View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
Aurora_Sunset
05-23-2018, 02:01 PM
I'm livid. I agreed to work for a coworker tomorrow even though I know I can't work. She really only needed tomorrow night off and I owe her, so I was like fuck it, tell them I'll work and I'll just call in and take the point. I never call in so it's not like I'll get in trouble for missing one night. So I agreed to it in writing, via email, and then called a couple hours later. I could have waited until tomorrow, sure... but we have a no fault policy. I don't have to wait until the last minute and pretend to be sick. I can call whenever and just say hey, I can't make it. So I was like ok, I'm not trying to fuck anyone over tomorrow night, I'll give them plenty of notice.
So I call over 24 hours in advance, and say hey, I'm working for so-and-so tomorrow, but I screwed up, I can't work. She can't work tomorrow night and I agreed to the shift, so I'm calling in, I'm taking the point, I don't want her to get in trouble. Supervisor says ok thanks... and 5 minutes later, I get an email from scheduling saying she has to work her regular shift since I said I can't come in....
I was like No! I agreed to the shift. This is my screw up (or "screw up," whatever), I told Supervisor that I would either find my own coverage or take the point for calling in. This isn't on her.
She was already kinda mad at me and I was trying to smooth things over and take this fall for her... And the company knows damn well that this is not how this works. Once I agree to the shift, it's my shift, no matter how soon after I say no never mind, I can't work. Like... if they really want to play the game of putting me on the schedule and just having me call tomorrow, I can do that... I was trying to be nice by calling earlier. It's not fair for them to pull some shitshow blame game and change the rules.
Glamourmilf
05-24-2018, 09:08 AM
I drove over to my colorists house to have my roots done.The second I arrived, his phone rang.
Instead of telling the person who called that he's with a client, he just decided to have an entire conversation, all while putting the phone on speaker phone next to me.:O I'm only there for 20 minutes, tops. He can't wait that long?
The caller kept going on and on about some drama, etc. He didn't even know that he was disturbing me, because my stylist never told him that I was there.
I'm an hsp, and immediately got a throbbing headache, which lasted all day.:(
I was also worried that my color wouldn't come out right, because I bring the color, and it was a new formula that just came out. It was the first time using it.
The colorist was barely paying any attention as he applied it.
Pissed me the fuck off!
To think I was just given the name of a colorist who charges the same, AND makes house calls.
But I didn't call her, because I'm loyal to him.
* Thank God my hair came out gorgeous, or I'd be livid.
He asked me to lunch and a movie next week, but he can forget about it. Last time we did, he brought a friend last minute, and they both were cruising gay dating sites on their phones the entire time. 49920
whirlerz
05-24-2018, 11:11 AM
Ooh that sounds^ awful, I'm very picky about my hair!
I go to a salon, usually it's ok, but, there's one drama filled colorist, (not mine but sometimes she's around) last time she made me laugh tho
Today I go to post office to get money order for my health insurance, it just opened for the day, already 3 people in line :(..some weird guy starts staring the minute I walked in, then, after getting my order & filling it out clerk makes me fill out the damn form for certified mail, my reg clerk whips everything together fast, but she's on vacation this week
trustfundkiller
05-24-2018, 01:28 PM
Yesterday my mother went on and on about how I'm a "whore" and all I do is flash my tits online for money all day. Today she asks if she can "borrow" $500. Hmm, no thanks. I think I'll keep my whore money to myself. Gotta love people who will put you down for how you choose to make a living, and then ask you for a handout.
lynn2009
05-24-2018, 03:34 PM
For the second time in three months I got one nights notice to empty all the cabinets in my kitchen because they are doing mandatory pest control tomorrow. Do people understand how long it takes to empty out your entire fucking kitchen? What if I was traveling for work or stayed with a boyfriend and they ruined all my dry food and I had to sterilize (not wash) all my dishes. Like who thinks this is enough fucking notice?
