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Violethollywood
03-01-2018, 12:32 PM
I'm pissed that against my inner guidance, I went to a ' how to be a medium' workshop.
I went because I haven't felt my deceased dad around me in the 10 years he's been gone. I wanted desperately to connect with him.
However.............. Please don't think I'm crazy...............
I think some other entity has attached itself to me.:O
Right after I got home from the workshop, ALL of my power went out! It came back on the next day, but has been flickering on and off. The electric company told me that they need to replace my entire line.
Then, my internet went out. That's NEVER happened in the entire year and a half I've been in here.
Then, on 2 separate nights, in the wee hours, my smoke alarm batteries went dead, and that annoying chirping woke me up from a sound sleep.>:(
This morning, my lamp on my kitchen table started flickering on and off.
I also just found out from one of my neighbors that up until recently, there was a mortuary/ crematorium next door to me./:O
I really don't think this is my Dad, because he would never in a million years be this annoying.
I hate being home lately, and feel uneasy here.
Time to call a priest.
Messing with the other side is not good.
49589

get some white sage and burn it and get some brick dust and put it across your threshold to the house, front and back door if you have one . im not joking lol.

miss.a.p1600
03-01-2018, 12:46 PM
okay so this dude (who I am never going to give the time of day to) asked what I did for valentines day (my dumb ass didn't realize he was slick checking to see if I was in a relationship so I should have made up some extravagant lie) then asked for my number and I couldn't think of a good enough excuse - since i basically just inadvertently told him i was single - and I couldn't give him a fake number because he knows where i live (he is my neighbors friend or boyfriend or something).

Now I am regretting it all. He has already called me twice. and texting me good morning with selfie emojis n shit.....

I need to come up with an excuse so he can know I am not and will not be interested in him like that. I just hope his thirst can fizzle out.

Violethollywood
03-01-2018, 12:55 PM
just be blunt and tell him u dont find him attractive and hes not your type.

Aurora_Sunset
03-01-2018, 01:08 PM
I've been interviewing for bartending jobs, because I really need something semi-consistent to bring in extra money/good tips, and I'm over trying to take gigs for my freelance company - the catering company that they contract through never lets us put out tip jars so I slave away for 18-hour days at these "special events" for barely above minimum wage and make a whole $40 in tips....

But no restaurant/bar wants to hire a someone who can barely work nights and only every other weekend. I have my entire availability on a set of calendars through the end of July because that's how far in advance I know my schedule for everything, and I don't want to waste my or anyone else's time. I know it's wonky, but there are at least 2 days a week every week with completely open availability, and other days where I'm willing to work a swing shift, or anything past 6pm.... But I can't even get through a full interview, because the second they see it, they don't want to work around my availability.

miss.a.p1600
03-01-2018, 06:11 PM
I am so close to telling this dude to text me on a pay to text site so I can get paid for my efforts otherwise I am not going to be in the mood to entertain his ass.

finally just text the old dude to see whats up. his ass says he didnt know if i still wanted to talk to him but hes been thinking about me everyday. ----when they think about you to keep you subconsciously connected to them *sigh*

I need these men to get it together. My clock is ticking and I aint got a bunch of time to waste.....

lynn2009
03-01-2018, 07:45 PM
I'm pissed that against my inner guidance, I went to a ' how to be a medium' workshop.
I went because I haven't felt my deceased dad around me in the 10 years he's been gone. I wanted desperately to connect with him.
However.............. Please don't think I'm crazy...............
I think some other entity has attached itself to me.:O
Right after I got home from the workshop, ALL of my power went out! It came back on the next day, but has been flickering on and off. The electric company told me that they need to replace my entire line.
Then, my internet went out. That's NEVER happened in the entire year and a half I've been in here.
Then, on 2 separate nights, in the wee hours, my smoke alarm batteries went dead, and that annoying chirping woke me up from a sound sleep.>:(
This morning, my lamp on my kitchen table started flickering on and off.
I also just found out from one of my neighbors that up until recently, there was a mortuary/ crematorium next door to me./:O
I really don't think this is my Dad, because he would never in a million years be this annoying.
I hate being home lately, and feel uneasy here.
Time to call a priest.
Messing with the other side is not good.
49589

I can send you a reference for a medium but she had a 2.5 year wait list.

I know another who was still convincing but not as good.

