View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
Elektra Luxx
06-17-2017, 10:40 PM
Thanks girl, it was a lot better than I thought. My nana was in store shopping and she left her empty cart to get plastic bag for fruit. This asshole stole her cart. My nana asked him to give it back and this ahole ignored her. So she grabbed the cart and he pushed the cart not my nana. She lost balance and fell. It doesn't seem that serious but we insisted to send her to hospital for a check up. My nana looks like 70+ but she's almost 90. I don't understand why some people just have no respect to seniors. When I got there my friend was questioning him... I will stay with my nana tonight.
OMG girl!!! I'm pissed just reading this post. If someone did that to my Grandma, there would be hell to pay!!! I hope your nana is alright. Sending love your way.
Aurora_Sunset
06-18-2017, 10:43 AM
The guy friend that I recently had to basically cut off because he was being inappropriate is off posting a bunch of shit on facebook about surrounding yourself with people who appreciate you and are excited to spend time with you, adding his own comments about how he's had "friends" lately who apparently don't value him and don't care about seeing him so he wonders if they even care about being his friend....
Yeah, ok, guy. You act like you get why we had the conversation we did, but you clearly still don't really get it. I'm the bad guy because you crossed my boundaries and needed to be told to stop. Kay
Ummm... and now he just tried to call me. o.O
I literally don't remember the last time I EVER spoke to him on the phone. He never ever called me, even when we were hanging out consistently. He always texts or sends facebook messages. He literally just told me a month ago that he would NOT contact me, in any way, again, unless I contacted him first and now he's fucking calling me?
I feel like this is either some bullshit bid for attention wrapped up in an "emergency" that isn't actually an emergency, but he just wants to go on facebook later and tout how "victimized" he is because I wouldn't answer his phone call when he "needed" me, or else he's deliberately trying to stir shit up by hoping that my bf was with me when he called and it would cause a fight.
Yeah, he can absolutely kiss any hope of rekindling that friendship goodbye.
Elektra Luxx
06-18-2017, 11:42 AM
Ummm... and now he just tried to call me. o.O
I literally don't remember the last time I EVER spoke to him on the phone. He never ever called me, even when we were hanging out consistently. He always texts or sends facebook messages. He literally just told me a month ago that he would NOT contact me, in any way, again, unless I contacted him first and now he's fucking calling me?
I feel like this is either some bullshit bid for attention wrapped up in an "emergency" that isn't actually an emergency, but he just wants to go on facebook later and tout how "victimized" he is because I wouldn't answer his phone call when he "needed" me, or else he's deliberately trying to stir shit up by hoping that my bf was with me when he called and it would cause a fight.
Yeah, he can absolutely kiss any hope of rekindling that friendship goodbye.
I hate Facebook. I have a Facebook account with nothing on it. It's just so easy for practically anyone to a stalk a persons life. That said, I only keep my account to stalk my hot, jerkass, ex-bf and torture myself by looking at all the pictures I'm not in.
LoveyDovey
06-18-2017, 12:43 PM
Facebook gives me anxiety. I stay away from it.
chanzep
06-18-2017, 04:11 PM
I have 2 mosquito bites on my face!, I like ti sit on balcony in the evenings I spray OFF everywhere but not on my face. Going to get citronella candles, guess Im staying in tonight.
whirlerz
06-18-2017, 05:43 PM
Put some aloe on it, alcohol (if u have hand sanitizer that has a lot in it)
Or tea tree oil.
I had a big one on my neck
baer45
06-18-2017, 07:00 PM
OMG girl!!! I'm pissed just reading this post. If someone did that to my Grandma, there would be hell to pay!!! I hope your nana is alright. Sending love your way.
Thanks my nana is okay. She's one tough lady and relatively healthy for her age.
Yeah That asshole was lucky that he didn't touch my nana. I didn't bring anything to kill him but I was going to slap the shit out of him. My friend was there but he pretend that he didn't know me. He was going to put him on the "aggravated battery of senior" ride because I told him that the guy pushed my nana.
miss.a.p1600
06-18-2017, 07:54 PM
Yeah I loathe Facebook too. It's worse than the other social media sites because of how much privacy you give up using the site.
I went on a break for like a month and felt sooo good.
