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LoveyDovey
06-07-2018, 12:48 PM
Dear male,

If you really respect me, you wouldn't call my coworkers "hos" or suggest that I sell my own shit (like, literally my own poop) for a side job. Maybe you should ask your ugly, spoiled, selfish, lazy ass wife to do that. She hasn't made a red cent in years, if at all ever...

I don't care if it's a "joke". None of it is funny.

Aurora_Sunset
06-08-2018, 03:58 AM
Holy crap, I woke up at 6:30 this morning with a massive ant and flying ant infestation happening all over my windowsill and wall at the head of my bed as well as my pillow! EWWWW I had to jump out of bed frantically swiping my head, RAID spray the shit out of everything and strip down my sheets, and then shower. The only thing I can think is that they were attracted to the strong scent of the salon quality stuff in my hair, because they were clearly congregating around me, not at all on the other side of the bed. And I don't eat in bed at all. Fucking gross... I still don't feel clean

miss.a.p1600
06-08-2018, 08:23 AM
Dear vanilla people,

Thanks for inviting me in your circle however, I am not joining you for water cooler gossip so please cut the chit chat, fake pleasantries, time wasting meetings, etc until after 5. I come from adult careers which I prefer so please don't try to get all buddy buddy because I want none of that. I want to pretend like I don't know you so do not act like you know me. You do you, Ima do me. I guess I will be forced to adapt to vanilla life for a temporary period and might have to network but only if it is worth my while.

trustfundkiller
06-08-2018, 12:02 PM
Every time I try to be "normal" and have friendships with other people in my age group (early 20s) I regret it. I can't relate or connect with them. The other night I went out with an old friend and her sister and it was fun overall but I won't be doing it again. First, one of the girls insists that I get ready at their place so we can hang out before the show. I don't want to because it's inconvenient but she begs and I give in. Why not? Haven't seem them in a long time and it would be nice to catch up.

When it comes to the actual getting ready part, they are in awe of my makeup collection and asking if they can borrow shit. That freaks me out for sanitary purposes and I don't want to share. My makeup is fucking expensive. I had a glass of wine at that point so I was feeling mellow and told them it was fine, just don't use any of my eye or lip products. One of the girls is infatuated with one of my Dior brushes. I make a mental note as I put that brush back into my bag. Somehow as I'm unpacking my makeup bag later that night, the brush is missing. I text her about it. Takes 10 hours to reply and she says she "can't find it". I ordered a new brush already because I know I'm not getting it back.

They aren't together at all and they don't pay attention to their surroundings. They're both into smoking weed. In the car. Outside in public. Not something I want to be associated with in the event of being caught. We were 30 mins late to the show, despite my urging, because they had to stop numerous times along the way for smoke breaks. When we get there, the driver doesn't know how to parallel park. We have to find parking elsewhere. The driver almost gets into 3 accidents throughout the night. First time she's speeding and almost t-bones someone. Second time she's not paying attention and heading towards a tree. Third time she almost violently rear ends someone because she's smoking and not looking at the road.

At the end of the night, I'm feeling sick and I want to get home ASAP. I feel like I'm going to pass out. I have a few changes of clothes in the backseat and I asked the sister sitting back there to hand them to me. I ask her if I have everything, she says yes. I take her word for it ...I have a huge bag with lots of clothes and shoes, and I feel so faint the last thing I want to do is sort through the bag and go through the backseat myself.

Turns out, no ...my $200 sandals were back there. At least she admits to having those. I texted her a few hours ago telling her I want to stop by tonight to pick up my shoes. No response. I can't deal with people like that. The spaciness. At least I learned not to bring my expensive belongings around broke bitches. I guess that was stupidity on my behalf. I don't believe they maliciously took my brush ...I think someone helped themselves to my makeup bag at some point (without my permission) and forgot to put it back.

You'd think it was the weed that makes them this way, but I've known these girls since they were children and they've always been slow. Second lesson learned: I refuse to suffer fools from now on.

