View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-15-2018, 11:15 AM
Honestly he sounds manic/ bipolar as well as an energy vampire! Yikes! ....and the fact that he chooses to live in a house where someone was murdered- even though he is an "energy healer"?! Ummm......something is seriously fucked up with this guy. Stay away from him.
Guys sounds like a miser/control freak. Or ghoulish. Maybe all 3
(My boyfriend is a lot like this but thankfully not sinister. He's weird AF but a total sweetheart.)
LoveyDovey
04-15-2018, 03:23 PM
Doesn't anyone have any respect for my time??? It *is* valuable...
chanzep
04-15-2018, 06:03 PM
Need to find a another work from home job, my workplace is a shitshow always!. My coworkers said they could not work at home it would drive them crazy!. Honestly working at home was the best vanilla job I had and I was so happy and very sociable because I was at home. horrible vanilla jobs drain my energy and I just sleep on my days off ugh.
DonaDiabla
04-15-2018, 06:35 PM
Yeah, men need to remember to control themselves around me at all times. You do not get to clap and then get mad about me clapping back thousand times harder.Today, some Canadian bastard wanted to forced his anti-women and anti-immigrant rants down my throat after paying for an weekly kik package. Then he was going off on this weird xenophilic rant about Asian and Polish women taking his past jobs. I told him let's talk about it in a respectful manner but he wanted to started yelling about that. Well, he learns about what happens when you disturb the hornet's nest and the hornet's queen gives an sting.:)
chanzep
04-15-2018, 06:38 PM
^Girl I feel you. Just try it and hopefully it will work . If the clubs in this city were not full of cheap assholes and pimped out girls I would be at a club for sure.
Aurora_Sunset
04-17-2018, 08:16 AM
Wtf, ex, just leave. me. alone.
Motherfucker wants to play dumb now about spying on me even though I KNOW he does and always has and has always lied about it. Like, I've literally sat right next to him and watched him do shit that he swore up and down that he doesn't do in terms of spying on me online... But he wants to play dumb about it now, while accusing ME of being the liar "still." Said over and over again about how I've "still been lying to him." Dude, we haven't spoken in a month! What could I possibly "still" be lying to you about?
Dude kept doing the vague-wording, "dance around the subject" thing like he wanted me to just up and admit to something... I have nothing to admit to....
The thing is, the only thing I can think that he's referring to is the fact that when we last spoke, he asked if anything had happened between me and another guy or if I was dating said guy, and I said no. That wasn't a lie during that conversation. Nothing had happened between us the night we talking about, and I didn't start having sex with or kinda seeing said guy until weeks after this conversation, and not even until a few days after the very last argument we had on the phone a month ago. So nothing I told him about that was a lie at the time. I'm not required to update my psycho ex bf on my dating/sex life, especially after HE'S the one who ruined any chance at friendship.
But ultimately.... there is no way - NO WAY - he could know that I'm seeing this guy now unless he entered my apartment again (and saw a picture of us framed on the table next to my couch, which honestly isn't even a "romantic" thing, it was just nice to have a real physical picture of someone who is a good friend), or he's been literally stalking me and following me to his place. Because there is NO OTHER WAY he could know anything about it. There is nothing online. And I have very specifically avoided telling any mutual friends anything about it so that it wouldn't get back to him. So, if he's "not spying on me".... how could he possibly know?
And if that's not the topic, then wtf is he even talking about and getting bent out of shape about?
miss.a.p1600
04-17-2018, 09:11 AM
You're being rational and honest
and sounds like that dude is completely irrational. He is making whatever last ditch efforts he can to get time and attention out of you.
He reminds me of Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction - just be careful girl. Put some hidden cameras in your place and on the outside too.
I wish I could trade places with you for like a month lol!
Aurora_Sunset
04-17-2018, 09:32 AM
You're being rational and honest
and sounds like that dude is completely irrational. He is making whatever last ditch efforts he can to get time and attention out of you.
He reminds me of Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction - just be careful girl. Put some hidden cameras in your place and on the outside too.
I wish I could trade places with you for like a month lol!
Right!? He is trying so desperately hard to "prove" that me and this dude had a thing going before we broke up and/or that I lied to him about anything going on that night we talked about or before the last time we talked. Like, why?
