View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
miss.a.p1600
05-12-2018, 05:23 PM
Im pissed that stripper webs is not live, no action, nothing......
I want to rant but I don't think I have anything to rant about
whirlerz
05-12-2018, 08:52 PM
I think cause everyone working, MsP?
I just bored, going to bed soon, up early to watch this goofy TV show I like.
miss.a.p1600
05-12-2018, 09:13 PM
Yep. But at least cam ladies are active here on weekends. I think most of them post in the Whats on your mind thread in Camming section instead of ranting here in this thread.
Camming section is the most live section. This site really should be called cammer webs. Lol
Plus trolls are out 24/7
SnuffleUffleGrass
05-13-2018, 11:31 AM
The Internet trolls of YouTube are the stupidest I have ever seen...
JGB2009
05-13-2018, 05:10 PM
I woke up in a bad mood. I think I must have been dreaming about this dumb guy. I would never ever go back to him. Its just that I miss him. I guess its gonna take a long time to get over him. It took me two hours to get myself in a better mood.
WendiStarr
05-13-2018, 06:34 PM
Thirsty exes. An ex from 10 years ago who now lives on the other side of the country, emailed me to tell me happy mother's day and to see if I wanted to go to dinner with him tonight because he's in town and "really wants to see me". He said he's leaving tomorrow to go back home. Why in the heck would I want to meet up with an ex at 9pm? Typical guy wanting a one night booty type of thing to reminisce. I've been down that road with him before, 7 years ago and that's exactly what happened. We met up at a restaurant, he told me how good I looked, and tried to get me to go back to his hotel room "for old time's sake". I got a free meal out of it. Take your ass back to Cali, dude. Exes and their crap. Tf outta here!
Legz541
05-14-2018, 02:37 AM
I have an ovarian cyst that has been causing extreme pain the last few days. Unfortunately this is somewhat normal for me, it flares up every few months or so. Over the counter meds aren’t working and I don’t want to take the oxys I was prescribed, they make me feel like shit and extremely sleepy. I’m paranoid it’s gonna burst. Fffuuuuccccckkkkkk! At least I have the next couple days off.
Glamourmilf
05-14-2018, 06:41 AM
I woke up in a bad mood. I think I must have been dreaming about this dumb guy. I would never ever go back to him. Its just that I miss him. I guess its gonna take a long time to get over him. It took me two hours to get myself in a better mood.
Ugh! I hate when that happens.
I take melatonin, so it happens a lot.
I'll be going about my day, but if I go back in my bedroom, I can remember the dream again instantly too.
Sometimes it takes me an entire day to shake it off.
WendiStarr
05-14-2018, 06:58 AM
I let my daughter finish the last of the cereal today for breakfast. I didn't feel like going grocery shopping this weekend so I have no other breakfast food here. Since I was on a veggie kick yesterday and had a bunch chopped up and cooked sitting in tupperware in my fridge, I figured I'd just eat that. I thought why not, it's healthier than cereal, right? I guess my tummy didn't like that because now it's in a lot of pain and gassy. I don't feel like doing anything other than lying down, curled up in a ball. Screw you too, veggies!
trustfundkiller
05-14-2018, 02:22 PM
I was planning on having this strong week of hustling (camming during the day, at least 3 hours and stripping at night). The week is off to a rocky start. Over the weekend there was a death in the family which is upsetting but I knew it was coming and I had already mentally prepared myself for it. I am OK. I had already dealt with the anticipatory grief. It's almost like I mourned his death before it actually happened and reached acceptance.
Yesterday I started my period (two weeks early) and I feel like a bloated fat cow. I could not feel any more unsexy. Thankfully my periods are only 3-4 days so I'm hoping it will be over by the weekend. I delayed my plans of going back to the club until Friday night. I've been reading through some of my favorite HH threads and a "HH Study Guide" I've had on my computer for years. It's so comprehensive, it's like something you'd expect from a college student lol.
I'm really going to try to turn the week around. I have a really good feeling about Friday night. I'm going to get my hair and makeup done professionally, get a spray tan, maybe buy a new outfit, have dinner at my favorite sushi restaurant and maybe a little sake.
I'm rolling with the punches, I guess. Anyway, I'm having a much deserved glass of wine.