Cutie101
03-01-2018, 08:56 PM
I'm pissed that against my inner guidance, I went to a ' how to be a medium' workshop.
I went because I haven't felt my deceased dad around me in the 10 years he's been gone. I wanted desperately to connect with him.
However.............. Please don't think I'm crazy...............
I think some other entity has attached itself to me.:O
Right after I got home from the workshop, ALL of my power went out! It came back on the next day, but has been flickering on and off. The electric company told me that they need to replace my entire line.
Then, my internet went out. That's NEVER happened in the entire year and a half I've been in here.
Then, on 2 separate nights, in the wee hours, my smoke alarm batteries went dead, and that annoying chirping woke me up from a sound sleep.>:(
This morning, my lamp on my kitchen table started flickering on and off.
I also just found out from one of my neighbors that up until recently, there was a mortuary/ crematorium next door to me./:O
I really don't think this is my Dad, because he would never in a million years be this annoying.
I hate being home lately, and feel uneasy here.
Time to call a priest.
Messing with the other side is not good.
49589

Omg is this thing real in other countries??? Never heard of this before!! WOWOWOW!
Omg, this is crazy hahaha, never thought that theese are actually real!
This shit is really creepy... damn!!

Cutie101
03-01-2018, 09:02 PM
People who try to push their beliefs, into your throat. Or totaly judge you, if you live different than them...
I avoid this type of people, with all my being. I can't stand them, I find them rude and non mannered. There's nothing to learn from people like this, no matter how good they believe their intentions are.

The most common situation is phones related. I got tired, everytime someone asks me what phone is that or WHY I have that phone, to come with a huge speech on why is wrong and I should have bought other brand, without ME asking for their oppinion.
Btich, did I buy it on your money? Am I using the phone for same purpose you do? Do we live the same? Do we like the same food? What's the catch, mind your fucking business!
Of course, when I tell them straight in the face that I didn't ask for their oppinion, I come out as being the bitch.
Geeez....

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-01-2018, 09:08 PM
I've been interviewing for bartending jobs, because I really need something semi-consistent to bring in extra money/good tips, and I'm over trying to take gigs for my freelance company - the catering company that they contract through never lets us put out tip jars so I slave away for 18-hour days at these "special events" for barely above minimum wage and make a whole $40 in tips....

But no restaurant/bar wants to hire a someone who can barely work nights and only every other weekend. I have my entire availability on a set of calendars through the end of July because that's how far in advance I know my schedule for everything, and I don't want to waste my or anyone else's time. I know it's wonky, but there are at least 2 days a week every week with completely open availability, and other days where I'm willing to work a swing shift, or anything past 6pm.... But I can't even get through a full interview, because the second they see it, they don't want to work around my availability.

Have you thought about adding a temp agency that caters to the hospitality industry? They do exist and can be a great filler between other gigs.

DonaDiabla
03-02-2018, 12:58 AM
Hey Glamourmilf,
It seems like some entity attached itself to your home from that mortuary.It sounds like just a poltergeist and need a house cleansing. Just burn sage and rosemary in your house for a week. Get one Garlic braid and leave it in your home for a week. Also get some Angelica oil and put that in the areas of the house with the most activities.It is helpful to get someone to help cleanse your house like shaman or medium. It is not time for a deliverance in my opinion because it seems like it is just a minor spirit. Here is more information about house cleansing. :)

https://community.giffgaff.com/t5/Tips-Guides/House-cleansings-and-how-to-protect-yourself-from-spirit-tips/td-p/20855083




I'm pissed that against my inner guidance, I went to a ' how to be a medium' workshop.
I went because I haven't felt my deceased dad around me in the 10 years he's been gone. I wanted desperately to connect with him.
However.............. Please don't think I'm crazy...............
I think some other entity has attached itself to me.:O
Right after I got home from the workshop, ALL of my power went out! It came back on the next day, but has been flickering on and off. The electric company told me that they need to replace my entire line.
Then, my internet went out. That's NEVER happened in the entire year and a half I've been in here.
Then, on 2 separate nights, in the wee hours, my smoke alarm batteries went dead, and that annoying chirping woke me up from a sound sleep.>:(
This morning, my lamp on my kitchen table started flickering on and off.
I also just found out from one of my neighbors that up until recently, there was a mortuary/ crematorium next door to me./:O
I really don't think this is my Dad, because he would never in a million years be this annoying.
I hate being home lately, and feel uneasy here.
Time to call a priest.
Messing with the other side is not good.
49589

Glamourmilf
03-02-2018, 10:02 AM
If you have a Wiccan store near you or a psychic store, buy California white sage and burn it in your home. It's supposed to remove unwanted spirits and negative energy from your home. I have had to use it once in an old home that I was living in that a spirit started showing up, messing with electronics(ie. turning the tv on and off, changing channels, blasting the radio on, brand new light bulbs burning out, and drained the batteries of a brand new camera) and making random cold spots in a room. Whatever it was left after.


get some white sage and burn it and get some brick dust and put it across your threshold to the house, front and back door if you have one . im not joking lol.


