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baer45
06-07-2017, 02:08 PM
I have applied a position last week and talked with HR for the first round of phone interview. Was informed by the HR that he would let me know whether things will go any further.

Today I received this email a moment ago:
"I'm writing to update you on your recent phone interview with Julie and Nish. The feedback received from your phone interview was positive and I'm writing to let you know that you'll be contacted by Kate Smartone regarding scheduling logistics for on site interviews."

Yes, this is the position I applied for. And No, I have never talked with Julie and Nish. The HR simply sent the wrong email to me.
I think I have the right to get pissed here. >:(>:(>:(

Aurora_Sunset
06-08-2017, 07:31 AM
I'm thinking of blowing off a new client tonight. People who act like this just give me a bad feeling.

He contacted me probably a good month ago, saying he would be in town this week for a business trip. Everything seemed to check out, and I told him to let me know if he was for sure coming as it got closer (since business plans change sometimes). He did last week, and we went back and forth quite a bit trying to find a good day and time that worked for both of us. First he wanted me to come up really late last Friday night when he first got in. Which barely even made sense because he said his flight got in at 4pm and was like "with checking into the hotel and showering and eating, let's make it 11pm?" What?? You need 7 HOURS to get from the airport, check into your hotel, and shower? Like, I understand giving yourself some cushion, but that's just weird...

I said I couldn't do that late on Friday, he asked about Wednesday (last night), I said I was never available on Wednesday evenings. We discussed a few more times that didn't work for me, and finally officially landed on 9:30pm Thursday (tonight). I gave him my work number and told him he could text me the day of to confirm and discuss further details. He randomly fucking texted me at 1am Monday night, telling me what hotel he was in, but never identifying himself in the text so I had no idea who was texting me this information, so I just ignored it. Then I woke up to a text first thing yesterday morning, finally identifying himself, and asking if I was available between 11am-1pm. I said no. Then he asked "Ok, this evening?" What? No. I already said I wasn't available on Wednesday evening. I repeated this. So he goes "Darn! Ok, 11am-1pm tomorrow?" .... I say no, I wouldn't even be able to get out of my house until at least 5pm. So he says "Ok, that works."

Just... :O I don't understand the clients who do this shit. We went back and forth SO many times picking out an official day and time for our appointment. Why would you keep texting me random times trying to shove something else onto the schedule last minute as though we've never discussed this? What the fuck is the point of planning an appointment if you're not going to adhere to it? I understand if something were to come up, and to ask if I would be ok with rescheduling - but this behavior is just bizarre and annoying.

It makes me feel like they don't actually respect me as a professional person that they set an appointment with. Because, come on, you wouldn't do this in any other scenario in which you schedule an appointment with someone. So why they think it's appropriate with a provider makes me believe that they will not be a respectful client in person.

LoveyDovey
06-08-2017, 07:59 AM
Dear H&M, WHY is your sizing so damn small? I ordered at size 28 jeans thinking they'd fit since I wear a 27, but no. I have to exchange for a size 30!! WHY CAN'T THEY MAKE IT EASY??

Aurora_Sunset
06-08-2017, 08:00 AM
I'm also sick of telling one of my friends any good news about my life and having him making passive-aggressive statements about how whatever it is isn't that great before being like "But I'm so happy for you!"

I messaged him yesterday to tell him about my new apartment, going on about how nice it was and how excited I was. He recognized the floorplan I described and said he knew which complex I was talking about because he has 2 social work clients there. Then goes on to say "Yeah... it's not the nicest place. The people there are kinda sketchy, but I guess it's ok."

Like, bitch.... This guy currently lives in an old, small townhouse with street-parking (where my car got egged the last time I parked it there) in a really shitty part of town (I walked ONE MILE down his street early one evening, wearing jeans, a zipped up jacket, and tactical boots, and got cat-called 4 times), and pays only slightly less than I'll be paying for my nice, spacious 2 bedroom apartment with decent management, a parking lot, and near the mall and rich part of the city. He's been trying to get me to move into his squicky complex for months, and now he's trash-talking the nicer place that I landed on? lol ok...

Then he ONCE AGAIN asked if I had "found a job yet." He knows I escort. We had a conversation a couple months ago where I told him about my bf and I arguing, and he asked if I wanted to quit escorting, and I very clearly said "No." Then I left his place, and on the drive home, he started sending me texts listing all the shitty restaurants nearby who needed waitresses, and has been asking me at least every other week since then how my "job search" is going and if I've found a job in the city yet.

Seriously, wtf?