Sure, I could admit that I had had a thing for this other dude before we broke up, or that I could kinda tell that the guy was attracted to me too, but honestly, what does it matter at this point? People find other people attractive, even if they're in a relationship with someone else. Our friendship wasn't inappropriate. The guy never ever made even the slightest move on me, not even comments on my appearance like most of my other guy friends, until months after I was single. He is not the reason we broke up. He is not the reason we fought... Proving that I had a tiny, under control crush on him beforehand, or that I had more conversations with him than I admitted to, (and tbh, I hid pretty much ALL communication with ALL male friends from my bf, not just this guy, simply because he was so jealous and possessive that I could barely stand next to a member of the opposite sex without being accused of inappropriate body language, not because anything shady was actually going on...) or that things have happened between us since that conversation would not mean anything in terms of why we broke up or why we are no longer friends... Why the FUCK does it matter now?
He is so damn determined to make himself feel better by branding me a giant untrustworthy slut, rather than accept the fact that it's because he's ALWAYS treated me that way and treated me like shit with his psycho jealous rages and baseless accusations that that is the reason we broke up. Not because some "other guy" stole me away, and he "knew it from the beginning." Dude, you didn't know shit because there wasn't shit to know.
miss.a.p1600
04-17-2018, 10:00 AM
Some of these guys will always find a way to try to turn everything around on you to make it like its your fault. Instead of just accepting responsibility for their actions, accepting reality, and keeping it moving on.
When I was in my naive emotionally unintelligent times - I am sure I did some cringeworthy things during breakups. Thank goodness I've matured so it's easy to see it when other people are doing it.
Breakups can cause us to break out those primitive defense mechanisms https://psychcentral.com/lib/15-common-defense-mechanisms/
Aurora_Sunset
04-17-2018, 11:03 AM
What's hysterical about this, is the fact that he had had a crush on me for YEARS before giving up and starting to date someone else. That girl was super jealous and insecure about me to the point where he stopped being my friend while they were together to make her feel better. When they broke up, she was apparently hysterical over the thought that he would go off and start dating me, and he assured her that he wouldn't.
We started dating 2 months after they broke up...
Not only that, but before we even started dating, and had just reconnected as friends right after the breakup, he told me that he knew it wasn't ok to stop being my friend just to cowtow to her jealous feelings, and that he regretted doing it and would never do that to me as a friend again.
Yet, when we were together he was always on about me dropping any male friend that he so much as suspected as finding me physically attractive because of his insecurity, and is acting just like his own psycho ex-gf demanding that I not be allowed to now date/sleep with anyone that he personally dislikes out of jealousy. He was always throwing tantrums about how he just couldn't conceive that I could remain platonic friends with anyone I used to have a crush on, because "clearly" that meant that I still had feelings for them and not him. Or he'd say that if I were to ever date/have sex with/go back to anyone after I broke up with him, that would mean that I had had feelings for them and was cheating him all along.... But was that the case when he was dating his gf? Does the fact that he used to have feelings for me, dated her, and then started dating me 2 months later mean that he was "always" truly in love with me and was just fucking her over?? Hmmmm LOL what a fucking hypocrite...
miss.a.p1600
04-17-2018, 11:43 AM
^ that's why I feel like being a video blogger or doing what that Sam lady always suggests to do to some of these men is to pull out your phone and start recording them lol!
In their minds - if it's not on tape or not written down.....it didn't happen
I kind think he is projecting / gaslighting though (like accusing you of the very stuff he is/was doing) and yeah it comes off as very hypocritical
Sorry - if I keep responding and you just want to rant :detective:duck:
miss.a.p1600
04-17-2018, 11:45 AM
people who have pets but no clue how to take care of them or train them
HelenaVixen
04-17-2018, 02:52 PM
people who have pets but no clue how to take care of them or train them
Yes!!! People that get dogs only to chain them up outside and just leave them there sickens me. Why the fuck would you get something living if you have no intention on taking care of it??
HelenaVixen
04-17-2018, 03:20 PM
I hate when business is going good only to come to a completely stand still. I hate the fact that I care so much. I uploaded some new clips, did my makeup and hair, great editing, I spent time on them! It’s been days and not a clip sold. I feel shitty. And since I’m a “girl” now I’m overthinking everything. Was I doing to much? Am I even attractive? What if no one ever buys my clips again? I hate being this fragile. I have other streams of income but it’s kinda getting overwhelming, I can completely see how girls get burnt out.
