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seashell
05-15-2017, 03:32 PM
I'm pissed that my boyfriend borrowed my laptop, and now I have to sit at his uncomfortable desk to use the desktop computer. I reeeally want a new computer chair... right now we're just using a crappy kitchen chair from Ikea with a pathetic little cushion on it... but we're moving soon, and I don't want to waste the money. Ugh.

Elektra Luxx
05-15-2017, 03:33 PM
Was it towed or stolen? If that's where you normally park your car, call the cop right now.

I called the police and my insurance and apartment management, it was not towed. The police checked for my car in the pound and it was not there. It was not repossesed either because the payment are automatic. It was stolen. I'm just glad my laptop wasn't in the car. It has my entire life on it. I'm so angry and sad and afraid, all at the same time. They know who I am, where I live, my parking pass for work. I told management to change my apartment locks, if not my dad is changing them.

I'm thinking it might be my jailbird neighbor. He always have lowlifes at his apartment. I should go over there and ask if he knows something.

baer45
05-15-2017, 03:56 PM
I called the police and my insurance and apartment management, it was not towed. The police checked for my car in the pound and it was not there. It was not repossesed either because the payment are automatic. It was stolen. I'm just glad my laptop wasn't in the car. It has my entire life on it. I'm so angry and sad and afraid, all at the same time. They know who I am, where I live, my parking pass for work. I told management to my apartment locks, if not my dad is changing them.

I'm thinking it might be my jailbird neighbor. He always have lowlifes at his apartment. I should go over there and ask if he knows something.


Do not go over there to blindly ask for anything. They won't help you since your relationship with them isn't good. You are just putting yourself in a weak position. Why do you think the thief knows you? Did you leave any identification in it? I am sorry to hear this, but you need to stay strong. Get help from cops and have your father change the lock, cancel all the cards in the car. Ask cops to file a stolen car report and wait for a few days to call your insurance company start the claim process. Don't let insurance company walk all over you. Do your own research on your cars actual cash value. Get as much as money possible. If you have home owner/renter insurance you might be able to get some money for the jewelry you lost.

WendiStarr
05-15-2017, 04:17 PM
^ ElectraLuxx, sorry to hear that. I hope they find your car and somehow your belongings are all still in there, undisturbed.


I wish I could get a professional massage. My lower back hurts so bad but the last couple times I've been to a massage place with real, certified massage therapists to get a massage, the chick fucked my back up and made it hurt even more. I wish my longest known client was in town. He's the only one with reverse privilege and also the only person I've ever known to give good lower back massages. I've got to stop carrying my 7 year old around like she's a baby. The stinker is already at chest-level height on me and the former client in a wheelchair who I've been helping with moving and yard work had me move this huge toolbox for him, two deceptively heavy automotive batteries, and a large table saw. I'm sitting my ass in a warm bathtub with epsom salt tonight.

miss.a.p1600
05-15-2017, 05:04 PM
Same here girl!

Its one of the ways I test a man for his wealth.

Oh and I'm a germaphobe so if I do offer to share I am not down for swapping spit or sharing DNA so I always use a separate utensil / straw.



This probably makes me an asshole but I hate sharing food if I get takeout or go to a restaurant. If someone asks if they can have some of what I'm eating I just want to tell them to fuck right off and get their own, and if someone reaches over and tries to take something without asking I have to resist the urge to stab their hand with a fork. Of course I don't say anything and act like it's ok because it's socially inappropriate to say no and I wasn't raised by wolves, but man, it just irritates me so much. We went out several years ago with friends and our server tried to take my plate that still had a good amount of food on it, and I took it right back out of their hand, which might seem rude but fuck, it wasn't a few crumbs and I was hungry. To this day my friends talk about how I looked like I was about to shank the bitch. My friends always want to meet up at this expensive, mediocre tapas place and I hate it, tapas are like my eating nemesis. I don't even like ordering pizza with friends, I want my own damn pizza and then I'll take the leftovers home and eat them later. I actually hate eating out with anyone but my SO because he's used to it. So to get to the point, we went to his mom's house and we got Indian food, and I took home our leftovers without actually looking at them (his mom packed them up), and I just now went to reheat them for lunch and someone ate half of my shit. And by someone I mean my SO's mother's annoying ass husband. I know it was him because my SO knows better and because his mom strictly portions her meals because she's trying to lose weight. I know it shouldn't piss me off this much and I don't know why I get this way about food but I'm like, Jesus, motherfucker, you couldn't even ask? You just assumed you could help yourself? And now I only have half of the meal I was planning on for lunch. :(

DonaDiabla
05-15-2017, 05:09 PM
That's awful, Elektra Luxx, I hope you get back your stuff. I am sending you, virtual hugs :grouphug:


So this morning I'm walking to where I parked my car to leave for work and it's not there. Huhh, that's weird, I know parked it here. Then it hits me, OMG!!! My car is gone, it's been stolen! And all my escorting things were in it! Shoes, lingerie, toys, contact lenses, a couple of sexy outfits. I feel like I've been violated.

