View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
WendiStarr
07-11-2017, 09:53 AM
It's really hot and humid today. My a/c isn't working that good. My ibs is flaring up today and I don't feel like doing anything but I'm back to work today. Vacation is over and I have to get back to making money. I have two sexy housecleaning gigs today. I hate when custies change appointment times. This dude texts me an hour before I'm supposed to go clean his house and says that he might be working overtime today so can I come two hours later. I don't have to be at the other house until 6pm so I told him sure. Then he texts me again a half hour later saying that he just remembered that he had to go do yard work for his grandma so he needs to cancel. Not even 10 minutes later he tells me nevermind, his grandma found somebody else to mow her lawn, can I come at 2 instead? Ugh
Elektra Luxx
07-11-2017, 04:42 PM
I've been so tired lately because I haven't been sleeping well and my eyes are red and puffy. I've been stressing at work and worrying about my younger sister. I have a rash on my stomach and chest from the stress (I think) and it itches like crazy. I've been eating more and I haven't been working out regularly and I feel like I'm putting on weight and I'm on my period. I feel..Blah. I don't feel very attractive right now.
Aurora_Sunset
07-11-2017, 07:40 PM
Let's see if I can explain this chain properly:
I've been wanting to get a tattoo redone/covered up for a couple years now. It's on my foot but creeps up just a bit over my ankle. For the past 2 years, I've been getting laser hair removal treatments, and the laser can't go over tattoos because it will destroy them. So I've been putting off getting the tattoo fixed in case it goes further up my leg and then blocks off that area from treatment. I'm "done" with treatment now, but can continue scheduling appointments for a fraction of the price if I decide I need more. I decided I should get one more done on my legs before going for the tattoo.
The first time I scheduled it, I completely forgot that I couldn't tan beforehand, and ended up being too tan for it. The laser will burn skin that is too tanned. It has a "tanned skin" setting, but the intensity is so low that, at this point in my treatment, it wouldn't do anything for me and be a waste of money. So rescheduled for the end of July and have been doing my very best to stay out of the sun and not go tanning since then. It's been a pain in the ass because 1) I'm used to being a little tan now and am feeling pasty and blah without it, and 2) It's summer! I want to go lie by the pool or wear shorts. But I feel like I can't. I've been sooo good about it, and only had 2 weeks to go.
Well, then today, I go to the dermatologist about the folliculitis and ingrown hairs on my lower ass/upper thighs, and she's putting me on an antibiotic for 30 days to clear up what I have now to get me back to baseline for prevention. Antibiotics make you super photosensitive, so you also cannot get laser treatment while, and up to 2 weeks after, you're on them. So I have to reschedule that appointment again and stay out of the sun for another full 30 days.
I haven't started them yet, so I think I'm gonna super tan before going on them. But it's still really obnoxious. Everyone else is getting all glowy for the summer and I'm spending basically 3 months doing everything I can to stay out of the sun. And I also have to keep putting off the tattoo.
lilylilylily
07-11-2017, 09:11 PM
I've been on a dating site for a little while now but haven't checked my messages in a few days, today I went on to check messages and noticed 2 guys called me a bitch for not responding to them. Wow
whirlerz
07-11-2017, 09:43 PM
Yep. ^ Years ago I was on POF, some Asshole had the balls to call me a hag cause I didn't respond to him. I reported & they kicked him off, but he got back on later.
Also, I just read about some lady, her neighbor took it upon himself to write an ignorant anon letter that her lawn looks bad, & to "put down the bong" when she not only doesn't do that, she has autistic kid & an elderly mom, works 2 jobs!
Pig, whoever wrote it.
She talked about it online & some decent ppl pitched in to help
lilylilylily
07-11-2017, 09:59 PM
Whirlerz, what dating site would you recommend? I'm kinda feeling discouraged about POF
whirlerz
07-11-2017, 10:07 PM
Honestly, I don't like 'em, period. Although pof is the only one I've tried..
Some women like Tinder, I guess.
They have some thing here, you go on a group singles outing, maybe try something like that?
Or look into your local park district for fun classes, cooking etc.
Good luck & be careful!
lilylilylily
07-11-2017, 10:30 PM
Thanks! I signed up for Meet up where they invite you for different group activities in your area. It sounds interesting but haven't tried it yet. Maybe I'll try Tinder and see if there's a difference from POF...
