View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
SugarCookies
01-09-2018, 02:57 AM
Went to a punk show over the weekend. After all the stress and anxiety I've been dealing with lately, I just wanted to relax in a setting with good music and nice people and feel safe. Had a good night, except that I was annoyed with a few guys who kept hitting on me. It's not cool to keep trying to get at me after I mention that I'm taken and show signs that I'm not interested in talking any further. Before I would laugh it off and just find it amusing, but after I was assaulted it's become an annoyance and quite triggering.
On a related note. Hate it when men keep saying that women should be flattered by any and all male attention because "you will miss it when you're older/looks fade". People like compliments, women do appreciate simple comments such as "you are pretty". But there is a difference between a simple compliment vs being annoying and aggressive. You think I'm rude because I don't want to respond to your advances? But you don't think you're being rude by continuing to pursue me after it's obvious I'm not interested and interrupting me while I'm standing next to friends? I think my problem is I'm too nice and trusting of people. I have to start being aggressive. Don't care if men think of me as a "bitch" anymore.
Glamourmilf
01-09-2018, 05:07 AM
Everywhere I go, people are sneezing and coughing next to me without covering their mouths! OMG! Are you PURPOSELY trying to make other people sick, because you're unhappy that YOU are?
And why are these people out shopping anyway? Stay home if you're sick!
I couldn't believe how many people at a New Year's Eve party I went to were sick with a cold!
The last time I got the flu was because I used to shake everyone's hand. I'm reinstating that policy of not shaking anyone's hand, after shaking someone's hand at my grief group, and then hear him announce that he's got a cold! WTF!
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miss.a.p1600
01-09-2018, 08:09 AM
^^^Girl I am so quick to move away from someone coughing or sneezing - and I am not discreet lol because they should know what they are doing is GROSS!
I am a complete germaphobe.
If i have to cough or sneeze - I use the inside corner of my arm so my hands don't get contaminated. And I keep non-alcoholic (my skin is sensitive esp in winter) sanitizer on deck in case I have to touch stuff other people have touched with their filthy hands.
They really should teach germ prevention in schools at a young age.
Vyanka
01-09-2018, 02:05 PM
Wtf is up with this gummy bear addiction I have???! I don't even have a sweet tooth like that.
seashell
01-09-2018, 02:37 PM
I don't know why I get so attached to guys who are cold as ice. It's like their emotional distance is comforting to me. I like the way that they aren't aggressive, or overly excitable, or overly affectionate. They calm down my anxious self. But then, they have zero fucking emotion when it comes to a relationship. I need more.
And on a tangent, I don't know why I feel the need to "take care of" my loser ex-boyfriend who is still living with me (5 more days...). I gave him so many opportunities... I took him traveling, paid for nice restaurants... he came with me to Europe... I tried to help him find jobs. But big surprise, he's still a loser. I can't wait for him to finally leave, so I can stop feeling sorry for him and move on.
Girl Anachronism
01-09-2018, 03:06 PM
really stressed because i have until mid feb to make as much money as possible and its SO DEAD EVERYWHERE. what shitty timing- everyone knows the beginning of the year is the worst in most places, even restaurants are dead. and i can't travel to NOLA like i want because i don't have an ID because it hasn't come in the mail yet. i even tried getting a job at a tex mex place as a server but its slow as fuck there too and i don't have time to be scooping beans for $2.15 an hour. i had no idea they did that here in texas because i have always waited tables/bartended in california where they actually pay you min wage. i left after my first shift. wasted the measly $25 i made on ugly ass non-slip shoes UGH. i would have kept the shitty job as a stepping stone for a better one (like a nicer place downtown) but if i'm leaving soon it's a waste of time when i could be dancing or camming.
luckily i have tons of places to stay when i leave and won't be paying rent for a while so i can just save save save until i decided where i want to live. or me and my bf decide to stay together. idk. it's on the fence for both of us weather or not this is a break or a breakup.
also, on the topic of petty, for some reason my Drunk Self thought it was a good idea to book my "breakup flight home" on fucking valentines day lol that bitch always does the most *eye roll at myself*
WendiStarr
01-09-2018, 03:43 PM
I seen an ad for available apartments in an upscale area 30 minutes away from me. It's in a nice area and is a 2 bedroom, which is what I need. I went there in person and the dude had a bit of a sassy attitude with me when he told me that they have no apartments available. Really? Why are the ads up for it then and what's with the sign out front, advertising that there are available apartments?
whirlerz
01-09-2018, 03:52 PM
That's Shitty, hate when people do that shit.