TheBrownFox
06-08-2018, 02:06 PM
Holy crap, I woke up at 6:30 this morning with a massive ant and flying ant infestation happening all over my windowsill and wall at the head of my bed as well as my pillow! EWWWW I had to jump out of bed frantically swiping my head, RAID spray the shit out of everything and strip down my sheets, and then shower. The only thing I can think is that they were attracted to the strong scent of the salon quality stuff in my hair, because they were clearly congregating around me, not at all on the other side of the bed. And I don't eat in bed at all. Fucking gross... I still don't feel clean

I had ants back in my apartment again yesterday (After I was relieved thinking they were gone). I’ll be on cam during the day, and one of those shits will wind up crawling across my laptop screen. I’ve had one on my arm...had one on my fucking thigh before. I know that cinnamon and baking soda thing seemed to work last time, but I’m getting tired of having to sprinkle that stuff everywhere.

WendiStarr
06-08-2018, 03:49 PM
Horrible, horrible lower abdominal and lower back cramps. I think my period must be coming. It's due. I took two doses of cbd oil and it's not working yet. Grr!

miss.a.p1600
06-08-2018, 07:36 PM
Sadly I had ants (I think they travelled from the neighbors) but I used those raid ant traps and they go in, collect the poison, then share it with their little ant friends and they all end up dying soon thereafter. I haven't seen them since thank goodness.


I am having a hard time getting organized

Elektra Luxx
06-09-2018, 03:03 PM
I'm at my bf's apartment and we're watching TV. He's on the recliner and I get up to go pee and he asks me to bring him his phone, I say "Where is it?" and he says "it's in my bedroom." I'm thinking "your bedroom?" When you're flopping on me like a big, nerdy, hairy, chubby fish, "it's the bedroom." When he's looking at me with that pleading face saying "Umm, babe, it's been a few weeks since we had ..." and I roll my eyes and say "...fine!, where's the silicone lube?" and he's "YES!!!, I'll get it, it's in the bedroom." Then it's "the" bedroom.

lynn2009
06-09-2018, 05:35 PM
If these awful fucking people that live above me don't move out at the end of June I am spending 20 years in prison because I will fucking shoot them in the face soon. Like I am not in any kind of downtown area, the entire complex is full of families with kids I don't know how these trashy as as hell people ended up here but I can't fucking stand it anymore!!! I don't think people understand what it is like to never get any fucking peace. Not a single weekend in six months!!!

Ifyouseekamy
06-09-2018, 06:32 PM
Setting boundaries with people—-ugh!!! Letting go of the fact I can’t control what unhealthy people say or do. Ugh!!!!!!!!!!!!! Accepting unhealthy people and letting go of my expectations for most people to say and do what I think is “healthy”...Lol. Everyone should just behave exactly the way I want them too...lol...and everything would be okay. Ha

WendiStarr
06-10-2018, 03:49 PM
People who don't pay attention or care about what their kids are doing. The upstairs breeders are letting their kids run through the halls, and up and down the stairs, screaming, knocking on doors, and messing with the buzzers. I wish I could just disable my buzzer because it's loud and annoying. The noise must've upset the autistic kid across the hall because now he's out in the hall shrieking and rocking back and forth, covering his ears and his mom is trying to calm him down. My own kid started crying because she doesn't like loud noises either and the buzzer scares her. I definitely want to rent a house when my lease here expires. I'm done with apartment living.

miss.a.p1600
06-10-2018, 04:53 PM
I wish this old dude had more interesting conversation.

I do not want to hear about your struggly issues! - That is wifely duties.

Some of this shit is a turn-off.