JGB2009
07-12-2017, 07:23 AM
Life itself is just making me so mad right now. I hate it!!!!
baer45
07-12-2017, 07:45 AM
Whirlerz, what dating site would you recommend? I'm kinda feeling discouraged about POF
For serious "settle down" type of dating : Eharmony
For serious but not aiming for long term: okcupid, match.com
For dating dating: Pof
For shagging: Tinder
seashell
07-12-2017, 08:13 AM
Looks like one of the flights I booked was from a well-known scam website. Ughhh! Lesson learned... don't book through third-party flight websites. :( They haven't even sent me a ticket yet, and want a bunch of weird personal information from me. I just filed a claim with my bank, hopefully they get my money back...
Glamourmilf
07-12-2017, 08:13 AM
I went on a spur of the moment road trip yesterday, and stopped briefly in my brother's city.
Remember his black neighbor who baked me a pie on my birthday? ( I wrote about it in my getting laid thread in may).
He's been calling me lately to get together.
When he got off the bus ( uh oh) to meet me at a historical landmark hotel, his behavior turned me off instantly.
I'm not going to get into that, because something else was way worse.
He had on some funky, strong cologne, that stunk sooo bad.
When I gave him a ride to his place, my entire car, and me stunk of that nasty stuff.
When I got to my destination, I stopped to have lunch.
There was a young woman in there who ran out and put her head down on one of the tables outside.
When I passed her when I went to sit outside, I asked if she was ok.
She said that she was having a bad reaction to my perfume.
Omg!!!
I was MORTIFIED!
I explained that I gave someone a ride, and hugged him, and his horrible cologne was what she smelled.
My car and clothes stunk so bad that I might have to throw them out.
I'm getting my car washed today, because it STILL smells like his funky ass cologne.
WendiStarr
07-12-2017, 08:19 AM
Adult job boards have guys just as bad as horny creeps on dating sites. A guy contacted me about foot fetish clips and asked for very specific "sample pictures". If someone is going to get all specific about poses, right down to what color outfit, panty style and color, pantyhose color, and shoe style and color..that, buddy, is asking for custom pictures and I don't do custom picture requests for free. I told him that and he said well, how else could he be sure I was real? Then sent an email that I could just do bj clips instead for $20/hour. Uh, nope! How about you go suck a cock for $20, while wearing a hot pink tutu, black garter belt and crotchless panties, white opaque pantyhose, and a lime green bikini top, dude! Cheap ass horny amateur producer-wannabe guys should be banned from sexyjobs.
whirlerz
07-12-2017, 08:41 AM
Glam: get ur self some Ozium spray, sold @ Target (automotive section), auto supply store, some gas stations have it too.
Don't spray too directly on clothes.
Wash clothes w/baking soda (besides laundry soap) also there's laundry booster powder, 20 mule team, there maybe another brand/ name
Glamourmilf
07-12-2017, 09:01 AM
Glam: get ur self some Ozium spray, sold @ Target (automotive section), auto supply store, some gas stations have it too.
Don't spray too directly on clothes.
Wash clothes w/baking soda (besides laundry soap) also there's laundry booster powder, 20 mule team, there maybe another brand/ name
Thanks a million Whirl!
I'm going to the car wash today, after yet another dentist consultation appt.
I will get the Ozium spray while there.
My house smells like his cologne. How is that even possible?
I soaked my clothes overnight in a cleaning solution.
My nose is runny, and my eyes are watery.
Shit!
His birthday is tomorrow, and he wants to drive out here to spend it with me.
Yeah, THAT'S not happening.
whirlerz
07-12-2017, 09:13 AM
Spray the house w/Ozium too..damn WTF he have on?
Also, there's Citrus Magic spray too citrusmagic.com
I just started using that
The Oziun I used w/ stinky smokers who left onions / cabbage out all day, so that should work
Elektra Luxx
07-12-2017, 10:16 AM
If a person is calm and the other person is a bad mood, I believe that the person in the bad mood will start fucking with calm person because they don't want that person to be calm. So Angry Right Now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
whirlerz
07-12-2017, 11:12 AM
Yes, mood are contagious!