WendiStarr
05-24-2018, 03:58 PM
I just found out that my grandpa is in icu with pneumonia and afib. His bp is low. I can't just easily go and see him. If he still lived where he used to, I'd only be 10 minutes away but he lives in Florida now. I'm far north of there. I might have to fly out there either on Friday or Saturday and be back on Sunday for my sister's wedding.
lilylilylily
05-24-2018, 04:03 PM
I drove over to my colorists house to have my roots done.The second I arrived, his phone rang.
Instead of telling the person who called that he's with a client, he just decided to have an entire conversation, all while putting the phone on speaker phone next to me.:O I'm only there for 20 minutes, tops. He can't wait that long?
The caller kept going on and on about some drama, etc. He didn't even know that he was disturbing me, because my stylist never told him that I was there.
I'm an hsp, and immediately got a throbbing headache, which lasted all day.:(
I was also worried that my color wouldn't come out right, because I bring the color, and it was a new formula that just came out. It was the first time using it.
The colorist was barely paying any attention as he applied it.
Pissed me the fuck off!
To think I was just given the name of a colorist who charges the same, AND makes house calls.
But I didn't call her, because I'm loyal to him.
* Thank God my hair came out gorgeous, or I'd be livid.
He asked me to lunch and a movie next week, but he can forget about it. Last time we did, he brought a friend last minute, and they both were cruising gay dating sites on their phones the entire time. 49920
Ugh I'm so glad I don't see a colorist anymore. Mine would take calls, be late or once she forgot about me completely. I tried to stay loyal to her but too many annoyances plus it gets so expensive. I go to the drugstore and buy a box dye now and I went on YouTube to figure out how to trim my own hair. Hopefully I won't ever have to go back to see a colorist lol
chanzep
05-24-2018, 04:26 PM
My mailwoman is a menace!, she has been messing up the mail since she started here in Feb!, today for the second time she put out a package notice for me and there is no package!, also Im still waiting on a package from last month which she claims she couidn't deliver . I call the USPS line and they are having system issues ugh!
whirlerz
05-24-2018, 06:39 PM
I just found out that my grandpa is in icu with pneumonia and afib. His bp is low. I can't just easily go and see him. If he still lived where he used to, I'd only be 10 minutes away but he lives in Florida now. I'm far north of there. I might have to fly out there either on Friday or Saturday and be back on Sunday for my sister's wedding.
Wendi, I hope your Grampa will be ok aw!
miss.a.p1600
05-24-2018, 07:22 PM
omg!!! I wish I never told dude i go to this gym - where he is also a member. He keeps trying to get me to meet him up there. NO! he is old af and I want to do youthful shit like lift hella weights, do hours of cardio, just really go hard and I know his ass wont be able to keep up plus he will be talking n shit and I wont get anything done.
Then once he even said he would start going up there often, even take off work, to try to randomly catch me up there.
Judging from what he says, he does machines and the sauna. So if I go in a class I know I won't run into him.
Then he grossed me out saying he worked out for 30 min and didn't take a shower but just went right back to work?!?
I know I haven't hung out with since like February but still, he is acting really thirsty and it is turning me off.
FML!!!!!!
WendiStarr
05-25-2018, 03:14 AM
Anyone else's inbox flooded with privacy update emails? I've got 100+ emails, most of which are privacy updates.
Glamourmilf
05-25-2018, 05:51 AM
^^ Yes, I have been getting those emails. Must be because of fosta, maybe?
Ooh that sounds^ awful, I'm very picky about my hair!
I go to a salon, usually it's ok, but, there's one drama filled colorist, (not mine but sometimes she's around) last time she made me laugh tho
Ugh I'm so glad I don't see a colorist anymore. Mine would take calls, be late or once she forgot about me completely. I tried to stay loyal to her but too many annoyances plus it gets so expensive. I go to the drugstore and buy a box dye now and I went on YouTube to figure out how to trim my own hair. Hopefully I won't ever have to go back to see a colorist lol
I have tried doing my own roots, but my hair is so long and thick, that I miss spots, and it takes forever to do.
