View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
miss.a.p1600
12-09-2017, 06:58 PM
I don't feel like talking to the old dude. So his call went to voicemail.
I started back texting this other dude I used to date but somehow things fizzled out. Then later I found out he got married but allegedly only did it out of obligation and it didn't work out. I don't know if this trick is still married or divorced or what.
And how i found out his ass was married? - the bish he married showed up in my facebook 'friends you might know' - with his last name as hers and her wedding photo as her avatar *gag me* ........naw Bertha, aint no free stalking here you gone have to be blocked
Then I blocked him for like years cause I didn't want no parts of that.
When I heard he was unhappily married (possibly divorced) I decided to accept his instagram follow.....
I don't know where it will go, I feel slightly resentful towards him, and part of me thinks like damn can I find a good, generous dude who has never been married?!?
seashell
12-10-2017, 12:52 AM
People asking me what race I am, and then being like, “nooo... you don’t look Mexican!” “Is it on your mom or dad’s side?”
First of all, how freaking shocking can that possibly be? I’m Hispanic, both sides of my family came out of Mexico, and we have a mix of dark and light skin tones. I have fair skin, almost black hair, and dark brown eyes. White people from Spain conquered an awful lot of places, and there are Mexicans, Hispanics, and Latinos in all shades of skin tones. I don’t know if people are trying to be playful or flirty when they do this, but it’s fucking annoying. Like what do you want, a history lesson? Lol
ThornyAndHot
12-10-2017, 09:57 AM
Just got mistaken for a homeless person after working out in sweats, then heading over to Whole Foods. I even had on a Beyonce sweatshirt when he approached me. I guess he's not up on the culture? Her apparel is not cheap.
Full disclosure.. I took that five dollars.
I would have taken that $5 too and chalked it up to the season.
Aurora_Sunset
12-10-2017, 10:44 AM
I've really been trying to cut back on unnecessary spending lately, so it really pisses me off when I make the calculated decision to spoil myself for once with delivery food, and they either fuck up my order or the food is lucklaster. Today, it's both. My food is cold, part is overcooked/part is undercooked, and they completely left out a side order I added on for $4. I've also adopted a rule that if I'm not enjoying my food, I stop eating it. It's not worth the calories to eat shittily-prepared food that I'm not enjoying just because it's front of me. But I paid damn near $30 for it, so it would be so wasteful, and I need to eat.
The worst part is, if I wanted to get in my car and go bitch someone out for new food, I wouldn't have paid damn near $10 in delivery fees and tips in the first fucking place in order to NOT have to go out anywhere.
I don't know what to do... I don't want to toss $30 in the trash and have to find new food anyway, and I'm hungry, but fucking eating this garbage that isn't even my full order that I paid for is literally making me angry every time I take a bite.
Aurora_Sunset
12-10-2017, 11:32 AM
Also, I've been trying to sign up to drive with Uber for the last few days. Twice, they rejected my vehicle registration because the picture wasn't good enough. I always got that notification within an hour of sending it. Now it's been a full day since I last sent in another picture according to their specifications, and no word on being accepted and being able to get started. Hmm... You can review things instantly to tell me they aren't good enough, but not to tell me that they're fine?
LoveyDovey
12-10-2017, 12:36 PM
I've really been trying to cut back on unnecessary spending lately, so it really pisses me off when I make the calculated decision to spoil myself for once with delivery food, and they either fuck up my order or the food is lucklaster. Today, it's both. My food is cold, part is overcooked/part is undercooked, and they completely left out a side order I added on for $4. I've also adopted a rule that if I'm not enjoying my food, I stop eating it. It's not worth the calories to eat shittily-prepared food that I'm not enjoying just because it's front of me. But I paid damn near $30 for it, so it would be so wasteful, and I need to eat.
The worst part is, if I wanted to get in my car and go bitch someone out for new food, I wouldn't have paid damn near $10 in delivery fees and tips in the first fucking place in order to NOT have to go out anywhere.
