View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
trustfundkiller
05-30-2018, 08:07 PM
Men on dating apps are so unimpressive and lazy. This isn't a gene pool I wanted to get involved with.
Edit: And they're unattractive! How are there so many gorgeous women on this planet and so many gross men?
miss.a.p1600
05-30-2018, 11:01 PM
I want to go to the pool.....ALONE
but ever since my dumb ass made the mistake telling dude I like to go to the pool early morning. This trick has been purposely going early mornings every day to try and randomly run into me there.
I even thought about going today cause he said he had been in pain lately and I thought he'd be at home zoned out on whatever legal drugs those 'doctors' in white lab coats prescribe him. Nope his monkey ass was up at the pool.
And really I am grossed out by public pools. I am ready to have my own pool in my own home so I don't have to think about this anymore.
I think I may go EARLY like 8am and go in the hottub and leave before time he gets there.
Sorry I keep ranting but he keeps bringing the shit up about wanting to hang out at the pool, then he keeps going up there everyday, and he keeps feeling entitled to try and see me half naked in a bikini when he has not earned the privilege yet......and this is ruining the start of my summer.
I am on the verge of buying a pool burka, then wearing that when he invites me to the pool, and calling it a day
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WendiStarr
05-31-2018, 02:48 AM
I had a nightmare about some Neathandral/half Gorilla man who was outside my home. He was trying to get in. He kept coming to the window, looking in. Then he was at my front door jiggling the handle. I was holding the door closed and I started growling like a lion at him and he stopped but he was still out there by my window looking in at me again. I woke up, sweating. Of course the power would decide in that moment to randomly go out. Ugh. It took me 2 hours to go back to sleep and before I knew it the alarm was going off to wake up.
SweetJuliaXXX
05-31-2018, 07:10 AM
I'm having the worst stomach issues. Fuck work, fuck making myself look hot-Netflix and junkfood today.
Glamourmilf
05-31-2018, 07:31 AM
I guess they did offer me one of the a/c rooms but damn, I just moved my room & storage so if I move again it may as well be out the door
I just bought this, and it's amazing! If you don't want to invest in a portable AC, this might do the trick.
It's under $50. I had a 20% off coupon from bed, bath and beyond. They also sell them at Walmart.
It was 100 degrees yesterday, and I did an experiment.
I kept my front door open, while sitting next to this.
It kept me cool as a cucumber.:)
It doesn't cool the room, just what's in front of it.
The side panel has an LED color changing panel.
It also has a USB, so you can plug it right into your computer.
* It only works in dry heat, not humid.
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whirlerz
05-31-2018, 09:17 AM
Thanks so much, G.!
Ugh, just got off the phone with/prospective roomie (I know, I know, just trying to get out of swampland here). Probably not going to bother myself
Everyone wants income verification, & asks 50 ?s
Anyway, I always hope for the best.
I just make a stab @ things, roomies suck.
Today I went upstairs for ice to the 1 working ice machine (btw nice touch in a no a/c blg).
The owner's wife starts walking my way, gives me an evil, jealous look, & moves towards me in a wide hall (to make me move more out of her way) so she can pull her shit power play>:(
Also, been having nightmares here:(
WendiStarr
05-31-2018, 12:53 PM
Ya'll remember Kryptonite? That dude left a voicemail on my phone. I didn't recognize the number since I blocked his previous numbers but I knew his voice. He said that he just wanted to call me to see how I'm doing and see if he can come visit me. He claims that he doesn't "want sex or anything", just wants to see me. I call bullshit! I've not seen this dude in like a year now. Why bother me now? His pussy supply must be getting low.
ScarletKitten
05-31-2018, 04:56 PM
Ya'll remember Kryptonite? That dude left a voicemail on my phone. I didn't recognize the number since I blocked his previous numbers but I knew his voice. He said that he just wanted to call me to see how I'm doing and see if he can come visit me. He claims that he doesn't "want sex or anything", just wants to see me. I call bullshit! I've not seen this dude in like a year now. Why bother me now? His pussy supply must be getting low.
Oh, girl! Ignore, ignore, ignore! Not even worth it.
