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Legz541
03-28-2017, 09:53 PM
Airports uuugggghhhhhh. I had a 9:20am flight this morning, the plane doesn't even arrive until 9:15am. Ok, no big deal prob just a 15 minute delay. Nnnnoooooooo, a TWO HOUR delay, AFTER we've boarded the plane. Apparently a small latch needed repaired and they couldn't decide how they wanted to fix it...yes that was the actual announcement they made. It gets better, both bathrooms are out of order. What the actual fuck?!? Sitting on a packed plane 2 hours to take a 2 hour flight is more than I could patiently handle on 3 hours of sleep.

miss.a.p1600
03-29-2017, 06:33 AM
Client has been hounding me for an appointment for 48 hrs prior to this incident .... last time I saw him it was prior to an nyc visit and he then sent me this message after "I am going to try again with my girl" ... ok whatever dude, you're a client. Well he popped back up begging to see me blah blah, can you come over now, ... nope can't doing more pressing shit than dealing with you basketcase-o. So agreed to go over yesterday, told him call me when you are ready for me to come by. I get a call, missed it, called right back ... some girl answers and is like "hey it's xxxxx's niece he is in the shower are you his girlfriend" ... I was like, no I'm not, can you ask him to call me back?.

Granted his nieces live in same building, so it's not unusual for another member of the family to pick up his phone, it's happened before.

Turns out it was the girlfriend ... he then goes POSTAL on me, cursing me out etc, blah blah. Meanwhile I've not even said a damn thing wrong, he was just sloppy with his phone ... so he puts us all on 3way and instead of just letting me talk spins some irrational story blah blah, I was like "look bottom line I am a friend of his and nope we def are not together in any capacity"

He then calls me back to curse me out further - dude you're sloppy and unstable. Told him to miss me with that drama.

Go mess with your girlfriend, your money is no good here with that much mayhem attached.

He does sound messy. I though that was the whole point of adult entertainment was so you don't have to deal with the issues of traditional relationships.

He needs a course like how to enjoy adult entertainment 101 - actually fuck that, he needs a remedial course.

persianprincess
03-29-2017, 07:19 AM
He does sound messy. I though that was the whole point of adult entertainment was so you don't have to deal with the issues of traditional relationships.

He needs a course like how to enjoy adult entertainment 101 - actually fuck that, he needs a remedial course.

Dude needs a lobotomy. You're sending dick pics to a pro and then knowingly leaving your phone around your girl ... clearly she has access to your phone, why set yourself up like then, then go into some tazmanian devil tailspin and act like I violated your privacy etc or did it on purpose. I'm kinda happy to be rid of him, everything happens for a reason.

rareaspasia
03-29-2017, 12:25 PM
Seventh day in a row at the day job and my house is a hot mess because I've been too tired to clean. Tomorrow night is the only day I'll be able to dance which means I won't get a day off until Saturday if I go to the club. I just want a maid and a nap.

I'm staying home from the club but now I'm waiting four hours for my car to get a shit ton of maintenance done. Then I get to go home and clean... so much to clean... ugh. Not much of a day off. But at least I'll go back to work with my car all repaired and reliable and my home nice and clean which will be nice to have out of the way. Clean house, clean mind, that's what I say.

WendiStarr
03-30-2017, 11:37 AM
My Nazi landlord. Yesterday she was outside on the phone bitching to someone about how people in the apartments are using too much hot water. She was talking about raising the rent prices again. Um, no. I used to pay $535 when I first moved in here($500 for rent and $35 for water), which was reasonable for a small, outdated one bedroom apartment with no a/c, no washer or dryer hookups in apartment, no maintenance on staff, and one cheap electric baseboard in the living room to serve as a heater. She has since raised the rent to $600. It's not like this is a higher end neighborhood. It's a suburb of frickin' Detroit! Now today there is no hot water. It turned ice cold when I was in the middle of taking a shower. I know that I paid my bill so it's not that. I believe she's rationing hot water, just like she does with our heat in the winter. Nazi lady is neither answering her phone nor is she home(her jeep isn't in her designated parking spot). I'm finally starting to feel better and now this.

seashell
03-30-2017, 12:21 PM
My boyfriend is at risk of being fired from his job. There's an accusation about him and a coworker smoking weed at work (I don't believe it, he's not that stupid). He's been wanting to quit for a while, but if he's fired, he might not be able to find another decent-paying job soon enough to cover his bills, and he's a high-anxiety person. I really hope this blows over quickly.

miss.a.p1600
03-30-2017, 03:36 PM
My family members are annoying me. Just because you are a family member does not mean I have some obligation to you. The only mandatory familial relationship is parent and under 18 child. After that everything should be optional.