It's just smoke and mirrors anyway - people bragging and shit, even lying, making you believe their lives are one way but reality is most likely different. It's all an illusion to me.
It's a narcissist wet dream.
xStacey
06-19-2017, 05:23 AM
Lol those girls who keep bragging about how their boyfriend is a doctor pisses me off lately. So what ? Once you know a med student or a doctor you get access to plenty more and it's just not that impressive anymore. There was one girl I met the first thing she told me when I talked to her was my boyfriend's a doctor, I thought she was odd but it seems to be common. I met a girl during theater class and asked her how long she's been in Canada because she has a France accent she's like oh I'm here since January I came with my husband he's a doctor. She looked quite young so I asked oh you're married ? She's like no we're not, he's my boyfriend. LOL ? It's as if they think their boyfriend's status gives them value. So what your boyfriend is a doctor there's 23 000 here.
Aurora_Sunset
06-19-2017, 08:14 AM
There was a typo on my welcome letter for my new place, so my address had an extra number in it. The gas company apparently just figured out the typo on their own when I submitted an online request, so that's all good. I found out when I called the electric company and they figured it out for me. But I also needed renter's insurance and my address on there is now incorrect. I've been on hold going on 15 minutes with them now.... -_-
I also was under the impression that I could come in at any time between noon and 5 today to get my keys, but now they're saying they want me there right at 2 for an "appointment." Which is fine, but I mean... coulda talked about that some day before NOW? I had moved my drawing lesson to this afternoon, and now have to email my teacher to move it again. I feel like we go through this every week because our old lesson time just never works out anymore (half the time her fault too, so I don't feel too bad).
WendiStarr
06-19-2017, 08:58 AM
Guys who feel the need to call me with stupid questions. "I'm a computer repair man. Instead of paying you can we trade services instead?" In my mind I'm thinking, "No, not unless your job title is gastroenterologist, gynecologist, or plastic surgeon." I hung up on him.
Selina M
06-19-2017, 06:59 PM
Calling my mom is beginning to be the extent of my social life. I give up making plans with people, it's impossible.
A) Everyone lives at least 40 miles away. Most will meet halfway but that's still a PITA
B) Either they are all booked like 3 weeks in advance, or the night before they get called into work or something. 2 of them work like 60 hours a week. The others have babies or other time constraints
C) 2 of them are just being shitty lately. The one was constantly up my ass with drama from her divorce until she actually separated & moved out... now she barely even answers her messages. She moved back to our hometown, but works in my city... but since her separation hasn't made any effort to even meet for dinner, despite being RIGHT THERE. She wanted to hang out on Saturday... IF I was in our hometown (60 miles away). Wtf?! The other one I suspect it's her anxiety, but her entire world is basically living at home & working at her parents business close by... She won't even meet halfway. I swear she thinks she will have a meltdown if she ventures outside of her bubble.
I'm kind of jealous of SO. I used to scoff at his friends a lot, but most of them have no other commitments besides the 30 hours/week they work & they live super close & are always down to hang out. Unfortunately all they really do is play cards or smoke weed, neither of which I do. The two girls I got on with moved away :(
carmen_b
06-20-2017, 11:09 AM
( the joys of owning a small vanilla business )
Hey Jerks at Day Job :
Here is a crazy idea. If you DON'T need our service anymore .... how about a quick " no thank you " . It takes 15 seconds and it is the KINDEST thing to do since I will no longer be crafting emails / texts to try to move your sale forward and I won't need to call ect. either. It's the nice thing to do .....
C
LoveyDovey
06-20-2017, 01:52 PM
So this guy comes in, we chit chat, I ask him gor a dance, he goes," Aw don't be that way". I said, "What way? It's my job. I'd feel rude if I didn't offer you." He said maybe later, so I said fine and took a seat elsewhere.
Well I just danced for him one song. The little whiny bitch was like, "That's it?" Yeah, that's it, bitch. I sell fucking dances. Not extras. I replied ,"I'm a dancer. Not sure what you were expecting." The dude had a boner, so I know he enjoyed it. But he's all pissy cause he didn't get a hand job/ blow job. This is another reason why I dislike exttas girls ITC. Ugh.