Hey Glamourmilf,
It seems like some entity attached itself to your home from that mortuary.It sounds like just a poltergeist and need a house cleansing. Just burn sage and rosemary in your house for a week. Get one Garlic braid and leave it in your home for a week. Also get some Angelica oil and put that in the areas of the house with the most activities.It is helpful to get someone to help cleanse your house like shaman or medium. It is not time for a deliverance in my opinion because it seems like it is just a minor spirit. Here is more information about house cleansing. :)

https://community.giffgaff.com/t5/Tips-Guides/House-cleansings-and-how-to-protect-yourself-from-spirit-tips/td-p/20855083

Thank You so much everyone for this. I do have sage and Rosemary, and will burn them today, as well as getting the Angelica,etc.
It was the last straw when, not only my light that I use next to me during cam time started flickering yesterday. But when I was on the phone with a prayer line I always call before my day starts, there was bad reception, and a garbled voice ( sounded like a man), was coming through. I asked the person who was praying for me if she heard it....Of course not.
She said my line sounded clear.
I've only had this phone for a month, so I made a call when I was out getting coffee. Clear as a bell.
I alerted the medium of what's been happening, by sending him a text and voicemail. Still no reply back yet.
NO more mediums! NO more psychics!
My mom was a devout Catholic, and now that she's passed, I believe the teachings too. She has been by my side and has been guiding me since her death.
There's a Catholic Church a block away. I'm going to get some holy water.
No offense at all to anyones beliefs, or practices.
But for me, it's Jesus ALL the way!

Aurora_Sunset
03-02-2018, 12:03 PM
I've been interviewing for bartending jobs, because I really need something semi-consistent to bring in extra money/good tips, and I'm over trying to take gigs for my freelance company - the catering company that they contract through never lets us put out tip jars so I slave away for 18-hour days at these "special events" for barely above minimum wage and make a whole $40 in tips....

But no restaurant/bar wants to hire a someone who can barely work nights and only every other weekend. I have my entire availability on a set of calendars through the end of July because that's how far in advance I know my schedule for everything, and I don't want to waste my or anyone else's time. I know it's wonky, but there are at least 2 days a week every week with completely open availability, and other days where I'm willing to work a swing shift, or anything past 6pm.... But I can't even get through a full interview, because the second they see it, they don't want to work around my availability.

So now, to go along with this, I hate myself even more. I scheduled yet another interview today, but was so hopeless about it this morning when I looked at my availability vs. the restaurant's open hours, that I decided against even going in, because I didn't want to dress up for yet another interview to not even make it through handing them that calendar.

But then I took a harder look at my schedule when I was more awake, trying to find a pattern of availability, and realized I could have totally played up my freedom to do morning shifts Mondays and Wednesdays because they're open almost every week. Who knows if it's what they were looking for, but I at least could have tried to mention it right off the bat. I didn't realize this until 5 minutes before the interview I had decided not to get dressed and ready for... So I just fucked myself even more.

It seems like everyone wants weekend availability, so it probably wouldn't have mattered... but I'm mad at myself for giving up. I don't want to work tonight... I almost had a breakdown at work last night because I spent my entire night thinking about all of this.

vanessa_mtl
03-02-2018, 09:15 PM
Wow this club is dead and there are at least thirty girls.

Vyanka
03-03-2018, 02:05 AM
I'm pissed that against my inner guidance, I went to a ' how to be a medium' workshop.
I went because I haven't felt my deceased dad around me in the 10 years he's been gone. I wanted desperately to connect with him.
However.............. Please don't think I'm crazy...............
I think some other entity has attached itself to me.:O
Right after I got home from the workshop, ALL of my power went out! It came back on the next day, but has been flickering on and off. The electric company told me that they need to replace my entire line.
Then, my internet went out. That's NEVER happened in the entire year and a half I've been in here.
Then, on 2 separate nights, in the wee hours, my smoke alarm batteries went dead, and that annoying chirping woke me up from a sound sleep.>:(
This morning, my lamp on my kitchen table started flickering on and off.
I also just found out from one of my neighbors that up until recently, there was a mortuary/ crematorium next door to me./:O
I really don't think this is my Dad, because he would never in a million years be this annoying.
I hate being home lately, and feel uneasy here.
Time to call a priest.
Messing with the other side is not good.
49589


Just sent you a private message.

seashell
03-03-2018, 02:38 AM
My AirBnB hosts are driving me nuts. When I first arrived, I was 5 minutes early and the host wasn't here. I waited in the building entrance, and ran into some business lady who told me this AirBnB was here illegally. Then my host comes in, dismisses it, says everything is OK, and shows me my flat. She opened the shades, and I didn't realize it at the time, but they got stuck that way. The shades are basically a wall of metal outside of the window that you can move up or down with a pull string.