I don't know what to do... I don't want to toss $30 in the trash and have to find new food anyway, and I'm hungry, but fucking eating this garbage that isn't even my full order that I paid for is literally making me angry every time I take a bite.
Perhaps contact the restaurant and complain? See if they can refund you. Cuz that's bs.
Aurora_Sunset
12-10-2017, 01:51 PM
Perhaps contact the restaurant and complain? See if they can refund you. Cuz that's bs.
I did an online complaint, and they did refund me for the side I didn't receive. But when I tried to submit a second complaint about the food being cold (these were drop-down list items where you could only choose ONE at a time), it wouldn't go through and told me "You already submitted a complaint for this order!" Yeah, well... I had MORE complaints. Ugh... I ate the food that was warm and then just had a cup of hot chocolate and went for a run.
baer45
12-10-2017, 07:04 PM
My ring slipped off my finger twice already. But when I step on the scale, I still weight the same as last month.
yaya_cash
12-10-2017, 07:29 PM
I hate when you approach somebody or doing a dance and he reaches and tries to kisse you. That is so annoying- That--- what a creep-- thinks that's alright?
yaya_cash
12-10-2017, 07:38 PM
Why do people have to be damn so touchy, and, without spending?
yaya_cash
12-10-2017, 07:47 PM
I hate how the busier season in New York has started and customers have gotten rude and touchy, which makes it harder to deal with the club/s.
miss.a.p1600
12-10-2017, 10:33 PM
The old dude said he thinks about me all the time......Then he said he thinks about making love to me ?!?!?!?
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miss.a.p1600
12-10-2017, 10:48 PM
When dude mentions making love and all I can think is.......
whirlerz
12-11-2017, 02:13 PM
Love it, Ms P!^
So, again w/the BS..
SD changes our meet date from today to yesterday, cause of snow forecast, which it didn't, even so was supposed to be 1"?::)
Then he proceeded to tell me he won a lot on a scratch off, (he has to pickup) & gives me 100. only? Uh, ok. He wanted to see me this Wed, I said I'd consider, but that's gonna be no since he wants to barely give me enough to live on?
Tired of his cheap ass, & to me it's embarrassing AF that he orders toast only @ the one restaurant.
I'm going to try applying for a vanilla job.
So tired of this shit already.
miss.a.p1600
12-11-2017, 09:19 PM
I have come to the conclusion that his money aint where I need it to be to consider him husband/lover/etc material. I have to make a decision and either convince him to do a duo hustle or keep him as a friend until he's back in the steady flowing green again.
miss.a.p1600
12-12-2017, 10:33 AM
Supposed to meet the old dude today.
I wish I could cancel because I think he might be acting extra thirsty plus I'd rather stay at home, listen to music, and pretend I'm twerking on a pole.
Staci
12-12-2017, 10:44 AM
My ring slipped off my finger twice already. But when I step on the scale, I still weight the same as last month.
My rings always get loose on my fingers in cold weather.
LoveyDovey
12-12-2017, 03:11 PM
Our work holiday party is tomorrow and I've come down with a nasty chest cold/cough. I never get sick. Why now???
miss.a.p1600
12-12-2017, 10:03 PM
My dad offered for me to bring along my "guy friend" on this family outing we are about to have.
I told my dad the dude was old. He was like how old lol. I told him his age and I think he lost it. Then I said his financial status/ability to provide for the family I want is currently unknown.
I told him he treats me well (with the exception of his annoying quirks which I did not mention) and acts like a gentleman.
But regardless....
He was like "well, i don't know if I want to meet him now"
#deadaf
WendiStarr
12-13-2017, 09:44 AM
Peeks. There is absolutely no reason why they shouldn't be able to pay their broadcasters with their claimed, "$455k in monthly deposits" lining their pockets. I've been sending them emails nearly every day about my money. It's not just me. There are others who've not been paid either. I'm sick of their bullshit excuses like claiming Chase Quickpay isn't available in my area. Bullshit. I'm in the US and have been paid by Chase Quickpay by people out of the country before. I have also sent money out of the country via Chase Quickpay, with no issues or added charges. Peeks is based out of Canada. If I could send and receive $ from people via Chase Quickpay as far as UK, I don't see what the hold up would be with Canada. It's just excuses to try to get out of paying us what we're owed and it's bs.