Oh yeah, and I also found out today that my father died 3 days ago.
whirlerz
06-20-2017, 09:24 PM
Oh, sorry to hear bout your father.
& Yea I hate guys like that
miss.a.p1600
06-20-2017, 10:00 PM
I hate when people ask me dumb assed questions.
I swear my parents are slick ass haters. it's like they sunconsciously want to see me struggle just to prove themselves and their faulty thinking that they are right. They keep asking me stupid stuff like "is your car still running good?" or "do you have insurance" or "what's your credit score"
Like cotdamn!!! Ima start treating them like strip club customers and giving smart ass responses like "how much is in your retirement fund?" "How much you trick off on your lowlife partners?" "How much disposable income do you have?" "Have you joined AARP yet?" "What nursing home should I sign you up for?"
Ive worked since I was 16. Never ask them for money since then. But yet they wait like vulchers so they can see me fail financially and slick come to the "rescue". And then if I was say homeless and penniless they probably wouldn't even be able to help me financially their damn selves. All they do is run guilt trips and give stupid lectures.
I wish they'd leave me the fuck alone with these senseless questions. Damn do you ask your friends and coworkers that? Do you ask any other grown ass people these questions? Then why they hell would you ask me this shit?
Go get some hobbies, watch Golden Girls, play bingo, crochet some socks or whatever else senior citizens like to do and leave me alone.
SnuffleUffleGrass
06-20-2017, 10:10 PM
Petty annoyance- I work with crazier/dumber women at a restaurant than I ever did at a strip club (not counting the ones intoxicated on hard drugs.) I was stuck at work all day & realized it's pathetic to see a young female lose her shit over a couple dollars, or keep dealing with an annoying teenage employee who talks shit about everyone but made a major mistake the Manager had to fix before closing....ughhh........Thank God I am good at controlling my anger. Now.
xStacey
06-20-2017, 10:15 PM
Fuck, the good-paying regular who visits every week for multiple hours is getting on my nerves lately. Not only he texts me multiple times every day but he's always booking and then changing the hours, and then changing the number of hours he wants to book, and then adding more time during the appointment, okay it was annoying, but at least he was changing the hours and the time within the same shift.
So this week I am back after 3 weeks off, and I was only supposed to work Friday and Saturday, but double shifts. He can't because it's the long week-end here, so I try to accommodate him and ask what day is good he tells me Wednesday, Thursday and Sunday. I knew I would be tired on Sunday after 2 double shifts in a row, we agree on Thursday. I text my manager to add one more shift on Thursday because I don't want to take one hour to get ready and one hour commute for one client although he pays well. Then the next day he texts oh I can't anymore on Thursday blabla we have to do Wednesday. Like what the fuck dude. My manager is crazy so I avoid having to talk to her as much as possible and she does the weekly shifts in advance on Sunday, it's really difficult to change shifts, she makes sure there's a set number of girls every shift, a lot of girls keep the same shifts, she's very nice to me to let me add or remove some whenever I want but when she gets mad she's really angry. I say I can come earlier on Thursday and he makes me come so much earlier I'm like okay whatever and he still tries the Wednesday because Thursday is really hard. Okay, Wednesday is today. I just finished my exams and barely slept at all the last three weeks, I have a life too. Besides, he was the one who gave me Thursday and I added Thursday when I was supposed to have that day off. What he wants me to contact my manager to add Wednesday and then he says he can't lol ? Actually it's never happened yet, he's really difficult always changing things around but he doesn't cancel appointments, but he's really getting on my nerves.
I texted my manager it will probably take her 24-48 hours to reply, fuck I hate this shit.
Ok I couldn't help it. I weote him a long ass text message giving him a piece of my mind about how he should be more respectful of my time. No matter how much he pays, it's enough. He's an entrepreneur, wtf would he think if his client changes his appointment 5 times per week every week for months and texts every other day to change the appointment time LOL. Oh not only that but he's always like oh can we change again or if it doesn't work out we can meet off hours elsewhere. Who the fuck do you think you are.
