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BarbieNYC
04-29-2017, 07:13 PM
^^honestly some djs are just awful no matter what

At one of my clubs, the dj plays a ridiculous amount of mexican/banda music at the end when guys want to get dances. Last night the lap dance section was filled with girls just waiting for him to play a decent song to dance to. The guy I was with had so much money, but we only got 2 songs in because the music was so ridiculous. The girls were pretty pissed too. But he's been there forever, so he aint getting fired anytime soon

whirlerz
04-29-2017, 08:32 PM
Buy a whistle, and blow it into the phone. They'll get the message.

Thanks, actually I thought of this too, I remember accidently calling fax machine #'s, & hearing that awful noise, that'd be way worse & great!


Well I had a gamer lappie on wish list @ new egg, & now it's fucking sold out, it 'may or may not come bk in stock'::)
I sure af didn't want to buy it during a fucking retrograde, I just now put a couple more on my wish list, so we'll see.

BarbieNYC
04-30-2017, 03:53 AM
Just had the airbnb experience from hell. I have never had such a bad experience at a hostel on airbnb and it was through no fault of the owner or manager, the people staying there were just shitty.

I stood outside for 30minutes because I couldn't get in despite putting in the door code properly. Turns out someone had deadbolted the door from the inside so I wasnt getting in no matter what. Meanwhile these two stoners are on the couch directly in front of me and the glass door, and despite my knocking and yelling, they were too smacked to open the door for me.

After someone else lets me in, I proceed to curse out said stoners. One falls asleep and the other one looks at me with this doofy look on his face the entire time.

Then the guy who let me in proceeds to hit on me while I'm frantically gathering my shit to leave. I cant find my plush towel, which I brought from home. The manager finally responds to my text and helps me look for it. Some bitch had used it as a cushion for her laptop. Meanwhile I'm thinking the guy who has been in the shower for the past 30 minutes masturbating has it, but he refuses to open the door.

The manager is a sweetheart and watches my stuff outside while I run the few blocks to get my car at 3am. Then he loads my stuff into the car and apologizes. Poor guy none of this was his fault.

It's slightly comical looking back at it, but I was seeing red at the time. This was the icing on the cake on top of a bad night at work.

Mercury retrograde I tell you

lynn2009
04-30-2017, 06:30 AM
........

WendiStarr
04-30-2017, 10:40 AM
I feel like I hate my bf right now. Yesterday I went to gun range with him. It was my 1st time going. He said ear plugs would be enough. I went deaf in my right ear since then. I plan on going to a doctor tomorrow about it. Today we were driving and I told him I need to go #2. When someone with IBS says they need to go, they need to go asap, not keep driving 30 miles in the middle of nowhere because you "want to take the scenic route". He didnt even care. I told him he's buying me a new pair of pants and panties if he's not gonna stop. Fucking asshole. No idea how humiliating. I'm sick of men.

Aurora_Sunset
04-30-2017, 11:59 AM
omg, I can't believe how unmotivated I am to finish my final. It's not even going to be that difficult because this teacher likes to impose short word maximums rather than have us ramble on, so it's just 4 short questions.... But after this class, this will be the first time in a year that I haven't had any sort of schoolwork because I'm not doing summer classes (thought I'd just focus on my internship). I've spent the last 3 days doing absolutely nothing except work out and watch movies, and I STILL feel like I just "need a day off before I can tackle it." lol It feels like senioritis all over again.

lilylilylily
04-30-2017, 12:01 PM
I am pissed and heartbroken over this guy who completely fucked me over. He led me on and lied to me, and I just need to get the fuck over him. I hate that I just want to move on and forget him, but he's always in my head. Like, get the fuck out of my head! I don't want to think about this asshole anymore.

Omg I'm sorry to hear that! I know it's hard because I'm going through the same thing, I'm going nuts constantly thinking about him

JenniferNorth
04-30-2017, 04:02 PM
My crackhead neighbor and her daughter are fighting over who gets to keep the daughter's son and, and it sounds like two prehistoric birds dying.

I'm done with a crappy adult company I was working with. I don't need the owner's attitude, and I don't need to earn less than $200 for 4 hours of talk time. lol, NO.

It' cold and raining, and I had to turn the heater on today. Ugh, it's almost May!

miss.a.p1600
04-30-2017, 05:33 PM
Pissed cause I can't figure out how to create a blog on stripper web. Do only certain members have access to blog feature here?