I hope U find a great place Wendi, U deserve it!
whirlerz
01-09-2018, 05:15 PM
PS Wendi, maybe U can go BK there when Mr non-personality is working..or have a friend call & check it out ?
WendiStarr
01-09-2018, 06:08 PM
^ Thank you, whirlerz <3 Yes, good idea. I'll have a friend call and check it out.
whirlerz
01-09-2018, 08:39 PM
Yay! ^
Glamourmilf
01-10-2018, 08:01 AM
^^^Girl I am so quick to move away from someone coughing or sneezing - and I am not discreet lol because they should know what they are doing is GROSS!
I am a complete germaphobe.
If i have to cough or sneeze - I use the inside corner of my arm so my hands don't get contaminated. And I keep non-alcoholic (my skin is sensitive esp in winter) sanitizer on deck in case I have to touch stuff other people have touched with their filthy hands.
They really should teach germ prevention in schools at a young age.
I'm a germaphobe too. I keep forgetting to keep my hand sanitizer at the ready. I'm going to take it a step further and wear my latex medical gloves.
Aurora_Sunset
01-10-2018, 08:43 AM
I don't think my ex is "getting it." He kept pushing to say "something new" to me over the phone the other night, and I kept telling him I didn't want to talk on the phone so to send it via text or facebook. He kept asking if I was in public or with other people, not quite seeming to comprehend that NO, I just don't want to fucking talk to him on the phone. He finally sent me voice messages on facebook, and I acknowledged that I got them, but didn't say anything else about them.
He called Monday night to discuss logistics of taking care of his cat (she's sick, gets treatment much closer to me, and I offered to continue helping as much as I could because I don't want the cat's health to suffer just because it's too much of a burden on him by himself), but when he asked how I was doing in terms of our breakup, I made it very clear I didn't want to talk about it. We talked again briefly yesterday about the cat and her appointments, and he's been perfectly "normal" in conversation during all of that.
But then called without warning last night, leaving me a voicemail about wanting to talk about the letter he sent me. Yeah, he sent me a letter that arrived yesterday afternoon. Basically saying the exact same shit that he's been saying the entire time he's been trying to convince me not to break up. Nothing new - just a bunch of empty bullshit about how he knows better than to make mountains out of molehills and I need to give us another chance so he can prove how great and chill he can be about everything. Very guilt-trippy shit at the end that I suppose was supposed to tug on my heartstrings or something....
Like, no dude. I'm not talking to you about your letter. I'm not persuaded by your 2 pages of regurgitating the same shit you spent 10 hours in the car trying to tell me. I thought he was being mature in backing off from the conversation and only talking about logistical stuff, but that's obviously not the case. He thinks he's still "convincing me" to give us another chance. No...
WendiStarr
01-10-2018, 03:47 PM
I'm annoyed with my sensitive skin. Razor rash.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-10-2018, 03:56 PM
I'm annoyed with my sensitive skin. Razor rash.
The old school solution to razor rash is shaving with baby oil...
miss.a.p1600
01-10-2018, 06:00 PM
doesn't that clog the razor and your pores?
There is some serum I swear by - it's non alcohol - and works wonders - you can pm me if you want the name of it.
And I do not like my mother. I told this heaux I had been verbally/emotionally and financially abused and the stupid bitch was like I dont even believe that exists and you have to take responsibility. Um NO heaux I refuse to be responsible for someone else hatred animosity towards me. I'm not responsible for someone bullying me. If I have a contract where the person owe's me money, I expect a person to abide by it otherwise - a person manipulates you into accepting nothing/affecting your economic standing = its financial abuse.
I don't think I am ever really going to be able to forgive her or trust her or have a real relationship with her.
whirlerz
01-10-2018, 06:08 PM
I'm annoyed with my sensitive skin. Razor rash.