TheBrownFox
06-10-2018, 09:09 PM
I'm getting annoyed with being tagged in a guy's "Shout out to _____" tweet where several models are included, and then I have to read every notification where the model tweets back "Thanks, hun!" Not trying to be a bitch. But I wish I could just remove myself from those tweets...kind of like how on Facebook you can 'untag' yourself from someone's post. It's also annoying when the guy tweeting it (even though he's a nice guy) hasn't tipped in forever, and seems to think that doing the Twitter shoutout thing is good enough. I guess I'm just annoyed in general with dudes acting like they're your fans or whatever, yet half of them can't be bothered to throw a few tokens your way, or participate in your chat anymore.

trustfundkiller
06-10-2018, 10:14 PM
I've bitched about the crazy ass birds outside my house that insist on chirping at 3AM. They're taking it too far this time. It's 1AM and they're at it. I've done some research and apparently they are likely mockingbirds. The male mockingbirds like to sing all night during the spring and summer to advertise that they're available.

Homo sapien males aren't the only obnoxious species of male, apparently.

Glamourmilf
06-11-2018, 07:13 AM
I've bitched about the crazy ass birds outside my house that insist on chirping at 3AM. They're taking it too far this time. It's 1AM and they're at it. I've done some research and apparently they are likely mockingbirds. The male mockingbirds like to sing all night during the spring and summer to advertise that they're available.

Homo sapien males aren't the only obnoxious species of male, apparently.

Birds chirping at night is the most annoying thing, EVER!
I was petsitting way up in the hills above LA, and those damn birds kept me up all night.
I never knew what they were until now.
Where I now live, there are tons of doves that come around this time of year.
Thank God they coo only during the day.
Mama Milf needs her damn sleep! Lol!

whirlerz
06-11-2018, 11:47 AM
Try drilling noises, hammering etc.
The 'renovations' are now in my direct room area..
Not only that, but, the workers are Neanderthal slobs that barbeque & leave their greasy food & other shit all over. Even the van driver commented what pigs they are, & said some guests were talking about it.
They barbeque in a little courtyard, & propped the outside door open so the smoke/smell is now in the halls.
I told front desk about it she told them..but they use a gas grill (fire hazard?!) that they store INSIDE one of the rooms, nice..
They gave me a 3rd floor room w/working ac to sleep in, which's nice, but today I was asked about moving up here..I told them I had a rough 2 weeks.
In this time frame^: lost my car keys had to Uber to get my spare set, almost fell for a cl. scam for an appartment, & nearly lost my phone in an Uber..
Everything's fine, I found& got everything back, but Damm!
This morning I was awakened early to move my car for the
workers.
I HAVE to GTFO of here, before I lose my damn mind!
I'm going to try Airbnb, but I looked (when wifi was actually working) a lot of affordable ones are booked.
So IDK, we'll see>:(

trustfundkiller
06-11-2018, 01:39 PM
Birds chirping at night is the most annoying thing, EVER!
I was petsitting way up in the hills above LA, and those damn birds kept me up all night.
I never knew what they were until now.
Where I now live, there are tons of doves that come around this time of year.
Thank God they coo only during the day.
Mama Milf needs her damn sleep! Lol!
You understand my pain! Lol it is disorienting to hear birds at night. They have been unusually quiet when the sun comes up too ...I guess they're using all their energy partying and trying to get it on at midnight!

lilylilylily
06-11-2018, 03:55 PM
People standing in the entrance way of the drugstore, I'm trying to get around this guy talking while waving his arms and he hit me in the face. I screamed so loud at him. Fucker

trustfundkiller
06-11-2018, 09:13 PM
I buy my cat these packs of kitty treats. Just went into the kitchen and there were treats scattered all across the counter. The little stinker chewed it open and ate half the bag. Guess I'll be putting the treats up in the cabinet from now on. Oh, and for the record ...he's very well fed, he just likes his treats.

Aurora_Sunset
06-11-2018, 09:53 PM
In a random conversation the other day, a friend asked when he could get a hug soon, and I made a roundabout comment that either he or I could swing by each other's places yesterday or today. He just kinda went "lol ok" and I haven't talked to him since. I was apartment hunting all day and even made a Facebook post about it, which he saw and liked. Now, at 1am, he's sending me passive aggressive messages about how he "thought we had agreed I was going to stop by today."