LoveyDovey
05-15-2017, 05:11 PM
So this morning I'm walking to where I parked my car to leave for work and it's not there. Huhh, that's weird, I know parked it here. Then it hits me, OMG!!! My car is gone, it's been stolen! And all my escorting things were in it! Shoes, lingerie, toys, contact lenses, a couple of sexy outfits. I feel like I've been violated.

Omg, that's terrible! Hugs to you...hope can find it somehow. Sending good thoughts. So sorry this happened to you.

whirlerz
05-15-2017, 05:42 PM
So this morning I'm walking to where I parked my car to leave for work and it's not there. Huhh, that's weird, I know parked it here. Then it hits me, OMG!!! My car is gone, it's been stolen! And all my escorting things were in it! Shoes, lingerie, toys, contact lenses, a couple of sexy outfits. I feel like I've been violated.

I missed this post earlier, I am so sorry!
It is a violation, & worse!
Take care & hugs

baer45
05-15-2017, 06:00 PM
I missed this post earlier, I am so sorry!
It is a violation, & worse!
Take care & hugs

lol...you missed a few posts again.

chanzep
05-15-2017, 10:47 PM
Sorry that it happened to you Elektra Luxx, I hope you can get it back.

lilylilylily
05-15-2017, 11:10 PM
Sorry Elektra Luxx, I hope everything will turn out ok

seashell
05-16-2017, 01:29 AM
Things are going really well in my life right now, but I feel insecure. It could easily fall apart. I'm really happy at times, but I also kinda miss last year when I was only concerned with what guy I was talking to on Tinder and what magical far away land I was going to travel to.

WendiStarr
05-16-2017, 06:17 AM
My dad suddenly decided that after 30 years, he'd like to be my dad. What the actual fuck!? He said that if I ever needed help with money or food to call him and said that he wanted to be in my life and see my daughter and I. We went and visited him and it was so weird. He was all, "I care about you. I love you" blah blah blah. Then he brought up his will and said that he was going to have me be the executor of his will since I'm his only biological kid(he had a vasectomy after I was born because he hates kids and never wanted any). His girlfriend stepped in and said,"No, I don't think she would be fair to me and my kids" She was going on and on about when he dies, she wants this and that. At that point I was just like whatever. If someone hasn't really been there for me when they're alive, I don't give a damn about their money when they're gone. I don't like his girlfriend. She just comes off as a gold digger and was not even the least bit attractive at all. She had to be at least 300lbs, dressed in a t-shirt and sweatpants, chain smoking, and annoying raspy voice. I have no idea what he could possibly see in her. They are a total mismatch because my dad is actually good looking despite being in his 50s and this lady looked like jabba the hut and had an unpleasant, abrasive personality from what I could see. I guess whatever floats their boat but all she seemed to be doing is rubbing it in my face, the fact that he had been financially supporting her and her three spoiled brats from another man while he ignored me, his only biological child. She was bragging about how she didn't have to work, how he bought her kids cars, how he put one of her kids through college, etc. I don't get why he bothered to contact me again. It looks like he has his hands full with all that shit. I don't know if I'll ever be able to have a father-daughter relationship with him. I spent most of my life unsuccessfully trying to get his attention and love. Why after 30 years would he pretend to be interested in my daughter and I? Why now? It makes me cry even writing this.