RyanXO
05-15-2018, 11:37 AM
I just gave TUSCL a read to see what all the fuss is about. I have been avoiding it but I was curious. Holy hell what a mood killer and demotivater!
miss.a.p1600
05-15-2018, 12:29 PM
^Most of them are angry bitter trolls.
I posted a couple of articles to get a free membership and like clockwork, trolls came out in full effect. Only a handful of normal people messaged me, privately lol, like I liked your info and those guys are assmunchers
Trying to covertly use this site in the cafe. I hate nosey people possibly looking over my shoulder and my avatar is not exactly 'family friendly' to these conservatives here.
Also some dude is talking on the phone ........ and he is hollaring loudly!.......I just want to yell at him - dude! shut yo loud ass up!
And his wife or whoever keeps gawking at me.....like wtf are you looking at heaux? Do I know you? Shit.
chanzep
05-15-2018, 01:37 PM
I think I need to clean up my diet. I keep having upset stomachs at least 1 day a week for the last month or so, like I used to years ago before going gluten free, I have been eating a bunch of gluten lately as I craved bread, my stomach is so bloated and I have no energy, Im going to reorder the Kimberly Synder books I left in the UK. They really helped before and they are cheap on Amazon. Im guess Im staying on the couch all day as its too hot outside to be feeling like this.
WendiStarr
05-15-2018, 02:46 PM
Ladies who are new to escorting and think that they can just jump on in. I had to go through a lot of creeps, stalkers, boundary pushers, smelly guys, rude assholes, being robbed and ripped off, getting beat up, raped, and other bad shit when I was new. It doesn't matter what job the guy has. In fact some of the most high profile men can be creeps. Powerful men use their power and money to buy themselves out of trouble to maintain their positive image because they can afford to. I have a headache.
seashell
05-15-2018, 04:50 PM
My petty annoyance is that I have to move tomorrow, because of ongoing visa issues and not having a long-term place to live. *sigh* I feel like a smarter person than me would have just gone home by now. I don't know why I put up with constant moving and instability.
miss.a.p1600
05-15-2018, 06:47 PM
I'm having a hard time AGAIN
Due to circumstances I heavily considered getting a vanilla job again but it just is not me. I am only doing it as a means to an end.
I would much rather move to another city, dance or something, and stack money that way.
I am trying to be grateful for the opportunities but all I can see is being obligated to this 9-5 desk job, working with people I don't like, clocking in like a robot, being forced into a schedule of 40-60 hours a week, being paid what I could make in 20-30 hours in adult work, etc.
I feel like I am being hate fucked in the ass with a bbc unlubed rn
I kind of hope the reject me and don't hire me as I would have a vaild excuse to now go be a heaux
Glamourmilf
05-16-2018, 07:47 AM
Ladies who are new to escorting and think that they can just jump on in. I had to go through a lot of creeps, stalkers, boundary pushers, smelly guys, rude assholes, being robbed and ripped off, getting beat up, raped, and other bad shit when I was new. It doesn't matter what job the guy has. In fact some of the most high profile men can be creeps. Powerful men use their power and money to buy themselves out of trouble to maintain their positive image because they can afford to. I have a headache.
This.^^^
random stripper
05-17-2018, 02:24 AM
These chicks sitting forever with guys to get a dance sale or a few dances are pissing me off. Holy hell. It ruins the game really.
These cheapass motherfucking customers at the club kill me. Some fuckhead seriously expects to finger for a lapdance. Like wtf??? Is this a thing in the city I'm at now? Like damn.
People telling me about my bad attitude like I give a fuck. I can't wait to get a straight job again once I move. I'm so over this. The money can be good, but it isn't enough money for the shit I gotta deal with and I miss having benefits/401k matching etc. Paid vacations.
JGB2009
05-17-2018, 07:05 AM
I hate it when a cashier will ask how are you and to be polite I will ask them the same. In return they don't say nothing back. That happened to me this morning and it just annoys me completely!!!!!!
WendiStarr
05-17-2018, 08:21 AM
People at my new vanilla job. Women are purposely bitchy and some of the guys are asshats. Ugh!
