View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
audrey_k
10-09-2014, 08:27 AM
^can you not find your own place? I was living with flatmates for the last 6 months and wanted to rip my hair out. I absolutely love having my own place, it's heaven. Otherwise I would make your boundaries more clear, the only people I've ever been able to stand living with were people I barely interacted with.
I woke up with a horrible sore throat today and am totally exhausted, really worried that I am coming down with a bad cold, the fucking week I come back to work after being gone for 5 and a half weeks... ugh. Cancelled my appointments for the day to rest, hoping that gets it... my boyfriend and I are going away with weekend to his best friend's bday where I'm basically meeting all of his friends for the first time, and if I lose my voice, am sneezing and dripping with snot, well it's kind of going to ruin the good impression I was hoping to make! I'm already anxious about meeting all these people anyway, they're older and all established and successful, and I feel like this silly little girl stripper to begin with.
lynn2009
10-09-2014, 03:34 PM
^can you not find your own place? I was living with flatmates for the last 6 months and wanted to rip my hair out. I absolutely love having my own place, it's heaven. Otherwise I would make your boundaries more clear, the only people I've ever been able to stand living with were people I barely interacted with.
It's a month to month lease, thank god, but at this point the soonest I could move out is Dec. 15, which is a horrible time to move with the weather here. I would love my own place though, when I was looking for apartments for moving I found a couple I could afford but they wanted me to come look at it asap and I wasn't in the city then. And now I'd probably have to pay rent on 2 places for 2 weeks since rent at my current place is due in the middle of the month. He's gotten better even, I swear when I first moved in he would LITERALLY text me 30x a day with the dumbest shit, I don't think a solid 12 hours went by without something from him for over 2 weeks. So last week I finally told him that he needs to stop, even people I consider my best friends from college I could go weeks without talking to if there's just nothing going on and we are busy, we are all just such independent people. But barely interacting sounds so nice.. Trying to force someone to be your BFF the second you meet just does NOT work and it's got to end. I've decided I'm going to start wearing headphones whenever I do need to be in the kitchen at the same time as him or whatever.
simone87
10-09-2014, 03:58 PM
my club just started the new "rule" where if you walk in, you have to stay the entire shift!! WHY?? you aren't scheduled, you should be able to come and go..what they should have done it put a fucking cap on the amount of dancers, but no of course they won't do what actually needs to be done. that, and i've been talking to new girls and they say that we are getting seriously fucked at my club..they say they've never heard of a house fee that high. and i haven't been making good money there anymore..350 on a weekend?? i want SO bad to find a different place but that would mean driving long distances..seriously thinking about it though, this is getting ridiculous. i may just need a good change :)
lol1337a
10-11-2014, 02:27 AM
My IRA went down a lot!!!
Grrrrr
Emotional investors do the worst so I won't touch it unless I'm destitute. But it was turning a pretty nice profit this year!
OliveJardin
10-11-2014, 09:11 AM
Having major problems with my kitten now that I'm working again. He is the biggest drama queen ever, 20 hours of the day he can run around to his heart's content, but for the 4 hours he has to stay in the bathroom he whines like he's being tortured with a chain saw. I don't know what to do because it's a SERIOUS turn off to my clients....
Oh dear, what breed is he? I have a Burmese-he is sooo vocal (it shocked me at first lol). Hopefully he will grow out of it. Feliway spray/air diffuser is supposed to calm them, it may help (or something similar).
chanzep
10-11-2014, 09:15 AM
Im so tired and need a month off from work and I need to live alone, My flatmate is back now and Im fed up, im sure he is happy tho as Im always out at work or school, grr.
Tsepmet1
10-11-2014, 11:40 AM
I'm about to rage-quit my club. It's the only club option in my area. I only have 2-4 months left in this city so I need to be strong.
KikiGem
10-12-2014, 01:22 AM
This is not petty, this asshole really fucked with me tonight..
Sitting at the bar at my club. I did not initiate a conversation with this old fool. He starts it with me, by saying, "You're kinda pretty." He proceeds to bombard me with ridiculous questions that he did not let me answer. "Who's that guy? Is that your boss? Yes, no? Do you drink? How do you get around in bars? Do you know how to talk to people in bars?" I say no, I'm not a fucking barfly and I'm 19, don't drink. He repeats the same question. Ridiculous fucking shit. He would not shut his fucking mouth.