I don't want to make another post here so I'll just add to this one. Stupid motherfuckers who waste my time. I had a new client book me for 2 hours so I got a room. He showed up, comes in, sit downs, start talking. I'm just thinking, "Ok, why isn't he putting his donation down on the table?" He's just going on and on about the traffic, weather, work, etc. I didn't want to make it awkward by asking but I had to because he wasn't doing anything but talking. Then he has the nerve to say,"Oh, I forgot my wallet but I can pay you tomorrow". Um, no! It doesn't work that way. Would you go to a restaurant, eat, and tell them that sorry, you forgot your wallet and will pay them tomorrow? Hell no! Fucking wasted my time and money. Ugh!
Vyanka
12-13-2017, 05:03 PM
Irks me that females get shamed for a male's negative behavior. Like it is in nature to treat females cruel. It is a man's world and will always be. *sigh*
For ex... young horny teen boys groping young girls or talking sexually nasty to girls is expected bc of their age. It is usually the girl's "fault for letting it happen bc she hasn't told the little jerk to stop". Well, fuck... how about she is caught off guard and don't know what to say stop. Yes, we are taught to stand up for ourselves, etc... but wtf doesn't asshole young teen not get punished for his disrespectful behavior??
Hell, if I catch any of my nephews being nasty perverts at girls, I'm gonna say something to them.
It's like young girls getting slut shamed for NOT doing ANYTHING, bc some little perverted twirp got fresh. This fucking irks me. How about you teach your little man to respect females.
miss.a.p1600
12-13-2017, 05:40 PM
I am pissed I am still getting carded. No I do not look like I am 19 now quit asking me for id and give me my damn liquor! lol
lilylilylily
12-13-2017, 07:16 PM
I'm grateful to have found a restaurant where the food is cheap and good BUT the customer service was terrible, rude waitress that can't even say thank you..ugg
BarbieNYC
12-14-2017, 07:53 AM
I don't understand people who feel the need to white lie and embellish stories.
My study buddy is a really smart and funny kid. I really like him as a person. He is a good guy. But he is such a compulsive liar and I'm like why? there is no need to do that. Everyone in the class already likes you.
His white lies are harmless but he'll say a story to our classmates and totally embellish it forgetting that I was there too. And he will lie to me forgetting that he told me something different 2 weeks before. I don't get it.
He also is a people pleaser and pays for everyone when we go out to eat even though we insist not to. Like he's the type to buy the whole class food to get them to like him. He's gonna make a very good stripclub customer one of these days LOL
He's a funny likeable guy. Why lie??
Aurora_Sunset
12-14-2017, 11:15 AM
I hate interviews so much. The one I had today is my preferred company and I wish I could just get an answer so I could cancel my interview tomorrow morning if I don't need to go through it. But I don't feel that confident. I never feel confident after interviews. My answers for "give an example of a time when..." questions are always some lame BS I pull out of my ass cuz I don't think of anything beforehand.
lynn2009
12-14-2017, 03:21 PM
My professor added an "engagement tracking" function to our online classes. FFS.
seashell
12-14-2017, 05:28 PM
Sex work is definitely dragging me down, mentally. A person can only take being treated like an object for so long. Also, I really think I have PTSD from some past life experiences. The other day, my boyfriend was being playful and play-fighting with me, and it made me really upset. That night, I had a nightmare that he was trying to kill me. I really need an outlet for all the feelings and issues sex work brings up in my life. And I just get upset fairly often during everyday events, like when men try to talk to me, or when people say things in a slightly rude or condescending way. I’m good at hiding it, but this is just not healthy. A counselor would be great, although I’m just not sure that they’d understand. I might sign up for Talkspace, the counseling phone app...