I realized they were stuck after she left... and I didn't want to ask for help because 1. I was exhausted and wanted to sleep, and 2. I need to work, and I don't want to spend all day waiting for someone, especially if this turns out to be a more complicated problem. So I put a scarf over the window, and later, a bedsheet.

Today, the host messages me to say that they drove by and noticed the shades were up. They asked if they were stuck that way, and if I wanted them fixed. >_> On the one hand, I'm glad I can get them fixed, but I am also creeped out. Like is this part of your hosting duties... driving by and looking for my specific window in a giant apartment complex?

I dunno. I've never had such a weird beginning to my stay at an airbnb. I can't wait to have my own place again.

I guess I'll just get ready for the day and say that yes, it got stuck. And I was more concerned with sleeping, so just I put up a scarf to hide the sunlight. Never mind that I mostly did it so I could cam, and at least you didn't see that through the window. lol.

WendiStarr
03-03-2018, 08:19 AM
I've been on meds for yeast infection for a couple days now and I feel no improvement. It's the weekend. Doctor's office is closed and I don't really want to go sit in an ER for 6+ hours for this. I'm miserable.

miss.a.p1600
03-03-2018, 12:45 PM
I used to get mild ones often - my lifestyle prob contributed but I had to cut back on wearing thongs, sugar, etc. As a last resort when they kept coming back even after treatment, The gyno recommended borax suppositories (one made specifically for inserting into your vagina)

Also sometimes it takes more than one round of treatment. For me the 1 day and 3 day never worked I had to use the 7 day treatments. I also did not find the difflucan to be as effective as suppositories although it was super convenient just to pop a pill.

or if the doctor approves a dual approach (oral med/probiotic - they have some good otc ones - and vaginal suppository)

I swear by a product called Yeast Arrest for suppository (has vitamin e, borax, tea tree oil, neem oil, lactobacillus acidophilus, and other ingredients known to get rid of fungus that causes yeast) and Azo Yeast to take orally. Both can be found on Amazon and delivered fast.

JGB2009
03-03-2018, 02:07 PM
I've been on meds for yeast infection for a couple days now and I feel no improvement. It's the weekend. Doctor's office is closed and I don't really want to go sit in an ER for 6+ hours for this. I'm miserable.


Maybe try Quick care? They are sometimes faster.

TheBrownFox
03-03-2018, 11:53 PM
The most common situation is phones related. I got tired, everytime someone asks me what phone is that or WHY I have that phone, to come with a huge speech on why is wrong and I should have bought other brand, without ME asking for their oppinion.

That annoys me too. I've had men make comments to me about how instead of Nintendo, I should've went with PlayStation or blah, blah, blah. Um...no. I grew up on Nintendo, and I'm gonna keep on playing Nintendo. Mmmkay? Same thing with the cell phones. "You got an iPhone? HAHAHA. You should've gotten this Android phone that I got." *eyeroll*

Morrigan
03-04-2018, 12:49 AM
Have horrid neck strain and muscle pulls, moving my head causes pain and nausea, cant sleep well at all...wifeys are both swimmers and snore, meaning sound keeping me up, as well as the stray arm comes up and shoves my head one way, then movement on the other side of me forces my body in a more awkward way. retreat to office to sleep in what i lovingly call " tub couch" ( its two really deep and heavy padded lounge chair pushed end to end to make a tub like couch ) pick up phone to whine at out of town hubby....he thinks its funny....cant sleeep sooooooooooooooo tired >.< thats been my last month or so >.<

WendiStarr
03-04-2018, 10:52 AM
Aunt's bf woke me up super early to tell me that my aunt's blood sugar level was at 30 and that she was cold, sweaty, unconscious, and breathing funny. His dumb ass was asking me if he should pour orange juice or put a Kit Kat candy bar in her mouth. I told him,"No! If she's unconscious don't put anything in her mouth at all and why the hell aren't you calling 911? I'm not emergency medical services!" I live an hour away so it's not like I can get there asap, not that I could do anything anyways if I was there other than call 911, because she needs IV dextrose
administered by EMS when she gets like that. Some people are dumber than a box of rocks.