I went to have my polish changed on my feet yesterday.
I loved how quickly the girl did it. Clipped and filed my toe nails too. And the best part was she didn't talk.
But, she rushed me out of there, even though I said that I felt the polish was still wet.
Sure enough, as soon as I got into my car, the polish nicked on my big toe.
Argh!
Next time I'm taking as long as I need, which I usually do, and I never have a problem. It was a new place for me, so I didn't want to make a fuss.
Why did she rush me out? There was only 1 other person in the salon!
whirlerz
05-25-2018, 06:32 AM
I fucking h8 that when they rush you, my nail place did that, they Knew polish wasn't dry! Also, there was like 1 other person in there.
I left a nasty review on Yelp..
I went back, cause really it's a stellar place, I think they knew about the review cause I never had another problem, + they have rewards program haha, got 10.00 off last pedicure.
I did my own roots for years, with mirrors for the back, & I always miss spots
So now I'm sitting in front of the health store, which's closed, I'd checked the time but I thought it open an hr earlier :(
I want to go to Trader Joe's too, I like to get there early to avoid the snob ignorance & the wild kids, which now I may run into :(
seashell
05-25-2018, 12:44 PM
Wtf... I ordered a package to my airbnb, and according to the tracking info, it was signed for & delivered to my neighbor. I have no idea who they are. God, I hope they don't try to stop by and give it to me when I'm in full cam makeup. >_>
WendiStarr
05-26-2018, 02:27 AM
Wendi, I hope your Grampa will be ok aw!
Thank you. He's doing a lot better now. I'm glad because they were making it seem like the family all had to come asap to see him but now they're saying that his condition improved a lot. Bp is normal. He's conscious now and oxygen levels are increasing so hopefully he'll be able to get off of supplemental oxygen soon. I also heard that he was flirting with nurses, asking what color and style of panties they have on. Sounds like he's back to his horny old grandpa self.
My annoyance today is that my body woke me up at 5am and I can't go back to sleep.
Ginnyyy
05-26-2018, 03:36 AM
Anyone else's inbox flooded with privacy update emails? I've got 100+ emails, most of which are privacy updates.
Yeah, here too, if you re talking about the May, 25- new European law for protecting data.
whirlerz
05-26-2018, 09:00 AM
Yep, annoying^
Vyanka
05-26-2018, 01:14 PM
Eww. The nerve of some dude. Some guy actually complained why I'm so clothed in my dating profile. Well asshole, I have fitted clothes on that indicate I am in shape, and get to know my personality??
I am not the type to show tits and ass for free to a bunch of strangers. I don't know you jerk. Fuck naw, attention whoring was never my style. I told him to go search on Instagram for FREE naked bodies. Ain't nobody got time fo'dat.
Grrr.
Ladycaxe
05-27-2018, 03:41 AM
Eww. The nerve of some dude. Some guy actually complained why I'm so clothed in my dating profile. Well asshole, I have fitted clothes on that indicate I am in shape, and get to know my personality??
I am not the type to show tits and ass for free to a bunch of strangers. I don't know you jerk. Fuck naw, attention whoring was never my style. I told him to go search on Instagram for FREE naked bodies. Ain't nobody got time fo'dat.
Grrr.
I swear I'm done w dating sites. I have been for a while, but this guy looked cute so we talked. here are the convos :
me: " I just moved here. maybe we should go to a bar or something, hav a drink food"
him: " I don't drink like that babe" ***5 of his photos him w alcohol , OUT somewhere fun ***
WHAT IM NOT WORTH TAKING TO HAVE FUN !U JUST WANT ME TO COME OVER AND SLOB ON YA K***????
two days later:
him: wyd letts hang out
me: okay. lets eat
him: I already ate. and I have work early. come over
*SENDS A DICK PIC
AND A PIC OF HIM SMILING*
LIKE WHAT THE FINNUCIK. never hit that block and unmatch so fast. had a $5 lookin chest tat that said AmericanMade, and his gums look like he hadn't flossed since he was 5.