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-16-2017, 07:08 AM
My dad suddenly decided that after 30 years, he'd like to be my dad. What the actual fuck!? He said that if I ever needed help with money or food to call him and said that he wanted to be in my life and see my daughter and I. We went and visited him and it was so weird. He was all, "I care about you. I love you" blah blah blah. Then he brought up his will and said that he was going to have me be the executor of his will since I'm his only biological kid(he had a vasectomy after I was born because he hates kids and never wanted any). His girlfriend stepped in and said,"No, I don't think she would be fair to me and my kids" She was going on and on about when he dies, she wants this and that. At that point I was just like whatever. If someone hasn't really been there for me when they're alive, I don't give a damn about their money when they're gone. I don't like his girlfriend. She just comes off as a gold digger and was not even the least bit attractive at all. She had to be at least 300lbs, dressed in a t-shirt and sweatpants, chain smoking, and annoying raspy voice. I have no idea what he could possibly see in her. They are a total mismatch because my dad is actually good looking despite being in his 50s and this lady looked like jabba the hut and had an unpleasant, abrasive personality from what I could see. I guess whatever floats their boat but all she seemed to be doing is rubbing it in my face, the fact that he had been financially supporting her and her three spoiled brats from another man while he ignored me, his only biological child. She was bragging about how she didn't have to work, how he bought her kids cars, how he put one of her kids through college, etc. I don't get why he bothered to contact me again. It looks like he has his hands full with all that shit. I don't know if I'll ever be able to have a father-daughter relationship with him. I spent most of my life unsuccessfully trying to get his attention and love. Why after 30 years would he pretend to be interested in my daughter and I? Why now? It makes me cry even writing this.

He's trying to find a way to get away from her, lol.

I can understand your distress and disgust.

Glamourmilf
05-16-2017, 07:42 AM
So this morning I'm walking to where I parked my car to leave for work and it's not there. Huhh, that's weird, I know parked it here. Then it hits me, OMG!!! My car is gone, it's been stolen! And all my escorting things were in it! Shoes, lingerie, toys, contact lenses, a couple of sexy outfits. I feel like I've been violated.

So sorry to hear this. Did you have any anti theft gadgets on the car? Was it insured for theft? ( I really hope so).
Everyone gives me crap for using the 'club,' but knock on wood, my car has never been tampered with since I started using it.
Prior to that I was always the target for theft, mainly because I drive convertibles.
Best of luck.

LoveyDovey
05-16-2017, 07:49 AM
My dad suddenly decided that after 30 years, he'd like to be my dad. What the actual fuck!? He said that if I ever needed help with money or food to call him and said that he wanted to be in my life and see my daughter and I. We went and visited him and it was so weird. He was all, "I care about you. I love you" blah blah blah. Then he brought up his will and said that he was going to have me be the executor of his will since I'm his only biological kid(he had a vasectomy after I was born because he hates kids and never wanted any). His girlfriend stepped in and said,"No, I don't think she would be fair to me and my kids" She was going on and on about when he dies, she wants this and that. At that point I was just like whatever. If someone hasn't really been there for me when they're alive, I don't give a damn about their money when they're gone. I don't like his girlfriend. She just comes off as a gold digger and was not even the least bit attractive at all. She had to be at least 300lbs, dressed in a t-shirt and sweatpants, chain smoking, and annoying raspy voice. I have no idea what he could possibly see in her. They are a total mismatch because my dad is actually good looking despite being in his 50s and this lady looked like jabba the hut and had an unpleasant, abrasive personality from what I could see. I guess whatever floats their boat but all she seemed to be doing is rubbing it in my face, the fact that he had been financially supporting her and her three spoiled brats from another man while he ignored me, his only biological child. She was bragging about how she didn't have to work, how he bought her kids cars, how he put one of her kids through college, etc. I don't get why he bothered to contact me again. It looks like he has his hands full with all that shit. I don't know if I'll ever be able to have a father-daughter relationship with him. I spent most of my life unsuccessfully trying to get his attention and love. Why after 30 years would he pretend to be interested in my daughter and I? Why now? It makes me cry even writing this.

One word: Guilt.

I am so sorry, I have a bad dad too who is trying to get back in my good graces after severely abusing me as a child/teen, but I have 2 words for him, and they are " FUCK OFF!!!!"

WendiStarr
05-16-2017, 09:06 AM
I feel ya girl.

I found out that The dude I procreated with discriminates against our child - his own blood but out here tricking off on THOTS paying for their fake asses and tits whilst neglecting our child emotionally and financially. When I ask for something for the kid I get heckled for being a shark or a hustler but when these bitches ask for some elective plastic surgery he's all of a sudden open walleted.

I just want to pretend this bitch doesn't exist. I blocked his number on Mother's Day after he sent me dry ass text talking about some Happy Mother's Day......no bitch if you cared about my happiness on Mother's Day you would not send some fake ass text I could care less about instead you'd take care of the kid to your max capabilities which you are not.

Some dudes have serious jacked up priorities.

At least your dad sees the error in his ways. The dude I procreated with is selfish and dumb as hell he probably won't come to his sense until he's old and decrepit and by that time I will expect my kid to write him off and have their own wealth without him.