Have u tried pure aloe (no alcohol) be careful if it's very irritated tho. Or coconut oil
miss.a.p1600
01-11-2018, 01:36 PM
When I pose a question on stripper webs but somehow it gets turned into more expression of thoughts than I wanted
Why stripper webs?
WHYYYYYY??????
Daniellaa
01-11-2018, 04:19 PM
I hate when people come on here and just give a little description of what they look like and ask if they could be a stripper or where they should audition. Like "im 5'7 and so and so pounds and have blonde hair" Like okay you could be Amy Schumer or Kate Upton with that description or anywhere inbetween how the fuck should anyone know haha.
Selina M
01-11-2018, 05:22 PM
Drove 15 miles in snowbird-filled traffic and the girl I had an appt with wasn't even there. The whole business was totally closed and dark. How professional...
Taking this in addition to the rest of today's PMS as a sign to skip work.
Nina_
01-11-2018, 06:47 PM
Started my period yesterday and had awful cramps and overall upset stomach. Cried at commercials. Day 2 and while my uterus feels much better, I have no patience for anyone and cannot stand most humans.
Elle:)
01-11-2018, 09:32 PM
I don't want to deal with problems anymore or put up with people's mediocrity. And no I don't owe anyone respect, it's not smth that is owed but earned. If you come off as a piece of garbage I will treat you like one.
Aurora_Sunset
01-12-2018, 11:57 AM
My ex is being very petty about getting his "stuff" back, including hounding me for money that he loaned me a few months ago. Literally all he even has here is a stack of books, and I had to repeatedly talk him out of driving over 3 hours roundtrip to come get it today because we're in the middle of a fucking snow and ice storm. Like, don't be stupid. It's not that fucking critical.
We talked about the money after that, and he made it very clear that his insistence on getting it back now or setting up a payment plan for the immediate future was just because we were no longer together, not because he in any way needs the money back right now, and that if we were still together, he wouldn't even worry about it. I told him that that was shitty and hurtful that he would so adamantly force money out of my hands during a time when he knows that it means way more to me than it does to him, just because he wants to be petty about our breakup. He knows that I would never not pay him back... but shit isn't good right now. Like, you really want to fuck me over for a couple thousand bucks that your giant-inheritance ass doesn't need for anything right now just because you're pissy over us no longer being together?
I told a friend about it, and when I said that he was my last resort and last person I even went to to borrow money, he responded that as long as we didn't sign anything legal, the way he sees it, that means he's gonna be the last person paid back. Which, honestly, not be to be petty myself, but makes a lot of fucking sense.
carmen_b
01-12-2018, 12:28 PM
^ Maybe just set the books and $100 inside one on the porch !
^ So hard to advise on this one ugh, because I do believe in paying money back that's owed but he is clearly just being weird / petty.
Aurora_Sunset
01-12-2018, 12:46 PM
^ Maybe just set the books and $100 inside one on the porch !
^ So hard to advise on this one ugh, because I do believe in paying money back that's owed but he is clearly just being weird / petty.
Right. Like, I would never not pay him back. We could hate each other and never speak again, and I would still send that money to him once I have it. It took swallowing all my pride to even ask for it, and I will never allow myself to be the person that someone can talk shit about saying I never paid them back. I'm not that way, and he has certainly known me long enough to know that he will get his money back once I have it to give. But I did borrow it under the premise of him potentially being the last person I paid back, because he told me not to worry about it and that I should focus on paying off my cards that charge interest. He knows how financially fucked I am right now. He knows how much debt I'm in, how very little I've worked in the past 2 months, and how worried I am about the near future. And he really wants to suddenly come after me for money HE said I didn't need to worry about right away just because I'm not his gf anymore?