Glamourmilf
06-01-2018, 07:58 AM
Ya'll remember Kryptonite? That dude left a voicemail on my phone. I didn't recognize the number since I blocked his previous numbers but I knew his voice. He said that he just wanted to call me to see how I'm doing and see if he can come visit me. He claims that he doesn't "want sex or anything", just wants to see me. I call bullshit! I've not seen this dude in like a year now. Why bother me now? His pussy supply must be getting low.
Where's my prize for predicting this would happen?
Jk.
Men are so preDicktible it's not even funny.
whirlerz
06-01-2018, 10:25 AM
Really upset rn, waiting to see Dr. for a rash on side of face, possible bug bite from trying to get air in my room (no screen)
Now hotel"s pushing me, big time to move to 3rd floor bc there's rooms w/ac. up there.
They know damn good & well I just moved to my current room, + moved my storage..
I'm not a trained monkey, I can't jump up & move, it's too much.
Their roof leaks, which I'm worried about, they won't fix cause they're doing other renovation (w/like 3 guys, they also work on 4 other places)
Also I'm still reeling from the possible identify theft shit
I'm thinking to move the fuck out of there, I don't know where but I well
I had a nightmare about a machine catching fire & other nightmares
I looked at free standing ac. units, but they require venting & they might blow the fuse, idk
trustfundkiller
06-01-2018, 12:55 PM
Looking at apartments in the city I'm moving to is starting to become discouraging, but I know I'll find something great. I'm from Miami and we take advantage of snowbirds, but HOLY SHIT this new city takes it to a whole new level. You could have a gorgeous renovated, furnished apartment that is reasonably priced (let's say $1.5k/mo) and seems like a perfect fit ...then you look at the details and it's $1.5k from May-September, $2.4k from October-November, and $3.8k from Dec-April. Basically, the landlords don't want renters ...they want vacationers who will sign for weekly deals during peak season or they want to rent out their place nightly on Airbnb. You can't blame them because this is their income and people are apparently willing to pay these astronomical prices.
I refuse to spend more than $2k/mo on a rental. A mortgage? Sure. A rental that I'm going to have nothing to show for at the end of the year? Fuck no.
whirlerz
06-01-2018, 02:22 PM
So now, lost a set of keys in one of my 2 storage units, now waiting for an Uber to take me to get the other set..
If any of those fucks bother me about moving upstairs, I'm going to threaten w a lawsuit
Elektra Luxx
06-01-2018, 04:51 PM
Certain people at my vanilla job PISSS ME OFF BAD!!! And management (my asshole boss/ex-bf) coddles them. For what reason?, I have NO CLUE!!! They don't do their job and guess who has pick up the their slack, is expected to pick up their slack. I'm frazzled because I'm doing my job and their job. People are punished for doing what is expected of them because management doesn't want to solve the real problem. It's just easier to get the one who do their job to pick up the slack.
I need a drink, but I way over did it the weekend I went to the beach and did some stupid shit and I told myself I wouldn't drink like that anytime soon. I don't have any Xanax either. I took a warm shower and I just let the water hit me for like 20 minutes. I feel a little better. I want cry and scream and says venomous things at who ever is around. I want to start a fight with my bf.
I going to take a nap.
JGB2009
06-01-2018, 05:14 PM
Ya'll remember Kryptonite? That dude left a voicemail on my phone. I didn't recognize the number since I blocked his previous numbers but I knew his voice. He said that he just wanted to call me to see how I'm doing and see if he can come visit me. He claims that he doesn't "want sex or anything", just wants to see me. I call bullshit! I've not seen this dude in like a year now. Why bother me now? His pussy supply must be getting low.
I call bullshit as well. LOL someone told me the same thing this week. Like yea right, you think if you can see me in person, you can somehow persuade me to have sex with ur sorry ass. Not gonna happen buddy!!!!