And yes girl get your name in the will if you can. Fuck that chain smoking beyotch and her crumb snatchers. She ain't even married to your dad but trying to stake her claim. Wtf?!? Bish better invest with what she does have instead of trying to suck your father dry. Plus He shouldn't even be consulting with her on this matter because they aren't married yet and he doesn't owe her anything at this point.

You might not care about the relationship but that money could help you and your family later on down the line. Plus she sounds like a rachet type who - if he doesn't have a will - will try to take anyone to court to battle for his assets. Better to avoid wasting money on lawyers and court fees and just get it in writing what he's going to do for you in the unfortunate event he passes away. I'd totally let his 30 year guilt write me into a will anytime if I were you.

He sounds like a good dude to help out his lady and her kids but damn bruh your blood comes FIRST.


Yes, I don't understand it. They're not even married yet she's in his will. Also, she told me that they have a joint bank account and the house is in her name. How the hell do these women manage to worm themselves in like that? I can't even get a man to put a ring on my finger, yet the grossest nastiest of bitches have dudes giving them access to their bank account, putting a house in their name, paying their kids tuition, doing all these things for them and not even married. Wtf!

Aurora_Sunset
05-16-2017, 04:50 PM
That's so awful, Elektra! Every time I don't instantly spot my car, I start panicking that it was stolen. It's one of my biggest fears. :( I'm so sorry.

Aurora_Sunset
05-16-2017, 04:51 PM
This probably makes me an asshole but I hate sharing food if I get takeout or go to a restaurant. If someone asks if they can have some of what I'm eating I just want to tell them to fuck right off and get their own, and if someone reaches over and tries to take something without asking I have to resist the urge to stab their hand with a fork. Of course I don't say anything and act like it's ok because it's socially inappropriate to say no and I wasn't raised by wolves, but man, it just irritates me so much. We went out several years ago with friends and our server tried to take my plate that still had a good amount of food on it, and I took it right back out of their hand, which might seem rude but fuck, it wasn't a few crumbs and I was hungry. To this day my friends talk about how I looked like I was about to shank the bitch. My friends always want to meet up at this expensive, mediocre tapas place and I hate it, tapas are like my eating nemesis. I don't even like ordering pizza with friends, I want my own damn pizza and then I'll take the leftovers home and eat them later. I actually hate eating out with anyone but my SO because he's used to it. So to get to the point, we went to his mom's house and we got Indian food, and I took home our leftovers without actually looking at them (his mom packed them up), and I just now went to reheat them for lunch and someone ate half of my shit. And by someone I mean my SO's mother's annoying ass husband. I know it was him because my SO knows better and because his mom strictly portions her meals because she's trying to lose weight. I know it shouldn't piss me off this much and I don't know why I get this way about food but I'm like, Jesus, motherfucker, you couldn't even ask? You just assumed you could help yourself? And now I only have half of the meal I was planning on for lunch. :(

I'm the same way. I hate sharing food. I hate tapas places. I despise when I go out to eat with friends, and they suddenly spring the "do you wanna just share stuff?" shit on me. Like, no, bitch, I already have MY meal planned out. And I fully intend to take MY leftovers HOME. The only thing I'll share is pizza, and only if I know that I'm sharing with someone who will put up with my weirdness over pizza-toppings (no meat, and I love pineapple and green olives and black beans if they have them).

whirlerz
05-16-2017, 06:50 PM
Well, I m pissed rn, the SD & I talked about going to a new breakfast place, I currently go there for bakery, they just started having breakfast too.
He's brought it up several times, so I texted him about it for our next meeting.
He tells me he want to go to this other place, & last time we were there, they never gave us menus, there was a specials card so I ordered off that, no only was it terrible, the hash browns were stone cold & greasy.
He always, always orders a waffle so that's hard to fuck up.
He's beyond set in his ways, & doesn't want to have to bother trying to find the place.
Sheesh

whirlerz
05-16-2017, 06:56 PM
& I finally felt well enough to go to my storage today, I get there & the damn bathroom's locked, because some jackass pulled the door shut & it locks automatically.
Also, the mgr @ hotel said a really shitty thing to me today, she didn't want me talking to her, that's fine, she can fuck off too
Sorry I wrote so much

LoveyDovey
05-16-2017, 07:10 PM
Yes, I don't understand it. They're not even married yet she's in his will. Also, she told me that they have a joint bank account and the house is in her name. How the hell do these women manage to worm themselves in like that? I can't even get a man to put a ring on my finger, yet the grossest nastiest of bitches have dudes giving them access to their bank account, putting a house in their name, paying their kids tuition, doing all these things for them and not even married. Wtf!