well. must say. I hate that shit. wants the point of being an instagram whore. guys are tools. If imma be naked imma get paid
Ladycaxe
05-27-2018, 03:45 AM
ANOTHER annoyance is creepy flirty uber drivers. like the one I just had. just cuz I say I'm hungry,hes like well I can cook for u...in a very round about way. like d00d. bye. sometimes I wish I didn't have to take uber, especially from work -____-
SnuffleUffleGrass
05-27-2018, 09:01 AM
This is such a First World Problem Petty Annoyance rant. But most of you can relate-
I have to move later this year (work) and this means I have to downsize my material possessions. In a couple days I'll take some of my designer clothes to a consignment store to see if I can sell them. It's very hard for me to do this because I get super attached to my personal items, even if I got them at thrift stores or have had things for many years. I grew up poor so now I love having....lots of things.
Now I understand a lot of my perfect finds at thrift stores were exactly because some other person was in the above scenario and had to get rid of items. I guess I'm continuing on this cycle of serendipity.
Aurora_Sunset
05-27-2018, 10:16 AM
This is such a First World Problem Petty Annoyance rant. But most of you can relate-
I have to move later this year (work) and this means I have to downsize my material possessions. In a couple days I'll take some of my designer clothes to a consignment store to see if I can sell them. It's very hard for me to do this because I get super attached to my personal items, even if I got them at thrift stores or have had things for many years. I grew up poor so now I love having....lots of things.
Now I understand a lot of my perfect finds at thrift stores were exactly because some other person was in the above scenario and had to get rid of items. I guess I'm continuing on this cycle of serendipity.
I understand. I have to move soon too and am going through the process of downgrading and taking a lot of things to Goodwill and such. It originally made me sad because it took a lot of years of moving up from shitty, small apartments and accumulating this stuff to get to where I am. But I have been trying to draw inspiration from friends who live pretty minimalist lifestyles and still seem to have everything they need. They seem very clean and organized, whereas my stuff tends to get chaotic and stress me out with the mess easily. I told myself that getting rid of things I've had for awhile now that I never use is ok. Someone else will get something out of them, and in a few years, if I really want to re-buy whatever it was because I think I'll actually use it then, it will be newer and better, and I shouldn't live with the scarcity mindset that I won't be able to purchase new stuff when I want it later. It's been making me feel better.
Aurora_Sunset
05-27-2018, 10:20 AM
Social plans have been stressing me out lately, but there are a lot of friends I feel I need to catch up with because it's been too long. People just don't understand how difficult it is to schedule them in when you work nights. Meeting at 4pm or even 6pm is not that late for me. Sure, by the time they meet up at 4pm, they've been up since 6am and had a whole fucking day and now it's time for them to unwind after being productive. For me, meeting at 4pm is the equivalent of if I asked someone with a normal schedule to stop everything they're doing and devote the rest of their day to me at only 10am. They'd get nothing done and their entire "day off" would go down the drain and go solely to me. That's ok once in awhile... but I can't do it on every day off... I'd have no time to get anything in my life done.
I end up trying to tell people that we can meet for food and to catch up a bit, and then attempt to exit gracefully after a few hours, but they usually get all offended like "Oh, what? It's not like you're going to bed already!" Well, no.... but I have other shit to do?
Vyanka
05-27-2018, 12:06 PM
If imma be naked imma get paid
Yesss... :yes:
This dude straight up asked to see the goods. It's most likely catfishing to have free masturbation material. Some ppl are such weird losers.
DonaDiabla
05-27-2018, 12:19 PM
Some guy send an message on one of my websites:
"I would like to call but sorry can’t afford it."
Yuck, I do not want cheapos calling me anyways :)
whirlerz
05-27-2018, 02:52 PM
Well, beyond PISSED rn..I just found out that there's going to NO A/C.. Btw, 90 degrees that last 4 days & tomorrowor
This's for the.WHOLE.fucking.summer!!>:(
Nice, besides all the other problems here.