WendiStarr
06-08-2017, 08:43 AM
I'm thinking of blowing off a new client tonight. People who act like this just give me a bad feeling.

He contacted me probably a good month ago, saying he would be in town this week for a business trip. Everything seemed to check out, and I told him to let me know if he was for sure coming as it got closer (since business plans change sometimes). He did last week, and we went back and forth quite a bit trying to find a good day and time that worked for both of us. First he wanted me to come up really late last Friday night when he first got in. Which barely even made sense because he said his flight got in at 4pm and was like "with checking into the hotel and showering and eating, let's make it 11pm?" What?? You need 7 HOURS to get from the airport, check into your hotel, and shower? Like, I understand giving yourself some cushion, but that's just weird...

I said I couldn't do that late on Friday, he asked about Wednesday (last night), I said I was never available on Wednesday evenings. We discussed a few more times that didn't work for me, and finally officially landed on 9:30pm Thursday (tonight). I gave him my work number and told him he could text me the day of to confirm and discuss further details. He randomly fucking texted me at 1am Monday night, telling me what hotel he was in, but never identifying himself in the text so I had no idea who was texting me this information, so I just ignored it. Then I woke up to a text first thing yesterday morning, finally identifying himself, and asking if I was available between 11am-1pm. I said no. Then he asked "Ok, this evening?" What? No. I already said I wasn't available on Wednesday evening. I repeated this. So he goes "Darn! Ok, 11am-1pm tomorrow?" .... I say no, I wouldn't even be able to get out of my house until at least 5pm. So he says "Ok, that works."

Just... :O I don't understand the clients who do this shit. We went back and forth SO many times picking out an official day and time for our appointment. Why would you keep texting me random times trying to shove something else onto the schedule last minute as though we've never discussed this? What the fuck is the point of planning an appointment if you're not going to adhere to it? I understand if something were to come up, and to ask if I would be ok with rescheduling - but this behavior is just bizarre and annoying.

It makes me feel like they don't actually respect me as a professional person that they set an appointment with. Because, come on, you wouldn't do this in any other scenario in which you schedule an appointment with someone. So why they think it's appropriate with a provider makes me believe that they will not be a respectful client in person.

I hate potential clients who pull that shit. It is disrespectful and seems like they get some kind of power trip or kick out of playing games and wasting your time. I hate when they act like you have no life other than to cater specifically to them, as if you can just drop all other obligations last minute to accommodate them. That is one of my biggest pet peeves in this industry, right up there with guys who want free shit and ones who want to waste time asking a bunch of stupid questions or trying to engage me in pointless, idle chit chat but not actually set an appointment.

miss.a.p1600
06-08-2017, 08:50 AM
I find this to be true of like 90% of men. The fuckers be so entitled they think you are so thirsty and going to drop everything for them like bish please I'd rather be washing my hair or some mundane task then dealing with your smog ass

Aurora_Sunset
06-08-2017, 08:51 AM
Dear H&M, WHY is your sizing so damn small? I ordered at size 28 jeans thinking they'd fit since I wear a 27, but no. I have to exchange for a size 30!! WHY CAN'T THEY MAKE IT EASY??

I JUST read an article last night about a woman calling out H&M on their sizing. She was usually a size 12 and had to go up to an 18 to fit into a dress. Their sizes are ridiculous.

miss.a.p1600
06-08-2017, 11:06 AM
Me vs. male ego ....... grrrrrr!!!

DonaDiabla
06-08-2017, 11:26 AM
I hate when men lied to me about money. If you do not have enough to help me out, than say so and I will keep it moving. :)

whirlerz
06-08-2017, 12:08 PM
I hate when men lied to me about money. If you do not have enough to help me out, than say so and I will keep it moving. :)

Yep. ^On that note, the SD crapped out on me yesterday, most likely due to his goofy aunt, she doesn't/won't drive, has her daughter, granddaughter, & daughters useless boyfriend living w/her some shite cropped up over the full moon & who knows what. :(

DonaDiabla
06-08-2017, 12:15 PM
Awww that sucks girl. :( In my case, I went off on that guy and all the freeloaders yesterday. I feel so much better. :)


Yep. ^On that note, the SD crapped out on me yesterday, most likely due to his goofy aunt, she doesn't/won't drive, has her daughter, granddaughter, & daughters useless boyfriend living w/her some shite cropped up over the full moon & who knows what. :(

LoveyDovey
06-08-2017, 12:19 PM
I JUST read an article last night about a woman calling out H&M on their sizing. She was usually a size 12 and had to go up to an 18 to fit into a dress. Their sizes are ridiculous.