Aurora_Sunset
12-14-2017, 06:58 PM
People who are so fucking particular about talking about time. God forbid you round, or your estimate of when you did something or how long it took is a little off when you first try to tell it because you weren't paying super close attention to the clock, they call you on every little discrepancy like they think they're super-sleuths, catching you in some huge lie or something.
Like, "Sorry I didn't call back earlier, I got out of such-and-such around 11 and it takes about 20 minutes to get home. I just walked in the door."
"WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU JUST WALKED IN THE DOOR? It's 11:23. If you got out at 11 and it took you 20 minutes to get home, wh- well, WHERE did the other 3 minutes go if you 'just walked in the door' HMMMM?"
Like, fucking shit, I wasn't being exact or staring at a goddam clock and recording times down to the minute for my every maneuver in and out of buildings and scenarios. The above is not a real, specific conversation, but.... honestly, pretty damn close. I know at least 2 people like this.
WendiStarr
12-14-2017, 08:11 PM
Damn little flies or what ever they are..
I've gone through almost a whole bottle of ACV, making 'traps', dumping bleach down the drains, etc.
I was told to keep drains closed, I do that, but to have to dry the sink every time I wash my hands? Yipes. Guess I'll have to ask at the hardware store
Drain flies? You need someone to open the p-trap under the sink. There's something in there that the nasty little suckers are eating and breeding on. Those bugs feed on hair, toothpaste, and soap scum. At night time, put tape over the drain. Tape over the hole in the side of the sink, too because they can be in there and come crawling or flying out. In the morning the adults and larvae will be dead, stuck to the tape.
Aurora_Sunset
12-15-2017, 07:11 AM
This weirdo client that I saw last month keeps saying he's coming back into town just to see me (like, motherfucker doesn't even live near here, he has to fly in). I didn't like him and don't want to see him again. Not that he was a psycho or anything, but... let's just say I have my reasons. -_- Every time he texts me, asking if I'm free on such-and-such weekend, I play the vague card of "Oh, I don't know, keep me updated on your plans and hopefully we can work something out." And then his next text will be that he booked a flight! I never respond to these texts after that.
Last time, he texted me that he had to cancel our meeting cuz his flight was delayed due to bad weather. I didn't respond. (Like, dude, I never said we actually had a meeting that day anyway! And I was out of town cuz I had no intention of meeting him lol) And now he's done the same thing to me this weekend. Said "flight's booked!" even after I told him I possibly have to work the day he was saying he wanted to come in, and then never responded to him after that... I'm going to be gone again all day that day. I certainly hope he isn't seriously flying into the city JUST to see me when I've been obviously dodging making a real plan with him... then again, if he's that stupid, serves him right.
MistressX
12-15-2017, 10:18 AM
My fiance is pissing me off. He doesnt pay attention to stuff i say. Like i wrote a huge long message to him on facebook messenger last night while he was asleep and he woke up and completely didnt even see it. Didnt read it. Wasnt even aware it was there. Jesus fucking christ pay attention!
whirlerz
12-16-2017, 12:07 PM
Aw, hugs to you, you're so sweet^!
Damn w/these little flies, I don't know what they are, they're not drain flies..
They're just tiny brown flies..
I've been googling about them, last night I cleaned my drains, I put ammonia down them, I also have them by my night stand, where there's also apple cider vinegar trap.
I'm burning.incense now, waiting for take out delivery.
Fuck this place :(
miss.a.p1600
12-16-2017, 02:03 PM
This weirdo client that I saw last month keeps saying he's coming back into town just to see me (like, motherfucker doesn't even live near here, he has to fly in). I didn't like him and don't want to see him again. Not that he was a psycho or anything, but... let's just say I have my reasons. -_- Every time he texts me, asking if I'm free on such-and-such weekend, I play the vague card of "Oh, I don't know, keep me updated on your plans and hopefully we can work something out." And then his next text will be that he booked a flight! I never respond to these texts after that.