Then he says, "I'm either going to get inside your head, or make you mad. I do that because you don't wanna be in this industry." Then he sticks out his tongue and blows it like a raspberry in my face. I excuse myself to 'get something I left in the DR.' He knows I'm done and not coming back, and says "I hope I didn't make you mad."
WTF asshole?
Laylalust
10-12-2014, 02:33 PM
Nothing but guilt trips lately. Last night I bailed on a party my friends had that I had RSVPed yes to. I had worked the day shift at the club, 12:30-7:30, and got home right before the party was about to start. It was a "zombie prom" themed party so I had to figure out an outfit and zombify my makeup AND my boyfriend's for the party. I had nothing prom-dressy and I didn't know where my old zombie makeup kit was. I was also exhausted and socially spent...I did not want to talk to more people that night; my precious introvert life force had already been drained! I felt sooo guilty, especially as friends were texting me "where are you" but I just did not want to go. Maybe if it had been on a night when I hadn't worked...I turned off my phone last night so I wouldn't have to deal with people and crashed around 10:00.
Today I sent a mass text to my friends apologizing and claiming that I came home and immediately passed out although I had had the intention of going. Nobody has replied to me. I'm sure I'm just a selfish flake in their eyes now, even though I make plenty of social gatherings with them. I always feel guilty in these situations or when I ignore people's requests to hang out or meet up. I'm just so tired all of the time and anything that involves driving and meeting up with people and spending money...I mean, occasionally it's fine but I just don't always feel up for it. And frankly, after working and making good money yesterday, I still would have chosen that over the party.
But I just loathe feeling like some horrible person because I didn't make it to a party. God dammit.
audrey_k
10-12-2014, 06:56 PM
I seriously cannot drop these 5-7 lbs from the breast augmentation and I hate it, I want so bad to have my old body back with my boobs! I know it seems like a small amount to gain, but 5 lbs just looks like a lot on my frame. I've been dieting like crazy and nothing is working. >:( I'm glad I can at least start going to the gym and exercising now...
My boyfriend is a total geek and has some app attached to his scale that analyzes your weight and body fat, he weighs himself every day because he just loves to use the app, and he's asked me a couple times to weigh myself so he can use the app to see and I screamed at him about it today like a total crazy bitch and told him he was being really rude. I know it doesn't even cross his mind that I would be embarrassed to step on the scale because he thinks I look great, but seriously dude, you don't ask a woman her weight, that's like not-pissing-off-your-girlfriend 101...
Spinnerette
10-13-2014, 12:37 AM
EL James has ruined EVERYTHING. I'm going to hunt her down and stomp her out. If I run across one more profile where the owner references 50 Shades of Grey like that shit is even mildly appealing, I swear...
lol1337a
10-13-2014, 01:49 AM
Audrey: I lost a little bit of weight 2-3 weeks after my surgery because I didn't feel like eating much, but after that I gained the same 5-7. It's driving me insane. I was about to write a post about it here anyway, it would have gone something like this:
I'm on a fat sabbatical. It's because I feel so insecure setting foot in the club that I can't bank without having 7 drinks in me anymore, and getting shitfaced = perpetuating the cycle. I've done literally nothing with myself during fatbattical except waste away due to inaction (lost 6 lbs!). But now my fucking period is coming and I feel like all my progress is going away.
Aniela
10-13-2014, 05:13 AM
I always seem to wake up exactly 3-4hrs after going to sleep, unless I've pulled smtg like a 30+ hr all-nighter. I hate that I cannot seem to sleep thru for a solid 6-8hrs, I am not even needing to hit the toilet or anything at that 3-4hr mark -- my body just comes up from sleep on its own, then takes another 30min to go back to sleep & I am dead to the world for another 6+hrs.
chanzep
10-13-2014, 03:23 PM
had a horrible day then went to work and someone had taken 1 of my shoes, I had to leave because I had no other shoes there, I am so tired and glad for the day off was tired from school, my boyf is majorley pissing me off we are probably over, I feel tired burntout and upset grr.