Ok now I get it why my manager was so pissed after ahe met him for the first time and said she didn't want to give me any shifts anymore because I have too many clients and it's too stressful because my clients are too demanding and act like they own the place and she named that guy. I didn't understand because I thought he was so sweet and pays so well but now I see what she means. He was respectful of my distance and time but now he's abusing a bit. I wasn't there when they were talking but I can only imagine it was worse than he is now with me -_-
WendiStarr
06-21-2017, 03:50 AM
Boundary-crossing custies. I had a full schedule yesterday with house cleaning, body rubs, and platonic cuddling. My last gig of the night was the platonic cuddling. I cuddled with this guy once before and everything went smoothly that time with no problems. This time around he was octopus hands, kept grabbing my boobs, crotch, and ass. Then he got mad at me, started yelling, and complained that I wasn't cuddling him. We were cuddling up until he started touching my goodies. I was so upset that my tummy started hurting and I felt nauseous. I was very relieved to leave his place and go home. I guess I'm going to have to hire a security/body guard. As much as I hate sharing my money with anyone I don't want to be in any uncomfortable situations again. This is the first time that I've ever dealt with a customer like this. The only good thing is that he added an extra 100 to his donation fee for my time but I am going to block his number because I do not want to deal with that again.
Aurora_Sunset
06-22-2017, 06:17 AM
The bf is supposed to help me move boxes to my new place today, but he was such a massive shit yesterday for absolutely NO goddam reason. I expected, at the very least, a brief apology text last night, saying we'd talk today. But nope. Now first thing this morning, he's completely ignoring it, and just asking me logistics of when he should be ready. I'm so pissed right now, that if he doesn't muster up any acknowledgement of it by the time I'm ready to go this afternoon, I'm sorely tempted to tell him that the fact that he threw me such undeserved shade and hostility yesterday and hasn't even attempted to apologize in almost 24 hours makes me not exactly want him to come stay with me in my new apartment tonight.
Only shitty thing is 1) there are several boxes that are large and awkwardly shaped, that I can't move by myself, and 2) he's my entire source of boxes, working at a grocery store. They never want to give me their boxes when I go in as an outsider. Hmm... oh well
baer45
06-22-2017, 07:22 AM
The bf is supposed to help me move boxes to my new place today, but he was such a massive shit yesterday for absolutely NO goddam reason. I expected, at the very least, a brief apology text last night, saying we'd talk today. But nope. Now first thing this morning, he's completely ignoring it, and just asking me logistics of when he should be ready. I'm so pissed right now, that if he doesn't muster up any acknowledgement of it by the time I'm ready to go this afternoon, I'm sorely tempted to tell him that the fact that he threw me such undeserved shade and hostility yesterday and hasn't even attempted to apologize in almost 24 hours makes me not exactly want him to come stay with me in my new apartment tonight.
Only shitty thing is 1) there are several boxes that are large and awkwardly shaped, that I can't move by myself, and 2) he's my entire source of boxes, working at a grocery store. They never want to give me their boxes when I go in as an outsider. Hmm... oh well
At least he will show up to help you move right? If not, dump his ass.
Aurora_Sunset
06-22-2017, 07:48 AM
At least he will show up to help you move right? If not, dump his ass.
I just tried calling him, because I'm livid the more and more I think about it, and I want a fucking apology. Now. He's not answering.
Truth be told, his phone is massively fucked up and my calls don't go through half the time anyway, so I'm not going to pin that one on him just yet.
But I've already basically crafted the "fuck you, I'm not doing this anymore" message that has been running through my head if this doesn't get resolved quickly. If, by the approximate time that I told him to be ready, he doesn't respond to me within a reasonable time frame, I'm sending it. I'm so over this. I did absolutely NOTHING to deserve the fucking attitude and interrogation he threw my way yesterday. Like, in absolutely no universe, even if I was being super self-critical, could I blame any of that on me. But when I start reacting angrily to him being a shithead, he always turns it around on me and blame his shitty attitude and behavior (which he already had) on me "giving him sass." No. I get to react angrily when I'm attacked for no fucking reason. And I don't have to apologize for any of it.
Glamourmilf
06-22-2017, 07:55 AM
I'm annoyed at myself for being envious of my best friend.
She bought Chelsea Handler's condo, paid cash for it, and her home owners association fees are more than my rent!
I'm not the jealous type, but damn!