Best to get away from the 'crab apples', mentally if not physically
baer45
07-12-2017, 12:07 PM
This company, lafayettefunding.com keep sending me fake check to offer me a 45k loan. I have never asked for one, and it's annoying.
LoveyDovey
07-12-2017, 01:52 PM
I haven't worked out in a month and I gained 4 lbs! :-( I got on the scale and was shocked. This is the heaviest I've been since I had my kid. So I'm kicking it into high gear and focused to losing weight. Thank God I got on the scale when I did. Now I'll do what I have to do to turn this around.
whirlerz
07-12-2017, 07:49 PM
Great. Some jerk in room next to me is banging doors.
Elektra Luxx
07-12-2017, 08:42 PM
If a person calm and the other is a bad mood, I believe that bad mood people start fucking with calm people because they don't want people to be calm if they are not calm. So Angry Right Now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My boss asked me to research something for him. It takes several hours of computer time and talking to several people on the phone. And then he doesn't even take my researched opinion into consideration. Why the fuck does my boss tell me to do something and he doesn't even use it!!!!!! Fuck that pisses me offf!!!!
miss.a.p1600
07-12-2017, 08:56 PM
If a person calm and the other is a bad mood, I believe that bad mood people start fucking with calm people because they don't want people to be calm if they are not calm. So Angry Right Now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Common game narcissist and sociopaths play. They know if they are feeling angry they will transfer those emotions onto someone else so they don't have to feel it themselves. They also love attention and ironically negative attention gives them more fuel.
But as far as "normal" people yeah they are probably so caught up in their emotions they don't realize the effect it has on other people.
xxxGothBarbie
07-12-2017, 09:31 PM
I am so sick of this trendy polyamorous type relationship people do. One of my bf's good friends has this ex that feels the need to always text my bf everytime she's going out & he swears up & down she isn't trying anything and that she's just a friend but I can't help but be fucking highly annoyed at her. She sleeps with everyone & "dates" other poly people which is basically a fucked up way of cheating on everyone you're with bc you refuse to wanna make any sort of commitment to anyone. She's told me before in front of him that she has zero interest & that no offense but she'd never fuck my bf but I can't help but get pissy that they are such close buddies all of a sudden since she's started going out to the same bars & nightclubs as him. I go sometimes to & last week I was drunk & lost my shit by going off on both of them while they were talking & I stormed off. She had the nerve to text my bf the next day & say that I need to get my insecurity in check. Gross! People that are poly disgust me!
xStacey
07-13-2017, 12:06 AM
I fucking hate essays, especially for a pass/fail class and with a fever in a foreign country.
seashell
07-13-2017, 01:25 AM
Should have just stayed home tonight. I had to go pick up some stuff from the ex-boyfriend's apartment. Wound up sleeping with him, and literally cried during sex. I tried to hide it, but he totally saw. Wound up having a small panic attack afterward, too. He was really sweet, trying to make sure I was okay, but I just can't deal with being around him. I care about him so much, but I know if I stay with him, I'm going to feel as unhappy and weighed down as I have been feeling this past 5 months. I need to at least avoid him until we both travel to Europe, have visas. and get all that stress out of the way. Until then, no contact. I'm also PMSing, so that probably doesn't help... lol
Glamourmilf
07-13-2017, 05:32 AM
Spray the house w/Ozium too..damn WTF he have on?
Also, there's Citrus Magic spray too citrusmagic.com
I just started using that
The Oziun I used w/ stinky smokers who left onions / cabbage out all day, so that should work
Thanks Whirl.
Did I mention he's also a smoker? Yuck!
When I first met him he was chain-smoking outside my brother's building.
I told my brother that I won't date a smoker, but he said he won't smoke when he's with me.
Doesn't matter. It's still on his clothes, and breath.
Today is old stinkys birthday, and I've made the decision not to call him. It will only lead him on.
It's bad enough that he kept texting me after I told him I was sick and needed to go to sleep.
WendiStarr
07-13-2017, 10:58 AM
Both appointments I had for today ended up cancelling on me within 10 minutes of each other and both for the same reason: unexpected last minute out-of-state business trip for work. I guess I'll be sexting and camming all day to try to make up for this loss. Ugh.