Blackmail? Lol

whirlerz
05-16-2017, 07:15 PM
Now, I can't even do fucking laundry, someone's using the machine & there's a huge bag sitting next to it.

chanzep
05-16-2017, 07:16 PM
So I told my friend I had not left my Apartment complex since Friday, she was like OMG, You need to leave the house you must be going crazy, then she suggest that I come back to shitty club and give them a doctors note for being sick, Its annoying because I like being alone, I was sick up until today and no way do I wanna go back to one of the worst club ever, and pay for a doctors note Hell No so I can put up with the shitty management and cheap customers!.
Im good looking for at home jobs and ordering my instacart groceries( which saves me going crazy in store.)
I told her I have a annoying full day running around tomorrow she was like "oh good, maybe spread it out over the rest of the week!"
ergh no thanks. She means well but was also thought I was lonely on my days off from club, I told her Im glad for the peace, I meet up with friends a few times a month that is good for me!.

chanzep
05-16-2017, 08:03 PM
Omg Fucking Instacart guy does not deliver half my shit!, I called them and they said they could not get ahold of him and they will deliver my stuff tomorrow ugh!. They have great customer service but the last 2 guys have been total fuckups!, when I first started I always had this same girl who was great, I guess I need to order in the afternoon again when she works, grr dude did not bring my coffee creamer which I need because I have to leave at 9 which should be fun considering I cant sleep before 4.

chanzep
05-16-2017, 08:05 PM
^Omg Whirlz sounds like a annoying day your having, sending hugs x

Elektra Luxx
05-16-2017, 09:23 PM
So sorry to hear this. Did you have any anti theft gadgets on the car? Was it insured for theft? ( I really hope so).
Everyone gives me crap for using the 'club,' but knock on wood, my car has never been tampered with since I started using it.
Prior to that I was always the target for theft, mainly because I drive convertibles.
Best of luck.

Thanks for your post.

The car has car alarm, a chip in the key...thing-a-ma-jig and I have the only key thing-a-ma-jig. I had two but I lost the other one. The car alarm never went off. The cops said that thieves don't steal Camrys because they are not in demand and they don't steal cars with push button starts because you need the key thing to start it. This whole thing makes my stomach hurt, I just feel so violated. Someone has my car, my stuff, I knows personal things about me that most people don't know. And I didn't have replacement coverage for the car. So insurance will only give me what it's worth now, with the miles it has and it's age. Okay, everthing can be replaced, but it's still violating.

seashell
05-17-2017, 01:58 AM
Oh my god, stripping is really getting to me lately. Not sure if it's due to PMS or just burnout... I went off on two customers tonight and I'm nervous af to go back tomorrow lol. Usually I put up with whatever BS comes my way, but tonight I just had to speak my mind (one was a Lester the Molester type and the other was just being mean/insulting my vanilla career). Ugh. People are dicks.

I don't know who to talk to about this stuff in real life... the other dancers can only deal with so much venting, and I'm afraid to even tell my boyfriend about how bad some customers are. Thank god for this website...

Glamourmilf
05-17-2017, 07:21 AM
Thanks for your post.

The car has car alarm, a chip in the key...thing-a-ma-jig and I have the only key thing-a-ma-jig. I had two but I lost the other one. The car alarm never went off. The cops said that thieves don't steal Camrys because they are not in demand and they don't steal cars with push button starts because you need the key thing to start it. This whole thing makes my stomach hurt, I just feel so violated. Someone has my car, my stuff, I knows personal things about me that most people don't know. And I didn't have replacement coverage for the car. So insurance will only give me what it's worth now, with the miles it has and it's age. Okay, everthing can be replaced, but it's still violating.


And you're sure it wasn't towed? ( Just making sure.)
I know how violated you feel, only because I've been there.
I even had a kill switch, which was bypassed, god only knows how.
Next car you buy, just use this.
Thiefs today don't understand it, and won't fuck with it it. I promise.
48060

Aurora_Sunset
05-17-2017, 07:53 AM
Oh my god, stripping is really getting to me lately. Not sure if it's due to PMS or just burnout... I went off on two customers tonight and I'm nervous af to go back tomorrow lol. Usually I put up with whatever BS comes my way, but tonight I just had to speak my mind (one was a Lester the Molester type and the other was just being mean/insulting my vanilla career). Ugh. People are dicks.