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-12-2018, 01:15 PM
Right. Like, I would never not pay him back. We could hate each other and never speak again, and I would still send that money to him once I have it. It took swallowing all my pride to even ask for it, and I will never allow myself to be the person that someone can talk shit about saying I never paid them back. I'm not that way, and he has certainly known me long enough to know that he will get his money back once I have it to give. But I did borrow it under the premise of him potentially being the last person I paid back, because he told me not to worry about it and that I should focus on paying off my cards that charge interest. He knows how financially fucked I am right now. He knows how much debt I'm in, how very little I've worked in the past 2 months, and how worried I am about the near future. And he really wants to suddenly come after me for money HE said I didn't need to worry about right away just because I'm not his gf anymore?
I had a guy pull this on me with a loan. Yeah it sucks.
seashell
01-12-2018, 01:44 PM
The way my ex-boyfriend is showing up on Facebook, under my contacts list. There is no green dot to show he is online, and also, no minutes to show the length of time since he's been away. That's what the contact list always shows. That's its purpose, to show people who are live. But nope, no information, no reason for him to be on the list. He's just a ghost for some reason, neither here nor there, haunting me. Dammit Facebook.
miss.a.p1600
01-12-2018, 06:04 PM
I do not like my family members. I need to escape them
miss.a.p1600
01-12-2018, 06:06 PM
My ex is being very petty about getting his "stuff" back, including hounding me for money that he loaned me a few months ago. Literally all he even has here is a stack of books, and I had to repeatedly talk him out of driving over 3 hours roundtrip to come get it today because we're in the middle of a fucking snow and ice storm. Like, don't be stupid. It's not that fucking critical.
We talked about the money after that, and he made it very clear that his insistence on getting it back now or setting up a payment plan for the immediate future was just because we were no longer together, not because he in any way needs the money back right now, and that if we were still together, he wouldn't even worry about it. I told him that that was shitty and hurtful that he would so adamantly force money out of my hands during a time when he knows that it means way more to me than it does to him, just because he wants to be petty about our breakup. He knows that I would never not pay him back... but shit isn't good right now. Like, you really want to fuck me over for a couple thousand bucks that your giant-inheritance ass doesn't need for anything right now just because you're pissy over us no longer being together?
I told a friend about it, and when I said that he was my last resort and last person I even went to to borrow money, he responded that as long as we didn't sign anything legal, the way he sees it, that means he's gonna be the last person paid back. Which, honestly, not be to be petty myself, but makes a lot of fucking sense.
Shiiiit....he owes you for not letting popos haul him off to jail and for paying for that hotel. Cost of possible misdemeanor, bail, court fines, legal fees, and that hotel and time/effort wasted dealing with his shenanigans = you do not owe him any money.
WendiStarr
01-12-2018, 06:15 PM
My downstairs neighbor(the annoying one who's Nazi landlord's relative) . I was walking downstairs to check my mailbox. I got to the bottom step and she came out of her apartment into the hallway, starts screaming like a lunatic, and threw and broke a beer bottle against the wall. She was holding a hammer in her other hand. Then she goes outside and starts screaming and cussing up a storm(more than likely drunk) and breaking stuff outside, in the middle of a damn snowstorm. She was out there for a while causing a scene. Sure enough cops showed up. The end of my lease can't come soon enough.
miss.a.p1600
01-12-2018, 06:24 PM
My family older member has the audacity to try to criticize my life choices and then said she would not respect me anymore if xyz happens - bitch! I could give two fucks. You are so called Christian woman and you have no right to judge me nor will I listen to your wack ass judgments. My life, my rules, my choices......fuck you and your judgements heaux
I said well when you make choices about your life that I don't like then I will disown and loose respect for you then we will be even how bout that
Then she starts getting pissy and showing her true supremacist / superiority complex issues
And had the gall to call ME narcissist??? Okay Lol
Please someone adopt me
Glamourmilf
01-13-2018, 07:33 AM
The way my ex-boyfriend is showing up on Facebook, under my contacts list. There is no green dot to show he is online, and also, no minutes to show the length of time since he's been away. That's what the contact list always shows. That's its purpose, to show people who are live. But nope, no information, no reason for him to be on the list. He's just a ghost for some reason, neither here nor there, haunting me. Dammit Facebook.
There's a Green Dot? Where is it? I don't have messenger installed, so is that why I don't see it? Also, I never log out of fb,so do my friends think that I'm always on?