Elle:)
06-01-2018, 11:53 PM
I've lost 6 pounds but looking in the mirror I don't see a difference. I also took pictures of myself in my underwear which turned out great but I just have the weird feeling that what the came and mirror show me are 2 different bodies. And then I see people looking like complete slobs working, wearing incredibly unflattering outfits and not giving a fuck. Maybe I am just too hard on myself.
miss.a.p1600
06-02-2018, 08:58 AM
Lol Wendi and JGB,
Some of these dudes are REALLY that full of themselves. As long as he knows you are single he will keep doing what he does. And also, He sounds like he was using "reverse" psychology/mind game. Trying to say he doesn't want anything sexual is a way to 1) plant the seed of sex in your mind in a very subtle way 2) making it so if something sexual does happen then he can say 'see - i told you upfront i didn't want anything sexual - you totally came on to me' so the sex would then be YOUR idea not his
In my case, A dude I used to be intimate waaay back in the days. would pull similar stunts. He would play mind games to try to keep me thinking about him in a sexual way/to try to keep me hooked on him/always thinking about him. He would say dumb shit like "oh what if I had proposed to you" or "I remember you used to wax your privates and I keep mine neat" Like bruh! Why the fuck are you bringing this up? And trying to get me to envision you nude n more??? Idiot!
I finally had to tell him I was engaged AND that he was acting really creepy
He was trying to keep me where he wanted - constantly lusting after him/chasing after him --- the unattainable, unavailable "magnificent" peen
I say magnificent in quotes cause while he had the ability to be a great lover, the drama/headache was not worth the dick he was offering.
WendiStarr
06-02-2018, 11:40 AM
I'm pissed off as all fuck that my boss from my vanilla job told me that he needs me to come in to work tomorrow or else he'll fire me. Today is my day off and it's seems I've been having to do so many errands, although I did get to go to a fun event earlier, and non-fun stuff like dishes, laundry, grocery shopping. This cut my weekend short and also yesterday was payday and I noticed that my paycheck was shorted by 28 hours and the lady in charge of handling paycheck issues is conveniently unavailable until next week. I'm ready to tear her a new ass for that.
WendiStarr
06-02-2018, 11:47 AM
Lol Wendi and JGB,
Some of these dudes are REALLY that full of themselves. As long as he knows you are single he will keep doing what he does. And also, He sounds like he was using "reverse" psychology/mind game. Trying to say he doesn't want anything sexual is a way to 1) plant the seed of sex in your mind in a very subtle way 2) making it so if something sexual does happen then he can say 'see - i told you upfront i didn't want anything sexual - you totally came on to me' so the sex would then be YOUR idea not his
In my case, A dude I used to be intimate waaay back in the days. would pull similar stunts. He would play mind games to try to keep me thinking about him in a sexual way/to try to keep me hooked on him/always thinking about him. He would say dumb shit like "oh what if I had proposed to you" or "I remember you used to wax your privates and I keep mine neat" Like bruh! Why the fuck are you bringing this up? And trying to get me to envision you nude n more??? Idiot!
I finally had to tell him I was engaged AND that he was acting really creepy
He was trying to keep me where he wanted - constantly lusting after him/chasing after him --- the unattainable, unavailable "magnificent" peen
I say magnificent in quotes cause while he had the ability to be a great lover, the drama/headache was not worth the dick he was offering.
That's the thing. He has no idea whether or not I'm single. Even if I'm in a serious relationship, engaged, or married that wouldn't stop him. He's turned on by the idea of fucking another man's woman and pregnancy is a major turn on to him, too especially if he knocked up another man's lady so I couldn't use that lie. I just have to block his new number and hope he stops getting new phone numbers to contact me with.
miss.a.p1600
06-02-2018, 12:48 PM
^the dude I refer to had a pregnancy fetish as well.
However, in my case - he was a very attractive, highly sexual dude who got off on raw sex, jizzing inside, AND after he jizzed he would keep his dick in - as if to ensure all his sperm went in. A Bonafide young freak. He thinks pregnant women with his baby are beautiful. Etc....
You're right. Some men think they can pull you from another dude which is a huge ego boost to them. Like they'd orgasm knowing you'd just up and drop everything/leave a happy home for them.
Speaking of pregnancy I actually wouldn't mind being pregnant BUT I have yet to come across a guy who seems worthy. My uterus and ovaries have yet to approve of a worthy specimen. *sigh* In due time I suppose.