I don't know who to talk to about this stuff in real life... the other dancers can only deal with so much venting, and I'm afraid to even tell my boyfriend about how bad some customers are. Thank god for this website...

I feel burnt out on... people lol Like, I am just entering a major phase of "I'm gonna say what I'm gonna say and I don't give a fuck." This hasn't been good this month since I am bartending a lot, and my first reaction to a guy being a dumbass about something has been really defensive and basically "fuck you, deal with it" - and I have to step back and realize that I can't do that in that context... When it comes to escort clients, I've only been able to deal with regulars that I know exactly what I'm dealing with.

miss.a.p1600
05-17-2017, 08:06 AM
You have no clue how I wish I could say what's really on my mind but freedom of speech seems to have its limits.

One you have to deal with backlash from people getting offended - may even loose some friends or family

Two people will always hold what you said in the past against you even if your beliefs change

Three people cannot distinguish an angry rant from your normal rational thoughts so risk of being labeled (angry, activist, mentality ill, etc) is high

I do think I have slightly more freedom of speech on stripper webs than I do on Facebook. I can't even cuss on Facebook now that my elder family members are on there. Ugh!!!!!

whirlerz
05-17-2017, 12:45 PM
My car just F'd me, $700. for water pump, timing belt (s), oil pan & Idk what all, he showed me, it was a blur.
He gave me his car, waiting now.
Nice.>:(
Edit: I texted the SD, just to let him know, crickets​, so yea he's gonna give me more Sat (& use more of my time, instead of giving me the whole thing in the 1st place)::)

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-17-2017, 01:40 PM
Thanks for your post.

The car has car alarm, a chip in the key...thing-a-ma-jig and I have the only key thing-a-ma-jig. I had two but I lost the other one. The car alarm never went off. The cops said that thieves don't steal Camrys because they are not in demand and they don't steal cars with push button starts because you need the key thing to start it. This whole thing makes my stomach hurt, I just feel so violated. Someone has my car, my stuff, I knows personal things about me that most people don't know. And I didn't have replacement coverage for the car. So insurance will only give me what it's worth now, with the miles it has and it's age. Okay, everthing can be replaced, but it's still violating.

Probably someone who just needed a car. BTW I'm pretty sure Camrys are on most-stolen car lists in my home state. They're worth more parted out.

Sorry hon. Buy a Prius, those never get stolen.

whirlerz
05-17-2017, 05:18 PM
Well, I was wrong earlier, $1,120.00 not
$700.00 for my car!!
Yipes, timing kit& belt/water pump, valve cover gasket, oil change, transmission fluid change:O

miss.a.p1600
05-17-2017, 08:26 PM
The "friend" whom I've been avoiding his calls talks my ear off after I finally decide to answer. I shouldn't and don't want to answer because often times he talks about negative shit.

After every damn call with him I'm reminded of my past mistakes, reminded of my flaws, etc. I don't know if he does this intentionally or it's something within me.

I also can't stand that he is financially irresponsible. I think he has a hard drug habit/addiction that wastes money on. And what sense does it make he can buy drugs and vacations but not take care of his priorities first like rent and car. He's also asked me for money and none of my other friends ask for money. I am traditional and get turned of when men ask me for money because they are supposed to be the providers.

Many times I hate taking to him because sometimes I feel too open and tell him things I've never told anyone. I am worried that if I ditch him cold he may tell all my secrets as revenge. I also told him how I was sexually assaulted and he did nothing to help me report it. And another time I told him of possible sexual assault and he said I must have liked it.

I am so done with men minimizing other male predators.

I am also done with having him as a "friend". One day he showed up at my residence unannounced after he alleged I didn't answer a few of his calls. Why should I be forced to answer anyone's calls? I feel like I'm stuck in a gang the only way I can escape being obliged to friendship duties is to move or whatever. I want to say like hey dude I'm not ready at this current moment to continue being friends but If you need an associate I will be available by text only on birthdays and holidays. Idk.

I don't want to be obligated to any people whose negative mentality rubs off on me especially if they are financially irresponsible and/or misogynists who discredit real sexual assault victims.

WendiStarr
05-17-2017, 08:41 PM
The "friend" whom I've been avoiding his calls talks my ear off after I finally decide to answer. I shouldn't and don't want to answer because often times he talks about negative shit.

After every damn call with him I'm reminded of my past mistakes, reminded of my flaws, etc. I don't know if he does this intentionally or it's something within me.

I also can't stand that he is financially irresponsible. I think he has a hard drug habit/addiction that wastes money on. And what sense does it make he can buy drugs and vacations but not take care of his priorities first like rent and car. He's also asked me for money and none of my other friends ask for money. I am traditional and get turned of when men ask me for money because they are supposed to be the providers.