They are!! I went there and in jeans, I'm a 29 even though usually I'm a 27. But anyhow, it's a pain in the ass when you order online and the sizing is wayyy off! They need to do something.

WendiStarr
06-08-2017, 02:23 PM
Sexyjobs needs to stop letting just anybody post jobs on there. I got this message through there today:

Hello Wendi,

My name is John, from M. I. Enterprise

I'm sending this email to confirm that we've received your request.
Let me give you the rest of the promotion details.

Currently we are offering a $100 payment for 15 hours of chatting to members
of the opposite sex on our new dating site.

We are not sure yet if we will need futher participation after that.
The only hours that will count are from Noon to Midnight EST.

Once your account has been designated to a promotional account
you will be able to track your online chat-time from your cPanel.

Here are next steps:

1. Set Up An Account With Your Profile Picture
And Some Personal Interests For Your Profile Here:
==> http://freeofferx.com/freeaccount

2. Send Email Back Saying It`s Completed And Put
"Promotion 299" In The Subject Box.

3. Give Us About 24-72 Hours After That So We Can
Designate Your Profile Into A "Promotional" Account
And You Will Be Set To Go.

Hope to see you on board soon,
John

We've few more positions that are currently available and do not require the following:

Any experience, changing of location or fixed hours (flexible hours available).

You will receive information about them, in the next few days.



Sw Filipa 23/3
Krakow Malopolskie 31-150
POLAND

I googled this 'M. I. Enterprise' and came up with nothing and the wording and such at the bottom was odd. $100 for 15 hours? That's only $6.67(rounded the other 6 up to 7 because I don't like that number..lol). More scammers trying to take advantage of sex workers. Smh.

whirlerz
06-08-2017, 05:09 PM
I can't believe someone actually thinks it's ok & nonprosecutable to not only actively encourage someone to end their life, but listen to them die & do nothing? Riiight>:(

miss.a.p1600
06-08-2017, 09:03 PM
Yeah they may be considering that the dude really was THAT suicidal and was going to off himself whether or not she assisted/encouraged him.

I remember some case where this woman was anorexic and her family tried so hard to keep her alive but every time she got out the hospital she would go right back to starving herself. She felt like a burden on her family and was like next time don't revive me like no feeding tubes. So they went with her wishes because they knew shed be happier in heaven then on earth suffering and constantly being a "burden" on her family.

Maybe just maybe they are looking at it from that angle. You know the whole assisted death thing.

Like if I assist you in doing what you were going to do anyways why should I be held liable sort of thing?

It is shitty though because she posted those mental health memes after the fact but did she try to get him some mental help during his suicidal moments? But like y'all mentioned she could be a sociopath that indirectly took a life

xStacey
06-09-2017, 04:16 AM
When someone wishes you Happy birthday to impress you because they haven't been notified by Facebook and it's not even your birthday or even close and they wished you Happy birthday last year on your wall and your birth date is public information (not the year).

Aurora_Sunset
06-09-2017, 06:02 AM
I ended up blowing off that annoying client.

Like, straight up blew him off - didn't even offer an excuse. I just stayed home and kept ignoring his texts and calls. I turned my phone off eventually lol

I know it was not the most professional thing to do, but I honestly don't care. I read the texts I missed this morning and the last one was "This is unacceptable." Yeah, well, you know what else is unacceptable? Blowing me up for several days in a row, sometimes at ridiculous hours, trying to jerk me around on a different schedule. That is also unprofessional and unacceptable, but I guess those terms only apply to our professional arrangement when I'm the one who acts like an asshole.

BarbieNYC
06-09-2017, 08:37 AM
My hairdresser forgot my 9am appointment and won't tell me what time to come in today so i don't have a way to nap before work -_- i feel like just falling asleep on her and skipping my haircut

*edit as soon as i posted this i got a text from her telling me what time to come in. The universe is funny sometimes

seashell
06-09-2017, 12:40 PM
My roommate is nocturnal and I keep waking up when he has "dinner" at 6am. Grrrr. The past couple days, I went to sleep at 1am, woke up at 6am, tried to sleep for about an hour, gave up and had breakfast, then slept again until 12pm. He's my boyfriend's close friend and he doesn't have a job right now, but he pays rent and is otherwise a decent roommate. I swear even "good" roommates are still hard to put up with.

WendiStarr
06-09-2017, 12:57 PM
Generous client I have cancelled on me last minute. I was really looking forward to using his generosity to fund a hair appointment. I really want to get a keratin straightening treatment on my hair and I know it's going to be expensive because of how long my hair is(down to my ass). I'm disappointed but it just means I better get my ass on cam for a while tonight.