Aurora_Sunset
06-02-2018, 01:12 PM
Omg, today is the first full day of my period and I have the worst period poops I've ever had. Of course this was a morning I was taking an important exam... and my I kept having to stop myself from shitting the chair.
I know damn well that I've barely even eaten anything this week from being so busy! I pooped like 6 times today already. Where is it coming from!?
WendiStarr
06-02-2018, 02:35 PM
Omg, today is the first full day of my period and I have the worst period poops I've ever had. Of course this was a morning I was taking an important exam... and my I kept having to stop myself from shitting the chair.
I know damn well that I've barely even eaten anything this week from being so busy! I pooped like 6 times today already. Where is it coming from!?
Good 'ol prostaglandins. They cause your uterus to contract and feel cramps and can also stimulate your intestines as well during your period and cause excessive shitting. I get the same thing. :-/ Ibuprofen can help block the prostaglandins.
Aurora_Sunset
06-03-2018, 09:50 AM
Ugggh... I haven't had either of my online language lessons for 3 weeks now (which is honestly fine because I haven't had much time to study them with everything else going on). My Spanish teacher canceled on me again today, and I considered pushing back ASL as well so I could sleep in, but decided I should suck it up and get up. Well, apparently, I was wrong and we don't have a lesson again this week either. I thought we were reconvening on June 3rd, but I guess I was mistaken. Now I'm up early for no reason, when it was a super struggle to get out of bed today... But lying back down now won't accomplish anything. So annoyed at myself.
Glamourmilf
06-03-2018, 10:34 AM
This trick I haven't seen in a year and a half texts me early yesterday morning to ask if I'm available to go to his house.
I tell him yes, and then. Wait for it,.......................................
He tells me that he's on a budget and can only pay $75. (As opposed to his usual $300)
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
I really didn't know if I should be insulted, or mad. So I was both.
I immediately blocked his number.
The fucking gaul!49977
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WendiStarr
06-03-2018, 12:55 PM
This shitty day. Fuck vanilla coworkers and their shit. Fuck my hormones/pms too for making me extra sensitive that I had to fight the urge to cry for 8 hours.
chanzep
06-03-2018, 01:28 PM
^I feel your pain on the vanilla workplace. The only way I have survived the vanilla world is finding a position I work alone and also when I did work from home.
I need to get up like 2 hours earlier, I literally get up get ready and go to work and do nothing else, also I had a bad night tips wise last night and I had that feeling I used to get after a bad night after the club where I sit up annoyed wtf lol. I need to stop eating after work a full meal but I hate eating at work.
Nyla19
06-03-2018, 02:43 PM
I've danced on and off for so many years. I'm so burned out. It's so much effort mentally for me to make it in to work now.
miss.a.p1600
06-03-2018, 05:37 PM
The old dude getting some surgery n shit and I think he really is like expecting me to help him and whatnot.
And I'm not trying to be cold or whatever but.........those are WIFELY duties.
I feel bad cause i think if i asked him to do it for me he would buuuuut ....I can't be doting on any mf that aint my husband or at least fiance when I got hella responsibilities of my own. And it's like he doesn't get that. I am stressed right now trying to handle financials and I don't have time to waste a whole day playing nurse unless I'm going to get paid like an actual nurse.
I noticed he has been asking HELLA questions (the worst part I hate about real relationships cause mf expecting honesty n shit).....so it's harder to lie and if I do lie I have to remember the lies
Just FUCK me now.....unlubed
WendiStarr
06-04-2018, 01:01 PM
I've called twice to ask about my shorted paycheck. The first time I got voicemail so I left a message. I seen at 9am(when I was in the shower-of course she'd call me while I was taking a shower) she called me back and left a voicemail saying to call her back as soon as I got this message. I called her back and she told me that she was in the middle of interviewing someone and would call me back. 2 hours went by and I hadn't heard from her and I figured maybe she forgot so I called her. Sorry, out to lunch for an hour but will call you back. By 2:30pm I figured by now she has to be done with lunch. I waited but never got a call so at 3pm I called and nothing, not even voicemail. No, I'm not sorry for being persistent. I want my paycheck that you shorted me! The office closes at 5pm and here it is 4pm and still nothing. I'm annoyed as heck.
carmen_b
06-04-2018, 02:47 PM
I have had this massage session booked for two weeks ( me as the customer ) and I’m feeling so queesy today.
