons feels. Sometime a motherfucker just want to be left alone and not have to deal with everyone's agenda or their baggage. I ditched Facebook for days and felt so much better.

So annoying and I'm either doing something with gated community or surveillance next go around. Bet that will end random pop ups.

Yes, agreed. I talk to thousands of people everyday on cam, so when I'm done..irl..= leave me the fuck alone.!!
Don't call me, I'll call you.
I'm so happy to be done with online dating. Because they always call when I'm....in the middle of working, eating, napping, Netflixing, net surfing, walking out the door, etc.
It's such a relief knowing that NOBODY will ever knock at my door.

seashell
03-26-2017, 11:01 PM
My petty annoyance is that I reeeally hate going to the grocery store. Being in Czech Republic spoiled me... you could walk for 5 minutes and be at the grocery store, where everything cost about half the price in America, and get everything fresh/organic/grassfed. Here, I have to drive because it's hot and the city is so spread out, and if I want the same quality of food (eggs with orange yolks, bread without preservatives), I have to go to places like Whole Foods.

WendiStarr
03-27-2017, 11:21 AM
As if I didn't feel miserable enough with the stuffy nose, headache, sinus pain, body aches, fever, chills..the ever so lovely aunt flow decided that I'd like an early arrival today. Add cramping, nausea, loss of appetite, and low blood pressure to the mix. This is the part of non-vanilla jobs that I really hate. There are no paid sick days or paid days off when you're a sw. It just means when I feel better again, I'm gonna have to bust my ass twice as hard to make up for it.

Ginnyyy
03-27-2017, 11:26 AM
Lol. Friday came my order but without the kitten toy. Was rescheduled on Monday to bring what they forgot. Stayed at home for nothing cause when I called they forgot to send it today too. Rescheduled for tomorrow. One more chance they have 'till I get mad.

LoveyDovey
03-27-2017, 12:05 PM
Why do some people, when you make it a point of ignoring them, feel the need to keep talking to you?? Are they trying to be annoying???

persianprincess
03-27-2017, 12:28 PM
Client has been hounding me for an appointment for 48 hrs prior to this incident .... last time I saw him it was prior to an nyc visit and he then sent me this message after "I am going to try again with my girl" ... ok whatever dude, you're a client. Well he popped back up begging to see me blah blah, can you come over now, ... nope can't doing more pressing shit than dealing with you basketcase-o. So agreed to go over yesterday, told him call me when you are ready for me to come by. I get a call, missed it, called right back ... some girl answers and is like "hey it's xxxxx's niece he is in the shower are you his girlfriend" ... I was like, no I'm not, can you ask him to call me back?.

Granted his nieces live in same building, so it's not unusual for another member of the family to pick up his phone, it's happened before.

Turns out it was the girlfriend ... he then goes POSTAL on me, cursing me out etc, blah blah. Meanwhile I've not even said a damn thing wrong, he was just sloppy with his phone ... so he puts us all on 3way and instead of just letting me talk spins some irrational story blah blah, I was like "look bottom line I am a friend of his and nope we def are not together in any capacity"

He then calls me back to curse me out further - dude you're sloppy and unstable. Told him to miss me with that drama.

Go mess with your girlfriend, your money is no good here with that much mayhem attached.

JessaJade
03-27-2017, 12:36 PM
^Oh FFS, what a stupid foolish little man

JenniferNorth
03-27-2017, 12:43 PM
Princess, omg, what a moron. I can understand in the 80s/90s, but in this day and age, that shit's on him. Sorry you had to deal with that.

Wendi-I hope you feel better.

The neighbor just knocked on our door while my husband is training for his WAH call center job. And the baby's asleep. His knocking always sets the dogs off. I am going to have to make "office hours" or something for the door. I can't have this. I can't rush between calming dogs down and trying to keep the house quiet. OMG I'm just frazzled and my anxiety.

I feel worn out after leaving the house to do laundry, get homepathic meds for my dog, buy dinner for tonight, and paying for daycare. Someone shoot me, please.

Aurora_Sunset
03-27-2017, 12:57 PM
Long story short, I missed my flight home last night, had to go back to the motel for another night and book a one way ticket for today... Almost $400 mistake... dammit

Aurora_Sunset
03-27-2017, 02:44 PM
When people in a busy airport are under the impression that their shit needs its own seat while they wait. Pro-tip: it doesn't. Put your crap on the floor by your feet.

Reminds of the day I had to stand while waiting for 20 minutes in the nail salon because these two oblivious bitches found it necessary for their purses to have chairs.

KaraLynn
03-27-2017, 05:01 PM
When people in a busy airport are under the impression that their shit needs its own seat while they wait. Pro-tip: it doesn't. Put your crap on the floor by your feet.

Reminds of the day I had to stand while waiting for 20 minutes in the nail salon because these two oblivious bitches found it necessary for their purses to have chairs.

I hate that too. It also happens when limited chair space in the dressing room. And imagine the fit these ladies would have if you kindly asked them to move their shit so you can sit down? Probably a big one lol

tempest666
03-28-2017, 11:15 AM
Looks like Mumbai escorts struck again after a long hiatues.

Aurora_Sunset
03-28-2017, 12:13 PM
Uggh... I'm in that state where I haven't eaten much in the last few days, so I'm super hungry and know I need to eat, but because I haven't been eating, my stomach can't handle that much at once without feeling sick.

rareaspasia
03-28-2017, 03:00 PM
Seventh day in a row at the day job and my house is a hot mess because I've been too tired to clean. Tomorrow night is the only day I'll be able to dance which means I won't get a day off until Saturday if I go to the club. I just want a maid and a nap.

lynn2009
03-28-2017, 03:15 PM
Monday morning, during orientation at my new job two states away from where I was living, I got an email for a phone interview ten fucking miles away from my apartment.

For the month of April I still have my old apartment and am using Airbnb in the new city so I haven't really moved yet...

I didn't get invited for an in person interview. I really shouldn't complain, because I have a good job in my graduate field which is what I wanted but God I'm heartbroken over this.

Selina M
03-28-2017, 06:21 PM
I never ever thought I would say this, but I am at the end of my rope with my partner.
I love him and want to marry him but his fears of intimacy and engulfment and anxiety problems are destroying our relationship, and I'm tired of trying to get him to see he's NOT some complex Bukowski-esque figure and that they're common and fixable.

I may make a real thread to vent so I don't hijack this one.