SnuffleUffleGrass
06-09-2017, 04:05 PM
Like, bitch.... This guy currently lives in an old, small townhouse with street-parking (where my car got egged the last time I parked it there) in a really shitty part of town (I walked ONE MILE down his street early one evening, wearing jeans, a zipped up jacket, and tactical boots, and got cat-called 4 times), and pays only slightly less than I'll be paying for my nice, spacious 2 bedroom apartment with decent management, a parking lot, and near the mall and rich part of the city. He's been trying to get me to move into his squicky complex for months, and now he's trash-talking the nicer place that I landed on? lol ok...

Then he ONCE AGAIN asked if I had "found a job yet." He knows I escort. We had a conversation a couple months ago where I told him about my bf and I arguing, and he asked if I wanted to quit escorting, and I very clearly said "No." Then I left his place, and on the drive home, he started sending me texts listing all the shitty restaurants nearby who needed waitresses, and has been asking me at least every other week since then how my "job search" is going and if I've found a job in the city yet.

Seriously, wtf?

What's the story with the egging incident...?

whirlerz
06-09-2017, 04:10 PM
Sigh, no a/c here yet :(

lilylilylily
06-09-2017, 06:31 PM
The last 2 times I worked I had to pick off gum from my shoes yuck

WendiStarr
06-10-2017, 06:04 AM
Guys who entered my room, didn't chat in my room, just immediately took me private. He went cam2cam and I thought he was going to do the typical jackoff while watching me. The dude was just sitting there fully clothed, smiling, not talking, or typing and then he logged off 2 minutes later. What the hell!

Aurora_Sunset
06-10-2017, 08:15 AM
What's the story with the egging incident...?

I don't know why my car specifically was targeted. They only have street parking in front of his complex, and I was surrounded by other cars. But the next morning, I went out and my car had been egged on the rear, roof, and driver's side. I thought they broke my driver's side mirror, but luckily it had just been pushed in really far but still attached and I was able to push it back into place. I looked at the other cars parked on either end of me and they hadn't been touched.

I honestly wondered if it was something to do with the last guy who cat-called me - he slowly creeped by me on the sidewalk just before I got back to the apartment, whistled at me and then asked if I needed a ride. I just looked straight ahead, said "no," and kept walking. I went into the building first, but came back out shortly after to grab something from my car. It felt possible that he was still creeping around and saw that it was my car and got pissed?

But honestly it's just a shitty neighborhood, plus I still have out-of-state license plates, so I would also totally believe that some punk ass kids or drunks were just looking to violate someone's car and they were like "Yeah! Get that out of state one! They probably don't live around here so they'll never track us down!"

My car is still stained with egg. My dad said he'd pressure-wash it tomorrow before I drive home. -_-

carmen_b
06-10-2017, 10:22 AM
^ Not to many so many people in Poly relationships! Lying is just gross .

miss.a.p1600
06-10-2017, 01:31 PM
Sent a Facebook message in the heat of the moment now wishing I never sent it.

If I delete it on my end does that mean it is deleted on their end too? Like if i delete it on my end before they open messenger and have a chance to read it - it should be deleted on their end from viewing right?

Curious if anyone is familiar with the "delete" function on Facebook Messenger/Messages

...welp they saw [email protected]!

I feel like I need an editor to review all my social media and forum posts before they go live.

Oh and I have an ugly neighbor. Not just on the outside but the inside too. T minus 5 months I'm going to move on to greener pastures.

WendiStarr
06-12-2017, 03:21 PM
Last month my biological dad was trying to play the role of father, after this many years of not. I was skeptical because why would a man wait until his daughter is 30 years old to try to be fatherly and pretend to care? He told me all this crap about how he wanted to be in both my and my daughter's lives. Today is his birthday. I remember his birthday even if he has no idea when mine is, other than that it's in March. I tried calling him to tell him happy birthday and no answer so I left a text instead since he told me that he usually responds to texts over calls. Right away his gf/gold digger called me, wanting to know what I wanted. I told her that I wanted to tell him happy birthday. She said that he doesn't want to talk to me and that he said to not bother him. Why the hell did I try to be nice and wish him happy birthday? I don't know. I might as well just delete his number. I give up on any single thread of hope that he's ever going to be the dad that I needed in my life all these years.

seashell
06-12-2017, 03:39 PM
I planned on stripping for the next few months, but I don't think I can bring myself to go back to the strip club. Except to take home my belongings.