No I don't want to hang out with you every weekend or talk to you everyday. Crabs in a barrel syndrome is what I feel. Anytime I try to escape the barrel here they come with their guilt trips - why are you ignoring me, what haven't we seen you, etc.......I want to move to a remote island with no wifi or phone connections lol THEN I will be free from their clutches, their agendas, their baggage - none of which I care to deal with.

lynn2009
03-30-2017, 05:22 PM
I didn't get invited for an in person interview. I really shouldn't complain, because I have a good job in my graduate field which is what I wanted but God I'm heartbroken over this.

They took down the job ad I applied for and replaced it with the same title but level 2 instead of level 1. So an experienced person instead of entry level.

carmen_b
03-31-2017, 10:25 AM
UGH .... learn from me everyone and TAKE CARE OF THE PICTURES from your professional shoots !

I'm sitting here trying to find new pictures for a project and I can't even find the full photo sets of my last two shoots. I *hope* they are on my old computer !

I do not know why I did this. I pulled my favorite 4-5 from each shoot to post and I could easily refresh all my marketing IF I just had them on my computer NOW.

Do Not Do This.

LoveyDovey
03-31-2017, 01:22 PM
Why do some people, when you make it a point of ignoring them, feel the need to keep talking to you?? Are they trying to be annoying???

Dear fucking idiot girl at work,

Why do you keep trying to talk to me even though I've been consistently been blowing you off? When someone ignores you, leave them alone. It means they don't like you and don't want to deal with you. I don't trust you. Customers come to me and complain about you...how you stick your tongue in their ears and tell them how you give an amazing blow job, skeeving these upscale gentlemen out. Then you hustle my regular even after he told you he was waiting for me, which is his nice way of saying buzz off. Then, in front of another one of my regulars, you ask me if I'm "ok". Really? You're going to do that right in front of my customer? On the floor? What are you trying to accomplish?

You are annoying, not trustworthy, hungry, and you do things to put the business at risk. So yeah, I'm not acknowledging you. So please f- off.

Aurora_Sunset
03-31-2017, 04:09 PM
I was chatting with this friend and I told him how I was going to start a new diet and workout regimen next week for the next 30 days to get back into shape and healthier habits. He did the whole "you're fine, you're not out of shape" thing. Then actually said "sorry if it's inappropriate to be commenting on your body - you're the only one who matters when it comes to how anyone thinks about your body." I said that I appreciated him telling me I was fine, but I wanted to be more than fine - I wanted to really feel good about myself. Not just in the way I look - though that's part of it - but just in general feel good about what I put into my body and how I treat it and how it's going to age compared to my habits now.

Then he goes off on this tangent about how when I was a dancer, my body was perfect because it was a little squishy. Then when I started running more, I got a little too "muscular" for his type, but when I drank I had a bit of a beer gut.... When he had hugged me recently, I was firm but not too muscly so I was perfect.

Oh but of course, I'm just sexiest when I'm happy because happiness is sexy.

Woooow.... exsqueeze me? Who the fuck asked for your run-down? Whatever happened to "it's inappropriate to comment on your body?" He then asked me what I thought - which was better "on women"? - Curves, muscle tone, or happiness? I said I am happiest when I'm strong enough to do the things I want to do. My new workout regime is going to be focusing primarily on muscle growth because I need strength to do my job. Right now I can't do what I want fully - and that's what's important to me.

Who gives a flying fuck what anyone's opinion is on "which looks better on a woman's body?" As though that's the only thing I'd take into consideration when deciding how to treat and mold MY fucking body.

Fucking shit... men are annoying.

Aurora_Sunset
03-31-2017, 04:28 PM
^^Oh, also, I told him the other day that my bf and I were fighting about my job this week, and knowing what I do, he asked if I wanted to keep doing sex work or I wanted a new job. I said I wanted and was going to continue doing sex work regardless. He acted all supportive and understanding of that in our initial conversation. He threw out some suggestions of places hiring nearby and I said thanks, but I really do think I'm not gonna get a random job just for the hell of it or to please my boyfriend - I'm going to keep doing sex work. Because I want to. Ok.