Glamourmilf
05-17-2018, 08:33 AM
My car repairs are going to cost me over $3000 :'(
My best friend of 25 years just had a heart attack. He's going to be ok, but damn!
Yesterday sucked bad!
trustfundkiller
05-17-2018, 09:27 AM
Fucking Miami summers. I had a spray tan scheduled and there's torrential downpour. I had to cancel. It rains every single day in Miami during the summer and it's sporadic. One hour there's beautiful sunshine and not a cloud in the sky, the next it looks like a hurricane is coming. I'm moving to Arizona at the end of August and I cannot. fucking. wait. I will take 110 degree heat and sunshine over daily unpredictable rain any day.
I don't have any self-tanners. I have a body oil from NARS that makes you look slightly darker temporarily but that shit does not last an entire fucking shift, and it's not noticeable enough.
I am really over this city. Everything from the crazy ass weather to the crazy ass people. Time for something new.
miss.a.p1600
05-17-2018, 09:59 AM
When I am eating food and some family member asks "oh do you like that xyz dish"?
Nah bish I'm just eating this to exercise my jaw muscles for the oral olympics.....
DF kind of dumb ask question is this? You are ruining my mental food orgasm so stfu!
ScarletKitten
05-17-2018, 03:00 PM
When I am eating food and some family member asks "oh do you like that xyz dish"?
Nah bish I'm just eating this to exercise my jaw muscles for the oral olympics.....
DF kind of dumb ask question is this? You are ruining my mental food orgasm so stfu!
lmaoooo :rotfl:
My annoyance today is people. I really really just don't like people. I can't even fake smile anymore at my vanilla job. I grimace at them. lol. My field of fucks is barren so I have no more to give.
Glamourmilf
05-18-2018, 08:37 AM
lmaoooo :rotfl:
My annoyance today is people. I really really just don't like people. I can't even fake smile anymore at my vanilla job. I grimace at them. lol. My field of fucks is barren so I have no more to give.
"Ditto ditto, and ditto."
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WendiStarr
05-18-2018, 11:01 AM
New vanilla boss. He was nice up until today. Then he was a total ass to me. I was ready to just quit and walk out. I have 1 more hour to go until done for the day. Thank God or whoever.
lynn2009
05-18-2018, 01:22 PM
I feel constantly jipped. I didn't really care about going to my graduation ceremony, but I finally called today for info thinking I'd just go and take a picture for my mom. There is some problem about when I applied for graduation and even if I wanted to they asked me not to show up for the ceremony this year (which is actually this weekend). They said I could go next year. They never told me anything about applying for graduation, so I didn't do it until the end of the semester when I got my final grades and knew I was actually done. Apparently you're supposed to do it the beginning of your last semester? I still can't get a clear answer on when I was supposed to have done this.
Selina M
05-18-2018, 02:48 PM
SO has finally been allowed to take his vacation (after 3 months of putting him off)... and they gave him shitty dates that totally screwed me with hotel rates.
- Company policy says vacations all go Monday through Sunday, but they put him on a Wednesday through Tuesday, so we now have to pay weekend rates. Great.
- They stuck him at the end of June. Las Vegas Comic Con is that weekend. The hotels are sky high.
God dammit, I hate vanilla bosses and jobs. It's so not worth the salary.
trustfundkiller
05-19-2018, 01:52 PM
I was all gung-ho about going back to a club I used to work at a few years ago. I went in last night expecting to work (it's the kind of club where you're basically hired on the spot if they like your look) and much to my surprise, the club had renovations done, an all new staff, and new dancers. New, hot dancers, I will add and this used to be a club that would hire basically anyone. I enjoyed it for that reason because when quality customers would walk in, I had zero competition. I didn't recognize any of the girls. The new manager told me that Monday night is audition night, but he would let me audition now. However, I would have to start on Monday. I didn't feel like getting buck naked in front of everyone if I wasn't going to be able to work the same night, so I told him I will come back on Monday (I probably won't, I don't like working Mondays and I think I know what he's doing - trying to get hot girls to work on the shitty shifts no one wants). Then again, the club was packed wall-to-wall which is unusual for summer in SoFla, and the club is A LOT nicer than it used to be.