Many times I hate taking to him because sometimes I feel too open and tell him things I've never told anyone. I also told him how I was sexually assaulted and he did nothing to help me report it. And another time I told him of possible sexual assault and he said I must have liked it.

I am so done with men minimizing other male predators.

I am also done with having him as a "friend". One day he showed up at my residence unannounced after he alleged I didn't answer a few of his calls. Why should I be forced to answer anyone's calls? I feel like I'm stuck in a gang the only way I can escape being obliged to friendship duties is to move or whatever. I want to say like hey dude I'm not ready at this current moment to continue being friends but If you need an associate I will be available by text only on birthdays and holidays. Idk.

I don't want to be obligated to any people whose negative mentality rubs off on me especially if they are misogynists who discredit real sexual assault victims.

Omg! I am sorry to hear that you were sexually assaulted. As for your "friend" he sounds like an asshole. What kind of "friend" does nothing to help a friend after a sexual assault and then to throw salt into the wound, has the balls to say that you must have liked it. That guy is a pathetic excuse of a "friend" and the behavior that you describe sounds like he's not much of a friend at all. You don't need anyone like that in your life!

WendiStarr
05-17-2017, 08:49 PM
My annoyance for the day. Customers who seem to think that they actually have a chance at a real life meet with cam girls or pso. I had a regular call me earlier and ask me how much it would cost for him to meet me. He was all,"I would love to make love with you. How much would that cost?". I told him he could "make love" with me over the phone as often as he wanted to. He kept offering prices like,"Would $200 work? How about $300?" I changed the subject to what sexy lingerie I was wearing. He got mad and hung up on me, left me a bad rating, and then sent me a 63 cent "tribute". Dick move, dude. Dick move.

miss.a.p1600
05-18-2017, 08:37 AM
Miss the cool peeps from the former club but sadly Too many of them came across my Facebook friends you may know and I had to block them

....and I never gave any of them my real name or number.

I hate Facebook.

carmen_b
05-18-2017, 05:45 PM
^ Yessssss

I was outed to some massage customers. Luckily no creeps or stalkers. Only use a vague photo as profile or nature picture ect. so that no one knows it's you just in case.

whirlerz
05-18-2017, 06:33 PM
I'm so pissed rn, @ my storage place, & again, the bathroom's locked?
I specifically asked for this when I rented here..
I called their main office, but of course I get, " mgr will call you tomorrow" I left a note under the door, (just like the other night) for all the good is going to do.
Ugh, do Not need this b/s rn after going thru everything w/ my car.
Fuckers

LoveyDovey
05-19-2017, 12:36 AM
Oh my god, stripping is really getting to me lately. Not sure if it's due to PMS or just burnout... I went off on two customers tonight and I'm nervous af to go back tomorrow lol. Usually I put up with whatever BS comes my way, but tonight I just had to speak my mind (one was a Lester the Molester type and the other was just being mean/insulting my vanilla career). Ugh. People are dicks.

I don't know who to talk to about this stuff in real life... the other dancers can only deal with so much venting, and I'm afraid to even tell my boyfriend about how bad some customers are. Thank god for this website...

I relate 100%. This site is a godsend.

ScarletKitten
05-19-2017, 02:50 AM
The "friend" whom I've been avoiding his calls talks my ear off after I finally decide to answer. I shouldn't and don't want to answer because often times he talks about negative shit.

After every damn call with him I'm reminded of my past mistakes, reminded of my flaws, etc. I don't know if he does this intentionally or it's something within me.

I also can't stand that he is financially irresponsible. I think he has a hard drug habit/addiction that wastes money on. And what sense does it make he can buy drugs and vacations but not take care of his priorities first like rent and car. He's also asked me for money and none of my other friends ask for money. I am traditional and get turned of when men ask me for money because they are supposed to be the providers.

Many times I hate taking to him because sometimes I feel too open and tell him things I've never told anyone. I am worried that if I ditch him cold he may tell all my secrets as revenge. I also told him how I was sexually assaulted and he did nothing to help me report it. And another time I told him of possible sexual assault and he said I must have liked it.

I am so done with men minimizing other male predators.

I am also done with having him as a "friend". One day he showed up at my residence unannounced after he alleged I didn't answer a few of his calls. Why should I be forced to answer anyone's calls? I feel like I'm stuck in a gang the only way I can escape being obliged to friendship duties is to move or whatever. I want to say like hey dude I'm not ready at this current moment to continue being friends but If you need an associate I will be available by text only on birthdays and holidays. Idk.