audrey_k
10-14-2014, 04:54 AM
^hope you feel better babe, send me a pm or msg if you want talk. xXx
michele11
10-14-2014, 02:02 PM
I am so pissed right now i could scream and cry! I went for my 2 week check up for my arm and oh guess what I need surgery and immediatley ( that's what they told me in M.B). I was going to leave monday to work like 10 shifts and I asked if I could wait until then and he said no. He doesn't do surgery anymore( found that out today) and I said I told you this and he said well the bone usually doesn't shorten in woman so young. And my wrist is healing with a bend. great 3 days short of three weeks. Will it ever heal right, I"m thinking now? Wtf! I have to start all over? I go tomorrow to talk to the new doctor and 9:45am and I need to go to the orher side of town at 8 to drop off my cat for nuetering! This fucken sucks! I was off all of sep and only worked 2 days this month and wanted to redo my boobs the end of nov. Now it's all screwed up
michele11
10-14-2014, 02:05 PM
And I can't go get snacks because it's pouring and I can't get my cast wet! Probably for the better since I've been eating whole boxes of gold fish and last night I had that and 10 choclate chip cookies and the night before I had cheezits and 3 edwards pies.
tuesdaymarie
10-14-2014, 02:18 PM
More: Currently dealing with the second yeast infection I've EVER had in my life. It's my sugar addiction. This summer has stressed me the hell out so what do I do? Inhale sweets. I fiend for them. Dots jelly candies and RedBull Blue Edition are my new religion. But that seems to mean itchy, burny bits. This fucking sucks. I don't even like sugar!
ETA: I REALLY want an Arizona Green Tea right now (something else I also gave up years ago in favor of brewing hot green tea and drinking it plain).
I got two yeast infections this year--my first ever--from a medication. I'm still on the meds, but if I take a probiotic supplement with it, I don't have an issue. I got the second one when I ran out of my supplement and didn't take it for a week, so I'm a solid supporter of it.
My bitch is that I am exhausted and do not comprehend how someone can be as loud and inconsiderate as my neighbor. I just want to curl in a ball and sleep/cry.
tuesdaymarie
10-14-2014, 02:20 PM
I always seem to wake up exactly 3-4hrs after going to sleep, unless I've pulled smtg like a 30+ hr all-nighter. I hate that I cannot seem to sleep thru for a solid 6-8hrs, I am not even needing to hit the toilet or anything at that 3-4hr mark -- my body just comes up from sleep on its own, then takes another 30min to go back to sleep & I am dead to the world for another 6+hrs.
That's actually supposedly our natural sleep cycle. Documents suggest people used to sleep for like four hours, have an hour to read or eat or whatever, then go back to sleep for round two!
Aniela
10-14-2014, 03:54 PM
That's actually supposedly our natural sleep cycle. Documents suggest people used to sleep for like four hours, have an hour to read or eat or whatever, then go back to sleep for round two!
No kidding! Where can I find sm of these articles?! I have always been a 'nite person' anyway so dancing was ideal bc of that, but the last couple yrs trying to get myself into a 'normal' sleep cycle has just been impossible. I feel like I am constantly outdoing myself when it comes to mucking it up. After a lifetime of being told that we are supposed to 'go to sleep & stay asleep' I would be curious to read up more on this idea that a '2 part' sleep cycle is actually the way to go.
tuesdaymarie
10-14-2014, 04:17 PM
^http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Segmented_sleep
http://slumberwise.com/science/your-ancestors-didnt-sleep-like-you/
http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-16964783
These are the tops results when I google "second sleep." I couldn't remember the exact terminology, but good ol' Google knew what I meant.
lol1337a
10-14-2014, 04:31 PM
I'd be okay with my second sleep if I didn't wake up with horrible anxiety and a migraine most of the time. It takes 3+ hours to go back to sleep (if at all) unless I take a benzo. Guess what I do most days? The eating thing is interesting because I can only fall back asleep after a snack regardless of the benzo. Maybe it's partially related to blood sugar.
For those of you who experience this sleep pattern, does it bother you, or is it just me? For something that's apparently natural, it causes me a lot of physical and a little emotional distress.
Spinnerette
10-14-2014, 10:03 PM
I got two yeast infections this year--my first ever--from a medication. I'm still on the meds, but if I take a probiotic supplement with it, I don't have an issue. I got the second one when I ran out of my supplement and didn't take it for a week, so I'm a solid supporter of it.
My first yeast infection was from over treatment with antibiotics too! Grrr. I was upset about that because it seems like once you get one, you'll just all of a sudden be prone to them. That's what it seemed like from my research. :( I'm usually naked when I'm at home, but since I currently live with other people, it's not an option. I'm bad and own too many pairs of panties that are primarily spandex. Def taking you ladies' rec on the garlic pills.