Aurora_Sunset
03-04-2018, 11:30 PM
A guy friend of mine came up to visit me last night. I knew he had a thing for me in the past but thought he was past it. Then, at the bgeinning of hanging out, he asked if it could be a date, and I had to tell him no. He's a great guy - I just am at a place where I don't want to think about dating at all with all the shit I have going on and how recent things have been fucked up with my ex.


He tried to act normal the rest of the night but I could just see the crushed look in his eyes every time the conversation lapsed and he started thinking about it. This isn't really a "pissy annoyance," I've just never felt that bad about turning someone down... it makes ME want to cry when I think about it.

SnuffleUffleGrass
03-05-2018, 09:20 AM
Aunt's bf woke me up super early to tell me that my aunt's blood sugar level was at 30 and that she was cold, sweaty, unconscious, and breathing funny. His dumb ass was asking me if he should pour orange juice or put a Kit Kat candy bar in her mouth. I told him,"No! If she's unconscious don't put anything in her mouth at all and why the hell aren't you calling 911? I'm not emergency medical services!" I live an hour away so it's not like I can get there asap, not that I could do anything anyways if I was there other than call 911, because she needs IV dextrose
administered by EMS when she gets like that. Some people are dumber than a box of rocks.

Damn this is horrifying.

SuperJa
03-05-2018, 12:14 PM
Damn this is horrifying.

Right? I feel like if I was unconscious and somebody I dated did anything but call an ambulance/take me to the hospital it'd be grounds for instant breakup

chanzep
03-06-2018, 12:51 PM
I wish most of this site was Ladies only.

Glamourmilf
03-08-2018, 07:57 AM
I never, EVER leave the house without showering first.
I did yesterday, only because I needed gas, and a coffee.
Turns out it was my favorite mechanic's birthday. The entire crew was singing Happy birthday when I got there.
He wanted a hug from me.
Damn it!!!:duck:
Even though I had a bulky sweater on, when he hugged me, my nipples got rock hard, because I wasn't wearing a bra. Oops:O
49604

miss.a.p1600
03-08-2018, 09:02 AM
I wish most of this site was Ladies only.

I know right. or pay for them to chat with us and pay to read approved sections

SnuffleUffleGrass
03-08-2018, 11:51 AM
Petty annoyance- can't run vacuum cleaner until night time (roomie renter works nights.) Oh the cost of landlording lol

MissMoore
03-08-2018, 04:40 PM
I'm sick of living in a little room by myself and wish I could move in with BFs cousin just so I have another human being to be around.

I'm sick of BF bringing up past sex partners (while watching porn the other night he says "That girl reminds me of this chick I used to do" "That one reminds me of one I didn't fuck, but I showed her the ropes")-OK WHYYYYY?! I'm your GF of like ten months, whyyyyy would you bring up these women?! FYI I've stalked them on FB-some were not even remotely pretty....OR if we go out to a bar, he will bring up "This chick was hitting on me" etc etc. It doesn't happen everytime we are together, but on one of our nights SOMETHING will come up! I don't understand it and either I am pretty and he knows other guys would snatch me up, so he wants me to know what a prize HE is, or he just feels inadequate period.

Thank you for starting this thread. It feels great to get this shit off my chest!


I would dump him right then and fucking there!! Girl!!! Just reading what you wrote makes my blood boil. Lmao and this isn’t even my man. Haha soon as he said some dumb shit like that I’d say well it was nice knowing you, have fun getting back with her or go fuck instead I’m not sucking your sick anymore. Lol

Aurora_Sunset
03-09-2018, 12:00 PM
When clients ask if they can come early, and when I say no, they can't even be bothered show up ON TIME.

whirlerz
03-09-2018, 12:24 PM
Aunt's bf woke me up super early to tell me that my aunt's blood sugar level was at 30 and that she was cold, sweaty, unconscious, and breathing funny. His dumb ass was asking me if he should pour orange juice or put a Kit Kat candy bar in her mouth. I told him,"No! If she's unconscious don't put anything in her mouth at all and why the hell aren't you calling 911? I'm not emergency medical services!" I live an hour away so it's not like I can get there asap, not that I could do anything anyways if I was there other than call 911, because she needs IV dextrose
administered by EMS when she gets like that. Some people are dumber than a box of rocks.

Wendi, I hope your Aunt's going to be all right!

whirlerz
03-09-2018, 12:35 PM
Ok, so, I find this very offensive: Exploding Kittens game, by Amazon. Just got off the chat w/them. to me, horrifying, like there's not enough idiots out there abusing animals (& people) left & right.