First of all, that was never a concrete plan, and he was just as invited here as I was there... and secondly, if he really thought that then why not text me earlier and confirm or ask about it? Why wait until it's clearly too late just to get all snippy about it when I clearly can't do anything about it now?

Glamourmilf
06-12-2018, 06:57 AM
You understand my pain! Lol it is disorienting to hear birds at night. They have been unusually quiet when the sun comes up too ...I guess they're using all their energy partying and trying to get it on at midnight!

I totally understand your pain!
It seems so unnatural.
I wonder if people who are night owls like it.

Ginnyyy
06-12-2018, 07:41 AM
People standing in the entrance way of the drugstore, I'm trying to get around this guy talking while waving his arms and he hit me in the face. I screamed so loud at him. Fucker

I know one of my girl friends was burnt under one eye accidentally due to a dude blocking the entrance and waving his hands in front of a store.

Aurora_Sunset
06-12-2018, 09:46 AM
In a random conversation the other day, a friend asked when he could get a hug soon, and I made a roundabout comment that either he or I could swing by each other's places yesterday or today. He just kinda went "lol ok" and I haven't talked to him since. I was apartment hunting all day and even made a Facebook post about it, which he saw and liked. Now, at 1am, he's sending me passive aggressive messages about how he "thought we had agreed I was going to stop by today."

First of all, that was never a concrete plan, and he was just as invited here as I was there... and secondly, if he really thought that then why not text me earlier and confirm or ask about it? Why wait until it's clearly too late just to get all snippy about it when I clearly can't do anything about it now?

I half-apologized and owned up to just kinda forgetting about the conversation - but then finally brought it down on him that the REASON I forgot is because it wasn't a concrete plan, and he has this habit of always doing this to me: responding to my invitations in really vague ways, if at all, so I walk away thinking a real plan/time wasn't set and he'll let me know if what I offered will work out. But then suddenly the day comes, and he passive-aggressively sits around not communicating with me just so he can text me when it's too late and throw me shade about how he had waited for me "but he knew I wasn't really going to come." Bitch, YOU DIDN'T TELL ME YOUR SCHEDULE. That was never actually planned!

He's always been like this. In the past, I would offer days/times to hang out and just straight-up not get a response. Then a week would go by, and suddenly he'd be blowing up my phone at that exact date/time, getting pissy about how "I thought we had plans." Well.... making a plan usually requires 1) a real date/time, and 2) an acknowledgement from both sides of that date/time. I'm getting sick of him barely responding to my invites, or doing it in some vague-ass way when he knows damn-well that I have no idea what his work schedule is for the week since it changes daily, and then sitting around just "waiting" for me to "forget" about our non-plan so he can continue with his new theme of 2018: What a Negligent Friend I Am.

I'm tired of it. I called him on it finally. Can't wait to see what he has to say back.

trustfundkiller
06-13-2018, 07:07 AM
I FUCKING HATE MY LAWN MEN. In theory, they're supposed to show up every other Tuesday. In reality, they show up whenever the fuck they want and always at the most inconvenient time possible (like now, when I'm trying to film clips). Oh well, I've been needing to go to the grocery store so I guess I'll be going now and hopefully they'll be done by the time I'm home.

miss.a.p1600
06-13-2018, 07:42 AM
The old guy thought it was a good idea to send me a nude picture of himself.........*sigh*

So he has a nice looking dick but you know what, it pisses me off that men think women got hot over some male nudes - like unless you looking like a Greek God ..... put some clothes on before you dare send me a pic! I had to tell him this in the most tactful way possible to put some clothes on because unless this is my husband, sending me nudes without me asking/me sending one of myself first is the equivalent of unsolicited dick pics.