My current annoyance: More sugar daddy shit. Talking to a splenda asshole who really thought I was going drive 40 minutes twice a week just to fuck him. Please. This guy has seen me and therefore he knows good and goddamn well getting sex isn't a problem for me (at ALL) and back when I DID charge, it was a helluva lot more than what averages out to roughly 106 bucks an hour. Miss me with it.
lynn2009
10-15-2014, 04:30 AM
Omg, woke up with a horrible ear infection today, what is going on with me!!!! I don't have time for this!!
KikiGem
10-15-2014, 12:55 PM
Super petty but there is this 'stripper duo' of 'besties' at my club who will take up ridiculous amounts of space in the DR with oversized makeup bags, suitcases full of outfits, miscellaneous bags and purses, shoes, the works. So with all this stuff I'm thinking, 'man, these bitches go all out! I bet they look bomb!'
That was before I met the chicks behind the U-haul of crap. One girl always wears thick black eyeliner, and a cakey, powdery face of makeup. She wears a basic bikini and basic heels. The other, kinda red-faced without makeup, and minimal eyeliner, wears a civilian bra and high waisted shorts wedging between her ass cheeks. They do not change outfits through out the night. I was kinda disappointed, lol!
audrey_k
10-16-2014, 03:52 AM
So frustrated... now that I'm trying to fit in bookings, my phone is dead. Yesterday I only had 6 requests for bookings, 2 of which disappeared before I could book, I saw two, the other two wanted evening bookings, and then two of my regulars wanted to book for the evening. I'm trying to keep my bookings during the day, since my bf either comes over here in the evening or I go over there, I hate getting to his place at 10pm because we stay up too late and he's exhausted the next morning. But everyone who does want to book wants to book in the evening... and today, not one requests yet (altho I guess it's still early).
I've hardly made any money since I got back, after paying off my bills and buying some necessities I've got like $600 in the bank account for savings. I'm going to have to work like crazy for my last two weeks, but with the amount of calls I'm getting, I'm worried that won't be an option! Some of my clients warned me it might be slow in the beginning, but I already have a good review posted on a forum and it wasn't slow last week, so I don't understand what's going on. I've searched the internet for anything negative written about me and can't find a fucking thing.
Oh, and I woke up with TERRIBLE pink eye today, so I guess maybe it's for the best no one is booking.
simone87
10-16-2014, 11:27 AM
no birthday sex :( now i'm gonna have to get childish and cut you off for a week lol
wednesday86
10-16-2014, 12:47 PM
no birthday sex :( now i'm gonna have to get childish and cut you off for a week lol
Aww! *HUGS*
wednesday86
10-16-2014, 12:57 PM
Okay, so lately I've been annoyed with people on facebook like crazy. I probably just need to delete it for a while or something...First there were the stripper jokes which I've already bitched about on here. Now there are 2 obvious narcissists that I've un-followed today because they are grating my nerves.
One girl used to be really pretty/skinny but just had a baby, so naturally she's a little fat right now. No big deal, but she can't deal with it so she is CONSTANTLY posting up selfies of herself in full make up, at different angles to make herself look skinnier. It's just sad. Shouldn't she be more concerned with...I don't know....HER NEWBORN BABY?! She is obviously desperate for attention and it's pathetic.
The other narcissist is one of my husband's friends...this one is actually married with a kid but still an idiot. He thinks he's some kind of famous filmmaker (in reality he works in an office) constantly posting clips of himself and his kid that no one watches...constantly self promotes himself--all day every day. He just shot a "movie" and gave like hour by the hour updates about it. 0 likes. 0 comments. Dude, no one gives a shit. I've tried watching his "films" before and they're boring as fuck. Why would I want to watch you and your wife and kid rake leaves in your yard for 15 minutes? Stop filling my newfeed with this shit EVERY FUCKING DAY!
lynn2009
10-16-2014, 03:43 PM
I deleted facebook 2 years ago, I brought it back for a couple of weeks last fall before remembering what a useless POS it is. People are so braggy, only portraying the best of themselves, desperate for validation of their life choices, I cannot deal w/ it.
Spinnerette
10-16-2014, 04:11 PM
Lmao, I called him out on what he wrote in his ad about "going out and travel" because he was like, "Oh, you want that?" and I was like duh, I wouldn't have replied if all you had indicated that all you were looking for was sex. I haven't been laid in 5 months so I'm being very generous with my patience towards him not at all meeting my standards (his grammar is impeccable), but come the fuck on. Intimacy is not a problem for me, I know how the game works, but what he wants is an escort on (the CHEAPEST) retainer. Nope. I wasn't bullshitting when I said I sugar in order to add something to my life and taking flaccid dick for a c-note is not it.