Waiting on a text from a place to rent rn>:(
Ladycaxe
05-27-2018, 03:04 PM
isn't it illegal to not have ac somewhere !??
whirlerz
05-27-2018, 04:42 PM
Probably..I'm sure they do loads of illegal shit & get away with it.
I know their shuttle van has a broken speedometer, I could go on, but you get the idea.
My rooms a swamp
The room I just looked @ had a bath room down a flight of stairs & past a garage, so no.
trustfundkiller
05-27-2018, 04:46 PM
This is such a First World Problem Petty Annoyance rant. But most of you can relate-
I have to move later this year (work) and this means I have to downsize my material possessions. In a couple days I'll take some of my designer clothes to a consignment store to see if I can sell them. It's very hard for me to do this because I get super attached to my personal items, even if I got them at thrift stores or have had things for many years. I grew up poor so now I love having....lots of things.
Now I understand a lot of my perfect finds at thrift stores were exactly because some other person was in the above scenario and had to get rid of items. I guess I'm continuing on this cycle of serendipity.
I'm in the same situation right now - getting ready to move cross country and selling off many of my things, and I was surprised to see how emotionally attached I am to some of my items. Even items that added no value to my life and were sitting in a closet unused. I think our belongings give us a sense of comfort/permanency so it's difficult to let them go and shake up that sense of security. Anyway, for selling items, I highly recommend Poshmark and Mercari. I've made a couple grand off selling my things mostly on Mercari and I've been at it about a month now. Whatever doesn't sell, I am donating to women's shelters. You can also sell unopened beauty products, or things like perfumes, face masks, hair masks, etc., that you tried once and decided you didn't like. I also used to be a big Lush fanatic and I've sold off a lot of exclusive Lush products at high markups.
JessaJade
05-27-2018, 04:58 PM
ANOTHER annoyance is creepy flirty uber drivers. like the one I just had. just cuz I say I'm hungry,hes like well I can cook for u...in a very round about way. like d00d. bye. sometimes I wish I didn't have to take uber, especially from work -____-
Ugh, I had to report one a couple of weeks ago.
He was very intrusive and unprofessional...he offered me some drink from a bottle he had and kept insisting I try it, maybe 5 or 6 times back and forth with me declining.
That would be inappropriate at the best of times but there has recently been a high profile case here in the UK involving a taxi driver who drugged and raped multiple women after they accepted a drink from him...I don't believe he was trying to drug me but anyone with any common sense and respect would refrain from that kind of shit. I even told him to be careful considering what happened with the taxi rapist which actually shut him up for a while.
Then he started questioning me on why I was going to the hospital...again, not just as a one-off thing but more like a full-blown interrogation, asking multiple questions such as what was wrong with me and why and if nothing then why visit the hospital and whether I had a friend working there and so on.
All while I was reading on my phone to try giving him the hint and then giving one word replies with a bitch face. Ignorant pig.
xStacey
05-27-2018, 05:33 PM
Food poisoning :’(
SuperJa
05-27-2018, 06:39 PM
Food poisoning :’(
Ugh that isn't a "petty" annoyance at all :(
whirlerz
05-27-2018, 06:55 PM
Food poisoning :’(
Ooh no! Do you have any ginger or mint tea?
Try to eat plain, some plain noodles, broth, mash potatoes.
whirlerz
05-27-2018, 06:58 PM
I guess they did offer me one of the a/c rooms but damn, I just moved my room & storage so if I move again it may as well be out the door
Ginnyyy
05-27-2018, 07:09 PM
Been cooking this morning and I had just recovered from a small to medium burn until today when I burnt myself with the steam, cut my finger nail and another finger all on the left hand.
Aurora_Sunset
05-27-2018, 07:49 PM
So my best friend texts me and the guy friend I went on vacation with last month, saying that she and her boyfriend are planning a trip to an amusement park and to take July 9th-11th off work if we can. Guy replies that oh shoot, we were already planning a trip to Colorado that week but we should all get together soon. She got all shitty and was like "Ummm it's cool. Have fun." I said "Aww, I've always wanted to go there," and she just goes "Oh well."