Now he keeps throwing out these suggestions for random-ass jobs near him, telling me "what's hiring." Then asked how much my summer internship is paying. I was like lol, nothing? Dude, paid internships barely exist anymore, and this is a small nonprofit organization. I hate the condescension of people trying to "find me a different job" when I've explicitly told them I want to continue sex work right now...

seashell
03-31-2017, 04:45 PM
^Ugh, boys can be so effing stupid. Like this isn't a beauty pageant, women are people, fuck off with your ratings and opinions. And it pisses me off when guys say that girls shouldn't have too much muscle. Male insecurity.

Aurora_Sunset
03-31-2017, 05:28 PM
Why are people always so hung up on their past shit? Why can't people let go of the past and stop making stupid and shitty decisions based off of it or living there in denial? Ugh... why am I everyone's emotional babysitter?

Ok, I'm done for now.

22lligm
04-01-2017, 08:50 AM
So the guy I refer to as 'the douche' texted me the other night at peak fuckboy hours (2am). I think he did because he watched my snapchat and saw I was out partying (& looked hot lol). I was drunk so I was so close to hanging out with him. I told him to pick me up and he said his car was totaled & then I just stopped responding lol. I'm so glad I didn't hangout with him and so pissed at myself for almost giving in so damn easily!

miss.a.p1600
04-01-2017, 10:39 AM
I hate humans. Well the annoying ones. I wish I could instantly clone myself, a robot version of myself, to deal with bad assed kids, cunty women, and asswad men. Which would be on pretty much 11 hours out of a 12 hour day.

WendiStarr
04-01-2017, 11:00 AM
People who don't seem to grasp the concept of "Time is money". This seems the most difficult for vanilla folk. They don't seem to understand that while we may not work on a strict 9-5 schedule 5 days a week like them, our time is still of the essence. If I put aside time in my day for someone, the least they could do is have some decency and let me know if they're not going to show. My boyfriend is the worst for that lately as is a relative. Like damn, I turned my phone lines off for you and turned down a cam show because I thought you were coming over and I didn't want to be rude, working while you were here. That time wasted waiting for you, I could've been making $. I guess from now on my daughter is the only person who deserves my full attention like that.

Selina M
04-01-2017, 11:55 AM
On top of other shit, I have a UTI again. It's like every 2 months. I need to see a specialist. But thank God for those Azo pills, they have some now with pain relief and those things *work*.

LoveyDovey
04-01-2017, 05:06 PM
On top of other shit, I have a UTI again. It's like every 2 months. I need to see a specialist. But thank God for those Azo pills, they have some now with pain relief and those things *work*.

I learned on here that D-mannose helps too. Hate UTIs. Hope you are feeling better.

whirlerz
04-01-2017, 07:44 PM
Sooo, last night there were these 2 kinda loud girls staying down the hall from me..kinda annoying but I didn't say anything.
Today they checked out, I open my door, & they put like literally 8 FUCKING BAGS of GARBAGE next to my door???
I called the front desk, of course weekends are busy AF around here.
Ended up getting a hefty bag from my room,(luckily I had it) & throwing all the shit in there, & dragging it down to housekeeping.
The houskeeper was appalled, as was I of course.
1 night they stayed, & they put it by me? They knew I was in the room too, I keep my do not disturb sign out, + plus they saw me go in & out.
FUCKING.PIGS.

Legz541
04-02-2017, 02:15 PM
The hotel I booked for 4 nights, the rooms have exterior doors. When I'm travelling alone I prefer to go through a lobby to get to my room. I just feel less vulnerable that way. I couldn't tell online it was like this, even with the pics. And of course I'm on the back side of the building. Aaaannnndddd they cant move me because they're sold out. It's not in a terrible area of the city but still.

Glamourmilf
04-02-2017, 07:57 PM
The hotel I booked for 4 nights, the rooms have exterior doors. When I'm travelling alone I prefer to go through a lobby to get to my room. I just feel less vulnerable that way. I couldn't tell online it was like this, even with the pics. And of course I'm on the back side of the building. Aaaannnndddd they cant move me because they're sold out. It's not in a terrible area of the city but still.

Can you book somewhere else? Or at an Airbnb?
If You explain why to the hotel manager, you most likely can get a refund.
I use to be on the road most weeks of every month, and have dealt with this a few times.