Either he is senile or He REALLY needs to work on his listening skills because I know I told him once before that I do not like nude/dick pics.

If he doesn't get his memory in order he will be delaying or completely eliminating my attraction to him

Glamourmilf
06-13-2018, 08:37 AM
I met this 49 year old woman at a spiritual meditation group I attend.
When she heard me say I am sick from the intense heat out here, and need to move, she offered to help.
She invited me to her apt for some type of subconscious retraining technique that she practices.
*While I was there, a big tall, bald, Hispanic guy came to her door. She handed him a wad of cash.
Said it was a neighbor who is broke and that she's giving him money.:O
Then, a while later another guy knocked at her door, and when she opened it, he was standing there with a huge, I mean HUGE wad of cash.:brow:
She quickly told the guy she had company and to come back later.
What the hell was she up to? Her son was home too.
She mentioned that her ex husband is a meth addict and she's hiding out from him.
Oh, fuck!
The LAST thing I need is for a bust to go down!
I don't even take aspirin!
I realize that being a single mother has to be beyond difficult. But have the decency to leave other innocent people out of your shady dealings!

Aurora_Sunset
06-13-2018, 09:51 AM
I heard good things about betterhelp over in Life Support so I tried signing up... twice.... this week. The first time, my sign-up email never went through. So I tried again last night, got in, and then filled out the questionnaire. I specifically said I prefer a non-religious counselor, and what do they set me up with? A counselor who openly states that she does Christian-based counseling and likes to incorporate biblical quotes and lessons into all of her counseling sessions....

Fantastic. -_-

I'm sure that's great for someone who is religious and wants scripture to be a part of their healing process, but this does me no good and would just give me even more anxiety talking to her. I feel bad saying "I want a different counselor," right off the bat without even responding to her... but wth?

WendiStarr
06-13-2018, 02:35 PM
Aggravated as hell with my apartments. I've had an ongoing issue with leaks and water damage coming from the ceiling of my bathroom since early last month. I've called maintenance multiple times about this. I suspect trundfundian floods his bathroom on a daily basis or something. Now today I've noticed that there is water damage in my bedroom too. It has spread from the bathroom ceiling to my bedroom ceiling. They never showed up and whenever I call the office about it, they've told me that they'd send someone asap. Now today, not only has it spread but water is pouring from the ceiling in multiple spots. I called their emergency maintenance line and blew up at them. They calmly tell me to just put a bucket under where it's leaking and they'll send someone out tomorrow. Seriously!? The ceiling is going to eventually cave in, dumbasses!

I'm getting really pissed off. I think the trustfundian is doing this flooding and water damage on purpose. He has taken 4 showers today(or at least turned on and ran his shower 4 times today) and each time it causes water to pour from my ceiling. I have buckets sitting there to catch the water but this is ridiculous.

Aurora_Sunset
06-13-2018, 09:58 PM
Swear to fuck, every dude I even try to flirt with lately has a kid... not into it

lilylilylily
06-13-2018, 10:29 PM
Every guy I am attracted to turns out to be a narcissistic jerk. I don't put up with them at least, I let them go as soon as I see the signs. I just want to be attracted to genuinely nice guys

Elektra Luxx
06-14-2018, 08:16 AM
I'm so angry with myself for trusting to easily and falling for a cheap line of bullshit!!! I cringed everytime I re-live it in my head.

miss.a.p1600
06-14-2018, 08:29 AM
I think I am being punished for not having sex.....

Whatever


Every guy I am attracted to turns out to be a narcissistic jerk. I don't put up with them at least, I let them go as soon as I see the signs. I just want to be attracted to genuinely nice guys

I can relate. It's usually the more dominant guys (all the narcissists I've dealt with were dominant male types) who totally make me weak sexually but end up being the worst romantic partners ever. It is better, for our sanity, to let them go - or at the very least never to get attached to them.