Yesterday I drove 7 hours and maybe got too much sun. :/
I’m still going since I don’t want to miss out but I minimized it from 110min to 55min and I’m feeling so guilty about messing with her schedule. I think I’m still shell shocked a year later after leaving massage / body rub about how mean spirited some people are about being disrespectful about time / scheduling .
Bleh. Of course I’d be sick on the day I’ve looked forward to for two weeks.
Aurora_Sunset
06-04-2018, 05:39 PM
A+P is a harder, much more involved class than I thought it would be. My brain feels like it's about to melt out of my head.
seashell
06-04-2018, 07:01 PM
I need to reevaluate this traveling life. Somehow on cue, I always end up throwing up right before I have a big trip. I've been up all night throwing up, it's currently 4am, and I have nothing left in my system. I'm traveling 2 hours to another city tomorrow, and then flying overseas the next day. I don't feel like I have anxiety, I actually feel very upbeat and content most of the time, but my body apparently feels otherwise.
miss.a.p1600
06-04-2018, 10:00 PM
I raced to krispy kremes before closing to try to get some donuts on national donut day only to have the bixtch tell me "oh we're out of donuts" as soon as I walked through the door. I wanted to take some donut powder and smack her upside the head with it.
WendiStarr
06-05-2018, 08:03 AM
I called the doctor about my biopsy results since I never heard anything back. My doctor's office is terrible about calling people even when something's wrong. They make you call them to find out and then they're like,"Oh yeah..we found ______ wrong. So sorry we forgot to tell you." They put me on hold for 20 minutes and said that for whatever reason, they're not able to get into the system to see the results but will have someone from the lab call me back. What the heck is going on lately? I seem to hear the,"I'll call you back" line a lot lately and I'm stuck waiting. I feel frustrated.
Update: They just called me back. I have cervical cancer. :*-(
SweetJuliaXXX
06-05-2018, 09:03 AM
The dog literally stops to smell the flowers every time I take him outside. Adorable, right? Not when it takes a half hour each time......
miss.a.p1600
06-05-2018, 09:29 AM
What Wendi? Maybe you can get a second opinion? If that office is too careless to follow up, it could be possible they are careless with other things and places have been known to mix up results or misread results etc.
Take care hon and hope you get some excellent treatment
SweetJuliaXXX
06-05-2018, 10:40 AM
I had such great plans to get a dark, natural tan in my back yard this summer. It's gloomy and cold, so a no go. I'm gonna use the exercise bike for an hour; I'm one of those people who needs to burn off anger in a physical way.
ScarletKitten
06-05-2018, 02:00 PM
I need to reevaluate this traveling life. Somehow on cue, I always end up throwing up right before I have a big trip. I've been up all night throwing up, it's currently 4am, and I have nothing left in my system. I'm traveling 2 hours to another city tomorrow, and then flying overseas the next day. I don't feel like I have anxiety, I actually feel very upbeat and content most of the time, but my body apparently feels otherwise.
Do you feel stressed out? I've been so stressed out before that it made me throw up.
Traveling all the time might be really stressful on you, even if you don't fully realize it. You must be compartmentalizing moving all the time. Despite me having a nomad spirit, there are times I don't want to travel or move and just stay still somewhere for a little while. Moving all the time does begin to take its toll on the human psyche, I think.
SnuffleUffleGrass
06-05-2018, 02:41 PM
I called the doctor about my biopsy results since I never heard anything back. My doctor's office is terrible about calling people even when something's wrong. They make you call them to find out and then they're like,"Oh yeah..we found ______ wrong. So sorry we forgot to tell you." They put me on hold for 20 minutes and said that for whatever reason, they're not able to get into the system to see the results but will have someone from the lab call me back. What the heck is going on lately? I seem to hear the,"I'll call you back" line a lot lately and I'm stuck waiting. I feel frustrated.