JenniferNorth
04-02-2017, 09:44 PM
So my BIL and his GF broke up MONTHS ago and I guess he has a new "GF" although his Facebook shows him as still single...today I saw that he and his Ex-GF were like "Oh I still love you and I miss you!" to one another. Whyyyy? I don't get that. Maybe because once my ex did me a favor and got out of my life, I saw how happy I could be. But I don't understand on again off again shit. Either be a couple, or block each other and move on with your lives. Giving how she left him because he cheated, went back, and left again because she wasn't happy, I don't know why you wouldn't just move the F on.

Legz541
04-03-2017, 03:18 AM
Can you book somewhere else? Or at an Airbnb?
If You explain why to the hotel manager, you most likely can get a refund.
I use to be on the road most weeks of every month, and have dealt with this a few times.
I booked it through Priceline and they wont refund:( After my days are up here I'm moving to an awesome airbnb that I've stayed in before. That's pretty much the light at the end of the tunnel lol.

Glamourmilf
04-03-2017, 04:28 AM
I booked it through Priceline and they wont refund:( After my days are up here I'm moving to an awesome airbnb that I've stayed in before. That's pretty much the light at the end of the tunnel lol.

Glad you'll be going to an Airbnb.
That sucks about Priceline. Never used them, and now I'd surely never would.
Although knowing me, I would still try to fight to get my money back. But only if there weren't photos of the hotel on their website.

Legz541
04-04-2017, 04:31 AM
Annoyed because I have to readjust all the ingredients in a recipe that's for 5lbs of seafood for 1.5lbs of seafood and I'm so bad at math that I literally can't do it. Waiting for my ex who is a math whiz to do it for me and text it back lol.
I always google it when I need to do something like that. I don't want to have to think that hard lol.

miss.a.p1600
04-04-2017, 06:05 AM
Pissed cause I'm fresh out of weed and don't feel like traveling to a dealer - wish I had weed delivery or I could go to a dispensary.

Guess it's a good thing cause the rental I'm in is having inspection Today and last thing i want is them knowing my extra curricular activities

22lligm
04-04-2017, 08:16 AM
Pissed cause I'm fresh out of weed and don't feel like traveling to a dealer - wish I had weed delivery or I could go to a dispensary.

Guess it's a good thing cause the rental I'm in is having inspection Today and last thing i want is them knowing my extra curricular activities

I have a guy that delivers to me which is pretty bomb cause I hate driving all the way to him. The only problem is I'm pretty sure he wants to sleep with me so when he delivers it he hangs around a little too long. Like sits on the couch with me, smokes a little, talks... I'm like ok thanks you can leave now. Lol

WendiStarr
04-04-2017, 11:06 AM
I was working for a platonic cuddling agency called "Cuddle Time" for a year and a half. That is, until the owner Richard repeatedly started scheduled me with the same no show client. That pissed me off. He had the nerve to get mad at me for refusing to see the no show client after 4 no shows in a row. Then he said that a client had pre-paid online. I hated the pre-paid online option because that meant trusting him, a complete stranger in a different state, with my money. The client had given me a small cash tip but still, I had to rely on Richard to send me my portion. He didn't answer his phone for 5 days and it took him another 2 days to finally send me my half of the money. I had another prepaid client and never received my money from this douche and he tried to send me another prepaid client. Needless to say I quit working for him and the website for Cuddle Time is now gone. https://amp.businessinsider.com/cuddling-startups-dark-side-2016-7 I was going to try TouchFeet but it appears that he is running that, too or some slimy pond scum similar to him is. After I applied, the guy going by the name of "Jeff" said that I'd be working on a "trial" basis, that the clients would prepay online for my first 5 sessions, and that I would be paid by check 2 weeks after completing the sessions. Fuck that!

LoveyDovey
04-04-2017, 11:55 AM
Damn Jehovah's witness banging on my door, interrupting my nap...

Selina M
04-04-2017, 12:48 PM
Have plans to hang with friend... 15 mins before, she announced she had another friend with her.
Argh. Introvert here. Strangers sprung on me stress me the eff out.

"She's really nice!"
That's not the problem -_-

JenniferNorth
04-04-2017, 04:07 PM
I took a nap, woke up when my daughter got up, and now I feel worse than I did pre-nap.

ScarletKitten
04-04-2017, 04:43 PM
Damn Jehovah's witness banging on my door, interrupting my nap...