Glamourmilf
06-12-2017, 10:19 PM
I was really starting to think that Walmart was my 'jam'.
I bought tons of stuff there when I moved into my new home, for of course at least half of what I would have paid had I paid full retail.
But the last 2 things I bought broke within days of using them.
One was a tank top for camming, and the other was a pair of posturpedic flip flops.
So pissed. Luckily they did take the flip flops back and let me exchange them for a new pair, even though I lost my receipt.
My Walmart bubble has burst.:(

LoveyDovey
06-12-2017, 10:50 PM
I hate evil nasty controlling demanding bitches.

miss.a.p1600
06-13-2017, 04:48 AM
I was really starting to think that Walmart was my 'jam'.
I bought tons of stuff there when I moved into my new home, for of course at least half of what I would have paid had I paid full retail.
But the last 2 things I bought broke within days of using them.
One was a tank top for camming, and the other was a pair of posturpedic flip flops.
So pissed. Luckily they did take the flip flops back and let me exchange them for a new pair, even though I lost my receipt.
My Walmart bubble has burst.:(

I'm one of the rare people who prefer Walmart over target.

Yes I buy everything including clothes from there. And don't let me get started on their clearance. Like every week I go to each Walmart and get tons of shit on clearance. It takes longer to find clearance deals in target which the only mark down like a dollar like bitch that ain't clearance.

Walmart shopping app is one of the better apps out of all the large chain stores. And now sams club looks like they have a cool app where you can just scan the stuff in store and walk out skipping the cash register. Sams also has free grocery pickup I'm definitely going to have to try - like having your own personal shopper and you don't even have to get out the car.

They are also trying to compete with Amazon and one of the few online stores that ships in 2 days and only requires $35 worth of purchases.

Only thing I hate about Walmart is ..... the extra strange people so I go early mornings/order online and I'm going to start using their pickup service and let them bring the items to my car.

Glamourmilf
06-13-2017, 08:09 AM
I'm one of the weirdos who prefer Walmart over target.

Yes I buy everything including clothes from there. And don't let me get started on their clearance. Like every week I go to each Walmart and get tons of shit on clearance. It takes longer to find clearance deals in target which the only mark down like a dollar like bitch that ain't clearance.

Walmart shopping app is one of the better apps out of all the large chain stores. And now sams club looks like they have a cool app where you can just scan the stuff in store and walk out skipping the cash register. Sams also has free grocery pickup I'm definitely going to have to try - like having your own personal shopper and you don't even have to get out the car.

They are also trying to compete with Amazon and one of the few online stores that ships in 2 days and only requires $35 worth of purchases.

Only thing I hate about Walmart is ..... the weird ass people so I go early mornings/order online and I'm going to start using their pickup service and let them bring the items to my car.

Like you, I'm not into Target either.
Maybe I'll give Sam's club a try.
You're so right about the weird ass people at Wally's world.
I can only go later in the day, because of my sleep schedule. But I did go one morning when I was already up and out.
Totally different group of people.
Maybe it was a fluke that both of those items broke.
All I know is that I can be in the BEST mood when I go in there. But by the time I leave I'm always depressed.:'(

WendiStarr
06-13-2017, 10:21 AM
I hate how I'm craving fuck buddy's dick so bad and he isn't answering his phone. I know the fucker is gonna wait until I'm swamped with work and then just show up or call me from the parking lot to see if he can come by. Ugh!

Elektra Luxx
06-13-2017, 01:30 PM
I'm traveling with my boss/ex and we're at our Houston office. And this support tech girl is embarrassing herself laughing at all his lame ass jokes and comments and he's eating it up. And it embarrassing just watching. OMG! Just shoot me!

miss.a.p1600
06-13-2017, 02:55 PM
Maybe his gold digger girlfriend is trying to cut you out the picture. I wouldn't trust her word since she has ulterior motives. Idk. Maybe reach out to him again or another way?


Last month my biological dad was trying to play the role of father, after this many years of not. I was skeptical because why would a man wait until his daughter is 30 years old to try to be fatherly and pretend to care? He told me all this crap about how he wanted to be in both my and my daughter's lives. Today is his birthday. I remember his birthday even if he has no idea when mine is, other than that it's in March. I tried calling him to tell him happy birthday and no answer so I left a text instead since he told me that he usually responds to texts over calls. Right away his gf/gold digger called me, wanting to know what I wanted. I told her that I wanted to tell him happy birthday. She said that he doesn't want to talk to me and that he said to not bother him. Why the hell did I try to be nice and wish him happy birthday? I don't know. I might as well just delete his number. I give up on any single thread of hope that he's ever going to be the dad that I needed in my life all these years.