I'm pretty sure I'm the reason men have an age cut-off when it comes to this. The better to take advantage of you, my dear...
ETA: I think he's being legit in that he's a newbie. He's changed his tone and seems earnest in wanting to do this properly so annoyance abated, for the time being. :)
michele11
10-16-2014, 05:15 PM
Okay, so lately I've been annoyed with people on facebook like crazy. I probably just need to delete it for a while or something...First there were the stripper jokes which I've already bitched about on here. Now there are 2 obvious narcissists that I've un-followed today because they are grating my nerves.
One girl used to be really pretty/skinny but just had a baby, so naturally she's a little fat right now. No big deal, but she can't deal with it so she is CONSTANTLY posting up selfies of herself in full make up, at different angles to make herself look skinnier. It's just sad. Shouldn't she be more concerned with...I don't know....HER NEWBORN BABY?! She is obviously desperate for attention and it's pathetic.
The other narcissist is one of my husband's friends...this one is actually married with a kid but still an idiot. He thinks he's some kind of famous filmmaker (in reality he works in an office) constantly posting clips of himself and his kid that no one watches...constantly self promotes himself--all day every day. He just shot a "movie" and gave like hour by the hour updates about it. 0 likes. 0 comments. Dude, no one gives a shit. I've tried watching his "films" before and they're boring as fuck. Why would I want to watch you and your wife and kid rake leaves in your yard for 15 minutes? Stop filling my newfeed with this shit EVERY FUCKING DAY!
Yes facebook annoys me! Really crazy story. This guy who's friends with my first love sent me a friend request like a year ago. ( i get like 10 requests a moth from people in other countries and dudes I have no mutual friends with, a little like 12 year old boy sent me one last night.LOL) have no idea how they find me. Anyways I accepted Daniels request because he always posted really positive stuff and seemed nice ( he just got custody of his little boy) well he was charged with first degree murder yesterday. Wacky. I saw the story about the guy being found dead in his truck and it showed his brother talking saying what a familly man the guy was and not into drugs. Etc. Sad his last post was a pic of him and his son at chucky cheese.
michele11
10-16-2014, 05:33 PM
I'm so depressed I can't even get out of bed. I can't believe after 2 weeks in a cast, they now say I need surgery! A fucken plate in my wrist that never comes out. THe volar plate. I've been doing research and with my OCD I can't have that! I'll never use my arm for fear it'll pop out. There's high rate of complications and my wrist is like 1and 1/2 across. How will that fit!?! I was so pissed my guy doesn't operate anymore! I told them They requested surgery for me in M.B. I'd be back to work now if that happened. Now I'm probably not even going to be able to go back for 4 months because by the time I"M ready there's no where I go! I wanna killl someone!!! I"m going to withdrawl from pain pills. I"ve been on them almost 3 weeks andd they were going to do my surgery monday and I hate my fucken insurance! The primary has to ok everything for you to do anything! The place is gross! I satfor 2 hours at the orthopedic forthem to say I needed to go to my primary for a referal. I kept asking the girl at the desk when I would be seen and she said next. I was freacking in there! I said I"M not leaving with out being seen! I was going to leave monday and work 10 days until I get told tuesday" OH no you need surgery"> Really I fucken told you that 2 weeks ago!I feel like suing I make 4-5 grand a week right now and I"ve missed 3 weeks. I was so mad I almost walked out and was just going to go. How worse can it get? I can't now because they took the cast of and put this flimsy thing so they can do surgery monday and if I wanted they said they can't because Humana hasn't gotten back to them! I'm thinking of doing research and healing myself naturally but it looks like a dummy arm, all ugly now. Maybe that'll go away? I can't even get out of bed. What;s the point I can't do my normal things. I had to see a different doctor when I came back not the hand specialist since I insisted on being seen since I waited two hours. He was like a frat boy customer. I told him I was suppose to see Dr. Williams and what happened and he said " you can have him do it if you want BUT I do that surgery too and I"M an MD not a DO. I know DO has less schooling but who says that about your coleauge? He also said they would allow me to dance with a cast" trust me I know".LOL. I hate life ATM!
Selina M
10-16-2014, 08:56 PM
I feel like I'm turning into a psychotic nut job. Maybe it's just That Time of the Month, but for fucks sake.