My main income was from pso work but I think it got the best of me. I’m a “submissive” and I hate to say the things men were saying to me eventually got to me. I was drinking almost everyday just to be verbally abused. So I thought okay I’ll do domming but those mofos are just as weird and stalkerish as the “dominant males”. It’s gotten so bad that even the men that call me just to talk, annoys me. It has made me truly hate men. I had to struggle last month because I just...couldn’t. I stayed in bed depressed all month long and thank god I have other streams of income because if not, I wouldn’t have even been able to eat. I used to think I was so “strong” but they broke me in a sense. And not to be all hocus pocus but I really think some of those men were dabbling into something spiritually evil. I would have nightmares, very vivid nightmares after being in the phone with them. And some of the things they wanted to talk about...men are fucking sick.
I hate having to choose between money and your sanity. I totally understand why some actors go into a deep depression after playing certain roles. I am nowhere near submissive in my regular life but it’s something i became. After awhile I started to become that woman that they loved degrading. Weak, timid, ignorant, and obedient. I knew I had to stop when I started going off on callers that didn’t even want me to be a submissive but I started taking it out on them.
At least with making clips, if a person doesn’t like you or the clip, they just don’t come back. (You do have to deal with chargebacks though sometimes) with pso work, those mofos will make a new account and just harass you in your review section.
I got a reading done and the woman said if you don’t stop this, you’ll hate men. And I didn’t listen. What she said is right , I need a break from them. All of them are fucking trash in my book. I’m so glad I like women.
Buuttt I guess the upside is that I have so much content for my domme humiliation clips! I almost can’t wait to turn the camera on and sit and talk about how much I hate men, how they’re trashy, useless, pieces of filth that shouldn’t even have the option of being around us. Hooray for getting paid to mean :-)
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-18-2018, 06:38 AM
Petty annoyance- my boyfriend having a moment of clarity about our shared finances way too fucking late.
He never believed me that me stripping was better than me not stripping. Who was right all along? Fuck!!!!
miss cleo
04-18-2018, 08:10 AM
Just overheard in a restaurant some prick saying " hashtag me too" in jest! . its so hard not to become a total manhater some of them make it so easy.
Glamourmilf
04-18-2018, 08:52 AM
I'm beyond pissed that escorts on a forum app are telling everyone to go get tricks from strip clubs and cam sites! And they name specific ones. Bitch, STOP!!!
It's just a matter of time until everything is shut down.
I've been camming on one site for over 7 years. But, because of fosta, etc, I had to not only sign a new contract stating that I won't ever agree to meet up....BUT, also a pop up comes on the screen EVERY time I go to stream, asking me to tick boxes swearing I won't commit prostitution. My stream won't connect until I do.:-[
All it will take is for a few escorts to start breaking the rules, and the cam sites , (and obviously strip clubs) will be forced to shut down.:-\
I'm so pissed I could spit!
WendiStarr
04-18-2018, 09:04 AM
Stupid timewasting assholes even in vanilla work. I was supposed to go clean this guy's house at 10am. He would've been a new client. I called him at 9am to confirm that he still wanted me to come over at 10am to clean. I like to confirm because I know that sometimes people have stuff come up and forget to tell me or change their mind. No answer. I left a voicemail about it. Crickets. He already texted me his address yesterday but I'm not going to just go to his house without him confirming with me today. At 11:17am he starts firing off texts that say,"so r u a scammer", two texts that said "scammer", and another that said, "dumb slut this is why i hate lazy whores like u". I don't get where he's coming from. I didn't scam him. I didn't take any money from him, let alone even go to his house or meet him so I don't know where he gets off on that crap. As for being a dumb slut or whore, how would he know? Does the fact that I'm female automatically qualify me as a 'dumb slut' and 'whore'? I fucking hate men lately!
miss.a.p1600
04-18-2018, 01:15 PM
had a discussion with a woman who has some pretty strong views......which are kinda opposite of mine.
She said she thinks kids should have mother and father (so she's against adoption by gay couples and single parents) - which okay shes entitled to her viewpoints but like damn just cause people are gay or single doesnt mean they dont deserve to be parents too - especially with so many kids waiting to be adopted like it doesn't make sense. I mean if they can provide love and support financially then why not?