Aurora_Sunset
07-13-2017, 11:07 AM
Lately, I've realized that wine makes me insanely bloated. No idea why. I can drink beer or hard liquor and I'll get full and maybe a little bloated but not too bad. Even one glass of wine just makes me super bloat for at least a full day. I hate it! I love wine. You'd think it'd be lighter on my stomach than liquor mixed with sugary mixers or especially beer. But no. I don't remember it being this way. Not sure why my body is being a little bitch lately.
miss.a.p1600
07-13-2017, 02:38 PM
When men try to assert their alpha male egos by walking into a room and start talking loud as fuck. Okay dude it looks like you are thirsting for attention.
whirlerz
07-13-2017, 05:32 PM
Really upset rn.. thought I lost a gift card, I just put on there a few groceries & a horse charity donation.
I was going to try check out this bar down the street but it's dead.
I came back & can't find the F'n card, I also thought I misplaced some $..
TG I found everything, asswipe sd change our date to Sat. He said he might, but I'm the one texting his ass to ask.
Been taking some Word classes @ the library to gtfo out for a bit.
& some idiots are in the room next to me, Idk if they checked in today or were here from yesterday when I had to crank up the fan to drown whoever out
Just really stressed
xStacey
07-13-2017, 10:30 PM
Getting sick in a foreign country, nose bleed all night, clogged toilet full of poop at 3:30 a.m, I would have survived everything during this trip -_-
Aurora_Sunset
07-14-2017, 05:04 AM
I hate when people in the same department at an organization don't communicate. Or one person decides to "fix" a problem that they would have realized is fixed already if they just took a look at things before deciding it wasn't done. Then I get emails or phone calls asking me to do something that I've already done, and I honestly don't know how to respond to them in a way that makes it clear that I already did that and did not need some babysitting email, but also sounds respectful and like I'm not snarky about it.
Oh, I also got a call from my new apartment complex yesterday... asking me how my apartment search is going and wanting to take me on a tour of the complex. LOL Way to be on top of things, guys. Been living here for almost a month.
WendiStarr
07-14-2017, 10:43 AM
My mom is mad and trying to get my ex's phone number. She wants to call him and cuss him out because his parents are taking her up north on the same day that my youngest sister(who is the same age as my daughter) is having her birthday party. I can't help it that that day happens to fall on his court custody arranged weekend with her. I've already asked him if he'd be willing to switch weekends with me so that my daughter can go to her aunt's birthday party and he said no. I knew that he wouldn't agree to it anyways because my daughter is the only form of control that he has over me and if given an opportunity to be a dick, he will. I could argue that it's his parents that have her during his time with her and not him but it'd get me nowhere. Anyways my mom would just add fuel to the fire if she had his phone number. I could see it causing problems and getting him to start fighting with me and a mess of unnecessary drama. It all comes down to my mom is upset that barely any kids will be at my sister's birthday party. The fact that she home schools her and my other youngest siblings doesn't help matters. I feel like yelling at her that maybe if she put her in public school she could socialize like a normal kid and have friends. Kids are going to have a hard time making friends when they're at home all the time with little outside contact with kids other than a couple kids in the neighborhood. Then she wonders why we all have anxiety. Doh!
DonaDiabla
07-14-2017, 07:51 PM
I really dislike when couples call my direct-dial line because it seems like the girl wants to get catty with me. This week, I had two couples calling me and those were some of the worst calls of the month. I will just block all couples from using my direct-dial line from now on. :)
miss.a.p1600
07-15-2017, 05:05 AM
I hate when dudes want to act like douchemeisters.
I'd form a memory like an elephant or whatever animal that has long memory. Take notes and then remember that shit later when they need a favor (and he will need a favor at some point down the road).
Hey on the good side if your mom wants to cuss someone out I have a dude who deserves it. He needs his ass kicked actually.