Arrgghhh....that would piss me off so much. I would open the door and be like, "Oh, you just interrupted my satanic ritual. Now the demons are pissed. May I help you?" :devil: :biting:

Heh, not really. I would have just yelled, "Fuck off!!!!" through the door without answering it. Ugh, I despise people peddling their stupid religion door to door. Mind your own damn business, fucking nutjobs. Like George Carlin says, "Keep your religion to yourself."

chanzep
04-04-2017, 04:45 PM
Ugh I just need a good club to waitress at!.

miss.a.p1600
04-04-2017, 07:25 PM
Arrgghhh....that would piss me off so much. I would open the door and be like, "Oh, you just interrupted my satanic ritual. Now the demons are pissed. May I help you?" :devil: :biting:

Heh, not really. I would have just yelled, "Fuck off!!!!" through the door without answering it. Ugh, I despise people peddling their stupid religion door to door. Mind your own damn business, fucking nutjobs. Like George Carlin says, "Keep your religion to yourself."

So true! Like Keep it to yourself of the people who agree with you. Quit acting like cold calling snake oil salesman pimping out your religion who have no interest. If I didn't ask you to join that automatically means I'm not interested.

I got ambushed by a religious couple in Walmart. I like shopping Walmart but I hate the weird people that shop there too. Anyways I tell the broad I'm not Christian I practice another religion/spirituality. I thought she'd leave me alone but she's like that's okay and gives this spill about how there is one god yada yada yada.

It's annoying as fuck because I guarantee had the roles been reversed and i came up to her trying to convert her she would have refused.

Her religious pamphlet went straight in the recycling bin. Told her off top that's not what I practice/believe and her religious superiority caused her to go temporarily deaf.

Then another time as I'm talking to this guy sitting next to me on the plane I tell him about these bible thumpers who followed me to my place of residence to convince me to go to a bible study with them. The guy was like well at least they care about you to want to try to "help you out".

I'm like no if they want to "help me" they would respect that I have my own beliefs, they would respect that not everyone should or will believe in their religion, and that I'm not changing for some random stranger.

I find that certain religions have this superiority complex and if you don't believe what they believe then something is wrong with you and you're the devil going to hell.

LoveyDovey
04-04-2017, 09:57 PM
Arrgghhh....that would piss me off so much. I would open the door and be like, "Oh, you just interrupted my satanic ritual. Now the demons are pissed. May I help you?" :devil: :biting:

Heh, not really. I would have just yelled, "Fuck off!!!!" through the door without answering it. Ugh, I despise people peddling their stupid religion door to door. Mind your own damn business, fucking nutjobs. Like George Carlin says, "Keep your religion to yourself."

I just didn't answer. I can't stand religion peddling either. So annoying!

lynn2009
04-05-2017, 08:09 AM
......

Legz541
04-05-2017, 11:51 AM
Well after 7 shifts in a row my knee decided to say "fuck this shit." I hate taking days off during a strip trip but I pretty much have to. UGH!

carmen_b
04-05-2017, 11:59 AM
Ugh. I am in a phase of hating our place. ;/
Its so crash pad looking ( no pictures on the walls, no storage built UP to make use of the small space ). I am hating it so much that I feel overwhelmed but I'm trying to tackle it one thing at a time. Tomorrow we will get the King Size Bed instead of the Queen that has irked me for 9 months since we got it.
In 3-5 days, I'll pick one more thing ( tall bookshelf or other vertical storage option ) to try not to get overwhelmed.

Aurora_Sunset
04-05-2017, 12:37 PM
Ugh. I am in a phase of hating our place. ;/
We quickly moved in and it still looks like someone moved in a month ago ( no pictures on the walls, no storage built UP to make use of the small space ). I am hating it so much that I feel overwhelmed but I'm trying to tackle it one thing at a time. Tomorrow we will get the King Size Bed instead of the Queen that is here.
In 3-5 days, I'll pick one more thing ( tall bookshelf or other vertical storage option ) to try not toe get overwhelmed.

Ugh, I get that feeling. When I moved into my place, I didn't have any real real furniture and it took months to get everything I needed and actually unpack all the boxes. Every day that went by, I got more and more upset that my place and life wasn't just out of boxes and organized. Even though they weren't even in the way, the second I walked into the room, I got angry and demotivated by everything that wasn't in it's rightful place because it didn't have a rightful place. It sucked.

seashell
04-05-2017, 12:45 PM
Not really pissy about this, but conflicted. Boyfriend keeps talking in detail about traveling to teach English abroad, and I'm like "Yes, of course! I'm in!" He wants to go to Korea, back to the school he used to teach at. But I'm not getting my hopes up, because he backed out on plans to go to Japan earlier this year. And Korea is very difficult to get a work visa in... there's a lot more red tape than most countries, plus my boyfriend would have to go off antidepressants, since employers do drug tests and Zoloft can show up as a false positive for other drugs.