And then she ends the convo talking about her niece and nephew whose parents are divorced and their bio dad was apparently abusive - so even though they came into the world 'the right way' through a married couple with a father, turns out - they don't have a father in the sense of a real loving father and she suggested to them to utilize her husband as a father figure.
Like bish not everyone will have 'the luxury' of a loving mother AND father (people divorce, never marry, die, have mental illnesses, etc.) and sometimes you just gotta make do with the resources you have which include extended family members.
I think she just wanted to go on her puritan/anti-homosexuality/religious superiority rant and it's like I did not feel like debating her nor did I really even feel like listening. I just smile and nod but really I want to get away from her. Not because her views but because I can tell she wants people to accept her views but seems intolerant of other peoples views.
MissMoore
04-18-2018, 05:05 PM
Men who expect me to pay. lololol sorrynotsorry
WendiStarr
04-19-2018, 09:00 AM
One of my glofish died this morning. I don't know why. I've fed the fish, changed the water, water temperature is good. I've only had her for 6 days. Now I'm worried that the others are going to die.
Aurora_Sunset
04-19-2018, 09:06 AM
Why can't men keep their inappropriate and unwelcome feelings to themselves? It's one thing to initially try to tell a woman that you have feelings for her and see how it goes, but once she makes it clear that she doesn't feel that way - stop fucking talking about it! Guy friends who I turned down years ago will still try to slip guilt-trippy things into conversation about how much they miss me, and they never met anyone who makes them feel the way I do. Or they constantly try to second, third, fourth... 10th-guess my feelings over the years and try to get me to feel differently, making me feel bad when I turn them down once again. Or go on and on about how much they love me and just want to take care of me - one of them keeps trying to tell me how enlightened his feelings toward me have become because now when he thinks about sex with me it isn't about what he can get from me but he just so wants to "give me a gift of pleasure" and "my happiness would be his happiness."
My fucking happiness would be you ceasing talk about how you want to have sex with me after nearly a decade of turning you down!
I can't even have a remotely emotional or empathetic conversation with any of them without them turning it into fishing for me to tell them how much I care about them or dropping the above comments about how in love with me they've always been...
And of course, if I start ignoring them or straight-up tell them that their comments are making me uncomfortable and I'd prefer not to talk about things like that between us anymore, they get all butthurt and play the "I'm just an honest person about my feelings... maybe I just need to stop using my heart" bullshit card.
NO. There's "being honest about your feelings" and then there's "thinking that your feelings and your desire to express them any way you want constantly trump my desire to not be hit on by you or have to deal with/coddle your romantic feelings toward me after I've already told you no." If I was a woman who constantly hit up a guy that had told me long ago that he had no feelings for me and made it his problem that I have unrequited love toward him by making these kinds of comments and talking about thinking about us having sex... no one would be ok with that. I would be a "total psycho chick." But when men do it to us, we're supposed to "be nice." After all... we are hurting their precious feelings, and that's all our fault.... /sarcasm
Male entitlement at its finest. Even when you say no, you are still expected to cater to and soothe their feelings for you, no matter how much you don't want to.
It's like my fucking ex telling me that if he had killed himself in the first few months of our breakup because I refused to answer the phone and talk to him, it would have been my fault... my fault for "breaking his heart" by simply being an autonomous human being that decided not to date him anymore... my fault for making the completely legitimate choice that I wouldn't just take his phone calls at whatever hour he demanded it... All my fault.
Here's a hint: if the fact that a woman is exercising her simple god-given right to not be in a relationship with you because she doesn't want to upsets you to the point where you think life isn't worth living unless she does exactly what you want her to do... you are the worst kind of unhinged misogynist.
Optimist
04-19-2018, 10:43 AM
Here's a hint: if the fact that a woman is exercising her simple god-given right to not be in a relationship with you because she doesn't want to upsets you to the point where you think life isn't worth living unless she does exactly what you want her to do... you are the worst kind of unhinged misogynist.
....And that is precisely what your subconscious was telling you when you gave them the boot. Maybe you need to let them go for good because you aren't actually friends. You're the hot chick they are biding their time to get another shot at. They're using your friendship to enable their plan.