Glamourmilf
06-14-2018, 08:53 AM
Aggravated as hell with my apartments. I've had an ongoing issue with leaks and water damage coming from the ceiling of my bathroom since early last month. I've called maintenance multiple times about this. I suspect trundfundian floods his bathroom on a daily basis or something. Now today I've noticed that there is water damage in my bedroom too. It has spread from the bathroom ceiling to my bedroom ceiling. They never showed up and whenever I call the office about it, they've told me that they'd send someone asap. Now today, not only has it spread but water is pouring from the ceiling in multiple spots. I called their emergency maintenance line and blew up at them. They calmly tell me to just put a bucket under where it's leaking and they'll send someone out tomorrow. Seriously!? The ceiling is going to eventually cave in, dumbasses!

I'm getting really pissed off. I think the trustfundian is doing this flooding and water damage on purpose. He has taken 4 showers today(or at least turned on and ran his shower 4 times today) and each time it causes water to pour from my ceiling. I have buckets sitting there to catch the water but this is ridiculous.

Wendi, not to sound like your mother, or anything.
But, I told you that if you moved in there, that you would have problems.
There's a saying that an old call girl taught me, many moons ago, which always rings true.
"How You start, is how You end."
It works for every situation, person, place, thing.
Normally I would keep quiet.
But, your Health is not at it's best, and You have a child to think about also.
This is coming from a place of caring.
Plus, the fact that I have had more than my fair share of rental issues.
When I was going through each one, I never had anyone to advise me, because all of my friends own.

trustfundkiller
06-14-2018, 08:04 PM
I really need to make time for myself to get a massage. My body is so sore and the cracking/popping noises coming from my joints are ungodly.

WendiStarr
06-15-2018, 05:37 AM
Wendi, not to sound like your mother, or anything.
But, I told you that if you moved in there, that you would have problems.
There's a saying that an old call girl taught me, many moons ago, which always rings true.
"How You start, is how You end."
It works for every situation, person, place, thing.
Normally I would keep quiet.
But, your Health is not at it's best, and You have a child to think about also.
This is coming from a place of caring.
Plus, the fact that I have had more than my fair share of rental issues.
When I was going through each one, I never had anyone to advise me, because all of my friends own.

Thank you. I know I should've broke the lease while I could. Now I need to figure out how to get out without owing a lot of $. Upon checking recent reviews of my apartments I've read that they like to add bogus charges and fees to people who move out and have collection agencies go after them for it. My credit score isn't the best right now due to medical bills from health issue. My credit score dropped by a lot. It's not going to be easy finding a new place that doesn't check credit scores but I'm looking. If I can't find anything I was thinking of seeing if I can do a live-in elderly caregiver or live-in babysitter for someone that would allow me to have my daughter there.

Glamourmilf
06-15-2018, 08:04 AM
Thank you. I know I should've broke the lease while I could. Now I need to figure out how to get out without owing a lot of $. Upon checking recent reviews of my apartments I've read that they like to add bogus charges and fees to people who move out and have collection agencies go after them for it. My credit score isn't the best right now due to medical bills from health issue. My credit score dropped by a lot. It's not going to be easy finding a new place that doesn't check credit scores but I'm looking. If I can't find anything I was thinking of seeing if I can do a live-in elderly caregiver or live-in babysitter for someone that would allow me to have my daughter there.

The way you get around breaking the lease without fees, is to have your doctor write a note.
It will say that due to health issues, you must not be under any stress, etc.
Or that due to health issues you can't work, and need to vacate, so you and your child can live with a relative.
Then, you'll be able to rent a house.
If you're worried about credit score, don't be.
Or you can give 2 or 3 months rent in advance.
Or you can place an ad for someone to take over your lease.
There are lots of ways out.
It's never personal with landlords/leasing offices.
They just want the rent paid.

miss.a.p1600
06-15-2018, 09:20 AM
Having a problem with a mouse/mice in this rental.