My petty annoyance is people who are tech illiterate and ain't even trying to learn. Like why do you have a smart phone then? Just go back to your flip phone or better yet your string and cup if you want to live in the stone ages.

I'm so pissed I try to help people use technology to be efficient but nooooo they want live like cavemen and cavewomen.

I'm over it!

Aurora_Sunset
06-13-2017, 03:44 PM
For the women's shelter, all volunteers get a weekly update email for the group they're in. Since I do 2 jobs, I get two emails every week. More people than ever lately have gotten into the habit of replying to these emails with questions or comments rather than emailing the head of the department separately, seemingly unaware that it "replies all" when they do so. Though I don't know how they haven't figured that out since they have to have been seeing other people doing it for the last 2 months. Maybe they do know and just don't care. It's getting so obnoxious.

WendiStarr
06-13-2017, 05:45 PM
Maybe his gold digger girlfriend is trying to cut you out the picture. I wouldn't trust her word since she has ulterior motives. Idk. Maybe reach out to him again or another way?



My petty annoyance is people who are tech illiterate and ain't even trying to learn. Like why do you have a smart phone then? Just go back to your flip phone or better yet your string and cup if you want to live in the stone ages.

I'm so pissed I try to help people use technology to be efficient but nooooo they want live like cavemen and cavewomen.

I'm over it!


I don't know how else to contact him, short of showing up at his workplace, which is only 10 minutes away from me. That would be difficult though because it's huge and not exactly the kind of place that I could just walk in. I had bought him a present. I was thinking about just sending it to him in the mail. The bitch would probably take it and use it for herself. I don't know. It just seems like if he really wanted to be in my life he'd find a way, especially seeing as how close my place is to his workplace but he's not.

WendiStarr
06-13-2017, 05:53 PM
I'm traveling with my boss/ex and we're at our Houston office. And this support tech girl is embarrassing herself laughing at all his lame ass jokes and comments and he's eating it up. And it embarrassing just watching. OMG! Just shoot me!


Sounds like either she has a crush on him or is trying to kiss his ass, hoping that she'll get a promotion or a raise or something. He's probably getting off on it and is thinking that he's The Man. Mr. GQ. That's like some lame, overplayed comedy movie type shit there.

miss.a.p1600
06-13-2017, 06:09 PM
Sometimes when they have domineering wenches smothering and brainwashing them it's harder than if they were single but yeah I feel ya. He should be taking more of an initiative and tell bertha to fall back. Why is she answering his phone anyway? I would see if I could leave the gift maybe with the receptionist where her works or something with a note - like are you okay? I was worried you fell or something because Bertha answered and said you didn't want anything to do with me, show the text as proof, then ask him is that true.

Either that or call back again and if Bertha answering I'd be like put it on speaker phone so I can hear him talk

I would not trust Bertha or let her ruin your reconciliation - that's exactly what that greedy person would want.

Side note I think it's very odd when women isolate a man from his bio children but convince him to take on children she had with another man. My family members have done similar and it just baffles my mind. One of my relatives married her meal ticket sugar daddy, convinced him to ditch his own biological kids but he takes care of her kids and one of them is grown ass man?!? She also does like the woman you describe like all family call go through her first. And if anyone happens to call him first she forces him to put the phone on speaker or she is breathing down his neck like who was that? What were y'all talking about. Just nosey and domineering as hell.

Idk. At the end of the day you gotta do what's right for you.

baer45
06-13-2017, 09:19 PM
I'm traveling with my boss/ex and we're at our Houston office. And this support tech girl is embarrassing herself laughing at all his lame ass jokes and comments and he's eating it up. And it embarrassing just watching. OMG! Just shoot me!

Sounds like someone is jelly}:D

Aurora_Sunset
06-14-2017, 07:47 AM
Ugh, just watched this news story about an 8-year old kid that jumped a neighbor's fence, when he's been told before not to go over there, and got attacked by the neighbor's 3 dogs. They showed his injuries, and yeah, he's scratched up pretty significantly on his back, seems to have a few on his arm and leg. But it's not like they tore up his face and he needed to be airlifted somewhere or get surgery.

And the fucking mom is acting all teary and victimized and saying "it's not right that he went through that and was so traumatized, and those dogs just get to run free after!"

Bitch, your 8-year-old kid - which is young enough to do stupid shit, but certainly old enough to know that he knew better regardless - ignored warnings to NOT go over by the dogs, chose to jump the fence, got a little roughed up because of it... and now you think the dogs deserve to suffer for your fool kid's dumbassery? I fucking hate people like that. I get it - it's your kid. You're upset that he got hurt regardless of the circumstances. But that doesn't mean you're allowed to lose all sense of perspective as to why it fucking happened in the first place and blame dogs that were defending their property. She actually used the words "they're just basically off the hook for attacking my son."