Last time, he texted me that he had to cancel our meeting cuz his flight was delayed due to bad weather. I didn't respond. (Like, dude, I never said we actually had a meeting that day anyway! And I was out of town cuz I had no intention of meeting him lol) And now he's done the same thing to me this weekend. Said "flight's booked!" even after I told him I possibly have to work the day he was saying he wanted to come in, and then never responded to him after that... I'm going to be gone again all day that day. I certainly hope he isn't seriously flying into the city JUST to see me when I've been obviously dodging making a real plan with him... then again, if he's that stupid, serves him right.
Dudes like that don't GAF. They make unilateral decisions/plans/etc cause hey - they're so magnificent in their delusional minds they are entitled!
I wish I could be moderator for a day and permanently ban 1 specific member. He is hella condescending, overbearing, sociopathic (admitted in his own words), and really serves no purpose and his snake ass is only on here to troll for unsuspecting desperate female members going for his pathetic con game. *gag me*
WendiStarr
12-16-2017, 03:56 PM
Annoying ass client who told me that he was coming into town from out of state today to see me. He called me to tell me that his plane landed and that he's on his way to his hotel now. He said he'll let me know the room # once he checks in. An hour went by and I didn't hear from him so I called him to see what was up. He told me that I could come now and that he'd give me the room # once I got there and to call him once I got there. I went there and when I tried calling, his phone went straight to voicemail. I tried again, voicemail. I waited a few minutes but still nothing so I went back home. Ugh! I swear lawyers make the worst clients. I wish I could send him a $600+ bill for that, like lawyers do when their clients pull a no show on them.
Elektra Luxx
12-16-2017, 03:56 PM
Note to bf: DO NOT give me any jewery that looks like or may be mistaken for an engagement ring because you will be out on your ass!!! I don't ever want to be in a proposal situation in front of a crowd. I'd rather...(and I've told him this before) you use me for sex and leave some money on the bedstand and leave. I'm perfectly fine with that. I don't want you to
[email protected]#k around on me and I'm not going to
[email protected]#k around on you, but I don't want to get that serious yet.
whirlerz
12-16-2017, 04:52 PM
Ok, so the damn flies are around my plants too I don't over water either..I had an open bag of plant soil, I closed it, seal the bag.
Put another ACV trap down by there, so now has 2..
Ms P, kindly kick u know who blue member in his no nuts..
Not even gonna respond to his lame ass.>:(
I wanna see the I, Tonya movie, apparently not out til 12/21.:(
Edit: @Wendi, is there a way to get a deposit or something? I know when I did bachelor parties they did that.
That's fucking ignorant!
whirlerz
12-16-2017, 08:06 PM
Dudes like that don't GAF. They make unilateral decisions/plans/etc cause hey - they're so magnificent in their delusional minds they are entitled!
I wish I could be moderator for a day and permanently ban 1 specific member. He is hella condescending, overbearing, sociopathic (admitted in his own words), and really serves no purpose and his snake ass is only on here to troll for unsuspecting desperate female members going for his pathetic con game. *gag me*
Lol!^ See my comment above..yea fuck that Asshole
baer45
12-16-2017, 08:53 PM
Note to bf: DO NOT give me any jewery that looks like or may be mistaken for an engagement ring because you will be out on your ass!!! I don't ever want to be in a proposal situation in front of a crowd. I'd rather...(and I've told him this before) you use me for sex and leave some money on the bedstand and leave. I'm perfectly fine with that. I don't want you to
[email protected]#k around on me and I'm not going to
[email protected]#k around on you, but I don't want to get that serious yet.
But if he does leave some money on the bedstand, you would have his ass handed to him too.
Elektra Luxx
12-16-2017, 11:15 PM
But if he does leave some money on the bedstand, you would have his ass handed to him too.
Lol!!! Not at all. I'd kiss him at the door and tell him "I can't wait til next time".
baer45
12-17-2017, 12:03 AM
Lol!!! Not at all. I'd kiss him at the door and tell him "I can't wait til next time".