After dealing with people hemming and hawing about plans for tomorrow night, I wanted to come home and eat dinner with bf... and he suddenly needs to go downtown to give some guy in his class tools... to fix a project... that he told them wouldn't work and offered an alternative they wouldn't take even though it's like 99% likely to actually work... which is due tomorrow morning. Bf has no car so either I drive him or I wait 2 hours for him to take the bus. I flipped out and started screaming about why can't this guy take a fucking cab over here and get it himself, why did his dumbass wait until the night before it's due, etc etc. Which are all valid points, but my reaction was totally disproportionate. I'm still sitting here trying not to cry.
I think I just hate other people and am so tired of going out of my way to help them, that it pissed me off that he still does. I rarely get anything in return from anyone I do anything for, so I've been saying "fuck them" for the last year, and it annoys me now when anyone else is helpful.
Selina M
10-17-2014, 09:34 AM
^ Depression is really hard to deal with because you can't explain it to people, they can't see any symptoms, and they just want to tell you to get over it. You don't owe an explanation to anybody though.
On that topic, my other petty annoyance right now is my oldest friend. She's always been really shy but has gotten super bad about it the last few years. She has panic attacks frequently and is always bailing out on plans because at the last minute the idea of going out freaks her out.
I felt bad and pitied her for a long time, but it's getting old. She'll convince me to make plans; "Yeah great idea! Let's do it next weekend!" and then the day before she cancels. Yet every time she calls me up sobbing over something, I let her come over and cry about it. She won't get help either; she'll go to a psych for a few sessions but hides stuff from them, so they tell her they can't help her; she'll take a medication for 2 weeks and then quit it saying it's not working (even when they're the long-acting kind that take a month to start working); she even had her mother drive her into a mental hospital one day where she then refused to tell the doctors much so they wouldn't admit her.
I mean, I get it, I have anxiety and panic attacks myself, but there's plenty of help available and she's just being so difficult about it. It makes me wonder if it's just excuses and she wants attention. Gah.
lynn2009
10-17-2014, 01:29 PM
I just missed my yandy.com delivery by I swear 2 minutes, damn it!!!!
Tsepmet1
10-17-2014, 02:31 PM
I don't want to go back to my club tonight because I'm still really upset about what happened last week. I almost hopped on a plane to Vegas today, but I wouldn't be able to get my sheriffs card until Monday.
Also had a customer send flowers to my club today which was super nice of him, but since I don't get along with the gm he just kind of rolled his eyes at me when I went to pick them up. It's just adding to my "I don't want to fucking be here" feelings.
lynn2009
10-17-2014, 02:53 PM
Omfg now I can't find 2 of my thongs, what the hell!!
ScarletKitten
10-17-2014, 04:46 PM
I'm so depressed I can't even get out of bed. I can't believe after 2 weeks in a cast, they now say I need surgery! A fucken plate in my wrist that never comes out. THe volar plate. I've been doing research and with my OCD I can't have that! I'll never use my arm for fear it'll pop out. There's high rate of complications and my wrist is like 1and 1/2 across. How will that fit!?! I was so pissed my guy doesn't operate anymore! I told them They requested surgery for me in M.B. I'd be back to work now if that happened. Now I'm probably not even going to be able to go back for 4 months because by the time I"M ready there's no where I go! I wanna killl someone!!! I"m going to withdrawl from pain pills. I"ve been on them almost 3 weeks andd they were going to do my surgery monday and I hate my fucken insurance! The primary has to ok everything for you to do anything! The place is gross! I satfor 2 hours at the orthopedic forthem to say I needed to go to my primary for a referal. I kept asking the girl at the desk when I would be seen and she said next. I was freacking in there! I said I"M not leaving with out being seen! I was going to leave monday and work 10 days until I get told tuesday" OH no you need surgery"> Really I fucken told you that 2 weeks ago!I feel like suing I make 4-5 grand a week right now and I"ve missed 3 weeks. I was so mad I almost walked out and was just going to go. How worse can it get? I can't now because they took the cast of and put this flimsy thing so they can do surgery monday and if I wanted they said they can't because Humana hasn't gotten back to them! I'm thinking of doing research and healing myself naturally but it looks like a dummy arm, all ugly now. Maybe that'll go away? I can't even get out of bed. What;s the point I can't do my normal things. I had to see a different doctor when I came back not the hand specialist since I insisted on being seen since I waited two hours. He was like a frat boy customer. I told him I was suppose to see Dr. Williams and what happened and he said " you can have him do it if you want BUT I do that surgery too and I"M an MD not a DO. I know DO has less schooling but who says that about your coleauge? He also said they would allow me to dance with a cast" trust me I know".LOL. I hate life ATM!