I told him to decide for himself, I won't bring it up anymore. But if he decides to stay in the US, the reality is I'm probably going to go abroad by myself again.

carmen_b
04-05-2017, 01:12 PM
^ If it's important to you , talk to him about setting a date for your applications / goal date to move and see what he does.
I send you good vibes and energy that he will be proactive and MAKE it happen !

carmen_b
04-05-2017, 01:16 PM
^ This issue is my largest conflict in my life right now and I've come up with a " middle ground " for now of a rough plan of solo travel 4-6 weeks in June / July. I'll invite him but I'm not going to push - it takes the fun out of it. I'm so grateful he was willing to go in Dec./Jan. and I have to respect his choice if he doesn't want more travel soon ( ugh, so Hard !).

It sounds like Japan would be easy for you both . What are his aversions to that idea?

carmen_b
04-05-2017, 01:49 PM
POUT ..... I am in desperate need of a good massage and called the shop I've had two great ones at last month. I tried to book 24-28 hours ahead ( messaged them yesterday ) but it didn't work. I was trying to book the exact length of time I WISH my customers would reach out to me but didn't have success. ;(

seashell
04-05-2017, 01:58 PM
^ This issue is my largest conflict in my life right now and I've come up with a " middle ground " for now of a rough plan of solo travel 4-6 weeks in June / July. I'll invite him but I'm not going to push - it takes the fun out of it. I'm so grateful he was willing to go in Dec./Jan. and I have to respect his choice if he doesn't want more travel soon ( ugh, so Hard !).

It sounds like Japan would be easy for you both . What are his aversions to that idea?
Thanks for the advice! I'm just so nervous about pressuring him at all. It's hard to try and coordinate this stuff when your partner is reluctant. Things were so much easier as a single person, lol

He initially didn't want to go to Japan because he decided he wanted to stay at his job in the US... but his past couple months there have turned him off to it, so now he's considering traveling again. He's kind of an anxious person (like me), and I think he just wants to go back to Korea because it's a familiar place.

I think it's awesome that you're doing some solo travel. Gotta do what makes you happy!

Aurora_Sunset
04-06-2017, 05:11 AM
My cat is such an entitled asshole. I just started keeping a glass of water on my nightstand at night to get in the habit of drinking a glass right upon waking up. He quickly discovered it and, of course, thinks he needs to drink out of my glass. He not only goes to it multiple times in the middle of the night, waking me up with his loud slurping and hitting me in the face with his tail, but he's always done this weird "pawing the ground" thing every time before he drinks water - like a bull getting ready to charge. It's so bizarre. But when he does it on my nightstand, he knocks all my shit to the floor, including my glasses.

Then in the morning, after I've drank it, he keeps going back in there, and crying and whining because the glass is empty. Asshole, you have water! They have two bowls of fresh water every morning. Bah!

absolutelyadorable
04-06-2017, 10:18 AM
Idk if it's because it's shark week and I'm feeling extra annoyed but my texting gig is just irking my last friggin nerve today. As in anything, of course, you're going to get the asswipes who try to use the "let's get to know each other better" line to get you off the site to basically waste your time for free but this one today just takes the damn cake:47842

LoveyDovey
04-06-2017, 01:05 PM
Dear jealous bitch at work,

Karma is a bigger bitch than you are.

Namaste!

Love,

LoveyDovey

Aurora_Sunset
04-06-2017, 03:10 PM
Annnd I hate my hair. I don't know why I keep trusting hair stylists with anything more complicated than a trim. I even brought a picture of specifically what I wanted. I wanted the base darker than even my natural color and a few blonde streaks. She went SUPER heavy on the highlights. I've literally had less highlights when I was in the beginning stages of going totally blonde. They're overwhelming. I wanted the darker look with a few blonde accents - not the entire top layer of my head blonde...

I could try to go elsewhere to get it touched up tomorrow, but that throws off my entire schedule of shit I needed to get done before the weekend. Ugh

Aurora_Sunset
04-06-2017, 03:13 PM
Also, because of my hair, and hunger, I do not have the patience to deal with the client I had scheduled tonight. I texted him and it's been 20 minutes and he hasn't responded. That fuckhead better look at his phone and not just show up here in 45 minutes. I won't answer the door. I'm not playing this goddam game with him tonight.