Maybe it's worth exploring. Even if it means sacrificing a Monday, which is usually my down day.
miss.a.p1600
05-19-2018, 02:04 PM
My family members are trying to get me in this graduation photo shoot they are paying for.
Well - damnit! I am not graduating, I do not want to take photos and have my likeness on anything that *I* do not control. Since these mfs are paying I feel like they have control over how the photos come out, where they are going to post them, and I am just not feeling this shit.
I hate feeling obligated to them, to do things I don't want to do.
It's like they are being way to thirsty trying to stage photos to prove they are this normal family. Don't use me for that shit! These bishes are going to be posting this everywhere on social media and 1. If I dont like how they turn out they will hound me for being a naggy ingrate 2. I don't want my pictures blasted on social media
How do I get out of this?
I feel like I am being deepthroated by a BBC - salty hairy balls n all
FML!!!!
miss.a.p1600
05-19-2018, 02:11 PM
This dude keeps playing petty ass phone tag to make himself look like he is in demand or something.
I'll call him and 90% of the time it goes to voicemail. Then he magically will call me back 15 min later.
Heaux, unless your are dying you answer the call first time I call you! Your call backs will be ignored.
miss.a.p1600
05-19-2018, 02:13 PM
This dude keeps playing petty ass phone tag to make himself look like he is in demand or something.
I'll call him and 90% of the time it goes to voicemail. Then he magically will call me back 15 min later.
Heaux, unless your are dying you answer the call first time I call you! Your call backs will be ignored.
Then the bitch has the gall to say "oh I tried calling you several times"
I wish I could get the biggest dildo possible and slap him across the head with it. Knock some sense in there lol.
miss.a.p1600
05-19-2018, 08:51 PM
When you tell an sd or a finsub or a generous man that you are busy cause you have to work - they pull out their wallet and ask how they can relieve your financial stress so you can focus on time with them.
When you tell a regular dude you are busy cause you have to work - they start stressing you of how they can try to squeeze into the limited time you do have
to the later, ......um just no and no.......
WendiStarr
05-20-2018, 10:16 AM
Dumb ass guys who expect you to drop everything for them. No, I'm not going to quit my full-time vanilla job just because you want me to go on vacation with you for 4 days. Unless you are offering to pay my rent, bills, and put food on my table long-term, I'm not quitting. He had the nerve to blow up at me about it. It just wouldn't be logical for me to do that right now because I'd be right back at square one of having to look for another job. Seeing as how I just started my vanilla job last week I can't take vacation time yet. Besides I live in a state with a shitty economy. Decent paying vanilla jobs are hard to come by so I want to keep it for now. I don't get why it's so hard to understand.
EastCoastDancer01
05-21-2018, 06:35 AM
Omg I’m pissed and need to vent!! This is more than a petty annoyance lol. So I never get cold sores, ever, and I am 100% clean (tested and everything). And I do not kiss customers on the mouth unless I’ve known him for years and trust him. So I kissed this one guy and when I contacted him to see me again a while later, he said I don’t think I’ll see you again, I got a big legion in my mouth and I’m pretty sure it was from you. I’m like no, it could not have been bc I never get those, ever, and there are ways to acquire that besides kissing. But seriously, what an asshole! That takes some f*cking nerve! Adios loser!!
miss.a.p1600
05-21-2018, 07:00 AM
Sorry hun! That guy is rude! Unless both people test before any physical contact - there really is no way to be absolute certain.
And who tests before kissing? There are no mouth condoms. Only thing we can do is examine a persons mouth area for active lesions but beyond that........It's just a risk we all take/have taken when kissing someone. Plus if it happens to be contracted, it can be managed so stressing out may make things worse.
Anyhow, I had a guy who I slept with unprotected (dumb as fuck, literally one of my stupidest moments, I know). I thought he was only with me but unbeknownst to me, his bitch ass was fucking another broad (who allegedly had multiple raw sex partners) unprotected as well.
Well, one day this mf is limping around looking pitiful and im like whats wrong with you. He's like "oh I'm taking medicine cause, I have something to tell you, I found out I have chlamydia and I am not sure how I got it. Like I think you may have it and that you gave it to me".