I'm so sorry you're going through all this. Just too much shit at once! Your arm should heal in due time. But for now, try reading a good book. When I'm sick/ bedridden, all I can do is read. Getting lost in a good book will make you forget your problems and pain. *hugs* I hope you feel better love.
wednesday86
10-17-2014, 05:08 PM
Petty annoyance of the day:
I went to my friend's hair school to go from red to blonde. She's already at a salon but has to finish up her hours at this school, and told me to go there so it would be cheaper. She's done my hair before, did a really good job so I trust her. We've been talking for 2 weeks about this hair transformation.
So one of her "instructors" is "helping" and goes "You know, if you came to my house for this job I would charge you $700. You're so lucky we're only charging $85. I usually don't even touch clients who have had box color."
I haven't used box color in over a year when I was completely broke and desperate, but thanks for rubbing that in my face? I guess it's a good thing I came to see my already established colorist and NOT you, Ms. hairdresser-I've-never-heard-of. Get over yourself bitch.
whirlerz
10-17-2014, 05:37 PM
Yea^. Along similar line, I'd gone to a hair stylist in the city to fix a bad touch up job..I liked what he did so I went again. Well, normally I do my own touch ups, my hair grows fast, but last week I felt like having him do it..I call & he's off for the day. The guy who answers the phone: "well, you know we're all getting busy so you have to book ahead/ be flexible w/your time..blah blah etc." ::)
Who the fuck isn't busy?}:D
So, I looked up a nearby salon on Yelp, I paid a little more cause I had additional foils + the touch up, but overall she's cheaper, did an excellent job, & I don't have to drive out to the city/pay parking/take hours + of extra time for all that, etc.
So yeah, get over yourself, exactly!
Also, I'm really upset that my big cactus died:'(
KikiGem
10-17-2014, 06:38 PM
^^ I am a 'stylist in training' and sadly a LOT of hairdressers have this weird ego. My friend who is not even a third of the way through already thinks she does 'master stylist' work and puts down other girls in the program, including me!
Once when I let her do my eyebrows, she plucked a freaking gap right in the front of my right brow. Then, when we practiced facials, she skipped most of the steps, and squished the hot towel on my face with force like she was trying to close a stubborn treasure chest. So no, not a master stylist quite yet my dear...
My annoyance is freaking MANAGERS. Uggh they infuriate me! For once in the history of the universe, my club is *not* overcrowded with girls, and they want to freaking change that! Lately, this club has 'cleaned up' a lot and stopped hiring everyone that walked through the door... they better fucking keep it that way though, but I'm scared they won't.
I am so tired of listening to them talk about what they 'need': 'We need more girls' 'We need you to work a dead ass shift that is already full of girls' Ugh I don't give a shit about what you guys need! You all have your cover charges, your drink sales, your salaries... oh yeah you 'need' so much. I NEED to make money. If they flood the floor with girls and we all lose. :/
simone87
10-17-2014, 09:39 PM
i totally spaced having to work the dayshift today because i'm so used to my regular set schedule, so now i have to work halloween dayshift nooooo. but its either that or pay 150 dollars on top of my regular house fee next time i come in. i just have to get home fast to take my kid trick r treating and have some fun. its literally my favorite day of the entire year, that's like working on christmas to me!! just gotta suck it up. grateful she let me pick up another day instead of charging me that ridiculous fee.
Aniela
10-17-2014, 11:26 PM
I went to Miami for PT ystrday & it turned out to cost me 8hrs of nothingness bc I was not told until I arrived at the office that they were not doing it after all. :banghead: Motherfuckers, I drive roughly 3hrs EACH WAY to make your damn required meetings, all three of you (recruiters) have my number, what the everliving fk is wrong w/ you guys?! It's roughly 3hrs when traffic doesn't suck monkey balls, & it did going up.
That was my main annoyance, but it turned out to be good that I didn't have to do PT bc of annoyance #2: my hip hurts like hell. All I ended up doing as far as physical activity was sm very light stretching, & walking a few hrs after that, nothing strenuous -- but it was enough to irritate my groin/hip area where I pulled it a few yrs ago. It almost always hurts after exercising no matter what I do to protect it, & when I stand sm times there is a sharp pain in the joint. The pain is very brief & isn't a big deal anyway since I have a pretty high pain tolerance, it's that if I try to walk b4 that pain settles, the joint buckles. I would be hurting a lot more right now if they had made me run. I feel like such a bag of bones.
wednesday86
10-18-2014, 11:36 AM
^^ I am a 'stylist in training' and sadly a LOT of hairdressers have this weird ego. My friend who is not even a third of the way through already thinks she does 'master stylist' work and puts down other girls in the program, including me!