Lady.... they're DOGS. You don't exactly seek justice for a dog attack the way you do if people were to attack your son. You can't put the dogs on trial, send them to prison for a few months, and put them on probation.... Talking about the dogs as though they're the ones who should've known better and deserve to be punished for breaking rules, when her kid was the one who knew better and broke the rules... omg

WendiStarr
06-14-2017, 07:49 AM
I had the worst experience with Uber that I've ever had. While waiting for an Uber to come and pick me up to take me to an appointment I was watching the dot and it didn't move for 11 minutes. When he got close he sat at the corner a couple streets away. The dot didn't move again for a couple minutes. He didn't even bother to pull into the parking lot, just called me to tell me that he was waiting in the street. He had a bad attitude. I ended up late to my appointment. He thought that the doctor's house that I was cleaning was my house and made a comment about how it must be nice to come from money and wanted to know if I had an indoor pool, a hot tub, maids, and all that. I felt like telling him, I am the damn maid but eh. No tip for him.

miss.a.p1600
06-14-2017, 08:00 AM
I hate when people don't check their kids when they need it or they have zero authority and their bad assed kid doesn't even listen to them.

I tell the kid all the the time disobey me if you want but you might find yourself suffering the consequences.

Yesterday I was pushing a shopping cart and this woman was letting her kids just free range roaming around the store. And these little crumb snatchers weren't even looking where they were going and the mom was barely paying attention. I'm like I will go off on this broad if her kids run into my cart and she try to blame me.

Reminds me of those parents who let their kids wade into the gorilla habitats or the alligator waters. Like wtf are you thinking??? But yo lazy ass is safely looking from the bank. And they admit - oh I turned around for one second and he was gone. No bish you're reckless and I feel sorry for your kids.

Parents these days are just sloppy and lazy af ..... they always looking to relieve themselves of responsibility and then quick to blame someone else or play the victim role when something bad happens. It's like sometimes I feel bad for the kids for having such lazy parents.

Like heaux sit down and go back to parenting class 101 .... scratch that you need remedial parenting classes.


Ugh, just watched this news story about an 8-year old kid that jumped a neighbor's fence, when he's been told before not to go over there, and got attacked by the neighbor's 3 dogs. They showed his injuries, and yeah, he's scratched up pretty significantly on his back, seems to have a few on his arm and leg. But it's not like they tore up his face and he needed to be airlifted somewhere or get surgery.

And the fucking mom is acting all teary and victimized and saying "it's not right that he went through that and was so traumatized, and those dogs just get to run free after!"

Bitch, your 8-year-old kid - which is young enough to do stupid shit, but certainly old enough to know that he knew better regardless - ignored warnings to NOT go over by the dogs, chose to jump the fence, got a little roughed up because of it... and now you think the dogs deserve to suffer for your fool kid's dumbassery? I fucking hate people like that. I get it - it's your kid. You're upset that he got hurt regardless of the circumstances. But that doesn't mean you're allowed to lose all sense of perspective as to why it fucking happened in the first place and blame dogs that were defending their property. She actually used the words "they're just basically off the hook for attacking my son."

Lady.... they're DOGS. You don't exactly seek justice for a dog attack the way you do if people were to attack your son. You can't put the dogs on trial, send them to prison for a few months, and put them on probation.... Talking about the dogs as though they're the ones who should've known better and deserve to be punished for breaking rules, when her kid was the one who knew better and broke the rules... omg

Aurora_Sunset
06-14-2017, 08:03 AM
I had the worst experience with Uber that I've ever had. While waiting for an Uber to come and pick me up to take me to an appointment I was watching the dot and it didn't move for 11 minutes. When he got close he sat at the corner a couple streets away. The dot didn't move again for a couple minutes. He didn't even bother to pull into the parking lot, just called me to tell me that he was waiting in the street. He had a bad attitude. I ended up late to my appointment. He thought that the doctor's house that I was cleaning was my house and made a comment about how it must be nice to come from money and wanted to know if I had an indoor pool, a hot tub, maids, and all that. I felt like telling him, I am the damn maid but eh. No tip for him.