She took me for a tour of it yesterday, when we met for lunch. Everyone in the building treated me as if I was a celebrity, because lots of them live there, and I guess they just assumed I was one. Yeah, a cam star. Lol!
She gave me a shopping bag, filled to the brim with jewelry, purses, and belts for my birthday.
So generous.
Here I am, no money, because I paid the rest of my taxes last week, and my check for a cam company never came.
I'll get over it, but, right now I feel like crying.:'(
I know if I had made different choices with my $$$$, I could have lived like she does also.
So, I'm just pissy with myself, really.
WendiStarr
06-22-2017, 08:58 AM
Chatfunn. I should've known that something was fishy when I first started working for them and they claim to have not received my w-9. I knew that I had sent it to them because I'd checked my 'sent' mail in my email and then I sent them my w-9 multiple times after they asked before they finally "got" it. When my first check did come, no sign on bonus and no referral bonus. I recruited a lot of models for them. Now this time around they've been fucking with some of us by not paying us. I've sent several emails asking about payment and no response. This has been, what 3 weeks now that I've been waiting on my next check to come in the mail. Whoever runs this company is very unprofessional. I am going to be pissed if they keep the $500 that I earned. I hate shitty companies.
miss.a.p1600
06-22-2017, 09:16 AM
Isn't that the same company I think kourtney Kay just created a thread about them being scammers?
Sad these lowlifes do that.
I pissed because this grocery store I go to always has damn panhandlers and beggars and people soliciting. It's a chain store yet this is the only location with the problem.
I feel bad for these people especially to see them begging in the rain you know they're desperate but you know what I don't know what you are using the money for and I'm not enabling anyone's crack/meth/liquor/insert hardcore drug here habit. Plus I just want fucking gas and groceries cotdamn it.
This bish was hustling the parking like a stripper would hustle inside a club. Wtf?!?
I reported to the store manger but his ass seemed like he could care less. He claimed he was going to have their security "run her off" and was about to rush me off the phone but I was like hold up sir don't you need a description of this broad?
I doubt I'll be going to that location again. Fucking ridiculous.
baer45
06-22-2017, 11:43 AM
I just tried calling him, because I'm livid the more and more I think about it, and I want a fucking apology. Now. He's not answering.
Truth be told, his phone is massively fucked up and my calls don't go through half the time anyway, so I'm not going to pin that one on him just yet.
But I've already basically crafted the "fuck you, I'm not doing this anymore" message that has been running through my head if this doesn't get resolved quickly. If, by the approximate time that I told him to be ready, he doesn't respond to me within a reasonable time frame, I'm sending it. I'm so over this. I did absolutely NOTHING to deserve the fucking attitude and interrogation he threw my way yesterday. Like, in absolutely no universe, even if I was being super self-critical, could I blame any of that on me. But when I start reacting angrily to him being a shithead, he always turns it around on me and blame his shitty attitude and behavior (which he already had) on me "giving him sass." No. I get to react angrily when I'm attacked for no fucking reason. And I don't have to apologize for any of it.
Never mind, I probably should not give advice to break a couple.
seashell
06-23-2017, 08:54 AM
Ugh I should never have Instagram friended one of my good SC customers... he keeps messaging me, and I've been ignoring it until last night. I invited him to come see me at the club, and our convo devolved into "You should come see my remodeled backyard." Um, I'll pass.
WendiStarr
06-23-2017, 09:07 AM
^ Ugh, that's what I don't like about adding custies on my working non-personal social media accounts. They start getting too comfortable/friendly and forget that it's a business relationship, not a personal one.
Aurora_Sunset
06-23-2017, 12:27 PM
I contacted one of my regular clients a couple weeks ago to let him know I was officially moving to his city, so I'd be closer, and made mention that we had gone a long time without seeing each other. He made some vague "Oh yeah, we should get together sometime soon" comment and then dropped the conversation entirely, which isn't like him. He'll usually start trying to book right away. Considering the fact that I just had to ask a different regular for a "pre-payment" arrangement so I could get some extra moving money, I don't much feel like chasing after this guy like I'm desperate as well. I have no reason to think that he'd suddenly be sick of me after all this time, so not making concrete plans, especially when he's been saying for years that I need to move closer to him so he could see me more often, is weird.