The exterminator left some poison bait but I guess they are too smart for that.

I set out some stick traps and weeks later. One gets captured. It is struggling to get out and I am stuck - I feel bad for it and want to release it but I am scared to get close to it (this is my first time seeing one up close and personal). I was hoping it would just get tired and die on its own. Or eat the bait and die somewhere out of sight. I don't want to kill it but I don't want it to be struggling in a slow death either.

IDK what to do. I am frozen in fear lol

Damnit! This is why I need a man to do this shit.

Ifyouseekamy
06-15-2018, 04:34 PM
^^^ Ugh. Mice. I’m so torn. They are filthy creatures, but I can’t bring myself to kill them even though they breed like crazy.

Apartment lady vent. I won a free gift card for like $25. I was super excited. You know I was just being positive like I always am, and she just had the weirdest energy. She looked at me like your dumb for being so happy about this. Haters gonna hate. She’s a low key hater. They know what I do for a living. So I just have to forgive her and pity her. She has to live with her negativity. I’m not internalizing her shit or anyone else’s shit. I’m done being a scapegoat. Find someone else to dump your negativity on. I live life on my terms and if you don’t like then don’t talk to me.

I expected so much more from vanilla people. I just figure they have food, water, and shelter. Why are they haters?

my therapist is really good, but she can’t expect me to deal with this negativity on a daily basis. It’s not healthy.

I never expect “outsiders” to be so unhealthy. If I can work in this industry and be positive, then what’s their excuse for being so negative? I don’t get it. You have food, water, and shelter. You have people who love you. Oh I get it, they don’t love themselves! Their bucket is empty, so it makes them feel better to treat me badly than to fill their bucket by loving and taking responsibility for their own lives. I get it!

I never expected so many people to be so unhealthy. I understand dancers have a lot of trauma, and so I’m very forgiving if they lash out at me or do something that upsets me.

I look at these people who act so hateful, and I’m like what the hell is your excuse?

miss.a.p1600
06-15-2018, 04:48 PM
IKR. Some oddballs actually keep them as pets lol!

I tackled my fear and set it free. I pushed the trap in a box, then walked outside to the creek, poured some coconut oil on the glue trap it was stuck in. It struggled a bit but it was able to free itself after several minutes. Then I tossed it (and the box) into the creek lol - I was too scared to touch it. But in a moment I felt bad for it. It was breathing all hard cause it was tired and scared and its little arms and legs looked red from trying to tear itself out the glue.

But yeah they do bring a gross element. They poop everywhere, can have diseases, and like you said they breed super easy. I read online they can get pregnant and give birth within 21 day time frame. Have 12 in a litter. Then get knocked up again 25 days later. Continue cycle until it dies.

I just hope that was the only one. I don't feel like doing that shit again.

Ifyouseekamy
06-15-2018, 06:30 PM
^^^ I think I’d start dating again just so I could ask a guy to deal with my mice problems....LOL.

miss.a.p1600
06-15-2018, 09:07 PM
Exactly! I told the old dude about it. And as manly as he is......his bitch ass is scared of mice. But he was willing to overcome his fear if it meant spending the night and possibly fucking lol

A lot of dudes are scared of mice and rats.

I think I overcame my feat of mice - well lets just say I overcame the fear of A mouse (it was just 1 ....i hope) - so I can tackle one but if it was like a plethora of them or if it was rats (which are bigger and uglier I think I would freak out)

If you need minimal cruelty mouse extermination....I got ya ; )

MissMoore
06-16-2018, 04:37 AM
Ugh. My husband gets so annoyed if every day isn’t practically perfect. GTFO out of here. I cook, clean, make sacrifices, work, and buy you shit now too. Calm tf down. It annoys the hell out of me when he gets like that. If I get insecure and ask a question or two and helive and you move on... stop being annoyed! Good greif!

miss.a.p1600
06-16-2018, 05:28 PM
When vanilla employers force you to fork over your intimate data. Not only that but they force you to fill out hella forms many have the exact same questions like HELLO this is redundant! Just move the answers I fill out on one form to the others.