I don't want to be obligated to any people whose negative mentality rubs off on me especially if they are financially irresponsible and/or misogynists who discredit real sexual assault victims.

Fuck that motherfucker. Completely ghost him and stop talking to him. If he shows up at your house, ignore. Don't answer the door. What a piece of shit. How dare he say that to you!!! I guess he's aching for an ass beating....

WendiStarr
05-19-2017, 07:46 AM
^ Yessssss

I was outed to some massage customers. Luckily no creeps or stalkers. Only use a vague photo as profile or nature picture ect. so that no one knows it's you just in case.

Ditto on that! I had to change my Facebook profile due to that and change my first and last name to a nickname. It's currently set as a picture that I took of the smoky mountains, haha.

WendiStarr
05-19-2017, 07:53 AM
Apparently an escort in my area is stealing my pictures and using them as her own. One of my body rub clients found the ad and asked me,"You're offering gfe now? I seen your new ad." I didn't know what he was talking about. He showed me the ad and it pissed me off. It's really annoying that people can't be original and use their own pictures. I don't have my face in the pictures but still..those are my pictures!

xStacey
05-19-2017, 11:47 AM
Ok so in 5 years, I have rarely done OTC and can count on one hand the number of clients I say outside. I have been thinking about escorting and am more open about the idea of seeing some clients in another setting. I am not willing to take the risk with club and bodyrub regulars I have known for years who come see me weekly or bi-weekly in case things don't go as planned, so am considering some offers made by clients I saw a couple of times, that I wouldn't mind seeing outside because I enjoyed their company, but wouldn't mind losing.

So this guy who works outside the province, but visits the city every couple of months texts me he's been thinking about me a lot and wants to take me out to dinner. I talk about how I don't work often and cannot afford to take a shift off, although I would love to see him... He replies Take the shift off I will give you all the money you want and pay you what you usually make in one shift. I'm like alright why not. I reply I will get back to him tomorrow to confirm. The next day I tell him it's X/3hr or Y/4 hr. He doesn't reply right away and then hours later he replies Oh I didn't think it would be like this, I thought we would go on a date. LOL?! I reply well that's how much I usually make in one shift, otherwise I cannot really take time off to go out on a date. He replies That sucks I really wanted to see you. I reply well you can come visit me at the club next Saturday.

Wtf, is it me who's really bad at those things or every customer wants to date a stripper ?! I have some very good regulars I could try turning into sugar daddies, but I have no experience with sugaring, I don't wanna screw up and lose a good stream of income... Of course, since they're so attached they wanna date too, they wouldn't be happy with X amount for a certain number of hours... I guess it would be possible going out with them on dates for awhile, developing a relationship and they will be more willing to spend than asking upfront for money, but I do not have the time for that, my schedule just doesn't allow it, I need to be compensated for my time right away. I can barely work one day per week and I don't even have a social life, so it's either take a night off to go out on a date or go to work... The customers I've seen a few times, also want free dates even when they make it clear they're willing to pay wtf. Maybe I should just give escorting a try, so everything is clear and there's waste of time.

Perhaps I should go back to reading other sections of the forum for advice... I never thought about meeting with customers outside, kept my work life and personal life separate, but the rare times I tried, it always ends like this. Is it just me ???

seashell
05-19-2017, 12:05 PM
^I think in general, it's hard to find guys who are willing to pay the right amount for your time. Most guys would rather get cheap sex than be a sugar daddy. Escorting is much more straightforward. With sugaring, I think you're more likely to get gifts or allowances than an hourly rate. A sugar daddy wants to believe he's "above" paying for an escort/paying by the hour. So you may want to consider it a completely different hustle or do it on the side.

seashell
05-19-2017, 12:10 PM
My petty annoyance today is that I am so over my clip-in hair extensions. I wear them every day and they are just sooo tangly and high maintenance. But if I stopped wearing them, people would notice that my hair is about 6" shorter. Thinking about doing tape-ins...

DonaDiabla
05-19-2017, 12:20 PM
My petty annoyance is vine telling me that my information was expose because of an bug. This why, I got rid of vine :)

Selina M
05-20-2017, 10:16 AM
How come the day you have to be a bridesmaid/makeup artist for a wedding, literally everything happens that makes you late?

whirlerz
05-20-2017, 11:26 AM
Reeeally tired of hearing bout Pip Middleton's every nuance concerning her wedding