HallelujahHopkins
01-13-2018, 09:15 AM
Fuuck I need blackout curtains. Three hours of sleep after work is not enough. I need to be euthanized.
seashell
01-13-2018, 09:25 AM
There's a Green Dot? Where is it? I don't have messenger installed, so is that why I don't see it? Also, I never log out of fb,so do my friends think that I'm always on?
It might only be on the desktop version, when you use a computer. It's on the right hand side of the page, a list of your contacts with either a green dot to show that they are "live," or the minutes since they last were online. I think it's only when you open up facebook, that it marks you as live.
miss.a.p1600
01-13-2018, 09:29 AM
It marks you as "live" if you open up the app too....basically any device where you are logged in.
But perhaps you are right - you can only see this tidbit (time since last activity) on desktop (possibly ipad since tablet views like desktop version) - I refuse to download the app.
JessaJade
01-13-2018, 12:53 PM
Fuuck I need blackout curtains. Three hours of sleep after work is not enough. I need to be euthanized.
They really work...It's like sleeping in a cave.
chanzep
01-13-2018, 07:55 PM
So the cold I thought was gone has not grr, Im never going to be able to get back in the gym at this rate.
Legz541
01-14-2018, 03:11 AM
I’m fat and I have absolutely zero excuses for it.
seashell
01-14-2018, 01:28 PM
I have to make my apartment completely clean and spotless for tomorrow, but I feel so tired tonight. My shopping trip to buy a replacement lightbulb turned into a 3 hour excursion. I just want sleep.
Also, I offered the new tenant my printer for free, since I'm leaving the country and it's too late to sell it. He said he has no use for it. Who doesn't have a use for a free printer?!
Girl Anachronism
01-14-2018, 02:30 PM
i really REALLY needed to work last night.. or at least tonight.
but i bruised my tailbone and it hurts like a bitch :( stupid me being drunk and the bannister along my stairs broke off the wall so i ate shit down the stairs and landed right on my ass. i can't even sit or lie down without being in pain. i hope it doesn't take too long to heal.
JGB2009
01-14-2018, 03:50 PM
i really REALLY needed to work last night.. or at least tonight.
but i bruised my tailbone and it hurts like a bitch :( stupid me being drunk and the bannister along my stairs broke off the wall so i ate shit down the stairs and landed right on my ass. i can't even sit or lie down without being in pain. i hope it doesn't take too long to heal.
I did that once and it hurts!!!! Wishing you a speedy recovery!!!
Aurora_Sunset
01-16-2018, 08:14 AM
I hate being so unstable in my life right now. Two of my best friends are in a lot of trouble from unexpected turns and emergencies as well... in the past, I would have offered support - money to loan them, a place to crash while feeding them or something... but I can't right now. And that really sucks. I know they're adults and they'll figure out their own shit, but one of them especially has shitty family that I'm not confident will help them.
It also just kinda sucks that for everything going wrong in my life right now, I have no one to talk to and rant about it, because everyone else's life is so shitty that I don't want to bring anything up or put that on them. The only person I know of right now who would absolutely listen to me vent is my ex, and I'm doing everything possible to stay out of that trap.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-16-2018, 10:34 AM
I hate being so unstable in my life right now. Two of my best friends are in a lot of trouble from unexpected turns and emergencies as well... in the past, I would have offered support - money to loan them, a place to crash while feeding them or something... but I can't right now. And that really sucks. I know they're adults and they'll figure out their own shit, but one of them especially has shitty family that I'm not confident will help them.
It also just kinda sucks that for everything going wrong in my life right now, I have no one to talk to and rant about it, because everyone else's life is so shitty that I don't want to bring anything up or put that on them. The only person I know of right now who would absolutely listen to me vent is my ex, and I'm doing everything possible to stay out of that trap.
See I've turned the corner on this problem in my life. I used to be Super Snuffle To The Rescue, where I always had a helping hand or a gift of cash, expecting that maybe someone would repay my kindness when I needed it. Unfortunately most of the time it's not the case.
Naw don't feel bad. Vent here, vent on FB (there's a journal feature on there.)