At which point, me and and him talked and he said he was totally fine with changing our trip to a different week. For context - THEY were friends first. I met him through her, when she lived with him (and off of him). He hasn't seen her for a long time, and has been trying to get together and meet her boyfriend, so he was totally up for changing our plans. I asked if the invitation is still open. She goes "It's fine. You probably already have tickets booked and there's no reason to cancel." I said no, we don't, we'd like to go with them that week. She goes "Well, whatever you want to do. He made it very clear that you guys have plans instead of just talking to me and rescheduling. So whatever." ....We both looked at each other and we're like "Uhh... the way she worded this was very much 'me and my boyfriend are going, if you can come, come along,' like it would have felt rude to say 'We can't do that week, work around our schedule.'" So he sent a text back saying he didn't mean it that way. And I was just like "omg, we're going to be there." She goes "Right on. Sorry to make you cancel your booty call."
Bitch, excuse me?
1) You KNOW we aren't sleeping together. Not only that, but you were platonic friends with him first. You know how aggravating it is to explain your friendship with him to other guys and other people who assume you must be fucking because you lived with him and he paid for your entire life while you didn't have a job, car, or anywhere else to go... Where the fuck do you get off throwing some "you must be fucking him" shade at me just because he takes me on short trips?
2) You had zero problem with the last trip we took. You were the one who encouraged us to start hanging out in the first place...
3) Why all fucking jelly? Even if we were sleeping together, why would you care? You never dated or fucked him... You have your own boyfriend, who you habitually almost-cheat on by sexting with other guys all the time. You're not exactly a virgin yourself, and you're gonna try to adopt some condescending attitude toward the (fabricated) idea that we, as single adults who are beholden to no one, might have a sexual relationship, when it's not like YOU wanted him...? I mean, we are not sleeping together, but if we were... why would you fucking care or try to throw shade like it would be some nasty, shameful, bad thing?
Fuck the fuck off.
He said she was probably just already drinking and in one of her sassy drunk moods. I agreed and we just decided to not respond to the last shitty text. But what the fuck? I think she's pissy and jealous over the idea that I'm "stealing" one of her guy friends, even though she never fucking hangs out with him anymore... Even when I suggested last time that she could come on vacation with us at some point, she made some shitty comment about how her bf would never let her... so... don't get all mad just because you've painted yourself into an antisocial box with another guy.
Aurora_Sunset
05-27-2018, 07:58 PM
This is the 3rd time in the past week that someone has thrown shitty attitude at me for NO goddam reason and I didn't deserve it.... I hate having to constantly be the adult that ignores the nasty comments that I shouldn't have to put up with. But of course, if I got just as shitty in return, and just called them out on being assholes, they would get even more mad, so I have to play peacekeeper.... I'm sick of being the mature one in every social relationship that has to bite my tongue while everyone else is an immature little twat that feels entitled to shit their crappy-coping-mechanism feelings all over me.
If one more person throws me uncalled-for shade this week, I'm gonna snap.
Glamourmilf
05-28-2018, 08:23 AM
I guess they did offer me one of the a/c rooms but damn, I just moved my room & storage so if I move again it may as well be out the door
The AC subject is near and dear to my heart, because I've lived in 3 places that either had a broken one, OR that my roommate/ landlord wouldn't let me turn on.
I know in California, unless your lease agreement/contract states that there is a ' working' AC unit ( not just that there's an AC, which most say), they don't have to provide it. Sneaky little bastards.
You first might have to check the laws in your state.
I had to buy a portable AC unit, because it was over 105 plus outside, and my room got well over 90 degrees.
If you stay, you might have to get a portable one like this. * I now live on the surface of the sun, so I have THREE AC units! It's going to be 107 and higher all summer so...
I found one on Craigslist.
Or hsn/QVC and you make payments.
Saved my ass.