I think I'll wait for him to contact me. I'm not going to initiate another conversation, even if the money would be nice.
Aurora_Sunset
06-23-2017, 12:34 PM
Annnd also, a friend just informed me that she's accidentally pregnant, and most likely going to keep it. It's not my place to say anything, so I'm not going to, to her. But she and her boyfriend have been living with his mom for years with pretty much no end to their shitty financial situation in sight. She's never been all about having kids or anti-abortion, so it seems weird that this would be her decision when she's been saying for the past 6 months that she's ready to blow her brains out if they stay living with his mom any longer. Really no end in sight to that if they plan on having a baby.
She's one of those people that I really think is the last person that should be bringing a kid into their fucked up situation, which is also going to put her off the path of pretty much anything she's been working toward changing for the past year. And it's even more annoying to find this out, because I know she's pregnant cuz she's all "I'm not going to take birth control pills if it means I have to give up my dignity by getting a pap smear!" Like... -_- But oh well. I guess it's not my life. I just have to pretend to be supportive.
Guess it's good I didn't pin my hopes of moving across the country on her and her boyfriend following me and sharing a house, like we had talked about. She didn't even know I had made the decision to stay in my state and gotten an apartment until today, when she told me about the pregnancy. So... glad I wasn't planning on moving out there and relying on that to pan out.
Selina M
06-23-2017, 12:44 PM
^ Hormones do really weird things to the brain. I've seen so many girls stop thinking rationally as soon as it happens.
One of my friends did the same shit; she lived at home working at Starbucks & her bf was at college 2000 miles away. They were 18 and she got knocked up and decided to keep it. Made him quit college (losing a full-ride scholarship) and join the air force to support them. Poor kid looked miserable in all the photos for the next few years. We aren't friends anymore because I asked her wtf she was thinking ::)
I've lost a few friends because instead of blindly supporting their stupid half-baked decisions, I've asked them what the hell they're doing... But I feel like I'd think the person was a shitty friend if they didn't knock sense into you when you do dumb shit. Friends are not just for blowing sunshine up your ass, they're for calling you out when you're about to seriously fuck up your life.
BarbieNYC
06-23-2017, 12:47 PM
One of my coworkers asked if she could use some of my olaplex to bleach her hair. I said sure I'll measure some out she just needed to tell me how much bleach she is gonna use. She said "umm i dunno i just fill the bowl up"
I'm not handing over my entire bottle of olaplex which is a pain in the ass to get from my hairdresser in the first place. Especially to someone who doesn't even know how many oz of bleach they are using. -_- i told her i would estimate it.
This reminds me i gotta order olaplex for someone on here
WendiStarr
06-23-2017, 12:53 PM
Annnd also, a friend just informed me that she's accidentally pregnant, and most likely going to keep it. It's not my place to say anything, so I'm not going to, to her. But she and her boyfriend have been living with his mom for years with pretty much no end to their shitty financial situation in sight. She's never been all about having kids or anti-abortion, so it seems weird that this would be her decision when she's been saying for the past 6 months that she's ready to blow her brains out if they stay living with his mom any longer. Really no end in sight to that if they plan on having a baby.
She's one of those people that I really think is the last person that should be bringing a kid into their fucked up situation, which is also going to put her off the path of pretty much anything she's been working toward changing for the past year. And it's even more annoying to find this out, because I know she's pregnant cuz she's all "I'm not going to take birth control pills if it means I have to give up my dignity by getting a pap smear!" Like... -_- But oh well. I guess it's not my life. I just have to pretend to be supportive.
That's a shitty situation for your friend. Also, that's a dumb reason for not getting on birth control. Pap smears can save lives. As uncomfortably awkward as they are and as much as I dread them, I found out that I had early stage cervical cancer from one and it saved my life. If she's anti-pap smear, she's in for a rude awakening when she goes to the doctor for pregnancy. They do a pap smear and pelvic exam at the first prenatal appointment. In early stages of pregnancy the ultrasound has to be performed transvaginally. They use this wand that looks like a dildo. They even put a condom and lube on it and stick it up your vag so they can get see the baby on ultrasound. It gets even more invasive later on in the last trimester, when doctors, nurses, student interns, and whoever the hell else keeps sticking their fingers up there to see if you're dilated yet and if so, how many cm. Labor is pretty much, more of that, with your vag on display to everyone like some kind of exhibit, waiting for the baby to come out. Then after you have your baby they come back again and want to look to see how the bleeding is. Ha, she's going to be in for a surprise with all that.