WendiStarr
06-17-2018, 12:26 PM
A former SD contacted me, telling me that he and his current SB are looking for a girlfriend. He said he wanted to know if I'd be willing to be their girlfriend for a "reasonable" price. I asked him what he meant by reasonable. His idea of "reasonable" was pathetically low. Maybe 50 a week would appeal to a crackhead or someone extremely desperate but I'm a single mom with pretty expensive rent and bills to pay. That was a major insult. I hope his dick suffers irreversible erectile dysfunction for that.

Aurora_Sunset
06-17-2018, 01:10 PM
I tried telling a friend the other day that I am depressed and feel really lonely after my breakup. That's not the only reason I'm depressed, but it's one of them. He was a super jerk about it, and just ripped into me about how I never spend time with him, and told me if that I was "lonely" it was my own fault for choosing to never come around and hang out with my friends.

Asshole, that's not what I meant. I meant that I was lonely and feeling hopeless in regards to my love life. No amount of friends or friend time is going to change that. Like, look... I've never been the type of person who is all about the men in my life, or ditches my friends when I have a bf, or doesn't appreciate how valuable it is to have friends for support, whether you're single or not... but I will admit that I am very upset lately with how my love life has panned out (or not) over the last several years. And hanging out with friends, especially when they're all coupled up, just isn't the same thing. It doesn't matter how much my friends are "there" for me, they won't be there for me in certain ways, under certain circumstances, because they're busy being that person in those ways for someone else in their life. That's just the way it is, and I feel it's perfectly reasonable to realize that and want that distinction in your life, even while you appreciate your friends. And the last thing I need is a lecture about how "friendship is all I need" from someone who has a long-term stable relationship - and when he didn't, was a miserable pain the ass about how he couldn't stand being on his own...

He later came back and apologized for being a dick when I'm clearly having a rough time, but still.

miss.a.p1600
06-17-2018, 03:50 PM
A lot of piss poor father's/ dudes that aint done shit to be a father are out here parading around, flexing on the gram, masquerading like they are good fathers.

They need their asses kicked.

Vyanka
06-17-2018, 05:09 PM
A former SD contacted me, telling me that he and his current SB are looking for a girlfriend. He said he wanted to know if I'd be willing to be their girlfriend for a "reasonable" price. I asked him what he meant by reasonable. His idea of "reasonable" was pathetically low. Maybe 50 a week would appeal to a crackhead or someone extremely desperate but I'm a single mom with pretty expensive rent and bills to pay. That was a major insult. I hope his dick suffers irreversible erectile dysfunction for that.

Please tell me you cursed him out and told his cheap ass to go fuck himself. If not, you still have a chance. }:D. ;D

Nyla19
06-17-2018, 10:23 PM
A lot of piss poor father's/ dudes that aint done shit to be a father are out here parading around, flexing on the gram, masquerading like they are good fathers.

They need their asses kicked.

You kill me!!!! Lol!!!!!

Nyla19
06-17-2018, 10:26 PM
^^^ I think I’d start dating again just so I could ask a guy to deal with my mice problems....LOL.

I'm such an animal lover. But I have mice. My father purchased a tiny trap for me to get them out of my place without killing them. It's definately a hassle. But you don't kill them. I've trapped at least 15 of them the past couple of years. And I'm proud to have done that. Also, leave cotton balls with peppermint oil around your place. It's a terrible smell. But you'll get used to it. You have to replenish them every couple of days. But you'll notice you'll have a few less mice. Many hate the smell. But some are okay with the smell. Overall, you'll notice you won't have as many of them than without the oil.

miss.a.p1600
06-17-2018, 11:57 PM
If more men could ditch their overly inflated entitlement fragile egos - I probably would have 100 times more sex than I do now.