Let us know.49952
whirlerz
05-28-2018, 11:38 AM
Thanks a lot^
Their air was fine, I think they had central air.
O, you mean for El Dumpo here!
I'm going to look into that, I have seen those on QVC/HSN.
Which brand/model is it?
I wonder tho, would it blow the circuits here? It did when I tried to plug in 2 heaters! Not sure also if they'd let me have? You have to vent it out the window some kind of way?
Windows here slide open to the left.
Getting back to the room for rent, in order to get to the bathroom, (the room above garage I looked @) I'd have to go up & down a lot of stairs, & go thru the garage.
There was a little storage room next to the door, with piles of dirty men's shoes.
They gave me an 'application' to fill out, lol, threw it out
whirlerz
05-28-2018, 11:57 AM
So, I'm a little upset today.
I know, I do have a lot to grateful for, but for Fucks sake I'm paying a fortune for no a/c, little to no wifi & all the dozens of other things wrong here.
These poor little housekeepers, they're busting their asses, in a sweat box here, one's like 6 months pregnant.
I sure hope it rains Wed. like it's supposed to
Glad I'm not in the flood/tropical storm areas!
WendiStarr
05-28-2018, 12:04 PM
I keep thinking about how normally right now I'd be out of state on vacation. Since I recently started working at this vanilla job I'm not entitled to vacation time until next May(if I last here that long). I can't help but feel down about it, especially with all my friends taking exotic vacations right about now and I'm stuck here. I also can't help feeling that sinking, depressing feeling knowing that I'll be up at 5am and back to work tomorrow. I don't know how much longer I can handle working a vanilla job. I need to wait to hear back results from biopsy. I feel like maybe I want to quit vanilla job and go back to escorting full-time. Then again perhaps I need to keep the vanilla job for health insurance benefits and just escort part-time. Another part of me is saying that maybe I should try to find a decent guy to get married because my biological clock is ticking loud lately and I'm tired of being a single mom. I wanted the white picket fence, 2 kids, dog, etc. However I don't think that there's any decent guys out there anymore, just dime a dozen fuckboys looking for nothing more than a meaningless, emotionless fuck. I scare away most guys because I'm too independent. I have my own income, my own place, pay my own rent and bills, I don't need rescuing. I've been on my own for a while. I just need a partner in life that is willing to love and accept my daughter and I. I'm rambling now, sorry. Ugh, I hate when I get to thinking too much.
miss.a.p1600
05-28-2018, 12:45 PM
^^I know the feeling.
Maybe a staycation??? Sometimes touring the city - places where you wouldn't normally go and things you would normally do (like typical tourist shit...) and maybe even rent a nice hotel room
chanzep
05-28-2018, 03:10 PM
So my water is off today!, It happens too much here, its annoying because this is a high end complex in a very nice area and its expensive, also because its my first day off my house needs cleaning I even forgot to run the dishwasher when I left for work last night. I want to go to some stores today but I need a shower ugh, stuck on my couch.FML
SweetJuliaXXX
05-28-2018, 03:14 PM
isn't it illegal to not have ac somewhere !??
It's not, unfortunately. I lived in this crummy, run down building when I was younger for a few months and not only did they not have air, they wanted to charge you $40 a month for having a fan in your window. Not an AC-that would blow their old, crappy electrical wiring-but a plastic fan. I feel super bad for whoever is living there this summer.
SweetJuliaXXX
05-28-2018, 03:20 PM
ANOTHER annoyance is creepy flirty uber drivers. like the one I just had. just cuz I say I'm hungry,hes like well I can cook for u...in a very round about way. like d00d. bye. sometimes I wish I didn't have to take uber, especially from work -____-
I was so thinking about starting a female driver only, female customer only Uber-type company............I hear about creepy drivers at least every few days. I lucked out with most of mine, so far.