Im like hold up bruh! Thank you for being honest and telling me (he could have kept raw sexing and infected me) but Before you start playing blame game I need you to get ya facts straight first (I start wracking my brain trying to figure this shit out). Maybe your ex gf gave it to you. He's like nah she ALWAYS made me wear a condom. That point I felt dumb like I should have been like her else I wouldnt be in this situation. So I was like IDK cause I've only been with you so where else could this have come from?
Then he confessed he had been raw sexing some young broad who was a groupie for the athletic team.
I wanted to rip his damn dick and balls off right there.
Not only was HIS ass a philandering reckless heaux but he had the gall to try to blame me for the consequences of his reckless heauxness.
Technically I behaved reckless too so I took responsibility in subjecting myself to an unsavory dude but I wasn't about to let this trick pull a blame game solely on me.
Girl I didn't walk I RAN to the planned parenthood clinic. Got an STD test and .........thank heavens it came back negative.
I ditched him shortly after that (not because of the std but moreseo not telling me he was fucking another broad raw while portraying himself as monogamous to me) and later I found out his crazy ass was running around telling my associates I had given him an STD. Now I could have and should have sued him for defamation. However, luckily I escaped being caught up and I had the papers to prove the truth AND my associates knew him to be batshit so I just let that mf slither back into oblivion and refused to waste an iota of time/energy on his bitch ass.
I was lucky that time but it really woke me up and made me realize it's a lot of just ruthless mfs out here who are unwise, uneducated about contagious diseases, and don't care about theirs/others' reproductive/physical/mental health.
And sometimes you could take all the precautions in the world, and STILL end up contracting something. The stigma and blaming is really unfortunate
WendiStarr
05-21-2018, 12:44 PM
Male co-worker at my vanilla job just won't get the hint. I think he's a nice guy but I have zero interest in dating him. Today was busy as hell and I feel like I want to go to bed already but it's too early and I have too much shit to do. I'm getting nervous about Wednesday and seriously considering seeing if I can come in for half shift or something.
ScarletKitten
05-21-2018, 03:31 PM
lol, I came here to rant about my vanilla job coworker too. I hate her. And I don't hate very many people. You have to be a total piece of shit in order for me to actually hate you. This girl is just a shitty human being. I wish she would get fired so I never have to be around her ever again. She yelled so loud in my ear today, which caused me to lose my nerve and then I started developing a headache. I just can't tolerate her anymore. I am tempted to quit because of this bitch. I CANNOT tolerate loud screaming or yelling. It sets me off. My anxiety starts pumping into high gear, I get VERY irritable to the point that I cannot cope and have to leave. I start shutting down. I never yell or scream. Ever. Even in an emergency situation or a fight. I get quiet when I get mad. I don't understand how people can tolerate loud yelling. I must have PTSD or some shit when it comes to that. Fuck it to hell, and fuck this bitch. I fucking hate her face too. Ok I'm done. Thanks for letting me rant. I'm gonna smoke a bowl now.
miss.a.p1600
05-21-2018, 07:31 PM
lol, I came here to rant about my vanilla job coworker too. ........ I'm gonna smoke a bowl now.
Aside from the co-worker, you must have a semi-relaxed vanilla job.
For years - how I felt about applying for vanilla jobs....
https://www.instagram.com/p/BG-r36yKRGz/?taken-by=_cornell__
chanzep
05-21-2018, 08:31 PM
Don't get me started on the vanilla co workers!, they are the worst more drama than any club.
WendiStarr
05-22-2018, 02:48 AM
Neighbor's toddler who felt the need to keep shrieking at 3am-4:37am. Damn maternal instinct causes me to wake up over any high pitched noise. My own kid was sound asleep. It seemed like I'd barely closed my eyes when my alarm was suddenly going off to get up. I need to get a noise blocker or something.
MissMoore
05-22-2018, 05:07 AM
Per usual the man of the house... tells me he LOVES dark hair... when we first met I had dark hair so I change my 1000s worth of blonde hair and extensions dark... not even two months later he gets in a pissy mood about me not having super blonde hair or some crazy shit.. so when I left and went back to my moms I dyed it back blonde!! EVERYBODY says I look better with light hair expect him... I think because I get so much more attention because of it. Lmao. Good for him. I’ll wear a dark wig but I honestly don’t think I even want to dye it back dark in the fall because after a few months he be complaining why isn’t my hair some other color.