Optimist
04-19-2018, 10:45 AM
Stupid timewasting assholes even in vanilla work. I was supposed to go clean this guy's house at 10am. He would've been a new client. I called him at 9am to confirm that he still wanted me to come over at 10am to clean. I like to confirm because I know that sometimes people have stuff come up and forget to tell me or change their mind. No answer. I left a voicemail about it. Crickets. He already texted me his address yesterday but I'm not going to just go to his house without him confirming with me today. At 11:17am he starts firing off texts that say,"so r u a scammer", two texts that said "scammer", and another that said, "dumb slut this is why i hate lazy whores like u". I don't get where he's coming from. I didn't scam him. I didn't take any money from him, let alone even go to his house or meet him so I don't know where he gets off on that crap. As for being a dumb slut or whore, how would he know? Does the fact that I'm female automatically qualify me as a 'dumb slut' and 'whore'? I fucking hate men lately!
You dodged a damn bullet!
trustfundkiller
04-19-2018, 12:21 PM
One of those crazy mornings. I went to the gas station and a drunk guy runs across the street and begs me for money so he can buy himself a beer. I politely tell him I don't have any cash or change on me. He continues to follow me into the store and plead to me. I had to pull the cashier aside and tell her what was going on, and that I was afraid to go back to my car alone. She told me to stay inside and she got one of the mechanics to talk to him and ask him to leave. They ended up calling the police and the mechanic escorted me to my car and watched me drive off safely. It was scary how aggressive he was ...I was praying he wouldn't turn violent and pull a knife/gun on me. You never know how crazy some of these people can be.
Men are so creepy. Obviously we see the worst of it, but so many civilian women deal with this shit too.
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-19-2018, 06:21 PM
One of those crazy mornings. I went to the gas station and a drunk guy runs across the street and begs me for money so he can buy himself a beer. I politely tell him I don't have any cash or change on me. He continues to follow me into the store and plead to me. I had to pull the cashier aside and tell her what was going on, and that I was afraid to go back to my car alone. She told me to stay inside and she got one of the mechanics to talk to him and ask him to leave. They ended up calling the police and the mechanic escorted me to my car and watched me drive off safely. It was scary how aggressive he was ...I was praying he wouldn't turn violent and pull a knife/gun on me. You never know how crazy some of these people can be.
Men are so creepy. Obviously we see the worst of it, but so many civilian women deal with this shit too.
Oh God I had a crackhead do this to me late at night in downtown Minneapolis. It's the fucking worst..........
JGB2009
04-19-2018, 07:03 PM
One of those crazy mornings. I went to the gas station and a drunk guy runs across the street and begs me for money so he can buy himself a beer. I politely tell him I don't have any cash or change on me. He continues to follow me into the store and plead to me. I had to pull the cashier aside and tell her what was going on, and that I was afraid to go back to my car alone. She told me to stay inside and she got one of the mechanics to talk to him and ask him to leave. They ended up calling the police and the mechanic escorted me to my car and watched me drive off safely. It was scary how aggressive he was ...I was praying he wouldn't turn violent and pull a knife/gun on me. You never know how crazy some of these people can be.
Men are so creepy. Obviously we see the worst of it, but so many civilian women deal with this shit too.
I had someone do this to me while I was pregnant with my son. The idiot asked me could he talk to me and I flat out told him no. He followed me to my car anyways. It was during the day but still. The nerve of some people!!!!
miss.a.p1600
04-19-2018, 08:33 PM
Omg I asked old dude has he ever measured his penis he said yeah then I was like 'what the results say?'
Then he gone say 'wel id rather show you but.......it's BIG'
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He claims it's 8 inches lol. I'm like that's just a smidgen above medium.
Then he was like he would send me a pic.....I'm knowing cam ladies charge for dic pics and I don't want no dick pic unless some money attached so 'im like nah bruh ..... don't reveal the mystery'
whirlerz
04-19-2018, 09:57 PM
Yow, Ms p!^
I just read about Ed Kemper, what a disgusting human (or maybe not human)
Now I'll probably have nightmares
Glamourmilf
04-20-2018, 07:51 AM
I was leaving the drive thru Starbucks, when all of a sudden a cop car comes barreling around a blind corner straight for me! His siren wasn't on.
I was just about to take my first sip and luckily I was still paying attention to the driveway long enough to swerve out of his way.
Unless there was some kind of a coffee emergency he was going to, I don't see the point in why he was driving so recklessly.
Oh, wait.........Ok. I got it.