JenniferNorth
04-30-2017, 05:49 PM
Omg I was wondering that also!! I had wanted to months ago and could not, I'm glad I'm not the only one!

DonaDiabla
04-30-2017, 06:09 PM
What is up with all of these new sugar baby sites? Everyone knows in the sugar bowl that you will have to freestyle in order to get the best sugar daddies. Sure, you might meet some POT on sites but it's not as good as freestyling. However, it is like everyone and their mama is going for that sugar baby niche now. However, I have notice that most of the people developing these new sites have never been in the sugar bowl, been sugar daddies themselves, nor sugared themselves. Just saying....have these people ever had arrangements before? They are just creating sites to make it harder for online sugar daddy searches.

ScarletKitten
04-30-2017, 09:28 PM
Ok, I gotta vent. I just told my mom about the guy I've been seeing, and now I wish I didn't. I should have just kept my mouth fucking SHUT. She always asks the same goddamn annoying ass questions about guys I'm dating, and I'm truly sick of it now. Asking about what his religion is, if he is anti-Christian (she asks that same fucking question every single fucking time I'm dating someone new) and if we use condoms- REALLY Mom?!?! Fucking really?? UGH!!! I don't even like talking to her anymore, I know that sounds awful and I feel guilty saying that, but it's fucking true. Just UGH!! I can't deal with anyone asking me very personal questions like that. Feels like they are crossing boundaries and it enrages me.

And furthermore, since I want to avoid conflict at all costs, I didn't tell her how uncomfortable and irritated she was making me feel. So I bottle it all up, which makes me feel even worse. I'm just not going to talk to her about him anymore. I'm done.

Aurora_Sunset
05-01-2017, 05:56 AM
I've slept like absolute shit the last 2 nights. The first night I just assumed it was because I was at my boyfriend's place where I always have trouble regulating my sleeping temperature, but last night, I went to bed early, woke up at 3am and could not fall back asleep. I tossed and turned for 3 hours until my alarm went off at 6, which I promptly turned off. I spent a total of 9 and 1/2 hours in bed, and still feel like crap. Even crappier that I didn't get up as early as I wanted to get things done. On top of that, I flailed around in so many weird positions trying to fall back asleep that now my back is killing me.

I always tell myself that if I wake up at some random hour and can't get back to sleep that I'll just get up and start doing stuff. As long as I don't have anywhere specific to be in the morning, it shouldn't matter if I just get up and watch TV or go for a walk or read or whatever... and then when I'm tired, I'll go back to sleep. But in the moment, I'm so frustrated by my inability to get to sleep, or attached to my grand plans of getting up to work out at a certain time that I can't just let it go and end up lying in bed pissed off instead of taking advantage of that time.

I should set my phone background to a screen that says "Just get up and do something" so that when I check it in the middle of insomnia, I'm reminded that that's the plan.

miss.a.p1600
05-01-2017, 06:43 AM
Lol!!! Parents have that way of just making you want to cringe trying to talk about safe sex and whatnot.

When I was about 18 or 19 my mom had the audacity to sneak some condoms in my belongings. I'm like wtf?!? Bish I don't want condoms that came from the stash you use with your dude. This is just gross on every level. Plus this is the type of condom for small dick men.

Still gives me the shivers thinking about that.

And I feel ya. I'm probably not telling anyone except ladies of stripper web if I start dating again. Fuckers won't know shit till I'm engaged and it's official. Otherwise the dudes will stay in the background until they prove themselves worthy and relevant.


Ok, I gotta vent. I just told my mom about the guy I've been seeing, and now I wish I didn't. I should have just kept my mouth fucking SHUT. She always asks the same goddamn annoying ass questions about guys I'm dating, and I'm truly sick of it now. Asking about what his religion is, if he is anti-Christian (she asks that same fucking question every single fucking time I'm dating someone new) and if we use condoms- REALLY Mom?!?! Fucking really?? UGH!!! I don't even like talking to her anymore, I know that sounds awful and I feel guilty saying that, but it's fucking true. Just UGH!! I can't deal with anyone asking me very personal questions like that. Feels like they are crossing boundaries and it enrages me.

And furthermore, since I want to avoid conflict at all costs, I didn't tell her how uncomfortable and irritated she was making me feel. So I bottle it all up, which makes me feel even worse. I'm just not going to talk to her about him anymore. I'm done.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-01-2017, 08:28 AM
What is up with all of these new sugar baby sites? Everyone knows in the sugar bowl that you will have to freestyle in order to get the best sugar daddies. Sure, you might meet some POT on sites but it's not as good as freestyling. However, it is like everyone and their mama is going for that sugar baby niche now. However, I have notice that most of the people developing these new sites have never been in the sugar bowl, been sugar daddies themselves, nor sugared themselves. Just saying....have these people ever had arrangements before? They are just creating sites to make it harder for online sugar daddy searches.