Once when I let her do my eyebrows, she plucked a freaking gap right in the front of my right brow. Then, when we practiced facials, she skipped most of the steps, and squished the hot towel on my face with force like she was trying to close a stubborn treasure chest. So no, not a master stylist quite yet my dear...
My annoyance is freaking MANAGERS. Uggh they infuriate me! For once in the history of the universe, my club is *not* overcrowded with girls, and they want to freaking change that! Lately, this club has 'cleaned up' a lot and stopped hiring everyone that walked through the door... they better fucking keep it that way though, but I'm scared they won't.
I am so tired of listening to them talk about what they 'need': 'We need more girls' 'We need you to work a dead ass shift that is already full of girls' Ugh I don't give a shit about what you guys need! You all have your cover charges, your drink sales, your salaries... oh yeah you 'need' so much. I NEED to make money. If they flood the floor with girls and we all lose. :/
OMG that's happening at my club too! We already have MORE THAN ENOUGH GIRLS yet they keep hiring more and more. They're trying to get us to recruit our friends and shit...One of the main reasons I've left other clubs is because they were overcrowded with girls.
chanzep
10-18-2014, 11:52 AM
So I have only just noticed that I always get burn out in October, its probably because I spend the Summer working alot because its bad then try to carry on up until Christmas, Im normally ok once November hits but I have been dancing for 10 years and been going thru this for atleast 6 years and only now I notice!, taking a some time off the club and gona still do the dive, going to enjoy a Saturday night in.
tuesdaymarie
10-18-2014, 08:23 PM
My SIL is in real estate, so when I asked her a general question about finding a rental home, she said she wanted to do our contract and stuff. I agreed because she's family, and I don't want my pumpkin pie spat in this Thanksgiving. But she is being really unhelpful, and I constantly feel like I'm bothering her. If I were a real estate agent working with a couple that had only rented apartments before, I'd be like, "Yo bitches, this is what's totally different, and here's what you should expect. This is a general timeline of how soon you should start applying for houses given the average time they stay on the market in the area you're interested in, and when you do find a home you're interested in, this is how shit's gonna go down. You got me? Hit me with some questions. Let's fuck this bitch, right?" But she's just like, "Oh, they probably won't let you get it since you're not moving for another 3.5 weeks. They probably already have someone lined up." Errr...kay? Can we call and check? Can I call the agent? "No, if you call the agent then I don't get the commission!" Okay, well if no one calls the agent, I don't get a fucking roof over my head next month, so apparently we both have an issue here. So I finally got her to schedule some viewings tomorrow, but she's not even mapping our stops till tomorrow because she was "mega late for a bday party." And I can't even bitch to anyone, because for whatever reason everyone just likes to pretend like dropping family is such an easy and obvious solution.
~*SwanPrincess*~
10-19-2014, 12:35 AM
I was sitting at the bar having a drink with a customer I KNOW will spend decent $ on me, and the DJ strolls over. It's pretty well known that this particular customer is very wealthy, and the DJ tells him to go "empty his wallet on the stage" for a new girl who was dancing. My customer seemed unimpressed and didn't even look to see who the girl was, so the DJ shouts "LOOK AT HER!!!! SHES SOOO HOT!!!!"
He then goes on and on about how "hot" she is, and whines he wishes he were a customer so he could get a dance with her.
My customer told him he doesn't like amateurs with the barely legal look, and preferred to spend his time and money on someone more seasoned like me, since I know what Im doing and can hold an actual conversation.
I was pissed! How fucking unprofessional of him. Unprofessional to interrupt me and my customer, and very unprofessional to comment on one of the dancers like that.
I almost let it effect me. I think it was only natural after something like that to feel like chopped liver for a second :(
I wanted to talk to my manager about what happened, but ended up being super busy for my whole shift and forgot. I may still say something though. What happened didn't sit well with me at ALL.
Tsepmet1
10-19-2014, 07:19 AM
I'm done. I'm fucking done. This city and all the people in it can go to hell. I'm packing a bag and going on a strip trip.
lynn2009
10-19-2014, 07:26 AM
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