We had a rabbit like you
03-10-2018, 09:09 AM
When I go into a dermatologist or plastic surgeons office, and the medical assistant/intake consultant knows less than I do..I want prescription retin A, and she goes on about how otc retinols are just as good and there's no difference and "you don't need a prescription for retin a anymore, they changed it a few years ago. Works just as well as retin A, no difference! " [insert crying laughter face] so I get suckered into buying a 78 dollar retinol that doesn't do shit..I KNEW that couldn't be right, but I stupidly trusted that she knew what she was talking about.
Pisses me off that I know waaaay more about skincare than this woman does, yet she's the one with the job in a plastic surgeons office..ok..know your shit if you're gonna be in that profession. Biggest pet peeve.

WendiStarr
03-11-2018, 07:13 AM
Ex randomly texted me today to ask for a nude. Really? I replied back,"You didn't even wish me a happy birthday? How rude!" and blocked him.

ScarletKitten
03-11-2018, 11:59 AM
I am so fed up of dating sites. Why do men put the most horrible pics as their main profile pic? It's like they don't even care. Men don't try to impress women anymore. It's a major turn off. I feel like it's impossible to find a decent man now. I am so close to just giving up.

miss.a.p1600
03-11-2018, 12:50 PM
Recently went on a date with this guy last night that I hadn't seen since before Christmas. I got him a Christmas gift but since I didn't see him christmas, it just sat around my house till I gave it to him last night. I guess he figured since he didn't see me on Christmas - he didn't have to get me anything.

Plus I noticed when we were ordering food. After the entree the waitress was like 'do you need anything else' he was like no we're done...wtf?!?...He didn't ask me if I wanted an appetizer or dessert.

Idk. I feel slightly offended.

On the plus side. The waitress slid the bill over to his side }:D and he gladly paid.

Plus he had 2 large band-aids (that needed to be refreshed - you know how a band aid will start collecting dust and dirt if you don't change it often?) on his hand and kept trying to touch me and hold my hand with that hand. I was grossed out.

I am trying to get past his quirks and it's like they are so deeply ingrained I don't know if I can or if he will change.

Bananabunny
03-11-2018, 01:02 PM
Currently camming on Streamate where I'm getting ignored all the way LOL

I feel extra bloated and like shit today. Last time I was on Streamate 2 days ago I made 0$ in 2 hours and I felt like shit like never before afterwards. Not sure if it's worth it camming on Streamate anymore, men treat Streamate models often like shit and pay cent by cent and I'm a luxurious woman, getting treated like this is a no-no for me! I'm slowly giving up on this website. I'm giving it 3 more months. Then it will be a half year since I started there. Then I quit and try another freechat website. I feel like ever since freechat websites exist, many men see private websites as useless. Also private websites try to take all our money!! I mean seriously, 30-35 % for us only?? Is this slavery all over again? This should be illegal. We sexworkers are treated like the worst shit on earth and have to endure so much. I'm trying to pursue a real career from next year on or even this year. I'm fed up from being depressed every day and wanting to be gone so fucking bad.

miss.a.p1600
03-11-2018, 01:14 PM
At dinner last night I started ranting about my exes....I should have never done that. I should get a therapist or something.

Glamourmilf
03-12-2018, 09:45 AM
This sweet older lady who sat next to me at church yesterday, who I kinda know, invited me to her home for home-made tacos.
I said yes, because she said that the ministers mother was also coming. I was anxious to spend time with her, and pick her brain a bit.
But the ministers mother couldn't make it, so I ended up sitting in my church friend's mobile fishbowl of a home, listening to her tell me about all her break-ins.:O
It turns out drug dealers moved in next door, and see her as a target. She's 70 years old, and lives alone.
Plus, she's trying to get money owed to her from her ex, so she thinks her OTHER robberies have been done by someone he hired, because they take all her important documents.
As I listened to her, and watch her pick her ears as she's cooking, (gross). I couldn't help but think, " Gee, to think I was going to cam all afternoon after church, and just have a peaceful day".:-\
Instead, I kept checking to see if my car was ok, because I saw the drug dealer walk by a few times.
Her mobile home is 1500 sq feet with 7 doors and also windows surrounding it.
The cops think she's making it up, because she didn't have the right security cameras set up. I gave her a referral of someone who could help with that. Because I'm dealing with drug dealer neighbors as well, and my landlord thinks we're all crazy too, and the stupid cops won't investigate it,, so I have to record them.
Doesn't ANYONE have a drama free life anymore? I mean, when your 70 shouldn't most of life's stresses be behind you? What about the ' Golden Years' I hear about all the time?
Sidebar: she shared with me that she used to work for the government back in the day, but quit because of sexual harassment.
She's the original #MeToo survivor.