miss.a.p1600
05-28-2018, 06:20 PM
I keep thinking about how normally right now I'd be out of state on vacation. Since I recently started working at this vanilla job I'm not entitled to vacation time until next May(if I last here that long). I can't help but feel down about it, especially with all my friends taking exotic vacations right about now and I'm stuck here. I also can't help feeling that sinking, depressing feeling knowing that I'll be up at 5am and back to work tomorrow. I don't know how much longer I can handle working a vanilla job. I need to wait to hear back results from biopsy. I feel like maybe I want to quit vanilla job and go back to escorting full-time. Then again perhaps I need to keep the vanilla job for health insurance benefits and just escort part-time. Another part of me is saying that maybe I should try to find a decent guy to get married because my biological clock is ticking loud lately and I'm tired of being a single mom. I wanted the white picket fence, 2 kids, dog, etc. However I don't think that there's any decent guys out there anymore, just dime a dozen fuckboys looking for nothing more than a meaningless, emotionless fuck. I scare away most guys because I'm too independent. I have my own income, my own place, pay my own rent and bills, I don't need rescuing. I've been on my own for a while. I just need a partner in life that is willing to love and accept my daughter and I. I'm rambling now, sorry. Ugh, I hate when I get to thinking too much.
There are still good guys out there. Stay optimistic and you will attract a guy that is down for the ultimate commitment/will love you and your baby.....
Sorry to keep quoting your quotes but I can't help but mention it.
I think I have attracted a decent guy who wants a commitment with me BUT I am trying to cope with his quirks 1) he is too heavy-handed and I have to keep reminding him - dude I am a woman! not some piece of machinery or some large animal where you need extra force/strength 2) I noticed his nails are too long/sharp cause he accidentally scratched me. Um Yeah you gone have to so something about those damn claws. 3) I have never lived with pets and I am scarred my OCD will take over
I also may have to go back into adult work until I can get this vanilla career rolling. I don;t know if I should tell him. That is one reason why I like being single is I don;t owe anyone any explanation nor do I have to spend mental energy thinking about "how to confess" to anyone.
trustfundkiller
05-29-2018, 12:50 AM
There are birds chirping outside my house (at 3AM) and not only is it interfering with my sleep but it's annoying the fuck out of me. It's pitch black outside. Go to bed, bird. You're drunk.
WendiStarr
05-29-2018, 05:03 AM
Ok, this is very pathetic but on my way to work I was having left ovary pain. By the time I got to work it was very sharp pain. I went straight to the bathroom at work and I ended up getting really sweaty and passing out on the floor. It was embarrassing because there I was on the bathroom floor and female co-workers all around me, asking me what was wrong. Then afterwards when I got out of the bathroom a ton of co-workers were surrounding me giving me water, an orange, and cookies. I felt better after eating the orange, cookies, and drinking the water but my boss still sent me home. I feel so stupid for passing out at work like that.
Glamourmilf
05-29-2018, 10:40 AM
Thanks a lot^
Their air was fine, I think they had central air.
O, you mean for El Dumpo here!
I'm going to look into that, I have seen those on QVC/HSN.
Which brand/model is it?
I wonder tho, would it blow the circuits here? It did when I tried to plug in 2 heaters! Not sure also if they'd let me have? You have to vent it out the window some kind of way?
Windows here slide open to the left.
Getting back to the room for rent, in order to get to the bathroom, (the room above garage I looked @) I'd have to go up & down a lot of stairs, & go thru the garage.
There was a little storage room next to the door, with piles of dirty men's shoes.
They gave me an 'application' to fill out, lol, threw it out
Yes, I meant for El Dumpo. They work with a sliding window, and up slider kind too. Easy to install. *If I could do it, anyone can. Lol! I'm so not mechanically inclined.
I ended up getting mine on Craigslist for around $250.
I just mentioned the home shopping channel because you can make payments, and they deliver it to your door.
miss.a.p1600
05-30-2018, 07:30 PM
Omg! This dude is rambling on, and on, and on.........
FML!
Then he keeps trying to get me to go to the pool with him....DUDE! Ain't no one, including you, seeing this pretty body in a bikini unless it is worth my while