Have you done a search on tumblr for sugar bowl or sugar babies? It's like a breeding ground for sugar babies.

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-01-2017, 09:39 AM
Either really dumb guy or a cop. A guy responded to my sugar daddy profile that he wanted me to dress in black fishnets, a black mini skirt, white halter top, and "stripper shoes" and meet him at a busy street dressed like that at 1pm. He claimed that he didn't want to do anything other than see me dressed like that from his car and then have me walk over to his car so that he could give me $50 and then he'd leave. Dressing like a stereotypical Hollywood movie streetwalker would draw enough unwanted attention where I live. Nobody dresses like that outside of a strip club, especially not at this time of day. Walking up to some random guy in a car would look suspicious to any onlookers or bystanders. Receiving money while dressed like that would be even worse. Immediate block. I didn't bother to give him a response.

There are so so many clowns on those sites who put forward stuff like this. I don't even want to think of what he was planning.

My annoyance- menstrual tired today but have to work late. Blahhhh

ScarletKitten
05-01-2017, 03:33 PM
Lol!!! Parents have that way of just making you want to cringe trying to talk about safe sex and whatnot.

When I was about 18 or 19 my mom had the audacity to sneak some condoms in my belongings. I'm like wtf?!? Bish I don't want condoms that came from the stash you use with your dude. This is just gross on every level. Plus this is the type of condom for small dick men.

Still gives me the shivers thinking about that.

And I feel ya. I'm probably not telling anyone except ladies of stripper web if I start dating again. Fuckers won't know shit till I'm engaged and it's official. Otherwise the dudes will stay in the background until they prove themselves worthy and relevant.

Seriously, I regret telling her anything about him now. The thought makes me sick. Like something is tainted now. I'm ignoring her for now. I really need to tell her that she crossed the line though. I can't bottle this shit up.

DonaDiabla
05-01-2017, 04:13 PM
Oh yeah, I searched on tumblr and I follow a few angel babies on there :)


Have you done a search on tumblr for sugar bowl or sugar babies? It's like a breeding ground for sugar babies.

KaraLynn
05-01-2017, 05:44 PM
Hypocrites annoy and piss me off

JenniferNorth
05-01-2017, 09:01 PM
So I'm on my period, and I ask my hubby if I remain this bloated even at the end of my period normally...he launches into this spiel about how we aren't as active as we used to be. Uh, no, I have been running and working out daily, and doing strength training. How am I not fit? "oh, well you workout, and then come home and work" (both vanilla jobs involve me sitting on my ass working at home). Wait, what? Yes, I sit on my ass and write and grade papers, but I feel like between workouts and housework, I am doing more than most people? Basically I got pissed off, because I asked about weight as related to my period and nothing more and he's trying to tell me if I look out of shape, it's because I'm not active enough.

Aurora_Sunset
05-02-2017, 05:56 AM
I'm so sick of these stupid fucking sugaring websites stealing my escort profile and posting it all over their shit. Then I get stupid-ass emails from guys who found me there...

And of course, since I'M not the one who actually put anything up, I don't have access to it. I couldn't even go in and change anything or remove it if I wanted to.

This especially pisses me off on a site called Tempted. It used to be an escorting site called NaughtyReviews which is where I started. Then it turned into this shitty sugar website, but my profile is still up. I get email notifications allll the time that someone "liked me on Tempted." Yet, even when I log into the site, IT WON'T LET ME CHANGE ANYTHING OR DELETE IT. Such. Fucking. Bullshit.

WendiStarr
05-02-2017, 10:57 AM
It turns out that my hearing loss in my right ear after the gun range this past weekend is the result of eustachian tube dysfunction. There's not jack shit the doctor can do about it. "Use an otc nasal spray. It should go away in 3-4 weeks" blah blah blah. I want this problem gone asap. It feels so strange, like I can't even walk without feeling like I'm on a boat. On the plus side I went from not being able to hear at all from that ear to being able to hear a little bit.

JenniferNorth
05-02-2017, 11:31 AM
I just want to scream right now. Just frustrated and annoyed by my mom. She knew I was working and had to take up my 15 minute break with an argument. Like noooo, please not on my lousy 15 minute! Ugh. I feel like I need to have more coffee or something so I can power through? My mind needs to be numb to deal with this day and to deal with all these upsetting feels I have right now.