LoveyDovey
06-23-2017, 02:12 PM
One of my coworkers asked if she could use some of my olaplex to bleach her hair. I said sure I'll measure some out she just needed to tell me how much bleach she is gonna use. She said "umm i dunno i just fill the bowl up"
I'm not handing over my entire bottle of olaplex which is a pain in the ass to get from my hairdresser in the first place. Especially to someone who doesn't even know how many oz of bleach they are using. -_- i told her i would estimate it.
This reminds me i gotta order olaplex for someone on here
;-) xoxo
Aurora_Sunset
06-23-2017, 02:35 PM
That's a shitty situation for your friend. Also, that's a dumb reason for not getting on birth control. Pap smears can save lives. As uncomfortably awkward as they are and as much as I dread them, I found out that I had early stage cervical cancer from one and it saved my life. If she's anti-pap smear, she's in for a rude awakening when she goes to the doctor for pregnancy. They do a pap smear and pelvic exam at the first prenatal appointment. In early stages of pregnancy the ultrasound has to be performed transvaginally. They use this wand that looks like a dildo. They even put a condom and lube on it and stick it up your vag so they can get see the baby on ultrasound. It gets even more invasive later on in the last trimester, when doctors, nurses, student interns, and whoever the hell else keeps sticking their fingers up there to see if you're dilated yet and if so, how many cm. Labor is pretty much, more of that, with your vag on display to everyone like some kind of exhibit, waiting for the baby to come out. Then after you have your baby they come back again and want to look to see how the bleeding is. Ha, she's going to be in for a surprise with all that.
lol right? She was all "I may die of cervical cancer by 40, but at least I'll have my dignity!" And now she's gonna go through all the intrusiveness of pregnancy, labor, and post-care? Bahaha ok
miss.a.p1600
06-23-2017, 04:44 PM
That's one of the things that freaked me out about pregnancy and labor was people staring at my cooch in a state of emergency.
I saw my female family member give birth and let's just say seeing her cooch all swollen, transforming into some black hole, and juices coming out just ruined me mentally for at least a few years and made me realize I didn't want anyone but the doctor gawking down there.
It's really gross to me and I can't see how dudes be down to fuck and do oral right after that.
I guess I'm weird though.
seashell
06-23-2017, 05:22 PM
I tried to go to the stripclub today to pick up my belongings, since I think I'm done with stripping, but it was super busy (odd, for the middle of the day) and I chickened out. I haven't worked there in almost a month, but I've been nervous about picking up my stuff. I don't want to have to tell anyone that I'm leaving, since I'm not 100% sure yet... but I also really need to get my things before management empties out my locker lol
lilylilylily
06-23-2017, 07:11 PM
Went out on a first date with a guy from a dating site, did not go well. I thought we had chemistry because we had video chatted and i enjoyed the conversation. But meeting him was so different. He told me how romantic he was thought he'd bring me flowers or chocolate, lol but no, he didn't even compliment my appearance. The whole time we were talking I felt I should be getting paid, he was so boring. I just got a vibe that he was not such a nice guy after all. I'm pretty disappointed because we had been chatting everyday for almost 2 weeks.
Glamourmilf
06-23-2017, 09:18 PM
Went out on a first date with a guy from a dating site, did not go well. I thought we had chemistry because we had video chatted and i enjoyed the conversation. But meeting him was so different. He told me how romantic he was thought he'd bring me flowers or chocolate, lol but no, he didn't even compliment my appearance. The whole time we were talking I felt I should be getting paid, he was so boring. I just got a vibe that he was not such a nice guy after all. I'm pretty disappointed because we had been chatting everyday for almost 2 weeks.
Welcome to my online dating experience.