Elektra Luxx
01-16-2018, 10:55 AM
I hate being so unstable in my life right now. Two of my best friends are in a lot of trouble from unexpected turns and emergencies as well... in the past, I would have offered support - money to loan them, a place to crash while feeding them or something... but I can't right now. And that really sucks. I know they're adults and they'll figure out their own shit, but one of them especially has shitty family that I'm not confident will help them.
It also just kinda sucks that for everything going wrong in my life right now, I have no one to talk to and rant about it, because everyone else's life is so shitty that I don't want to bring anything up or put that on them. The only person I know of right now who would absolutely listen to me vent is my ex, and I'm doing everything possible to stay out of that trap.
You can vent all you want here. I'm also thinking you need to do anything you need to do to stay in control of your life. If that means talking with you ex...do it. It's about self-preservation. You can't take care of others unless you take care of yourself first.
We had a rabbit like you
01-17-2018, 09:28 AM
Was just in one of my fav stripper IGs (exotic cancer or smthg ) and I see the earnings topic come up and sure enough , a bunch of rando supposed ex strippers coming along to discourage all the newbies with their 'O.M.G I used to make four grand a night! I've NEVER made less than a grand in a shift *clutches pearls* I can't believe you girls are working for so very little, and some of you even escorting!"
Not only is it clearly probably bullshit, but it's wildly unhelpful and discouraging for the newbie (or median) dancers in giving them realistic expectation and making them feel like cheap losers who should just quit.
What are these women even trying to accomplish besides banging their chests and fluffing their feathers like little peacocks to try and gain attention again. It's so rude and self serving.
Now if they wanted to come in and give encouragement and tell us how to accomplish their bullshit five grand per night every night earnings , then YES, that would actually be helpful. But of course they won't.
BondGirl007
01-17-2018, 09:43 AM
Had a very difficult Domme session yesterday evening, and did my usual acting out thereafter in buying & bingeing-on cheap cake and ice cream. My go-to "Band-Aid." Feeling completely irritable and on edge now, because my blood sugar is completely out of whack. Tasted good going down, but not a wise thing to do. I have decided to never session again with this customer. It should not take 17 emails back and forth to organize a session. He's high-maintenance and psychic vampire draining. When you are doing professional domination services, and accepting bookings in the professional realm, rather than your private personal slaves, it is a farce that the dominatrix is in charge, and it's become more-and-more horrible to be a pro Domme. More of why I am returning to dancing this spring. Can't wait!!
WendiStarr
01-17-2018, 10:08 AM
Overly needy guys. I said I'm busy today. That doesn't mean keep blowing up my phone with texts, asking if I'm sure I can't fit you in today, asking if you're bugging me, asking if I'm mad at you, or if I decided I don't want to see you anymore.
Selina M
01-17-2018, 11:15 AM
Triple whammied with sick. Ugh. Ongoing bladder problem flared up again = no sleep = left door open for a cold to attack... And then I've got a wisdom tooth coming in that probably needs out.
Dr prescribed an antibiotic that scares the crap out of me - it has a black box warning that it can cause ruptured tendons and neuropathy issues - I'm not risking that, sorry. Can't go 5 feet on the internet without someone saying it ruined their life. I called to have him change it and the MA said she'd "pass the message on"... I'll just sit here and wait with nothing I can take...
ScarletKitten
01-17-2018, 01:44 PM
So the cold I thought was gone has not grr, Im never going to be able to get back in the gym at this rate.
Winter in Texas this year is rough! I blame the hurricane in August.....and the solar eclipse 4 days before that hurricane made landfall. There is snow/ice on the ground. There is never snow/ice that sticks on the ground here. Seriously, I feel like I'm in Canada right now. Shit's cray.
ScarletKitten
01-17-2018, 01:52 PM
i really REALLY needed to work last night.. or at least tonight.
but i bruised my tailbone and it hurts like a bitch :( stupid me being drunk and the bannister along my stairs broke off the wall so i ate shit down the stairs and landed right on my ass. i can't even sit or lie down without being in pain. i hope it doesn't take too long to heal.
Oh, girl that sucks! Try applying arnica gel to your tailbone. It helps bruised knees, so it could help a bruised tailbone too.