My mom is mad and trying to get my ex's phone number. She wants to call him and cuss him out because his parents are taking her up north on the same day that my youngest sister(who is the same age as my daughter) is having her birthday party. I can't help it that that day happens to fall on his court custody arranged weekend with her. I've already asked him if he'd be willing to switch weekends with me so that my daughter can go to her aunt's birthday party and he said no. I knew that he wouldn't agree to it anyways because my daughter is the only form of control that he has over me and if given an opportunity to be a dick, he will. I could argue that it's his parents that have her during his time with her and not him but it'd get me nowhere. Anyways my mom would just add fuel to the fire if she had his phone number. I could see it causing problems and getting him to start fighting with me and a mess of unnecessary drama. It all comes down to my mom is upset that barely any kids will be at my sister's birthday party. The fact that she home schools her and my other youngest siblings doesn't help matters. I feel like yelling at her that maybe if she put her in public school she could socialize like a normal kid and have friends. Kids are going to have a hard time making friends when they're at home all the time with little outside contact with kids other than a couple kids in the neighborhood. Then she wonders why we all have anxiety. Doh!
WendiStarr
07-15-2017, 06:38 AM
^ Yeah, if only we could give her your dude's phone number. My mom is crazy. She'll blow up people's phones with angry calls and texts all day long when mad at someone. Usually I'm the one on the receiving end of her wrath. She texted me that she's gonna buy his phone number off of Spokeo or something. I don't know why she feels the need to expend so much energy on this. It drives me nuts because I know it'll only cause my ex to be a dick to me for it, when I have no control over my crazy ass mom.
whirlerz
07-15-2017, 12:27 PM
Really wish the SD would be a lil more discreet, lol. I mean we're in a restaurant, people can hear, he's asking me about $ which's fine, but tone it the fuck down. Please!
2 guys behind us, I got the side eye as we were leaving, it doesn't help the ugly ass crap he wears too.
I know, should'nt let it bother me, but just ugh, ya know?:-[
Also, I told him there's a cheap but good carwash, he said if car's dirty, it's less likely to be stolen::)
Ookay
WendiStarr
07-15-2017, 04:48 PM
Chuck E. Cheese and their buttfucking prices, my gosh
baer45
07-15-2017, 04:52 PM
Really wish the SD would be a lil more discreet, lol. I mean we're in a restaurant, people can hear, he's asking me about $ which's fine, but tone it the fuck down. Please!
2 guys behind us, I got the side eye as we were leaving, it doesn't help the ugly ass crap he wears too.
I know, should'nt let it bother me, but just ugh, ya know?:-[
Also, I told him there's a cheap but good carwash, he said if car's dirty, it's less likely to be stolen::)
Ookay
It's unlikely to get much from people like him
whirlerz
07-15-2017, 06:45 PM
Yea, I know, but gotta make the best of it for now
miss.a.p1600
07-16-2017, 10:03 AM
Some really weird people out here.
Some ugly woman who looked like she crawled out of a molehill pulls up beside me in the drive through line I guess t try to skip or to keep from doing like most normal people which is go to the back of the line and wait her turn.
She looked salty as hell when I end up not one but two spaces ahead of her.
What a savage! It's not like the place isn't open 24 hours and we're going to get our food roughly the same time regardless.
whirlerz
07-16-2017, 08:23 PM
Well, Idk..some lady w/2 loud kids checked in, they all went swimming for a while but they're back & LOUD AF. It almost 10:30
I feel like going out to my storage & slamming the fuck out of the door.
I had my fan cranked up to drown 'em out but it's blowing the dust around & bothering my allergies.
WendiStarr
07-17-2017, 09:42 AM
My grandma is mad at me for not going to my dad's gf's daughter's party. I mentioned my shitty relationship with my dad before on here and how his gf is a controlling cunt and interferes with any contact with him. Cunt doesn't want me having any contact with my dad because of the whole will thing and wanting all his money for herself and her kids who are not even biologically his. My grandma said that I should've gone anyways. Why would I have been interested in showing up with my daughter to that mess? My grandma said that the cunt was making it seem like I'm a bad person for not caring about my dad and that if I cared I would've come to the party. I guess cunt and her family sat around talking about how it was sad that I don't even see my dad and what kind of person wouldn't see their dad. Really? I've spent most of my childhood trying to be a part of my dad's life and he chose to not be there. He made a half assed attempt at being in my life back in May but no matter what, cunt keeps getting in the way. On his birthday back in June I called him and cunt answered his phone and told me that he said that he doesn't want anything to do with me, so why the heck would I go to a party that I was never invited to in the first place(not that I'd have shown up anyways)? I'm my dad's only biological child and yet he doesn't make any effort to be in my life. I can't call, text, email or anything without cunt answering his phone or reading his email and calling me to tell me that my dad doesn't want to talk to me so I don't bother anymore. I don't get how people can't understand why I'm so calloused towards my dad.