We had a rabbit like you
03-12-2018, 10:03 AM
So my husband doesn't mind me dancing , but he's getting butt hurt over my regular..well, that's where the big money comes from for me, sorry. I WONT give up my job, financial security, success, schooling, or anything like that for a man ever again. I ruined my late teens and early 20s for a piece of shit waste of oxygen dude and NEVER AGAIN.

I've seen it with so many of my old co-workers,,they find some idiot and to appease his fragile little male ego they quit their jobs and go work in the deli at shaws or whatever making minimum wage..and they're miserable. I knew this one girl who used to make a lot, and now seventy pounds heavier and sixty thousand a year less in income, she's only in her late twenties but looks middle aged and is living hand to mouth. all for some gross looking loser who has ZERO problems going to a stripclub himself and who will probably cheat on her and leave her empty handed.

SnuffleUffleGrass
03-12-2018, 11:08 AM
So my husband doesn't mind me dancing , but he's getting butt hurt over my regular..well, that's where the big money comes from for me, sorry. I WONT give up my job, financial security, success, schooling, or anything like that for a man ever again. I ruined my late teens and early 20s for a piece of shit waste of oxygen dude and NEVER AGAIN.

I've seen it with so many of my old co-workers,,they find some idiot and to appease his fragile little male ego they quit their jobs and go work in the deli at shaws or whatever making minimum wage..and they're miserable. I knew this one girl who used to make a lot, and now seventy pounds heavier and sixty thousand a year less in income, she's only in her late twenties but looks middle aged and is living hand to mouth. all for some gross looking loser who has ZERO problems going to a stripclub himself and who will probably cheat on her and leave her empty handed.


Yup.......

Aurora_Sunset
03-14-2018, 12:36 PM
Guy friend is being a pissy pain the ass. He tried calling me twice in the last week, on the only two nights I've had off, and I was out with other friends all night. I've told him a million times that when I'm busy that I am much more likely to respond to texts and have a conversation when I can on there than I am to have the time to call back and have a 30 minute phone convo. But he never does it... until he gets all "passive aggressive" butthurt about my lack of communication and calls me out on it in a string of longwinded texts.

He told me his birthday was this weekend, which I said I knew, and would have to make it up to him because I'll be out of town. His response: "You're consistent." Which is a dig on the fact that I'm usually busy on his birthday weekend. I ignored it, and then he said "well, that was my first question. I think I know the answer to my second question, so never mind." I asked what his second question was, and he proceeded to launch into a rant about how he had wanted to talk about something on his mind for the past 2 weeks and he had called me on both my nights off and I hadn't answered. Repeated his "You're consistent" bullshit and told me I'm always around for big stuff like moving or an emotional breakdown, but not for things like holidays, birthdays, or "when he wants to talk about us."

Like, bitch.... Just because they were my nights off doesn't mean I was just sitting around ready to take phone calls. I was out with other friends who I hadn't seen since Thanksgiving. No offense, but that takes precedence over someone I see at least once or twice a month and text pretty consistently. Sorry if the whole 48 hours I've had off work in the last two weeks went to catching up with my other friends who never fucking see me. Secondly, I'm out of town this weekend because I'm going to open house at a school near my parents' house... I didn't plan it to be this weekend. This is when it is and I'm not missing it just because it's his birthday. I told him I'd make it up to him. Also, the last time I made it to his birthday celebration, he was dating this super bitchy insecure woman who kept boxing me out every time I tried to talk to him... and since then, even if I ask what he's doing for his birthday, he acts like it's no big deal and he doesn't want to do anything. Then, when I go out of town or have to work, he gives me shit for not spending his birthday with him. The other crap he's referring to is the fact that he always wants to spend Halloween doing something and for the past 3 years I've always had big life events, like moving, or starting a new job while dealing with a stalker, or my cat dying, happen on Halloween. My bad... How selfish of me. However, I've spent Christmas Eve with him and his gf the past 2 years, and just made it out for her birthday a month ago, soooo....