WendiStarr
04-20-2018, 08:07 AM
I was leaving the drive thru Starbucks, when all of a sudden a cop car comes barreling around a blind corner straight for me! His siren wasn't on.
I was just about to take my first sip and luckily I was still paying attention to the driveway long enough to swerve out of his way.
Unless there was some kind of a coffee emergency he was going to, I don't see the point in why he was driving so recklessly.
Oh, wait.........Ok. I got it.
^ He was in a rush for his free coffee and donuts.
Glamourmilf
04-20-2018, 08:18 AM
^ He was in a rush for his free coffee and donuts.
Exactly! Or to arrest someone for trying to use the restroom before buying something.::)
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-20-2018, 09:20 AM
Exactly! Or to arrest someone for trying to use the restroom before buying something.::)
I laughed way too hard at this.
The silver lining of Starbuck's PR problem is indie coffee sellers need to jump on this opportunity to court new business.
Petty annoyance for today- have to clean garage, do not want to. ughhh
Aurora_Sunset
04-20-2018, 11:58 AM
My entire website is down, and they didn't even warn me...
Like, I get it. Maybe I should have even expected it, considering it was a service exclusive for provider websites, but an email - even the day of - stating that they would be closing shop by the end of the day because of FOSTA would have been nice so I could pull all my info and pictures off it. They could have at least sent something retroactively so I knew to warn my clients. They were a business that charged for their services, so at the very least a boiler-plate mass email to everyone affected would have been nice, even if they or we couldn't do anything about it. It's not as though they're not still around - they redirect to a sugaring website that is obviously owned by the same people because it has the same login design. So if you're not gonna go completely dark, the least you could do is send a generic-ass email.
miss.a.p1600
04-20-2018, 01:30 PM
I don't think he follows instructions well....I said not to send me any dick pics - so what does he do instead? send me a bathroom selfie (*sigh* typical kardashian shit) with a towel over his kind of erect penis ..... so I saw a penis print
should have said no dick pics and no penis print pics lol
ahhh my innocent eyes!!!
miss.a.p1600
04-20-2018, 01:36 PM
Exactly! Or to arrest someone for trying to use the restroom before buying something.::)
The whole Starbucks thing reminds me of this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KIk0abbYgXQ
Hurry up and buy!!! lol
Those dudes should have known - certain places, you can't be looking bummy and think no one notice you freeloading or loitering. Should went to Mc Don Don or a library or something.
Glamourmilf
04-21-2018, 06:21 AM
^^ Hilarious! I've never seen that before. So true, isn't it? Talk about racial profiling.
My petty annoyance.
I was at the deli in a high end supermarket yesterday. You know, the kind of market where a loaf of bread is $10?
I struck up a conversation with an older woman next to me, whose arm was in a sling.
Turns out she had just had her shoulder replaced ( for the second time) the day before.
Her hospital bracelet band was still on!
My knee has been in so much pain, so I can relate. She tells me that she's already had, not only her other shoulder replaced, but both of her knees and hips! All due to arthritis.
All the while her dumbass husband was just standing there, silently watching her order food, reach up and grab it, push the cart, etc.
My maternal instinct kicked into overdrive, and I start telling her husband that he needs to care for her. ( In a joking manner of course).
His reply? " I AM helping her. I make sure she takes all of her pain pills.":O:P
It was at that moment that I thanked the Lord that I'm single.
I realize that they might have some type of Dom/sub relationship, and I'm on the outside looking in.
But, I was having serious flashbacks to when my second husband never took care of me when I was bedridden, from back injuries, and whenever I had really bad menstrual pain.
miss.a.p1600
04-21-2018, 10:50 AM
I don't think he follows instructions well....I said not to send me any dick pics - so what does he do instead? send me a bathroom selfie (*sigh* typical kardashian shit) with a towel over his kind of erect penis ..... so I saw a penis print
should have said no dick pics and no penis print pics lol
ahhh my innocent eyes!!!
So I rack my brain trying to figure out why dude can't follow instructions and I am going to have to start getting firm.
Like why would he send me pics of himself half ass naked?