LoveyDovey
05-02-2017, 11:35 AM
I'm so sick of these stupid fucking sugaring websites stealing my escort profile and posting it all over their shit. Then I get stupid-ass emails from guys who found me there...

And of course, since I'M not the one who actually put anything up, I don't have access to it. I couldn't even go in and change anything or remove it if I wanted to.

This especially pisses me off on a site called Tempted. It used to be an escorting site called NaughtyReviews which is where I started. Then it turned into this shitty sugar website, but my profile is still up. I get email notifications allll the time that someone "liked me on Tempted." Yet, even when I log into the site, IT WON'T LET ME CHANGE ANYTHING OR DELETE IT. Such. Fucking. Bullshit.

Is that even legal???

My vent...

It never fails. Every beginning of the month, my landlord shows up at my place, hovering around, pretending that he has some important reason to be there, when all he wants is the fucking rent. It's like he is hoping I'll fly out my front door and hand him a check or something. I've lived at my place for 11 years and I have through the 5th to hand it in. I know damn well that rent is due and I am never late with it.

Next time he does this, I'm tempted to fling open my front door and, with my rent all in 1s, make it rain on him and say "IS THIS WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR???" Then slam the door shut. Jeez, just go away, fucking helicopter landlord!!!

JenniferNorth
05-02-2017, 12:23 PM
^ Omg, Youtube it if you do please!! I have had LL's like that....it is SO damn annoying. I'm sorry, do you need that cash sooner because you have a coke habit to support? You are a saint for dealing with him for 11 years.

ETA: He most likely IS hoping you will show up with a check in hand, running over to him.

seashell
05-02-2017, 02:33 PM
I canceled lunch with my mom today because I saw her last week, and she was an emotional mess. I just can't. My bf is also being moody lately, and I only have so much empathy to go around.

Plus it's hard to keep lying to her about my life. I can't keep all my lies straight... I think I told her I'm substitute teaching and doing Uber, but my car hasn't been washed in ages, and it's a mess inside, so that's obviously not true. lol. She has no idea that I'm stripping, or that I'm going through an emotional time right now. It's easier to just avoid her.

Aurora_Sunset
05-02-2017, 04:08 PM
Is that even legal???



The thing is, probably not, but of course.... who am I going to report it too? File a report that a sugar daddy website took and posted my illegal escort ads on their site without permission? And they know it too. Which is even more frustrating.

baer45
05-02-2017, 04:11 PM
The thing is, probably not, but of course.... who am I going to report it too? File a report that a sugar daddy website took and posted my illegal escort ads on their site without permission? And they know it too. Which is even more frustrating.

can you create an account and reroute all the attention to your actual escort website?

Aurora_Sunset
05-02-2017, 04:29 PM
can you create an account and reroute all the attention to your actual escort website?

Well, the ads usually DO have my real website listed, but I don't want emails from these guys who find me on these weird sugaring sites.

Plus, I'm thinking about when I finally retire, I want to be able to just pull my ads and disappear. I guess it's fantasy to think that any sort of adult work that ends up online in anyway (even if it's not camming or something) is essentially "online forever." But it's irritating that I should be able to just pull/edit my ads when I want to, and shouldn't have to deal with these people perpetually having my 25-year-old/blonde escort profile and pics up.

Oh well. At least, I can close my email account and pretend they don't exist anymore. But in the meantime, I still have to field these stupid emails.

baer45
05-02-2017, 05:13 PM
Well, the ads usually DO have my real website listed, but I don't want emails from these guys who find me on these weird sugaring sites.

Plus, I'm thinking about when I finally retire, I want to be able to just pull my ads and disappear. I guess it's fantasy to think that any sort of adult work that ends up online in anyway (even if it's not camming or something) is essentially "online forever." But it's irritating that I should be able to just pull/edit my ads when I want to, and shouldn't have to deal with these people perpetually having my 25-year-old/blonde escort profile and pics up.

Oh well. At least, I can close my email account and pretend they don't exist anymore. But in the meantime, I still have to field these stupid emails.

The only reason i suggested that is to hope you can gain something in a situation that you couldn't do much about it. I have never used those sugar sites but i am in sort of sugar relationship with two men right now. They were my regulars. I do believe "online forever" might be the scenario for us. I probably have some photos out there, but i am hoping the keeper kept them just for personal use.