:). That kind of bf I have a few.
lynn2009
12-17-2017, 09:02 AM
My parents are both screaming at me because I have to do homework instead of visit family.
Aurora_Sunset
12-17-2017, 10:47 AM
Dudes like that don't GAF. They make unilateral decisions/plans/etc cause hey - they're so magnificent in their delusional minds they are entitled!
Yup! He apparently did come just to see me. He texted me that his plane had landed and asked what I was doing in a VERY small window of time. I said I was busy. And then he was all "Guess I'll just go back to the airport and try to get an earlier flight home. I only came in to see you and was heading right back out. *sad face emoji*" Like...??? Maybe if it was a multi-hour appointment and we'd had some great rapport... but I've seen him ONCE, it was awkward, and he only books an hour. Why would you do that??
Then he told me he was "heading back to Pittsburgh." Umm... last time he was here, he said he lived in New Orleans. ::)
Serena-Shields
12-17-2017, 07:10 PM
I don't get some of these cam customers lmao. So rude. Don't say disrespectful shit to me and expect me to still give you what you want.
whirlerz
12-17-2017, 10:17 PM
Annoying Asshole RD, I put him on ignore, I actually was just ignoring him on my own. Pig.
LoveyDovey
12-17-2017, 10:18 PM
Annoying Asshole RD, I put him on ignore, I actually was just ignoring him on my own. Pig.
^I've had him on ignore for a long time now.
miss.a.p1600
12-18-2017, 09:31 AM
Yup! He apparently did come just to see me. He texted me that his plane had landed and asked what I was doing in a VERY small window of time. I said I was busy. And then he was all "Guess I'll just go back to the airport and try to get an earlier flight home. I only came in to see you and was heading right back out. *sad face emoji*" Like...??? Maybe if it was a multi-hour appointment and we'd had some great rapport... but I've seen him ONCE, it was awkward, and he only books an hour. Why would you do that??
Then he told me he was "heading back to Pittsburgh." Umm... last time he was here, he said he lived in New Orleans. ::)
OMG!LOL.... He was probably at whatever hotel he initially told you, was in there playing candy crush in his hotel room alone and wacking it and feeling dumb for making haphazard plans but trying to save face and play it cool with you
I think he probably thought you were going to drop everything and come running when he said (what sounded like a slick guilt trip) "Guess I'll just go back to the airport and try to get an earlier flight home. I only came in to see you and was heading right back out. *sad face emoji*"
*sigh*
Male species I tell ya they are quite intriguing creatures
miss.a.p1600
12-18-2017, 09:39 AM
^I've had him on ignore for a long time now.
Exactly! Whatever you do - don't read sw without being logged in or you'll see his posts.
He needs to be checked on like 75% of his posts - however, he gets orgasms from female attention that he gets here for free. Sometimes he pays (bargain basement prices) when he convinces unsuspecting members on here to meet up with him in the clubs he visits. Thats the reason his ass is on here all the cotdamn time - he is trolling for pussy and/or attention whichever comes easiest and cheapest.
He spends so much time on here creating multiple pages within a thread debating anyone who doesn't think like him - the whole time I am wondering "where is yo wife though"???? If he really even has one, she has to be getting paid really well to tolerate his philandering and neglect.
Even if you ignore him, he will quote your posts over and over again to try to force you to respond to him.
Slick ass bastard!
miss.a.p1600
12-18-2017, 10:10 AM
^^^This is just one thread of his (but if you have time to read his posting history here and TUSCL or dealt with him in private - the bigger picture starts to emerge)
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?214236-Customer-and-Dancer-Humanity&highlight=sociopath
ScarletKitten
12-18-2017, 07:09 PM
WHY THE FUCK did I participate in that thread?! Jack needs to fuck off. I fucking hate all men, especially men like him. Fucking idiot.
Ok I'm done. Time to go zen now.
baer45
12-18-2017, 08:15 PM
God Damn it. I found out the reason why my credit score keep dropping. Utilization ratio! My credit cards were paid on time but they carried very high balance before the due day.