I do not understand customer service people who think it's in any way appropriate to comment on or question the money of the people they're helping. One time I was running around doing sales calls all day, and I stopped at the grocery store for food in my nice suit. I chose to buy a little thing of seafood salad, which was kind of expensive. $12 for the tiniest thing, but I was making decent money and wanted it. The cashier would not shut up about how I was buying a $12 container of salad. Making comments about how she wished she could afford a $12 salad. And calling after me as I'm leaving, "Enjoy your $12 salad!" all shitty-like. Like, excuse me, bitch? How is it any of your business what I decide or how much I choose to spend on my lunch? I really should have reported her - it was completely rude to make a customer feel awkward and bad about how they choose to spend their money.

I hope you went back to the Uber app and rated his ass 0 stars with a bad review. Twice, I've had Uber drivers completely fail to find me, even when I'm giving them directions, and then they eventually give up. But instead of cancelling the ride themselves, they wait and force me to do it if I want to try to call another Uber, so that I get charged the "cancellation" fee. I've contacted Uber and argued that the ride had to be cancelled because my driver couldn't find me and gave up, not because I wanted it cancelled, and they refunded me. You could probably file a complaint against him.

seashell
06-14-2017, 08:03 AM
I spent most of yesterday feeling sick and didn't get any sleep all night. Zero. Pretty sure I kept waking up my boyfriend... I feel bad, the bedroom/bathroom is our only private area in the apartment, so if I can't sleep, I'm usually a foot away from him working on my laptop. But I did make a lot of progress on my camming website...

*yawn*

Aurora_Sunset
06-14-2017, 08:13 AM
I hate when people don't check their kids when they need it or they have zero authority and their bad assed kid doesn't even listen to them.

I tell the kid all the the time disobey me if you want but you might find yourself suffering the consequences.

Yesterday I was pushing a shopping cart and this woman was letting her kids just free range roaming around the store. And these little crumb snatchers weren't even looking where they were going and the mom was barely paying attention. I'm like I will go off on this broad if her kids run into my cart and she try to blame me.

Reminds me of those parents who let their kids wade into the gorilla habitats or the alligator waters. Like wtf are you thinking??? But yo lazy ass is safely looking from the bank. And they admit - oh I turned around for one second and he was gone. No bish you're reckless and I feel sorry for your kids.

Parents these days are just sloppy and lazy af ..... they always looking to relieve themselves of responsibility and then quick to blame someone else or play the victim role when something bad happens. It's like sometimes I feel bad for the kids for having such lazy parents.

Like heaux sit down and go back to parenting class 101 .... scratch that you need remedial parenting classes.

Right? Like, I feel for the kid. He was scratched up, and I'm sure he's really shaken up from it. That completely sucks, and I understand being on edge when your kid gets injured. But he's the one who trespassed after being told by his mom not to go over there. And now she wants to blame someone else for what happened? Like, yeah, your shitty situation sucks, but sometimes you just gotta live with the fact that you got yourself into a shitty situation, and not try to blame and punish something else to make yourself feel better.

Glamourmilf
06-14-2017, 09:00 AM
I don't know how else to contact him, short of showing up at his workplace, which is only 10 minutes away from me. That would be difficult though because it's huge and not exactly the kind of place that I could just walk in. I had bought him a present. I was thinking about just sending it to him in the mail. The bitch would probably take it and use it for herself. I don't know. It just seems like if he really wanted to be in my life he'd find a way, especially seeing as how close my place is to his workplace but he's not.

Perhaps it's time for a little LOA?
What I mean by that is to make a list of his positive aspects.
Then release any thoughts about the outcome. In LOA I believe it's called ,' taking attention elsewhere'.
I admit, it's not easy to do. But when done right, magical things start happening.:D

Aurora_Sunset
06-14-2017, 09:43 AM
NOOOO! I'm supposed to have 3 appointments tomorrow and I just got my period! The first 2 days are the worst! I have the sponges that I usually use so I don't have to take a break from work, but one of my appointments has a super big dick, and I don't know how that's gonna go with him. What if it gets dislodged in some way or leaks from the pressure? Ugh... but I really don't want to cancel on him.

WendiStarr
06-14-2017, 10:40 AM
NOOOO! I'm supposed to have 3 appointments tomorrow and I just got my period! The first 2 days are the worst! I have the sponges that I usually use so I don't have to take a break from work, but one of my appointments has a super big dick, and I don't know how that's gonna go with him. What if it gets dislodged in some way or leaks from the pressure? Ugh... but I really don't want to cancel on him.

If it leaks, act like you just started it. " Oops! Totally wasn't expecting it to start now. It's a little early" I've done that with fb before and he didn't care since he just wanted to get off. I've heard the,"You can just blow me instead". Some men are squeamish about periods while others are unaffected by it so it's hard to know how he will react.