LoveyDovey
05-02-2017, 06:11 PM
Dear asshole customer,

No. You don't schedule a time slot with me to just go ahead and cancel 30 min prior with a super lame excuse. I know you are playing games and doing this as" revenge" for me not being to make it in yesterday when you wanted me to. I don't appreciate the passive aggressive bullshit games or the drama and I'm not going to text you and beg you to come in because then I'd be giving you exactly what you want. You are delusional. I am not your girlfriend, nor did I ever do anything to make you think that I was. I am a stripper at a club, you moron. Enjoy your shitty marriage. I'm dropping you as a client, and ignoring the fuck out of you.

Life's too short for petty, dramatic clients. Universe, I'm open to receiving new spendy, respectful ones. Please send them my way now. Thank you.

Love,
Lovey Dovey

baer45
05-02-2017, 07:55 PM
God damn it, netflix is $12 per month now. Wasn't it $9.99 last year?

rareaspasia
05-03-2017, 03:47 AM
I love my guy. I really do. But he's been so needy and clingy lately. He's always saying we never get any time together when we actually do, just not as much as he wants.I owe him some money and he's like, when are you paying me back? We'll, every night you want me to stay home with you instead of dancing is a night I'm not making the money I owe you!

Glamourmilf
05-03-2017, 04:22 AM
God damn it, netflix is $12 per month now. Wasn't it $9.99 last year?

What? I never got an email.
Guess it's time to cut them loose and continue to only use Putlocker, for free.
All the current movies that are still in the theatres are on there.

Aurora_Sunset
05-03-2017, 10:22 AM
My artist friend is complaining to me about how no one is interacting with and supporting her on social media and she doesn't know what to do cuz she hates people. But she doesn't want to take any sort of constructive criticism. I tried telling her that facebook pages fall by the wayside if they're not updated constantly. She posts like once a week (the last time she updated at this point is April. 20th). I suggested posting more, posting things that aren't necessarily updates on and pictures of her art projects, maybe posting articles about art, making some short videos of her process... No... She doesn't seem to grasp that other people aren't necessarily "unsupportive" but nobody is going to be as excited about constantly, specifically checking on her page as she is. They're only going to see when she posts and they're only going to get excited when she's a constant presence with fresh content. I get that she does her "real work" of working on her art projects all day long, but if she only posts online once every 1-2-sometimes 3 weeks... If you want social media to be all excited about you and bring you business, then you have to treat social media like it's a part of your business. Not just throw up a picture every once in a while and expect people to flock in with their support and praise.

Then she bitches about people who contact her about possibly commissioning her for something, and then not doing it for a few months. And she gets all pissed - "He has the money! He just doesn't want to spend more than $X. Nobody wants to spend more than $X." Rawr rawr rawr - Like... you're a business, hon. Timewasters who ask a bunch of questions and then try to haggle with ridiculously low prices are annoying, but in the end, if someone just doesn't feel like shelling out money for art right this second... No one is obligated to give you their money just because they "have it" and you want it.

Idk... anytime she bitches about this stuff and I try to offer advice, she just shoots down everything I say and says that I "don't know how the art world works." Ok, fine. Continue to blame all lack of success on how it's just not "possible" for anyone to make it as an artist anymore because "everyone else" sucks, and it has absolutely nothing to do with the fact that you update sporadically as fuck and expect everyone to just be falling all over themselves to give you money for nothing more than a couple facebook pictures.

miss.a.p1600
05-03-2017, 11:26 AM
I feel for her because I really wanted to be an artist growing up but got hit with the "artists don't make money you'll never earn a living doing that" from my family. This is societies brain washing and its old school. Our parents never knew people can make money selling their goods online because well internet wasn't even around for normal use back then. Plus it requires networking with wealthy people who appreciate the arts/artists. Being a rich artist is possible it's just a strategic way to go about it - like almost everything in life. Sometimes people block their own blessings with their subconscious self defeating mental programming.

She could always hire a virtual assistant to manage her page daily and this is inexpensive and affordable to most people.