My only rational thought was he wanted me to think of him as more than a friend or something. But dudes dont get it - women are not thinking like them. I could send a pussy, ass or tit pic to a male friend and he'd probably drive faster than a pizza delivery to meet me within 30 min or less. Dudes send me their thirsty half naked pics and I'm like .... meh. It just doesn't do that much for me unless they have the body of a tall and well toned Greek God with a penis that should be captured in an erotic art museum. And even then I'm like does he know how to please a woman? And will he get on my nerves?
Some things turn me on and it's not necessarily dick. I should tell him I am celibate and I'm not ending it unless I'm married (or the price is right lol)
miss.a.p1600
04-21-2018, 10:56 AM
Then he was like....'oh where is my pic?'
*sigh* I am having a hard time keeping my hoeness under wraps and prob should not be in the vanilla dating.
I have yet to respond. But I'm thinking a cute arm pic or a pinky toe pic would be appropriate.
Glamourmilf
04-22-2018, 07:57 AM
I could send a pussy, ass or tit pic to a male friend and he'd probably drive faster than a pizza delivery to meet me within 30 min or less.
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: I'm dying right now!
Miss.a.p, if that isn't the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Tragic, but true.
I'm #Dead:thanx:
WendiStarr
04-22-2018, 09:46 AM
I wasn't home this weekend so I had a friend stop by to feed my fish. My apartment stunk to high heaven before I opened my door. I could smell awful stink emanating from the door. I knew immediately that something was wrong, looked and seen that my fish tank was so dirty that I couldn't see the fish at all in there. The water was stained a murky brown. He greatly overfed them so much that there were huge chunks of fish food in there. They were of course dead. Poor little guys. I had just cleaned my fish's tank on Friday. The water was clear. My fish were fed, happy, and alive. It took me forever to clean that mess up and to add fuel to the fire, he apparently took a shit or something, clogged my toilet, water backed up all over the bathroom floor. I'm still trying to air this place out and get rid of that nasty stink. Ugh! He apologized but didn't offer to replace the fish or give me money for that smelly mess. I'm so annoyed. This is why I don't usually trust anyone being in my home when I'm not there.
miss.a.p1600
04-22-2018, 04:28 PM
Sometimes I feel like most men are a distraction. They come onto you, offering nothing but dick and majority of the time their dick is worthless, have no problem wasting your time and can't/don't want to grasp the concept of time = money. Then if you decline their thirsty seduction efforts, they cause all sorts of problems and play mind games. A'int nobody got time for that.
MissMoore
04-22-2018, 06:35 PM
I wasn't home this weekend so I had a friend stop by to feed my fish. My apartment stunk to high heaven before I opened my door. I could smell awful stink emanating from the door. I knew immediately that something was wrong, looked and seen that my fish tank was so dirty that I couldn't see the fish at all in there. The water was stained a murky brown. He greatly overfed them so much that there were huge chunks of fish food in there. They were of course dead. Poor little guys. I had just cleaned my fish's tank on Friday. The water was clear. My fish were fed, happy, and alive. It took me forever to clean that mess up and to add fuel to the fire, he apparently took a shit or something, clogged my toilet, water backed up all over the bathroom floor. I'm still trying to air this place out and get rid of that nasty stink. Ugh! He apologized but didn't offer to replace the fish or give me money for that smelly mess. I'm so annoyed. This is why I don't usually trust anyone being in my home when I'm not there.
Omg!!! This is soooo sad! Hope you feel better soon and the sink goes away! RIP TO YOUR FISH. /( sorry to hear what a fucking major league assbag this guy was!
Aurora_Sunset
04-22-2018, 06:37 PM
So, every building in my apartment complex has one washer and one dryer. The dryer in my building has been busted for a month. No big deal, it's not like it's a super far walk to another building next door. So a little bit ago, I put a load in the washer in the building next to me. I always set a timer so I'm not that asshole that leaves my stuff hogging the only machine for a long time, so I KNOW that I went to go move my stuff only a couple minutes after my load ended.
When I got over there, someone from another building or maybe just someone in that building drying/fluffing something had JUST started a dryer load... like, 3 minutes earlier... which means they fucking walked in there right when they knew my load in the washer was about to finish, and threw all their shit in the dryer anyway so that I would have to wait an extra hour for it. Yeah, I could load all my wet shit into my hamper and walk to another building, but the ENTIRE GODDAM REASON I used THAT washer in THAT building was so that I wouldn't HAVE to do that again like I did the first two times I used the washer in my building and then realized that the dryer was (still) broken.