whirlerz
07-17-2017, 11:23 AM
Cause they don't live the situation like you do. & they deliberately throw a monkey wrench in every thing to fuck it up more
Ok, so was @ my hospital to pay on a bill, I get in line @ the Starbucks, some goofus B wants a detailed, laundry list breakdown of every ingredient in the drink (while a line forms)..for cry fucking eye
just order it ok?::)
Also, wanted to pay more on my bill, but the cashier's in another area so I coudn't, cause the alt cashier has no change>:(
miss.a.p1600
07-17-2017, 02:50 PM
My grandma is mad at me for not going to my dad's gf's daughter's party. I mentioned my shitty relationship with my dad before on here and how his gf is a controlling cunt and interferes with any contact with him. Cunt doesn't want me having any contact with my dad because of the whole will thing and wanting all his money for herself and her kids who are not even biologically his. My grandma said that I should've gone anyways. Why would I have been interested in showing up with my daughter to that mess? My grandma said that the cunt was making it seem like I'm a bad person for not caring about my dad and that if I cared I would've come to the party. I guess cunt and her family sat around talking about how it was sad that I don't even see my dad and what kind of person wouldn't see their dad. Really? I've spent most of my childhood trying to be a part of my dad's life and he chose to not be there. He made a half assed attempt at being in my life back in May but no matter what, cunt keeps getting in the way. On his birthday back in June I called him and cunt answered his phone and told me that he said that he doesn't want anything to do with me, so why the heck would I go to a party that I was never invited to in the first place(not that I'd have shown up anyways)? I'm my dad's only biological child and yet he doesn't make any effort to be in my life. I can't call, text, email or anything without cunt answering his phone or reading his email and calling me to tell me that my dad doesn't want to talk to me so I don't bother anymore. I don't get how people can't understand why I'm so calloused towards my dad.
His gf sounds manipulative and controlling. She's probably brainwashing your grandma and dad. Hopefully they'll come to their senses but the more you're not there to defend yourself against her negative influence the more they may start to believe her.
WendiStarr
07-17-2017, 03:20 PM
His gf sounds manipulative and controlling. She's probably brainwashing your grandma and dad. Hopefully they'll come to their senses but the more you're not there to defend yourself against her negative influence the more they may start to believe her.
My grandma doesn't like her one bit. Grandma told me herself that she doesn't and thinks that cunt is just using my dad for money, too. She was bragging to her about how she doesn't have to work because he pays for everything. Gram said that she doubts dad would listen to her so she doesn't bother. I'd just rather spare myself the drama.
WendiStarr
07-17-2017, 06:37 PM
her-bids. They claimed to have hourly pay of $7.25 which isn't much but I figured hey, why not add it as another egg in my basket when I'm not camming on big name sites, pso, or any of my other gigs. I'd just be listening to music, dancing, and such anyways to pass the time until a customer came in. My first time on, 2 hours went by and nobody. I took a break and got on for another 4 hours, still nobody. I tried again today and in the nearly 5 hours that I've spent online, not one customer. This is highly unusual and must mean that their customers are either non-existent or are extremely low volume. I noticed that there was no tracker to see stats of how long I'd been on. I emailed support. It wasn't until I emailed them that they tell me that they've decided that they're only going to pay commission since they can't see how long I've been on. What a fucking waste of time. Ugh! Yes, I've overused the petty annoyances thread today.
miss.a.p1600
07-17-2017, 07:49 PM
My grandma doesn't like her one bit. Grandma told me herself that she doesn't and thinks that cunt is just using my dad for money, too. She was bragging to her about how she doesn't have to work because he pays for everything. Gram said that she doubts dad would listen to her so she doesn't bother. I'd just rather spare myself the drama.
I feel ya. I'll trade places with you and your mom (so she can be the phone enforcer lol) and I'll say whatever you want to your dads Ball n chain.
whirlerz
07-17-2017, 08:22 PM
I reeeally wish the damn truckers would actually shut off their trucks in the hotel parking lot.. annoying AF
Also, the bathrooms at the storage are disgusting