!!!im pissed because of bleeding from my orifice down there and menstrual cramps - I hope the universe blesses me with a generous and faithful husband plus a pretty baby/babies because I don't want to struggle with nature for no payoff lol

Why the heck am I always thinking about a payoff?!? Lol

chanzep
05-03-2017, 03:56 PM
Now I know why I instacart my groceries, because I can control myself that way!, I just went to Walmart with a tiny list that would of came to 30 max, I went there hungry plus I went in the beauty section so end up spending 100!, and they never have my favorite teas so I still need to go online for that. Of course I got a big French stick ugh cant stop eating bread this week.

seashell
05-03-2017, 05:47 PM
My allergies have been insanely bad last night and today. I guess taking Zyrtec once in a while isn't going to cut it... I need one dose in the daytime and a different allergy med at night. Ughhh. I'm a snotty, sneezy, eyes-watering mess. Unfortunately, it seems my allergies are mostly the indoor variety, but I don't have a vacuum or air purifier here at my bf's apartment. Gahhh whyyyyy

Aurora_Sunset
05-03-2017, 06:50 PM
I don't understand why my SO always has to do this. He actually handled something really maturely last week, and just when I was about at my wit's end with him, I was like omg, he's actually making an effort to change. Things were super good for over a week, and I was JUST starting to be like "Wow, things are so good, this is great, I'm so happy, maybe this could work out."

And then today, we finish off a perfectly pleasant phone conversation, and he specifically calls back like 5 minutes later to pick a shitty guilt-trip fight about my job. And just after he called me yesterday and admitted that he had been on edge for awhile because he ran out of anxiety meds, and knows that when he gets like this he starts picking fights about nothing to make himself feel worse. Why would he acknowledge that and then the next day do this shit?

miss.a.p1600
05-03-2017, 07:18 PM
Maybe he has short term memory loss or situational amnesia?

I'm kidding. That's men for you though lol.

I wonder am I bipolar or am I too sensitive about the things going on in my world. Sometimes I feel good and happy and literally the next day is like a reset to zero and I'm struggling to feel motivated and good again and I use external things like food and coke to make me feel good. *sigh* I probably should get my ass to the gym and workout.

I think I need to be caressed by a hot man. I need men to compete for me and lavish me with gifts and praise.

Or maybe I don't know what I need.

lynn2009
05-03-2017, 08:52 PM
Omfg just as I am really ready to finally, really and truly dump the same guy I've been seeing my mom calls today to bother me about hiring movers and she's like Derek obviously really cares about you, you should be less snappy at him. He's been trying really hard to impress my family (we've gone together about three times) and she says he's starting to grow on her despite his drinking history.

But I can't take his fucking bullshit with his ex-wife anymore. FFS this Saturday she lied about her travel plans, she was supposed to be away all weekend, and then she texted him during lunch while we were out with my family that she was coming home (to his new house) early and he was all twitchy and nervous about it and I had to leave my parent's house early so he could make her happy. Now he's mad at me for ruining Sunday night because I locked myself in my bedroom without him.

God I feel fucking pathetic.

.............

chanzep
05-04-2017, 12:22 AM
Omg, Im so sorry to hear that, sending hugs your way.

WendiStarr
05-04-2017, 03:10 AM
He got in a big fight with his dad yesterday, overdosed and died.

Oh my god! That is awful. I am sorry to hear this. *hugs*

miss.a.p1600
05-04-2017, 05:02 AM
Sorry to hear about your bf.

JenniferNorth
05-04-2017, 06:59 AM
I am so sorry, Lynn. Sending you hugs and thinking of you.

WendiStarr
05-04-2017, 07:43 AM
My annoyance today is fuck buddy blowing up my phone with texts at 4am with a bunch of off the wall shit. When I didn't respond he took it upon himself to send a bunch of question mark texts, individually. My mom is the only other person I know of who does that and it's annoying as hell. Let me get some dang sleep, dude!

LoveyDovey
05-04-2017, 07:54 AM
Lynn I'm so sorry about your loss.

lilylilylily
05-04-2017, 11:04 AM
I hope you're doing ok. Sorry about your loss

miss.a.p1600
05-04-2017, 02:54 PM
I hate when dudes expect you to respond immediately as if you don't have a life. Fuckbuddies and boyfriends don't get the husband privileges. I wouldn't even respond immediately to my husband cause what this look like a fast food joint where you just roll up to the drive through and get what you want right away?

I blame Facebook messenger, Tinder, and fast food culture for these men's unrealistic expectations


My annoyance today is fuck buddy blowing up my phone with texts at 4am with a bunch of off the wall shit. When I didn't respond he took it upon himself to send a bunch of question mark texts, individually. My mom is the only other person I know of who does that and it's annoying as hell. Let me get some dang sleep, dude!

baer45
05-04-2017, 04:51 PM
He got in a big fight with his dad yesterday, overdosed and died.

wait...what? As messy as he sounds, I am sorry for your loss. you seem really love him.