Ugh
miss.a.p1600
05-22-2018, 10:07 AM
Went studio cycling for first time ever........and wtf does my damn crotch hurt?!? Those seats are not made for humans.
I feel like I just got shagged backwards - really hard.
Vyanka
05-22-2018, 01:00 PM
I have to stay away from ppl with problems. I soaked in all that energy. Ugh.
Selina M
05-22-2018, 01:57 PM
I don't know wtf is going on with my throat. Saturday night halfway through my shift, it started to feel sore like from when you talk too much + don't drink water. Sunday, I woke up with what felt like tonsillitis, just one spot hurting and covered in nasty phlegm. It suddenly went away that evening, hunky dory... Last night I'm at work and at the exact time, halfway through my shift, the roof of my mouth (like where it curves to meet the throat) starts hurting. I just got up and now I have a full-on sore throat. The hell?
ScarletKitten
05-22-2018, 03:00 PM
Aside from the co-worker, you must have a semi-relaxed vanilla job.
For years - how I felt about applying for vanilla jobs....
https://www.instagram.com/p/BG-r36yKRGz/?taken-by=_cornell__
I don't know where you got that idea. lol. There is nothing relaxing about my vanilla job at all. It's hard work and really shitty. With each passing day I want to quit more and more. But I need a vanilla job, because working as just a stripper with nothing else and no structure/ routine in my life is not good for me. So I'm sticking with it for now until I can't take it anymore.
miss.a.p1600
05-22-2018, 03:29 PM
^I guess I meant more along the lines of they're not stressing about drug testing. Like some employers doing random drug tests n shit.
But yeah. hang in there it may get better or you may find something better along the way.
Ifyouseekamy
05-23-2018, 02:32 AM
I hate sexism.
Glamourmilf
05-23-2018, 07:56 AM
I have to stay away from ppl with problems. I soaked in all that energy. Ugh.
Same here. I'm such an empath, always to my detriment.
I returned to my grief group last night.
There was only one other person besides me in attendance. She just lost her Mom too.
At the end, the moderator suggested that she and I swap numbers, and get together.
Shit! Put me on the spot much?::)
Luckily when we talked out in the parking lot, she told me that she works mon-fri, 9-5, and has weekends off.
Aw, too bad I told her.
Because I work evenings, and weekends.
:rotfl:
miss.a.p1600
05-23-2018, 08:28 AM
I think I may have to spend less time around this dude who I grew up with. The last of my male 'friends'.
Ever since I was sexually assaulted by a male friend, I do not trust men as friends. I even told this guy friend about the dude assaulting me, and he did nothing to offer mental support or suggest I report it. He basically brushed it off - so in my mind, it further reiterated what I though - that it was nothing and it didnt really happen. He was the only person I ever told in real life though I may seek a therapist one day and I should have told law enforcement.
Anyways this guy friend gave me all kinds of shitty advice. Told me to rent a less than stellar apartment, told me to buy used tires, suggested I start stripping/escorting, etc. I loaned him $100 and do you think I ever saw my money back? Anytime I talk about doing high class shit or treating myself like the queen I believe I am he is like "oh who do you think you are?"
He is cheap as hell and I couldn't rely on him in an emergency.
I told him I was having issues with a guy in my life and he was like "ugh! I'm tired of hearing about this" but when he rants about his drama I am supposed to listen???
He hinted that he started selling coke to allegedly get himself out of homelessness. Well I think he not only sells it but is addicted to it himself. Several times I called him and he was constantly sniffling in the phone. Plus he drinks alcohol every day.
He just live more of a street life (as a low level dealer/addict). Now that I am done with liquor, substances, etc. I barely talk to him.
He is also a complete hypocrite. He verbally insulted me for dating interracially but then this fool was engaged AND had a whole baby with a woman outside his race.
I really think the hard drugs are bringing out the asshole in him that was deep down always there anyways
At first I was trying to figure a way to get him out my friend list without having him get all butthurt (cause he used to call me almost everyday and I have known him for a loooong time) but now that he is occupied with his hoodrat drug-dealer girlfriend, I think the fade to oblivion may work wonders.