Update: They just called me back. I have cervical cancer. :*-(
Oh my God. I'm sorry to hear that
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Keep us updated. I'm sorry there's nothing I can say that will make this better
Edit to add......call Mayo clinic in Minnesota immediately...you might qualify for treatment through them if you don't want to use doctors in your area..
ScarletKitten
06-05-2018, 03:18 PM
Omg Wendi, I'm so sorry girl. I'll pm you later.
chanzep
06-05-2018, 05:02 PM
So sorry Wendi.
Elektra Luxx
06-05-2018, 11:48 PM
Sending lots of hugs Wendi.
Glamourmilf
06-06-2018, 06:03 AM
I called the doctor about my biopsy results since I never heard anything back. My doctor's office is terrible about calling people even when something's wrong. They make you call them to find out and then they're like,"Oh yeah..we found ______ wrong. So sorry we forgot to tell you." They put me on hold for 20 minutes and said that for whatever reason, they're not able to get into the system to see the results but will have someone from the lab call me back. What the heck is going on lately? I seem to hear the,"I'll call you back" line a lot lately and I'm stuck waiting. I feel frustrated.
Update: They just called me back. I have cervical cancer. :*-(
I'm so sorry to hear this.
I agree that a second opinion needs to be had.
Bananabunny
06-06-2018, 02:21 PM
Having a greedy dude telling me he loves to jerk off into his younger sister's (obviously underage) socks on a slow day. On such days I really wish I had done a diploma to not end up listening to such crap shit WOAH so pissy right now.
baer45
06-06-2018, 06:07 PM
I am so sorry Wendi. I am not super religious but I will pray for you.
DonaDiabla
06-06-2018, 08:21 PM
Sending lots of hugs and love,Wendi.
lilylilylily
06-06-2018, 08:36 PM
Big hugs Wendi
WendiStarr
06-07-2018, 09:01 AM
Krypotonite. Why won't this fucker leave me alone? He called me on yet another number. I didn't recognize the number and since I've been applying to a bunch of vanilla jobs, I figured it was probably a vanilla job calling me for an interview so I answered. He was trying to come over and get sex. I told him straight up, "Look dude, I don't want to have sex with you. I have cancer. Leave me the hell alone!" and then hung up on him. He immediately sent me a text, of "I don't understand why you hung up on me. I'm trying to be your friend." and went on to say that I'll be in his prayers. Ha, as if he's suddenly Mr. Religious and isn't just trying to get a piece of ass from me. What the hell is wrong with this man?!
miss.a.p1600
06-07-2018, 09:42 AM
Just got accepted to a vanilla job.
Yall please pray for my patience. I am having a REALLY HARD time coping with the fact I'll have to give up my freedom, my flexible schedule, my LIFE to these mfs.....I hope I can make it last, get promoted, make them pay for some very advanced degrees, match my retirement investments, and move on to bigger greener pasture QUICKLY.
I love the freedom and fast money of adult work. and may use this vanilla money to do some out of town travel heauxing
seashell
06-07-2018, 10:30 AM
Wendi, I hope they get everything taken care of! If the test was accurate, it's good that they found it when they did. The sooner the better. My friend was diagnosed with cervical cancer two years ago, and is living a completely normal healthy life now.
Do you feel stressed out? I've been so stressed out before that it made me throw up.
Traveling all the time might be really stressful on you, even if you don't fully realize it. You must be compartmentalizing moving all the time. Despite me having a nomad spirit, there are times I don't want to travel or move and just stay still somewhere for a little while. Moving all the time does begin to take its toll on the human psyche, I think.
I do occasionally feel stressed out, but I guess I'm probably compartmentalizing it, like you said. I definitely think traveling too often can be a bad thing... completely changing your surroundings, your home, the people you interact with everyday, sometimes even languages... I'm hoping to have a more permanent situation soon.
LoveyDovey
06-07-2018, 12:32 PM
Wendi, so sorry to hear the distressing news. It is good that you caught it when you did. My ex's mom also had the same thing 16 years ago and got it taken care of. She's fine now. I'll be sending you prayers.