What a fucking asshole.
Aurora_Sunset
04-22-2018, 06:50 PM
So I went back and hauled my wet shit to the next building over, and someone over THERE had done the exact thing that I try not to do by setting a timer, and left all their crap in the dryer... and I know it had been awhile, because the clothes were almost cold when I pulled them out.
I normally don't pull other people's clothes out of the machine, even when it's been awhile, but this is bullshit. It's almost 10pm on a Sunday, which everyone knows damn well is a big laundry day for most people... I'm not dealing with this bullshit because everyone around here wants to be a giant, inconsiderate twat. It's not my fault I can't use the machine in my own building because it's been broken down for, honestly, what is really an unacceptable length of time... They don't fix ANYTHING around here, and yet think they're gonna raise my rent by $40/month this year???
whirlerz
04-22-2018, 08:10 PM
Wendi, I'm so sorry about your fish! Hugs.
Aurora, we just have a washer, no dryer..& the washer sucks
WendiStarr
04-23-2018, 06:28 AM
Doxycycline. I was prescribed it for a uti and the heartburn, acidic burning feeling in my throat and tummy, severe nausea, and heart palpitations I get within 30 minutes of taking this, so not worth it. No matter what I eat or even if I eat a full meal I feel like I'm dying after taking this medicine. I'm throwing this crap in the trash and going to see if doc can prescribe something else. I can't go through feeling like this twice a day for 2 hours.
trustfundkiller
04-23-2018, 11:52 AM
I've been summoned for jury duty and I need to figure out how the fuck to get out of it. I do not have the time or goodwill to waste a day of my life, my gas, my money, and my mental health to go downtown, deal with parking, and waste my existence on motherfucking JURY DUTY. I HATE THE JUDICIAL SYSTEM. I hate our government, point blank. I refuse to sacrifice my time like that, especially with all that's going on with SESTA/FOSTA. I have no incentive to be of any "civilian" service.
If anyone has any advice or tips to get the hell out of this horrible inconvenience, please let me know.
If I do not get out of this, I will show up in a damn g-string bikini so they ask me to leave!!!! Lol jk, but really ...there has to be a solution.
WendiStarr
04-23-2018, 12:19 PM
I've been summoned for jury duty and I need to figure out how the fuck to get out of it. I do not have the time or goodwill to waste a day of my life, my gas, my money, and my mental health to go downtown, deal with parking, and waste my existence on motherfucking JURY DUTY. I HATE THE JUDICIAL SYSTEM. I hate our government, point blank. I refuse to sacrifice my time like that, especially with all that's going on with SESTA/FOSTA. I have no incentive to be of any "civilian" service.
If anyone has any advice or tips to get the hell out of this horrible inconvenience, please let me know.
If I do not get out of this, I will show up in a damn g-string bikini so they ask me to leave!!!! Lol jk, but really ...there has to be a solution.
Tell them that you'll automatically assume everyone guilty by default or if it's a certain issue that you feel strongly for or have been through, tell them that you'll be biased. In my case it was a rapist. I told them that I'd say that he was guilty by default because I've been raped before and I have no sympathy for rapists, especially since mine was not brought to justice. It worked.
TheBrownFox
04-23-2018, 02:50 PM
This daycare center job I had applied for:
I did the phone interview. Then we set up a day for me to come in to do an office interview + a "See how I do in the classroom" trial run.
Went there on Friday and spent TWO hours there. One hour in the office talking with the director, and answering even more interview questions...plus one hour in the 2-year old classroom to "see how I do." I finished up, and she's like "Okay, great. Now when can you come back so we can put you in a second classroom? That will take about 45 minutes." *facepalm*
Wtf. Today (I took today off from my temporary remodeling job, because of a meeting at my son's school) was supposed to be the day I do the trial run in the second classroom, but guess what? The director wasn't there today...she'd called out. Good thing I called before catching a bus over there, because clearly THEY weren't gonna call ME to let me know the director had called out today. The Asst. Director's like "Can you come in another day to finish your interview?"
Nah, I think I just lost interest. I was trying to get ALL of that shit done in the same day on Friday, because I'm not gonna keep taking off work from my temp. job, or coming in to work late over this bullshit. I missed out on the cookout at work on Friday, messin' around with these people at this long-ass interview. They managed to get an hour of unpaid work from me.