And as far as this "I want to talk about us" crap.... OMG enough. There is NOTHING to talk about in regards to "us." This is what makes friendship with him so goddam difficult. I've known him for 9 fucking years, and have told him over and over and over and OVER that I am not attracted to him. He's a good friend, but I do not think of him sexually or romantically. In the last 3 months alone, I've told him at least 3 times that me being more affectionate and open toward him lately is a result of 1) me being more comfortable with him as a PLATONIC friend that I can TRUST to know that things are only platonic, so I don't have to constantly play defense with him, and 2) me just wanting to show more affection to the friends in my life in general, especially after having a super jealous bf who hated all my friends and if I was close to anyone else. Now, all of a sudden, ONCE AGAIN, I acted like a friend the other night and told him he was one of my best friends... and now he has "questions" about my feelings, and is "receiving mixed signals." Dude... omfg omfg, no you are not. This is literally the entire cycle of our friendship. He acts this way, I pull back and make it clear that we are JUST FRIENDS, he backs off, says he accepts that, after awhile I try to be more comfortable around him again, and literally the second I do anything that isn't entirely closed-off and guarded he's back to "questioning my feelings" cuz I'm "acting different." How many times do we need to do this?

He and his gf were supposed to be my saving grace for housing if I wanted to stay in this city and go to school here in August. But living with him would be a terrible idea. Now I'm fucked again.

Aurora_Sunset
03-14-2018, 12:43 PM
Also, in regards to housing, I was contemplating asking one of my friends what her living situation looked like for the next year because she lives alone, works a lot, and is in nursing school, so I figured maybe she'd be down to room together. But I hadn't seen her in awhile, so I figured I would just ask the next time I did instead of text out of the blue. Well, I saw her the other night, and she was going on and on about her crappy apartment complex and how she just went through a ton of bullshit to re-sign her lease, and when I brought up my housing next, she was like "why didn't you say something a month ago!?" Dammit... I figured most leases start in summer around here. I didn't expect hers to start in March. :(

seashell
03-14-2018, 03:22 PM
I've been having a lot of nausea for the past couple weeks, from either stress or my period, or both... I was supposed to be on vacation in Vienna and Budapest. I went to both cities, and felt so crappy that I just stayed inside and worked. Bleh.

SnuffleUffleGrass
03-14-2018, 05:15 PM
I'm pissed my cousin "CH" is bugging me on social media. I have a LOT going on right now & cannot deal with her drama. My 2018 resolution was to tell most of my relatives to piss the f off. ggrrrrrrrrrr

WendiStarr
03-14-2018, 06:05 PM
I just came home from work to a note from the office staff of my apartment complex on my door. First they had a problem with the two little wooden birdhouses on my window ledge and threatened to charge me a $50 fee for having them on the window ledge. Apparently now they suddenly have a problem with my red damask curtains in my bedroom. They've been up for all 17 days that I've lived here now for gosh sake! The note said to remove the curtains or else they will charge me a fine of $75. What the fuck?! I haven't even lived in these apartments for a month and I'm already sick of the stupid ass staff and their rules. You get a fine for this, a fine for that. Everything is money, money, money here.

whirlerz
03-14-2018, 07:05 PM
I'm sorry, Wendi..
The one place I lived, threatened me about mowing my grass (like a couple inches high)..except the neighbors on either side were like 2 ft high..
Also, a lovely person who used to help me w/my mom got fined 50. for having her garbage can out..except she was very ill (she since passed) & was @ the HOSPITAL ffs..
I'm curious, wtf's wrong w/red curtains? Tell them to give you a color swatches..joking but jeez.

trustfundkiller
03-14-2018, 09:15 PM
I have the worst headache and it came out of nowhere. I had a paid video chat scheduled with a regular and I had to raincheck because I know I won't be as fun as usual. He understands, but fuck ...I hate losing money. I'm usually against taking pain medication for common aches and pains but I might make an exception here.

Glamourmilf
03-15-2018, 08:10 AM
I just came home from work to a note from the office staff of my apartment complex on my door. First they had a problem with the two little wooden birdhouses on my window ledge and threatened to charge me a $50 fee for having them on the window ledge. Apparently now they suddenly have a problem with my red damask curtains in my bedroom. They've been up for all 17 days that I've lived here now for gosh sake! The note said to remove the curtains or else they will charge me a fine of $75. What the fuck?! I haven't even lived in these apartments for a month and I'm already sick of the stupid ass staff and their rules. You get a fine for this, a fine for that. Everything is money, money, money here.

And so it begins. Been there with every place I've ever rented.
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WendiStarr
03-15-2018, 10:34 AM
^ I called and asked them what was wrong with the curtains. It's just red damask print curtains. I could see if it was something that could be offensive. They said it makes the apartment look "trashy" when people have colored curtains up and that they want all the apartments to be "uniform" in appearance. It makes me mad because I put those curtains up, not only because they're pretty, but to block out one of the neighbors whose parking spot is right in front of my bedroom window. Every night around 11 he sits out there in his fancy silver Dodge Charger for an hour with his headlights shining right into my bedroom. It's annoying.