I felt like I was in the movie "Groundhogs Day"
seashell
06-23-2017, 09:57 PM
Went out on a first date with a guy from a dating site, did not go well. I thought we had chemistry because we had video chatted and i enjoyed the conversation. But meeting him was so different. He told me how romantic he was thought he'd bring me flowers or chocolate, lol but no, he didn't even compliment my appearance. The whole time we were talking I felt I should be getting paid, he was so boring. I just got a vibe that he was not such a nice guy after all. I'm pretty disappointed because we had been chatting everyday for almost 2 weeks.
Ugh, been there with self-proclaimed "romantics." Wonder why they're single, lol
WendiStarr
06-24-2017, 07:46 AM
Bf and his lack of communication today. He's been talking all week about how he wanted to go to the zoo early this morning. Now crickets from him. Not answering his phone or texts. I woke up early on a Saturday for your ass, showered, and everything! I don't have my daughter this weekend. His parents took her on a weekend trip. I could've just slept in.
Legz541
06-24-2017, 06:28 PM
The A/C in my car conveniently stopped working a few days before this heatwave hit. Black leather + Triple Digit Heat=HELL. Fellow BMW owners know this is guaranteed to be an expensive fix and the club has been painfully slow. Even for the best of hustlers, if you're not an extras girl, good nights are truly as likely as hitting the lottery. Which leads to....
The club is so slow. We have so many girls that shifts are way overloaded and that's after most girls getting some of their shifts cut. I've talked to friends that work at other clubs in my area and they're not doing any better. This is the slowest I've experienced in years. FUCK.
chanzep
06-24-2017, 08:07 PM
Nothing is stopping the mosquitos biting me, I put on OFF and have citronella candles I still get bitten, Im going to try B vitamins and that Avon oil smh.
whirlerz
06-24-2017, 08:11 PM
Have u tried Bullfrog? Amazon & Walmart have it
chanzep
06-24-2017, 08:19 PM
No, I will try it next time im at Walmart thanks.
seashell
06-24-2017, 08:21 PM
OK, I don't know what it is lately, but I feel like there is just a gray raincloud over me and I'm going to vent some more, lol. My boyfriend and I run into one of his former coworkers at the coffee shop all the time, and I just realized she's the girl he was interested in while I was away in Europe. It's annoying because he barely introduced me to her and she ignores me completely, but when we run into her, he'll chitchat with her for a while. They text a lot, and used to hang out in person, but not at all since I got back from Europe. I feel really uncomfortable now, lol.
miss.a.p1600
06-24-2017, 09:31 PM
I am annoyed by the fact people assume because you are single you have to be lusting or reminiscing about your exes. I left those fuckers in the dust for a reason. Quit resurrecting old shit.
Can I just do me? Damn!!!!
LoveyDovey
06-24-2017, 09:35 PM
I am annoyed by the fact people assume because you are single you have to be lusting or reminiscing about your exes. I left those fuckers in the dust for a reason. Quit resurrecting old shit.
Can I just do me? Damn!!!!
I also dislike it when you're single but people automatically assume you're "on the market". Um, not always true! Can't a person just be single by choice??? Isn't it ok to just take a break???
xxxGothBarbie
06-24-2017, 10:57 PM
Ugh I hate my fucking roommmates!!!!!!! I'm trying to fucking relax & one of them brings her many guys she's fucking over every sat now & the other one came home early & they've been soo fucking loud & obnoxious just talking loudly in the hallway right outside my dam curtain. It's bad enough I have to hear her fucking that loser but can't people just leave the house if they wanna talk loud & be stupid?!
I can't wait for July 10th, i'm moving out of here yay! Finally after a year of this horseshit. blah.
Glamourmilf
06-25-2017, 09:09 AM
I'm really pissed that once any guy friend finds out about my sex work career, ALL they can talk about is sex.
I never tell anyone anymore. Not even women.
I was having 2 texting conversations at the same time, with 2 guys I've known for over 20 years.
Same topic with both ( pictures and discussion from my latest trip)
Two different reactions.
The guy who doesn't know kept it normal, polite, spiritual.
The pig who did know kept making sexual comments.
Finally when I had had enough, I text him a photo of me as a 3 year old, because he was saying how great the 1960's were.
Stopped him in his tracks.
He asked why I did that while we were being naughty.
I told him that I'm not being naughty. I'm not working, so I never am naughty for free.
I just have to delete every person who knows about my work. It's too draining, and boring.